MY BIRTH STORY ... scheduled c-section for our breech baby
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Sharing my 2022 birth story of our second baby girl - our scheduled c-section at 39 weeks because she was breech & what to expect (after we tried spinning babies, an ECV (external cephalic version), webster technique with a chiropractor, yoga, etc.)
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As a nurse about to walk in for her 3rd night shift in a row… and an avid follower of yours, this reminded me why I’m a nurse. God is so good! All the health and happiness your way for your sweet family ♥️ congrats!
A nurse here starting the week with tonight’s shift. Always my routine to get ready while listening to Jess! ☺️❤️ wishing everyone a good night!
Thank you for being a nurse. My mom and sister are both nurses, so I might be biased 😉 but I am so thankful for nurses and their willingness to care for patients.
Also a nurse & it made me cry & be so happy too to be a nurse!! I loved that she had the nurse that explained the whole c-section & the NICU team being so great to her! It made me cry & reminded me that our kindness really makes a difference 🥺💓💓💓
I just wanted to say thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤ for being a nurse a Dr anyone in that field you all deserve all the praise. Much love and blessings.
Omg I was just thinking THIS is why I’m a nurse and such mundane day to day things for us are a part of their birth story forever
"Trust your gut" is 100% the best pregnancy advice. With my second pregnancy I had a bad feeling as soon as we had our first ultrasound at 8 weeks and the baby was measuring 9 days behind. My doctor refused an ultrasound at 10 weeks so I scheduled a private ultrasound at 12 weeks just to find that the baby's heart stopped at 9 weeks. Had a D&C last week and the procedure went great. We're at peace and moving on, but our hearts and our bodies know what's up.
So sorry for your loss. ❤️
Sorry for your loss. I hope that doctor is no longer your doctor.
Goodness, I too am sorry for your loss. It angers me that your doctor was so dismissive. Praying for the Lord's provision wherever needed.
I’m so sorry! That shouldn’t happen in today’s world. Glad you are at peace with it. My heart hurts for you.
😢 so sorry! Praying for your continued peace 🙏🏽
As we say in Ireland...she looks like herself
She is gorgeous. Congratulations to you all ❤️
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The “crying alone behind a tarp” thing is REAL!! Also, I remember lying there and listening to my c section docs talking about their next vacation, and realizing how this is SO routine for them even though it’s not for me.
Mine were talking football.
The only crappy part of C-section delivery for me. Moms gets baby IMMEDIATELY right there on their chest after vaginal birth. Meanwhile us c-section mamas are just laying there so alone in a room full of people. Dad and baby were off on their way back to our room while I was still laying there. I've never felt less important than I did laying there on the operating table listening to some random medical professionals water cooler talk. =/
I could see my body cut open in the reflection of the metal on the ceiling. It was surreal. I was shaking really bad after, it was hard to hold my son for a while after because the medicine they had me on for the C-section.
@@starlessstephtx I had the same shaking. It was crazy. For 2 hours I looked like I was suffering from hypothermia and people kept trying to pile blankets on me and not listening when I said please stop, I'm so hot. I didn't feel safe holding my child until even longer than that 2 hour period. It was such a surreal experience
@@annaxbarie I think worst part for me was my second of three c sections. My epidural didn’t take so I had to be completely knocked out and everyone was able to hold my daughter before me and see her before me, dad ok I understand but his mom and anyone else who showed and didn’t wait for me to wake up and get out of recovery. I can’t even remember who was there but photos were posted from everyone so the world seen her before I did.
My first baby was stillborn at almost 41 weeks, so I COMPLETELY understand the fear of not feeling baby move enough. Never feel bad Mamas about going in to get things checked out. I had 3 more healthy, breech babies (all scheduled c sections) after that & had weekly NSTs to put my (and my doctor’s) minds at ease. So happy for you & your family. Such a sweet bundle of joy💕
Thanks a lot for sharing your experience. There are a lot of things that can happen and we feel so alone because nobody speaks about them.
Sorry to hear that and yes I would give mothers the same advice . People always think you’re overreacting if you want to go and get checked.
@@anitalamapachita , for sure! I never want to scare women when I share that, yet I also know that I felt SO alone. I benefitted greatly from connecting with other women who were going through similar grief. I feel like being open about that time in my life, while tremendously sad, can help others & honor the life of my daughter. 💜
Sending love and hugs your way. Thank you for sharing x
@@DanielleAmelia you’re welcome. That was almost 15 years ago, but an experience like that never leaves you. Painful, but lots of beautiful things came from it too. 💜
I had a scheduled C-section on March 18th and my doctor had music playing during the surgery and she was dancing, singing and having a good time! It put me so at ease, I loved it!
My mom had a weird feeling when she was pregnant with me because my sister moved around a lot and I didn't. I was born with Spina Bifida 🤷♀️ You did the right thing. Always trust your gut.
YES!!!
IfTH-cam gives awards for posts which make a positive impact, this one should be nominated. I’m in my 60’s, so these experiences happened a long time ago for me. But, much of what you went through (with postpartum depression and the struggles with breast-feeding) are still really strong memories for me. I wish I had had the access to a relatable and encouraging voice like yours. I did eventually learn to shrug off other peoples’ judgments about the necessity of switching to bottle-feeding. It took me 5 MONTHS!!!! after my baby’s birth to seek help for the paralyzingly depression I’d fallen into. And, when I did, they found out that my thyroid hormones were really really low. If that had happened to me nowadays, and I had watched your video, I know I would have sought help sooner. Best of luck to you, Tyler and your two sweet ladies. Many hugs from Canada.
"crying alone behind a tarp." Aww, Jess I wanted to reach through and hug you! Congratulations!! Felicity looks like you Mama Bear. Definely, her big brown eyes!! 💙👏ps...my baby is 40!!! Lol 👍
Crying alone behind this tarp was my experience too lol
When I gave birth to my son my grandmother ma called me and over the phone she said “welcome to the one an only job on earth that doesn’t have retirement package, my oldest (my mom) is 54 and I’m still praying for her every night”
As someone who had INTENSE post partum depression and anxiety, you are giving me so much hope for a potential second baby. 💕
There’s definitely hope! Mine are 5 years apart bc of that same thing. Medicine and a good dr. helps so much, I felt very prepared with my second and had all the support in place. ❤️ 🙏
Trying to find hope for a second myself!! It’s hard. Feels good to know we aren’t alone ❤️
I'm never having kids so I'm always weirdly fascinated by birth stories. I'm so glad you've had your beautiful baby girl, Jess! Wishing you all the best!
Wow.. I'm exactly the same! Lol I'm not having kids either but I'm always up for a baby story. Whenever one of my favorite youtubers gets pregnant, I'm like all in on the baby content. I get soo excited for them.. I'm so happy for Jess and Tyler. It is weird, huh.. 🤔 lol and I desperately miss seeing Gigi!
Same.. the thought of me having kids creeps and disgusts me but I love supporting other people and listening to their experiences when it comes to having kids/parenting
Nothing is wrong with that . There’s something poetic about watching new life .
Same!! I’m fascinated but it’s definitely not for me
@@Nilesedge I'm so glad to see I'm not the only one. I'm older now, almost 48 but I knew as a young adult that I didn't want kids. Definitely not for me! Guess I'm just not a kid person 🤷 lol but I love to watch Jess's sweet family grow ❤️
Jess, I am so grateful you went into the detail that you did regarding everything. I am 7 months pregnant expecting my first and I needed to hear the good and the bad. Thank you for always being so real and being willing to put yourself out there to be a help to others! I can’t imagine how difficult that was but know it is appreciated!
Same here🥰seven months pregnant expecting my first baby. Hope we will have a healthy and lovely baby :)
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I am just know 31 weeks and seeing this video! I hope you and your baby are doing well!!❤️
When the NICU team leaves, I was weaping at that point in your story. Beautiful! I had complicated pregnancy with my son (27 years ago) and didn’t get a cry right away and he had to be taken and those nerves can still get raw. You look wonderful!
Jess, girl you got me bawling here 😭 honey, we may never meet this side of Heaven, but on the other side, you best save me a seat somewhere, because I will wanna hear it all! You and Tyler make everyone feel like we are extensions of your family 💕 this is not an easy feat. Congratulations! She is absolutely beautiful, but come on man, we already knew she would be, look at the genes she pulled from! 😍
^^ This comment right here! EXACTLY 💕
We all must be sisters from another mister because you put into words EXACTLY what I was thinking and how I feel. It’s gonna be one heck of a family union/reunion when we all get there. Hugs and blessings to ya’ll.
Please never stop talking about your PPD experience. I have a 1 1/2 year old and I’ve been feeling the exact way you described. Hopeless, inpatient, angry, and just not like anything is worth doing. My baby was also in the nicu when he was born and I that is hands down the hardest thing I’ve ever been through in my life. I can’t even begin to describe how sad and how much like a failure I felt. It was also covid rules so I was only allowed to “visit” the nicu every three hours to feed him then I had to leave. It was horrible. In the beginning of postpartum I just thought it wasn’t PPD because I didn’t feel like I wanted to hurt my baby (I felt like that’s the way they described a lot if it) but it was and I am just now getting help because if it…. A YEAR AND A HALF LATER!! So thank you for sharing your story. You can’t imagine how much you have helped me 💜
Also was terrified to have another baby because of that experience even though I’ve always wanted 3 or 4 kids. But I am finally able to breathe when I think about it now.
Watching this again while pregnant and I feel like I can relax and not have a stone hard birth plan because I’m not in control. Thanks for helping me realize that. I appreciate your videos and honesty
So thankful this has been a smoother experience for you! I love how open and honest you are and for sharing it all with us. I’m a L&D/postpartum nurse but I still do love hearing everyone’s birth story. Yes, for us it is “just a typical Tuesday” but every single time I’m still in awe with every birth. And it’s so helpful to hear patients perspectives so we can explain and advocate for you and improve what we do everyday. Congratulations on your beautiful family! ❤️
This is what moms need to hear!!!! The truth! And to know it’s ok to feel sad. It doesn’t make you a bad parent! I have 3 kids but I wish had seen this video while I was pregnant with my first! Thank you! ❤️ Congratulations!!! She’s beautiful!!!
I had a c-section too and I totally get how you felt before and after, from thinking I'll see her in a few hours, to hearing her bawl the second she enters into the world. They thought she may have problems with her lungs, but that baby cried so loud. I bawled with happiness.
Thank you for sharing!! 👶 👩🍼
Congratulations. I think she looks just like Tyler. I think it’s fantastic for you to explain everything. Women need to know these stories and understand the process from pregnancy, birth, baby and depression. I don’t know why but we just don’t share and we need to learn from each other. It’s wonderful that you are teaching others on your far reaching platform. You are the sister/friend that women need. Be proud that you are helping others!! Much love to you all. 💗
I’m so happy that this time around you had a more enjoyable experience.
And yes, yes, yes. We must speak about postpartum depression, we must share the “signs” of it and encourage each other to ask for help. I didn’t knew about it, I was busy taking care of my son and it took me too long to notice it, and I wish I could come back and ask for help earlier so I could enjoy my boy’s first year, all that time is a blurry memory, and it saddens me.
I just had my c section a week ago for my baby girl. It’s been so fun being on a similar journey with you! Congratulations to the whole Braun family 💖💖💖
Congratulations on your baby girl. I’m glad everything went well. 😊
Congratulations Jess! Felicity is perfect and I am just so happy for you! 💗
Heck yes. I am so here for you shouting out preventative post partum depression care! I am so proud of you for taking control and giving yourself that grace.
As a momma of a NICU baby I can’t even imagine the relief you felt with them leaving. I had such a rough first birth experience and this just gives me hope that it can be better!!
Twenty years ago I had an urgent C-section. One of the only times I've seen my husband weepy was when then popped my daughter above the drape (tarp, lol). He loves to tell people how they kept going back in a rooting around like it was Herminie's purse. So happy for your family.
As a grandma now and retired ob nurse i sat and cried as you spoke so poignantly of your ups and downs and fears! You are so wonderful to do that because it helps so many other soon to be and new Moms. I was a nurse married to a doctor and couldnt breastfed and remembed feeling like a failure. Glad my nursing friends and husband supported me and reassured me it would be okay. So as you mother two there will be times you will feel inadequate but firstly remember we all are different and its okay to do things your way. There arecno manuals or hardfast rules. You are such a gift and those beautiful babies are lucky to have such a loving mom! So the adventure begins again and now there are two!!💕💕Gods miracles never cease🕊️💟
I’m an OR tech, some of the conversations we have in the OR would crack the patients up if they could hear us. Im so happy you had a great experience in the OR and had such a great team by your side🥰
Thanks so very much for all you do. Everyone in that field deserves to know just how truly special each and everyone of you are. Many blessings your way and for all the other amazing ppl who help to keep us in great shape. Much love..
A few years ago I had a colonoscopy and as the anesthesia was taking effect the OR folks were talking about swimming with elephants lol
Fellow OR tech here!! And yes our convos are truly something else 😂❤️
I want to just say thank you for telling your story. I'm having my 2nd October 24th repeat C-section. My first birth was traumatic and I'm so scared having another. I know that your story has helped me tremendously know that there can be a good birth experience. This is our rainbow baby and I've been so stressed the entire pregnancy but I know that your story shows the true meaning of a different experience than your first. I'm hoping mine goes like yours did. I am so scared to go through that again and having postpartum depression again. I felt like I was drowning. I'm so excited to have her but so nervous. Thank you again for telling your story. It helped me realize my feelings are valid and know it isn't always a bad experience. Congratulations on your baby. God bless your family❤️
Omg Lily would be an amazing nickname for Felicity! And also kind of a call back to Rose (flowers you know ) 🥰
I found you many moons ago when you were reviewing some product then baby Gigi, like tiny baby Gigi, made a cameo and I was hooked. I have three kids and I’m so proud of how you’re recovering! Keep beating the drum on normalizing PPD and breastfeeding struggles. Mamas need to hear it.❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations to all of you! You had me choked up when you talked about the NICU team peeking around and saying how great the baby was doing as they filed out of the room, taking all that anxiety out with them!
I'm a nursing student and THAT nurse did her job! I'm grateful my professors stress the importance of education and taking the time to truly care. So glad she could help ease your fears 💗 So happy for you and the entire family
I had 2 pre-term emergency C-sections and they were wildly different. It's so interesting to me to hear other people's stories. So happy that everyone is home happy and healthy!
Thanks so much for sharing your beautiful C-Section/Birth story. We only had one baby, vaginally, healthy and perfect. I lost two after that and decided to stop.
Our precious daughter, however, had to have a C-section and it was at the height of Covid. Her husband was the only one allowed to be present for the birth... I never really fully understood what she went through. It was traumatizing for her though and she didn't talk about it much. You sharing the story, brought to light so many things I never even knew about having a C-section.
I suffer with severe mental health issues. I never had postpartum depression, which is crazy, but I suffer from regular depression anyway. So, your call to action to take care of it before it happens, is so wise and preventative.
You are my daughter's age and I love watching your videos! Big fan here. You had me tearing up several times. God bless you and your new family and I know this is a year old video, but just watching it now. Thank you, hugs.❤️🙏❤️
Thank you for sharing Felicity’s birth story with us❤️ When my son was born, via c-section on Mother’s Day, the whole OR team was talking about who brought what for their mother’s day potluck, and talking about their recipes, etc. It was so weird in the moment but funny to look back on.
My first baby was breech so I had a scheduled c-section with him. Then my second was born via emergency c-section. I remember crying alone behind a tarp and the funny conversations the doctor and nurses were having both times. Congratulations again. 💕
Just sitting here getting ready in tears remembering my own birth stories. My kiddos are 2 and 4 and I have so many of the same feelings about their two vastly different births.
Congratulations, Jessica! I’m so glad that (like me) you’re getting to experience the joy of having a new baby instead of the struggle that was the first go around. ❤️
Oh my oh my! You got me reminiscing about my births - kids are 6, 2 and 5 months. There is absolutely nothing like the overwhelming feelings terror, joy, exhaustion, love, self-doubt and pride that childbirth brings. Congratulations to the four of you. I could not be more happy and relieved to hear all went well for you xxx
I have followed you for years, but I’m currently pregnant with my first and all of your pregnancy videos have been so helpful. I love that you openly talk about your postpartum struggles, as that’s something I’m very worried about for myself. Congrats to you and Tyler! ❤️
Firstly, that shade of pink of your sweatshirt is absolutely glorious on you. Secondly, not a momma and not planning on being one but I cried when you shared the part about the NICU staff leaving because it meant Felicity didn’t need to go to the NICU ❤️ So happy for you and your beautiful family!
My oldest is 12 today, he was a C-section baby and you just took me down memory lane! Congratulations Mama. So happy you had a good experience and she’s beautiful!
Love love love that you shared this with us . My 2 pregnancies were in an abusive relationship and I wish I did more to enjoy the younger years but all I can do is be better and happier now so I understand and God bless your family ... Love you so much -a stranger lol .
I pray you NEVER ever allow this or any person/ MONSTER 👹 abuse you ever ever again. Many blessings your way. Enjoy your angels God sent them to you to be happy not be abused by anyone taken you away from that.
I’m so excited to hear Gigi being a big sister stories 🥰 felicity is so precious Jess
I've had two c sections emergency and it really hit me hard because I wanted a natural birth no epidural nothing and all that went out the window when my babies were in danger. I'm happy they are healthy and so freaking smart. Congratulations!!!!
Congratulations! I teared up with you when you described the NICU team leaving and the relief you felt. My first baby (a few weeks younger than Gigi) was also whisked away to get checked and it was so scary. My second baby was able to stay with us and the relief was huge. And the difference in how I felt was also incredible. Felicity is beautiful!
You covered EVERYTHING that happens to a woman with a c-section so very well. Mine occured 42 years ago, and it was still spot on with everything. Great video Jessica. Cheers!
This story gives me all the feels!! I also had my baby girl, Blaire, the same day you had your beautiful Felicity... we were a scheduled csection as well. Listening to you talk about the crying behind the tarp, the waiting for the cries, and the random convos while you lay there, had me reminiscing to just 3 short weeks ago!!
This video brought me to tears. Both my girls came into this world via scheduled c-section. My older daughter gave me a run for my money. I was induced twice with her and ultimately ended up with a scheduled c-section. I absolutely remember after getting the spinal block, how quick they flip you around to get your legs up on the table before they go completely numb. And yes, that minute between when they pull the baby out and you have to wait to hear them cry, is the longest minute of your life! I remember being absolutely terrified during that moment of waiting with both of my girls. Glad everything went ok! Congrats 🎉 on your beautiful baby girl! My girls are 7 years apart.
Congratulations! I got the feels when you were telling the story of the NICU nurses leaving the room 🥲 so happy all is well. My daughter’s name is Felicity Ann and we mostly use “Lissy” as her nickname ☺️
21 weeks pregnant and just sitting here crying my face off. 😭 thank you for sharing all of this.
Also- as a peds OR nurse you are 100% correct. Surgery for us is just another day but I try so hard to remember that for these patients/parents it can be one of the scariest days of their life. Thank you for the reminder. 🥰
So happy to hear everything has gone smoother this time around! Loved listening to your story, it was like catching up with a close friend!
Jess!!! I’m in tears 🥺😭🤍🤍🤍 I cried when you talked about the NICU team leaving!! I’m a nurse & I work in pediatrics & so I’m used to talking to parents & calming them down! It makes me SO happy that you had the nurse who explained everything about the c-section & that the NICU team reassured you! God, I love being a nurse & getting to be a part of those cool moments so it just made me so emotional to hear you talk about it bc I try so hard to always be THAT nurse that explains everything & whatnot so I love to see that it really does make a difference!! I’m so happy for you guys!!! Congratulations & I’m so happy everyone is happy & healthy!!! 🥺😭💓💓💓
Started crying almost at the start. So so happy that everything went right this time for you. Love you and your sweet little family so much. 💗
They tried to manually turn my breech baby and I SWEAR I saw stars and ascended to the heavens from the pain! It felt like I was being ripped from inside out, so I totally get you. Felicity is so precious. God bless your family always. ♥️♥️♥️
Watching this brought back memories for me. I forgot how weird it was seeing my older babies and how giant they looked when my youngest was born. Congrats on your beautiful baby, and I’m so glad things are going better for you this time around!
The Felicity crying moment, the stuck behind the tarp, the nicu team leaving, you reminded me of the experience so clearly of my 29 year olds birth… no, you’re crying. 🥲Thanks for bringing that memory back and CONGRATULATIONS!!!! 👼🏼 💝
I don’t know why but “I’m alone behind the tarp crying “ keeps making me laugh. But seriously, good job warrior mama. I’m so thrilled for you and Tyler. I’ve been watching you since 2015 and you have never looked more beautiful. ❤️
Thank you so much for posting this, No it wasn't too long and No it wasn't too emotional. I tried for 10 years to have a baby. Lost 5 babies, almost died and ended up having a complete hysterectomy at 34 and suffered for about 5 years going through forced Menopause. It has been one of the hardest things life has thrown at me. After years of being on anti depressants, anti anxiety meds and therapy I have learned how to be happy again and created a fulfilling life in other ways than being a mother but hearing these stories is the closest I will ever be to giving birth and it is fascinating to me and allows me to feel some of the joy of giving birth. So thank you again.💝👶
ITS HEREEEEE!!! Can’t wait to watch this! 🥰🎈 so happy for you guys!!
Alot of good information here.
I've had 2 c sections here is my story -
I had my first son in 2018 and since I was 38? with high blood pressure they decided to induce me. I went in and the induction didn't take but my bp kept going up to 170. That worried me, so by the end of the day with my contractions, etc, I wanted a c-section. My doc agreed. I was so dang scared but my team was absolutely amazing. Everything happened so fast, they explained everything to me. My baby came out peeing and screaming and it was the most magical sound ever. It made me cry.
My postpartum team was amazing as well. My lactation consultant was amazing as well. I had a GREAT experience. I felt like I was catered to and watched closely. I walked to hallways and all the women would say hi to me and ask me how I was doing. This was before covid and I was in the hospital for about 4 days. I left the hospital crying because I wanted that team of girls to come home with me LOL. It was so silly.
When I got home. The moment I walked into our bedroom a wave of panic came over me. I realized... What I was holding, I realized what was happened. I realized... what the heck have I done? My husband took our son away quickly as I broke down. I remember the feeling all to clearly, postartum is no joke. I remember my husband bringing me to the bed, putting our son in front of me and holding me until I stopped. I remember asking him, how do I go about my life now? My husband is amazing, the support I got from him was exceptional. My other postartum story was when I realized I couldn't feel my baby anymore. That was another wave of panic I felt. My husband knew exactly what to do. He put our newborn right into my stomach so that I could feel him. He took my hands and made me hold him. I was lucky enough not to need meds. I did breastfeed for about 3 weeks but my baby and me, well. His latch HURT so dang much. I finally gave up and just pumped.
My second has a shorter story haha. Another c-section in 2020, I was in alot more pain with this one. This time though, we had the pandemic to deal with so no visitors and I believe my hospital support was hurt because of it. Our hospital stay this time around sucked so bad I was begging them to send me home. When I got home my first born who was 2 didn't care for his baby brother. He shyed away from me and clung to his daddy. It hurt so dang much. The only postartum problem I had was the guilt over missing out on things with my first and I still feel that way and it's 2022. I did try to get him to latch but honestly, breastfeeding like that, with them latched hurts me. I just can't do it. I pumped on day 2.
Now I'm about to have their baby sister in July with another c-section. I'm going in knowing what to expect, knowing how I'm going to feel. I still feel guilt over my first because he is 4 and I've been pregnant 3 times in 4 years and it's taken a toll on my energy level. I feel like he has missed out on things I would have been doing with him if he had been an only child. I worry about how my second baby boy is going to handle it. He is a mama's boy and loves his snuggles. He will be 2 when she's born.
I have gotten what I thought I lost with my first born, but honestly, I never lost it. I was just so busy with my second that I didn't have time for my first. So this time around, I will make sure I spend as much time with both my boys so they do not feel left out when their sister is here.
For anyone still reading this, if you are questioning yourself, do not be afraid to talk to someone. Find your support person. Postartum is a real thing and it's not something to take lightly. Do not feel like you need to tough it out. You suffer, your babies suffer, your family suffers. Get the help you need.
Congratulations, you look so happy and I'm so glad she is healthy!! Wishing yall the best in this super sweet time. Also I cackled at "GiGi and FiFi.... absolutely not."
I love watching your videos so much. We have very little in common, but at the same time I feel like we have tons in common! You have such a laid back persona and your channel is such a comfort watch to me.
I love that you are talking about PPD! I was scared to death to talk to my doctor about it. My husband is the one that made me basically tell the doctor. Women definitely need to support each other and tell them about this stuff! You are amazing.
I had to laugh when you repeated that you were behind the "tarp" which made it sound like you were camping rather than having surgery. I'm so glad it all went well and Felicity is happy and healthy. Starting the meds early was perfect because who wants to be sad at a time that should be joyous.
I have to thank you! I don’t think it was just your birth experience. Maybe that was part of it, but I had about as smooth a delivery as they come and those first two weeks I felt the most hopeless I have ever felt. It was nonstop and more than baby blues. I was miserable. I had my baby in January and your videos are the reason I knew that wasn’t normal and I should talk to my doctor. They started me on meds and it changed my whole experience. I still felt that hopeless feeling even 4-5 weeks postpartum, but because of you I was already on the meds and they kicked in around then. You changed my fourth trimester! Talking about it is so so important so thank you!
I loved hearing every little detail Jess! Congrats to the whole family. Enjoy every precious moment..xo
Hearing you talk this time, the change in you vs postpartum with Gigi is so apparent. Thank you for speaking so frankly about your postpartum mental health. I had very severe ante and postpartum OCD with a taboo obsession and it nearly ruined (ended) my life. I remember sobbing telling my doctor and she held my hands while I cried, and I felt so relieved, like she was holding my soul instead. What a relief to know if we’re blessed with another babe that I can take action ahead of time. ❤️
I’m 5 weeks away from my due date and this video makes me so excited to meet my baby. I’m so happy for you and your family!
Best birth story ever!!! I had an 8 lb breach baby girl natural. Broke my tail bone and lucky I did not break any more bones in spine Dr. Said. Back in the 70s they did not even give epidural. God bless you all!!! My Mother and Aunt also had breach babies. Has anyone else in your family had them?
Omg literally left a video for this. Never clicked so quickly!!
Haha me too!
Same!!! 😂💙
Me tooo!!!!
Saaaaaaameeee
Same!
Congrats! I’m having a scheduled C-section next Wednesday with my first baby! Also tried multiple things to turn him except an ECV because my placenta is anterior. Super nervous as I’ve never had surgery..or a baby hahaha. But very excited to meet him!
Thank you for talking about your experiences and postpartum depression, it’s not talked about enough. Everyone just talks about the good stuff.
Oooohh, I was waiting for this one!!! Congratulations Jessica.
Congratulations! As a retired nurse who worked in L and D and postpartum for many years, it warmed my heart watching this video. So glad the hospital staff and lactation consultants were supportive. Thank you for sharing your experience with postpartum depression. Love your videos and Tyler's obsession/quest for the perfect bread recipe. I love it all!
Yes so excited for this. Got my baby girl in my arms - I had to have a section just under 11 weeks ago.
Edit - I had an epidural and the spinal tap and neither worked so I had to be put to sleep as I was able to lift my legs and everything. Felt so bad for my partner that he had to miss her being born. I didn’t have to wear a mask while in any bed just when out of bed, so didn’t wear for section even when they tried the epidural and tap. But my partner did
This is so emotional sat in tears with baby girl in my arms. When I woke up 2 hours nearly after baby girl was born. I was told she was in the nicu. I didn’t get to see my baby girl for the first 12 hours of her life. A nurse brought me a picture after 6 hours and I cried so much. She remained in nicu for 2 days. She had issues breathing at first and a heart murmur was picked up and an echo on day 2 showed pulmonary stenosis. Had to take baby girl to her first surgery at 5 weeks old and at 10 weeks old was told Monday operation 2 will be in the next 4-6 weeks. Being a mum is the most amazing experience but also terrifying as they become the most important part of your life.
Ok just finished. So happy for you all and especially for you that you are feeling much better this time. As I suffer with depression and anxiety I’ve been so worried about PND for so long since I found out I was pregnant even now. But other than a few moments which I think were more tiredness and the worry of her conditions and operation I’ve never been happier. You’re amazing Jess and thank you for sharing so much of your journey x
I’m so sorry this sounds like such a traumatic experience for you 😭
I’m sure that was so difficult but you sound like a super caring person with a giant heart and you are so strong from everything you’ve been through!! Hopefully you are feeling like you again and don’t beat yourself up for things out of your control 💖 (also of course hope baby is a thriving little bean 🌱💖)
@@brittypie8411 thank you she is doing very well and growing nicely. Such a little character 💖
My daughter in law just had the 1st baby girl in our family in 22 years!!. Such a joy she's beautiful 💕 she had a scheduled c-section as well and hard as it is a healthy baby and mom is all you really want. So happy for your new baby girl. Enjoy.
That's awesome. Congrats! My daughter was the first girl born into my husband's family in 40 years! :)
I’m so happy for you’re gorgeous family!! Congrats!!! In Australia, a lot of girls named Felicity are nicknamed “Flick”. Such a beautiful name!!!! 🥰🥰🥰
Congratulations!! Felicity is so precious. And thank you for talking about post-partum depression so candidly and openly. I'm pregnant for the first time now and have suffered from depression and anxiety pretty much my whole life. Talking to your support system and your care team is so important for being able to feel normal. I have been staying on my medication this whole pregnancy and it has been incredible. Everyone deserves to feel peace and happiness with their new little one!
Thank you for sharing your experience with us on the second time, blessings to you and your family ❤
Oh my granny heart!!!! I’ve cried a million years watching this!!!! I’m so happy and grateful that sweet baby Felicity is here and healthy!!!!! Much love and many blessings to you sweet Jess and your whole precious family🌸🌸🌸🌸
I am almost 55. And I love hearing the babie stories! Brings back beautiful memories of my babies. Thank you Jessica for being so through. Things have changed a lot in 18 years!
I cried with you as you cried and laughed with you as you laughed. It’s so crazy how you have an online community of people (myself included) who have never met you, but care about you and your family so sincerely. Thanks for sharing in such detail and transparency, I think it’s so important.
Congratulations!! She’s adorable!
How wonderful of you to stress the importance of being aware that some women will experience postpartum. So happy for your family that everything turned out healthy and happy, and she’s adorable ♥️
Congratulations❤️❤️ I am a labor & delivery nurse and am so happy they took such good care of you! You deserve it. Watching your videos is my favorite part of the week. You are a gem ❤️
I’m 2-3 weeks pregnant, still waiting for confirmation. But listening to your video made me so so excited!
I had an unplanned c section after a failed induction due to pre-eclampsia and this was such a good explanation. I cried as you told it as my daughter is now one and this felt like it was yesterday. Only thing to add for me was right before she was “evicted” the immense pressure the dr had to apply on my abdomen to push her out. Like knocking the wind out. Then that cry. The best sound ever. So happy to hear everyone is healthy and doing great. 🥰
I think it's so great that you're speaking up about your experience with post-partum mental health and how you're tackling/preventing it this time. So glad everything is going well for you all, I hope it continues!
Not pregnant or trying to get pregnant but I love hearing my favorite TH-camrs talking about their birth experiences. I’m so happy for you that your worst fears didn’t become reality. Congrats to you and Tyler ❤️
When I had my 1st c-section I was scared of needles, so all I was worried about was getting the IV. After they got the IV in I stopped worrying. The nurse who hugged me with the warm blanket when they put in the anesthesia block was an angel from heaven I will say
I am listening to your story crying because I understand everything you described. I had a premature baby who was breach and came via emergency c section because I went into labor. My son will be graduating high school next month and I can’t thank God enough. Enjoy your babies because you will blink and they will be grown. 😭
I remember my doctor telling me it was just the baby blues so I went to my family doctor and he put me on depression medication right away. It changed my life for better I hate that sometimes doctors really don’t listen. Bless you for telling women they’re not alone and you will get the help you need when you talk to another doctor and if not then get a third or fourth opinion I promise they will help. You just need a doctor who will listen.
As a labor and delivery nurse, I really took a lot from your story and the importance of just talking and really understanding the patient’s view. I’ve followed you for years and I’m just so happy for you guys! All my love and congratulations 💗🥰
I had a c section 2 years ago with my daughter. I have severe anxiety and panic attacks so the whole time I was on the table I was freaking out and my heart rate was sky rocketing. The anesthesiologist didn’t help me feel better so I had such a bad experience. Glad everything worked out amazingly for you! Congrats mama ❤️
Thank you for being so opened and honest about PPD. I suffered from PPD and PPA. Getting on meds was a game changer. I also had an unexpected C-section with my second child and it was super scary, but like you said it was just another day for the doctors! Congratulations, she's beautiful! 🙏🎀
I had a c section almost 19 years ago and I remember feeling and going through everything you said. Congratulations to you all shes beautiful
Congratulations! Listening to you brought back so many memories. I had 3 c-sections. Three sons, all grown up, my youngest is 28. With each birth I has one day of tears within days of having them. They do grow up way too fast, enjoy your bundles of joy.
Congratulations, she's perfect and I'm so happy for you and Tyler. Thank you for talking about those unsure feelings and being scared that the baby wasn't moving as much. Unfortunately, I lost my first at 39 weeks. No one told me about the importance of kick counts and fetal movement at such a late stage. And, the nurse just brushed it off during one of my last appointments, simply saying the baby was getting too big. Less than a week later, my little girl's heart stopped. I should have listened to my gut, because I knew something wasn't right. There's nothing wrong with going in and having them check on the baby. That's so important to talk about! A mother's intuition, more often than not, is right!
Thank you for sharing all of this! I am 57 years old, never had a baby, but I laughed and cried listening to your story. Kind of living the experience through you! Happy that all is well with you, the baby, Genevieve and Tyler. Take care
As someone who suffered postpartum depression after my second daughter - I really appreciate you sharing your story and making it so so real. I FINALLY talked to my doctor and did have to get on medicine as well - but I waited a long time before asking for help. So glad you can advocate for help for this -not so talked about-problem. Congrats on your beautiful addition!💕
I’m in my darn 50s and I loved this video. You don’t need to be young to enjoy it. I’m so glad things are going well! It kind of breaks my heart as I had my daughter 23 years ago and I now know I suffered with postpartum depression but didn’t know to ask questions. I just thought I was a sucky mother. It’s hard as I know I missed a time in my daughter’s life I will never get back. Heartbreaking. Thank you so much for continuing to advocate for new mothers! Sending many blessings to you all. Felicity is such a sweet little thing. I definitely saw Tyler when she was looking at him. I saw Gigi. I think Gigi is slowly starting to look more like you. Funny how all that works! Hugs!! 💜