Masculine Body Language Secrets That Make You Irresistible To Women
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ค. 2024
- In this video, I go over how powerful body language can be when it comes to building attraction with women and making a good first impression.
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1:10 Good posture.
2:07 Open body language.
3:32 Eye contact.
5:12 Making small adjustments.
5:52 Let loose on your shoulders.
ty bro
Thanks Raghav
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@surprisedpikachu As a woman I can confirm this, the man's looks and more importantly his height is way more important to me than this body language stuff.
Sunday morning 21 November 2021.
1. Good posture. Sit up straight, shoulders back, chest out!
2. Open body language. Be aware of the situation. A good one is to drive with left hand on the steering wheel and right hand on the back of the seat.
3. Eye contact.
4. Making small adjustments. Fix hair, adjust coat or tie. Be carful about this one, don't fidget.
5. Let loose on your shoulders, a little sway while walking.
Thanks Courtney!
Courtney Ryan: “Loose shoulders.”
*Me walking like Conor Mcgregor doing his loose shoulder warmup routine
I just want to let you know that the shoulder thing is real. I've been on a few dates recently and I would say 3/4 of the women that I went out with actually mentioned my shoulders to me. I thought it was weird at first. But now it just helps me walk more confidently. Hope that helps someone.
I concur 💯 !
Shoulder press is key.
@@Imran-Lalani 💯
Same with the posture and the shoulder sway. Most dates I’ve been on they would mention how my good posture comes off very confident. I started at a particular company full of rough individuals and I felt respected by most and I was very curious why, considering I was the new guy, until one of these rough individuals came up to me and asked where I served…. Had to break the news to him that I was never in the military 😂
@@Imran-Lalani bro he said let loose of shoulder not gain shoulder muscle
"All these beautiful women flocking to you, an you have no idea why"
Courtney, it HAS to be the dad bod and the crocs/socks combo
😂 totally
"sigmale dresscode" *badass music start's playing*
my half-sister made comments about my composure and dick size
Oh yes, that combination drives the ladies wild 😆.
You won’t be able to keep any thing off you with the croc/sock combo.
Even if it's not about attracting women, i have started implementing me these and internally, I notice that I feel more confident and attractive in myself. I think it's good to start doing it for yourself first. You have better conversations with people whether you find them attractive or not. And you will naturally feel more relaxed and have a good time.
Can confirm brother. I actually started implementing these things like 4-5 months ago without even realizing it, and I guarantee you I'm a totally different person right now.
Thank you courtney, one of Jordan Peterson's 12 rules is "to stand up straight with your shoulders back"... it is a small trick but it really helps with my confidence.
I’d be shocked if she knows who JP is
@@gargantuangoose9098 he is just a pop intellectual who prefers doing videos instead of writing serious papers at academic level
@@gargantuangoose9098 You must be sexist. She's literally in the self-improvement business and you fucking think she doesn't know who Jordan Peterson is?
@@carlosr944 and he knows what hes talking about
Shoulders - lol - Courtney - I have had many women, yes, even at work, back when there was an "office" just GRAB my shoulder... I couldn't understand why, but it's just hilarious like they just GRAB onto you randomly... Never really thought about it before til now.
Must've been a nice confidence boost
Last month, I was the lead actor in a dramatic theater production, my first ever play. Many people who saw the performances (all women, now that I reflect on it) told me afterwards how much they noticed my body language. There were lots of times when I wasn’t saying a word but a facial expression, a look, or just how I positioned myself relative to the other actors on stage without saying a word was very noticed by people out in the audience 20 or 30 feet away from the stage. This wasn’t just once, I heard this from three or four different performances. So there is definitely a lot of visual power in position and movement even when you’re not saying anything.
Eye contact is something I struggle with a ton! For many years, I've had too many scream "STOP LOOKING AT ME!" People are nuts.
I'm actually working on it
Long story short, I was a shy kid/guy back then, didn't make a lot of eyecontact, but i'm not sure what made me change it, but for me now, I can make/keep eyecontact with people, when talking/listing.
😂😂
@@CourtneyRyan You int ish for this response, lmaoooo
as someone who also struggled (still struggles) with this, start with someone you know, maybe even a person on the screen like Courntey here... not in terms of staring contest, but pretend you have a conversation with a youtube person talking into their camera and try to hold eye contact for a bit. What also can help is a relaxed setting and do not actually stare right into the eyes, if it gets boring or tedious, you can also fixate on a point slightly below or beneath or next to the eyes of the person in front of you, sort of like with a webcam. they sometimes have a little dot or something to help you look into or next to the camera. same principle. I think what helps in a conversation is holding eye contact while listening and when it is your turn to speak, you can maybe use your hands for gestures or let your eyes wander around when maybe explaining something, this is sort of your pause time where you are allowed to look away. Maybe not for all the time, try to establish eye contact later again, but that way it may be less awkward than just staring the entire time. But also that can be really interesting, especially with strangers... I mean there are all sorts of challenges around like who blinks first, who can hold the longest and so on, and especially when you start to wander and for example stare at the lips instead, this can get really electrifying and sensual even.
I was watching your "Why Aren't People Satisfied" video yesterday, and combined with this video, it explains why younger people are so depressed, anxious, melancholy, etc. It because you're all slouching. When you put your head down you automatically put yourself in a submissive body position which demotes lack of confidence, which is not only bad for your mental health but your physical health as well. And many people aren't consciously aware of this, but they tend to slouch every time they stare into their cell phones when scrolling their texts, phone calls, Facebook feeds, etc. You're absolutely right about body posture, and while simply sitting up straight with your shoulders spread across and your head up facing forward isn't going to cure depression, it will absolutely change your mood and your state of mind, not to mention take pressure off your neck and shoulders.
How you gonna talk about good posture making me read a book like this lol
Then again, if you don't look at a woman, you can't be accused of sexual harrassment
I disagree with it making you more "submissive" I personally walk,sit, stand with a slight slouch and in jobs iv had over the years the lead person really on me and my opinions to do things/ make decisions. If I was viewed as "submissive" they wouldnt bother asking my opinions on things when I'm not in a management roll at all
@@lockonstratos7787 I feel like it makes you look submissive. That doesn’t mean you are submissive. I’m sure you’ve proved yourself more than enough brotha! Keep on keepin on
That and face diapers.
I have always had trouble getting to a first date, but after that I was good. I have been unknowingly doing all of these things. Great advise Miss Courtney as always.
I went from dad bod to shredded V tapered look in 7 months which has boosted my confidence level and in turn i automatically adopted this kind of body language. I get A LOT more attention from women as opposed to when I wasn't as fit.
The physical look only gets your foot in the door though, so to speak, it's maybe 10% of my "swag". The other 90% stems from an abundance mentality that comes with all of the attention. If you add a few qualities to your mentality, outlook, and physical nature (body language) you can keep the attention of a woman a lot longer than what your physique can achieve. Remember, looks only gets your foot in the door. These qualities include, but are not limited to; relaxed, care free, abundance, self entertained/amused, energetic, stoic, strong eye contact, unyielding frame.
You missed the qualities of a knight
Morals, principles, code of honour etc is another one that matters. Having your own opinions, and courage in your convictions, is another good one, even if you piss women off with them. For example, I oppose abortion (especially when it is used as a form of contraception for irresponsible couples), and I stand by that opinion, even if it makes women mad. And yet, women, no matter how much they get triggered, always end up respecting me for sticking to my guns and refusing to back down.
In many cases, you can use the angry butthurt women as a springboard to bounce off, to impress the more attractive ones. Show them that you are not going to back down, no matter how much they try to bully and shame you for your thought crimes, and other women will look at you and see a guy with a big pair of balls. Because many men will tell women what they want to hear, because they are ingratiating and begging for approval. So if you show women that you can think for yourself and have your own opinions, that you are no pushover, and that you will stand your ground and fight for what you believe in, they will be impressed, because they will see you as a real man, not a supplicating simp.
@@zalamael True, but it's a balancing act too. Sure, you should have strong and personal opinions and principles no matter to whom you interact with. Showing a I-will-not-change-for-anyone attitude does not automatically attract any pretty girl however, they may sometimes just dislike for your opinions. Sometimes being open and flexible about things can have a desired effect of respect from the other person, yet not becoming a pushover, like you said.
Exactly, being a bloater is not a good look, and close to impossible to look stylish
Really enjoyed this video! Hit the nail on the head with these 👌
You almost bought me to tears. You said my life. It messed me up. I didn't understand until Kevin Samuels said something about it. It made me get a therapist. It helped me see clearly. Thank you Ms Rivah.
I love your sincere straight forwardness ti helo us, it's greatly appreciated! You have a beautiful personality and helpful thank you Courtney.
You come off as someone who truly gives honest insight and you actually care about guys and want to see them succeed. There's more good guys out there than bad. You throw a rope out there to the good ones. God bless you sweets.
1.Good Posture
2.Open Body Language
3.Eye Contact
4.Making small adjustments
5.Let loose on your shoulders
Absolute great tips, some I knew, some will help me in the future. Thank you Courtney.
Hi Courtney. I want to thank you for caring about us men succeeding with ladies. I love your mindset, especially the 2%er things you've said. I find you thorough in your presentations. If I go on dates again, at least I'll know what I'm getting into from now on.
Courtney you are very knowledgeable and have a great presentation style! Good on you!
I have built a habit of doing all of these even subconsciously already (except for one) and I agree, these are all true!
I like to think I can tell whenever I walk more confidently but I have never paid attention to my shoulders. That’s my takeaway from this video.
before i start watching this video, i just wanna thank you for all your content (fun fact: i'm about to strt listening to the video while i'm working out)
So happy to help! Thanks for being here!
Great video, Courtney! I always look forward to your next one.
this information is pure gold, thanks Courtney!
This is another helpful gem Courtney. It's crazy that us guys and women aren't taught this at a younger age. One thing i do when in public is i present a kind, friendly energy. I always smile or look approachable. It's naturally how i am. I'll also greet people too with a friendly hi. I definitely had to work on my posture and eye contact. As i get older, that and the open body language part becomes more natural for me. Thanks for telling me about the one arm thing. You rock and i wish you a lovely day/rest of the weekend my friend 😊🙌🌻
🙌🏼🤍 you got it! Have a good one Georgio!
always feel like you are rooting for us! thank you
I enjoy your content... I do most these things, even the walk although, my posture lacks confidence. Being aware maintains consistently
Thank you so much for this insightful video! You are right the, shoulder thing really does help and eye contact is a big one! Thank you so much girlfriend! Keep up the good work!
Great video Courtney!!!
Great advice without being patronizing. Love it.
Love your material
Always precise with the topic
Always sweetheart
Thank you 🙏🏻
Body language is one of the very first things a woman will notice about you when you approach her (to ask her out). And one of the most important things you need, is confidence. If you are confident, your body language will radiate it, and women will pick up on it, in the way you walk, the way you sit, how relaxed you are, how you hold eye contact etc.
The best advice I could give a young guy who hasn't got a clue how to go about making himself more attractive, is to learn martial arts. Whether it is boxing, MMA, thai boxing etc, learn a fighting art, so you can learn to defend yourself. Being able to handle yourself in a fight, is a guaranteed method of increasing your confidence. And it will come with additional bonuses if you take it seriously, such as developing a lean, athletic body (which is also highly attractive to women).
And if you want to level up even more, learn to dance (such as Salsa etc). Having the confidence to be able to dance with a woman, will have them flocking to you. I don't do Salsa, my music is Electro Swing, and I can dance fairly well to it. Whenever I get up and dance, I often get women coming over to me asking if I will dance with them. It is a great way of putting yourself out there and getting women to come to you, rather than being invisible and having to make the first move.
You shud have gotten 1k likes ✊🏾💪🏾
That "Hi everyone" and her soothing voice 😍
Really something i rarely hear from women her age.
Always great advice, thank you!
I love these lists because they are all literally the exact opposite of my entire being. Cool.
Great video Courtney thank you.
You deserve a million likes!
I like how this 20 something year old woman dating coach used a photo of a 53 year old man to show masculine ... truth be told, I've never felt more like a man than my 40's and now early 50's..
Ok!!! I'm 45yrs...RIGHTEOUSNESS👔🌹!!!
Agree. 40's and 50's are the most masculine men
Game recognize game
Dope
Ummm she's 41 years old .... she says it in video#235? Lmao
I love your videos, Courtney❤ ️
So much real talk! AS ALWAYS!
I have to admit that her videos have the pure content what is most important in any issue.
Great video Courtney 🔥🔥
Open space and eye contact has done wonders for me
I implement some of these into my life, made some changes to my style! And i got mistaken for an employee at 7 different stores at the local shopping mall where i live 🤣🤣
I like the James Bond thumbnail 👍 Body Language is very much underestimated.These tips are awesome and you look like you’re about to hit the GYM after the video is done 💯👌 Great Video Courtney! And I Love your work ethic so much, I appreciate the time and effort you do to do your research to give us the right advice we should be using instead of telling us what we need to hear and not what we want to hear 💯🙏🏽 much Respect and Love ❤️🙏🏽
Okay again solid content, you got me (subscribed). Even the stuff I don't fully agree with you is not bullcrap. I think your advice can help me be more balanced in my views as well. Good stuff, thanks.
Great video, very helpful, thanks❤
Courtney with the consistency!
Wow. All these body language traits. This video is great. Thanks, Courtney.
It's important to understand that putting on the "mask" of confidence by adopting these habits, they can help a little bit to decrease anxiety. BUT.....but.....it's no substitute for doing the work it takes to actually gain true confidence or reflect genuine interest in a woman.
Good tips!
Good posture is important for so many reasons, ranging from being more attractive, to affecting your mental health ("Stand Up Straight w/ Your Shoulders Back" Jordan Peterson Rule #1).
Your perspective on small adjustments was interesting ot hear someone mention, because when people talk about preening, it's often in relation to helping guys pick up on signs of interest from girls.
i appreciate that this girl hustles.
Good Video , Eyebrow and Small adjustments👍 Courtney is graceful
I swear Courtney was put on this planet to help guys like me I was doing okay out of highschool but sheeesh have I been letting lust take over. I'm learning many things hopefully I can pull it together before I'm 30. If I make it I will help my brothers 🤘🏻💚
I agree with Everything. I've been trying to practice eye contact but Adhd can get in the way. At that point, I'd just let them know so they wouldn't get the wrong idea...
Plus, when you said loosen up your shoulders, I did a dance to loosen them up... surprisingly it worked 😂
You have such a resonant and empathetic sounding voice
Thank you Courtney for sharing...you use your tools very well. Mansfield, Ohio
Ms Ryan, thank you again & that part about the eyes & the staring was soooo funny, made me laugh so hard. All of your knowledge & skills have been & are so extremely helpful to me. This is such an amazing channel. Thank you...
I needed this video
Body language is something I tend to struggle with. Not just with what I am trying to convey, but what they are conveying to me as well. Its one of the things I am trying to work one, but its not easy to say the least.
Even with this stare Courtney, you never look crazy! You always look beautiful. So, lucky him!
Aww thank you for your sweet words!
You are a beautiful beautiful light to this crazy world!
Loosing weight was a big one for me. My confidence went way up. When you feel like you look good, you act differently and carry yourself differently.
i dont know about that... i lost like 40 pounds (though im a big mfer... still have another 100 lb to go) and tbh i feel the same as i did before
@@UserName-ts3sp So, "For me" I meant, what worked for me. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
Losing weight.
I'd also say that tone of voice is a part of body language. It's a subconscious thing that makes a massive impact on how you're perceived.
I think that my be part of the reason I might struggle with women? could you help me please and thanks?
Oh man I was waiting for this video
Great tips!
It’s like that phenomenon, when you get a new jacket that you love., When it’s new you get looks. But when you’ve worn it a couple of times no one’s looking anymore. This has always kind of baffeled me, since the women probably don’t know if it’s brand new or if you have had it for a week. It’s probably not the new jacket that get the looks, as much as my body language when i’m wearing something brand new.
And...don't forget to smile once and while! Works every time !
Damn as a non-english speaker I love the way you speak! Each video is better than 10 English lesson to me! Thank you!!!
Yes we love confidence 👏 and just be your authentic self..I love that in a man.
Thanks Courtney.
Public comment. Great information Ms Courtney. ❤. You are wonderful soul. ❤.
Thanks for this.
More Self improvement traits.
It was a good one💯
Thank you for using chapters!
Even though I worked yesterday, I didn't have lunch since I normally fast most of the day so I just had breakfast now before I go and help a friend move furniture to his new apartment with his fiance, so I went for my post-meal walk and I did notice that my shoulders do sway, just like you were talking about. Interesting.
Loved the deer in the headlights expression you did
There is something that can be said for what your physique says about you.
However-
Never EVER underestimate what cannot be developed in a gym or on a floor mat.
Its an inner quality:
Confidence.
Confidence from within most definately enhances the positive impression of you in the eyes of others.
(And don't confuse an overinflated ego with true confidence. The former will only alienate you from others).
I made up my mind to take steps to improve my health and wellbeing. I made drastic changes to my diet, eating wholesome healthy food.
I exercised regularly.
I felt better, slept better, my cognition greatly improved as did my overall mood.
Of course my physical appearance changed for the better.
It goes without saying women around me took notice and before long sometimes I noticed they would turn around and glance at me as I walked past them.
But it wasn't their attention that was my main motivation for doing do.
I was doing it for MYSELF.
If anyone else took notice of any changes in me, that was secondary, and I am sure probably most didn't.
No concern for me.
I just kept it moving on my personal agenda for self improvement.
I have learned that when you
Invest in yourself and dont worry about trying to catch the attention of women around you,
sooner or later,
It is inevitable that they will take notice of you.
What you do from there is up to you.
But continue on your path to self improvement.
Great content!
Another awesome gem 💎❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you! ❤️
Dear & headligts made my day 😁😁😁
Alright, time to practice these steps on Courtney 😂. On a serious note, these are things that other ladies have mentioned when I’ve asked what led to the attractiveness as time went on. When all these characteristics come natural it helps greatly.
It does help, but confidence has to real instead of logically thinking about how to stand makes you look weird.
Honestly, these body language tips work best when other men are around and don’t have good body language. Your good body language makes you look more alpha and that’s what women are attracted to the alpha male. That’s the one secret that most of these people don’t tell you.
This is very smart advice. It's weird but it's helped so much. A lot of this is from a woman. She's telling us what she wants. I feel so silly not knowing I was being hit on so many times while doing all of this lol.
*Thinking about putting my arm behind the lady's seat*
Well driving my stick shift is going to get interesting...
Love the videos Courtney and glad to see your channel growing! You'll hit that quarter million in no time.
That Paul Walker/Brian O Connor Style! 😎
This reminds me of the triangle movement of eyes. For business eye eye forehead rotation. Seduction eye eye mouth.
Calmed body posture, being relax in the place you are and taking your space
I like caressing their knee thigh in the car like : good girl, when I’m proud of her.
Hahaha crazy gf eyes. I love watching you sleep.
You know what this also reminds me of? My driving test. I was so nervous my knee even twitched making the pedals so difficult to control. I passed the test when i was seen as relaxed. Even if I almost ran over a baby cart.
Confidence and security in yourself to provide her with security to be her vixxxen self with you and trust you to open is key.
Thanks for the arm advice on seat
Hi.. thanks for all the info..
I like to follow the cue from women that I like and are from "my" type of wingwoman .. 🙏🙏
Hi Courtney! Great video as always, but I didn't get the last tips about the shoulders. Do you have an example I can watch to see what you mean?
Great Video, love it
Really food advice here - i'm going to try somebof these things on my lady love. Thanks :)
Thank you .
Eighty-years old! I like the way you think about yourself, Courtney!
That's a great video 👍
Thank you my friend! ❤️
I really appreciate your video. Coming from a shy man
Thanks for saving me
Outfit is on point in this video 👌
Thank you so much!
Good advice.
Your top is amazing 🤩
Awesome thanks