Dealing with many emotions of my mom suffers from dementia 🥲
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 มี.ค. 2024
- Rough mornings are not What look forward who
to, but we have to get through them. Not every person with dementians the same but tia: this is what works tor my mom and.. Controling my own emotions first so I can care for her is the main thing. Dont worry she was happy at the end.
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She's not mad at you. She's mad at the confusion she is suffering and for the things she cannot do for herself anymore.
Any mom hopes and prays that they will have someone they love there to care for them if they need it. You are that daughter. What a blessing and inspiration you are. I helped care for my mom after she was diagnosed with cancer and only lived for a few short weeks after the diagnosis. It's something I will always remember and hold near to my heart.
After she got so mad you can tell she felt bad. Awww. You are doing a great job.
Awwe Cindy moments and frustration happens I know like your family does your still here❤❤ hope your day is great Cindy .
Once again these so called doctor should mention about taking memory vitamins oh also melatonin for sleeping and help with memory
Aw bless her heart, dementia suffers do wear their emotions on their sleeves, she may not have slept well, had a dream, shes in a locked world now that no one else can venture into, but she has the most incredible family around her to help her through. I wish all dementia suffers had this level of love & care ❤
You are a fabulous daughter. You are so great with your mom. I enjoy all of your videos.
Those words just come out. She can't help it. It's not personal,it's just her brain injury talking, that's what dementia really is, a brain injury of sorts. There are people who work in nursing homes that don't even understand that, that's why so many get abused becasue the nurse's aides think they are being mean when they are not. She is in good hands with you, it's rough but you will never regret it
Bless her she looks so vulnerable sometimes. Well done to you because you take such good care of her and she always looks nice, she has really nice clothes xxx
You do such an amazing job with her. She’s so beautiful ❤❤
Oh wow i go through 😢 the same thing with my mom a lot of times a ton of emotions in one day...have to dress feed bath everything but i wouldn't trade it for nothing gladly she still knows who i am and her kids ..but it is physically and mentally draining at times...😢❤but that lady sacrificed so much for us kids and shes my everything and i wouldn't throw her away for nothing... although the job can be tiring at times...and😅 yes she is sassy oh boy but i love it ...i love getting her pretty and making her look feel and smell good...lol...and i love to see the smile on her face 👀 😅 after she looks in the mirror after her hairdo and i say oooweee look at you girl lol she loves it and she'll just laugh and she loves her cartoons and her Christian worship 🎵🎶 music..i love to watch her rock back and forth and sing the songs😊
It must be so humiliating for her to have to have help with personal things from her own daughter yet your doing what ylu habe to do.your So good with her and she loves you so much❤❤
What a sweet daughter❤❤❤❤
You are truly an earth angel! You also look so much like your Mom and have her beautiful smile!❤
You are an amazing young lady ,so amazing 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
Having helped with my mom that also had dementia, I’d seen all of the anger and physical acting out, mostly towards my dad, then my caregiver sister. I hope you have help from others. Emotionally and physically, dementia is a demanding disease. It can be so hard to remember it isn’t the patient, but the disease that creates the abusive responses when all you want to do is help. Take care of yourselves as you are caring for your mother. 💕
You are amazing
Your doing such a great job ❤
You are hands down the most amazing loving person have ever seen, let alone daughter. Your mother is so beyond lucky to have you, you are truly and angel ❤
She's beautiful ❤
You are doing a great job in very trying circumstances. What a wonderful family you have!
Ever since I have discovered this channel, it has really made me think and wonder as my kids are becoming grown and i am beginning to age. What you do is incredible and unconditional and totally pure. I hope my kids do this for me one day, thanks for being the good in the world.
You are amazing! ❤ My beautiful mom had alzheimer's and I recall this stage. Patience is the key.
Cherish each moment, even the bad ones. I miss my mom every single day.
You have a wonderful family !
Stay strong ❤
Your do Good Kiley with your Mom..I am sure that's hard on Dad too
I'll say it again, you are a godsend to your mom. And who relieves you when you need a break?
What an amazing daughter you are❤I love your mom. She's lucky to have you
❤ You both are such an amazing daughter and husband ❤ for both being strong and patient ❤ God bless you and your family ❤
Hello 👋Beautiful Lady 🌹..How are you and the weather condition like ?
Awww bless you both ❤🙏🏻 You’re doing a wonderful job taking care of her. 🥹👏🏼
You are such an amazing daughter. Such a blessing to your mum
May God bless you, my dear. My heart broke when I saw her cry 😢
Praying for you and your family daily. You are doing a good job. No doubt you love your Mother. I'm so sorry she is suffering, it's just an relentless sickness. She is blessed to have you.
You are great.
I had the same story: I lost my mum for early dementia 3 years ago. Your sweet mom reminds me of her… these moments with your mummy are so precious for both of you. Stay strong!
This video brought tears to my eyes l have been watching how wonderful you are to your mother. You’re a great daughter.!!! And I know you are young and it must be hard on you too. You’re a very strong Woman, You should Be proud of yourself cause I know everyone who is watching this is. God bless you!
Stay strong.
Our mother is 99 and dad is 95. Just recently they moved to assisted living. Mom has been having dementia for 15-20 years. In her case it’s been a slow fade. Many blessings to all the family whose loved ones need their care.
Very touching! Its really, really hard. How's the new car 🚗 Hope y'all are enjoying it. Blessings 🙌 & Light 🫠
You all are such a good family! ♥️You are doing such a great job. I am sending you hugs, love, prayers and kindness with positive energy. I so understand your journey.♥️🙏🏼🌹
She is beautiful and has a beautiful smile.
I know how difficult caring for a parent is. Safety is always a concern especially with stairs - has your mom got evaluated for a gait belt to use to assist/ support with her walking. Talk with her doctor for a Physical or Occupational Therapy visit. It is nice to your mom smiling & blessed to have you to care for her .Take care🍀🌼
This brought back memories how ALZ affects families and how difficult it is. My mother used to have some issues at times also. Praying for your family. It’s not an easy time for you all.
Omg, you can see the sadness in her eyes after she yelled at you. This is hands down one of the most intense and real look into alzheimers and dementia I have ever watched. God bless you,a d your mom
She loved that sweater so much she dropped her napkin, bless her sweet heart.
I think your approach with you Mom is exemplary. God bless you all.
What an awesome job! God bless all of you. ❤
The toughest challenge for a family. I am currently helping my husband assist his 90 yr old folks who have moved into our house. Dad is now bedridden, doubly incontinent and confused due to heart and renal failure. Some days he's really "off". He says so little, it's hard to fathom what he thinks of this situation, what he understands. Luckily he sleeps all night. YOU ARE ALL DOING A FANTASTIC JOB.
It's so wonderful to see you give your mom such loving care. 🥰
Beautiful caring daughter on first glance I thought you had angel wings under your eyes…😊
I'm crying. I hate to see her sad. My mom is turning 99. She has early signs of dementia. I pray she goes to be with God before the dementia get bad. I'm trying to be a good daughter like you.
You guys are so wonderful. It’s so hard and you do it everyday for her. No home out there woukd treat her so well.
Amazing young lady. So proud of you taking care of your mom.
Increïble hija, cuanto amor para ella. Te mereceis tu y tu familia , t'he best !!!
Much, much love fot you and mama 💞💞
Hola👋, ¿cómo estás? ¿Cómo están las condiciones climáticas?
I can imagine how your mom at times must feel very frustrated and doesn’t understand what’s happening but know she needs you! God Bless you Kiley! ( Mrs)
You're doing an amazing job with your Mom, your Dad is glad he has help when he's doing his work. Great job. Hi Cindy❤❤❤
I’ve been too emotional lately to handle this. I’m sobbing. I know you don’t take anything she says personally, but it doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect you. You’re an Earth Angel. 🙏
I need to sew a fábric book like your mum’s for my mother.
Sweety your an amazing daughter and youlook just like her
You guys are doing great. I’m much older than you are, my Dad had dementia, and it’s hard.
Hello everyone my name is Sharon from Decatur Illinois l really enjoy watching your family videos on TH-cam channel 😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤ you all are in my prayers and thoughts daily God bless you all ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
I think when she gets like that she is realizing that she isn't the same anymore and needs the help of her child and she is supposed to be the one helping her child. Trust me...i know the feeling and the anger.
Momma said there may be days like this. Just breathe mom your family has the rest! Prayers always.❤❤❤
You are very caring and leaving daughter she doesn’t mean it she loves you
You are amazing with your mother. I know there are soooo many highs and lows throughout this journey. Keep on keeping on. God bless you. You are one loving daughter.💕
I can imagine how hard thos must be for your dad😢
She does appreciate her nice outfits ❤
Hello 👋 Beautiful Lady 🌹..How are you and the weather condition like ?
Literally I felt sad when your mom cried. I am happy that you are there for your mom. I know your other family members are also helpful, caring about your mom. Love from india
Your all truly amazing❤
God bless you angel!!! Saw my mom go through that awful dementia, my dad was primary caregiver and he was the only one she always remembered. I stayed with them until she passed. But wouldn’t wish that disease on anyone or their loved ones. You’re in my prayers sweetheart.
God Bless your daddy to Kiley!!!🌹🌹🌹😊😊😊❤❤❤❤ And you and Your Mother!!!😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
Hello 👋 Beautiful Lady 🌹..How are you and the weather condition like ?
I love her🤗🤗🤗🤗
I only hope that my family would come thru for me as much as this family has for Cindy. Keep doing what you're doing Kiley family. ❤❤ You all are WONDERFUL ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your videos, and you and your momma are a true blessing to more people than you think 💕.. your an amazing daughter!!❤😊
You sound so sweet when u said hi mom
I think she knows you had to help her when she went to the bathroom. Im just realizing that cause my dad who had Dementia didnt know who i was.. but he wouldn't let me change him . The workers could change him but not me He said No! no!! no!!! When i asked him once let me change you Dad you must be uncomfortable I won't look the I said ..Dad do you know who i am .His answer was No ...but ..i know... you love me 💞Awww melted my heart I was a daddy's girl ❤ 😢 They know more than we think. She maybe felt embarrassed. She changed you as a baby and doesn't understand why..you are doing the personal things .Some where in her memory she realizes you are wiping and cleaning her. I beleive they know. That's why she cried maybe. When my mom was close to the end she wouldnt let me feed her . She cried Even though her hands were crippled with arthritis because she fed me as baby others could feed her but not her Children. 😮.Mom had Dementia too but not severe as Dads she still knew me .God bless You🙏 Its a hard job and your doing Your Best.I wasn't as young as you I was 58 with Dad and almost 70 with mom Sad and happy at times ❤ Your Awesome 👍🙏 Mom passed 2019 at 87 .Dad was 81 in 2005
She does not try to be mean it just comes out as she's frustrated. I do believe they know something is not the same ! She will always love you Kiley 💘As I know my Parents both loved me !like I said it's a hard job .But Rewarding also .You can look back one day and see the love you have for your mom . I did ,It wasn't easy I had my days where I got frustrated . Over all I was a loving caring and patient daughter like you ,and am grateful for all the times I was there for my Dad and mom .I miss them terribly . But know one day I hopefully will reunite with them .Love and Prayers for all of you . 🙏Don't be hard on yourself it's one of the hardest and most challenging times, but Rewarding as well .Take care 😘
Kiley .. God Bless you.and your family ✝️
Hello 👋 Beautiful Lady 🌹..How are you doing and the weather condition like ?
I’m helping to take care of my ninety year old mother with dementia. I’m realizing that the days she is craby it’s often that she doesn’t feel good. She often feels dizzy, lightheaded, nor weak. Sometimes it helps to ask her how she feels.
Your family are so strong to deal with the roller coaster of emotions ❤
Awwww I feel so bad for you both darling ❣️
Quelle terrible maladie 😢
Beaucoup de courage à toute votre famille et j embrasse votre maman ❤❤❤❤❤
Your Awesome Kiley!!😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤
Oh gosh my mom did that to...she was so frustrated because her mind was going crazy on her!
Combien je vous comprends, cette maladie est affreuse autant que pour la personne qui l'a vit que son entourage....
My Mom is in beginning stages of dementia, this is really a helo.
Sending respect and 🫂 🤗
❤fr CB NS 🇨🇦
Aww bless her you do a great job
My sister has Autism and Our cat Tilly never leaves her either
Good morning, sunshine 😊.
She makes me cry when she cries
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They always hurt the ones they love
My mother was diagnosed with dementia in 2017. She been here and there.
I hate when your mother cries it makes me cry
Its part of the Alzheimer's disease they become combative theres nothing to do but let her be
This young beautiful daughter must ne an example of the nice lady that she is cussing goes with the territory of this disease
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May I ask , how long was it from time of diagnosis to when things started to really change and decline ? And was she aware of her Diagnosis prior to? Thank you so much for your strength , bravery and willingness to share your lives and help educate us . I hope my questions are ok , I had a family member with Dementia but was very little when they passed .
Hi - u're doing an excellent job of care for your Mom! May I ask why u put paint, or whatever, on your face sometimes?
It’s an eye mask. Good for the skin under the eyes.
God
bless you Mikey ..😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤ Jo Ann Age 65 North Florida Lake City Florida
It makes me sad because my sister has dementia and she keeps telling me in my face that she has a sister I keep telling her I am your sister then she forgets I get so emotional. I had to cry and I didn’t mean to cry in front of her, but she didn’t even know why I was crying, it didn’t face her
Hurts.
How often does mom get angry?
How old is she ?
Hon i dont think she can help saying things .she doesnt seem to be being meen,i think she had something important to tell you about the mailman. You are such a good daughter. .❤❤ 2:38
Oh no that was to depressing she needs her memory have youll done anything for her memory to come back
Does she get mad cuz maybe she is realizing that things have changed in her life and she can't control it? I wonder..you're a saint
So sad your mom said that so sad have you'll talk to the doctor about getting memory back have ur doctor mention about memory vitamins