THE INFP PERFECT MATCH

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  • @ErikThor
    @ErikThor  3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Whew, so glad I found the perfect match for you so you don't have to wonder around anymore! :)

    • @ashley336mccoy
      @ashley336mccoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But how did you? I heard we are too manipulative to find “the perfect match” 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @Xanatis
    @Xanatis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I'm pretty sure I found another INFP. We're at the "is this a date or are we just having an art workshop" phase, can't wait to move in together and get another cat.

    • @yt-sh
      @yt-sh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      happy for you and can you tell me hows it with INTJ ?

    • @gauthampalaniandy7331
      @gauthampalaniandy7331 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We need an update on this 😂

  • @cristinasoto3852
    @cristinasoto3852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I'm an infp and have been dating an infj for almost six years. We actually didn't know our types till 5 years later. But I think what's important for an infp in a relationship is we want to be understood and so does the infj and we give this to each other. It's like we are both different species of alien and we come together to share how weird and strange life is on this planet, sharing the hardships of being aliens in this society 👽 👽

  • @chamelionvibe9426
    @chamelionvibe9426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I met another INFP who was always lingering around me and so I started to ask her questions about her life and she opened up her heart to me which in turn caused me to open up to her and now we are closer to one another unlike any other personality type. The level of understanding and tolerance for one another has no greater equal. We enjoy our company very much and we get along very well. I can't imagine being with a different personality type. It is so good.

  • @laurita9690
    @laurita9690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I am an infp and my boyfriend is an enfj. And he makes me feel like so special. If I play on the guitar he says:"I love when you play on the guitar. You are so talented🤩 You have so many potential. Let me show it to you!" While other people would say:"Is this everything you can?😒"

    • @magusl9628
      @magusl9628 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He sounds like he just wants to het in your pants 😆 may I ask, are you 2 still together?

    • @amytiffanyhemingway
      @amytiffanyhemingway 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you probably are 9w1?

    • @samtula5946
      @samtula5946 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣 at the last statement and emoji face

  •  3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    This video is perfect, I loved it 😂 The truth is that my perfect match as an INFP is my idealization of a perfect partner. That's why we tend to fall in love with fictional characters 😅 But in reality, things don't happen like it does in our imagination, so I just hope to find someone who truly loves me. I think that's enough.

  • @Xanatis
    @Xanatis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I won't lie the INFP - ESTJ one triggered my fight or flight response.

    • @serendipitous8
      @serendipitous8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @trustyourself-ashleyching3646
      @trustyourself-ashleyching3646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As an ENFP, my ESTJ buddy would never work

    • @meaganturner1444
      @meaganturner1444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg just got out of an ESTJ relationship it was hell 😂

    • @tash6974
      @tash6974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ohhhh hellll nooo

    • @amytiffanyhemingway
      @amytiffanyhemingway 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahaha 3 yrs going strong. I think you have to fancy them a lot, to get past the need to fight.

  • @nataliesimpkins45
    @nataliesimpkins45 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m an INFP and my husband is an INTP and we’ve been together for over 20 years. ❤

    • @lilac624
      @lilac624 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nice

  • @winxclubstellamusa
    @winxclubstellamusa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This amount of sarcasm was very exhausting for me, lol. My absolute favorites are ENTPs, I believe that they are the perfect match for a more expressive, communicative, and ambitious INFP like myself. ENFJs are my runner up.

    • @lilac624
      @lilac624 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nice

  • @jacobplourde8109
    @jacobplourde8109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Estj is maybe the personality that will help improve myself but not in a relationship. Estj scares me

    • @lilac624
      @lilac624 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can learn from estj but I cannot connect with one..Estjs are highly logical

  • @sunshineandrain869
    @sunshineandrain869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I’m an INFP and I actually did date an ISTP for a few years, but it was a weird situation. He was going through a divorce and I was kinda running away from home. Also, he was much older than me (I was 20). We found what we each needed for a time. But needless to say, it wasn’t a normal relationship. At least he taught me some basic life skills, which was much needed. It all happened a long time ago. Like I said, a totally weird situation. And I’m “mostly” stable now. 😆 I have an appreciation for ISTP’s, but I would never again start a romantic relationship with one. I might delete this comment later.

    • @Kai25062
      @Kai25062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I guess you forgot to delete the comment - ISTP

    • @bystandersarah
      @bystandersarah ปีที่แล้ว

      😑

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@Kai25062 Admitting the inevitable upcoming internal freakout at sharing something personal on a whim because it matched the topic, makes it okay sometimes. Can relate, at least ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @cosmiconni6321
    @cosmiconni6321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Best match for infp is someone supportive encouraging and loving. For me as an infp i find the isfj super humble. Practicing humility would be a great benefit for the infp. We both would love to match on the same quality.

    • @amytiffanyhemingway
      @amytiffanyhemingway 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      sounds too boring to me. I would friend zone those types.

    • @liamsammon6123
      @liamsammon6123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isfj is one of the types I wanna date XD (infp)

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      INFP here. My husband is an ISFJ. He is very supportive, humble, hardworking, and people-oriented. He wants me to be happy.
      I am not very high maintenance, so I don't abuse him. We have common values and common goals. We both seek truth and the author of truth.
      It's a very comfortable union. He's a jokester and pretty playful. We've been married 11 years.

  • @michellewei9139
    @michellewei9139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If I'm actually an ENFJ, well, I generally have NO PROBLEM figuring out what I'm going to order. The only thing is... I say to my husband at dinner "what are you ordering?" Only because I know he doesn't like it when we order the same thing! So I try to watch out for that. I say "I was thinking of getting X". If he says "I was thinking of that too", then we will negotiate what we decide to get. This so we can "share" a little bit off our plates to enjoy different things on the menu!
    This doesn't always happen. Just sometimes.
    So... That IS or ISN'T an ENFJ thing??

  • @Miricakes
    @Miricakes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Aww I was rather hoping you would reach the same conclusion as I did not long ago. The perfect partner for an INFP is the imaginary boyfriend or girlfriend! 😉No one will ever measure up and be as perfect as him. 🙂
    /INFP Hugs!

    • @BethanyLowe8773
      @BethanyLowe8773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Works for me too! (INTJ)
      Furthermore, my imaginary boyfriend is INFP....

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hugs back 🤗

    • @magictransistorradio4933
      @magictransistorradio4933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So does this mean the perfect song for an INFP is Dream by the Everly Brothers?

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm with an entj and I could not ask for more. Learning from one another every day. I've never had to deal with such direct statements before but I'm dealing 😂 He's very patient with me

  • @8bert9
    @8bert9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I agree. Life experiences mold an individuals personality as well and that is why every person is unique no matter what their personality type is.

    • @lilac624
      @lilac624 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But MBTI is a great start to understand human temperment.

  • @RsaDesign
    @RsaDesign ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm an INFP. I have lived with a ESTJ roommate/friend for several years and I've had a ESTJ supervisor for 8 years and let me tell you in both situations it was hell. In both cases I end up running away at the end and I honestly hope I will never ever have to be in a close relationship with another ESTJ. Surprisingly my partner is a ISTP. We have been in a relationship for 11 years. He does criticise me almost every day but he also complements me everyday and he gives me more rational way of thinking when I get too emotional and he gives me the freedom I need. I don't really know any ENTJ or INFJ/ENFJ/ENFPs that I'm aware of to comment on it.

  • @geistzeit7885
    @geistzeit7885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Now I like NT Types...in my past I dated INFPs and people I was attracted to (without knowing their type). Now I like NT Types. I love to date my ENTP crush, because he has so much phantasie and intuition and is so beautiful and mysterious inside. INFPs are soul seeker, not type seeker :)

    • @lilac624
      @lilac624 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually Kiersey proposed
      NF-NT and SJ-SP pair..

  • @allielicona9218
    @allielicona9218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As an ENFJ I can say at least for myself, I am perfectly capable of ordering food for myself 😂 I have a harder time making decisions with bigger life decisions due to trauma, however I’m working through those traumas and will be able to make decisions myself :) if I were with someone however, I would want us to make big decisions together, and since he’s the man I would look to him to lead and make the deciding decision. However simple things such as ordering food at a restaurant? I’m not going to have a meltdown over it nor order the same thing as him 😂 I like my food too much 🤣 He can order what he wants and I’ll order what I want 🤷🏻‍♀️ if he wants to share, awesome sauce 👍🏻 if not I’m perfectly fine with my own food 😁

  • @lilac624
    @lilac624 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In my experience, I can't connect with thinking types like STJ..But I can learn from their being logical and organized.
    Feeling types I feel are for feeling types..
    I feel like our society is much in favor of thinking types..Our society needs more feeling types..

  • @hivicar
    @hivicar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good way of saying that the only real love is a relationship that is not based on conditions (i.e. "I'll be happy once you've changed this, or done this, or stopped doing this.") -INFP/ESTJ 40 year couple.

  • @julyy7771
    @julyy7771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    😭Im so disappointed.. I thought I was eventually going to get THE answer 😂

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Im sorry! I wish it was that simple! lol 😂

    • @RosheenQuynh
      @RosheenQuynh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same! I'm so sick of daydreaming about it, I just want my Heartmate already! 😭💔

  • @bbjudyfit
    @bbjudyfit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I am here for all this INFP content! Thank you Mr. Thor😊😊

  • @jasminehusband6087
    @jasminehusband6087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Died when you talked about istps! My first real crush was an istp, and it did not go well. We were both very immature so it was REALLY awkward 😂 I think I’ll just settle for writing my ideal man into a book. Thanks for flooding us with infp content! It makes me feel loved😊

  • @tinkershell1856
    @tinkershell1856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video! I would love more of these! I was married to an ISTP for over 20 years. The continual criticism without praise is taxing for this long. He did help me make deadlines though.

  • @freeyourmind11155
    @freeyourmind11155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    INFP here, just recently got into enneagram. Had my husband take the personality test, he's an ISTP. Got all stupid excited when you said best match is an ISTP!! Love your channel!!

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you talk deeply? Do you do activities often together?

  • @angelicatrino2498
    @angelicatrino2498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I agree INFP hardly initiate. I need my INFJ sister in my life. I am all over the place. She puts order in my mess. There are unhealthy and immature people in each type. Relationship is work. So if two people are willing to make the effort to make it work that's it.

  • @leedlbagginshield8492
    @leedlbagginshield8492 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I‘m an INFP and the types I‘m attracted to the most and found to work out best for me relationship and friendship wise are INFJs, INTJs and ENFJs. INTPs, ENFPs and other INFPs make great friends and they are also relationship potential

  • @cleopatraastria5217
    @cleopatraastria5217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow INFP expert and relationship guru! Love it you are so on point 👌 🥰

    • @lilac624
      @lilac624 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Estj and Infp should never be together..STJ types should find other thinking types like STP, NTP and another STJ.

  • @amytiffanyhemingway
    @amytiffanyhemingway 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Interestingly, you have picked up on the history of my relationships. 10 years with an ISTP. Yep. Aloof, cold, didn't want to go anywhere. I kept trying. Then met an ESTJ. My career and life has completely changed, I am improving all the time. Then I met another INFP, which I couldn't believe happened in the flesh. But now he wants to be with me. I'm like..... you're just like me. I need an ESTJ. I need my opposite. To make the dream team. Plus I love him. So out of ISTP, INFP and ESTJ my vote is ESTJ all the way. I could have stayed with ISTP for rest of my life, and stayed in that comfort zone of fuckedupness, I was kind of happy, it made sense in some way, but I would have been basically alone living in fantasy land and never growing or having real affection. ESTJ keeps me moving, on my toes, having to improve myself to keep up. It drives me. And he shows affection. It's like a dance, two sides of the magnet. INFP make lovely sweet deep friends. But I already know it would be like two weirdos just living in dreamland. In the real world you need action. Life is short and you have to make the most of it. INFP is great for friends, but not for marriage. ENFJ? No. Mates maybe but they end up winding me up. Never really know what they want, flighty. Like ENFP, friend zone only.

  • @dearcharly9110
    @dearcharly9110 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am dating an Isfj and I feel safe with him. He take care of everything... And I feel like I don't need to worry about anything because he is there for me taking care of everything for me

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am 11 years married to my ISFJ husband and he takes care of me and the home (I reciprocate care).

  • @bbjudyfit
    @bbjudyfit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You are such a troll🤣🤣🤣
    Btw.. idk what anyone says... i am 100% compatible with ENFJs 😍

  • @julyy7771
    @julyy7771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don't agree on the relationships of 2 infps. I mean you can be an Infp and intiate something like really... However being with tour mirror is not so best match to grow and be balanced

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Obligatory PSA: This whole video is satire, lol

    • @julyy7771
      @julyy7771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ErikThor haha of course, got it! I was just in the middle of the video when i reacted (too much Se in me maybe ^^)

  • @ClubENTP
    @ClubENTP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Mom Is An INFP And My Dad Is An ESTJ. Married For 55 Years But They Are Night And Day.

  • @charlottejackson2893
    @charlottejackson2893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My husband is istj, he keeps me in the real world but in a gentle way. God only knows where I’d be if he didn’t 😂😅

    • @sharpiesarecool814
      @sharpiesarecool814 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw that's sweet 🥰

    • @dearcharly9110
      @dearcharly9110 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm dating an Isfj and I feel the same. I feel like I don't need to worry anymore about myself because he will take care of me

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@dearcharly9110 my ISFJ husband takes care of me everyday.

  • @rachelmartina1851
    @rachelmartina1851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do question my INFP-ness though. I only want a partner who has high EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE and is PATIENT with me, because I used to be a victim of bullying and that made me more hot-tempered and aggressive. Extraverted Thinking dominants like ESTJ or ENTJ, or Introverted Thinking dominants like ISTP or INTP won't be able to handle me Lol

  • @diplodoctopus4241
    @diplodoctopus4241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm going to go with . . . no one.
    Why match with anyone?
    Gotta universe to explore.

  • @trustyourself-ashleyching3646
    @trustyourself-ashleyching3646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Erik: You can’t compute love mathematically?
    Socionics: 😛

  • @dianeferguson357
    @dianeferguson357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That devilish smile. LOL.

  • @bystandersarah
    @bystandersarah ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to meet more infp for friends but not romantic stuff. I know I need someone different than myself for that role.

  • @thomasdawe1837
    @thomasdawe1837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Did people really miss the sarcasm in this? God forbid you ever meet an INFJ in person, everything will go over your head.

    • @jessieessex
      @jessieessex 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But wait…God forbid? Oh no.

  • @umirahmizahbintimdlazi7057
    @umirahmizahbintimdlazi7057 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Actually it is true. Because Infp is so complicated. Have tried dating many type including enfj, infj, istp, enfp so many. Istp one is totally authentic like us but in a better way. Aloof, cold dont really care about others but also kind hearted. They teach us so many things but they are also stubborn. They are action oriented people and also a sweetheart. True to themselves and teach us to be more realistic like them. It is like yin and yang combination.
    Enfj type ive dated before want to change us but we cannot be changed actually. We are who we are but istp is actually teaching us to be ourselves. But they are good listeners, always helping us, and also want to change us 🤣
    Infj is also great when I dated this type. We have the same sense of humor, give each other comfort but at the end of the day, they are so indecisive and want us to make all of the decisions. They don't know what they want and want us to initiate all of the effort in relationship .
    For Enfp, they actually quite the same as our type. Maybe becoming friend might me okay. When we get into relationship, we are both not attracting each other due sharing the same values. Infp will become boring and end the relationship.

  • @magusl9628
    @magusl9628 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate your honesty. At the beginning of the video, you sounded like the typical youtuber trying to sell their channel 🙄, but good job I kept watching! It was worth it.

  • @mirab1488
    @mirab1488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My uncle is infp with an esfp and they’re so cute🥰

  • @hayagrivawellness
    @hayagrivawellness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What about ENTJ? I am extremely fascinated by this type.

    • @lostindawind4116
      @lostindawind4116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ENTJ here.... I have an INFP relative, and I'm pretty sure I've hurt their feelings countless times. I don't have patience for that.

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fascinating. What intrigues you specifically?

    • @hayagrivawellness
      @hayagrivawellness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lostindawind4116 I've never met one in real-time I guess! But their internet depiction so badly makes me want them in my life.

    • @pinklasagna8328
      @pinklasagna8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Infp here. I dont know why but i am naturally attracted to entjs. Maybe because their Inferior Fi is a good place for our auxiliary Ne to go and see what is happening. I know no type likes people to look at their inferior function But from my personal experience, entjs do opens up if you just tolerate their aggressive behavior, show your emotional side to the world and still be confident about it. Their big Te is also very attractive for us since we value it but dont really know how to use it. I can see romantic relationships with them working but entjs really want to succeed and infps dont believe in succeed or their version of success is completely different from entjs. I mean love is just two people agreeing to other person's bullsh*t so meh. I dont know if other infps feel the same way but that's just from my personal POV.

    • @hayagrivawellness
      @hayagrivawellness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@heatherhafer3333 Their ability to charge of the situations & to make any situation work in their favor for starters! Their controlling nature is a big turn-on!!!

  • @heatherblack1684
    @heatherblack1684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a funny video and spot on. I'm an INFP and I have been married for 10 years to an ESFJ (although sometimes I wonder if he is really an ISFJ) and he literally drives me crazy, but we make it work.

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do/did you wonder if he might be an ISFJ?

  • @ruraruri
    @ruraruri 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    lord my crush is an istp and everything he said about the infp thought process while having/hoping for an istp partner is so true

  • @catellus
    @catellus 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Falling into passionate love is fantastic, fabulous, and energetic for this INFP............but sooner or later they are not the most magnificent being they seemed to be..... And if they apply themselves to organizing my life and disaproving of my dreamy way of life ITS OVER . But leaving ? Thats a whole other problem.

  • @AlexxxxPanda
    @AlexxxxPanda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’d love to find an INFP but we are rare it seems.

    • @SL4IN
      @SL4IN 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's right, we're part of the rarest mbti types. But i had the chance to meet like 3 INFPs, but they were all females. I actually have an INFP bf, but he is the only INFP male that i've ever known in my life.

  • @nikczemna_symulakra
    @nikczemna_symulakra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let's be real, there's simply no light at the end of this tunnel.. isn't it :/

  • @fenzda
    @fenzda 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ESFJ is good too. My wife forces me to discipline myself. She is correct.

  • @mila3805
    @mila3805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please do one for INFJs and one for ENTJs!

  • @JasmineAtlas
    @JasmineAtlas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is... satire right? I am picking up the right vibes right?

  • @chuckdavidson5483
    @chuckdavidson5483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm INFP and I dated an INFP. She and I are too much alike.

  • @otheusrex2190
    @otheusrex2190 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    infp here, liked, commented and subscribed

  • @anticlimactic165
    @anticlimactic165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    me and my partner are infp and istp XD

  • @Divine_lntervention
    @Divine_lntervention 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    But how do I know if a person to who I am strongly attracted is essentially good for me? Do you know what I mean?

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was strongly attracted to an INTP and later to an ENTJ, but neither held the moral values or love for truth and the Lord. It wasn't going to work.

  • @rosaliemcg2979
    @rosaliemcg2979 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anyone here looking for an Intp? I love Intps! I hope I find one that likes me.

  • @karenperaza2868
    @karenperaza2868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for the video! 😊
    Actually I was about to say that at the moment I'm not looking for a relationship, because it doesn't make sense to me having a partner and be aware that being in it engage me to act in some particular way and after all always appears some problems or differences, especially know that what we call ''love'' is just attraction and a try to accomplish with biological aim and we're not usually conscious about it.
    But on the other hand, I realized that for some reason I clicked the notification and watched this video and now I think underneath, maybe, I still looking for someone (Will be?).
    Anyways, I'll be thinking about it. (´-`)
    Really thank you for the video (again). XD😊 Greetings from El Salvador. 🤗

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like how self-aware you are, very cool use of Introverted Feeling. But even if you are actually not looking for a relationship right now, its still in human nature to be curious, right? :D

  • @rehanfarooqui2071
    @rehanfarooqui2071 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you :)

  • @trustyourself-ashleyching3646
    @trustyourself-ashleyching3646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Structured, routine, part of society’s mold, successful, career-oriented
    ESTJ 😵‍💫

  • @user-hf7tg3sq7i
    @user-hf7tg3sq7i ปีที่แล้ว

    You just broke my infp dreams hahah

  • @someone-hz8tj
    @someone-hz8tj 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally. I watched some videos about social compatibility, and I think it would make sense, but I always thought they were kind of pointless because you can make an effort to give the other person what they want, and they can do the same.
    Also, its not like you will get along with EVERY person having a certain personality type, and its not like they would get along with you?

  • @jazmin6031
    @jazmin6031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My boyfriend is an enfp and we are the perfect couple (except for the cleaning hehe, house is a mess after 3 days of deep cleaning hehe Luckily I cook and he washes). I don't have many friends to visit us anyways 🤔

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw haha and get a paid cleaner!

  • @BarbaraMoretti
    @BarbaraMoretti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What about INTJ or ENTJ?

  • @ErikAdalbertvanNagel
    @ErikAdalbertvanNagel 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel called out by not able choosing from the menu. The menu has options.
    Make your own food on the other hand...
    Btw I would add to the match ENFP too.

  • @z9elka
    @z9elka 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey, don't call me wierd! How dare you!

  • @44Aroda
    @44Aroda ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No, then it would be an overload with another INFP, need balance. INFPS are very emotional, best match would be someone more emotional grounded and less emotional. To act like an anchor. So i dont agree with this as being the best match.

  • @Cherry_l3ee
    @Cherry_l3ee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me: an INFP
    My sister: ISTP
    Us: I DID NOT STEAL YOUR HAMBURGER WDYM OF COURSE YOU DID! AHHHHHHHH!!!

  • @cassc3032
    @cassc3032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    INFP married to an INFP here ♥️

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s impossible. One of you must be another type.

    • @heatherhafer3333
      @heatherhafer3333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@winxclubstellamusanot impossible

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@heatherhafer3333 no, it really is. One of them must be a mistyped ISFP or INFJ, because a large portion of INFPs are mistyped ISFPs.

  • @bystandersarah
    @bystandersarah ปีที่แล้ว

    My istp cheated on me.

  • @alishavorster-el7rb
    @alishavorster-el7rb ปีที่แล้ว

    😄I rather stay Single thank you

  • @adamants007
    @adamants007 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is it strange, if an INFP could understand an ESTJ inside-out?
    I mean, I could understand my partner's values and the reason behind it...
    Mistyped (but I'm really sure, I am an INFP) or its just INFP's super power?

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You can understand anyone- but remember, that doesnt mean that you have to like them!

  • @mjmc6785
    @mjmc6785 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahahaha! So funny, so true...

  • @christinapantouli4783
    @christinapantouli4783 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thx🙂

  • @maggieso640
    @maggieso640 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true

  • @nita6573
    @nita6573 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my first crying drama he will jump off the window and make a tom cruise stunt to disappear😂😂🥲😂

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      smart guy

    • @nita7997
      @nita7997 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ErikThor I agree 😂😂😂😭😂

  • @Thompsongs
    @Thompsongs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did I freaking know that the "serious answer" would ultimately be a non-answer, nothingburger.

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are just that smart 😄

  • @tamtamX-cq8or
    @tamtamX-cq8or 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @shellye7052
    @shellye7052 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ESTJ…nightmare.

  • @moflo6093
    @moflo6093 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love

  • @bencollins1210
    @bencollins1210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ISTP no just no sorry but no, definitely no. My sisters is an ISTP she’s great and an amazingly talented person, but each to there own. 😂

  • @BUTTERBEAN999
    @BUTTERBEAN999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you an infp

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      infj :)

  • @BethanyLowe8773
    @BethanyLowe8773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the weirdest video to experience, even though I knew you were joking!
    PS gonna bribe you on Patreon to say they should choose INTJ

  • @sneharamesh2181
    @sneharamesh2181 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom is an Enfj 😂

  • @kimmietwinnie
    @kimmietwinnie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't understand the purpose of this video. It's misleading. On the one hand you title the video INFPs perfect match and then expound on the best three compatible types for INFPs and on the other hand after the roundup, you state there is no perfect match, no formula etc. Why not put this disclaimer upfront and present your views acknowledging this is just your hypothesis. Instead, there is an air of snarky confidence; "I am holier than thou and I know better." Even your reasons for eliminating a type seem immature. Don't go for ENFJs because they don't know what to order in restaurants! Any discussion about compatability should add nuance and seriousness.

    • @KarilynVS
      @KarilynVS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the 'snarky confidence' is actually sarcasm. he is saying how all the types he mentioned probably wouldn't be best matches for an infp

    • @sharpiesarecool814
      @sharpiesarecool814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah this is all satire. he's trying to say that compatibility guides are unnecessary and don't work because every INFP is different.

  • @lorentrute9440
    @lorentrute9440 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No. Infj.

  • @mahaabdalla6641
    @mahaabdalla6641 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🫥

  • @themuslimlady9509
    @themuslimlady9509 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍💡📙