Hello you savages. Hello you savages. Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - chriswillx.com/books/ Here’s the timestamps: 00:00 The Importance of Setting End Times 04:04 Creating a Negative Outcome to Motivate You 12:33 Mbappe’s Pursuit of the Simple Life 19:33 How to Find What You Actually Want 23:01 The Power of Being Intentional 25:31 Achieving Success in the Wrong Thing 30:51 Why You Shouldn’t Idolise Your Heroes 33:40 The Person You Become While You Pursue a Goal 38:23 Taking Back Control of Your Life 40:24 Should People Spend Their 20s Grinding? 48:16 Ascending Out of Inceldom 1:00:01 Effectiveness & Challenges of Therapy for Men 1:10:44 Where to Find Orion
9:00 To make 3000 words for get out of room, or get 50p each day out of own salary, remembering me when I was still in college. A week before the exam, I asked my friend to keep my hard drive in his house. At that time I just couldn't control myself to play computer games (It's not short ended fps games, but long games like civ2, takes days to complete). As there is nothing in my room that I can play with, my mind is wandering around, and starting to open the book and learning.
This is the first time I've heard of this gentleman, so thanks to @ChrisWillx for having him on. Just briefly checked out his channel and I can already tell it's brimming with the good stuff. Quite glad to have watched this MW episode in particular and definitely intrigued by what seems to be a real "diamond in the rough" channel.
@@XxMaximus2PrimuSxXYou should like it. Dr. Taraban provides good intersexual dynamic and personal psychology on a more scientific level. He states facts and statistics as well. He provides insight also from the years of practice and behavior that he has witnessed. Including some of his own.
Dr Taraban is an intelligent and eloquent speaker and bridges many of the disparate voices in the male self improvement space without compromising his principles or impartiality.
He’s someone who makes money as long as he manages to keep you in your bubble of misery, letting you hear what you want to, for he makes money as long as you click, subscribe, like and share. Got it? Listen to Gregor Mate. Or a man who’s happily married with grandchildren. Until you find something that positively resonates with your heart. That’s what will lead to happiness. Hate never does.
The problem with many people is they have been lied to their whole lives... Many people are told what is 'success' looks like and not what it actually is...Being 'work', 'education', 'family' etc. Being happy and healthy is all you can wish for in this life.
When you're born into poverty, it feels like you don't get to live life. You just get to watch others live life and hope that someday you'll get to participate. Seriously, everything costs money, and if you're struggling, that's the feeling. I work full time and never have extra money just enough to barely get by.
@@MX-CO That doesn't contradict his point. That just means for some people need to focus on money more than others. But some people should focus less on money vice versa.
So many young guys want to focus on their passion. I remind them how many men have golf as a passion and they are terrible at it. For a career you need to pick something that you can do better or faster than others. Your passion and what you are really good at night not be the same thing.
I heard it put that it's a triad of: skill, enjoyment and money... it's rare you get all 3 with a good portion and even then to get all 3 for the long term is a different story. You could be great at golf for 40 years but it's really a rare guy that can keep going well past that. Football the range even smaller... but other jobs it's still the same, I enjoyed my current job for a good 10 years, then it lost it's luster, but I still have responsibilities to attend to, kids, house, so I still have to do the job and slowly work toward something new... so it's dynamic. We want the perfect thing, but overtime it changes. Chris is great at this podcasting thing, but do we think in 15 years he'll be doing the same thing? I highly doubt it.
@@JSiracusan It is true. As Orion pointed out, creating a buffer allows for thoughtful planning of your next steps. I used to dedicate my entire Saturdays to mowing my own lawn and spending hours on VAT returns. However, I've learned the value of focusing on my strengths and delegating tasks to professionals. Now, a team of experts efficiently tends to my garden in just 15 minutes, surpassing my own efforts. Similarly, my accountant swiftly handles my returns in 5 minutes, even if billed for a full hour, ultimately saving me valuable time. Streamlining these two processes frees up days of my time in a month to plan my next move.
Eh... If your passion is to improve your life, then it follows that you will do that which you are best at. I became a digital artist in a commercial context, have been doing it successfully for 11 years since I was 16 years old. I saw a path, I knew I would enjoy it, I knew it would be financially rewarding (although extremely risky). So I did it. I also enjoy farming, I would love to do that, if everything falls apart.
@@seekerofthemutablebalance5228 It is not required that you be the best at anything. Just be very good at it, and try having it be something you enjoy as well. It was said in this interview that "mastery" was a time consuming effort that means not doing about anything else but what the mastery is about.
33:10 The "hack" here is to enjoy the process at least as much as the outcome. Even if you fall short you are still enriched. I have been a runner for 52 years and have slowed but enjoy it more than ever.
True. Before talking about performance, we have to enjoy it first. So many people measure us by their rulers, while what we all really need is to enjoy our first step.
I got breast cancer (stress cancer) when I was running my restaurant.people would say, don't worry about your business,(oh you mean the business that's helping me pay my health insurance) !!!! That was 15years ago , I am now 65 sold my building/restaurant been to 13 countries in the last 3 years 🎉🎉 living my Bliss . great conversation guys thank you have a beautiful day ❤️
Min 34 - same here lost everything after bankruptcy, home everything but made everything back in a short time. The experience was priceless because it forced me to tap into unreserved potential and drive you probably never would’ve otherwise.
I really have gotten some good advice from Dr. Orion on his videos. For example, when my wife comes in while I'm working at home on my computer and fusses at me, saying something totally crazy, I just stop to acknowledge her, look at her, and respond in a calm tone of voice. It doesn't really matter what I say, she thinks that I'm great. True story. 😀
This is an awesome conversation. Quite deep but great. I think one of Orions comments relates to this entire conversation, that his 20 something self would say get lost if he heard these things from his 40 something self. For most 20 somethings this whole conversation will go right over their heads but at 48, I think this is great wisdom….Wish I knew all this in my 20s.
If all of the videos on the internet were like this I would listen to them all. This touched on all the things that have been bothering and I could find content that felt valuable until this. I had given up hope. I thought I wouldn't find valuable content for what I am going through...
Very thought provoking interview. I love all the different angles presented! I’m a 64 yr old female. Who knew someone like me enjoys these topics. Glad you’re in Austin Chris. I’m in New Braunfels just south of you. Great part of Texas. I try to listen to all you programs. I learn so much.
I told my friend that "when someone obviously doubt me or say I cannot do something, I enjoy proving them wrong". And she answered "... well, that's not good" XD She is incredibly agreeable and kinda a pushover, and I have my beliefs.
My favorite takeaway was the term "reverse narcissism" -- I've noticed this with different people throughout my life but didn't have a name for it....that fits perfectly. Great conversation...thank you and kudos to you both.
43:50 The privilege of being so ahead of the curve, you can now at last disconnect and coast ahead on what you have already learned. Mentioning this because i am almost there myself.
It was great to hear William Costello's idea of the ascension and hope. Then hearing Orion Taraban's personal experience with hope at a cancer center. By far my favorite segment
Major life change happens on 3-5 year time frames depending on the amount of dysfunction or trauma you need to work on. When you've lived life a certain way for a long time, it takes a long time to find a positive way to live and then make that the default over your old ways. I read somewhere that it takes 6 to 9 months to engrain a new habit. Even when you make a new positive habit, the brain wiring for the old habits are still there and you'll still struggle at times to not go back.
That's a great observation. Quitting alcohol for good was about 3-4 year battle once I seriously committed to it. It was then another year or so that the benefits of getting used to not drinking started showing up in my life. It's certainly a journey, just like falling into addictions or bad habits is, but in the opposite direction.
@@timothyrday1390 Good for you man. That's a huge decision and major accomplishment. December 3rd was my 1 year with no alcohol. I needed rehab to quit, it got to the point where if I didn't drink, I didn't sleep. I needed that structured reset where all I had to worry about was living without alcohol.
@@Richard-Freeman Thanks, although I don't like to make it a point of pride. The reality is that you have new battles with depression and unlearning previous bad habits and thought patterns. Being completely sober is no "cure-all" for your problems but you at least can start to consciously learn from your mistakes and consciously make improvements.
@@timothyrday1390 You took away an excuse to beat yourself up and justify why you don't deserve any better. Comfort in the misery you know is an incredibly difficult ditch to climb out of. We don't fear success, we fear screwing up and "proving" we're a failure.
Happiness is just a little temporary reward that feels good for a few minutes. That's what it is. Having a safe place and food might not give you a constant feeling of happiness but it can be appreciated to a very high degree. It just takes a long time to learn how to appreciate it. As long as im not facing some terrible situation i am plenty satisfied. Whenever I think about the things that I don't have, i know that they would only deliver those temporary feelings anyways. It does take a long time though. I was convinced for a while that i wanted more but I don't really need it. A home and a meal is perfectly fine.
Great talk! Got me a major insight why Judaism opposes solitary monk life. Instead men (and women) are encouraged to marry and have children at an early age. Life with the real mess of snorty nose kids is the temple to pray in. Thus, the ambition of men is harnessed to something other than to only themselves or an object (e.g invention). The word that came up a lot in this conversation is "I", not we. I can be such a lonely word. The searching "I" seems to become anchored with children and family that need as much care as "I".
"For when all combine in every way to make everything easier and easier, there remains only one possible danger, namely, that the easiness might become so great that it would be too great; then only one want is left, though not yet a felt want - that people will want difficulty." Kierkegaard Love that one
Second time watching, I could hear you both talk on these types of topics every day! Brilliant and engaging! Thank you for letting us in on the conversations!
45:35 my thoughts exactly. It's the first thing i noticed and can no longer stand after i improved my mental state and being open to as well as seeking positivity
Great conversation. Very stimulating. Felt inspired, humbled, introspective, motivated, and more. Helped me feel less ignorant of myself and more forgiving of others. Thanks Gentlemen.
Orion discussion about programming really resonated with me. I did everything what my parents/society wanted me to do, and even far exceeded everyone's expectations (to my big surprise) and ended up miserable and unfulfilled. I scrapped it all, took a huge pay cut, forged my own path, and now created something that's sustainable and well paid to boot! Great life work balance too and a fantastic state to live in. Telling ya, programming is real. Not that I regret any of it, but at least now I have an explanation of what went wrong.
@49:47 Thanks, Chris. As an Irishman born in NYC, I appreciate your politely and briefly admonishing your guest of the difference between Ireland and UK.
“ you can’t think yourself out of depression” .! Not my quote yet useful and relevant in someway to this discussion I hope. These two lads are both giving value to the world . Personal integrity Is where it’s at in my view. Great podcast as usual Chris . 🫡🏴
I heard a quote that I believe is from Einstein which says something to the effect of, “we cannot solve our problems with the same thinking that created them.”
Amazing and thorough video! Lots of great ideas presented. I hope to see this video shared and go viral because of how many great ideas/thoughts are presented. Well done!
Amazing conversation, guys. I just... snap out of it. I understand now... now I can see into the future, but with power. Thank you, unknown yet known friends PD: Been in acid help
More questions and less trying to be an equal to taraban would make a better interview. The interviewer sounds like a series of cliches Orion is a smart man.
The last 20 years of my dad’s life, he did not touch cigarettes or alcohol. People would ask him when he gave up smoking and drinking? He would tell them that he hadn’t given them up. We would look at each other and think he is crazy. I understand now what he was doing.
What a well balanced conversation from two guys heavily in my feed these past years. I hope you guys do another round soon and set more time aside for it! Cheers boys.
Ive always known that i didnt want to be famous (or at least for as long as i can remember). What i do want is to have earned the respect of people that i live nearby, enough so that theyre happy to see me and acknowledge me.
Hello you savages. Hello you savages. Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - chriswillx.com/books/ Here’s the timestamps:
00:00 The Importance of Setting End Times
04:04 Creating a Negative Outcome to Motivate You
12:33 Mbappe’s Pursuit of the Simple Life
19:33 How to Find What You Actually Want
23:01 The Power of Being Intentional
25:31 Achieving Success in the Wrong Thing
30:51 Why You Shouldn’t Idolise Your Heroes
33:40 The Person You Become While You Pursue a Goal
38:23 Taking Back Control of Your Life
40:24 Should People Spend Their 20s Grinding?
48:16 Ascending Out of Inceldom
1:00:01 Effectiveness & Challenges of Therapy for Men
1:10:44 Where to Find Orion
9:00 To make 3000 words for get out of room, or get 50p each day out of own salary, remembering me when I was still in college.
A week before the exam, I asked my friend to keep my hard drive in his house.
At that time I just couldn't control myself to play computer games (It's not short ended fps games, but long games like civ2, takes days to complete).
As there is nothing in my room that I can play with, my mind is wandering around, and starting to open the book and learning.
Hello Chris. Hello Chris.
Repeating yourself?
"Now is the moment you've been waiting for your entire life" is such a powerful final message. Brilliant.
But 120 hour work weeks, that’s full bs.
@@kylesapphire2537why the hell would you work 120 hour work weeks?
pretty cliche
Orion’s channel/advice has been life changing for me. So glad to see him on a large platform! Well deserved 🥳
Some of his videos are full of misogyny and Red Pill ideas. Are you despising women now?
This is the first time I've heard of this gentleman, so thanks to @ChrisWillx for having him on. Just briefly checked out his channel and I can already tell it's brimming with the good stuff. Quite glad to have watched this MW episode in particular and definitely intrigued by what seems to be a real "diamond in the rough" channel.
@@XxMaximus2PrimuSxXYou should like it. Dr. Taraban provides good intersexual dynamic and personal psychology on a more scientific level. He states facts and statistics as well. He provides insight also from the years of practice and behavior that he has witnessed. Including some of his own.
@@XxMaximus2PrimuSxXyea Dr. Taraban is on the money with almost all he posts
Agreed. His channel is a great watch. Nothing but clear-headed and fair speaking. Recommended! Thanks Chris for having him on
Dr Taraban is an intelligent and eloquent speaker and bridges many of the disparate voices in the male self improvement space without compromising his principles or impartiality.
thanks
@@TuffLuv1984what makes u think he's psycho
@@TuffLuv1984Says someone called tough love, which is what he does...
He’s someone who makes money as long as he manages to keep you in your bubble of misery, letting you hear what you want to, for he makes money as long as you click, subscribe, like and share. Got it?
Listen to Gregor Mate. Or a man who’s happily married with grandchildren. Until you find something that positively resonates with your heart.
That’s what will lead to happiness.
Hate never does.
@@jjhassyhe obviously is. Anyone with some experience instantly recognizes it
I like how you get right into the interview. No intro, no weird small talk - just right to it.
The problem with many people is they have been lied to their whole lives... Many people are told what is 'success' looks like and not what it actually is...Being 'work', 'education', 'family' etc. Being happy and healthy is all you can wish for in this life.
These are the prerequisites for everything else to be meaningful
When you're born into poverty, it feels like you don't get to live life. You just get to watch others live life and hope that someday you'll get to participate.
Seriously, everything costs money, and if you're struggling, that's the feeling.
I work full time and never have extra money just enough to barely get by.
@@MX-CO That doesn't contradict his point. That just means for some people need to focus on money more than others. But some people should focus less on money vice versa.
So many young guys want to focus on their passion. I remind them how many men have golf as a passion and they are terrible at it. For a career you need to pick something that you can do better or faster than others. Your passion and what you are really good at night not be the same thing.
I heard it put that it's a triad of: skill, enjoyment and money... it's rare you get all 3 with a good portion and even then to get all 3 for the long term is a different story. You could be great at golf for 40 years but it's really a rare guy that can keep going well past that. Football the range even smaller... but other jobs it's still the same, I enjoyed my current job for a good 10 years, then it lost it's luster, but I still have responsibilities to attend to, kids, house, so I still have to do the job and slowly work toward something new... so it's dynamic. We want the perfect thing, but overtime it changes. Chris is great at this podcasting thing, but do we think in 15 years he'll be doing the same thing? I highly doubt it.
@@JSiracusan It is true. As Orion pointed out, creating a buffer allows for thoughtful planning of your next steps. I used to dedicate my entire Saturdays to mowing my own lawn and spending hours on VAT returns. However, I've learned the value of focusing on my strengths and delegating tasks to professionals. Now, a team of experts efficiently tends to my garden in just 15 minutes, surpassing my own efforts. Similarly, my accountant swiftly handles my returns in 5 minutes, even if billed for a full hour, ultimately saving me valuable time. Streamlining these two processes frees up days of my time in a month to plan my next move.
And what if you aren't the best at any one thing?
Eh... If your passion is to improve your life, then it follows that you will do that which you are best at. I became a digital artist in a commercial context, have been doing it successfully for 11 years since I was 16 years old. I saw a path, I knew I would enjoy it, I knew it would be financially rewarding (although extremely risky). So I did it. I also enjoy farming, I would love to do that, if everything falls apart.
@@seekerofthemutablebalance5228 It is not required that you be the best at anything. Just be very good at it, and try having it be something you enjoy as well. It was said in this interview that "mastery" was a time consuming effort that means not doing about anything else but what the mastery is about.
33:10 The "hack" here is to enjoy the process at least as much as the outcome. Even if you fall short you are still enriched. I have been a runner for 52 years and have slowed but enjoy it more than ever.
True. Before talking about performance, we have to enjoy it first. So many people measure us by their rulers, while what we all really need is to enjoy our first step.
How?
I guess by just be there continuously and do your best.
@@jackdeniston59it might help to allow any emotions that arise to run their course
Im a long distant runner, up to 50km, and runner is the perfect sport for life itself. so many lessons ive learned from running
Dr taraban is the only therapist that has real world good advice. Much respect
I got breast cancer (stress cancer) when I was running my restaurant.people would say, don't worry about your business,(oh you mean the business that's helping me pay my health insurance) !!!! That was 15years ago , I am now 65 sold my building/restaurant been to 13 countries in the last 3 years 🎉🎉 living my Bliss . great conversation guys thank you have a beautiful day ❤️
Good for you that you are doing great! Bless you!
Min 34 - same here lost everything after bankruptcy, home everything but made everything back in a short time. The experience was priceless because it forced me to tap into unreserved potential and drive you probably never would’ve otherwise.
How did you make it back? Poverty is my biggest problem in life
people don't truly realize how motivating desperation is
I really have gotten some good advice from Dr. Orion on his videos. For example, when my wife comes in while I'm working at home on my computer and fusses at me, saying something totally crazy, I just stop to acknowledge her, look at her, and respond in a calm tone of voice. It doesn't really matter what I say, she thinks that I'm great. True story. 😀
This is an awesome conversation. Quite deep but great. I think one of Orions comments relates to this entire conversation, that his 20 something self would say get lost if he heard these things from his 40 something self. For most 20 somethings this whole conversation will go right over their heads but at 48, I think this is great wisdom….Wish I knew all this in my 20s.
A lot of times when I don’t want to go to the gym, I tell myself I’ll just do a light training day, when I know I probable won’t once I get going.
Orion definitely breaks it down so you can grasp what he is explaining, and it's not sugar coated.....
Hats off
Orian explained narcissism better than all the other so called specialists on the internet!
If all of the videos on the internet were like this I would listen to them all.
This touched on all the things that have been bothering and I could find content that felt valuable until this. I had given up hope. I thought I wouldn't find valuable content for what I am going through...
Orion should be a reoccurring guest!
Agreed, he’s fantastic
Very thought provoking interview. I love all the different angles presented! I’m a 64 yr old female. Who knew someone like me enjoys these topics. Glad you’re in Austin Chris. I’m in New Braunfels just south of you. Great part of Texas. I try to listen to all you programs. I learn so much.
Thanks
As a former LMFT, I must say that of all the people giving advice/direction/etc. who I've looked into, YOU are the best in my opinion!
I told my friend that "when someone obviously doubt me or say I cannot do something, I enjoy proving them wrong". And she answered "... well, that's not good" XD She is incredibly agreeable and kinda a pushover, and I have my beliefs.
Orion is one intelligent human being.
Orion says things I’ve said that I thought nobody else had thought. Big thanks !❤
Thanks!
My favorite takeaway was the term "reverse narcissism" -- I've noticed this with different people throughout my life but didn't have a name for it....that fits perfectly. Great conversation...thank you and kudos to you both.
43:50 The privilege of being so ahead of the curve, you can now at last disconnect and coast ahead on what you have already learned. Mentioning this because i am almost there myself.
Nice! I stumbled on Dr. Orion's channel randomly and really liked how frank he was lol
It was great to hear William Costello's idea of the ascension and hope. Then hearing Orion Taraban's personal experience with hope at a cancer center. By far my favorite segment
Hey Chris Very Big Thanks for having him as your podcast guest . It was really life changing ❤
What a treat! I subscribe to both Dr Taraban and
Chris. I enjoy seeing the two of you together.
Thanks!
I really love that Orion leaves empty space to fully understand a question and analyse it before giving a response or answer.
Great Episode!
Fear of conversational silence is almost universal. Overcoming that fear improves your communication immensely.
Major life change happens on 3-5 year time frames depending on the amount of dysfunction or trauma you need to work on.
When you've lived life a certain way for a long time, it takes a long time to find a positive way to live and then make that the default over your old ways.
I read somewhere that it takes 6 to 9 months to engrain a new habit. Even when you make a new positive habit, the brain wiring for the old habits are still there and you'll still struggle at times to not go back.
That's a great observation. Quitting alcohol for good was about 3-4 year battle once I seriously committed to it. It was then another year or so that the benefits of getting used to not drinking started showing up in my life. It's certainly a journey, just like falling into addictions or bad habits is, but in the opposite direction.
@@timothyrday1390 Good for you man. That's a huge decision and major accomplishment. December 3rd was my 1 year with no alcohol. I needed rehab to quit, it got to the point where if I didn't drink, I didn't sleep. I needed that structured reset where all I had to worry about was living without alcohol.
@@Richard-Freeman Thanks, although I don't like to make it a point of pride. The reality is that you have new battles with depression and unlearning previous bad habits and thought patterns. Being completely sober is no "cure-all" for your problems but you at least can start to consciously learn from your mistakes and consciously make improvements.
@@timothyrday1390 You took away an excuse to beat yourself up and justify why you don't deserve any better. Comfort in the misery you know is an incredibly difficult ditch to climb out of. We don't fear success, we fear screwing up and "proving" we're a failure.
Happiness is just a little temporary reward that feels good for a few minutes.
That's what it is.
Having a safe place and food might not give you a constant feeling of happiness but it can be appreciated to a very high degree.
It just takes a long time to learn how to appreciate it.
As long as im not facing some terrible situation i am plenty satisfied.
Whenever I think about the things that I don't have, i know that they would only deliver those temporary feelings anyways.
It does take a long time though.
I was convinced for a while that i wanted more but I don't really need it.
A home and a meal is perfectly fine.
One's internal and external worlds can be vastly different :}
Great talk! Got me a major insight why Judaism opposes solitary monk life. Instead men (and women) are encouraged to marry and have children at an early age. Life with the real mess of snorty nose kids is the temple to pray in. Thus, the ambition of men is harnessed to something other than to only themselves or an object (e.g invention). The word that came up a lot in this conversation is "I", not we. I can be such a lonely word. The searching "I" seems to become anchored with children and family that need as much care as "I".
Don’t have time to watch the video but dropped a like cuz Orión is the man!
56:07 inverted narcissism is a nightmare. I knew that it was a form of narcissism, thanks for validating 👏
Great Talk - love hearing Orion on philosophy rather than women.
"For when all combine in every way to make everything easier and easier, there remains only one possible danger, namely, that the easiness might become so great that it would be too great; then only one want is left, though not yet a felt want - that people will want difficulty."
Kierkegaard
Love that one
Second time watching, I could hear you both talk on these types of topics every day! Brilliant and engaging! Thank you for letting us in on the conversations!
45:35 my thoughts exactly. It's the first thing i noticed and can no longer stand after i improved my mental state and being open to as well as seeking positivity
Chris is one of my favorite TH-camrs of all time
SO many great gems into the notebook!
You both are well spoken and have excellent communication skills 💪🏽🙌🏽
Thank you so much Chris and Orion, this is a big boy talk and real for those who have had the pleasure and pain to reach this level of awareness. 🙏
"I'd rather be wallowing in the mud. So get put pf here."
So much of mindset is about framing.
This becomes a life lesson for me.
i don't quite get it lol can you explain please?
Thank you both for making this conversation happen.
AMAZING. Don't stop Chris, this episode will change lives ❤
Was sad when it was over. Good stuff gentlemen
Thank You Chris for inviting Dr. Taraban. You two are some of my favorite content creators ever. 😄👍🏼
Great conversation. Very stimulating. Felt inspired, humbled, introspective, motivated, and more. Helped me feel less ignorant of myself and more forgiving of others. Thanks Gentlemen.
Been watching Orion for a year now. Such a great channel. Get him back on again! He has a lot of good stuff to say about dating and relationships too.
This deserves a Monday episode. Orion Taraban is 🐐🐐
Orion discussion about programming really resonated with me. I did everything what my parents/society wanted me to do, and even far exceeded everyone's expectations (to my big surprise) and ended up miserable and unfulfilled. I scrapped it all, took a huge pay cut, forged my own path, and now created something that's sustainable and well paid to boot! Great life work balance too and a fantastic state to live in. Telling ya, programming is real. Not that I regret any of it, but at least now I have an explanation of what went wrong.
37:22-38:18 is brilliant. i thought this was a unique thought to me. people look at me like a psycho when I say this 😂
You are very intelligent and I enjoy all of your videos. Thank you.
I love they way they trip over the truth at 18 mins.
@49:47 Thanks, Chris. As an Irishman born in NYC, I appreciate your politely and briefly admonishing your guest of the difference between Ireland and UK.
Paul Fussell hilariously noted that the very rich and very poor are the “out of sights” in society. The book called Class from the 1980’s
Glad to see two of the most influential people in my life talking to each other. An excellent episode!
2 legends - that’s going to be a great episode
Grwat comversation, inspiring, illuminating!
Such a great guest and overall amazing conversation. The only "sad thing" is that it lasted only an hour.
Loved this conversation
“ you can’t think yourself out of depression” .! Not my quote yet useful and relevant in someway to this discussion I hope. These two lads are both giving value to the world . Personal integrity Is where it’s at in my view. Great podcast as usual Chris . 🫡🏴
I heard a quote that I believe is from Einstein which says something to the effect of, “we cannot solve our problems with the same thinking that created them.”
Amazing and thorough video! Lots of great ideas presented. I hope to see this video shared and go viral because of how many great ideas/thoughts are presented. Well done!
Why TF does this damn guys interviews CONSTANTLY come onto my “next” in line!?!? Every time! lol..then I skip or go to next one
This is outstanding. Thank you to both of you. Pure gold.
damn what gold this is! absolutely love this detail at 37:22 - 37:28
yes, I love it!
chris has a really awesome channel. I truly enjoy his videos. Thank you chris. keep them coming.
Excellent discussion. Really enjoyed it.
Love Orion. Awesome pairing
Unbelievable chat, thank you. I am headed for a lot of Orion's you tube content!
Thank you both for creating and sharing.
Chris you’re on fire rn
Fascinating discussion fellas, thank you!
We all want or aspire to - Hiraya Manawari - longing for a world where dreams come true. This is a was great video, well done.
I have great respect for Dr. Orion, he’s THE BEST male psychologist in the game right now, no contest.🤝💯
This is definitely a conversation for dudes, generally, women to follow these same thinking patterns and desires.
Thank you so much.
Find his advices practical and on the point. Great conversation.
Great to see Dr Orion! Very articulate and interesting
Amazing conversation, guys. I just... snap out of it. I understand now... now I can see into the future, but with power.
Thank you, unknown yet known friends
PD: Been in acid help
Thank you
THANK YOU FOR HAVING HIM ON THE SHOW!!
Graditude and serving others
This was awesome thanks gentleman 😊
This is a great convo 😊
More questions and less trying to be an equal to taraban would make a better interview.
The interviewer sounds like a series of cliches
Orion is a smart man.
Much respect to Orion
Thank you for such an insightful views.
This is the best guide on how to start self-development. I've listened to it 3 times and I am analysing new stuff I catch
The Doc will have one day his own 4K cinematic episode. Mark my words.
The last 20 years of my dad’s life, he did not touch cigarettes or alcohol. People would ask him when he gave up smoking and drinking? He would tell them that he hadn’t given them up. We would look at each other and think he is crazy. I understand now what he was doing.
Looking forward to book Dr.!
GUYS!!! THAT BEGINNING WAS REALLY JUST FUCKING AMAZING!!!! YOU'RE BLOODY OUT OF THE SLOPE!!! CONGRAT-FUCKING-LATIONS!!! YOU'RE INGENIAL!!!
What a well balanced conversation from two guys heavily in my feed these past years. I hope you guys do another round soon and set more time aside for it! Cheers boys.
Ive always known that i didnt want to be famous (or at least for as long as i can remember).
What i do want is to have earned the respect of people that i live nearby, enough so that theyre happy to see me and acknowledge me.
Just be friendly, helpful and interested in their lives. If they do not respond in kind, then they're not worth the effort anyway - move on.