#1 Learn the shared language #2 Create and enrich connection Authenticity, Vulnerability, Trust #3 Listen better Embrace silence, Be present, Ask clarified Questions #4 Hold the responsibility for communicating #5 Focus on the outcomes #6 Be direct, To the point and Concise #7 Personize it #8 Respond with curiosity Thank you very much!
Im a new viewer & subscriber. Im only 28 but I've spent 10 years in pharmacetical sales for a popular drug maker. I always like to learn how to speak without showing my age and im getting good! Thank you for supporting us young career women.
Favorite tip: Holding the responsibility for communicating properly and how you contribute to the company achieving favourable outcomes. Great video! Thanks for posting.
Thanks for the tips. I am definitely going to focus on the outcome and measure my improvements on seeking feedback and ability to achieve the outcomes.
Respond with genuine curiosity, coupled with care and concern is a great tip. I also liked being responsible for the outcomes to add value to the organization. Awesome video.
I like Dr Lee s advice.Being an active listener or responsible listener. It is easy to communicate if you are knowledgeable. The knowledge is a main key.
Being responsible for communicating is my favorite tip but the last being curious is a game changer for sure. I’m not adversarial in my communication but there are times I’ve been tempted. So both those will make me a much better communicator even with myself. I can get stuck in my head and frustrated but these two tips I can see freeing me into a better space with my listeners. Thank you
Thank you for sharing this thoughtful comment. Our temptations to become adversarial are feedback mechanisms to point us in the direction of where to evolve. Best wishes to you in your journey, may it be fulfilling!
Communication responsibility so far is my favourite tip. Sincere gratitude from you Dr Lee for all the excellent information you have been sharing. I am already flourishing with positivities.
I feel like both the speaker and the listener are responsible for understanding the message, here's why: The listener is responsible to actively listen to what the speaker is saying so that they can decode and understand the message. That ofcourse is if the speaker did their part to convey the message concisely.
I think you have a bit of a contradiction. You start off with an explanation 👍🏽 but end it with solidifying the importance of the "Speaker" having the responsibility of holding that responsibility. There part convey/understanding of the conversation and their request/topic or what have you as in topic of conversation the Conveyor is initiating
Favorite tip. Making sure the party/parties understand what point/points I'm trying to make and get across. Me holding the responsibility being the initiator of the conversation. I'm responsible 👍🏽 listening through the whole message revealed that nugget to me thank you🙏🏽
I wouldn't fall in with empathy, only when it's clear it's being reciprocated. On jobs I get thrown off guard if I'm too comfortable and someone does a power play. Some people fake it.
Clarifying that the listener received a clear understanding is very important. Most time we assume the information was clearly understood. Thank you, keep making more videos
#8 Respond with curiosity is key. It is actually #4 and #8 rolled into one. Thank you! Recently, I added a bit of HTWFaIP by giving an honest/sincere compliment then following that up with curiosity -- a total game changer.
Answer , I think it's initially your responsibility. If you want to communicate, then you must do so in a way the other can understand. Answer 2, The above was my favourite tip, because it reaffirmed what I already believed.
Great tips and well presented in a clear and concise way. Particularly liked the last tip-present with curiosity as it will lead to capturing the audience(s) attention.
Fostering an environment grounded in trust, vulnerability, and authenticity is undervalued far to often. In my experience working in toxic environments, it was challenging to be honest, as admitting to a mistake often led to belittlement and degradation. This created a setting where everyone felt miserable and constantly on edge. I find it difficult to understand who benefits from such an atmosphere. It is far more advantageous for everyone involved to be in a safe and comfortable environment where individuals feel seen and heard, enabling them to thrive and perform their tasks effectively, without the concern of being singled out for harsh criticism or humiliation in front of their peers.
Great tips! One that resonated with me was that the initiator of the conversation is responsible to insure the message is clearly understood. .. wish my former boss listened to this video.
Very interesting points. for me, listening is the most important. I have this disability that when the speaker talks, it takes a little for me to hear and understand. so I say pardon me, and the speaker repeats his sentence, but before he finishes, I get the meaning. In another word, there is a delay of a few seconds that I get the meaning of his word or phrase, or sentence. and I wonder whether for an interview I should say this disability to the employer or not.
Being present is indeed a form of active listening. Active listening goes beyond just hearing the words being spoken; it involves fully engaging with the speaker and giving them your undivided attention.
Dr. Lee: This is the second video of yours I've viewed and your face and presentation seemed familiar. Surprise! I subscribed a few years ago. You challenged me with tip 4: Hold the responsibility for communicating. Immediately my mind went to the scene in "Cool Hand Luke" where the Captain - warden of the prison facility in Florida - announced to the convicts, "This is a case of a failure to communicate." I joke with myself about that film often (over the years, I've realized that Luke was a nihilist - but it will always be one of my favorite movies). Sometimes I ask, "Whose fault is it, Captain? It couldn't be yours, could it?" Of course, had Luke or any other inmate challenged the Captain, that inmate wouldn't have been long for this world. I'll share this also: when I began Naval training, we were confined to five basic responses: "Yes, sir;" "No, sir;" "Aye, aye, sir;" "I'll find out, sir;" and, "No excuse, sir." The response I latched on to was, "No excuse, sir." So when I see you stress that the initiator is responsible for his message being received, it resonates with me. Thank you.
Dr. What about a video on how to improve communication when you are the host or a guest in an online meeting? I am struggling with it these days. I like your energy and passion on what you do. Good job. Cheers.
That's a great suggestion, Natasha. I do already have a implementation plan where I walk you through how to develop a plan for your life and career. You can learn more about it here! careerrevisionist.com/intensive
#1 Learn the shared language
#2 Create and enrich connection
Authenticity,
Vulnerability,
Trust
#3 Listen better
Embrace silence,
Be present,
Ask clarified Questions
#4 Hold the responsibility
for communicating
#5 Focus on the outcomes
#6 Be direct, To the point and
Concise
#7 Personize it
#8 Respond with curiosity
Thank you very much!
Thank you for outline of speaking points
@@buttaflybytes pleasure 😊
This is 👍🏽
Respond with curosity.
She's a pro. Excellent tips, especially "Listen better." That's key.
Im a new viewer & subscriber. Im only 28 but I've spent 10 years in pharmacetical sales for a popular drug maker. I always like to learn how to speak without showing my age and im getting good! Thank you for supporting us young career women.
What was your 18 year old self doing in pharmaceuticsl sales
Favorite tip: Holding the responsibility for communicating properly and how you contribute to the company achieving favourable outcomes. Great video! Thanks for posting.
Ok, that being said is it a mutual responsibility or is it the communicator conveying the conversation to the other party/parties responsibility?
Stage one is my favorite
Congratulations to you that made it available and makes others to be an effective communicator!
1) Listening better and 2) Being Responsible!!
this lady taught me a new word today. that was cool and thanks dr. lee
Thanks for the tips. I am definitely going to focus on the outcome and measure my improvements on seeking feedback and ability to achieve the outcomes.
Respond with genuine curiosity, coupled with care and concern is a great tip. I also liked being responsible for the outcomes to add value to the organization. Awesome video.
I like Dr Lee s advice.Being an active listener or responsible listener.
It is easy to communicate if you are knowledgeable. The knowledge is a main key.
Being responsible for communicating is my favorite tip but the last being curious is a game changer for sure. I’m not adversarial in my communication but there are times I’ve been tempted. So both those will make me a much better communicator even with myself. I can get stuck in my head and frustrated but these two tips I can see freeing me into a better space with my listeners. Thank you
Thank you for sharing this thoughtful comment. Our temptations to become adversarial are feedback mechanisms to point us in the direction of where to evolve. Best wishes to you in your journey, may it be fulfilling!
Ok, but getting stuck in your head, which approach do you go with and what exercise do use to catch it before it starts? Thank you 🙏🏽
Communication responsibility so far is my favourite tip. Sincere gratitude from you Dr Lee for all the excellent information you have been sharing. I am already flourishing with positivities.
Loved holding the responsibility if the conversation
Thank you Dr Lee🎉 for the tips and guidance in all your sharing. Always useful and I have learned😊
Out of the first four tips, my favorite is number 3. I've been working on being a better listener with the students I work with.
That is amazing, Jack! I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. I'm happy for your progress.
Taking responsibility if you initiate is awesome
I love the way you elaborate things.👍🏻 Thanks for all the tips
My pleasure Joni, I hope you enjoy all my videos and find them helpful as wel. Thank you for watching!
THANK YOU SO MUCH MA'AM SO CLEAR THE YOU EXPLAIN. I WILL APPLY AND.PRACTICE DAILY.. GOD BLESS YOU MORE WISDOM TO SHARE US MA'AM ...WATCHING FROM HK..
I feel like both the speaker and the listener are responsible for understanding the message, here's why: The listener is responsible to actively listen to what the speaker is saying so that they can decode and understand the message. That ofcourse is if the speaker did their part to convey the message concisely.
I think you have a bit of a contradiction. You start off with an explanation 👍🏽 but end it with solidifying the importance of the "Speaker" having the responsibility of holding that responsibility. There part convey/understanding of the conversation and their request/topic or what have you as in topic of conversation the Conveyor is initiating
This is a very helpful video, thank you for sharing it
Tank you very much for sharing this informative video.
I would like to ask permission to use this as reference to my reporting.
Favorite tip. Making sure the party/parties understand what point/points I'm trying to make and get across. Me holding the responsibility being the initiator of the conversation. I'm responsible 👍🏽 listening through the whole message revealed that nugget to me thank you🙏🏽
Appreciate you sharing your takeaway, Octabio. Welcome to my channel!
I wouldn't fall in with empathy, only when it's clear it's being reciprocated. On jobs I get thrown off guard if I'm too comfortable and someone does a power play. Some people fake it.
Game changer and absolutely full of gratitude for this message. Thank you Dr. Lee.
You're welcome, Jeff!
This will help us all exist in a much better work environment. Thanks!
Clarifying that the listener received a clear understanding is very important. Most time we assume the information was clearly understood.
Thank you, keep making more videos
Last one is definitely my fav. Many ppl fail to do this at workplace
#8 Respond with curiosity is key. It is actually #4 and #8 rolled into one. Thank you! Recently, I added a bit of HTWFaIP by giving an honest/sincere compliment then following that up with curiosity -- a total game changer.
That's amazing!
That pause won my subscription 😂
Relevant information-Thanks Dr.
Thank you Dr Grace for the tips. The way you present in addition to the content is inspiring. I want to be an authentic person like you.
Brilliant pointers Grace!
Out of the 4 tips, my favorite so far is tip# 2 - Create and Enrich connection
The one who initiates the communication is responsible for the message being understood.
A good communicator is good conveying message so that the listener will understand it
You nailed it!
Sync'd with all the points above since I work in a big team. All valuable reminders.
Thank you. I liked the “listening better” tip , embracing the silence and being present. I plan to implement it today. ❤
Sounds wonderful, Makhoshi!
Hold the responsibility for communicationing .My favourite tip.
Answer , I think it's initially your responsibility. If you want to communicate, then you must do so in a way the other can understand.
Answer 2, The above was my favourite tip, because it reaffirmed what I already believed.
Great tips and well presented in a clear and concise way. Particularly liked the last tip-present with curiosity as it will lead to capturing the audience(s) attention.
Listen better....loved it!
Thank you very much. You’re the best.
Kudos Dr. Lee!
I love your articles and strategic presentation!
Thanks Grace,Very impormative.appreciate.
My takeaway or what I particularly needed to hear from this message is the 80/20 rule. It is ALL such great info !
I'm so glad that you had such a great takeaway from my video. Happy to heave you here!
Thank you so much, these are some great tips on communication. 👂👂I'm lessoning very well. Because communication is the key.
Indeed! Welcome to my channel, Ms. Hendricks.
Thank you for this insight!! Highly valuable information! 🙌🏽
Thank you so much I love focus on the outcome.
Very informative content. Thanks Dr. Grace lee
Fostering an environment grounded in trust, vulnerability, and authenticity is undervalued far to often. In my experience working in toxic environments, it was challenging to be honest, as admitting to a mistake often led to belittlement and degradation. This created a setting where everyone felt miserable and constantly on edge. I find it difficult to understand who benefits from such an atmosphere. It is far more advantageous for everyone involved to be in a safe and comfortable environment where individuals feel seen and heard, enabling them to thrive and perform their tasks effectively, without the concern of being singled out for harsh criticism or humiliation in front of their peers.
I found it important when you talked about the responsibility of the person who initiated the conversation.
To be vulnerable and authentic
Woww,,,,I am amazed by your video towards the tip number 2 and 8 mostly,,,,thanks a lot.
I'm your favorite out of the eight points was to make sure that who you're speaking to heard what you said to be effective
Great takeaway, Pamela. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you Dr, I am learning
i liked the the listening and delivering of the content tip
I appreciate your kind words, Ashmi. Welcome to my channel!
this is amazing but the editor didn't cut that clip lol!
I know! That brings their humanity and makes it more credible *and funny too.
"Hit the head line" realy important... Very helpful tips thank u ma'am.
Nice tip 😊 It’s the initiator’s responsibility to communicate clearly with the listeners 😌
hahahah authenticity kicks in ... can u cut it and sure he did :)) u r genuine;)
Very detailed
I have difficulty to express myself in a concise manner and I found those tips very helpful. Thank you.
you are awesome, will use your tips.
Salamat Dra. Thank you thank you very much, God sent you for many, specially for me
I love listening to her
woow you are good.. what I take home today is " embrace silence "
Love your takeaways! Thanks for sharing.
This is a valuable content,,thanks you very much
Amazing tips
Be Direct, To The Point and Concise
Favorite is Tip # 4: Hold the responsibility for communicating.
Thanks for sharing. I've learn a lot.
Glad to help. Share with me the biggest takeaway that you learned!
Listen better is more effective.
Tip #4 so far
Wow you are the best in language
i like that Dra. Thank you so much
Hold the responsibility in communication
Thank you so much
Great tips! One that resonated with me was that the initiator of the conversation is responsible to insure the message is clearly understood. .. wish my former boss listened to this video.
Hi everyone. Yes, speaker has to make sure they are understood. That means asking for questions, offering clarification.
Fave tip: listen 80-20
Very interesting points. for me, listening is the most important. I have this disability that when the speaker talks, it takes a little for me to hear and understand. so I say pardon me, and the speaker repeats his sentence, but before he finishes, I get the meaning. In another word, there is a delay of a few seconds that I get the meaning of his word or phrase, or sentence. and I wonder whether for an interview I should say this disability to the employer or not.
You always give me positive vibes .. God bless ♥️
thank you for helping meh to speak more🙂😄 better
You're welcome, Oyinkansola! Glad to have you here on my channel.
Being present is indeed a form of active listening. Active listening goes beyond just hearing the words being spoken; it involves fully engaging with the speaker and giving them your undivided attention.
Communicate in teams and express reality helps execution and leadership
This message is timeless thank you madam
Thank you for the insight Ma'am , you are responsible for your listeners hearing you out, that effective outcome is successful communication
TIP #2: CREATE AND ENRICH CONNECTION
This tip articulated by you would help me to connect BA' and AI enthusiast at workplace and across 🌎.
Dr. Lee: This is the second video of yours I've viewed and your face and presentation seemed familiar. Surprise! I subscribed a few years ago.
You challenged me with tip 4: Hold the responsibility for communicating. Immediately my mind went to the scene in "Cool Hand Luke" where the Captain - warden of the prison facility in Florida - announced to the convicts, "This is a case of a failure to communicate."
I joke with myself about that film often (over the years, I've realized that Luke was a nihilist - but it will always be one of my favorite movies). Sometimes I ask, "Whose fault is it, Captain? It couldn't be yours, could it?" Of course, had Luke or any other inmate challenged the Captain, that inmate wouldn't have been long for this world.
I'll share this also: when I began Naval training, we were confined to five basic responses: "Yes, sir;" "No, sir;" "Aye, aye, sir;" "I'll find out, sir;" and, "No excuse, sir."
The response I latched on to was, "No excuse, sir." So when I see you stress that the initiator is responsible for his message being received, it resonates with me. Thank you.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment, Spencer! I enjoyed your story
Creat and build enrich connections is the most crucial element of effective communication.
the more I expose my self to situations where I can talk , i get better at it. if i stop doing that I get worse ..
Dr. What about a video on how to improve communication when you are the host or a guest in an online meeting? I am struggling with it these days.
I like your energy and passion on what you do. Good job.
Cheers.
This is good
Thank you!
My favourite tip is to use a common shared language.
What are shared language for teachers to use
👍 Good for you to be able to comprehend what you is missing 🥫
Well said. Will try to use all the tips , esp by being a good listener.
Did anybody understand tip number 4?? No just kidding actually a great tip and this has been a very helpful video thank you.
Can you please give an example for each tip? Thank you
Tip 2. Create an enrich connection
With regards to who is respinsibke, i initially i thought its the person delivering the message then i wobbled snd thought the receiver as well.
Create connection
Can you do a topic on developing a five year plan for your personal life and family?
That's a great suggestion, Natasha. I do already have a implementation plan where I walk you through how to develop a plan for your life and career. You can learn more about it here! careerrevisionist.com/intensive
💡🍏💜🍎☺️ Truly 💡
i like them all