6 Masculine Habits That Women Find Irresistible & Attractive
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I tried lifting weights. They are too heavy.
And THE MOST IMPORTANT thing. TAKE CARE of your FACE. Girls are crazy for SUPER NICE looking MUSCULAR faces. MORE MORE than anything else on you.
I can post milions of examples WHY you should do not care to mutch about your body line. If u want girls to like you more, just add some weight. You will look biger, girls like BIG guys because they feel small and helples in their arms, the most of girls LIKES that feel. They simple melt in arms of big overweight guys.
But, OK, i agree, u must take care of your body health, so, BIG guy, iz doesnt means +50kg or more, it means 20, 30 kg more then average weight for your haight.
And THE MOST IMPORTANT thing. TAKE CARE of your FACE. Girls are crazy for SUPER NICE looking MUSCULAR faces. MORE MORE than anything else on you.
SHE constantly speaks to you, "exercise, exercise,..." because she has deal with some suplement making company to promote their products.
@@hypatiatv421 Exercise is healthy. Jealous much? 🤣🤣🤣
you need chapters
0:27 Exercise daily
1:12-3:02 Sponsor ad
3:02 Fuel your body
4:06 Man with manners
4:49 Lead by example
5:52 Lifetime learner mentality
7:10 Confidence and body language
Sponsor ad? I see so that's what I was missing.
I've seen you before. You seem to be a troll who goes to everyone's videos to post this shit. Thanks..I don't need to watch the video now.
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Thanks DP I should have hit up your comment before I had to roll threw that 2:45 Green Juice infomercial.
You need to be dealing with a woman of value for any of the things she mentioned to be appreciated. Most young women don’t care anything about these things. They just want tattoos and Idiocracy. Stay up men.
True, but they will regret later. This is the reason to chase success first and become the best version of ourselfs
Focus on yourself kings. The right woman will come 😎
True, ive met many women who absolutely rejected my focus on work and prefer me to be a travel soul. Highly inmature
Be strong, confident, lead, always willing to listen and be fun and funny and you will go a long way. It’s actually kinda simple but many guys get the yips and struggle
Yesss!
Courtney absolutely OWNS this space on TH-cam, and owns it with about the most class and grace I've seen. Really love the content.
This is so incredibly kind and put the biggest smile on my face. Thank you so much 🥹
Chill
Nah Hamza better tbh
Are you getting results though? Be honest
1000%. Classy, smart, good looking, sense of humor, hard working. What more could you want?
Body language is so important not only in social settings but also professional settings. It plays a big role in my position as a university professor. Students are more likely to be engaged if they feel confidence in the instructor.
Absolutely true!!
Are you getting laid though?
@@CourtneyRyan I don't buy that. All you have to do is show that you have money and you suddenly look like Brad Pitt in his prime to 99% of women.
I can post milions of examples WHY you should do not care to mutch about your body line. If u want girls to like you more, just add some weight. You will look biger, girls like BIG guys because they feel small and helples in their arms, the most of girls LIKES that feel. They simple melt in arms of big overweight guys.
But, OK, i agree, u must take care of your body health, so, BIG guy, iz doesnt means +50kg or more, it means 20, 30 kg more then average weight for your haight.
And THE MOST IMPORTANT thing. TAKE CARE of your FACE. Girls are crazy for SUPER NICE looking MUSCULAR faces. MORE MORE than anything else on you.
SHE constantly speaks to you, "exercise, exercise,..." because she has deal with some suplement making company to promote their products.
@@hypatiatv421 be big but not fat like nickokado avocado
Confidence is one of those things that just doesnt happen overnight. You need to work on it. A good way to start is trying to learn new things. Learn a language, or join a martial arts club or boxing club. Something that puts you outside of your comfort zone and gets you interacting with other people. As you progress you start to become more confident in your abilities and over time that will slowly build up. Personally this is much better than just 'join a gym'. someone who already has confidence issues this can be more demoralizing and intimidating
Actually it can happen overnight with some quality cocaine. Just need the $ to never stop doing it and you’re golden!
You build confidence through small successes.
True confidence is just knowing what you can do because you have proven yourself to yourself.
Start with small victories and it will lead to larger ones that build confidence.
Lol stop being soft, go to the gym and lift weights and come back to me in 7 months. You will be way more confident
@@blixx87 fucking false. Not everyone can get built in that amount of time. Even with consistency and good diet.
I'm from Louisiana. I was raised in a very strict conservative traditional catholic family. Young men like me were taught to be "southern gentlemen". Courtesy, Respect, being well mannered, kind, loving, gentle & opening the door for a lady. I still do those things. I chose to be the "better man", when So Many men are being just the opposite.
Thats refreshing to hear actually, common courtesy/consideration goes a long way, but is sorely lacking these days
@@deannamarie3746 thank you for that
The manners one is huge. I'll never forget one of the actions that won my first girlfriends heart. We were on a train and some guy was staring at her and getting closer to us. So I stood firmly in between them, and shoved my arm up against a railing next to her that walled him off. Honestly, I did it subconsciously, didn't think twice about it. But after we had been dating a while, she told me, that was one of the first things she noticed that made a huge impression on her. That it made her feel safe and the fact that I was a gentleman in other areas was a sure sign that it came from a place of concern and care, and not from a place of ego.
There are women out there that appreciate chivalry and kindness, they have just become a bit rarer in modern society.
Women LOVE TREASURE&RESPECT gentleman capable of being lethal. Facts.
@@drip369 “Lethal?” You must be channeling that ex-CIA guy who was featured in the _Equalizer_ television series from Hollywood. 😅
My girlfriend liked the fact that I put her on the inside of the sidewalk- putting myself between her and the street and traffic… I didn’t even consciously realize that I was doing it… just instinct to protect a woman- they notice
"A bit rarer?" That has to be the understatement of the year. Unfortunately, it seems only a small percentage of women appreciate traditional men, these days (emphasis on the word "appreciate"), and fewer still have any desire to be traditional women.
@@khalaq2They usually take it as a sign of weakness and it’s a huge turnoff.
Many of the traits you outline, I wouldn’t consider “masculine” per se. I’d just consider them solid traits or habits for everyone to aspire to. A woman that works out regularly, is health conscious, aspires to continued self improvement, & carries herself well, is solid gold hot. Good advice for all in this one.
Of course! My audience is 96% male so my content reflects that 😊 but in my eyes being a great man does involve doing these things too!
@@CourtneyRyan what is the main intention to follow of the 4% of female followers? I mean what is their focus?
@@siclucealucks either dudes who have alt accounts that claim female, or women who are curious the kind of advice men are getting online
But find a woman that does these things, other than exercising. Too many 49ers out here with personalities of 1 being left behind dumped after being pumped
@@Pikawarps yes, with a confirmed Courtney watching our sister Courtney lol
#6 is definitely my weakness. When I started working out about 5 years ago that was my first step to build the confidence. Part of it is social anxiety so it’s definitely something I’m working on.
My gf loves the fact that I look for solutions to our problems as opposed to cursing the problem and pointing fingers
We as men can achieve these things by working on them. Some of the things that I can think of is to work out, be calm in stressful situations/don’t panic, be a leader, chase after your personal goals, have good body language, etc.
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Knowing your self worth, identity, a lot of self work builds up confidence as well. Reading, slowing down and understanding purpose. These sermons and motivational speeches on YT help a lot. Jordan B Peterson, TD Jakes, the roomates, have helped me personally.
Did you just take credit, point for point, for her entire video? You forgot an AG ad in the middle of your sentence of what you can think of.
@@PinoGrigio77 100%. Society and real life are two different stories. You have to keep your self worth by growing and become who you want to be not what society tells you to be. Keep doing what you doing man. 👍🏾
I think one of the most important things is right at the beginning of the video where Courtney says you have to continuously work on these things. Right now I'm taking a break from dating to better myself. And I'm working on some of the things she said in this video. Not because she said it but because it was a good reminder of stuff I've already been working on. Love the videos Courtney keep doing what you do 🙏🏾
🙌🏼 thank you my friend!
@@CourtneyRyan Why waste time and money, and expound so much energy into working on oneself thus make one's life very difficult when REAL men skip all that nonsense and instead hire prostitutes?, this way men don't need to compromise, they won't experience heartbreak or divorce, plus they get to hold onto their freedom.
I think another good thing to add is being light-hearted whenever necessary and make her smile/laugh.
Something that has added to attractiveness is openly being supportive to women’s safety, and educational issues, and needs. I do security for a local public forum, and safety awareness, and protection reminders are at the forefront. Gently reminding women, (Mom’s especially with their kids) about safety issues shows qualities they want in males they are raising, or even currently with. Thanks for the posts! Great content! Keep it up!🙏🏽
These are such simple things and yet we forget them. Thank you Courtney! You are a life saver ! Keep going and may your channel keep growing. Best wishes always 🙂
When I was doing Taekwondo in my early 30s I was burning about 4-5k calories a day. Riding my bike 18 miles a day and did 10 hours of classes a week. I was in the best shape of my life. Could do 300 situps and 200 push-ups without stopping.
My girlfriend told me I was too skinny and needed to put on "muscle". I was thin but ripped with a strong core and huge lats.
I told her to leave... then when she argued about it I told her to get the f out.
Women are impossible to please. Nonsense to even try.
I haven't been yelled at in years and it feels great. I haven't been attacked from some woman starting fights in public or causing drama or purposely having me attacked to see what I'd do...
Single life is the best life.
DING DING DING
WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER!
WHY ARE YOU IN SUCH GOOD SHAPE???!!!
Sorry, just thought somebody should yell at you so you remember what it's like.
It's all about balance. That much exercise can be just as harmful to your body as none.
@@davidm4566 I did what any other athlete was doing. I weighed 140lbs, I'm 5'6 and it was all muscle.
She just thought a larger chest or arms meant functionally strong. I basically was shaped like a boxer.
@@didamnesia3575 Yeah, she probably wasn't the right one LOL. Nothing we do will ever be enough for some people.
Your videos are well made, concise and to the point. Solid information with just enough side notes and details without rambling nonsense. Fellas, follow this channel... she's one of the few well produced men and women lifestyle pages, especially from a female. She's giving you guys priceless tips and advice, trust me. Keep up the good work.
Courtney, you are simply epic, you are incredibly intelligent, erudite, and so well spoken that it is truly a wonder to behold someone as gifted as you are on your channel. Simply put, you always nail the advice you decide to illuminate, Kudos Courtney!
Another uplifting video with points that any man can work on to set himself apart. Lifetime learner and manners are my favorites, but all can do wonders over time. Stay the course men and keep improving your game. Thank you Courtney for bringing value and integrity to every video.
Thank you for bringing up the treatment of servers! One time we were out for dinner as a group and one woman’s boyfriend snapped his fingers to have his plate taken away. Every woman at the table was turned off instantly. Treating servers, hotel staff ect is huge, don’t be a pig
I love her channel because being 26 almost 27 and around the same age as Courtney, I feel like I’m almost always on the same page with her and really appreciate the “old school” ways if you will about how to talk and appear attractive to women! Todays man is a lot different than what I grew up idolizing and wanted to act like and I think my generation is so unique because I’ve always felt that yes, we can adapt to certain ways the world is today but we also keep a lot of the old school, healthy relationship tactics that’s we grew up seeing and knowing in the 90’s and 00’s. I’ve been married now for a year and been with the same beautiful girl for almost 7 years and wow is it amazing to be the loving man that I should be and that she is looking for! Women should not settle for less especially these days when good men are so hard to come by! Men need to been men in the most genuine way possible! Women will notice a man vs a boy! Keep up the GREAT work Courtney!!!
Why don't you make it considerably easier on yourself by abstaining from wanting a girlfriend, and instead hire prostitutes?, this way you don't need to work on yourself, and you get to keep your freedom
Great to know, I really like how you get into detail in vids like these. I can confidently say at this point any future video you make, I already know it’s going to be an effective one. Keep up the great work!
Another quality I personally find to be an attractive one is someone who is attentive. Great at remembering the small details. Shows they really listen to you when you speak
I've been listening for a long time. And she is above and beyond the rest! She carries herself as one of the classiest ladies I've ever seen. You ooze class and grace, and everything you say is on point. Thank you for the years of content.
Certainly oozes class when she's immaturely laughing at her micropenis body shaming hypothetical scenarios.
So classy, driving these men to mental illness for what they can't even help about their bodies.
Fantastic advice Courtney,
Old fashioned values are so important.
In every aspect of life.
Thank you.
"Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient)."
"Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping."
"Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don't."
"Tell the truth or at least don't lie."
"Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street."
"Stand up straight with your shoulders back."
Basically what Courtney said. Anyone who watches Courtney's content and has not read Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules books is doing a disservice to their self.
Courtney, your videos are a daily reminder in keeping me honest and striving forward. Thank you for all that you do!
What Courtney says is clearly wisdom and common sense . I walk a lot . Usually carrying a heavy 35mm camera and a couple of lenses ( well , it's a digital camera, but of a 35mm appearance and viewpoint ) . This appears to have kept me in good ' fettle' over many years . Thanks Courtney for your insights . Eric x
Your articulation and the sound of your voice is a one, two punch, I found you recently and find a lot of what you say really worthwhile. Appreciate your content. Subscribed 😉
The way you teach us all is just amazing!
As you alluded to, these points are not only good for attracting women, they are just good. Also the feminine version of the same traits are also attractive.
BTW Just want to say thank you Courtney for being such an awesome woman and always seem to somehow get better! You’re not only an awesome example you also come off genuine. Your aura is positively glowing! Keep up the good work. 😊❤️🙏🏼
Are you getting laid though?
@@kennedyhair8434 better not kiss and tell… I’ve done not bad I think considering I don’t lie, don’t try to buy love and a bit unconventional. However I do admit I have a lot of advantages that make it easier for me than most guys, so I won’t pretend that’s not true.
However a lot of it comes from consistent care over time as well and even more importantly learning how to connect with a woman on a personal level I’ve found is underrated and goes beyond just your looks and features, it makes it possible for real relationships.
I have been able to “get laid” without being the best in that regard but that doesn’t fulfill me as much as when I get better on that level. It has a more lasting impact than - for random example - a night or two of great sex with a beautiful woman or two over a year.
Thats why real connections more so are all I ever cared about in this regard, but over time (after getting separated and divorced with 2 kids I still see weekly) the challenge of that has led me to see the real value of improving one’s ability to connect with others; it also makes you a better person just like all the things mentioned in this video.
When you are good socially and with the opposite sex even on a personal, unconditional and intimate level when appropriate, that is very healthy for you as a human being.
This is why I watch Courtney R. I grew up as a very traditional man with a bit of western influence, respectively was taught gentleman ways of the old, and got to watch Nobel men be men, I grew up without a father but holding true to these values is paying off. Stay true to yourself gents, don't stray off the crooked path of Chad's, you can still look the part, just don't act it.
Being a gentlemen is not what the vast majority of modern women are looking for though
Being a gentlemen and a genuinely nice caring partner these days gets you destroyed by these type of women, cheated on, treated like a mug etc, they don't reciproate your kindness hahaha
These women are only looking for their over the 6ft, massively endowed serial womanizing "alpha chads" that aren't gentlemen and can keep the chasing and on their toes as such.
Excellent video as always, Courtney. Love your content, and my wife does too (we were recently married; I have been watching your channel since before I met her). Teddy is a lucky guy! Best wishes for the holidays and the new year.
Just live your best life
Including the things Courtney mentioned on this video
and be respectful and don’t act clingy and desperate in the first few dates
Happy to know that I have all those habits in my life, not perfect, but still there ! 😉 Never stop learning and growing !
Totally agree fitness makes u more physically attractive gives confidence and impeccable manners show courtesy and be polite
I really like your videos! Even though my wife and I have been happily married for over 25 years, I appreciate your psychological incite into the various human behaviors and conditions that affect relationships and the overall impressions that we create.
# 3 is key I think. I gave up my chair for a woman I have a huge crush on. She looked at me with appreciation and said (my name), “how chivalrous.” I said back: “I always will give my seat up for a lady.” I think she really appreciated it. She was sitting with my significant other at the time as they are friendly (Terrible, I know but I am crazy about this woman!). I swear, she has looked at me differently since this event.
COURTNY, You summed it all up, and I think that's exactly the way of life I've been following for a long time im totaly agree with what you have describe as descipline even some time its not easy to keeping the bar high at 42 years !, thanks a lot for that , you are gorgeous girl you knew ?
Your advice has not only helped me get over my ex but I started dating again recently. Took about 5 months to shed off 45 lbs still got another 45 to go, but feeling way better about myself these days. You definitely know your stuff Courtney 😇
Great video Courtney. I really like the lifetime learner concept. People are amazed at some of the job skills I actually have. Pharmacy,Electronics etc..I keep my brain healthy by learning new things. Keep up the great work. Love your voice !!!❤
Courtney, you bring such a calmly intelligent aura of delivering your perspectives. You carry your authenticity and personal integrity in a refreshing, open manner that is so needed in today’s continuous avalanche of entitlement and pay attention to me media chaos. You exemplify the importance of personal awareness and personal growth as the necessary foundation of how to put the rest of life together in a positive direction. Doesn’t mean it’s easy, bcz it’s not. Anything worth doing well is going to take time and hard work. Grateful thnx for your presence and what you share here. And you’re a fellow Lander resident. Definitely a bright spot for the CLE community. Happy Holidays.
This was incredibly kind. Thank you so much 🥹
@@CourtneyRyan Most welcome. Well deserved.
You're a gem Courtney! Keep the fire content coming!
Great video. With body language/actively listening, it's also good to periodically touch your chin with your thumb and index finger. As well as nodding, it really makes you look focused.
Thanks for another great video. These are all great life tips in general, and I pretty much am attracted to the same traits in a potential mate as well! I think we can all work on certain things and as far as life experience, not only is that sexy but also implies intelligence and culture to me.
There are those that live to survive and there are those that live to thrive. You don't wanna be the person that's just begrudgingly making their way through life without any hobbies, interest, or purpose. Only get one shot in this life so better to make the most of your waking hours.
Thanks Courtney Ryan for sharing the tips with us. Keep up the good work. Love from India❤️👍
I do agree with what you said Courtney. Kindness is never out of style. Some men I think are taught to see it as weakness but I see it as strength. Real masculinity is not defined by our modern culture. It is the very heart of the Creator who created us. Humbleness, kindness are attractive traits in women to me personally. Arrogance, haughtiness, lack of humility are not and never will be. I will just leave with this quote from scripture. “The fruits of the Spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness and self-control against such things there is no law” Galatians 5:22-23. This is the true heart of God and who we are meant to be and can be through Jesus Christ.
@INDIANFCKINGALLTHEWHITEGIRLS I am not going for Instagram models friend. They are fake. Trying to put on a “show” if you will. Real women don’t rely on Instagram to prop themselves up.
Yeah pity the vast majority of modern women don't share your beliefs on kindness.
Every second video on here is a female dating channel telling "men stop being so NICE!"
"Nice doesn't get you the women" lol
Women only like their massively endowed over 6ft serial womanizing "alpha" chumps that treat them like crap, to keep them keen.
I like the scripture part
@@sonicboom2723 Thank you my friend! May God bless and hope you have a Merry Christmas!!
@@Brian6587 , thankyou, rereading your comment made me realize that I should be kind and compassionate to others. God bless you .
Love it, It is refreshing that I'm already practicing these habits. Thank you so much, Keep up the great work.
Thanks for all the advice. Especially the last one. It's something i lack most of the time. I think it's my weakest point.
Walking is always important. Great at to collect your thoughts at the beginning of the day!
I've recently come across this chanel and like it lot so please keep up with all your good work Courtney Ryan.
In regards to confidence, I think that being able to love yourself is an important aspect of learning to be confident. Self-hatred prevent you from being confident (trust me, I've struggled a lot with self-hatred for most of my life up to this point [currently 20 years old]). Also, when you love yourself sufficiently, you can love and appreciate others a whole lot more.
From what I've heard from my friends. Its not that I don't have confidence, it's just I'm still shy and bottled up to myself. I'm only more open and less shy in my house and I get extremely confident while playing a competitive video game. Even the suit I wear when I was heading towards my christmas party I felt less confidence. ( my job throw an early Christmas party for workers at a place downtown) I have gotten so many compliments with that suit, that random people starts talking to me. The thing is I just dont feel confident going outside wearing that suit because I already been rejected by society for years. It doesn't feel me at all.
Shave, get a haircut with some cologne, exercise, and read self help books and videos, if you think you can be confident outside, you’ll eventually believe it. No one is gonna take charge for your life but you, so don’t waste opportunities by being shy and self doubtful
@@Lucidity916 that last sentence was pretty powerful. Lol Not going to lie, my friends told me like after work I dont get out much and all I do is work for 10 hrs a day and go home. They even told me I'm not even bad or ugly looking. Just need to get out more
@@Herozonex200 I’m glad you see it like that man, I don’t mean insult you, just boost your confidence
@@Lucidity916 oh it's fine. I accept any criticism so I can fix on things that I need to work on. This was not part of my NEW YEARS RESOLUTION. However, me putting on a suit and dress nice and get compliments was one of them. Confidence wasn't it. I still need to work on it but I can see it getting better every year.
Great video Courtney! Very comprehensive list. In what environments / settings will women notice these things? Most women I come across don't seem to care or notice these things and they are busy talking about how great they are.
I like a man with emotional intelligence and being clean, well groomed
You and me both! ❤️
What does emotional intelligence actually mean though? Ability to introspect, impulsive emotional control, long term emotional control, affective empathy, being able to manipulate other people, being able to deal with a partners or friends emotional instability, assertiveness, social competence, self-confidence, stress management, impulsivity? It could be a lot of traits, though from completely different overarching personality traits.
@@DevlVergil I think it means being able to cope with her BS.
@@DevlVergil In other words, using your emotions to your advantage instead of letting them run wild. Channeling them at the right moment (like using anger for training like a wild animal). BUT do not mistake it for 'bottling them up'. The latter leads to volcanic eruptions that can easily ruin your relationships and life. Bottling up emotions is the exact thing leading to suicides in young men, and why most abuses and crimes end up happening, which then cause women to feel the need to become more masculine and hateful towards men. Then the resultant abuses end up upbringing even graver toxicity in young people. But it's a woman's nature to be a bit eruptive emotionally, and it's acceptable. It's not a necessity that they are emotionally intelligent, although it helps in many cases of course. Men do not afford it. Men have the natural ability to channel emotions to their will. MEN and WOMEN are not the same. We must understand it.
Having a steady workout routine shows discipline
Confidence and not arrogant. He lifts people up and supports others, instead of tearing people down.
Hi Courtney !!
I always appreciate your work!!
@@CourtneyRyan3 Courtney is it real?? 😯
You Hit the Nail Right on the Head With Regular Exercise and Eating Properly.Keep Up The Great Work Courtney
Life is so much easier if a man over-indulges on mouth-watering orgasmic food, and hires prostitutes instead of wanting a girlfriend
As someone who has suffered from _severe_ addiction, I can claim with 110% confidence that being able to run 15+ miles is wildly healthy for your body/mind. You *_DON'T_* have to be some super athlete, just stay active and moving, folks!♥️👍
It's actually a bell curve. If you run 15 miles a day it's hard on your body and just as bad as doing no exercise.
Balance is the best, so exercise without overdoing it.
@@davidm4566it is hard on your body but no it is not worse than not being able to run at all.
@@jacoblintner8222 It's a bell curve. Eventually too much exercise damages the body just as much as none. We need to find the peak of the curve and do that (it's different for everyone).
@@davidm4566 Spot on. Being fit and being healthy is not linear, a presumption that a lot of people make.
Gut health is underrated.. Confidence is a gift that keeps on giving and the best gift you can give yourself.
The "lifetime learner" point has become something that has been a source of tension between my wife and I. I LOVE to learn. I can't get enough information. Because of my search for new knowledge, I find myself able to hold my end of a conversation on a lot of topics that I find fun - anything from medicine to theoretical science and from music to politics. Unfortunately, this has become a source of resentment from my wife. She says she feels threatened that I have so many interests. This feeling of resentment has caused issues when I wish to show her something I am working on, when writing music (music is a major hobby of mine). When I ask if I can show her a new work, she shrugs her shoulders and says, "I guess... it's not like you can impress me. I know you write music, so I just expect you to come up with something new. You just can't impress me, anymore." Seems like having a "lifetime learner" attitude can create some issues.
I can't wait to see this haha this is going to be good. I can name two off the top of my head, strong mental fortitude and not skipping leg day. Another one would be sticking to your word
You get it!
@@CourtneyRyan well the three I've been seeing lately can tell that I get it
Courtne, i am from Bulgaria.I watch your videos,you are so good trust me!
For any guys out there looking to add more confidence, just remember that true confidence is basically just knowing what you are capable of; it is not the same as being cocky.
You're not afraid because you have proven yourself to yourself. Others happen to see it and like it.
Here's what to do to get more: first, make yourself experience small victories. Then, try more advanced things, and the confidence will come.
If you try something too hard too fast it will end in defeat and lower confidence. Basically it takes time.
In the end you will have true confidence and not care if a woman turns you down (OK, if you really like her you will still be disappointed).
Once you have proven yourself and your self worth to yourself, it doesn't matter what most people think of you.
Thanks Courtney great advice a lot of those qualities I have worked on confidence and body language need to work on more ! Thanks
Thank you for mentioning nutrition. This is so overlooked and underestimated especially if you are young as you can ‘abuse’ your body by consuming non-nutritious foods and alcohol.
Who gives a shit about nutrition?
You could eat healthy for a decade like myself and it makes no difference to these modern women who will bully, body shame, reject and publically humiliate you over shit you can't even help or change about your body from penis size to height.
Men like me would be aswell just destroying ourselves with tasty junk food.
Courtney Ryan's voice and speaking style if fantastic. It's quite calming and pleasing to listen to...
Absolutely love the videos Courtney, hope you have a wonderful Christmas 🎄 ❤
🥹 you too! Thank you!
I agree with almost all of this and have done all of it for a lifetime. After my spouse a former model died in 2018 after 40 plus years I have had to kick it up a notch to attract a new model in my life. I almost always ask for permission the first time for everything, appreciated by the 2 former models I see. Holding an intellectual conversation and listening skills important Taking a new foreign language this time Italian to add to the other 3 I already am fluent in opens up the world of travel again for me. Taking a yoga class you cannot even begin to think about how many great interesting women take yoga
For a guy whos been in the gym for 20+ years - I agree, I couldnt live without it and yes, women find this super attractive in both forms!
Do you get laid though?
@Kennedyhair84 LOL, well, I've never had a female say no, and I was approached over and over again from my teens. I'm not trying to show off - just replying to your message. You?
Thanks for a great video, Courtney. Love you.
With crippling depression, having interests and 'having something I've been doing lately' are things of the distant past.
Are you able to go to a doctor and/or a therapist?
I've got a therapist and meds but I'm more than likely not long for this world
Hey Minsu. As someone that has struggled with depression for 25 years (I'm 36), I completely understand where you're coming from. Even these positive videos can make me feel terrible because it reminds me what I feel I lack in value. But I keep trying, despite everything in me wanting to quit. Please don't give up!!! Therapy, medication, and exercise have helped me a great deal. You are a person that matters!
@@Zithorius , please don't give up , I've been where you are and you don't want to go there . Stay strong my friend.
Hey Minsu. I just found myself thinking about you and wanted to see how you're doing?
Straight and to the point no games and if they’re is a game walk away like Courtney says, very cool Courtney Rulez!
I definitely agree with you on the exercise part. I always exercise at planet fitness in Covington. So not only am I healthy but also build muscle and so I can have healthy brain. Unfortunately, because of my disability and me having autism I know my social skills are not very good but I do kill it when it comes to that. And also working out as not only helped me with boosting a little bit of confidence but also I even go to a nude beach during the summer and spring and fall and I also manscape everywhere and so that not only my body looks great and I’m muscular and lean but also get rid of a lot of hair and so that way girls are chasing me and not the other way around.
Thank you Courtney! 😊😎. I enjoy listening to you.
Westlake. Courtney, excellent video. All so true. A respectful gentleman with confidence!
Nailed it…irresistible is exactly right.
"Walking on the side closest to the road" was taught this as a boy in Mexico by a female cousin. She explained to me that men would grab/snatch women. The look on a dates (or friend, family) face go from confusion to adoration is most gratifying.
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND I LOVE. WORKING OUT SINCE MY TEEN AGE YEARS AND CURRENTLY.
I LOVE IT !
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6:26 "peace out homies" is what Courtney is basically saying 😆
Picturing that scene from The Office with Dwight nodding with a fake smile on his face
This is a great video Courtney. I knew most of these already from experience and knowledge. Also, would having a great sense of humor be another Masculine habit something women find irresistible and attractive? Or is it just a personality that women like in guys? Many women told me they like sense of humor, but they didn't mention in a way.
One thing I've found that helps me with feeling confident is just not worrying what the outcome of an interaction with someone will be. I obviously try to be decent - engage in good conversation, be polite and all that - but ultimately I'm only half the equation, so if a relationship - friends or more - isn't to be, it doesn't reflect on me.
Agreed...
I was having problems engaging with women why things were not working. I started to act natural without forcing the interaction and all of a sudden things are clicking.
Your voice is sooo soothing
Thanks as always Courtney!
It’s my pleasure 😇
Banger of a video as always 🔥 Courtney you’re speaking facts 💪 I think I need to incorporate the last one more into my life
🙌🏼❤️ thank you!
Simp alert
Thanks for sharing Courtney
More fruit! More leafy greens! And more protein!
It cannot be understated how important a good diet is. Not only is it important for looking good, it also makes it easier to think and make decisions when your body is healthy too!
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Diet makes absolutely zero difference when the vast majority of these modern women will reject you over superficial nonsense such as penis size, height etc.
All the good nutrition habits in the world won't help i'm afraid.
All it does is make you healthier and live longer so you have to put up more years of watching women like Courtney and her friends mock and laugh at things you can't even help or change about your body until it drives you to depression
Then you think i'm meant to give a shit about leafy greens lol
1. Exercise/workout.
2. Fuel body /Eat right.
3. Manners.
4. Lead by example take charge. 6:37
5. Lifetime learner/skills mentality.
6. Confidence/Body language.
I'm still nervous about being around women because I was emotionally abused as a kid (indoctrinated into fundamentalist Christianity by my mother when I was 3). This channel gives me hope! Onward!
Men need to adopt these behaviors because they are foundational to be a well rounded, successful person. My one critique is assuming that if you embody these behaviors, that you will be attractive to women. When women think about these "irresistable behaviors", they are picturing a physically attractive man with game / style. Let's face it, if you are not her type/she is not physically attracted to you, these behaviors don't change anything. And we know women are incredibly picky as to the % of men that fall into her "am I Attracted enough to him" bucket. you can take 100 men that embody what you listed, have them meet 100 women, and watch the women reject 95%+ of those men based on factors that are not on your list. In short, men need to adopt those habits for themselves, not for women.
Public comment this is so true ms Courtney ❤. Eating healthy foods and nutrition daily. Get proper sleep. Positive thinking gives Positive results base on how you procieve life. ❤. Self realization is powerful.
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The lifetime learner mentality is very important. It makes life more interesting and fun!!
Just the way you carry yourself I think says a lot. Head up, shoulders back. You’re confident to take on whatever the world throws at you. Women pick up on that consciously or subconsciously. Some men have it naturally and others have to develop it. Not to be confused with arrogance in which there is a fine line.
5:52 This particular habit to me is quite important. Before this video, I was doing research on a particular subject that I needed to brush up on in case I need to improve my work a bit. If I didn't have the learner mentality, I wouldn't have watched it, and my work would've suffered a long time ago due to the arrogance of its lead game designer.
@Courtney, I don't know if it's a guy thing but I like that you don't have a video intro with all the music and crap..You get right into it..I hate when people have intros especially the 1 minute long ones. I forward thru them every time.
Hey, thanks Courtney