She deserves more subscribers. Nothing groundbreaking, but very down to earth. She calls a spade a spade, while sowing wisdom. Her thoughts can plant a seed, hopefully, in young people's minds... ... And I'm out of gardening puns. End comment.
The hard lesson to learn when I was young, is that people come and go in out out of your life no matter how I act, dress or cut my hair. The older I get easier it is to except when people move on.
Definitely one way to filter out people who you believed were your "real" friends 😅. For me (Not at work) I casually mentioned to some friends that in retrospect "Orange Man" did a good job as President 😂. I didn't vote for him then but I would now. As a friend filter it worked great. A few less friends after however those that continued to be my friend I knew were genuine. Real friends never abandon you regardless of some of your opinions 😊
Jennifer, you are on doubly one of the most creative and articulate speakers of the 21st-century! I watch your videos with amazement. I have absolutely no idea how you can whimsically create the most impactful antidotes. You truly are an amazing creation. And we thank you. You are wise beyond your years. Coming from a 71 year old man.😁 0:48
I probably don't remember my past life as Julius Caesar, even thought that's who I am, probably because it was too frightening to remember. But I remember the emotional politics, and the best feelings of being Caesar.
The nature of Roses, when I talked to a gardener, is that all other plants in the gardening world are either indoor or outdoor plants, but Roses can be either indoor or outdoor plants. Roses are an anchor to the outside economic system. I learned this from my experience in gardening and from my experience in working at Schlotzky's. I would have filled the ice with eight buckets of ice, and it always had ice stuck in the top, and a customer would always complain that the ice was empty, and I'd always say that it wasn't, and I'd always be right, and I'd take a spoon and knock some of the ice down, and then I'd put two buckets of ice in the machine. Roses are the same way. I asked the gardener when the roses would sell, and they were 32 dollars, and that they'd sell in two months in predictable fashion. That's the relevance of evolution to the economy and capitalism. The indoor and outdoor plants mark the path, and roses guide the path with a road or with a light house or a crow's nest. The logic of evolution means that there's no "undoing" or "toppling" of capitalism. Capitalism is here to stay forever. The only bitterness that comes from communists, perhaps like you Jamie, is that you tried to be a Lantana but you're actually a rose. Try as you might, a rose can't be a daisy. Ice and Roses, and no fire in sight.
People now know that t.v. shows had followed my timing, and tied the shows to things that were mundane and specifically sentimental to me. My daughter has had a thing for coloring her hair, but the Dark Knight was made before she was born, but I could see her future when that movie had been released. I only had one wardrobe request when it came to the joker. People said that they could see auras, and I asked this one gentleman what aura I had, and he said "green." I asked him what that meant, and he said "fun loving." So asked that the Joker's hair be colored as green, so that my daughter would have a clue on how to be like me. She'd have to adopt my moral code of choosing a good life and avoiding a bad life, and that means adopting the moral code of villains and heroes while choosing to emulate the best of people while not adopting the faults of people she might admire. And no good society is possible unless people are allowed to choose good things and avoid bad things. I choose good choices and avoid bad choices. That's my moral code. And the point of the Dark Knight is that moral choices are always clear, it's just the psychological bullshit that causes people to assume that life is more grey than it actually is. Life is more cut and dry than people would like to admit, because to acknowledge that would cause people to have to choose to be strong rather than weak, considerate rather than self-absorbed, and society has to have people capable of that type of cut and dry moral code.
I'm raising my daughter to be a good person, not my "best friend." I'm only best friends with people my own age. My issue with female parenting is that some women became corrupted by money and somehow thought that being a parent meant being "best friends" with their children and forgot how to be parents.
For years and years, I believed everything mother told me. Once I was out of the house i learned through life's many lessons that my mother was often incorrect of the advice / rules that she laid before my sister and I through much embarrassment i learned that my mother was flawed. My father never corrected my mother on any of her rules or bad advice until after my mother had passed. I was left with a world that had more questions than answers. I had to start again with what my four-letter words were. And at the age of 52 its hard to start again,
Thank you for keeping me company while I had to deal with some work issues tonight. I was never comfortable being social. I can track it down to insecurities that I got drilled into my head by my dad. Then just could never shed completely. There some other things but minor at best.
I would have, gladly, if you hadn't put the choice on me to reject you or accept you as a friend. Your character was none of my business, until your character threatened to be a bowling ball through my life and the life of everyone that I love. Then your journey wasn't so personal anymore. Your character was evaluated for good reason. And, because you have earned my respect, I owed you a copy of my private analysis so that you can be a better person. Ordinarily, I wouldn't provide my private thoughts to someone I could afford to just ignore or give the cold shoulder too. I just wouldn't call them anymore. No explanation. But Jamie, the fact that I provided you with my private character report of your character should have demonstrated how much you've earned my respect. A fair critique is redemptive. And this is empathy, from my perspective. When I was horrible at social skills, and in San Diego, ordinary language meant that people either liked you or avoided you without any regard for your feelings, meant that I smiled when I was told a critical truth that I already knew, and I hated it when I was praised for a "skill" that I knew was false. I'm a good guitar player now, but I was a shitty guitar player when I was 17. And I hated it when people complimented me on my "good" guitar playing. I learned how to be good through practice, and praise wasn't helpful. If you've ever been able to contrast praise with respect and/or genuine appreciation, you'd understand how worthless praise is. I don't have to obsess on what people are thinking, because I know what to look for in my relationship with people. Imagine that the torment of a narcissist is someone who constantly tries to break through one door, when there are two real doors right next to it and you could've ended your torment any time you wanted to. How sad would that be? Not to mention embarrassing. That everyone knew that hose two doors were there, and watched you beat your head against a wall without actually saying anything to you. That's what happens if people don't like you. I keep finding the right doors personally. That's how I know people like me. I don't care what people think because, typically, I already know what people are thinking. Not because of any "psychic" shit, but because I understand the algorithm of respect and appreciation in the human mind as a universal brain mechanism, regardless of gender, race or creed, and people tend to value that more than any astrological "reason" anyone could provide. So yes, Jamie, I gave you the keys to the astrology kingdom because you worked hard and you earned it, so you don't have to be embarrassed. It was the only door you could afford, and that was consistent with being a good parent no matter what anyone else thought. So yes, I do love you. And I do respect you. The only reason I've been hard on you is because compatibility was the issue, not love or respect. And that hard path is the path you had. I can only be as good to you as what you can provide me to work with in terms of your character and wisdom and self awareness. That's why I only help people that I can afford to respect. And I have the deepest respect for you Jamie. I can give a greater compliment than that. Your path was already hard Jamie, and I'm sorry about that, but that wasn't me who did that to you. Your life just genuinely sucked, and it wasn't anyone's fault. But you wanted the astrology key necklace, and I gave you what you wanted most, and that's why you love me back. Give a woman the means to be free forever and she'll love you forever. That's my secret gift with women.
i wear black and white to stand out ,have slowed my walk,and worked tirelessly on my attractive body language,old freinds do not like it, i am a massive hit with women now,which was my motivation. great channel and info
I learned pretty much all the four letter words in grade 3 in elementary school. We may not know what they really mean, but we had them down by grade 3.
Hi JM An awesome speech and thoughts! Thank you for your personal experiences that you describe. What you are talking about is quite comprehensive and has great depth when it comes to finding one's identity through oneself and the surroundings! Understanding yourself and other people is a steep hill, but it is worth climbing and make the best effort to learn along the way to get and give! Yes it is !
JMo, You so Crazy! As a Family "Four Letter Word" for ME goes, it was probably OBEY. In the Late 60s and early 70s the Societal Message to Parents in Central NYS was, "Control Your Children". Yes, there was Corporal Punishment in Elementary School. My Military Service was an easy 20 year slog for me... I enjoyed this interlude. You're a Deep Thinker, sometimes Brooding, but you've Humility. Thank you for the Quality of your Content. Continue to March. ✌
One thing about Europeans which I love is how well they dress. I love it! I used to dress really well, always. Even when casual I dressed well. Now...oooh, how times have changed. I look worse (literally) than most homeless people (really!) All of my clothes have either glue, paint, burn marks, worn holes, and or bleach stains in them. Dressing well rocks. Go for it! (you're nuts for thinking you'd lose friends...what kind of friend wouldn't like it, if they do, screw them!)
Jennifer.... all I can say is I'm a little jelly of your hubby...the lucky sucker (lol all good). I know good and well you're a joy to be near, and a funny one too! I could use one of you! As for your request....You struck a personal nerve with the word "boring". If us four kids sat around back in the day saying "I'm bored" with that whiney tone...... you could feel Dads neck tighten up. Ha! Its a term I do not use nor employ or allow way too many decades later with a grown son. He is never bored...its amazing!!! Always busy doing something with his mind and hands! Imagine the possibilities!! lol First, dont even use the word, second, if you do, well get ready because you're about to NOT be bored!! I promise!! Ha! Ya there's always chores or even fun things to do, honestly life is just to short to ever ever be so superficial as to claim "boredom". Drives me crazy! lol
40:51: If someone asks you out, but you only offer a professional relationship, then even a casual friendship would be impossible. I've seen some people who confused the two types of relationships in a library type situation, where the professional interest was over, but he thought the friendship was real. When I was at an antique store, she let her love feelings overwhelm her and she tried to talk to me like I was her child, so I said that I wouldn't go back there because I didn';t like that she talked to me like that. And she said "well I don't like" but there was nothing else to say. It wasn't a negotiation. I was over that place at that time, and she wasn't. But you can't claim that someone is being a hypocrite just by leaving. Hypocrisy is only an issue if someone was "accusing," but just reporting what I didn't want and leaving took the weight out of whatever she was going to say. I could tell that she felt bad about it, and I did too, but I was more used to the break up conversation at that point than she was. The situation just tapped into my already existing overwhelming sense of loneliness and depression so that there wasn't any heart to break in that moment. If I had a heart, it was frozen solid. That being said, people who are users and abusers tend to be isolated in professional settings where they can't piss on innocent people just trying to mature. So, when you see someone in a store who looks very personable who you might think is a "real catch," what you actually are seeing is the fact that they probably pissed all over the loves of their lives and had to accept a love prison so as to protect the love part of society from their personality defects. It's not that the woman that you have a crush on in that retail store isn't interested in you, it's that she is incapable of loving you back, and the professionalism holds the worst part of her character in check, and she knows that she can't love you back. I'm the only reformed "user" though I've never abused anyone, and I guess that's what makes me different. I lack the narcissistic traits of ideas being more important than relationship trait that tends to isolate others from ever loving again. I have the skills that, at the right moment, one woman was just melted enough to feel something for me, and she tried to claim me and couldn't. And that was really sad, but it was hopeful too, because her heart melted just enough to love me and to feel the sting of rejection, and that's a hopeful thing. That means that someone like her is eligible for love parole. The other lesson though is that shoppers can spend their money how they want, or they'll shop elsewhere, and so the best romance isn't found with coworkers with coworkers, or coworkers with customers, it's with two free will customers who can negotiate honestly with each other as we spend our money however we want. The store has it's own personality apart from people, so just because I can get along with someone as a coworker, it doesn't mean that I'd get along with them as a friend or as a lover. As a retail worker in customer service, I might help you find your product, but my professional sense of consideration and courtesy is only a product of professional training, and the selfish sense of consideration, which is sharing pleasure, is an entirely different quality. The fact is that for as far as me and Jamie were concerned, none of the other guys deserved to be with her because they mixed professional expectations, like when to be inside or outside which is more like someone who's employed as an inhouse housekeeper, not the same thing as a lover who one would date. Of all the guys that were undatable that she and I hung out with, I was the only dateable person that she had access too, whereas the others thought that providing her shelter meant that she was their girlfriend, when, in fact, she was just their employee. The close type of friendship that I'm suggesting isn't for coworker dynamics and it isn't about quid quo pro. Friendship is about sharing pleasure more than it's about sharing chores. As soon as choores became the thing, y'all stopped being friends and just became coworkers, and it didn't work out because y'all just wanted to fuck the housekeeper, and you couldn't separate business from pleasure. Pleasure means not making her do the dishes all the time, and to let things be casual and messy and unorganized. Being in love is when two people don't have anything else to do but have fun together, and learning how to share together. But believe me, when the professionalism thing and money became your primary love, I was planning my exit from your life right then and there, because I wasn't going to be that guy who kept showing up to the party and couldn't tell when the party was over. And, to some degree, your safe space of money, though it was helpful to me, caused me to think, fairly or not, that you just didn't have the courage or the character to love or to take a chance with love. There was always some bullshit excuse between someone you love and your desire for something more. , ll the while you seem to be slowly losing your loving vibe while staying in your safe space, while using the example of some foolish guys who followed you around as an excuse to be a coward in relationship to love. The problem was you, Jamie. Some guys are foolish, but you'll always be a coward in relationship to love if you keep using that as an excuse to stay in your professional safe space, and no matter how much I compensate by focusing on how much I appreciate and feel grateful for everything you've done for me, I can't ever respect a person who betrays themselves just to be a compassionate person. You and I both know that, and my sense of contempt for your inability to love is why I'm always looking for the exit whenever I see you. From my perspective, you'll always be busy staying safe and I'll always be busy enjoying life, and as much as I love and admire you, you'll always look like a sucker to me for wanting to be seen as a compassionate person rather than living life to the fullest. Carpe Deum! I do my best to have a good day today!
Personally I like body hair on a woman, shows sexual maturity, confidence in self, and not conforming to social pressures. I've also found that there's a certain bit of brutal honesty in a woman that I appreciate when she's letting herself be instead of making herself into a "Barbie". Just my $0.02 cents worth of opinion.
Some may wonder why I posted this in the same time that I posted the one about cheating. It's that life is about rolling the dice and hoping for the best, and are you defined by what someone else does, or by how you live your life? Either way, I don't owe anyone anything who doesn't have a moral compass or a moral center. Just because I'm selfish doesn't mean that I'm wrong. Sometimes the selfish bastard is right. Slave Only Dreams To Be King - TH-cam I'm not a slave because I dream to be free. Being free is superior to king. I'm even superior to the king of kings when I dream to be free and he only dreams to be king.
I feel fear but I'm not afraid of anything. I have no fixed fear point. No fear coordinates. It's just a feeling to me. And I feed off of the lies that people tell about themselves. It's an easy ride to truth.
Jennifer, I watched two different channels of these women that make 16 century the 18th century clothing and they wear it every day. And the hats that they wear are stunning with the feathers and all.
I feel you. The last time I saw a friend of mine it was 4 years ago. After that it's just been clones, lookalikes and innuendos, but she's been a no show and I'll probably never see her again. Some people are just temporary. And here's the truth about females. Women tend to use expectancy to control a man and then use expectancy as an excuse to break up with someone. But I'm not expectant naturally, and so she couldn't control me, and so that's why it was never going to work out. And it's ok. It's like what Jerry Seinfeld said, 99.99 percent of everyone is undatable anyway. It's like she didn't want to date because she wanted an undatable guy and I'm datable. And why would she want an undatable guy? Because if she was the cool one, then I'd be the comfortable guy that never leaves while she could fuck and hang out with whoever while I would've stayed home waiting around like an idiot. It's better to be single.
Anytime i want to get someone out of my life.. I bring up their actions that were unacceptable and swept under the rug by them . The variable standard principle is completely acceptable to most of murikkan society. Ok for me but not for you kinda thing... Sooo after a while when i grow tired of their duplicity i call them out and their feelings get hurt so bad because i offended them. Simply reminding them of their previous behaviour.... Nicely of course, most of the time anyway... .I have been told I have many friends. Never met them... I know they are there... They appreciate the fact they are still alive.... There is something about the truth that sends chills down the spine.
This goes to your point about when one takes their life by the horns and chases their dreams the ones you love won’t come to your house warming party. People are jealous and judgmental because they don’t want you to change. Maybe that’s why you were afraid to start dressing better..
My one piece of advice for parents: I had advise that when holding a baby that I should hold her by the head. What I took that to mean is that if I can take soulful energy from raising a child, then I don't need any sexual energy from my offspring. And one lesson that I learned from falling in love that platonically applies to parenting too, is that the child has to grow with the parent, not against the parent. Sometimes one can outmaneuver a parent so as to not be smothered by an overprotective parent though. A child and a parent have to live in the same world of consideration, even if we all have private worlds where we can be ourselves, we all have to share a public sphere too. Children are a burden. That's just what they are. They don't have the resources to take care of themselves, and they don't have the wisdom or strength to live on their own. That's why we raise children to be adults.. People shouldn't pressure adults to be children. That's abuse and unnecessary. So let's not put pressure on each other. That makes more sense than the political fake garbage games people had been playing. And it's better than women putting the entire burden of parenting on the father so that females can do what they please. Responsibility is only honest if it's shared. And parenting isn't about money. It's about character first, and money second. Money does matter, but's second in priority to character and respect. The problem recently is that parents abandoned all responsibility for their kids and shat all over society, and that's not cool. The reason for that is people prioritized money more than character, and that's the fault of the parents, and the god of money for placing that burden on others instead of on the parents.
Do the video on why you didn't like a guy that would treat you well. I've heard it explained by others many times but I can't wrap my mind around why. I'm 52 and I've never had negative feelings or been disinterested when a woman has treated me well. It usually has the opposite effect from something negative.
A pure life can have multiple directions. I love one woman here who expresses a part of me, and another woman there who expresses a completely different part of me that's also a non-negotiable part of me. But a primary person is one or the other, even if I'll love them both forever. That means that, chaotically, I'm in a gender fluid situation where even though I'm a heterosexual male, the women are playing the traditional male role and I have to wait for the right woman to ask me out, and to tell me that "I like you, do you want to hang out?" unless the situation is an undeniable scenario where it's up to me to ask her out. It's the light version of sharks with a small cut, but this one is fun, not painful. Because everyone's a winner in this case because the good habits means that even if you don't end up with the person you want, your life will improve either way.
why do i listen to you, YOU ARE ALWAY BRILLIANT and i will think about what you have spoken of for a week..... Keep talking, i do listen. i have to, i'm not married to you. that is why my girl friend never married me, i have to listen. LOVE LOVE LOVE her
Jamie, your problem is that you're willing to lie to yourself about anything just to avoid feeling emotionally empty. Often this lying to yourself aspect is trying to pretend that the new relationship your ex isn't "real" and that your connection "is." A secure person knows that a person can have many fulfilling relationships. That's what a person with a healthy psyche understands and that's reflected in patience, humility, love, affection and understanding. The opposite of that is the tendency to fill your cup with any type of bullshit to make it feel like what you have is "real" and that what they have is "fake." How this relates to the general collective is that Jamie had been using that emptiness avoidance to influence others to behave in ways to keep me from her soul space and to keep from feeling empty with false friendship and an illusion of "purpose." You can keep trying to be that way Jamie, and continue being the jerk, or you can let me go and take responsibility for the fact that it's not anyone's job to keep you from feeling empty. That's between us, whatever "us" happens to be, and your emotional life absent real life communication is just your responsibility, not mine. I've been wanting to leave and you've been trying to keep me from leaving, and you haven't been fair to anyone Jamie for bringing everyone into our personal garbage. But I get it, you only care about "fairness" when it's convenient, because, maybe, you're not a real "libra" whatever the fuck that is.
Love is anxiety. Love is suffering. Life is suffering. Attachment is suffering. In the end we lose everything. In the end nothing matters. Drop the character that you are playing and Just be you. Live for today. Tomorrow does not exist. Remember, it’s just a ride…. Bill Hicks
The challenge to every skeptic. Some things are true even if you want it to be true. That's the love spot. And if Dr. Peterson identifies as a "skeptic," then it would mean that love is something he couldn't identify, even if he was looking right at it. That's a tough critique, but it's true. Sometimes things are true even though I want it to be true, and the choice has nothing to do with finding the truth, but accepting or rejecting the truth. And so when love is present to the skeptic, it's up to the skeptic to change, not the lover. Sometimes something is true even though I want it to be true. Or perhaps "conservative" is just code for "soulless statue incapable of love?"
Ok for the record I'm 40 years old I don't know where to start ... I'm also an alcoholic 'JUST YOU YOU CAN DISREGARD MY THOUGHTS" nobody comes out of childhood without trauma . God is living a human life thru us each and every time a different one . That is why we have personalities that don't agree with the decisions of other human beings . I Like you I really do ; and what I have to say is not to hurt you in any way . Please forgive my grammar I'm an alien ( from a different country ) . we are trying to become different and our parents try to inculcate what they think they know . Many parents think they know better but in reality the world in which they grew no longer exist . some of their wisdoms does have a good effect and it would help you but , we are entirely trying to be different . the things that limit us is believing in the opinion of others but in reality : WE WANT WHAT WE WANT . yes we are social especies and we determine what rules to bend in contrast to what will allow us to let us be who we want to become . the more you practice this the lonelier you become . Our intelligence ( God given ) finds patterns and then we feel that they are boring so we try to become something else ... because life cannot be like that ! who that F wants to live a perfect life? . Death it's what is beautiful about life but for as long as you only exist trying to survive ; you are just another creature . do you know what Psychopaths and CEOs have in common ? in the Bible I think there is a text that says something along the lines of ( obviously paraphrasing ) ... " to win the world and to lose your soul ". Point is for as long as you keep on trying to fit in , you are lost . according to me I'm a child who was sexually abused , exploited , humiliated , and robbed of all dignity . But God is living a life thru me so now we know what happens . think of what was Adam's task after he ate the fruit and ask me what do I think . is not History or at least I like to think so ! people who ascend they get to see this and understand it and then we are left with religion and as much as I hate religion it is totally necessary . ok you have been served ! wish you the best you are a beautiful human being and thanks for your VIDEO
Jennifer, this is where most females are wrong in a very human way without all that psychological bullshit and complicated philosophy and long winded excuse or Jungian nonsense about "the shadow" or "social responsibilities" or whatever. I feel that the longer the excuse, the more certain I am that person is in denial and not facing life responsibly. That's not always the case, but when it comes to basic life skills, it definitely is. Like the difference between friends, lovers and acquaintances and strangers. Recognizing the difference between these types of relationships in everyday life is the core of social skills. That being said, this is why a lot of females might lack that. I don't think most females know the difference, because for most females,, either your a fellow female, or gay, or a potential lover, and somehow females seem to confuse coworkers and customers with "friendship." So from my perspective, this is a video about a female being in denial about who she loves for the sake of convenience and invented a lot of complicated terminology to avoid facing her feelings or taking responsibility for who she might love. That's the part where I feel females cheat themselves out of love with an endless series of excuses. If you don't know the difference between a friend, a lover, and an acquaintance, then you don't know how to live. These are clear cut and dry concepts that don't require long winded astrological lessons to intuit.
I might say that a person has to show up, but that was only to keep her out of the perverse vein and to keep her in the integrity vein. But no matter what happened, no one is entitled to a reunion. It has to be something that both want without any pressure. Being a lover isn't being a parent. I only want to be a good parent, but I never wanted to be a parent. You see, people who want to be parents seem to displace their disappointed love live expectations of friendships onto their children, and confused that perverse displacement as "parenting." Sometimes not caring about your child is good parenting. Children have to learn how to govern their own emotions, and that's why children should be seen and not heard. The ears are an erotic center of the brain. And so trying to be attentive and a good listener for a child is a pathway to perversion, and that type of perversion isn't cute. It's wrong. That type of attention is meant for a lover, not a child. I was going through the incel world, and there was some people who just didn't seem to understand that, and some seemed to wonder "why I was so mean," when I was clearly being responsible. Boundaries and consent means that I have a relationship with my daughter's legal guardian, and I stay reasonable and respectful, and that my daughter's guardian's sense of structure is more important than my daughter's feelings. Many lessons in life are chaotic, and so being a parent means allowing life to bring the lessons to my daughter that I can't plan for. I can just feel the lessons from my soul that I can discern is good for my daughter, even though others in that same situation might've thought that she was "cruel," or that I was "uncaring," but trying to be someone's best friend who is a child is what sexual predators and deviants tend to do, not respectful people who actually know how to be good parents. That's why I support the police in breaking up human trafficking so that society can be protected from such perversion. What I want is to live a good example for my daughter, so that she can believe that life is worthwhile. The only person I can afford to want to be with is a lover, and parenting is a different world, and since I'm a human being I have to live in both worlds. I relate to different people differently depending on the relationship. Parents model the real world for their children, or that's what they're supposed to do, and hope that the children will pick up on the lessons rather than have everything explained to them. That's how I was raised. I provided insights and arm floaties for my daughter from the incel world, because if I didn't, then no one would've helped me. But I made sure that my daughter is god centered in her school band so that sexual predators can't groom her. Obviously that wouldn't always work, and so my job as a parent has been to influence my daughter to love being talented more than me or anyone else. That would allow her to brush off anyone who doesn't understand that on her own. My philosophy on parenting is that to keep my daughter safe, I had to teach her that it's better to be talented than loved. So when a potential lover in my life found me and insulted my talent just so that she could be a world famous scientist, I knew that if I was to choose her then I would've betrayed my daughter, so she wasn't right for me. So, as a role model for my daughter, I would rather be talented than to have someone make me feel "less empty." If that were me, then I would've been a bad parent.
That family four letter word of boring may have been a fear or filter but you are truthfully anything but boring. I find myself laughing sometimes at your delivery timing and yet conversational approach while watching you flitter around with distracting things and searching for just the right words to say. You really dig deep to say your mind. Your reflection and introspection plus ability to bring it out in conversation is very unique. Would love to take a peek at the interaction between you and your husband. Have you ever thought of introducing him on a video or two to let us see the kind of man you are attracted to and he you? It would be interesting to see a little interaction between the two of you. I hope you treasure each other!
It's very simple why a woman tends to have a hard time accepting it if a person tries to treat a woman well, and it's because a woman has complex responsibilities, and indifference is a better way to get to know a woman, so that your not trying to make a woman like you by being nice to you. That is a subtle form of patriarchal oppression, and women would rather be ignored, in my experience, so that a clear view of a proper partner can be clear. That's a feminist analysis, but it's also credible.
I adore you. I put you on my Giant screen when I watch you. I want to give you a big hug. for a variety of reasons. Your husband must be the happiest man. Im happy for him! Thank you Jennifer, I really needed my Jennifer fix for the day. I love your genuine, authenticity. Im German, Dutch, Netherlands too. You are a HOT chick! Be advised.
Free will exists, if it's turned inward. Recognition of evolution as a means to make rational decisions, whether as an individual or as a collective with the attempt to persuade others presumes free will, otherwise one would be committing the stolen concept fallacy, which is the assumption of the truth the thing you presume to disprove. But to be less defensive about it, the ironic thing is the "lack of free will" is the illusion, not the other way around. That's why chaotic romance between men and women as being more important than marriage is prove of animalistic evolution. The more you value marriage more than love, the less free will you have, and the more I value love more than marriage, the more free will I have.
"He must be kind of a dingdong if he's going to treat me well"😂 I'm not sure if you've spoken about this in the past or not but was that belief system hardwired within you because previously you hadn't been treated well by men or a masculine figure in your developmental years so that's what you came to desire and expect from men in the future? I wonder if that sort of scenario plays a role when women reject men and their core excuse is "well he's a nice guy" or "he's just too nice"?🤔 I believe that such rejections can hardwire men to think that some women Want to be treated badly and that bad behavior towards women or bad treatment of women will earn their validation in future situations when they find a woman they want to court so they try to embody a more "bad boy" persona because being nice and sweet rendered poor results. Female psychology is rocket science for a lot of men so I'd love to hear your expanded perspective of this phenomenon.
You don't have to test someone to love then for who they are. A person's character tends to be self-affirming through experience and, if you're not delusional, through listening. Obviously there's a net zero of necessary provisions, but those provisions tends to naturally gravitate towards someone to preserve their character. Money and character preservation tends to be simultaneous. And so "providing" is a moot point, and so is the feminine expectation for a "good provider" is actually misplaced. The need for a "good provider" is actually a clue of a desperate woman clawing at whoever is near to avoid drowning, and that type of woman is a user and an abuser and isn't partner material and tends to hide behind "gender roles' as an excuse. The fact is, whether women have more of a burden than men, it doesn't matter in the context of who has reliable character and who does not. The actual burden that people share is what I have to offer, rather than what I won't put up with, because if I'm aware of what I have to offer, then I can expect he same honesty in return, and if that honesty isn't forthcoming, then I already know that you're not partner material. It's the only measurable reciprocal value. Then, if you don't pull through in a role that you advertised, then it's clear whether you measure up or not. And this also has to be in the context of "none of your business" when dating, and that means that the natural reciprocity is discovered through fun and rhythm, and not always in direct conversation. Me and Jamie had fallen in love with the offering of "I can't houseclean but I can survive and charm room for us in the community," and "I can't work out my problems due to the sickness of narcissism, but I also have a good map of ideas, and a Fung Shui professional path." That honesty of love is related to movement, not settling down. There are also two things that qualify us as, in a way, being together. I resolved to learn housecleaning, and she apparently resolved to dissolve her narcissistic dependency on others and learn social skills, because, if we didn't, then we'd be destined to float around forever aimlessly. This is also responsible for our sexual fasting, sadly. Because of my inability to houseclean one woman who depended on me for help, I didn't feel right in fucking her, or vice versa, she never fucked me even though I asked her too, and I never pressured her, I only brought it up whimsically, because I couldn't house clean and my dependency on her made that a position where I would've taken advantage if I did, but I didn't. In the same way, if me and Jamie had actually had sex, and we didn't, it would've interfered with our mutual growth and recovery of some material sanity that would allow us to be dateable again. If sex is on the table, it can't be "sex for rent." Not in my world, anyway, although that is probably true of some people, and I don't talk to people like that. This is the difference between sex for rent, and sex due to love. And yes, I was attracted to you, Jamie, even though you didn't have any obvious sexy quality about you, because of how passionate and strong you were and how close we were in spirit. That caused me to want to find comfort in your arms and in your bed, but it never happened. So, when people complain about wanting to be loved for who they are and not for what they can provide, they want the type of sex that's spontaneous and comforting. Because of my trajectory as a teenager and in my early twenties towards fatherhood in an evolutionary sense, I know what it's like to be fuckable, and it doesn't require pressure or sex for rent type of situations, and that's the problem with MGTOW types, if you look at a lot of their apparently "reasonable" complaints, it always amounts to wanting sex for rent, and most of those guys can't seem to understand what they have to offer. Because the money is for your character, not for a woman's body. Very simply, those guys don't want to put up with users and abusers because they have a lot of money, but that's not how this works. The fact is, being a user and an emotional abuser is a right of passage for maturity. I used to be one, and so did most of the women that I've become friends for life had been at one point. I gave money to people more mature than me, just so they'd talk to me and I'd learn how to act in front of people. I have permanent memories of empathic and social conversations that have kept me in good character long after those experiences. He was a user and an abuser, and I wanted to be used and abused. It's not a sustainable psychological condition, Eventually I took mushrooms and called him out on it like it was a bad thing, or like it wasn't what I bargained for, when it clearly was. But I didn't shif the wheel and I wasn't dangerous. But one conversation that we had about someone else "Enrique's the user! You don't know them at all. They're cool people. If they have weed they'll smoke it with you, and if I grew up with nothing I'd probably be the same way." It was in that moment that strength and empathy was permanently associated together in my mind in how to have quality conversations. Skyla had stolen from me and welched on her word and had embarrassing conversations of how "pathetic" it was that I "adored" her with her lesbian partner. And yet, the soul wisdom of sexual energy as a counterbalance to women who used guilt to extract money based entitlement from a position of bitterness lost credibility with me, and the secret love between me and her became more apparent, but had to be earned over time. Her initial disdain for me was genuine, and was just as genuine as her love. Even though I was a loser at the time due to my emotional problems, I wasn't a fool. I could see it happening as it was happening, and I confronted her about it, and that conversation put a period on that type of bleeding behavior. "Bleeding" is what I would call "use and abuse" that has no end. And neither me or Skyla ever crossed the line, sexually, at that time anyway. The time paradox is something that I discovered later, but that was more her doing than mine. When she met me in the future, she was still in that romantic triangle, but the me she found regarded that as "ancient history." And it's not like I found that "flattering" in any way, that was just her sexually compulsive nature, but it was the only way for her to transmit the sexual wisdom and intuitively robotic sexual responses women tend to have in response to a man who cares for her, whether that's making eggs or caring for her in some way when she least expects it. That's the zero point when a female sex addict tends to not think and just devote herself to that person, whether that person is a good partner for her or not. Some women don't know how to be responsible in that regard, and so rather than think, such women tend to only focus on making babies while making the man responsible for everything in terms of providing, and that's the wrong focus. If you're a good partner, you shouldn't only be involved with someone just to have kids to fill that empty hole in your soul. That's a woman with no dating skills because her priorities are misplaced. The traditional roles do exist for a reason, but not because they should be planned for, because evolution doesn't require that type of imposition in romantic terms. The fact that we can even discuss this means that there are good reasons to reject this imposition. Baby machines and sperm donors aren't datable, and the only alternative is to be a person and knowing what relationship qualities that are part of the package, because reliability is important, but if there's an imbalance, then sex is off the table. That makes sex about wanting to fuck, and has nothing to do with sex for rent or for baby anchors. Someone would have to love you for your character and your self-awareness that allows for fair relationships. And if you're fuckable, then you'd know it. The mutual lust and anticipation and playfulness would be obvious and transparent, but you wouldn't have to guess, just be a gentleman or woman, and the right sex will happen at the right time. What the MGTOW thing seems to me is ironic proof of Dave Chappelle's statement, "if you're beautiful, it's obvious. People let you know that you're beautiful. But if you're ugly, you gotta figure that shit out for yourself." That's the sad truth.
Jennifer. I think we’re talking perfectly normal. This ding-dong fear you say creeps up? Do other people have this? I mean, let me get this straight. You’re sitting there with pleasant thoughts, imagining this terrific man, and then, if the expression on your face is an indication, other thoughts or different thoughts come along that you feel are unacceptable and, should be unacceptable because you’ve tried them. Ding dong thoughts. Now, no way do I believe that’s your husband. He really doesn’t belong here. If I was a better guy like him, I wouldn’t need to say that. But there you were, a beautiful woman with beautiful thoughts, and then what? The thoughts went somewhere. Where did they go?
"as old as I am" believe me if I manage to get a wife as hot as you are at your age, with a house like you have with land and my own grown veg I will die a happy man. Yeah a bit of a simpy comment which is rare from me but I'm seriously impressed. As for the video I did the "friend test" in 2012; where you drop off the earth and wait to see who reaches out...no one did LOL so I moved to the other end of the country but didn't bother making new friends. Just me and my dog and never been happier, bit lonely sometimes but the grass is always greener and I'm happy with my grass in life. My deep down self is quiet and peaceful and solitudal. In this world of degeneracy it's nice to just retreat within.
If you lived out west like I do you would find that nobody cares about things like that the Eastern mentality has a far-reaching effect you're partially affected by it but the farther west you go it disappears
Just so u know I like hairy girls :) Tom Cruise said once in an interview, "What is a normal childhood?" I always thought that was pretty much right, normal is whatever you are used to, good, bad, or ugly! Its a human thing......Love the show:)
Relaxation. Rest. Integrity. That's me. Let's say, back in the Ancient Greek times the statues did in fact talk and were in fact animated as portrayed in the movie "Perseus." That would probably be why the Hebrews weren't allowed to have such spiritual idols. The glamour and fear and fetish would've prevented them from knowing right from wrong. But what about other scenarios? Today, the talking statue trick doesn't really work anymore. The infrastructure is strong enough so that the timing that used to need to be mediated by gods can be mitigated by just being an ordinary citizen. The one exception is that I bought a Venus statue, and what she did for me was animate the statue and gave me herself without having to fuck me. Her ethic is rest. My social skills are based on relief. That's why me and Venus fell in love. Our ethics harmonize perfectly. Outside of that, I have several other images and icons that help me to be myself logically. One transmission of love and rest when I needed it most and then I just became my own temple, while staying connected to reality through my own social skills of relief while she instructs me to take my time and relax for the sake of my integrity. Relaxation. Rest. Integrity. That's me. Oh and banter. Don't forget banter. Bantering with my friends is my favorite thing to do in the whole world.
I was on a date with a chic that just seemed far too 'agreeable'. It made me not trust her and I self-sabotaged the date assuming she was full of shit. That was probably two years ago and I'm just now realizing that might have been a pretty dumb idea...
Friends come and go, took me years to learn that. But I'll take quality over quantity any day.
Lost all life long friends......all dysfunctional and wanted me to stay with them in the pit.
very well spoken!
"Stay Strong, Chase Excellence Brothers."
She deserves more subscribers. Nothing groundbreaking, but very down to earth. She calls a spade a spade, while sowing wisdom. Her thoughts can plant a seed, hopefully, in young people's minds...
... And I'm out of gardening puns. End comment.
She is a grifter from way back. She use to sell "red-pill". Then she got married. Now she just wants attention. She is good at what she does.
i think you can come up with more. you just need to dig deeper
She has a hundred fukking thousand subscribers. That’s a lot. (I don’t give a shit about other channels)
The hard lesson to learn when I was young, is that people come and go in out out of your life no matter how I act, dress or cut my hair. The older I get easier it is to except when people move on.
Definitely one way to filter out people who you believed were your "real" friends 😅. For me (Not at work) I casually mentioned to some friends that in retrospect "Orange Man" did a good job as President 😂. I didn't vote for him then but I would now. As a friend filter it worked great. A few less friends after however those that continued to be my friend I knew were genuine. Real friends never abandon you regardless of some of your opinions 😊
You're lucky you didn't lose family. It's not at all unusual. There was a time where commonality meant more than difference. Not today.
I may be wrong Moleski but you seem to be having an awakening. Best of luck on the Journey 👍🏻
Ready for the end of this awakening journey. I'm over it.
Starting out poor in life is a good start to life. Look how you turned out. Such a Hun. Love your channel ❤
I make decisions based on how any choice is contentment or anti-contentment, and I always choose contentment.
I love you. Keep being you.
Going through an infatuation high phase are we ? ❤
You could be a great talk radio host. Very comforting style to your speaking voice.
Jennifer, you are on doubly one of the most creative and articulate speakers of the 21st-century! I watch your videos with amazement. I have absolutely no idea how you can whimsically create the most impactful antidotes. You truly are an amazing creation. And we thank you. You are wise beyond your years. Coming from a 71 year old man.😁 0:48
Sideburns🤣🤣I remember a guy making fun of mine too🤣🤣Better to have extra hair and remove it than not having any at all.
As a man who began going bald in his 20s, I second this notion.
I probably don't remember my past life as Julius Caesar, even thought that's who I am, probably because it was too frightening to remember. But I remember the emotional politics, and the best feelings of being Caesar.
The nature of Roses, when I talked to a gardener, is that all other plants in the gardening world are either indoor or outdoor plants, but Roses can be either indoor or outdoor plants.
Roses are an anchor to the outside economic system. I learned this from my experience in gardening and from my experience in working at Schlotzky's.
I would have filled the ice with eight buckets of ice, and it always had ice stuck in the top, and a customer would always complain that the ice was empty, and I'd always say that it wasn't, and I'd always be right, and I'd take a spoon and knock some of the ice down, and then I'd put two buckets of ice in the machine.
Roses are the same way. I asked the gardener when the roses would sell, and they were 32 dollars, and that they'd sell in two months in predictable fashion.
That's the relevance of evolution to the economy and capitalism.
The indoor and outdoor plants mark the path, and roses guide the path with a road or with a light house or a crow's nest.
The logic of evolution means that there's no "undoing" or "toppling" of capitalism.
Capitalism is here to stay forever. The only bitterness that comes from communists, perhaps like you Jamie, is that you tried to be a Lantana but you're actually a rose.
Try as you might, a rose can't be a daisy.
Ice and Roses, and no fire in sight.
People now know that t.v. shows had followed my timing, and tied the shows to things that were mundane and specifically sentimental to me.
My daughter has had a thing for coloring her hair, but the Dark Knight was made before she was born, but I could see her future when that movie had been released.
I only had one wardrobe request when it came to the joker. People said that they could see auras, and I asked this one gentleman what aura I had, and he said "green." I asked him what that meant, and he said "fun loving."
So asked that the Joker's hair be colored as green, so that my daughter would have a clue on how to be like me.
She'd have to adopt my moral code of choosing a good life and avoiding a bad life, and that means adopting the moral code of villains and heroes while choosing to emulate the best of people while not adopting the faults of people she might admire.
And no good society is possible unless people are allowed to choose good things and avoid bad things.
I choose good choices and avoid bad choices. That's my moral code.
And the point of the Dark Knight is that moral choices are always clear, it's just the psychological bullshit that causes people to assume that life is more grey than it actually is.
Life is more cut and dry than people would like to admit, because to acknowledge that would cause people to have to choose to be strong rather than weak, considerate rather than self-absorbed, and society has to have people capable of that type of cut and dry moral code.
I'm raising my daughter to be a good person, not my "best friend."
I'm only best friends with people my own age.
My issue with female parenting is that some women became corrupted by money and somehow thought that being a parent meant being "best friends" with their children and forgot how to be parents.
For years and years, I believed everything mother told me. Once I was out of the house i learned through life's many lessons that my mother was often incorrect of the advice / rules that she laid before my sister and I through much embarrassment i learned that my mother was flawed. My father never corrected my mother on any of her rules or bad advice until after my mother had passed. I was left with a world that had more questions than answers. I had to start again with what my four-letter words were. And at the age of 52 its hard to start again,
ive been tossing friends for three years . if theyre not returning the generosity and the kindness -- kick those cokesackers to the curb .
Thank you for keeping me company while I had to deal with some work issues tonight. I was never comfortable being social. I can track it down to insecurities that I got drilled into my head by my dad. Then just could never shed completely. There some other things but minor at best.
I would have, gladly, if you hadn't put the choice on me to reject you or accept you as a friend. Your character was none of my business, until your character threatened to be a bowling ball through my life and the life of everyone that I love. Then your journey wasn't so personal anymore. Your character was evaluated for good reason. And, because you have earned my respect, I owed you a copy of my private analysis so that you can be a better person. Ordinarily, I wouldn't provide my private thoughts to someone I could afford to just ignore or give the cold shoulder too. I just wouldn't call them anymore. No explanation. But Jamie, the fact that I provided you with my private character report of your character should have demonstrated how much you've earned my respect. A fair critique is redemptive. And this is empathy, from my perspective. When I was horrible at social skills, and in San Diego, ordinary language meant that people either liked you or avoided you without any regard for your feelings, meant that I smiled when I was told a critical truth that I already knew, and I hated it when I was praised for a "skill" that I knew was false. I'm a good guitar player now, but I was a shitty guitar player when I was 17. And I hated it when people complimented me on my "good" guitar playing. I learned how to be good through practice, and praise wasn't helpful. If you've ever been able to contrast praise with respect and/or genuine appreciation, you'd understand how worthless praise is. I don't have to obsess on what people are thinking, because I know what to look for in my relationship with people. Imagine that the torment of a narcissist is someone who constantly tries to break through one door, when there are two real doors right next to it and you could've ended your torment any time you wanted to.
How sad would that be? Not to mention embarrassing. That everyone knew that hose two doors were there, and watched you beat your head against a wall without actually saying anything to you.
That's what happens if people don't like you. I keep finding the right doors personally.
That's how I know people like me. I don't care what people think because, typically, I already know what people are thinking. Not because of any "psychic" shit, but because I understand the algorithm of respect and appreciation in the human mind as a universal brain mechanism, regardless of gender, race or creed, and people tend to value that more than any astrological "reason" anyone could provide. So yes, Jamie, I gave you the keys to the astrology kingdom because you worked hard and you earned it, so you don't have to be embarrassed.
It was the only door you could afford, and that was consistent with being a good parent no matter what anyone else thought.
So yes, I do love you. And I do respect you.
The only reason I've been hard on you is because compatibility was the issue, not love or respect. And that hard path is the path you had.
I can only be as good to you as what you can provide me to work with in terms of your character and wisdom and self awareness.
That's why I only help people that I can afford to respect.
And I have the deepest respect for you Jamie. I can give a greater compliment than that. Your path was already hard Jamie, and I'm sorry about that, but that wasn't me who did that to you.
Your life just genuinely sucked, and it wasn't anyone's fault. But you wanted the astrology key necklace, and I gave you what you wanted most, and that's why you love me back.
Give a woman the means to be free forever and she'll love you forever. That's my secret gift with women.
Love me or hate me but I am going to always be "me".
What makes a bachelor an “ eligible “ bachelor ? 🤷♂️
Jennifer, you make me updet. Upset because I watched your whole video (as always) and just can't stop & ignore your thoughts. Nope. Can't do it. ❤U 😊
Bloody fantastic chat, Jennifer. Embracing ourselves. Embracing uniqueness. Definitely blessing/curse. But worth the shifts.
Love your discussions and your home !! Beautiful
i wear black and white to stand out ,have slowed my walk,and worked tirelessly on my attractive body language,old freinds do not like it, i am a massive hit with women now,which was my motivation. great channel and info
I learned pretty much all the four letter words in grade 3 in elementary school. We may not know what they really mean, but we had them down by grade 3.
Hi JM
An awesome speech and thoughts!
Thank you for your personal experiences that you describe.
What you are talking about is quite comprehensive and has great depth when it comes to finding one's identity through oneself and the surroundings!
Understanding yourself and other people is a steep hill, but it is worth climbing and make the best effort to learn along the way to get and give!
Yes it is !
You're great. Thanks for posting! You've made a difference.
JMo, You so Crazy! As a Family "Four Letter Word" for ME goes, it was probably OBEY. In the Late 60s and early 70s the Societal Message to Parents in Central NYS was, "Control Your Children". Yes, there was Corporal Punishment in Elementary School. My Military Service was an easy 20 year slog for me... I enjoyed this interlude. You're a Deep Thinker, sometimes Brooding, but you've Humility. Thank you for the Quality of your Content. Continue to March. ✌
Thank you, Jennifer. This was extremely helpful.
I love to hear the things you have to say,thank you❤
I like this woman!
🌞🌞🌞 Thank you
Perspective is real
One thing about Europeans which I love is how well they dress.
I love it!
I used to dress really well, always. Even when casual I dressed well.
Now...oooh, how times have changed.
I look worse (literally) than most homeless people (really!)
All of my clothes have either glue, paint, burn marks, worn holes, and or bleach stains in them.
Dressing well rocks. Go for it!
(you're nuts for thinking you'd lose friends...what kind of friend wouldn't like it, if they do, screw them!)
It’s partly the course of being a woman, men typically don’t judge each other like that.
Jennifer.... all I can say is I'm a little jelly of your hubby...the lucky sucker (lol all good). I know good and well you're a joy to be near, and a funny one too! I could use one of you!
As for your request....You struck a personal nerve with the word "boring".
If us four kids sat around back in the day saying "I'm bored" with that whiney tone...... you could feel Dads neck tighten up. Ha!
Its a term I do not use nor employ or allow way too many decades later with a grown son. He is never bored...its amazing!!! Always busy doing something with his mind and hands! Imagine the possibilities!! lol
First, dont even use the word, second, if you do, well get ready because you're about to NOT be bored!! I promise!! Ha!
Ya there's always chores or even fun things to do, honestly life is just to short to ever ever be so superficial as to claim "boredom". Drives me crazy! lol
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If someone asks you out, but you only offer a professional relationship, then even a casual friendship would be impossible. I've seen some people who confused the two types of relationships in a library type situation, where the professional interest was over, but he thought the friendship was real.
When I was at an antique store, she let her love feelings overwhelm her and she tried to talk to me like I was her child, so I said that I wouldn't go back there because I didn';t like that she talked to me like that. And she said "well I don't like" but there was nothing else to say. It wasn't a negotiation. I was over that place at that time, and she wasn't.
But you can't claim that someone is being a hypocrite just by leaving. Hypocrisy is only an issue if someone was "accusing," but just reporting what I didn't want and leaving took the weight out of whatever she was going to say. I could tell that she felt bad about it, and I did too, but I was more used to the break up conversation at that point than she was. The situation just tapped into my already existing overwhelming sense of loneliness and depression so that there wasn't any heart to break in that moment. If I had a heart, it was frozen solid.
That being said, people who are users and abusers tend to be isolated in professional settings where they can't piss on innocent people just trying to mature. So, when you see someone in a store who looks very personable who you might think is a "real catch," what you actually are seeing is the fact that they probably pissed all over the loves of their lives and had to accept a love prison so as to protect the love part of society from their personality defects.
It's not that the woman that you have a crush on in that retail store isn't interested in you, it's that she is incapable of loving you back, and the professionalism holds the worst part of her character in check, and she knows that she can't love you back.
I'm the only reformed "user" though I've never abused anyone, and I guess that's what makes me different. I lack the narcissistic traits of ideas being more important than relationship trait that tends to isolate others from ever loving again. I have the skills that, at the right moment, one woman was just melted enough to feel something for me, and she tried to claim me and couldn't.
And that was really sad, but it was hopeful too, because her heart melted just enough to love me and to feel the sting of rejection, and that's a hopeful thing. That means that someone like her is eligible for love parole.
The other lesson though is that shoppers can spend their money how they want, or they'll shop elsewhere, and so the best romance isn't found with coworkers with coworkers, or coworkers with customers, it's with two free will customers who can negotiate honestly with each other as we spend our money however we want.
The store has it's own personality apart from people, so just because I can get along with someone as a coworker, it doesn't mean that I'd get along with them as a friend or as a lover.
As a retail worker in customer service, I might help you find your product, but my professional sense of consideration and courtesy is only a product of professional training, and the selfish sense of consideration, which is sharing pleasure, is an entirely different quality.
The fact is that for as far as me and Jamie were concerned, none of the other guys deserved to be with her because they mixed professional expectations, like when to be inside or outside which is more like someone who's employed as an inhouse housekeeper, not the same thing as a lover who one would date.
Of all the guys that were undatable that she and I hung out with, I was the only dateable person that she had access too, whereas the others thought that providing her shelter meant that she was their girlfriend, when, in fact, she was just their employee. The close type of friendship that I'm suggesting isn't for coworker dynamics and it isn't about quid quo pro.
Friendship is about sharing pleasure more than it's about sharing chores. As soon as choores became the thing, y'all stopped being friends and just became coworkers, and it didn't work out because y'all just wanted to fuck the housekeeper, and you couldn't separate business from pleasure. Pleasure means not making her do the dishes all the time, and to let things be casual and messy and unorganized. Being in love is when two people don't have anything else to do but have fun together, and learning how to share together.
But believe me, when the professionalism thing and money became your primary love, I was planning my exit from your life right then and there, because I wasn't going to be that guy who kept showing up to the party and couldn't tell when the party was over.
And, to some degree, your safe space of money, though it was helpful to me, caused me to think, fairly or not, that you just didn't have the courage or the character to love or to take a chance with love. There was always some bullshit excuse between someone you love and your desire for something more.
, ll the while you seem to be slowly losing your loving vibe while staying in your safe space, while using the example of some foolish guys who followed you around as an excuse to be a coward in relationship to love.
The problem was you, Jamie. Some guys are foolish, but you'll always be a coward in relationship to love if you keep using that as an excuse to stay in your professional safe space, and no matter how much I compensate by focusing on how much I appreciate and feel grateful for everything you've done for me, I can't ever respect a person who betrays themselves just to be a compassionate person.
You and I both know that, and my sense of contempt for your inability to love is why I'm always looking for the exit whenever I see you.
From my perspective, you'll always be busy staying safe and I'll always be busy enjoying life, and as much as I love and admire you, you'll always look like a sucker to me for wanting to be seen as a compassionate person rather than living life to the fullest.
Carpe Deum! I do my best to have a good day today!
The mom stories make me cry.
Personally I like body hair on a woman, shows sexual maturity, confidence in self, and not conforming to social pressures. I've also found that there's a certain bit of brutal honesty in a woman that I appreciate when she's letting herself be instead of making herself into a "Barbie". Just my $0.02 cents worth of opinion.
This is lighting me up!
Some may wonder why I posted this in the same time that I posted the one about cheating. It's that life is about rolling the dice and hoping for the best, and are you defined by what someone else does, or by how you live your life? Either way, I don't owe anyone anything who doesn't have a moral compass or a moral center. Just because I'm selfish doesn't mean that I'm wrong. Sometimes the selfish bastard is right.
Slave Only Dreams To Be King - TH-cam
I'm not a slave because I dream to be free. Being free is superior to king. I'm even superior to the king of kings when I dream to be free and he only dreams to be king.
It's been a long time since I seen you. Always nice to see ya.
This is the first video I watched all the way through that was over 30 minutes in a long time.
I feel fear but I'm not afraid of anything. I have no fixed fear point. No fear coordinates. It's just a feeling to me. And I feed off of the lies that people tell about themselves. It's an easy ride to truth.
You live in paradise. Quiet solitude, wonderful views of nature where ever you look. You are a lucky, and insightful, woman.
You sure can talk Jenny 😉 😅
What kind of bizarre ass friends would drop you because you wear nice clothes.
Jealous ones.
Jennifer, I watched two different channels of these women that make 16 century the 18th century clothing and they wear it every day. And the hats that they wear are stunning with the feathers and all.
I feel you. The last time I saw a friend of mine it was 4 years ago. After that it's just been clones, lookalikes and innuendos, but she's been a no show and I'll probably never see her again.
Some people are just temporary.
And here's the truth about females. Women tend to use expectancy to control a man and then use expectancy as an excuse to break up with someone.
But I'm not expectant naturally, and so she couldn't control me, and so that's why it was never going to work out. And it's ok. It's like what Jerry Seinfeld said, 99.99 percent of everyone is undatable anyway. It's like she didn't want to date because she wanted an undatable guy and I'm datable.
And why would she want an undatable guy? Because if she was the cool one, then I'd be the comfortable guy that never leaves while she could fuck and hang out with whoever while I would've stayed home waiting around like an idiot. It's better to be single.
Anytime i want to get someone out of my life.. I bring up their actions that were unacceptable and swept under the rug by them . The variable standard principle is completely acceptable to most of murikkan society. Ok for me but not for you kinda thing... Sooo after a while when i grow tired of their duplicity i call them out and their feelings get hurt so bad because i offended them. Simply reminding them of their previous behaviour.... Nicely of course, most of the time anyway...
.I have been told I have many friends. Never met them... I know they are there...
They appreciate the fact they are still alive.... There is something about the truth that sends chills down the spine.
Hey Jennifer, nice outfit, nice meower, nice story 🙂
This goes to your point about when one takes their life by the horns and chases their dreams the ones you love won’t come to your house warming party. People are jealous and judgmental because they don’t want you to change. Maybe that’s why you were afraid to start dressing better..
My one piece of advice for parents:
I had advise that when holding a baby that I should hold her by the head.
What I took that to mean is that if I can take soulful energy from raising a child, then I don't need any sexual energy from my offspring.
And one lesson that I learned from falling in love that platonically applies to parenting too, is that the child has to grow with the parent, not against the parent. Sometimes one can outmaneuver a parent so as to not be smothered by an overprotective parent though.
A child and a parent have to live in the same world of consideration, even if we all have private worlds where we can be ourselves, we all have to share a public sphere too.
Children are a burden. That's just what they are. They don't have the resources to take care of themselves, and they don't have the wisdom or strength to live on their own.
That's why we raise children to be adults.. People shouldn't pressure adults to be children. That's abuse and unnecessary.
So let's not put pressure on each other. That makes more sense than the political fake garbage games people had been playing.
And it's better than women putting the entire burden of parenting on the father so that females can do what they please. Responsibility is only honest if it's shared.
And parenting isn't about money. It's about character first, and money second. Money does matter, but's second in priority to character and respect.
The problem recently is that parents abandoned all responsibility for their kids and shat all over society, and that's not cool.
The reason for that is people prioritized money more than character, and that's the fault of the parents, and the god of money for placing that burden on others instead of on the parents.
Do the video on why you didn't like a guy that would treat you well. I've heard it explained by others many times but I can't wrap my mind around why. I'm 52 and I've never had negative feelings or been disinterested when a woman has treated me well. It usually has the opposite effect from something negative.
A pure life can have multiple directions. I love one woman here who expresses a part of me, and another woman there who expresses a completely different part of me that's also a non-negotiable part of me. But a primary person is one or the other, even if I'll love them both forever. That means that, chaotically, I'm in a gender fluid situation where even though I'm a heterosexual male, the women are playing the traditional male role and I have to wait for the right woman to ask me out, and to tell me that "I like you, do you want to hang out?" unless the situation is an undeniable scenario where it's up to me to ask her out.
It's the light version of sharks with a small cut, but this one is fun, not painful. Because everyone's a winner in this case because the good habits means that even if you don't end up with the person you want, your life will improve either way.
why do i listen to you, YOU ARE ALWAY BRILLIANT and i will think about what you have spoken of for a week.....
Keep talking, i do listen. i have to, i'm not married to you. that is why my girl friend never married me, i have to listen. LOVE LOVE LOVE her
While watching yesterday's videos, I was going to call you Auntie Jenny, but, then I had to remind myself that I am 10+ years older than you. 😂
Jamie, your problem is that you're willing to lie to yourself about anything just to avoid feeling emotionally empty.
Often this lying to yourself aspect is trying to pretend that the new relationship your ex isn't "real" and that your connection "is."
A secure person knows that a person can have many fulfilling relationships. That's what a person with a healthy psyche understands and that's reflected in patience, humility, love, affection and understanding.
The opposite of that is the tendency to fill your cup with any type of bullshit to make it feel like what you have is "real" and that what they have is "fake."
How this relates to the general collective is that Jamie had been using that emptiness avoidance to influence others to behave in ways to keep me from her soul space and to keep from feeling empty with false friendship and an illusion of "purpose."
You can keep trying to be that way Jamie, and continue being the jerk, or you can let me go and take responsibility for the fact that it's not anyone's job to keep you from feeling empty.
That's between us, whatever "us" happens to be, and your emotional life absent real life communication is just your responsibility, not mine.
I've been wanting to leave and you've been trying to keep me from leaving, and you haven't been fair to anyone Jamie for bringing everyone into our personal garbage.
But I get it, you only care about "fairness" when it's convenient, because, maybe, you're not a real "libra" whatever the fuck that is.
Jennifer, I love the front yard! Is that your handiwork? (the gardening)
Yeah, I want to hear this story about how you rejected men that treated you good.
Love is anxiety. Love is suffering. Life is suffering. Attachment is suffering. In the end we lose everything. In the end nothing matters. Drop the character that you are playing and Just be you. Live for today. Tomorrow does not exist. Remember, it’s just a ride…. Bill Hicks
I have a Doberman Pincher also it's a best dog , your content is very interesting as well
You dont lose friends.. Jenn.. 😇
Wow
we need more footage of Zipper
What kind of mic is that? It sounds good.
The challenge to every skeptic. Some things are true even if you want it to be true. That's the love spot.
And if Dr. Peterson identifies as a "skeptic," then it would mean that love is something he couldn't identify, even if he was looking right at it.
That's a tough critique, but it's true.
Sometimes things are true even though I want it to be true, and the choice has nothing to do with finding the truth, but accepting or rejecting the truth. And so when love is present to the skeptic, it's up to the skeptic to change, not the lover.
Sometimes something is true even though I want it to be true.
Or perhaps "conservative" is just code for "soulless statue incapable of love?"
Nice house.
Take me as I am or keep walking. I pretend for no one.
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Yer a wizard, Harry.
Ok for the record I'm 40 years old I don't know where to start ... I'm also an alcoholic 'JUST YOU YOU CAN DISREGARD MY THOUGHTS"
nobody comes out of childhood without trauma .
God is living a human life thru us each and every time a different one . That is why we have personalities that don't agree with the decisions of other human beings .
I Like you I really do ; and what I have to say is not to hurt you in any way .
Please forgive my grammar I'm an alien ( from a different country ) .
we are trying to become different and our parents try to inculcate what they think they know . Many parents think they know better but in reality the world in which they grew no longer exist . some of their wisdoms does have a good effect and it would help you but , we are entirely trying to be different .
the things that limit us is believing in the opinion of others but in reality : WE WANT WHAT WE WANT .
yes we are social especies and we determine what rules to bend in contrast to what will allow us to let us be who we want to become .
the more you practice this the lonelier you become .
Our intelligence ( God given ) finds patterns and then we feel that they are boring so we try to become something else ... because life cannot be like that ! who that F wants to live a perfect life? .
Death it's what is beautiful about life but for as long as you only exist trying to survive ; you are just another creature .
do you know what Psychopaths and CEOs have in common ?
in the Bible I think there is a text that says something along the lines of ( obviously paraphrasing ) ... " to win the world and to lose your soul ".
Point is for as long as you keep on trying to fit in , you are lost .
according to me I'm a child who was sexually abused , exploited , humiliated , and robbed of all dignity .
But God is living a life thru me so now we know what happens .
think of what was Adam's task after he ate the fruit and ask me what do I think .
is not History or at least I like to think so !
people who ascend they get to see this and understand it and then we are left with religion and as much as I hate religion it is totally necessary .
ok you have been served !
wish you the best you are a beautiful human being and thanks for your VIDEO
Jennifer, this is where most females are wrong in a very human way without all that psychological bullshit and complicated philosophy and long winded excuse or Jungian nonsense about "the shadow" or "social responsibilities" or whatever. I feel that the longer the excuse, the more certain I am that person is in denial and not facing life responsibly. That's not always the case, but when it comes to basic life skills, it definitely is. Like the difference between friends, lovers and acquaintances and strangers. Recognizing the difference between these types of relationships in everyday life is the core of social skills. That being said, this is why a lot of females might lack that.
I don't think most females know the difference, because for most females,, either your a fellow female, or gay, or a potential lover, and somehow females seem to confuse coworkers and customers with "friendship."
So from my perspective, this is a video about a female being in denial about who she loves for the sake of convenience and invented a lot of complicated terminology to avoid facing her feelings or taking responsibility for who she might love.
That's the part where I feel females cheat themselves out of love with an endless series of excuses. If you don't know the difference between a friend, a lover, and an acquaintance, then you don't know how to live. These are clear cut and dry concepts that don't require long winded astrological lessons to intuit.
Beautiful lady love your videos
Second! 🙂
I might say that a person has to show up, but that was only to keep her out of the perverse vein and to keep her in the integrity vein.
But no matter what happened, no one is entitled to a reunion. It has to be something that both want without any pressure.
Being a lover isn't being a parent. I only want to be a good parent, but I never wanted to be a parent.
You see, people who want to be parents seem to displace their disappointed love live expectations of friendships onto their children, and confused that perverse displacement as "parenting."
Sometimes not caring about your child is good parenting. Children have to learn how to govern their own emotions, and that's why children should be seen and not heard.
The ears are an erotic center of the brain. And so trying to be attentive and a good listener for a child is a pathway to perversion, and that type of perversion isn't cute. It's wrong.
That type of attention is meant for a lover, not a child.
I was going through the incel world, and there was some people who just didn't seem to understand that, and some seemed to wonder "why I was so mean," when I was clearly being responsible.
Boundaries and consent means that I have a relationship with my daughter's legal guardian, and I stay reasonable and respectful, and that my daughter's guardian's sense of structure is more important than my daughter's feelings. Many lessons in life are chaotic, and so being a parent means allowing life to bring the lessons to my daughter that I can't plan for. I can just feel the lessons from my soul that I can discern is good for my daughter, even though others in that same situation might've thought that she was "cruel," or that I was "uncaring," but trying to be someone's best friend who is a child is what sexual predators and deviants tend to do, not respectful people who actually know how to be good parents.
That's why I support the police in breaking up human trafficking so that society can be protected from such perversion.
What I want is to live a good example for my daughter, so that she can believe that life is worthwhile.
The only person I can afford to want to be with is a lover, and parenting is a different world, and since I'm a human being I have to live in both worlds. I relate to different people differently depending on the relationship.
Parents model the real world for their children, or that's what they're supposed to do, and hope that the children will pick up on the lessons rather than have everything explained to them.
That's how I was raised. I provided insights and arm floaties for my daughter from the incel world, because if I didn't, then no one would've helped me.
But I made sure that my daughter is god centered in her school band so that sexual predators can't groom her.
Obviously that wouldn't always work, and so my job as a parent has been to influence my daughter to love being talented more than me or anyone else. That would allow her to brush off anyone who doesn't understand that on her own.
My philosophy on parenting is that to keep my daughter safe, I had to teach her that it's better to be talented than loved.
So when a potential lover in my life found me and insulted my talent just so that she could be a world famous scientist, I knew that if I was to choose her then I would've betrayed my daughter, so she wasn't right for me.
So, as a role model for my daughter, I would rather be talented than to have someone make me feel "less empty."
If that were me, then I would've been a bad parent.
That family four letter word of boring may have been a fear or filter but you are truthfully anything but boring. I find myself laughing sometimes at your delivery timing and yet conversational approach while watching you flitter around with distracting things and searching for just the right words to say. You really dig deep to say your mind. Your reflection and introspection plus ability to bring it out in conversation is very unique. Would love to take a peek at the interaction between you and your husband. Have you ever thought of introducing him on a video or two to let us see the kind of man you are attracted to and he you? It would be interesting to see a little interaction between the two of you. I hope you treasure each other!
Contentment.
It's very simple why a woman tends to have a hard time accepting it if a person tries to treat a woman well, and it's because a woman has complex responsibilities, and indifference is a better way to get to know a woman, so that your not trying to make a woman like you by being nice to you.
That is a subtle form of patriarchal oppression, and women would rather be ignored, in my experience, so that a clear view of a proper partner can be clear.
That's a feminist analysis, but it's also credible.
I adore you. I put you on my Giant screen when I watch you. I want to give you a big hug. for a variety of reasons. Your husband must be the happiest man. Im happy for him! Thank you Jennifer, I really needed my Jennifer fix for the day. I love your genuine, authenticity. Im German, Dutch, Netherlands too. You are a HOT chick! Be advised.
Free will exists, if it's turned inward. Recognition of evolution as a means to make rational decisions, whether as an individual or as a collective with the attempt to persuade others presumes free will, otherwise one would be committing the stolen concept fallacy, which is the assumption of the truth the thing you presume to disprove.
But to be less defensive about it, the ironic thing is the "lack of free will" is the illusion, not the other way around.
That's why chaotic romance between men and women as being more important than marriage is prove of animalistic evolution.
The more you value marriage more than love, the less free will you have, and the more I value love more than marriage, the more free will I have.
"He must be kind of a dingdong if he's going to treat me well"😂
I'm not sure if you've spoken about this in the past or not but was that belief system hardwired within you because previously you hadn't been treated well by men or a masculine figure in your developmental years so that's what you came to desire and expect from men in the future?
I wonder if that sort of scenario plays a role when women reject men and their core excuse is "well he's a nice guy" or "he's just too nice"?🤔
I believe that such rejections can hardwire men to think that some women Want to be treated badly and that bad behavior towards women or bad treatment of women will earn their validation in future situations when they find a woman they want to court so they try to embody a more "bad boy" persona because being nice and sweet rendered poor results.
Female psychology is rocket science for a lot of men so I'd love to hear your expanded perspective of this phenomenon.
You don't have to test someone to love then for who they are.
A person's character tends to be self-affirming through experience and, if you're not delusional, through listening. Obviously there's a net zero of necessary provisions, but those provisions tends to naturally gravitate towards someone to preserve their character.
Money and character preservation tends to be simultaneous.
And so "providing" is a moot point, and so is the feminine expectation for a "good provider" is actually misplaced. The need for a "good provider" is actually a clue of a desperate woman clawing at whoever is near to avoid drowning, and that type of woman is a user and an abuser and isn't partner material and tends to hide behind "gender roles' as an excuse.
The fact is, whether women have more of a burden than men, it doesn't matter in the context of who has reliable character and who does not.
The actual burden that people share is what I have to offer, rather than what I won't put up with, because if I'm aware of what I have to offer, then I can expect he same honesty in return, and if that honesty isn't forthcoming, then I already know that you're not partner material. It's the only measurable reciprocal value. Then, if you don't pull through in a role that you advertised, then it's clear whether you measure up or not.
And this also has to be in the context of "none of your business" when dating, and that means that the natural reciprocity is discovered through fun and rhythm, and not always in direct conversation.
Me and Jamie had fallen in love with the offering of "I can't houseclean but I can survive and charm room for us in the community," and "I can't work out my problems due to the sickness of narcissism, but I also have a good map of ideas, and a Fung Shui professional path."
That honesty of love is related to movement, not settling down. There are also two things that qualify us as, in a way, being together. I resolved to learn housecleaning, and she apparently resolved to dissolve her narcissistic dependency on others and learn social skills, because, if we didn't, then we'd be destined to float around forever aimlessly.
This is also responsible for our sexual fasting, sadly. Because of my inability to houseclean one woman who depended on me for help, I didn't feel right in fucking her, or vice versa, she never fucked me even though I asked her too, and I never pressured her, I only brought it up whimsically, because I couldn't house clean and my dependency on her made that a position where I would've taken advantage if I did, but I didn't.
In the same way, if me and Jamie had actually had sex, and we didn't, it would've interfered with our mutual growth and recovery of some material sanity that would allow us to be dateable again.
If sex is on the table, it can't be "sex for rent." Not in my world, anyway, although that is probably true of some people, and I don't talk to people like that.
This is the difference between sex for rent, and sex due to love.
And yes, I was attracted to you, Jamie, even though you didn't have any obvious sexy quality about you, because of how passionate and strong you were and how close we were in spirit.
That caused me to want to find comfort in your arms and in your bed, but it never happened.
So, when people complain about wanting to be loved for who they are and not for what they can provide, they want the type of sex that's spontaneous and comforting. Because of my trajectory as a teenager and in my early twenties towards fatherhood in an evolutionary sense, I know what it's like to be fuckable, and it doesn't require pressure or sex for rent type of situations, and that's the problem with MGTOW types, if you look at a lot of their apparently "reasonable" complaints, it always amounts to wanting sex for rent, and most of those guys can't seem to understand what they have to offer. Because the money is for your character, not for a woman's body.
Very simply, those guys don't want to put up with users and abusers because they have a lot of money, but that's not how this works. The fact is, being a user and an emotional abuser is a right of passage for maturity. I used to be one, and so did most of the women that I've become friends for life had been at one point.
I gave money to people more mature than me, just so they'd talk to me and I'd learn how to act in front of people. I have permanent memories of empathic and social conversations that have kept me in good character long after those experiences. He was a user and an abuser, and I wanted to be used and abused. It's not a sustainable psychological condition, Eventually I took mushrooms and called him out on it like it was a bad thing, or like it wasn't what I bargained for, when it clearly was. But I didn't shif the wheel and I wasn't dangerous.
But one conversation that we had about someone else "Enrique's the user! You don't know them at all. They're cool people. If they have weed they'll smoke it with you, and if I grew up with nothing I'd probably be the same way." It was in that moment that strength and empathy was permanently associated together in my mind in how to have quality conversations.
Skyla had stolen from me and welched on her word and had embarrassing conversations of how "pathetic" it was that I "adored" her with her lesbian partner. And yet, the soul wisdom of sexual energy as a counterbalance to women who used guilt to extract money based entitlement from a position of bitterness lost credibility with me, and the secret love between me and her became more apparent, but had to be earned over time.
Her initial disdain for me was genuine, and was just as genuine as her love. Even though I was a loser at the time due to my emotional problems, I wasn't a fool. I could see it happening as it was happening, and I confronted her about it, and that conversation put a period on that type of bleeding behavior. "Bleeding" is what I would call "use and abuse" that has no end. And neither me or Skyla ever crossed the line, sexually, at that time anyway. The time paradox is something that I discovered later, but that was more her doing than mine. When she met me in the future, she was still in that romantic triangle, but the me she found regarded that as "ancient history." And it's not like I found that "flattering" in any way, that was just her sexually compulsive nature, but it was the only way for her to transmit the sexual wisdom and intuitively robotic sexual responses women tend to have in response to a man who cares for her, whether that's making eggs or caring for her in some way when she least expects it.
That's the zero point when a female sex addict tends to not think and just devote herself to that person, whether that person is a good partner for her or not. Some women don't know how to be responsible in that regard, and so rather than think, such women tend to only focus on making babies while making the man responsible for everything in terms of providing, and that's the wrong focus. If you're a good partner, you shouldn't only be involved with someone just to have kids to fill that empty hole in your soul. That's a woman with no dating skills because her priorities are misplaced. The traditional roles do exist for a reason, but not because they should be planned for, because evolution doesn't require that type of imposition in romantic terms. The fact that we can even discuss this means that there are good reasons to reject this imposition.
Baby machines and sperm donors aren't datable, and the only alternative is to be a person and knowing what relationship qualities that are part of the package, because reliability is important, but if there's an imbalance, then sex is off the table.
That makes sex about wanting to fuck, and has nothing to do with sex for rent or for baby anchors.
Someone would have to love you for your character and your self-awareness that allows for fair relationships.
And if you're fuckable, then you'd know it. The mutual lust and anticipation and playfulness would be obvious and transparent, but you wouldn't have to guess, just be a gentleman or woman, and the right sex will happen at the right time.
What the MGTOW thing seems to me is ironic proof of Dave Chappelle's statement, "if you're beautiful, it's obvious. People let you know that you're beautiful. But if you're ugly, you gotta figure that shit out for yourself."
That's the sad truth.
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Jennifer. I think we’re talking perfectly normal. This ding-dong fear you say creeps up? Do other people have this? I mean, let me get this straight. You’re sitting there with pleasant thoughts, imagining this terrific man, and then, if the expression on your face is an indication, other thoughts or different thoughts come along that you feel are unacceptable and, should be unacceptable because you’ve tried them. Ding dong thoughts. Now, no way do I believe that’s your husband. He really doesn’t belong here. If I was a better guy like him, I wouldn’t need to say that. But there you were, a beautiful woman with beautiful thoughts, and then what? The thoughts went somewhere. Where did they go?
I just came to see where you've been. Is everything okay? Hope you are well.
"as old as I am" believe me if I manage to get a wife as hot as you are at your age, with a house like you have with land and my own grown veg I will die a happy man. Yeah a bit of a simpy comment which is rare from me but I'm seriously impressed. As for the video I did the "friend test" in 2012; where you drop off the earth and wait to see who reaches out...no one did LOL so I moved to the other end of the country but didn't bother making new friends. Just me and my dog and never been happier, bit lonely sometimes but the grass is always greener and I'm happy with my grass in life. My deep down self is quiet and peaceful and solitudal. In this world of degeneracy it's nice to just retreat within.
Nobody should be dressed given the alternative.....you too, Dear!
If you lived out west like I do you would find that nobody cares about things like that the Eastern mentality has a far-reaching effect you're partially affected by it but the farther west you go it disappears
You could just model the clothes here on TH-cam like many other girls do. Kinda nice seeing girls were anything besides jeans to walmart
"When I was 38 years old"
Said by a chick who looks 28
Just so u know I like hairy girls :) Tom Cruise said once in an interview, "What is a normal childhood?" I always thought that was pretty much right, normal is whatever you are used to, good, bad, or ugly! Its a human thing......Love the show:)
classic ramblin' jenny
Banga bang, a bang, bang, bang!
I'd love to email you and tell you about my 4 letter words. You're insightful, I like listening to you. Thanks
P.S I think your sideburns are cool :)
Relaxation. Rest. Integrity.
That's me.
Let's say, back in the Ancient Greek times the statues did in fact talk and were in fact animated as portrayed in the movie "Perseus."
That would probably be why the Hebrews weren't allowed to have such spiritual idols. The glamour and fear and fetish would've prevented them from knowing right from wrong.
But what about other scenarios?
Today, the talking statue trick doesn't really work anymore. The infrastructure is strong enough so that the timing that used to need to be mediated by gods can be mitigated by just being an ordinary citizen.
The one exception is that I bought a Venus statue, and what she did for me was animate the statue and gave me herself without having to fuck me. Her ethic is rest. My social skills are based on relief.
That's why me and Venus fell in love. Our ethics harmonize perfectly.
Outside of that, I have several other images and icons that help me to be myself logically. One transmission of love and rest when I needed it most and then I just became my own temple, while staying connected to reality through my own social skills of relief while she instructs me to take my time and relax for the sake of my integrity.
Relaxation. Rest. Integrity.
That's me.
Oh and banter. Don't forget banter. Bantering with my friends is my favorite thing to do in the whole world.
Halloween was so fun in the classroom when you're a kid.
I remember all the orange and black craft paper.
I was on a date with a chic that just seemed far too 'agreeable'.
It made me not trust her and I self-sabotaged the date assuming she was full of shit.
That was probably two years ago and I'm just now realizing that might have been a pretty dumb idea...
Yes. Stupid…