How to Increase Confidence - Stop Worrying What Other People Think
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 พ.ค. 2024
- How to Increase Confidence - Stop Worrying What Other People Think. Do you constantly worry about what people think? Does it affect your confidence? Join the 21-Day Career Revisionist Intensive here: careerrevisionist.com/intensive
One of the biggest obstacles I hear that is preventing people from moving forward in their careers is that they worry about what others think. Even when they know they need to make a change, they worry about not getting approval, about receiving criticism, about getting judged.
Over time, this affects one's level of confidence. The good news is that confidence can be regained with one simple choice. When you learn about what confidence really is, the answer will inspire you and you will be able to boost your self confidence.
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Most career and job search strategies bombard people with messages telling you to a-million-and-one things like: craft an outstanding resume, write an attention-grabbing cover letter, do an extensive job search, go networking often, reframe your weaknesses, upsell your strengths, impress the recruiters, and upgrade your technical skills.
While those may be a necessary part of the equation to building a meaningful career, it isn't the right place to start. Starting there often leaves even the highest performing professional feeling frustrated, uninspired, and beginning to second guess themselves.
Job postings are like advertisements. They were written by hired hands to attract candidates.
You need to be applying business development strategies to your worthy career goals.
If you don't do this, you can count on having negative thoughts creeping in about what's wrong with your resume, your background, age, experience, or anything you might think is putting you at a disadvantage.
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The problem I have is neither about procrastination or anxiety; and I do not think of myself. I just get nervous. Most of the time, my voice becomes hoarse the day I must give a speech and I can't talk.
I'm trying to get better at not worrying what other people think.
good luck. it is a process that needs a lot of insistence
Same here!
Goodness me, Dr. Lee, you are a gift. I just bagged a job as a Director in my company, and am listening to this and loving every minute of it.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Congratulations on the new position!
I liked your advice on turning thought into action.
Thank You Dr. Grace Lee. Your channel is a heaven to my life. Thank you for sharing your ideas especially to all introverts like me. I hope you will succeed more in life and continue helping other people like me who has a small voice and unconfindent, may we come out to our shell in a loving way. Love u so much Dr Lee. 💕☺️💜💜💜🥺
The last part really hit me.I've been thinking of my past lately and it opened my mind to check if the things I believed before made sense.
I love the part where you said if you compare your self or your beginning to someone else's middle or end then that's not an apples to apples comparison. It becomes an unfair comparison. This is so true but I find it is sometimes difficult to accept. I'm a recent graduate from university starting to build my my career. I recently started a job as a community worker which was going good initially until I got feedback from my supervisor saying that I possibly need more shadowing and would need to work on my communication skills. I internalized it so much that it started to affect my confidence and gave me so much anxiety. I started to compare myself to my other colleagues who have been there much longer. Soon, I realized that doing this isn't helping me in anyway but rather making me doubt abilities to a fault. I've decided I am going to take a professional communications course online to sharpen my skills. Thankfully, I also came across your videos which have been super helpful!!. :)
Amazing… it makes sense, thank you Dr Lee for sharing your ideas. It helps alot.
I had to subscribe after listening to you
Nice video grace . The video on confidence is really motivating.Thanks
Thank you Dr grace Lee 🙏
Embrace life 💝 We all get one life…love the life you live!❤❤❤❤
You’re so sincere
Nice.I tend to worry about my thoughts not coming out well.I love your accent.You're rich in words
Thank you so much for your advices Dr. Grace Lee!
You're welcome, Grace Lin! Welcome to my channel.
you are great !
Thank you so very much ma'am,high respects for you... .
You're thoughts on this is amazing & encouraging.
Glad to hear you feel encouraged!
Awesome video. It's like the saying..
The mind is everything. What you think you become.
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Dr grace, I love your advice!! Your message is sincere and motivating. Thank you!
Thank you for saying so! It's my pleasure to have you in my program!
Great video🎉
Great points! Lack of confidence is a hindrance to success. But is it ever possible to be overconfident enough to hurt yourself? Is it a balancing act or is there something else going on? Thanks for your content.
That's a great question, Eric! I appreciate your question. Both lack of confidence and overconfidence happen when we don't have the self-awareness to identify the boundaries of reality of our limitations. So it's not quite a balancing act. It's rather an intention and then a decision to become an aware person.
You’re a wonderful person. I only wish I met you earlier in life.. I wasted soo much time. Now I feel the train has passed.
Wow
How would you apply this?
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thats the type of person i am
Hi Dr Grace, I am curious to know are you doing youtube channels. Just seems like you have such confidence you would be super busy with your career progression. Would love to know
This is my TH-cam channel. I also help entrepreneurs build their own TH-cam channel so that they can have more visibility, reach, and authority in their industry
I'm constantly having flashbacks to my perceived failures. Any advice?
Time to change the story you've been telling yourself about what those failures mean. Rewrite to story to one where can see how your past experiences were necessary and well-timed to get you where you are today. And practice being more present rather than in the past
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@@DrGraceLee Wow! That is super insightful! Love it, and it is something I needed to hear, and angle I never saw. ('past experiences were Necessary')
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Like your video. But I’d like to mention that the background music is quite loud. Thanks
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate you. Right you are, the music is quite loud. I'll make sure my subsequent videos don't have this same problem
What your in a situation where you have to speak to a group of people and you don't want to make a fool of yourself. But you decid to take a risk and speak anyway then you actually do make a fool put of yourself and feel 10x worse then what?
i am the kind of person that likes that kind of stuff
I appreciate the comments, Lakesha. Welcome to my channel.
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Great content, very helpful. Please lower the volume of the background music - it is competing w your words and difficult to listen to!
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I really wanted to watch but the music ,so annoying😤😤
I didn't even notice the music until I read you.
Donald Trump oozes confidence! Just imagine yourself as Donald.
Why are you at a pool table?
Same question here! And as a avid pool player...it make me wanna find a shot to shoot😂😂😂
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