I love to text-ditch my friends who have just had babies. By this I mean leave dinner, grocery, baby, and self care items on their doorstep and text them that it is there. That way they don’t feel like they have to impress or get dressed. ❤️
So freaking amazing. When I had a baby, no one did this for me because Covid. I felt like no one knew my baby or even asked. I do stuff like this because it wasn’t done to me.
I remember seeing the sadness in your eyes when GiGi was first born. You just seemed not sad about her of course, but just seemed different in some of the videos. I’m glad you are thinking more about that this time and know that it’s nothing to be ashamed of! You’ve been one of my favorite TH-camrs for many many years and I’m so happy to see you pregnant again and in a loving marriage with Tyler 💕 Thank you for always being so real with us and making us feel like we are part of your family!
I am so happy you advocate for mental health treatment and PPD intervention. I'm a licensed therapist and I hear your story over and over, especially from first time mamas. Most wait much longer than necessary because they feel so alone or that they will be judged. I love that you are using your platform to normalize PPD and the resources there are to treat that. I know you are making a difference for someone! Blessings to you and your new little one!
When I was pregnant with my twins we decided to find out the gender. We were told we were having a boy and a girl. Regardless of knowing the gender or not you tend to build a picture in your head of what this little person will be like. On the morning they were born we had two girls. Complete surprise but were delighted to have two healthy babies. It did feel like a loss though. I had this little boy pictured in my head and he was never going to be known to us. My girls are 18 now. It absolutely flies so enjoy every moment.
Jess, could you possibly talk about what the depression felt like? I kind of feel like people genuinely don’t know like what signs or red flags to look for. And of course it’s different for everyone but still what does depressive thoughts actually mean what does it look like, that sort of thing. Anyways, that’s all .. love you 💕
I had a similar experience trying to breast feed my first baby. It just didn’t work out and I felt so guilty. With my second and now third who is 6 months already I went straight to formula feeding! And I got rid of the guilt and shame. All three kids age 5,3 and 6 months are thriving! So yes don’t stress and do what is best for you! Fed is best!
I had postpartum OCD and anxiety that seriously affected/dulled the joy of the first year and a half of my daughter’s life. I have sooo much grace and love for myself postpartum and wish more than anything I’d spoken up sooner. When I went to my postpartum appointment, the dr I was seeing at the time said my screening answers were “borderline” but didn’t offer any options and I felt like I couldn’t even put how I was feeling/thinking into words. And OCD is so sinister and consuming that I was convinced child services would take my daughter away if I said anything. Finally one day at 2 years PP, I completely broke down in heaving sobs at my (new) doctor’s office and she held my hand and treated me with such kindness and empathy. I did several weeks of ERP therapy and got on meds. My daughter is 3 now and I am finally loving motherhood! If you’re having scary intrusive thoughts, you are NOT alone. You deserve freedom from shame and fear. Ask for help 💜
Literally NOTHING is more important than your mental health. One of the many reasons I watch you is because of how “real” you are. I appreciate and applaud you for using your platform to emphasize how crucial it is to take care of yourself, in every way possible.
I love this. When I had my baby I put his diet first because in my culture breast is best. Reading the ingredients in formula really bothered me. I was so mentally fu**ed over breast feeding (I had bad thrush) ouch ouch ouch. And I would push through. My sister was my sons Wet nurse and fed him and once she decided to end her breast feeding journey we went to formula and I’m not scared of formula anymore you can really find a great one. (F*** palm oil)
Thank you for taking the time to touch on your experience with PPD & your thought process with the 2nd baby. I watch your videos all the time, knew you experienced it, but I didn’t really grasp that it went on for 2 years. 😕 Glad that you made it through the whirlwind, Jess 💗 I also waited two years until my OB/GYN diagnosed me with PPD/PPA. The pandemic didn’t help, ya know? Haha. My husband took our son for brunch while my guy doc sat with a tissue box, while I sat in denial, & he said, “I feel like I’ve gotten to know you pretty well, Grace…you’ve been putting on a brave face for your boys [my husband & son]. I want you to know that we are all in your corner.” I bawled my eyes out and he sat with me until I was ready to put my face back on💄 & my boys came back to pick me up from the office. I never felt so relieved. It’s weird to say now but it took my doctor who I love, but hadn’t seen in two years, to tell me what my husband had been gently telling me for two years. Like Jessica talked about: I urge any mom (and/or dad - men can have a form of postpartum depression too) to speak to their doctor. It is such a common experience and truly can be alleviated with proper care. I’m so happy to read more stories like ours. We made it. 💗
@@itsjessicabraun 😳 Thanks for taking the time to read it! I’m fangirling. *races into home office to tell my husband lol* On a more serious note, thank you for being my cup of coffee on good days & weird days. Wishing all the best for you, Tyler & your baby girls! 🎄💕
My humble opinion, take the meds. There isn’t a downside to taking them, and you don’t want to risk wasting a single second with your new little one. You are such a good mommy, thank you for sharing. 💜
Mental health is becoming more of a topic in pregnancy and I am so glad. I have been on anxiety/ depression medication since I was 11. I got pregnant at 24 and had my baby a few months ago at 25. I was scared so scared that I was going to have to stop my medicine, I knew I would be a wreck. My dr prioritized my mental health though and said the risk of getting off my medication was larger than staying on it during pregnancy. I’m so glad she didn’t try to push to get off of it or to try something else. (What I am and was on is not usually used during pregnancy) my baby girl came out perfectly fine and I am so grateful for that. But I absolutely still had PPA/PPD EVEN though I was on my medication, but once it was upped I was all good. So if anyone is reading this and is hesitant about medication after birth, if you are struggling reach out to your dr, don’t wait. There is no need to suffer for longer than you have to. It doesn’t make you “stronger” or “braver” to not ask for help!
"We're in this journey together." 🧡🧡🧡 Everytime my partner and I are watching a movie or something where a woman is debating how to tell her partner she's pregnant, we never quite understand it. I tell him everything. The idea of taking a pregnancy test and not telling him would never even cross my mind lol
I love you for talking so candidly about postpartum depression and how normal and good it is to ask for help, and how much of a struggle it can be to just recognize you need the help. Your voice is really gonna make a difference for someone.
You couldn't have said it better, about what YOU need after having a baby. I was born in 68 and I knew "NOTHING" about postpartum we didn't talk about that and now I know I wasn't crazy. Thank you for being open to sharing that part of your journey.
I’ve watched you for years now. You’re definitely my fav of all the TH-camrs I watch. You are the same Jess you were when I first started watching you. I love that the only thing that has changed is that you have really grown into who you are. You are so relatable. Over the years that has become hard to find on TH-cam. I’m so happy for you and your family. Thank you for allowing us all to be a part of it!!❤️💕❤️
I can totally relate! Genevieve and my oldest daughter are only around a week apart and now you and I are both pregnant with apparently the same due date. This will now be my third girl and I had that momentary “oh” moment when I found out it was a girl, but I am so excited to see my three girls together the way the older two are. Congratulations!!
Girl, i had the same feelings about breastfeeding. I was unsuccessful with both my children but with the first it was really an issue with a lot of self imposed guilt and huge feelings of inadequacies. Consequently, i believe my daughter suffered because i should have gone to formula weeks earlier. With my second one i tried very hard again, but when it was obvious i wasn't going to make it happen i was totally at peace with it. I gave it my best shot. No guilt. No shame. I put my second on formula and moved on with our journey. Now, about your makeup today. That lip color is so beautiful. I hear good things about the Buxom lip products. I'd like to see more of them. 🙂
Post partum and even for preparing for labor, pelvic floor PTs are great experts at the body’s changes during pregnancy and can be helpful. Thanks for mentioning it! From an OB PT ❤️
I had OB PT after my 3B lac and am so glad I did! Just having extra assessments was reassuring. As a postpartum nurse, I tell my patients if the Doc or CNM mentions it, take the referral and do it!
YES YES YES!!! Pevlic floor PT is what I preach to all pregnant women, for during pregnancy and post partum. It was the best thing I did for myself. So so important for strengthening your body while it shifts during pregnancy and healing yourself properly after. It should be standard of care for all pregnant women.
As someone who has a big sister, I love the bond so much. Gigi and this baby will have such a beautiful bond I can't wait for you to be able to watch this between them! Especially since they will be fairly close in age with only a 3 or 4 year gap. Something about two sisters is so special. Sending so much love ❤
I did SO much yoga while I was pregnant (well, once or twice a week which is certainly enough) and I think it hands down was the thing that helped me the most throughout my pregnancy and my labor. You’re so right that getting your body ready will help a lot.
I’m so proud of you. I had ppd & it was so taboo 25 years ago. Using your platform to talk about it is so awesome. I think you’re so smart to think about starting the medication right away. You’re so real and I totally love your channel. Your family is beautiful. God bless all of you. Thank you & Tyler for all you do. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
I’ll have to dig out where I got the engraved wooden Disney castle breakfast tray I sent Gigi so that I can send one for her little sister when she arrives. Congratulations you you all, love from North Wales 🏴 U.K. xx
You talking about post-partum depression and being on medication in multiple videos has helped me move towards getting on medication for my depression, so thank you for always talking about mental health
1. Thank you for the update! I’m loving watching your family grow! 2. Thank you for being easy on yourself. You deserve grace. You are a wonderful parent and only you and your husband know what’s best for your children. 3. I just love you and your videos 💕
I agree with you as far as limiting hanging out time. The excitement of a new baby is awesome, however, with everything that’s going on in the world, I couldn’t imagine having a bunch of people in my space. I literally stayed in for a month after giving birth with no outside contacts. Babies are so susceptible during their first few weeks of life. Call me old fashioned, but that’s how I chose to protect my baby especially within the first few weeks after giving birth.
I love how honest you are about PPD. My daughter is 9 years old and I STILL could cry and get emotional over how it stole our bond away from me. Our breast feeding journey was VERY similar to yours. I remember when you were going through it and talking about it then and I just felt every word you were saying. You've got this!! ❤
I am the mother of 3 young adult children. I think it is great that you so openly discuss and normalize postpartum depression. It will help alot of people. I also like that you talk about formula feeding as something that is great. I felt soooo much pressure to breast feed and tried but it just never worked well for me physically or mentally.
You are looking radiant! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on pregnancy depression. I didn’t have it but know someone who did and it caused her to treat people horribly. She eventually got the help she needed but never really apologized for the things she had said and done. Sadly, it ruined many relationships with family and friends.
Oh Jessica! I'm so happy to see your growth in being a mommy and YT. Sending so much love. We have been TTC for about 9yrs now and 2 loses. I live through you. I see you as an older sister, I'm a 1990 baby so yeah lol. Been watching you since you were on your bedroom floor and living with your larents. You inspire me so much. 💕
I love the way you are, you will not be duplicitous, you make yourself be true to who you are, what you experience, how you feel. It's hard to figure out all this having babies stuff, you have done so well. I'm older and some memories are still painful, but I am so proud I got through it, it turned out to be one of the best things I've ever done. So glad you have parents/inlaws you feel comfy with. I'm so excited, all these new things yippee (modern!). Your discussion on depression will help SO MANY! Thanks Jessica, wonderful video!
Girl, take the meds if you need them! Your PPA/D video literally saved my life. Gigi is about a year older than my daughter, and your videos were awesome to follow along with. After I had her, I STRUGGLED, but I tried so hard not to let on. Around Thanksgiving I finally broke and had a full on breakdown. Your videos about your struggle brought me so much solace and comradery in that season. I barely remember anything from when she was born until that point, and I wish I had been more honest and acted sooner. Those moments are precious and babies don't keep. Praying such blessings on your sweet baby and a hedge of protection around your mind and soul ❤
I love these pregnancies update videos! We just had our first baby 3 months ago and I completely agree with what you said about visitors! For the first few weeks, it was really just our immediate families that visited because you don’t have to entertain them! You’re so exhausted that you feel like you’re going crazy, the last thing you should have to worry about is cleaning the house or entertaining guests. Plus, that time is also so precious with your baby and they’re only tiny little babies for such a short amount of time, I just wanted him to myself and my husband!
Thank you for talking about PPD. My boys are all adults or teens now but I had severe depression after my third sons birth that caused me precious time and enjoyment with him. I was made to feel crazy, a bad mom and lazy. It was a huge part of my life! I wish so badly that I had told my doctor how I felt. So I appreciate you trying to help others… I wish I had you 20 years ago💚
My OB/GYN recognized my depression at my one year post appointment. I hate that I wasted so much time suffering! Thank you for speaking out about depression!❤️❤️
I’m also due with my second.. also suffered from PPD with my first and agree 100% with everything you’re saying. I’m also preparing for taking more walks, getting out of house and doing things to help my mental health in the beginning. I nursed successfully but I said it then and I’ll say it this time, if it’s too rough - formula. Momma needs to be happy to baby can be happy and you deserve that. Thanks for being so honest!
Jessica, I have two daughters 16 & 17, and will not have anymore, but still watched this! ;) Your such a good Mom and person! Keep up the good work, and have a blast with those two daughters. They will fight, but will grow to be each other's best friends! Congrats to you and Tyler!
I feel like I struggled (and still struggle) with PPD. I don't know at what point it stops being PPD and just becomes depression. I've decided to finally talk with my provider about it because of your videos. I feel like I haven't been enjoying my 1yr old as much as I should, and I've just let myself suffer. Thank you for speaking so openly about your struggle ❤️ it's really helped me self-reflect.
I experienced exactly the same thing when I found out we were having a girl. I would call the feeling “surprise.” I think it wasn’t that I *wanted* a boy over a girl. But somehow it had become my expectation. My nephew, whom I had cared for (50 hours a week) and lived with for 3 years, probably built up some of that expectation. Also, my husband had only ever mentioned one name that he liked in our entire 18 years together. (“Alexander” was a lyric in a song we were listening to, and he had simply mentioned “that would make for a pretty good name.”) 6 or more years later… our *daughter* _Alexandra_ celebrates her 1st birthday this week. (It was “Home” by Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros)
Congratulations💕🥰. I love all your content and your family is beautiful. I have 3 kids and have been widowed(I was married for 12 years) for a year now and family is absolutely everything. Everyday is truly a blessing. You are the best Mama and your vlogs have gotten me through a lot of hard times especially 2020. Thank you for everything you do and how hard you and Tyler both work. Merry Christmas and congratulations again!
Jessica, you are not alone. I suffered too. I can’t remember the first 6 months of my son’s life due to post partum depression. You are amazing for speaking out. I am just now getting help and it’s 6 years and counting.
Second pregnancies are so special and parenting the first few months are so much better because you have an idea of what the baby needs. Although, every child is different the basic needs are the same. I wasn’t so scared after the first one.
Hey Jess, I ama mama of 2 beautiful girls, Lucy is 5 and Betty is 8 months now. I had similar issues my first pregnancy with postpartum depression/anxiety and also, with milk supply stress and feeling like I was failing in that regard. Second baby was so much better for me. I went into it knowing that if breastfeeding didn't go well that she would get formula and it would be absolutely fine. Once again, I didn't make enough milk (though i did make more than I did with my first baby). My baby gets a combo of breastmilk and formula still. I pump a few times a day and she gets that milk and whatever else she needs is formula. She's the happiest sweetest baby and is doing great. That to say, do what works best for you and your mental health. I feel like a big reason I am doing better mentally this time is because I accepted that exclusive breastfeeding may not work for me and that's ok! I did just wait and see this time around with medication for my postpartum anxiety. And although things have been much better, I did just recently get a prescription again for Zoloft. I could see some early signs of anxiety and just wanted to get a handle before it came on too strong. Listen to your mom intuition and let that be the only voice that guides you. You are a wonderful mom. PS. I feel like our stories really parallel each other in regards to our motherhood journey.
I truly love your honesty! I had my 2 boys and breastfed both and did it because I am cheap and thought oh hey its free - but looking back now and seeing all my friends who physically couldn't I realize now how lucky I was to not only be able to do it but (and trust me it was waaaayyy to long) fed them both until 2. I loved the bonding but I COMPLETELY AGREE that FED is always best! As long as you love your baby who cares how they are getting their food. And formula was made for those who couldn't and frankly just didn't want to. there is such a pressure to breastfed and while it worked for me and my family it's NOT for everyone! Congratulations on your new bundle of joy! can't wait to see gigi with her new little sister. Also I second not having many people over - with our first we had WAAAYY to many people around and I HATED it. With our 2nd no one was allowed in the room but my husband and we didn't even let any one over until a week later. it was THE BEST!
I had undiagnosed ppd with my first and got on meds right away with my second pregnancy and GIRL, it was life changing. A night and day difference in the post partum experiences.
I'm so happy for you, Tyler, Genevieve and Pinocchio. :) It's nice to see your family grow throughout the years and to feel a part of everything, though vicariously. Many continued blessings to y'all.
It’s not a Jessica Braun video without at least one (or three! ☺️) “The reality of it is…” statements! 💕💕 Loving your sweet bump! I’ve never given birth to a baby but I have spent a LOT of time in the hospital as a patient and YES to bringing your own pillow! Use a patterned or non-white case so that if they change your linens while you’re in the bathroom or away from the room they don’t take yours. Also recommend bringing some kind of USB battery so that you can charge a device even when you’re not close to an outlet.
The Dr. Bjorkman clogs are fantastic, especially if you are a first time mama and don’t know what to expect, especially in the hospital. It helped me prepare for when my baby boy arrived. I am so happy things have been going better for you in this pregnancy
I am so excited for you! I am 27 weeks now with baby #2 myself and I love feeling like I have a friend through this :) My first is just over 3 so a little younger than Gigi
My husband and I used the name swiping match up app, too! It was so helpful for creating a short list that we both loved. We didn't pick a name until after he was born and in the hospital, because we needed to meet him first. But having that matching short list made it MUCH easier.
I get the same way about workouts. One thing I read that helped tremendously is thinking about workout habits as building a brick house. Just because you don't add a brick today doesn't mean you are tearing down the bricks you built last week, or last month. Just pick up where you are and keep adding "bricks" as you can and that is still positive progress :)
I also have two girls too and I felt that tiny wave too during the ultrasound. I love my girls and they’re so close. I’m a twin to another girl and I’m glad they have that too (even though they are 7 years apart). Congratulations! 🥳
If this is any comfort to you, my breastfeeding experience with my first was ROUGH. So rough & i had to quit at 4 months. My second is 8 months old now & everything has been different & so much better. We’re still going strong at 8 months and I’m so grateful! No matter what happens, your baby girl will be loved & will grow & develop beautifully 🥰
I have two girls also and I love it! I actually ended up with three girls for about a year when I had custody of my niece, 3u3 😅 I was pregnant with my second daughter 10mo pp and suffering majorly with PPD/PPA. It took until my first appointment with my second daughter before I finally said something and medication changed my whole life. I took Zoloft thru my whole second pregnancy with no complications and I’m still on it!
I brought my own pillow and blanket and my husband brought the comforter from our bed. It was huge but it was the only way he was able to stay somewhat comfy at the hospital on the couch. All of the nurses commented how that was such a great idea and how cozy he looked. We don’t regret doing that one bit!
My hospital bag was packed based on your hospital bag video from Gigi! Taking makeup and my own pillow and some skin care really made all the difference for me!
Not packing my own pillow was the biggest regret. All the hospital pillows were FLAT!!!! I hated it. Stole my husbands pillow constantly lol I packed makeup but when I got to the point of being able to shower and take our hospital photos, I actually LOVE how natural I am without any makeup. Thank goodness for that “glow” lol it’s totally real 🤣🤣🤣
Visitors saved me second time round! I have a 2 and a half year old and 8 week old, it was great to have visitors around to play with my toddler and keep her engaged and helped with my Mum guilt around dividing my attention. I also have two girls and have been watching you since you baby shower videos
Hey just a suggestion, don’t wait until after your delivery to ask for rehab/physical therapy. I had 6 weeks of outpatient rehab for severe back pain halfway through my pregnancy and it pretty much went away for the rest of the pregnancy.
Transparency is key for pregnancy and parenting. I felt so mislead throughout my entire pregnancy. It was not the best time of my life. My daughter IS the best thing in my life but it was not fun to get her here and I felt like the worst person thinking that I was the only one who ever felt this way while pregnant. But as soon as I admitted it to a few of my close friends it was such a common sentiment! No one tells you though! Also I decided to go straight to formula. I was scared for my mental health and didn't want to try breastfeeding and dealing with it failing. I committed to it ahead of time and did get a lot of flack but I also got a lot of support from others that completely surprised me. And although it was another thing I could've felt like a bad mom for I have no regrets about it now. You have to choose your own path and not let others who aren't in your shoes dictate how your pregnancy and postpartum should look. It's plenty hard enough as it is!
We used the app Kinder to help with names. And I’m 3 weeks postpartum and I would say buy the Fridamom postpartum kit with the upside down peri bottle. But keep the receipt if you don’t end up using it. I didn’t tear but still used everything in it at least once.
I've gotta say that was so cool the way it just came out. It shows yall really don't put a show on for the camera because it wasn't even a thing yall was just going on your merry old day and that pops out of NO WHERE. LOL!!! I LOVED IT...
I’m sure people have suggested, but if you go to formula. The baby Breeza water warmer was so nice!! And I feel for your ppd, I had some as well. Mostly about breast feeding and not being successful. I love watching these because I’m one month behind you with my 2nd pregnancy and I love how similar our thoughts and thinking are Witt baby number 2. :)
So I’m 22, have no plans to have kids (at least for the next ten years😂), but as a woman I have of course felt the societal pressure to have kids and have definitely heard the idea that breastfeeding is superior to formula for a baby. I decided on a whim to listen to a multi-part episode on breastfeeding from a podcast called Stuff You Should Know (it sounds so dorky but it’s insanely interesting) and they really dispelled how this idea is really untrue and makes so many moms feel insecure :( they explain that the big big benefit of breastfeeding is the skin-on-skin contact the baby experiences, but that can always be achieved at any time, not just when feeding!! I found it so interesting and honestly beautiful, and now I am a fierce defender of baby formula whenever I hear anyone suggest that a baby having formula is “inferior” or anything like that😂
Thanks for talking about PPD. I’ve struggled with depression in the past so I’m going to talk to my doctor about having a prescription ready in case I need it.
I have not and cannot have kids. But my sister has three, and I call them our kids. Anyway, she breastfed my niece for a month before she switched to formula, because she couldn’t get the baby to latch, and she didn’t have enough supply to pump. Second baby she breastfed for at least six months and third baby a year. It all depends on baby and supply. Never feel guilty about having to use formula. My sister and I were formula fed and we were healthy babies who turned into very intelligent, highly educated women.
I don't even remember the first 4 months of my second baby because of PPD. It sucks. And with my 3rd I was taking medication but Dr changed it and it messed me up and my PPD was a roaring beast. With this pregnancy im very very on top of taking care of my depression as much as possible. Taking medication, seeing a therapist and regularly seeing a psychiatrist. My mental health hasn't been as good lately because of just life so I'm trying so hard to have the biggest strongest support system I can when this baby comes.
I’m proud of you being your own advocate… I’m sorry you didn’t get the same level of care the first time. Thank God GIGI was okay. I’m genuinely excited for this next baby lol I had to listen to that vlog twice lol
I don't "know" a more deserving couple! Wishing you all the very best, and I very much look forward to following your journey! Big love always, from Australia xx
Congratulations!!👶❤🎉 Happy to hear you're feeling so good this time around ☺ That name matching app sounds like the literal cutest thing ever. Your headband is so pretty btw!
Jessica I have 2 daughters who are now young adults (boy time Flys lol). So here is a little idea for you. We got a present for our oldest to give to her baby sister when she saw her in the hospital for the first time and we got a gift from the baby to the big sister. It made for something special since all of a sudden the child who got all the attention now has to share or sees her baby sister getting lots of gifts and attention. It was really sweet to do and we have the sweet memories of it.
I breast fed for three months and it was the thing I was the most unprepared for. It was the most physically and mentally taxing thing for me, and when I made the switch to formula exclusively I felt so much better I’m so many ways. I would try again if I had another but my god, it was the hardest thing for me. Like you said fed is best. 👶
Jess, I have to say thank you for being so open about your PPD. I don’t have any plans for more kids but I definitely wish I knew I wasn’t alone. I had the worst ppd with my now 6yo daughter that I have absolutely no memory of her first year+ of life. It’s heart breaking ti not have been able to bond with her because I was so deep in my depression .
I bought a Snoo when I had my son. It was the best! I ended up selling it after he grew out of it. I also used the Owlet sock monitor with the Snoo and I slept better at night. We still use the Hatch sound machine/night light. I like that you can use the app and adjust the color of the light and brightness as well as choosing the soundscapes.
Watching this as I get ready for my 20 week ultrasound 😍😍. It's so funny how we all have different symptoms but the round ligament pain is all I'm feeling right now, that and my sciatica 😂. Hugs and kisses to all. ❤
You look beautiful!! I’m so happy for your cute little family :) I also struggled with breastfeeding in the firsts 6 months. We ended up doing a hybrid of pumped breast milk and formula. Our son turned out just fine. I also had a HUGE burden taken off my shoulders once we flipped completely to formula. Your mental health is so important for your baby and your marriage. Praying over you and your pregnancy.
I am in my 1st trimester with my 1st baby, so I’m rewatching a ton of your pregnancy videos ❤ P.S. The only thing that works for my brown sugar is to keep it in the original bag it comes in then put that inside a ziplock bag and squeeze out as much air as possible.
Lol this comment was meant for the previous video in the playlist and it ended while I was typing. So if the brown sugar comment doesn’t make sense, that’s why.
If you haven't seen the gender reveal, you should. It was the funniest surprise gender reveal - a surprise because even Tyler and Jessica didn't realize that they revealed it until they read it in the comments of their video. I can appreciate you limiting visits after baby comes home, and not only will you and Tyler be adjusting to baby, but now Genevieve will be adjusting and that adds a whole new level. When we brought our youngest home from the hospital, we had bought our oldest son a very special gift and gave it to him after we let him hold his new baby brother. He thought it was great, and never really showed any jealousy toward the baby. They are still best friends (after almost 40 years, lol). Just a suggestion that may help with the transition. By the way, Taylor Wynn is a big fan of the treadmill with her stand up desk. She said she walked longer when she was using it while editing or answering emails. I hope it works for you as well.
My two youngest are girls and the same age span. My now 9 year old was so excited the whole time I was pregnant. She wanted us to name her “Marie” and my husband and I gave her Marie for her middle name. To this day, they are extremely close. Of course, they have their moments, but I’ve loved how close they are❤️
I discovered you thanks to your “baby names we love but aren’t using” video when you were pregnant with Gigi so it’s so fun to be here now! Are you going to do another version of that video?
I am glad you are doing everything you can to have the best pregnancy an postpartum. The advice on stretching = very important. I ended up having to get into some crazy positions trying to get my daughter who ended up weighing 10lbs out!! Yikes 😳 I remember feeling like a failure when I switched to formula at about 2mo, but it was just stressful for mom and baby. Get whatever you all need to be comfortable. Even today, 26 years later, I am still annoyed that I did not buy a decent and comfy nursery chair.
So we’ve been trying out different sound machines. The one we have in my sons room I actually really like but the downside is we have a lot of power outages here on Texas so when we lose power it goes off and he wakes up. So I finally bit the bullet and purchased the hatch plus because it has a back up battery in it so if there’s a power outage it’ll switch to back up battery and it should last a few days on a back up battery. My son loves it. He waits to go in his crib for bedtime until the hatch turns on because he likes to see it turn on.
My sister and I are almost the same age gap that Gigi and baby sister will be,(3 years). It was so much fun having a little sister and my mom did that all the time. We did it every chance she could and eventually when my youngest sister came along she joined the matching club too. From Disney outfits in the parks,Tulle Christmas dresses, and everything in between! So happy for y’all
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I love to text-ditch my friends who have just had babies. By this I mean leave dinner, grocery, baby, and self care items on their doorstep and text them that it is there. That way they don’t feel like they have to impress or get dressed. ❤️
That is honestly so thoughtful!
That's a great idea! I'm going to adopt that.
So freaking amazing. When I had a baby, no one did this for me because Covid. I felt like no one knew my baby or even asked. I do stuff like this because it wasn’t done to me.
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That’s so sweet of you ❤️❤️❤️
I remember seeing the sadness in your eyes when GiGi was first born. You just seemed not sad about her of course, but just seemed different in some of the videos. I’m glad you are thinking more about that this time and know that it’s nothing to be ashamed of! You’ve been one of my favorite TH-camrs for many many years and I’m so happy to see you pregnant again and in a loving marriage with Tyler 💕 Thank you for always being so real with us and making us feel like we are part of your family!
Yes her being herself on TH-cam helped me postpartum. It made me feel like I wasn’t alone.
I am so happy you advocate for mental health treatment and PPD intervention. I'm a licensed therapist and I hear your story over and over, especially from first time mamas. Most wait much longer than necessary because they feel so alone or that they will be judged. I love that you are using your platform to normalize PPD and the resources there are to treat that. I know you are making a difference for someone! Blessings to you and your new little one!
When I was pregnant with my twins we decided to find out the gender. We were told we were having a boy and a girl. Regardless of knowing the gender or not you tend to build a picture in your head of what this little person will be like. On the morning they were born we had two girls. Complete surprise but were delighted to have two healthy babies. It did feel like a loss though. I had this little boy pictured in my head and he was never going to be known to us. My girls are 18 now. It absolutely flies so enjoy every moment.
Jess, could you possibly talk about what the depression felt like? I kind of feel like people genuinely don’t know like what signs or red flags to look for. And of course it’s different for everyone but still what does depressive thoughts actually mean what does it look like, that sort of thing. Anyways, that’s all .. love you 💕
I had a similar experience trying to breast feed my first baby. It just didn’t work out and I felt so guilty. With my second and now third who is 6 months already I went straight to formula feeding! And I got rid of the guilt and shame. All three kids age 5,3 and 6 months are thriving! So yes don’t stress and do what is best for you! Fed is best!
I had postpartum OCD and anxiety that seriously affected/dulled the joy of the first year and a half of my daughter’s life. I have sooo much grace and love for myself postpartum and wish more than anything I’d spoken up sooner. When I went to my postpartum appointment, the dr I was seeing at the time said my screening answers were “borderline” but didn’t offer any options and I felt like I couldn’t even put how I was feeling/thinking into words. And OCD is so sinister and consuming that I was convinced child services would take my daughter away if I said anything. Finally one day at 2 years PP, I completely broke down in heaving sobs at my (new) doctor’s office and she held my hand and treated me with such kindness and empathy. I did several weeks of ERP therapy and got on meds. My daughter is 3 now and I am finally loving motherhood! If you’re having scary intrusive thoughts, you are NOT alone. You deserve freedom from shame and fear. Ask for help 💜
I had severe OCD with my first and it was very scary too. Got on great meds and did some therapy for the stress and felt much better.
Literally NOTHING is more important than your mental health. One of the many reasons I watch you is because of how “real” you are. I appreciate and applaud you for using your platform to emphasize how crucial it is to take care of yourself, in every way possible.
I love this. When I had my baby I put his diet first because in my culture breast is best. Reading the ingredients in formula really bothered me. I was so mentally fu**ed over breast feeding (I had bad thrush) ouch ouch ouch. And I would push through. My sister was my sons Wet nurse and fed him and once she decided to end her breast feeding journey we went to formula and I’m not scared of formula anymore you can really find a great one. (F*** palm oil)
Thank you for taking the time to touch on your experience with PPD & your thought process with the 2nd baby. I watch your videos all the time, knew you experienced it, but I didn’t really grasp that it went on for 2 years. 😕 Glad that you made it through the whirlwind, Jess 💗 I also waited two years until my OB/GYN diagnosed me with PPD/PPA. The pandemic didn’t help, ya know? Haha. My husband took our son for brunch while my guy doc sat with a tissue box, while I sat in denial, & he said, “I feel like I’ve gotten to know you pretty well, Grace…you’ve been putting on a brave face for your boys [my husband & son]. I want you to know that we are all in your corner.” I bawled my eyes out and he sat with me until I was ready to put my face back on💄 & my boys came back to pick me up from the office. I never felt so relieved. It’s weird to say now but it took my doctor who I love, but hadn’t seen in two years, to tell me what my husband had been gently telling me for two years.
Like Jessica talked about: I urge any mom (and/or dad - men can have a form of postpartum depression too) to speak to their doctor. It is such a common experience and truly can be alleviated with proper care.
I’m so happy to read more stories like ours. We made it. 💗
I teared up reading your story. What a wonderful doctor you have. Thank you for sharing your story!!
@@itsjessicabraun 😳 Thanks for taking the time to read it! I’m fangirling. *races into home office to tell my husband lol*
On a more serious note, thank you for being my cup of coffee on good days & weird days. Wishing all the best for you, Tyler & your baby girls! 🎄💕
My humble opinion, take the meds. There isn’t a downside to taking them, and you don’t want to risk wasting a single second with your new little one. You are such a good mommy, thank you for sharing. 💜
It’s so crazy to hear you say your 23 weeks as I had my baby girl at 23 weeks a few months ago . & she’s thriving in the nicu . I’m so happy for you 🖤
Mental health is becoming more of a topic in pregnancy and I am so glad. I have been on anxiety/ depression medication since I was 11. I got pregnant at 24 and had my baby a few months ago at 25. I was scared so scared that I was going to have to stop my medicine, I knew I would be a wreck. My dr prioritized my mental health though and said the risk of getting off my medication was larger than staying on it during pregnancy. I’m so glad she didn’t try to push to get off of it or to try something else. (What I am and was on is not usually used during pregnancy) my baby girl came out perfectly fine and I am so grateful for that. But I absolutely still had PPA/PPD EVEN though I was on my medication, but once it was upped I was all good. So if anyone is reading this and is hesitant about medication after birth, if you are struggling reach out to your dr, don’t wait. There is no need to suffer for longer than you have to. It doesn’t make you “stronger” or “braver” to not ask for help!
"We're in this journey together." 🧡🧡🧡
Everytime my partner and I are watching a movie or something where a woman is debating how to tell her partner she's pregnant, we never quite understand it. I tell him everything. The idea of taking a pregnancy test and not telling him would never even cross my mind lol
I love you for talking so candidly about postpartum depression and how normal and good it is to ask for help, and how much of a struggle it can be to just recognize you need the help. Your voice is really gonna make a difference for someone.
You couldn't have said it better, about what YOU need after having a baby. I was born in 68 and I knew "NOTHING" about postpartum we didn't talk about that and now I know I wasn't crazy. Thank you for being open to sharing that part of your journey.
I’ve watched you for years now. You’re definitely my fav of all the TH-camrs I watch. You are the same Jess you were when I first started watching you. I love that the only thing that has changed is that you have really grown into who you are. You are so relatable. Over the years that has become hard to find on TH-cam. I’m so happy for you and your family. Thank you for allowing us all to be a part of it!!❤️💕❤️
Yes! Please do these atleast once a month. They’re so helpful for me as it’s my first time being pregnant. I learn so much!!
Definitely planning to!! :)
I can totally relate! Genevieve and my oldest daughter are only around a week apart and now you and I are both pregnant with apparently the same due date. This will now be my third girl and I had that momentary “oh” moment when I found out it was a girl, but I am so excited to see my three girls together the way the older two are. Congratulations!!
Girl, i had the same feelings about breastfeeding. I was unsuccessful with both my children but with the first it was really an issue with a lot of self imposed guilt and huge feelings of inadequacies. Consequently, i believe my daughter suffered because i should have gone to formula weeks earlier. With my second one i tried very hard again, but when it was obvious i wasn't going to make it happen i was totally at peace with it. I gave it my best shot. No guilt. No shame. I put my second on formula and moved on with our journey. Now, about your makeup today. That lip color is so beautiful. I hear good things about the Buxom lip products. I'd like to see more of them. 🙂
Post partum and even for preparing for labor, pelvic floor PTs are great experts at the body’s changes during pregnancy and can be helpful. Thanks for mentioning it! From an OB PT ❤️
Also OTs! I’m an OT that does pelvic floor :)
@@kaitlyn_pelli yes ma’am!!!! Love a collaborative therapy approach 🤗
I had OB PT after my 3B lac and am so glad I did! Just having extra assessments was reassuring. As a postpartum nurse, I tell my patients if the Doc or CNM mentions it, take the referral and do it!
Yes!! I am 4 years postpartum and on my 3rd round of pt- now pelvic floor 🤦🏽♀️ 3rd times a charm! 😋💕
YES YES YES!!! Pevlic floor PT is what I preach to all pregnant women, for during pregnancy and post partum. It was the best thing I did for myself. So so important for strengthening your body while it shifts during pregnancy and healing yourself properly after. It should be standard of care for all pregnant women.
As someone who has a big sister, I love the bond so much. Gigi and this baby will have such a beautiful bond I can't wait for you to be able to watch this between them! Especially since they will be fairly close in age with only a 3 or 4 year gap. Something about two sisters is so special. Sending so much love ❤
I did SO much yoga while I was pregnant (well, once or twice a week which is certainly enough) and I think it hands down was the thing that helped me the most throughout my pregnancy and my labor. You’re so right that getting your body ready will help a lot.
I’m so proud of you. I had ppd & it was so taboo 25 years ago. Using your platform to talk about it is so awesome. I think you’re so smart to think about starting the medication right away. You’re so real and I totally love your channel. Your family is beautiful. God bless all of you. Thank you & Tyler for all you do. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
I’ll have to dig out where I got the engraved wooden Disney castle breakfast tray I sent Gigi so that I can send one for her little sister when she arrives. Congratulations you you all, love from North Wales 🏴 U.K. xx
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You talking about post-partum depression and being on medication in multiple videos has helped me move towards getting on medication for my depression, so thank you for always talking about mental health
1. Thank you for the update! I’m loving watching your family grow! 2. Thank you for being easy on yourself. You deserve grace. You are a wonderful parent and only you and your husband know what’s best for your children. 3. I just love you and your videos 💕
I agree with you as far as limiting hanging out time. The excitement of a new baby is awesome, however, with everything that’s going on in the world, I couldn’t imagine having a bunch of people in my space. I literally stayed in for a month after giving birth with no outside contacts. Babies are so susceptible during their first few weeks of life. Call me old fashioned, but that’s how I chose to protect my baby especially within the first few weeks after giving birth.
I love how honest you are about PPD. My daughter is 9 years old and I STILL could cry and get emotional over how it stole our bond away from me. Our breast feeding journey was VERY similar to yours. I remember when you were going through it and talking about it then and I just felt every word you were saying. You've got this!! ❤
Every time you talk about waiting I tear up. I love that you are able to talk about it and I know you’re helping someone who is or may go through PPD.
I am the mother of 3 young adult children. I think it is great that you so openly discuss and normalize postpartum depression. It will help alot of people. I also like that you talk about formula feeding as something that is great. I felt soooo much pressure to breast feed and tried but it just never worked well for me physically or mentally.
You are looking radiant! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on pregnancy depression. I didn’t have it but know someone who did and it caused her to treat people horribly. She eventually got the help she needed but never really apologized for the things she had said and done. Sadly, it ruined many relationships with family and friends.
Oh Jessica! I'm so happy to see your growth in being a mommy and YT. Sending so much love. We have been TTC for about 9yrs now and 2 loses. I live through you. I see you as an older sister, I'm a 1990 baby so yeah lol. Been watching you since you were on your bedroom floor and living with your larents. You inspire me so much. 💕
I love the way you are, you will not be duplicitous, you make yourself be true to who you are, what you experience, how you feel. It's hard to figure out all this having babies stuff, you have done so well. I'm older and some memories are still painful, but I am so proud I got through it, it turned out to be one of the best things I've ever done. So glad you have parents/inlaws you feel comfy with. I'm so excited, all these new things yippee (modern!). Your discussion on depression will help SO MANY! Thanks Jessica, wonderful video!
The amount of joy I am getting for each of ya'lls uploads is soooooo much, i can't even express!!
Girl, take the meds if you need them! Your PPA/D video literally saved my life. Gigi is about a year older than my daughter, and your videos were awesome to follow along with. After I had her, I STRUGGLED, but I tried so hard not to let on. Around Thanksgiving I finally broke and had a full on breakdown. Your videos about your struggle brought me so much solace and comradery in that season. I barely remember anything from when she was born until that point, and I wish I had been more honest and acted sooner. Those moments are precious and babies don't keep. Praying such blessings on your sweet baby and a hedge of protection around your mind and soul ❤
I love these pregnancies update videos! We just had our first baby 3 months ago and I completely agree with what you said about visitors! For the first few weeks, it was really just our immediate families that visited because you don’t have to entertain them! You’re so exhausted that you feel like you’re going crazy, the last thing you should have to worry about is cleaning the house or entertaining guests. Plus, that time is also so precious with your baby and they’re only tiny little babies for such a short amount of time, I just wanted him to myself and my husband!
Thank you for talking about PPD. My boys are all adults or teens now but I had severe depression after my third sons birth that caused me precious time and enjoyment with him. I was made to feel crazy, a bad mom and lazy. It was a huge part of my life! I wish so badly that I had told my doctor how I felt. So I appreciate you trying to help others… I wish I had you 20 years ago💚
My OB/GYN recognized my depression at my one year post appointment. I hate that I wasted so much time suffering! Thank you for speaking out about depression!❤️❤️
I’m also due with my second.. also suffered from PPD with my first and agree 100% with everything you’re saying. I’m also preparing for taking more walks, getting out of house and doing things to help my mental health in the beginning. I nursed successfully but I said it then and I’ll say it this time, if it’s too rough - formula. Momma needs to be happy to baby can be happy and you deserve that. Thanks for being so honest!
Jessica, I have two daughters 16 & 17, and will not have anymore, but still watched this! ;) Your such a good Mom and person! Keep up the good work, and have a blast with those two daughters. They will fight, but will grow to be each other's best friends! Congrats to you and Tyler!
I feel like I struggled (and still struggle) with PPD. I don't know at what point it stops being PPD and just becomes depression. I've decided to finally talk with my provider about it because of your videos.
I feel like I haven't been enjoying my 1yr old as much as I should, and I've just let myself suffer. Thank you for speaking so openly about your struggle ❤️ it's really helped me self-reflect.
I experienced exactly the same thing when I found out we were having a girl. I would call the feeling “surprise.” I think it wasn’t that I *wanted* a boy over a girl. But somehow it had become my expectation.
My nephew, whom I had cared for (50 hours a week) and lived with for 3 years, probably built up some of that expectation. Also, my husband had only ever mentioned one name that he liked in our entire 18 years together. (“Alexander” was a lyric in a song we were listening to, and he had simply mentioned “that would make for a pretty good name.”) 6 or more years later… our *daughter* _Alexandra_ celebrates her 1st birthday this week.
(It was “Home” by Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros)
I love that song (and I can hear that lyric so vividly in my head to this day). ❤️ wishing you and your family all the best!
@@maxmendiola7155 🥰
Congratulations💕🥰. I love all your content and your family is beautiful. I have 3 kids and have been widowed(I was married for 12 years) for a year now and family is absolutely everything. Everyday is truly a blessing. You are the best Mama and your vlogs have gotten me through a lot of hard times especially 2020. Thank you for everything you do and how hard you and Tyler both work. Merry Christmas and congratulations again!
Jessica, you are not alone. I suffered too. I can’t remember the first 6 months of my son’s life due to post partum depression. You are amazing for speaking out. I am just now getting help and it’s 6 years and counting.
Second pregnancies are so special and parenting the first few months are so much better because you have an idea of what the baby needs. Although, every child is different the basic needs are the same. I wasn’t so scared after the first one.
Hey Jess,
I ama mama of 2 beautiful girls, Lucy is 5 and Betty is 8 months now. I had similar issues my first pregnancy with postpartum depression/anxiety and also, with milk supply stress and feeling like I was failing in that regard. Second baby was so much better for me. I went into it knowing that if breastfeeding didn't go well that she would get formula and it would be absolutely fine. Once again, I didn't make enough milk (though i did make more than I did with my first baby). My baby gets a combo of breastmilk and formula still. I pump a few times a day and she gets that milk and whatever else she needs is formula. She's the happiest sweetest baby and is doing great. That to say, do what works best for you and your mental health. I feel like a big reason I am doing better mentally this time is because I accepted that exclusive breastfeeding may not work for me and that's ok! I did just wait and see this time around with medication for my postpartum anxiety. And although things have been much better, I did just recently get a prescription again for Zoloft. I could see some early signs of anxiety and just wanted to get a handle before it came on too strong. Listen to your mom intuition and let that be the only voice that guides you. You are a wonderful mom.
PS. I feel like our stories really parallel each other in regards to our motherhood journey.
I truly love your honesty! I had my 2 boys and breastfed both and did it because I am cheap and thought oh hey its free - but looking back now and seeing all my friends who physically couldn't I realize now how lucky I was to not only be able to do it but (and trust me it was waaaayyy to long) fed them both until 2. I loved the bonding but I COMPLETELY AGREE that FED is always best! As long as you love your baby who cares how they are getting their food. And formula was made for those who couldn't and frankly just didn't want to.
there is such a pressure to breastfed and while it worked for me and my family it's NOT for everyone! Congratulations on your new bundle of joy! can't wait to see gigi with her new little sister.
Also I second not having many people over - with our first we had WAAAYY to many people around and I HATED it. With our 2nd no one was allowed in the room but my husband and we didn't even let any one over until a week later. it was THE BEST!
I had undiagnosed ppd with my first and got on meds right away with my second pregnancy and GIRL, it was life changing. A night and day difference in the post partum experiences.
I'm so happy for you, Tyler, Genevieve and Pinocchio. :) It's nice to see your family grow throughout the years and to feel a part of everything, though vicariously. Many continued blessings to y'all.
I had ppd with all three pregnancies and highly encourage you too seek help early. It makes a world of difference!
so glad to hear your focusing more on your mental health & well being, just being more aware.
I feel like you are being so much nicer to your self this time and I am glad about that.
It’s not a Jessica Braun video without at least one (or three! ☺️) “The reality of it is…” statements! 💕💕
Loving your sweet bump! I’ve never given birth to a baby but I have spent a LOT of time in the hospital as a patient and YES to bringing your own pillow! Use a patterned or non-white case so that if they change your linens while you’re in the bathroom or away from the room they don’t take yours. Also recommend bringing some kind of USB battery so that you can charge a device even when you’re not close to an outlet.
The Dr. Bjorkman clogs are fantastic, especially if you are a first time mama and don’t know what to expect, especially in the hospital. It helped me prepare for when my baby boy arrived.
I am so happy things have been going better for you in this pregnancy
I am so excited for you! I am 27 weeks now with baby #2 myself and I love feeling like I have a friend through this :) My first is just over 3 so a little younger than Gigi
My husband and I used the name swiping match up app, too! It was so helpful for creating a short list that we both loved. We didn't pick a name until after he was born and in the hospital, because we needed to meet him first. But having that matching short list made it MUCH easier.
I get the same way about workouts. One thing I read that helped tremendously is thinking about workout habits as building a brick house. Just because you don't add a brick today doesn't mean you are tearing down the bricks you built last week, or last month. Just pick up where you are and keep adding "bricks" as you can and that is still positive progress :)
I was literally just talking about that type of all or nothing thinking when it comes to exercise today in therapy. That’s perfectionism!
I also have two girls too and I felt that tiny wave too during the ultrasound. I love my girls and they’re so close. I’m a twin to another girl and I’m glad they have that too (even though they are 7 years apart). Congratulations! 🥳
If this is any comfort to you, my breastfeeding experience with my first was ROUGH. So rough & i had to quit at 4 months. My second is 8 months old now & everything has been different & so much better. We’re still going strong at 8 months and I’m so grateful! No matter what happens, your baby girl will be loved & will grow & develop beautifully 🥰
Just love how you keep it real. Very refreshing!! So happy for your family.
I have two girls also and I love it! I actually ended up with three girls for about a year when I had custody of my niece, 3u3 😅 I was pregnant with my second daughter 10mo pp and suffering majorly with PPD/PPA. It took until my first appointment with my second daughter before I finally said something and medication changed my whole life. I took Zoloft thru my whole second pregnancy with no complications and I’m still on it!
Hello girl! Congrats on the 2nd girl! God bless you and your family throughout this Christmas season and pregnancy!
I brought my own pillow and blanket and my husband brought the comforter from our bed. It was huge but it was the only way he was able to stay somewhat comfy at the hospital on the couch. All of the nurses commented how that was such a great idea and how cozy he looked. We don’t regret doing that one bit!
My hospital bag was packed based on your hospital bag video from Gigi! Taking makeup and my own pillow and some skin care really made all the difference for me!
Not packing my own pillow was the biggest regret. All the hospital pillows were FLAT!!!! I hated it. Stole my husbands pillow constantly lol
I packed makeup but when I got to the point of being able to shower and take our hospital photos, I actually LOVE how natural I am without any makeup. Thank goodness for that “glow” lol it’s totally real 🤣🤣🤣
Visitors saved me second time round! I have a 2 and a half year old and 8 week old, it was great to have visitors around to play with my toddler and keep her engaged and helped with my Mum guilt around dividing my attention. I also have two girls and have been watching you since you baby shower videos
Appreciate your honesty. Recommending your videos to my niece who is pregnant with her first baby. ❤️
You have a really beautiful pregnancy glow and with the little bit of makeup, so pretty
I just think you are so great Jess! Thanks for your content and sharing your family! 💜🖤💜
Hey just a suggestion, don’t wait until after your delivery to ask for rehab/physical therapy. I had 6 weeks of outpatient rehab for severe back pain halfway through my pregnancy and it pretty much went away for the rest of the pregnancy.
Soooo cuteeee 😍 I started following when you were pregnant with Gigi, sending love to your family ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Transparency is key for pregnancy and parenting. I felt so mislead throughout my entire pregnancy. It was not the best time of my life. My daughter IS the best thing in my life but it was not fun to get her here and I felt like the worst person thinking that I was the only one who ever felt this way while pregnant. But as soon as I admitted it to a few of my close friends it was such a common sentiment! No one tells you though! Also I decided to go straight to formula. I was scared for my mental health and didn't want to try breastfeeding and dealing with it failing. I committed to it ahead of time and did get a lot of flack but I also got a lot of support from others that completely surprised me. And although it was another thing I could've felt like a bad mom for I have no regrets about it now. You have to choose your own path and not let others who aren't in your shoes dictate how your pregnancy and postpartum should look. It's plenty hard enough as it is!
We used the app Kinder to help with names. And I’m 3 weeks postpartum and I would say buy the Fridamom postpartum kit with the upside down peri bottle. But keep the receipt if you don’t end up using it. I didn’t tear but still used everything in it at least once.
Omg a minute ago!!
My morning sickness just settled down a bit 🙏
happy pregnancy for you and me! 😁
I've gotta say that was so cool the way it just came out. It shows yall really don't put a show on for the camera because it wasn't even a thing yall was just going on your merry old day and that pops out of NO WHERE. LOL!!! I LOVED IT...
I’m sure people have suggested, but if you go to formula. The baby Breeza water warmer was so nice!! And I feel for your ppd, I had some as well. Mostly about breast feeding and not being successful. I love watching these because I’m one month behind you with my 2nd pregnancy and I love how similar our thoughts and thinking are Witt baby number 2. :)
So I’m 22, have no plans to have kids (at least for the next ten years😂), but as a woman I have of course felt the societal pressure to have kids and have definitely heard the idea that breastfeeding is superior to formula for a baby. I decided on a whim to listen to a multi-part episode on breastfeeding from a podcast called Stuff You Should Know (it sounds so dorky but it’s insanely interesting) and they really dispelled how this idea is really untrue and makes so many moms feel insecure :( they explain that the big big benefit of breastfeeding is the skin-on-skin contact the baby experiences, but that can always be achieved at any time, not just when feeding!! I found it so interesting and honestly beautiful, and now I am a fierce defender of baby formula whenever I hear anyone suggest that a baby having formula is “inferior” or anything like that😂
Thanks for talking about PPD. I’ve struggled with depression in the past so I’m going to talk to my doctor about having a prescription ready in case I need it.
I have not and cannot have kids. But my sister has three, and I call them our kids. Anyway, she breastfed my niece for a month before she switched to formula, because she couldn’t get the baby to latch, and she didn’t have enough supply to pump. Second baby she breastfed for at least six months and third baby a year. It all depends on baby and supply. Never feel guilty about having to use formula. My sister and I were formula fed and we were healthy babies who turned into very intelligent, highly educated women.
I’m 22 weeks with my first! I’m also having a girl! So excited for you. Love watching your videos they have helped me so much!
So excited for you! I’m 30 weeks and to the point where my coat doesn’t zip. We live in the Midwest so it’ll be interesting from here!
I don't even remember the first 4 months of my second baby because of PPD. It sucks.
And with my 3rd I was taking medication but Dr changed it and it messed me up and my PPD was a roaring beast.
With this pregnancy im very very on top of taking care of my depression as much as possible. Taking medication, seeing a therapist and regularly seeing a psychiatrist. My mental health hasn't been as good lately because of just life so I'm trying so hard to have the biggest strongest support system I can when this baby comes.
I’m proud of you being your own advocate… I’m sorry you didn’t get the same level of care the first time. Thank God GIGI was okay. I’m genuinely excited for this next baby lol I had to listen to that vlog twice lol
I don't "know" a more deserving couple! Wishing you all the very best, and I very much look forward to following your journey! Big love always, from Australia xx
Congratulations!!👶❤🎉
Happy to hear you're feeling so good this time around ☺
That name matching app sounds like the literal cutest thing ever.
Your headband is so pretty btw!
Jessica I have 2 daughters who are now young adults (boy time Flys lol). So here is a little idea for you. We got a present for our oldest to give to her baby sister when she saw her in the hospital for the first time and we got a gift from the baby to the big sister. It made for something special since all of a sudden the child who got all the attention now has to share or sees her baby sister getting lots of gifts and attention. It was really sweet to do and we have the sweet memories of it.
I breast fed for three months and it was the thing I was the most unprepared for. It was the most physically and mentally taxing thing for me, and when I made the switch to formula exclusively I felt so much better I’m so many ways. I would try again if I had another but my god, it was the hardest thing for me. Like you said fed is best. 👶
Jess, I have to say thank you for being so open about your PPD. I don’t have any plans for more kids but I definitely wish I knew I wasn’t alone. I had the worst ppd with my now 6yo daughter that I have absolutely no memory of her first year+ of life. It’s heart breaking ti not have been able to bond with her because I was so deep in my depression .
Thank you Jess for your honesty and being genuine about PPD 💖
Sisters will be best friends. It may take a while. But they will always have each other.
I bought a Snoo when I had my son. It was the best! I ended up selling it after he grew out of it. I also used the Owlet sock monitor with the Snoo and I slept better at night. We still use the Hatch sound machine/night light. I like that you can use the app and adjust the color of the light and brightness as well as choosing the soundscapes.
That’s why we rented the snoo!
Watching this as I get ready for my 20 week ultrasound 😍😍. It's so funny how we all have different symptoms but the round ligament pain is all I'm feeling right now, that and my sciatica 😂. Hugs and kisses to all. ❤
You look beautiful!! I’m so happy for your cute little family :) I also struggled with breastfeeding in the firsts 6 months. We ended up doing a hybrid of pumped breast milk and formula. Our son turned out just fine. I also had a HUGE burden taken off my shoulders once we flipped completely to formula. Your mental health is so important for your baby and your marriage. Praying over you and your pregnancy.
I am in my 1st trimester with my 1st baby, so I’m rewatching a ton of your pregnancy videos ❤
P.S. The only thing that works for my brown sugar is to keep it in the original bag it comes in then put that inside a ziplock bag and squeeze out as much air as possible.
Lol this comment was meant for the previous video in the playlist and it ended while I was typing. So if the brown sugar comment doesn’t make sense, that’s why.
If you haven't seen the gender reveal, you should. It was the funniest surprise gender reveal - a surprise because even Tyler and Jessica didn't realize that they revealed it until they read it in the comments of their video.
I can appreciate you limiting visits after baby comes home, and not only will you and Tyler be adjusting to baby, but now Genevieve will be adjusting and that adds a whole new level. When we brought our youngest home from the hospital, we had bought our oldest son a very special gift and gave it to him after we let him hold his new baby brother. He thought it was great, and never really showed any jealousy toward the baby. They are still best friends (after almost 40 years, lol). Just a suggestion that may help with the transition.
By the way, Taylor Wynn is a big fan of the treadmill with her stand up desk. She said she walked longer when she was using it while editing or answering emails. I hope it works for you as well.
My two youngest are girls and the same age span. My now 9 year old was so excited the whole time I was pregnant. She wanted us to name her “Marie” and my husband and I gave her Marie for her middle name. To this day, they are extremely close. Of course, they have their moments, but I’ve loved how close they are❤️
I discovered you thanks to your “baby names we love but aren’t using” video when you were pregnant with Gigi so it’s so fun to be here now! Are you going to do another version of that video?
I am glad you are doing everything you can to have the best pregnancy an postpartum. The advice on stretching = very important. I ended up having to get into some crazy positions trying to get my daughter who ended up weighing 10lbs out!! Yikes 😳 I remember feeling like a failure when I switched to formula at about 2mo, but it was just stressful for mom and baby. Get whatever you all need to be comfortable. Even today, 26 years later, I am still annoyed that I did not buy a decent and comfy nursery chair.
So we’ve been trying out different sound machines. The one we have in my sons room I actually really like but the downside is we have a lot of power outages here on Texas so when we lose power it goes off and he wakes up. So I finally bit the bullet and purchased the hatch plus because it has a back up battery in it so if there’s a power outage it’ll switch to back up battery and it should last a few days on a back up battery. My son loves it. He waits to go in his crib for bedtime until the hatch turns on because he likes to see it turn on.
My sister and I are almost the same age gap that Gigi and baby sister will be,(3 years). It was so much fun having a little sister and my mom did that all the time. We did it every chance she could and eventually when my youngest sister came along she joined the matching club too. From Disney outfits in the parks,Tulle Christmas dresses, and everything in between! So happy for y’all