I think it depends on the person and the couple I've been with my wife since highschool. We've been a couple for almost 35 years. I have no romantic interest in any other woman and don't suspect I ever will. I'm as enthusiastic about spending time with her as I was when we were in highschool and dating. I can't share what the secret to this undying attraction is because I really don't know. I just know that I want to be with her and I know that will never change❣️
Awww...that's SO beautiful! What a blessing your marriage is! God bless you guys! I'm so thankful you posted this comment! It will bring hope to the world! 💕🙏🏽🕊️
My guess is that you two only know each other biblically which means your wife's pair bonding skills aren't broken and that's why you're still together.
you ate a definition of a content man.. who understands the consequences of momentary pleasure.. and the loss that is not worth venturing into.. (wise man)
Expecting serial excitement in a long term relationship is a terrible fantasy that makes people think their is something wrong. True love is lying next to someone you have shared a long life with, they are your family and even if you do not just after them any longer...you would never leave them. That is true love.
I am a long time family genealogist . What I found is that MOST ancestors had two or three wives/husbands! Women died in childbirth, disease. Men died from disease, war wounds, drowning (naval, merchant trading etc). At first when I discovered so many multiple wives and husbands, I thought that my documents were flawed. Death to us part meant each of us would have two or three spouses in our lifetimes. What we have now is un-natural
Yep. Also, in the history of the world, less than 40% m4n have reproduced and passed on genes. 60% haven’t (they haven’t even had one woman in a lifetime). 80-90% women did.
Actually the key words none of the psychologists, psychiatrists say: if you have healthy nervous system regulation, you can always reinvent yourself without adivce, tips, etc.
Love or no love.The sense of responsibility consistency and being in good terms makes you a better human being.For many people romantic feelings can have an expiration date and could be a curse of unnecessary expectation
But Catholicism is also very focused on s-x or should be. But it is the s-x of body, mind and soul. Not just the genitals. And when we find it hard to find the other s-xy in other way at times then unconditional love kicks in and that's a wonderful feeling. Also non-erotic affectionate love is also a delicious thing.
Esther Perels point of view. Bla bla bla. Not one person holds the whole truth about relationships. Values, culture, laws change and start analysing art.
Women enjoy s4xual novelty and variety too. Some even enjoy having multiple m4n at the same time. Different strokes for differnt folks. It’s not a one thing fits all. Even RH books are popular now.
Probably not a great idea to take too seriously advice from Orion... He is a Misogynist, in the true sense. I know a lot of men get labelled that without proper reason to like Chris from Modern Wisdom (and he is absolutely NOT one- far from it), and I disagree with most, but with Orion, it is accurate.
Yep. He isn’t in a successful relationship despite being older aged (he must be atleast 40). What he has taught me is that even ma6le therapists are m6sog6nstic. I would never go to a ma6le thre8pist. It is said that under 30, only 3% of therapists are ma6le. It makes perfect sense to me why other people don’t go to them and women are preferred as therapists.
Its interesting you don't say what he is wrong about or why, you just call him a name. When you have resort to name calling it's really just a disgusting way of admitting you have lost the argument...... Now get back in the kitchen.
@@David-vz5mv I followed him for a YEAR & tried to reason with him. I spent such a long time trying to get him to see how overall he had great potential, but his antagonistic way of viewing Women was a Rotten core. He flat out ignored me & even leaned into being more antagonistic. I did my time with that Man, he has nothing valuable to offer, if he keeps going on repeat about hateful ways of treating Women.
@@manifest2203 That is because his his preference is to use Women for Sex & never commit to them. He says in another video to string Women along for 5 years without commitment, essentially destroying all attachment safety. His Relationship paradigm is Narcissistic/Psychopathic at Worst & Severely Wounded due to past Trauma at Best.
@@David-vz5mv dude you should go and see his recent videos. He says “why beautiful women are nuts”, “why successful men are j5rks”, and then look at the thumbnail of his latest video. It’s so easy to see why m4n like Andrea Ta5te could easily make other m4n simp for them. Dude stop being de76lusional. No one is going to the kitchen for you. Do it yourself 🤣
I'm very sorry, but most of this is BS! Yes, he has a very good point about community. But the world doesn't believe in Jesus Christ anymore, so fornication is celebrated, monogamy seen as irrelevant, any divorce is just normal. Sex is put at the top of everyone's list, and it's worshipped. We have a culture that just exalts sex! Men full into the narrative that this is manly and normal. Never ever looking into whether it's true or not and very hard to do so because since they were young boys encouraged and groomed towards living this way. No, sorry, a good marriage is not just based on intense and beautiful love but friendship. A deep friendship that is special, sacred, and where wedding commitments are meant! Marriages are hard but made very hard when living in the secular world of fornication, adultery, lust, pornography are seen as normal and NOT sinful. Many many people do not live like this and have incredibly beautiful long-lasting marriages, but nobody in the secular world wants to hear those success stories because it ain't sexy to hear (pardon the pun) and they are addicted to sinful behaviours and of course probably feel sin is not real in the eyes of God because to them God is woo hoo a story that is foolishness, and not relevant. Well, try telling that to Father Carlos Martins and his YT channel "The Exorcist Files" and listen to real case studies of those who have suffered possession. Scoff if you like, but learn what you are scoffing about first BEFORE attempting to scoff.
Well, it would be easier to listen to a Christian apologist wax lyrical about the benefits of believing in God if the morality derived from the Bible wasn't so appalling. You are probably a good person because you're afraid of what God will do to you if you aren't. I'm a good person because being good is the right thing to do, and it is innate to me.
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I think it depends on the person and the couple
I've been with my wife since highschool. We've been a couple for almost 35 years. I have no romantic interest in any other woman and don't suspect I ever will. I'm as enthusiastic about spending time with her as I was when we were in highschool and dating. I can't share what the secret to this undying attraction is because I really don't know. I just know that I want to be with her and I know that will never change❣️
Awww...that's SO beautiful! What a blessing your marriage is! God bless you guys! I'm so thankful you posted this comment! It will bring hope to the world! 💕🙏🏽🕊️
Until I met a woman who couldn’t live with her husband any longer after he had a personality changing brainstroke. He became aggressive.
My guess is that you two only know each other biblically which means your wife's pair bonding skills aren't broken and that's why you're still together.
you ate a definition of a content man.. who understands the consequences of momentary pleasure.. and the loss that is not worth venturing into.. (wise man)
Expecting serial excitement in a long term relationship is a terrible fantasy that makes people think their is something wrong. True love is lying next to someone you have shared a long life with, they are your family and even if you do not just after them any longer...you would never leave them. That is true love.
I am a long time family genealogist . What I found is that MOST ancestors had two or three wives/husbands!
Women died in childbirth, disease. Men died from disease, war wounds, drowning (naval, merchant trading etc). At first when I discovered so many multiple wives and husbands, I thought that my documents were flawed. Death to us part meant each of us would have two or three spouses in our lifetimes. What we have now is un-natural
God made one woman for one man. Its not gods Plan for marriage to have multiple wifes.
Yep. Also, in the history of the world, less than 40% m4n have reproduced and passed on genes. 60% haven’t (they haven’t even had one woman in a lifetime). 80-90% women did.
@@djRichyRichh I used to believe that too. Not anymore.
Yes and in the history of the world, less than 40% of m4n have re6pducd and passed on g55nes. Whereas 80-90% w4m5n have.
@@djRichyRichheven though the Christian god made a young 12/13 yr old married girl pregnant.
Or...not pursue sexual gratification to the extent that it has to be novel or exciting. Love each other.
Actually the key words none of the psychologists, psychiatrists say: if you have healthy nervous system regulation, you can always reinvent yourself without adivce, tips, etc.
And if you don't?
Hmm interesting
Love or no love.The sense of responsibility consistency and being in good terms makes you a better human being.For many people romantic feelings can have an expiration date and could be a curse of unnecessary expectation
But Catholicism is also very focused on s-x or should be. But it is the s-x of body, mind and soul. Not just the genitals. And when we find it hard to find the other s-xy in other way at times then unconditional love kicks in and that's a wonderful feeling. Also non-erotic affectionate love is also a delicious thing.
It is spelled endless choices cause with many choices it is end less.
Don’t think about yourself so much. Focus on the other person not yourself.
Actually men should focus on themselves first then the woman there with otherwise how will you be the best version of your self.
0:27 And people died younger. People live forever these days lol
Esther Perels point of view. Bla bla bla. Not one person holds the whole truth about relationships. Values, culture, laws change and start analysing art.
Women enjoy s4xual novelty and variety too. Some even enjoy having multiple m4n at the same time. Different strokes for differnt folks. It’s not a one thing fits all. Even RH books are popular now.
Nice
BLAME PORN AND MEN WHO MADE PORN .
Nice sexist blame game. Well done.
Lol, I'm sure you blame men for most this wrong in your life
We can also blame the women who make porn for profit.
Probably not a great idea to take too seriously advice from Orion...
He is a Misogynist, in the true sense.
I know a lot of men get labelled that without proper reason to like Chris from Modern Wisdom (and he is absolutely NOT one- far from it), and I disagree with most, but with Orion, it is accurate.
Yep. He isn’t in a successful relationship despite being older aged (he must be atleast 40). What he has taught me is that even ma6le therapists are m6sog6nstic. I would never go to a ma6le thre8pist. It is said that under 30, only 3% of therapists are ma6le. It makes perfect sense to me why other people don’t go to them and women are preferred as therapists.
Its interesting you don't say what he is wrong about or why, you just call him a name. When you have resort to name calling it's really just a disgusting way of admitting you have lost the argument...... Now get back in the kitchen.
@@David-vz5mv I followed him for a YEAR & tried to reason with him.
I spent such a long time trying to get him to see how overall he had great potential, but his antagonistic way of viewing Women was a Rotten core.
He flat out ignored me & even leaned into being more antagonistic.
I did my time with that Man, he has nothing valuable to offer, if he keeps going on repeat about hateful ways of treating Women.
@@manifest2203 That is because his his preference is to use Women for Sex & never commit to them.
He says in another video to string Women along for 5 years without commitment, essentially destroying all attachment safety.
His Relationship paradigm is Narcissistic/Psychopathic at Worst & Severely Wounded due to past Trauma at Best.
@@David-vz5mv dude you should go and see his recent videos. He says “why beautiful women are nuts”, “why successful men are j5rks”, and then look at the thumbnail of his latest video. It’s so easy to see why m4n like Andrea Ta5te could easily make other m4n simp for them.
Dude stop being de76lusional. No one is going to the kitchen for you. Do it yourself 🤣
I'm very sorry, but most of this is BS! Yes, he has a very good point about community. But the world doesn't believe in Jesus Christ anymore, so fornication is celebrated, monogamy seen as irrelevant, any divorce is just normal. Sex is put at the top of everyone's list, and it's worshipped. We have a culture that just exalts sex! Men full into the narrative that this is manly and normal. Never ever looking into whether it's true or not and very hard to do so because since they were young boys encouraged and groomed towards living this way.
No, sorry, a good marriage is not just based on intense and beautiful love but friendship. A deep friendship that is special, sacred, and where wedding commitments are meant! Marriages are hard but made very hard when living in the secular world of fornication, adultery, lust, pornography are seen as normal and NOT sinful. Many many people do not live like this and have incredibly beautiful long-lasting marriages, but nobody in the secular world wants to hear those success stories because it ain't sexy to hear (pardon the pun) and they are addicted to sinful behaviours and of course probably feel sin is not real in the eyes of God because to them God is woo hoo a story that is foolishness, and not relevant. Well, try telling that to Father Carlos Martins and his YT channel "The Exorcist Files" and listen to real case studies of those who have suffered possession. Scoff if you like, but learn what you are scoffing about first BEFORE attempting to scoff.
Well, it would be easier to listen to a Christian apologist wax lyrical about the benefits of believing in God if the morality derived from the Bible wasn't so appalling.
You are probably a good person because you're afraid of what God will do to you if you aren't. I'm a good person because being good is the right thing to do, and it is innate to me.