Congrats! I heard a really good pierce of advice recently on transitioning from one child to two. This mom explained how having one child they get so used to being the only child and having all of your attention and to prevent jealousy etc the same way you tell your toddler to “hold on one moment the baby needs me” to also say out loud to your baby “hold on one moment *toddler’s name* needs me” Obviously the baby doesn’t understand or wasn’t even crying for you but this might help the toddler feel she is also still important and help with preventing that resentment.
Yes! We do this with our four year old. Our young one is one now and we’ll even sit him in our lap for a 30 second time out when he does something we wouldn’t let our oldest do. It’s seems like our oldest really appreciates it ❤️
My two are six yrs apart and they fought like crazy and by the time I got one into school. I was home with the next all day. I would not change a thing though.
The “out of breath” the other day was a clue I picked up on, but I made no comment, because I know how feels to be trying without success. Congratulations! So thrilled for your family!
So happy for you! I’m due right before you with our third. I’m also a person of faith and there’s something that I feel like is profound with timing. For women, you have one chance at your contribution to the baby’s genes for that month (in most cases, only one egg matures). To me, that makes timing so important. A big part of your child’s makeup and even personality depend on the timing. So the child you have wouldn’t be the same if you got pregnant the month before. If you believe in God and His purposes, it’s encouraging to know. I hope that makes sense. Blessings to your family❤️
I had PPD after my daughter was born and started Zoloft. I was on it when my son was born because we knew that I was probably going to have the same issue again. The difference in my postpartum experiences was astounding to me. Part of that was being an experienced parent but I think the bigger part was having my depression managed. I'm glad to see that you are addressing that because the difference can be astounding
Same with me also. The difference Zoloft made was amazing. My 1st pregnancy was great as far as physically but mentally it was horrible. I went on Zoloft after having my 1st and when I got pregnant with my 2nd I stayed on it. Completely different pregnancies mentally. I felt as if I could actually enjoy my pregnancy and my baby after birth. With my 1st I didn’t take pictures, I didn’t do anything at all. I didn’t want to do anything but sleep. With my 2nd I felt so guilty because I did a belly cast, pictures, gender reveal, baby shower just all the things. I still feel kinda guilty because my 1st is now 7 and she sees my belly cast from her sister and it just makes me feel so bad but I’m glad I went on medication for both my kids and myself. Medication is a lifesaver ❤️
Congratulations!!! My husband and I just watched this and SQUEALED with delight for you. During the pandemic we watched all of you your vlogs. It was like hanging out with friends when that wasn’t an option. Thank you for that. I was pregnant with my first daughter when you were pregnant with Gigi, she was born in Sept. ‘18. Now I’m pregnant with out second, due Feb. ‘22, so we get to go through this together again! Much love from your friends in Philly that you don’t know you have lol.
Congratulations! As someone who struggled with depression after our first I was also hoping it would be different with the second but it ended up being even worst and I wish I would have been proactive and started dealing with it right away. Just something to think about
Same. PPD is the reason I won’t have a 3rd baby. It was so bad after my 2nd, however, it was partially my own fault because I waited so long to go on meds. So anyone else reading this: don’t wait! Don’t try to be a hero like me and power through. I wasted so much time.
Congratulations!!!! I’m so happy for you 3... these are the best sleepless times.I have all the confidence you will get through it. As a psychologist, I recommend you wait a little bit for your hormones to settle to be sure about medications, as every pregnancy, birth, child health is different. You could consult with a PPD specialty psychiatrist and see what their recommendation is. Be firm about needing answers about statistics on BF and baby’s future to make a well informed decision. Re: Vlogmas, can’t wait and I love Tyler’s cooking, home projects, and one time Pinocchio had a stand-off at the door with a stick. That really really cracked me up, very original true down to earth content. Can’t wait!
When I saw your story yesterday that you filmed in this room with Tyler I was hoping this was the reason!! Congrats that’s so exciting! Can’t wait to follow along on your pregnancy journey once again! 🥰
This is absolutely phenomenal news. I feel like a good friend just surprised me with this…which I know is crazy, but your videos are so lovely and personal. We all just feel like we really know you. So happy for you three and, even though there will be stressful times ahead, the joy that will also be there with this new life. Praying for you to have a happy and healthy pregnancy. Excited now to watch this part of the journey on your channel. ❤️
I've been here since before you and Tyler got married! It's so crazy watching you both move through your lives, congratulations! Wishing you the best as always.
When I saw the title of this video I audibly gasped. You and Tyler are my favorite channel to watch on the Internet and I feel like we're best friends! I'm so thrilled for you and Gigi. She's going to be the best big sister :) Congratulations to the whole family!!
Congrats on baby number 2.. it's kinda weird how excited I get for other people having kids even though I'm child free, I think the excitement is just contagious..
CONGRATULATIONS!!! And don’t be a hero-just go on the meds. There’s no gold stars for suffering more than you have to. Love you guys so much! Can’t wait for Vlogmas and to see this part of your journey. Also: I would have lost my shit with that doctor and their office. Those are two major issues. You are very classy for not mentioning their name because of it were me, I would be tempted to go scorched earth.
Congrats!!!! So happy for you two. I’m currently pregnant with my first (two) - after three miscarriages - twins due in May :) I’m sure Gigi will be the best big sister! 💕
I could NOT click fast enough! I have been praying for you two for so many months. I'm so excited Genevive will have a brother or sister!!! This could not happen to a nicer couple🥰❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I'm proud that you are considering medication for depression after the birth. I know how much it has helped me, and after having child #2, life can quickly become overwhelming. Go with your gut, Jessica, you will know what it right for you and your family!
Omg congratulations!! My daughter was born early dec of 2019 and your 2019 vlogmas was SUCH an important part of her first month for me. I would watch them when I woke up in the middle of the night to nurse my baby or pump. And now I’m also pregnant with baby number and due in April! I’m so happy for y’all. I love watching your family grow as mine grows in a similar way. It’s so fun! 🥰
As an old pro mom of three I can tell you that three and a half years is literally the most perfect age gap ever!! Congratulations!!! Wishing you all the best!
@@JessicaTheEngineer my sister and I are 4.5 years apart and we are pretty close. We had some phases where she was still a kid and I was becoming a teenager, so we were in different spots. But we have always had a good relationship 💗
Congratulations! I’m so glad that you’re having an easier time with this pregnancy. I realise now that I suffered PPD with both my pregnancies. When I had my boys (who are now 26 and 28) not so much was known about PPD so there was really no treatment commonly used. How I wish there was. It sounds like your new Dr has plans to make sure everything goes smoothly for you. Take it easy and enjoy pregnancy this time around. ❤️🍼🎉👶
I'm 29 and my mum definitely had it with me, but she always just said she was weepy for a couple of months, but then last year she actually said she had ppd. I'm so sad for her that she couldn't recognise that at the time, and that she couldn't get support for it. But she's the best mum regardless.
I am so happy!!!! I would recommend getting on meds several weeks before the baby comes so that they're already working in those potentially difficult first few weeks. I was put on Lexapro about a year before my most recent pregnancy and I felt very balanced all throughout pregnancy and postpartum. Still hormonal and emotional, but manageable instead of crazy. You guys will do so great. Congratulations!
Congratulations! So exciting! The second time around I told my midwife just to put me right on antidepressants as soon as I deliver and wow what a world of a difference my postpartum journey was. I was able to see through the fog and enjoy my little baby ❤️ plus the second time around is much easier since you’re a pro 😂
I am so happy for you!!! 💖 I just gave birth to my third baby this morning, I am overwhelmed and so, so happy for you two 💖 it's all about babies today, I am crying now 🥰
Such happy news!!! I know y’all are thrilled! So glad you’re in a group of mamas that are your same due time. I did that with my five year old and it helped so much. We are all still in touch and have loved seeing each other’s babies grow up ❤️
So excited for you guys! Funny thing, I was pregnant the same time you guys were pregnant with Gigi AND I’m pregnant again too! 💖 My daughter was born 02/24/18 and new baby is due 06/26/22. So excited to see your progress and meet the new addition when you’re ready to share 🥰
Oh my gosh, this is so exciting!!! The fact that you ended this video talking about Vlogmas felt like such a full-circle moment for me. The first year I watched yours and Tyler’s Vlogmas, it ended with your pregnancy announcement for Genevieve! Congratulations to you and Tyler!!
Congrats guys! What happy happy news!! Jessica, I'd love it if you could share more about your fertility journey. How you tracked ovulation and anything you feel helped etc. It's something that's really helpful to hear people talk about more. Xx
Congratulations! Re: the postpartum depression, it may not hurt to get established with a counselor and start on meds a week or 2 before your due date. This pregnancy may bring up some of your feelings from Gigi’s pregnancy, birth, and the associated trauma. That’s a lot of complex feelings to untangle! I wish you all the best!!
If I could go back in time...I would definitely start early on anti depressants. I had pp depression with both pregnancies and didn't get treated..due to stigma it bottled up till my late 30s.. I'm through the hard part now, but I think early intervention would have made all the difference in my case.
I am sure the particular Rx matters, but I was able to remain on my antidepressant (Zoloft) throughout the entirety of my pregnancy. My psychiatrist assessed that the benefits outweighed the possibility of risk *for me*. Us mothers are so much more capable of providing for the needs of our children when our needs and welfare are being properly addressed.
@@At0micAllison - agree 100%! With any med during pregnancy, it is a risk/benefit analysis. But, many of the SSRI’s (like Zoloft) are considered safe options with pregnancy and breastfeeding). People should definitely talk to their providers regarding their specific health situation. Incidentally, I am a Certified Nurse-midwife (an advanced-practice nurse that delivers babies and provides prenatal/postpartum care, and GYN care among other things).
Congratulations! 💙 I’ve followed you both for 5+ years. I am pregnant with my first and it is a high risk pregnancy and your videos about your journey with Gigi have been very comforting as some videos on TH-cam make pregnancy look like rainbows and butterflies and that’s sometimes not the case for everyone. Ever since I saw the video where you said you guys were actively trying I have been hoping and praying for you guys. I am so excited to share this experience with you and to see your journey with you guys and I hope you have a easier go at it this time around. I am also so excited to see this years vlogmas! Since last time you were pregnant you kept it a secret til the END of vlogmas so I’m excited to be able to keep up with you this time around!!
So, so pleased for you Jessica! Having experienced infertility, completely understand the worry but it all goes away when it happens. We adopted my little boy (who’s a few months younger than Gigi) and oh my god it was worth all the pain. Wishing you all the best for a very healthy and happy pregnancy and can’t wait to join you on your journey! Eeeeek!! 🥰🥰 lots of love to all of you. X
I got choked up at the end of this video with happy tears for you and Tyler cause it’s so infectious how excited you are that you’re finally having another baby🥺🥲😀. So happy for you guys!👨👩👧👦
3 years is a good time apart. My brother and I are 3 years apart…he’s the older and I’m the baby. According to my mom I was obsessed with him and he loved caring for me. Then when I was a toddler apparently we started not getting along. Throughout my school years we always tore each other’s head off until high school when we started getting along again and now we’re still close 😊
I highly believe that everything happens for a reason. This is your time! Congratulations to you and Tyler, and Gigi ☺️ I look forward to any baby/pregnancy updates to come. I’ll be praying for you to have a healthy pregnancy
Congratulations!!!! I'm so happy for you guys and that baby is going to be so loved (they already are)! I would love to get updates about the pregnancy and check-ins so we all know how you're doing, but don't stress yourself out we will be okay with whatever you feel comfortable sharing! Sending so much love! ❤🥰
I LOVE that you are taking an active approach to the PPD with your second pregnancy. I have PPA and I’m nearly 8 months postpartum. If we were to have a second, I’m definitely asking about meds early on. You got this, mama. Thanks for being so open on your journey!
I’m crying. I’m so happy for you guys. My daughter is the same age as Gigi. I’ve been dealing with some health issues so we haven’t tried yet for another, but we’re ready to start soon! Can’t wait to see your journey. I’m nervous for 2 (God-willing), but I also can’t wait ❤️
SO excited for you!! Knew once I saw your story yesterday and couldn’t stop smiling!! I’ve had a journey to having kids too and I’m so happy that you’re pregnant!! Going from 1-2 is harder than 0-1 but it’s the best to scoop two of your kids up in a big hug ❤️
I knew it! I’ve been here since way before gigis announcement so I’m so excited to see this again. I’m so beyond excited for you. I swear Tyler used to not want kids or something and seeing him love being a dad now is insane. I’m so happy for you it’s unreal. Congratulations guys!
Best advice from going from 1 child to 2:. Always let your toddler be "involved" as much as she wants to be. My oldest kids always loved "helping" mommy with their baby brother or sister. They would throw diapers away, help me feed (I didn't breastfeed my four), help me pick out their outfits, etc. This makes the toddler feel important and needed, while still devoting time your time to them and the baby (at the same time).
I am so happy for you two!! I’m expecting my first little one in just a few weeks so maybe it’s the hormones (lol), but this made me cry happy tears!! Praying for healthy baby and for you too, mama!
Yay!!! I totally suspected that you were. I’m so happy and excited for your family. I actually realised I was smiling from ear to ear whilst watching this as though I’m the one having a baby 😂 I just love watching people bring new life in to the world, it’s a little piece of happy amongst all the chaos and hard times that is life. I am totally here for all the pregnancy related videos like how you found out, how you told Tyler, symptoms, nursery prep and all the things. Or you know as much as your willing to share of course. As for Vlogmas I can’t wait, I have actually been rewatching last years at the moment whilst I wait for December 😂 Again I am so happy for you guys and I will be praying for a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby.
I had a feeling in the last few videos, but never wanted to say something since I knew you were trying. Congratulations!!! You guys deserve all the happiness and we will be praying for a healthy baby! I am excited to watch all the pregnancy and baby content because we are going to start trying in the next few months. Thanks for sharing all of this excitement with us!
So exciting! I struggle to get pregnant too and we’re expecting and due in April! We find out what we’re having the week of thanksgiving. Congrats!! So happy for your family 💕
I am beyond thrilled for your family!! Praying for a safe delivery for baby & momma 💜 With regards to PPD and PPA, I truly recommend starting the medication about two months before baby. Then your body has time to adjust to the medication and it helps catch the PPD a little earlier. Since you had it before you’ll recognize the signs a little earlier, remember you’re not alone in this! 💜💜💜
Congratulations! I'm actually having a baby in April as well, It's going to be our first baby. I'm so excited for you guys and looking forward to watching your videos through this experience.
I had an experience w PPD myself after my second. Manic. I was so lost. When I found out I was pregnant w baby #3, knowing how hard that pp season could be, I went on Zoloft while I was pregnant as soon as I noticed myself sort of bottoming out. That made such a difference. I also chose not to breast feed, because that had a direct effect on my mental health. Five months Pp now and I can say, maybe because I’m not a newbie, but I’m convinced this is my best Pp experience. Baby number 3 I feel like fixed me.
Will just say , don't be completely dependent on zoloft, as my dad takes it and when he tried to get out of the loop, slowly and gradually even then it wasn't possible, as he got really bad anxiety, very weak , extremely quietand much more! And the doc sed that he can't leave it now.. So just saying don't become dependent on zoloft
I didn’t realize how many others experienced Manic or even Psychosis with their second or third child. Starting lexapro before my second was born was a game changer for me. I felt like I was able to enjoy the time with my oldest before our youngest was born. Being on the medication allowed me to notice things weren’t right as the psychosis was setting in. Ramble aside, it’s comforting to hear it’s not truly uncommon. I’m so happy you’re off the meds & feeling great after baby no3 😊
CONGRATULATIONS!!! I'm glad you found a new doctor that you're comfortable with. That's super important. Each pregnancy is so different, just like each child, so it's hard to say about taking the antidepressants preventatively. I personally did have increasing symptoms with each pregnancy. But oddly, knowing that it's a possibility somehow made it easier to deal with, without medicine. Each person is so different. I suggest praying about it and God will lead you in the right direction...always 😊.
I‘m sooo happy for you, Jessica! 😍 And pregnancy videos would be much appreciated. Actually I was binge watching your pregnancy videos when I was pregnant for the first time (our daughter is about a year younger than Genevive), and as I am currently pregnant with our second child (baby boy, due in April as well) I just thought about watching your old pregnancy videos again, and so I am more than happy to watch new ones which are actually on track with my own pregnancy. 😅 Also looking forward to Vlogmas (a tradition indeed, and the only Vlogmas I enjoy watching at all tbh). All the best for you and your family and greetings from Germany! ❤️
congrats! how exciting! currently have a 2.5 month old with a 3.5 year old and oh man, its a lot to juggle. lol. my 3 year old acts out from time to time, so it’s alot of reassuring and acknowledging him. But we are grateful knowing we were able to give him a sibling. hope you will continue to have a smooth pregnancy! ♥️
I'm so happy for y'all. I know it sounds cliche when people say to enjoy it because it goes by fast, but truer words have never been spoken! It seems like my kids were babies just a couple of years ago and now we're empty nesters wondering what in the world happened. My son is a sophomore in college and my daughter is a freshman. I sit around not knowing what to do with myself some days. Lol. Enjoy this season in life God has blessed you with. It's a lot of work but really is the most rewarding work there is.
Omg!! Congrats! I’m due in February with my second girl! I actually found your channel through your pregnancy videos when I was pregnant with my first and now we’ve come full circle and we’re pregnant again at the same time! I can’t wait to follow along with your journey 🥰
Congrats!!! I have to share I had worse PPD with my first due to the unknowns and separation from NICU as well. I just had my second and it has been 100% better. Barely any PPD or emotional rollercoasters bc I knew what to expect, baby was with me the whole time (no NICU time) and even recovering has been much easier on me. So yes, it will be a calmer experience for you since you know what you expect AND you can advocate for yourself to get questions answered etc this time around. Remember to accept the help after baby is here to get sleep, shower etc. Sleep is crucial to a healthy mind-I was all too reminded with a second kid how much that factors into your well-being. Big hugs, and congrats again! So happy for you guys!!!
The age gap is PERFECT! My sister and I are 3.5 years apart and her 3 kids and my 2 are all 3+ years apart. We love it. Can't imagine changing diapers for 2 kids at the same time. All the best!💖
Wooohooo! Congrats!!!! I have loved your journey. My daughter is just 2 weeks younger than Gigi, so it was awesome seeing someone I follow go through pregnancy at the same time. I’m so excited for you both. Congratulations 🎈🎊🎉
Congratulations, that’s such wonderful news. I had post postpartum depression after my first so when I was pregnant with my second at least we knew what we were looking out for ( I had no idea first time, my husband noticed and took me for help but I thought that it was just me being a bad mum). I didn’t get depression second time around but I think we would have been on to it way quicker if it happened so didn’t take antidepressants from the start. I reckon just talk to your doctor, but you and Tyler should do whatever you think is best for you. Either way, you know it’s manageable x
I had suspected something for a bit… but I never wanted to ask. I’m so excited for you guys! You guys are amazing parents! She’s going to be the best big sister ❤️. Prayers for a safe and healthy pregnancy ❤️
@@SkandalBeatsz Yes I think it's awesome that someone with a big channel engages in other content and is not afraid to express her opinion on the channels she loves! I think... Why not? Right?
Congratulations!!! 🥰🥰🥰 I have a 9 month old angel and I went through postpartum pretty bad. The only difference between then and now is that I’m a lot closer to God. I do pray he blesses me with more kids one day and when the time comes I’m prepared to give full control to him and completely lean on him. It was awful to go through but allowing God to have full reigns in my life I know next time will be VERY different. ❤️ Trust him. Praying for you mama.
HUGE congratulations!!! If you haven’t seen it, Sam Ravndahl has a great vid talking about her experience with antidepressants after pregnancy. She’s always been so open about her journey with mental health. Wishing you the healthiest pregnancy possible, I love how happy and excited you two are ❤️❤️
As someone who has watched you for years, I am so excited for you and to hear you share your journey more this time around. My husband and I have been trying for over two years, we have gone through two miscarriages in that time and we would have been due the same month this last time. It actually really helps to see the joy and I just wish you family the smoothest of sailing and congratulations 🎉
I'm a longtime viewer too. My family too has had to deal with trying for two years and we had 3 miscarriages in a row before success. But the 4th pregnancy was successful! And it's funny because Jess talks about progesterone here. We were put on progesterone interventions for early pregnancy and I'm convinced it worked for me and helped me keep my 4th pregnancy. I started it as soon as I started spotting. Maybe ask your physician about it next time 💕. Wishing you all the luck in the world.
@@jennicav1397 thank you! Yes my OB has me on that as soon as I get pregnant again. Giving it to god this time and staying positive that WHEN it happens I can make that call to my OB and hopefully have more success
Congratulations!!😍🥰 I talk about you two like you’re my friends so I’m SO happy! It may be totally unrelated but lately you’ve been so out of breath and all I could think was, “I bet she’s pregnant!”
You were my very first TH-cam subscription a few years ago (I found TH-cam in my early 50's). I found you, not just because of the makeup, but also because I love babies and you had just had Gigi. SO excited to follow you for this next episode of your family's journey.
Congratulations!!! This is such exciting news!!! My kids are 19 and 17 now, but I remember how exciting it was when we found out number 2 was on the way. I wish you a smooth, healthy, and uneventful pregnancy and delivery. ♥️🙏🏼
I started on antidepressants as well as anti anxiety meds right after giving birth the second time. I didn’t want to put myself or my family through the depression and anxiety I was having during the first one. It doesn’t hurt, it can only help. That was my thoughts. And boy did it help me. I also breast feed and there wasn’t any issues. Congratulations 🎊 ❤️
I am so happy for you both. The most important thing about having a baby, is having a healthy baby, no matter whether it is a boy or a girl. Look forward to your progress through the next several months.🤗
Eeek! So excited for you all! I can't wait for vlogmus and your pregnancy updates. I'm starting my foster care journey and am so excited to experience parenthood along side of you. Hubs loves watching vlogmus with me too. 💜
Congratulations! I know two ladies that had postpartum depression after their first baby and not after any others. Praying for a happy delivery for you.
I don’t know about covid restrictions, but our hospital had a big sibling course. It was fabulous. They taught the kids about what to expect and took a tour of the hospital room so they could see equipment. It was a great experience for my daughter.
It was awesome! And when my daughter came to see her newborn brother she wasn’t scared by the IV pole and stuff like that. And she practiced swaddling and diapering on a baby doll. Learned how to hold the baby and support the head. It was so much fun.
Awwww! I’m so excited for y’all! My two girls are 3.5 years apart and while we didn’t plan it, I think it’s the perfect age gap for us. Olive (my oldest) LOVES being a big sister and has been such a help! I was very anxious about the transition, as I think all parents are. The change from zero to 1 was much harder for me than 1 to 2. I guess the “mom stamina” really does kick in! I hope y’all have as smooth as a transition as we did. 💕
So many congratulations to your family! I have a 3 year old & 7 mo old, and watching my toddler become a big brother has been so special. I also had mild PPD after my first I think because of a chaotic delivery. I changed doctors too and the 2nd delivery was completely different experience- in the best way. Despite the exhaustion & recovery, I had no PPD. Either way, it’s so important to be honest about those feelings & have other folks help you stay aware so that you don’t suffer needlessly. You will know what feels right. Sending lots of hugs your way!
Congratulations Jess and Tyler!! I’m so excited for you two!! I’m finally getting my first niece or nephew in April also and I’m beyond excited! It’s going to be a great month. 🥰❤️
I’m so excited for you!! With a 2nd baby, it’s still a man on man defense, it’s with the 3rd you have to change to zone!! You guys are going to rock having 2!
Congrats!!! I have sensed this for awhile but didn’t want to mention. It took us 8 yrs for our first and then 6 yrs for 2nd so I am so happy for the feeling you are experiencing on having your 2nd. Such a special time for all of you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 from another Hoosier😁
Congrats to you and Tyler!!! To answer your question about PPA/PPD… I just had my first baby 1 week ago. Throughout my pregnancy I remembered your story after Gigi and I already struggle with general anxiety and life changes depression. So my midwife and I decided that since I was higher risk for postpartum depression (and I was experiencing prenatal anxiety) I started medication around 30weeks. With the help of the medication, support from my husband and mom, the transition into motherhood has been seamless. I just wanted to stack the deck in my favor to prevent PPD/PPA as best as I could. Happy Mommy = happy and healthy baby 🥰🥰 Also: I highly recommend to see a therapist that specializes in pre/postnatal therapy. It helped a lot to work through my anxieties about becoming a mother. Worth it 1000%
Ahh congrats!! When moving her I’d try to make it sound like Genevieve is upgrading not being replaced, that was huge with my nephews. You never want them to feel pushed out of their space when changing rooms. This is a suggestion not telling you what to do, you’re a kickass mama!
So very happy for you, Tyler, and Gigi! I wish that when I had my son 39 years ago, that post partum depression had been widely recognized because my experience was quite challenging.
I’m soooo happy for you guys!!You deserve this so much! Congratulations!!!!!! I had PPD after my first really bad… however, with my second and last, I didn’t. Being a new mom was hard for me. Also, I have anemia, so I was constantly tired and not getting sleep. It was easier for me knowing what to expect after my first. PPD is serious and it’s real. I know the struggle. I’ll be praying for you guys. Also, my kids are 10, one is almost 12 and one is almost 16. They are all close and do so much together. I was worried about the gap but it worked out great! I’m so excited about this news! When I saw the title I got so excited hoping this is what it was! ❤️
Congrats!!! Also, there is definitely something so comforting about vlogmas. Nothing really felt holiday-ish for me last year but vlogmas really helped spark the spirit!
I am so excited for you guys! Praying for a smooth pregnancy and delivery. I feel like you're my real life friends I'm just that happy. We were pregnant together last time and our girls are just 2 months apart so I love your family content since I can relate so much. Congratulations!
Congratulations, guys! We were only blesses with one child but I've dealt with depression over 30 years so I have a bit of experience. I would say definitely think about starting meds near, or just after, your due date. Give yourself every chance to really enjoy those first few weeks. So happy for you guys!
First congratulations 💕🎊🎉🎉 This is so exciting. Also the age gap is perfect, as a mom who has a 1 yr old and a 5 yr old it’s great. You can definitely have Gigi “help” with baby. So fun 🤗
I’m so happy for you & Tyler. I had a feeling you were when you were moving furniture. I’d love more videos about your pregnancy. I just love your family. I think you & Tyler are just sweet people. Glad you got a new doctor. I would take the antidepressant ahead of time. Nothing wrong in getting ahead of things. God bless you all.
As soon as I saw you two on camera together I knew what was going on!!! I am over the moon for y'all. You're such amazing parents and i can't wait for Gigi to have a little sib. Many many congratulations and I can't wait for more updates! ❤️🤗🥳
So excited for you! I have incompetent cervix and had to get a cerclage for both pregnancies. These progesterone shots are so thick and painful. Usually with high risk pregnancies they do a weekly ultrasound, so maybe going forward they'll do that! Best wishes for a safe, healthy pregnancy and baby! Congratulations!!!
Y'all don't even get me started on the strong feelings. 😭 It's like I literally knew and was just waiting for you to say something. 😆 Congratulations! ❤ Wishing you all the happiness there is!
Honestly the comments you’ve been making about being out of breath made me wonder 😂 but of course we never know until you say it yourselves! Congratulations! 💜 I’m so happy for you guys and Gigi will be a great big sister!
Yay CONGRATS, I'm beyond happy and excited for y'all! Having 2 kids will definitely change y'alls life both physically and mentally, some days you'll want to pull your hair out and other days you'll be so tired you can't see straight but in the end it's worth it bc kids are the biggest blessing and all the hard work is worthwhile!! I pray that your pregnancy journey goes smoothly with no complications and you have a healthy baby(girl/boy)! Y'all are ganna be wonderful parents to two and Gigi is ganna be an amazing big sis! I can't wait to watch your family grow!!
Oh and also, yes, God’s timing is always perfect. You may never know why it took “so long,” but I can tell you that I have always been able to look back on seasons of waiting in my life and seen how God was preparing my heart and circumstances. Waiting on the Lord has caused and continues to grow my relationship with him. ❤️
Amen sister! 🙌 He’s doing the same with me in the waiting. I just read recently that the delay is a great opportunity to partner with God in building up my faith; though it can be discouraging, the delay is actually important in strengthening our relationship with God and growing into even stronger Hope/Faith warriors. 💪 Thank you for sharing your comment. I love it and it’s such a confirmation for me! 💖
Congrats! I heard a really good pierce of advice recently on transitioning from one child to two. This mom explained how having one child they get so used to being the only child and having all of your attention and to prevent jealousy etc the same way you tell your toddler to “hold on one moment the baby needs me” to also say out loud to your baby “hold on one moment *toddler’s name* needs me”
Obviously the baby doesn’t understand or wasn’t even crying for you but this might help the toddler feel she is also still important and help with preventing that resentment.
Yes! We do this with our four year old. Our young one is one now and we’ll even sit him in our lap for a 30 second time out when he does something we wouldn’t let our oldest do.
It’s seems like our oldest really appreciates it ❤️
I do with this my 4yo and he definitely gets a kick out of it! It’s a great tip. 😀
Yes! Yes and yes
Great Idea!
That really is a great tip. May seem small to us but probably a huge thing for the little ones ☺️💞
The gap is HIGHLY underrated! Getting away from diapers and being able to communicate with the older one is SUCH a gift and a help in the process.
Agree. Not to mention a little sanity in between kids and the time to enjoy the older kid without a crying adorable next baby
True! My kids are 3 and a half years apart and it was great. No fighting or sibling rivalry, and a break from sleepless nights and diapers in between.
My two are six yrs apart and they fought like crazy and by the time I got one into school. I was home with the next all day. I would not change a thing though.
That's what I say, it's awesome
AGREE!! Wanted children no more than 2 years apart but life said there will be a 5 year gap between my 2 angels and it’s exactly as stated above!!
The “out of breath” the other day was a clue I picked up on, but I made no comment, because I know how feels to be trying without success. Congratulations! So thrilled for your family!
And all the tea talk!
Exactly! The other day when she was Out of breath… I was like…. 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐 🤰🏻?
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This. Thanks for not saying anything! I also picked up on that, but I also struggled with infertility, and that was a painful question.
I was out of breathe before i found out i was pregnant! I also realized she was drinking more tea and decaf coffee… 🤔
So happy for you! I’m due right before you with our third. I’m also a person of faith and there’s something that I feel like is profound with timing. For women, you have one chance at your contribution to the baby’s genes for that month (in most cases, only one egg matures). To me, that makes timing so important. A big part of your child’s makeup and even personality depend on the timing. So the child you have wouldn’t be the same if you got pregnant the month before. If you believe in God and His purposes, it’s encouraging to know. I hope that makes sense. Blessings to your family❤️
I had PPD after my daughter was born and started Zoloft. I was on it when my son was born because we knew that I was probably going to have the same issue again. The difference in my postpartum experiences was astounding to me. Part of that was being an experienced parent but I think the bigger part was having my depression managed. I'm glad to see that you are addressing that because the difference can be astounding
I had the same thing happen to me and also went on Zoloft and it was a huge difference after having my second.
Same with me also. The difference Zoloft made was amazing. My 1st pregnancy was great as far as physically but mentally it was horrible. I went on Zoloft after having my 1st and when I got pregnant with my 2nd I stayed on it. Completely different pregnancies mentally. I felt as if I could actually enjoy my pregnancy and my baby after birth. With my 1st I didn’t take pictures, I didn’t do anything at all. I didn’t want to do anything but sleep. With my 2nd I felt so guilty because I did a belly cast, pictures, gender reveal, baby shower just all the things. I still feel kinda guilty because my 1st is now 7 and she sees my belly cast from her sister and it just makes me feel so bad but I’m glad I went on medication for both my kids and myself. Medication is a lifesaver ❤️
@@x.Kristen.x literally same thing happened with me! And I felt the same as you in so many ways
Congratulations!!! My husband and I just watched this and SQUEALED with delight for you.
During the pandemic we watched all of you your vlogs. It was like hanging out with friends when that wasn’t an option. Thank you for that.
I was pregnant with my first daughter when you were pregnant with Gigi, she was born in Sept. ‘18.
Now I’m pregnant with out second, due Feb. ‘22, so we get to go through this together again!
Much love from your friends in Philly that you don’t know you have lol.
I LOVE YOUR GUYS VLOGMAS!!! ❤️
Aww Philly friends Congratulations to you all too🥳💞❤️🥰 xx
My first born was born in Sept. 2018 as well! I found out I was pregnant the day they announced they were pregnant
Congrats to you Mama!!!
Congratulations! As someone who struggled with depression after our first I was also hoping it would be different with the second but it ended up being even worst and I wish I would have been proactive and started dealing with it right away. Just something to think about
People need to realize it's not just a case of the "baby blues." My niece's was so severe after her last baby that she had to be hospitalized.
The same happened to me, the second one was horrible 😢
Same. PPD is the reason I won’t have a 3rd baby. It was so bad after my 2nd, however, it was partially my own fault because I waited so long to go on meds. So anyone else reading this: don’t wait! Don’t try to be a hero like me and power through. I wasted so much time.
Congratulations!!!! I’m so happy for you 3... these are the best sleepless times.I have all the confidence you will get through it. As a psychologist, I recommend you wait a little bit for your hormones to settle to be sure about medications, as every pregnancy, birth, child health is different. You could consult with a PPD specialty psychiatrist and see what their recommendation is. Be firm about needing answers about statistics on BF and baby’s future to make a well informed decision. Re: Vlogmas, can’t wait and I love Tyler’s cooking, home projects, and one time Pinocchio had a stand-off at the door with a stick. That really really cracked me up, very original true down to earth content. Can’t wait!
Soooo happy for you and your family, CONGRATULATIONS 🥳❤️
When I saw your story yesterday that you filmed in this room with Tyler I was hoping this was the reason!! Congrats that’s so exciting! Can’t wait to follow along on your pregnancy journey once again! 🥰
I even commented on that story that I had suspicions😉🤣
This is absolutely phenomenal news. I feel like a good friend just surprised me with this…which I know is crazy, but your videos are so lovely and personal. We all just feel like we really know you. So happy for you three and, even though there will be stressful times ahead, the joy that will also be there with this new life. Praying for you to have a happy and healthy pregnancy. Excited now to watch this part of the journey on your channel. ❤️
I've been here since before you and Tyler got married! It's so crazy watching you both move through your lives, congratulations! Wishing you the best as always.
When I saw the title of this video I audibly gasped. You and Tyler are my favorite channel to watch on the Internet and I feel like we're best friends! I'm so thrilled for you and Gigi. She's going to be the best big sister :) Congratulations to the whole family!!
Congrats on baby number 2.. it's kinda weird how excited I get for other people having kids even though I'm child free, I think the excitement is just contagious..
I get it. I'm excited too and I don't plan on having anymore kids. But I still want to see all the baby vlogs lol.
Same here. No kids for me but I love Jessica and Tyler so I’ll watch any video they do.
CONGRATULATIONS!!! And don’t be a hero-just go on the meds. There’s no gold stars for suffering more than you have to. Love you guys so much! Can’t wait for Vlogmas and to see this part of your journey.
Also: I would have lost my shit with that doctor and their office. Those are two major issues. You are very classy for not mentioning their name because of it were me, I would be tempted to go scorched earth.
Congrats!!!! So happy for you two. I’m currently pregnant with my first (two) - after three miscarriages - twins due in May :) I’m sure Gigi will be the best big sister! 💕
The way that I screeched when I saw the title is embarrassing. I am so so happy for you two!!
BIG SAME
Yep same!!!
Same
Lol. Me too!
Same!
I could NOT click fast enough! I have been praying for you two for so many months. I'm so excited Genevive will have a brother or sister!!! This could not happen to a nicer couple🥰❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I'm proud that you are considering medication for depression after the birth. I know how much it has helped me, and after having child #2, life can quickly become overwhelming. Go with your gut, Jessica, you will know what it right for you and your family!
Omg congratulations!! My daughter was born early dec of 2019 and your 2019 vlogmas was SUCH an important part of her first month for me. I would watch them when I woke up in the middle of the night to nurse my baby or pump. And now I’m also pregnant with baby number and due in April! I’m so happy for y’all. I love watching your family grow as mine grows in a similar way. It’s so fun! 🥰
As an old pro mom of three I can tell you that three and a half years is literally the most perfect age gap ever!! Congratulations!!! Wishing you all the best!
Oh good to know! That’s what I will have this upcoming March!
@@JessicaTheEngineer If they end up being the same gender, they’ll more than likely end up being closer than opposite gender kids.
@@JessicaTheEngineer my sister and I are 4.5 years apart and we are pretty close. We had some phases where she was still a kid and I was becoming a teenager, so we were in different spots. But we have always had a good relationship 💗
@@JessicaTheEngineer that's the gap my sister and I had and we're very close.
Congratulations! I’m so glad that you’re having an easier time with this pregnancy. I realise now that I suffered PPD with both my pregnancies. When I had my boys (who are now 26 and 28) not so much was known about PPD so there was really no treatment commonly used. How I wish there was. It sounds like your new Dr has plans to make sure everything goes smoothly for you. Take it easy and enjoy pregnancy this time around. ❤️🍼🎉👶
I'm 29 and my mum definitely had it with me, but she always just said she was weepy for a couple of months, but then last year she actually said she had ppd. I'm so sad for her that she couldn't recognise that at the time, and that she couldn't get support for it. But she's the best mum regardless.
I had a feeling....you just seemed to have a special joy in your voice. I'm so happy for you and your family!!
I’m a long time follower, I remember when you announced Gigi’s you were both so emotional! You both are the cutest, congratulations!! 🎉
I am so happy!!!! I would recommend getting on meds several weeks before the baby comes so that they're already working in those potentially difficult first few weeks. I was put on Lexapro about a year before my most recent pregnancy and I felt very balanced all throughout pregnancy and postpartum. Still hormonal and emotional, but manageable instead of crazy. You guys will do so great. Congratulations!
Congratulations! So exciting! The second time around I told my midwife just to put me right on antidepressants as soon as I deliver and wow what a world of a difference my postpartum journey was. I was able to see through the fog and enjoy my little baby ❤️ plus the second time around is much easier since you’re a pro 😂
I am so happy for you!!! 💖 I just gave birth to my third baby this morning, I am overwhelmed and so, so happy for you two 💖 it's all about babies today, I am crying now 🥰
Congratulations to you also!
@@foxymama2003 thanks a lot ☺️
Congratulations! That’s incredible.
Aww congratulations!! 🥰 welcome to the world little one!
Such happy news!!! I know y’all are thrilled! So glad you’re in a group of mamas that are your same due time. I did that with my five year old and it helped so much. We are all still in touch and have loved seeing each other’s babies grow up ❤️
So excited for you guys! Funny thing, I was pregnant the same time you guys were pregnant with Gigi AND I’m pregnant again too! 💖 My daughter was born 02/24/18 and new baby is due 06/26/22. So excited to see your progress and meet the new addition when you’re ready to share 🥰
Oh my gosh, this is so exciting!!! The fact that you ended this video talking about Vlogmas felt like such a full-circle moment for me. The first year I watched yours and Tyler’s Vlogmas, it ended with your pregnancy announcement for Genevieve! Congratulations to you and Tyler!!
Congrats guys! What happy happy news!! Jessica, I'd love it if you could share more about your fertility journey. How you tracked ovulation and anything you feel helped etc. It's something that's really helpful to hear people talk about more. Xx
Congratulations! Re: the postpartum depression, it may not hurt to get established with a counselor and start on meds a week or 2 before your due date. This pregnancy may bring up some of your feelings from Gigi’s pregnancy, birth, and the associated trauma. That’s a lot of complex feelings to untangle! I wish you all the best!!
If I could go back in time...I would definitely start early on anti depressants. I had pp depression with both pregnancies and didn't get treated..due to stigma it bottled up till my late 30s.. I'm through the hard part now, but I think early intervention would have made all the difference in my case.
I agree with this. Set yourself up for success!
I am sure the particular Rx matters, but I was able to remain on my antidepressant (Zoloft) throughout the entirety of my pregnancy. My psychiatrist assessed that the benefits outweighed the possibility of risk *for me*. Us mothers are so much more capable of providing for the needs of our children when our needs and welfare are being properly addressed.
@@At0micAllison - agree 100%! With any med during pregnancy, it is a risk/benefit analysis. But, many of the SSRI’s (like Zoloft) are considered safe options with pregnancy and breastfeeding). People should definitely talk to their providers regarding their specific health situation. Incidentally, I am a Certified Nurse-midwife (an advanced-practice nurse that delivers babies and provides prenatal/postpartum care, and GYN care among other things).
Congratulations! 💙 I’ve followed you both for 5+ years. I am pregnant with my first and it is a high risk pregnancy and your videos about your journey with Gigi have been very comforting as some videos on TH-cam make pregnancy look like rainbows and butterflies and that’s sometimes not the case for everyone.
Ever since I saw the video where you said you guys were actively trying I have been hoping and praying for you guys. I am so excited to share this experience with you and to see your journey with you guys and I hope you have a easier go at it this time around.
I am also so excited to see this years vlogmas! Since last time you were pregnant you kept it a secret til the END of vlogmas so I’m excited to be able to keep up with you this time around!!
So, so pleased for you Jessica! Having experienced infertility, completely understand the worry but it all goes away when it happens. We adopted my little boy (who’s a few months younger than Gigi) and oh my god it was worth all the pain. Wishing you all the best for a very healthy and happy pregnancy and can’t wait to join you on your journey! Eeeeek!! 🥰🥰 lots of love to all of you. X
I don’t know what I’m more excited about me just getting engaged or Jess and Tyler having a baby!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
Lindsey Congratulations🥂! Yes! I’m so happy for Jess & Tyler!
Congratulations!!!!!
Hey congrats to you too!!
Aw congrats on your engagement!!! 🖤
the reversal of announcing that your pregnant at somebody's wedding..
😒
I got choked up at the end of this video with happy tears for you and Tyler cause it’s so infectious how excited you are that you’re finally having another baby🥺🥲😀. So happy for you guys!👨👩👧👦
3 years is a good time apart. My brother and I are 3 years apart…he’s the older and I’m the baby. According to my mom I was obsessed with him and he loved caring for me. Then when I was a toddler apparently we started not getting along. Throughout my school years we always tore each other’s head off until high school when we started getting along again and now we’re still close 😊
I highly believe that everything happens for a reason. This is your time! Congratulations to you and Tyler, and Gigi ☺️ I look forward to any baby/pregnancy updates to come. I’ll be praying for you to have a healthy pregnancy
Congratulations!!!! I'm so happy for you guys and that baby is going to be so loved (they already are)! I would love to get updates about the pregnancy and check-ins so we all know how you're doing, but don't stress yourself out we will be okay with whatever you feel comfortable sharing! Sending so much love! ❤🥰
So happy for you both! It's going to be such an amazing adventure! Here's to an easy, happy, healthy pregnancy and delivery for you. ❤️
I LOVE that you are taking an active approach to the PPD with your second pregnancy. I have PPA and I’m nearly 8 months postpartum. If we were to have a second, I’m definitely asking about meds early on. You got this, mama. Thanks for being so open on your journey!
I’m crying. I’m so happy for you guys. My daughter is the same age as Gigi. I’ve been dealing with some health issues so we haven’t tried yet for another, but we’re ready to start soon! Can’t wait to see your journey. I’m nervous for 2 (God-willing), but I also can’t wait ❤️
SO excited for you!! Knew once I saw your story yesterday and couldn’t stop smiling!! I’ve had a journey to having kids too and I’m so happy that you’re pregnant!! Going from 1-2 is harder than 0-1 but it’s the best to scoop two of your kids up in a big hug ❤️
I knew it! I’ve been here since way before gigis announcement so I’m so excited to see this again. I’m so beyond excited for you. I swear Tyler used to not want kids or something and seeing him love being a dad now is insane. I’m so happy for you it’s unreal. Congratulations guys!
Best advice from going from 1 child to 2:. Always let your toddler be "involved" as much as she wants to be. My oldest kids always loved "helping" mommy with their baby brother or sister. They would throw diapers away, help me feed (I didn't breastfeed my four), help me pick out their outfits, etc. This makes the toddler feel important and needed, while still devoting time your time to them and the baby (at the same time).
I am so happy for you two!! I’m expecting my first little one in just a few weeks so maybe it’s the hormones (lol), but this made me cry happy tears!! Praying for healthy baby and for you too, mama!
I’ve never been so happy for someone I’ve never met before. 😂 HUGE congratulations to you all.
when you said you were out of breath in the last video i watched i literally said out loud "she's pregnant!" so happy for you!
THATS WHAT GAVE IT AWAY FOR ME TOO AHHAHAA
Yay!!! I totally suspected that you were. I’m so happy and excited for your family. I actually realised I was smiling from ear to ear whilst watching this as though I’m the one having a baby 😂 I just love watching people bring new life in to the world, it’s a little piece of happy amongst all the chaos and hard times that is life. I am totally here for all the pregnancy related videos like how you found out, how you told Tyler, symptoms, nursery prep and all the things. Or you know as much as your willing to share of course. As for Vlogmas I can’t wait, I have actually been rewatching last years at the moment whilst I wait for December 😂 Again I am so happy for you guys and I will be praying for a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby.
I had a feeling in the last few videos, but never wanted to say something since I knew you were trying. Congratulations!!! You guys deserve all the happiness and we will be praying for a healthy baby! I am excited to watch all the pregnancy and baby content because we are going to start trying in the next few months. Thanks for sharing all of this excitement with us!
So exciting! I struggle to get pregnant too and we’re expecting and due in April! We find out what we’re having the week of thanksgiving. Congrats!! So happy for your family 💕
I am beyond thrilled for your family!! Praying for a safe delivery for baby & momma 💜
With regards to PPD and PPA, I truly recommend starting the medication about two months before baby. Then your body has time to adjust to the medication and it helps catch the PPD a little earlier. Since you had it before you’ll recognize the signs a little earlier, remember you’re not alone in this! 💜💜💜
Congratulations! I'm actually having a baby in April as well, It's going to be our first baby. I'm so excited for you guys and looking forward to watching your videos through this experience.
CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 we are also do in April, this will be our fourth. The best of wishes to your little family to be 😊
I had an experience w PPD myself after my second. Manic. I was so lost. When I found out I was pregnant w baby #3, knowing how hard that pp season could be, I went on Zoloft while I was pregnant as soon as I noticed myself sort of bottoming out. That made such a difference. I also chose not to breast feed, because that had a direct effect on my mental health. Five months Pp now and I can say, maybe because I’m not a newbie, but I’m convinced this is my best Pp experience. Baby number 3 I feel like fixed me.
Will just say , don't be completely dependent on zoloft, as my dad takes it and when he tried to get out of the loop, slowly and gradually even then it wasn't possible, as he got really bad anxiety, very weak , extremely quietand much more! And the doc sed that he can't leave it now..
So just saying don't become dependent on zoloft
@@thebrowniefactory6837 I came off of it shortly after having baby number 3. ☺️
I didn’t realize how many others experienced Manic or even Psychosis with their second or third child. Starting lexapro before my second was born was a game changer for me. I felt like I was able to enjoy the time with my oldest before our youngest was born. Being on the medication allowed me to notice things weren’t right as the psychosis was setting in. Ramble aside, it’s comforting to hear it’s not truly uncommon. I’m so happy you’re off the meds & feeling great after baby no3 😊
@@calyn.thouin it’s so rarely talked about! I’m so glad you are doing well!
So glad you’re doing well ☺️can you explain what you mean by manic? I’m 3 months postpartum
CONGRATULATIONS!!! I'm glad you found a new doctor that you're comfortable with. That's super important. Each pregnancy is so different, just like each child, so it's hard to say about taking the antidepressants preventatively. I personally did have increasing symptoms with each pregnancy. But oddly, knowing that it's a possibility somehow made it easier to deal with, without medicine. Each person is so different. I suggest praying about it and God will lead you in the right direction...always 😊.
I‘m sooo happy for you, Jessica! 😍 And pregnancy videos would be much appreciated. Actually I was binge watching your pregnancy videos when I was pregnant for the first time (our daughter is about a year younger than Genevive), and as I am currently pregnant with our second child (baby boy, due in April as well) I just thought about watching your old pregnancy videos again, and so I am more than happy to watch new ones which are actually on track with my own pregnancy. 😅 Also looking forward to Vlogmas (a tradition indeed, and the only Vlogmas I enjoy watching at all tbh). All the best for you and your family and greetings from Germany! ❤️
congrats! how exciting! currently have a 2.5 month old with a 3.5 year old and oh man, its a lot to juggle. lol. my 3 year old acts out from time to time, so it’s alot of reassuring and acknowledging him. But we are grateful knowing we were able to give him a sibling. hope you will continue to have a smooth pregnancy! ♥️
I'm so happy for y'all. I know it sounds cliche when people say to enjoy it because it goes by fast, but truer words have never been spoken! It seems like my kids were babies just a couple of years ago and now we're empty nesters wondering what in the world happened. My son is a sophomore in college and my daughter is a freshman. I sit around not knowing what to do with myself some days. Lol. Enjoy this season in life God has blessed you with. It's a lot of work but really is the most rewarding work there is.
Omg!! Congrats! I’m due in February with my second girl! I actually found your channel through your pregnancy videos when I was pregnant with my first and now we’ve come full circle and we’re pregnant again at the same time! I can’t wait to follow along with your journey 🥰
Congrats!!! I have to share I had worse PPD with my first due to the unknowns and separation from NICU as well. I just had my second and it has been 100% better. Barely any PPD or emotional rollercoasters bc I knew what to expect, baby was with me the whole time (no NICU time) and even recovering has been much easier on me. So yes, it will be a calmer experience for you since you know what you expect AND you can advocate for yourself to get questions answered etc this time around. Remember to accept the help after baby is here to get sleep, shower etc. Sleep is crucial to a healthy mind-I was all too reminded with a second kid how much that factors into your well-being. Big hugs, and congrats again! So happy for you guys!!!
The age gap is PERFECT! My sister and I are 3.5 years apart and her 3 kids and my 2 are all 3+ years apart. We love it. Can't imagine changing diapers for 2 kids at the same time. All the best!💖
Praise the Lord! 🙌🏻 His timing is always perfect. Congratulations!! I’m so happy for you guys and excited for the future for your family.
Yay! 😊💗
Wooohooo! Congrats!!!! I have loved your journey. My daughter is just 2 weeks younger than Gigi, so it was awesome seeing someone I follow go through pregnancy at the same time. I’m so excited for you both. Congratulations 🎈🎊🎉
Congratulations, that’s such wonderful news. I had post postpartum depression after my first so when I was pregnant with my second at least we knew what we were looking out for ( I had no idea first time, my husband noticed and took me for help but I thought that it was just me being a bad mum). I didn’t get depression second time around but I think we would have been on to it way quicker if it happened so didn’t take antidepressants from the start. I reckon just talk to your doctor, but you and Tyler should do whatever you think is best for you. Either way, you know it’s manageable x
I had suspected something for a bit… but I never wanted to ask. I’m so excited for you guys! You guys are amazing parents! She’s going to be the best big sister ❤️.
Prayers for a safe and healthy pregnancy ❤️
I’m so over the moon happy for you guys!! I know you’ve been trying!! Yaaay!! Congratulations 🎉♥️
You mentioned Kendall Rae in one of your videos and I was like “I wonder who else she watches” 😂😂 Not me trying to find them all like little Pokémon 🤪
@@Sloppyfern321 I swear I find her on all the channels I watch. 😂
@@SkandalBeatsz Yes I think it's awesome that someone with a big channel engages in other content and is not afraid to express her opinion on the channels she loves! I think... Why not? Right?
Congrats you three! You guys are such great parents already. I'm sure that will not change. And I know Genevieve will be a great big sister. 💯💖🤰👼
Congratulations!!! 🥰🥰🥰 I have a 9 month old angel and I went through postpartum pretty bad. The only difference between then and now is that I’m a lot closer to God. I do pray he blesses me with more kids one day and when the time comes I’m prepared to give full control to him and completely lean on him. It was awful to go through but allowing God to have full reigns in my life I know next time will be VERY different. ❤️ Trust him. Praying for you mama.
HUGE congratulations!!! If you haven’t seen it, Sam Ravndahl has a great vid talking about her experience with antidepressants after pregnancy. She’s always been so open about her journey with mental health. Wishing you the healthiest pregnancy possible, I love how happy and excited you two are ❤️❤️
As someone who has watched you for years, I am so excited for you and to hear you share your journey more this time around. My husband and I have been trying for over two years, we have gone through two miscarriages in that time and we would have been due the same month this last time. It actually really helps to see the joy and I just wish you family the smoothest of sailing and congratulations 🎉
Oh I pray so much that you get pregnant so super soon and carry to full term in Jesus name!!!! 💕
I'm a longtime viewer too. My family too has had to deal with trying for two years and we had 3 miscarriages in a row before success. But the 4th pregnancy was successful! And it's funny because Jess talks about progesterone here. We were put on progesterone interventions for early pregnancy and I'm convinced it worked for me and helped me keep my 4th pregnancy. I started it as soon as I started spotting. Maybe ask your physician about it next time 💕. Wishing you all the luck in the world.
@@jennicav1397 thank you! Yes my OB has me on that as soon as I get pregnant again. Giving it to god this time and staying positive that WHEN it happens I can make that call to my OB and hopefully have more success
Congratulations!!😍🥰 I talk about you two like you’re my friends so I’m SO happy! It may be totally unrelated but lately you’ve been so out of breath and all I could think was, “I bet she’s pregnant!”
You were my very first TH-cam subscription a few years ago (I found TH-cam in my early 50's). I found you, not just because of the makeup, but also because I love babies and you had just had Gigi. SO excited to follow you for this next episode of your family's journey.
Congratulations!!! This is such exciting news!!! My kids are 19 and 17 now, but I remember how exciting it was when we found out number 2 was on the way. I wish you a smooth, healthy, and uneventful pregnancy and delivery. ♥️🙏🏼
I started on antidepressants as well as anti anxiety meds right after giving birth the second time. I didn’t want to put myself or my family through the depression and anxiety I was having during the first one. It doesn’t hurt, it can only help. That was my thoughts. And boy did it help me. I also breast feed and there wasn’t any issues. Congratulations 🎊 ❤️
I am so happy for you both. The most important thing about having a baby, is having a healthy baby, no matter whether it is a boy or a girl. Look forward to your progress through the next several months.🤗
Eeek! So excited for you all! I can't wait for vlogmus and your pregnancy updates. I'm starting my foster care journey and am so excited to experience parenthood along side of you. Hubs loves watching vlogmus with me too. 💜
Congratulations! I know two ladies that had postpartum depression after their first baby and not after any others. Praying for a happy delivery for you.
I don’t know about covid restrictions, but our hospital had a big sibling course. It was fabulous. They taught the kids about what to expect and took a tour of the hospital room so they could see equipment. It was a great experience for my daughter.
That is really cool! I wish my daughter did that when her brother was born.
That’s very cool!
It was awesome! And when my daughter came to see her newborn brother she wasn’t scared by the IV pole and stuff like that. And she practiced swaddling and diapering on a baby doll. Learned how to hold the baby and support the head. It was so much fun.
Awwww! I’m so excited for y’all! My two girls are 3.5 years apart and while we didn’t plan it, I think it’s the perfect age gap for us. Olive (my oldest) LOVES being a big sister and has been such a help!
I was very anxious about the transition, as I think all parents are. The change from zero to 1 was much harder for me than 1 to 2. I guess the “mom stamina” really does kick in! I hope y’all have as smooth as a transition as we did. 💕
So many congratulations to your family! I have a 3 year old & 7 mo old, and watching my toddler become a big brother has been so special. I also had mild PPD after my first I think because of a chaotic delivery. I changed doctors too and the 2nd delivery was completely different experience- in the best way. Despite the exhaustion & recovery, I had no PPD. Either way, it’s so important to be honest about those feelings & have other folks help you stay aware so that you don’t suffer needlessly. You will know what feels right. Sending lots of hugs your way!
Congratulations Jess and Tyler!! I’m so excited for you two!! I’m finally getting my first niece or nephew in April also and I’m beyond excited! It’s going to be a great month. 🥰❤️
I’m so excited for you!! With a 2nd baby, it’s still a man on man defense, it’s with the 3rd you have to change to zone!! You guys are going to rock having 2!
Congrats!!! I have sensed this for awhile but didn’t want to mention. It took us 8 yrs for our first and then 6 yrs for 2nd so I am so happy for the feeling you are experiencing on having your 2nd. Such a special time for all of you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 from another Hoosier😁
Congrats to you and Tyler!!! To answer your question about PPA/PPD… I just had my first baby 1 week ago. Throughout my pregnancy I remembered your story after Gigi and I already struggle with general anxiety and life changes depression. So my midwife and I decided that since I was higher risk for postpartum depression (and I was experiencing prenatal anxiety) I started medication around 30weeks. With the help of the medication, support from my husband and mom, the transition into motherhood has been seamless. I just wanted to stack the deck in my favor to prevent PPD/PPA as best as I could. Happy Mommy = happy and healthy baby 🥰🥰
Also: I highly recommend to see a therapist that specializes in pre/postnatal therapy. It helped a lot to work through my anxieties about becoming a mother. Worth it 1000%
So excited to watch this! Congratulations!!!! Sooo incredibly happy for you guys!!!! Gigi is going to be the BEST BIG SISTER EVER!!!!
Ahh congrats!! When moving her I’d try to make it sound like Genevieve is upgrading not being replaced, that was huge with my nephews. You never want them to feel pushed out of their space when changing rooms. This is a suggestion not telling you what to do, you’re a kickass mama!
So very happy for you, Tyler, and Gigi! I wish that when I had my son 39 years ago, that post partum depression had been widely recognized because my experience was quite challenging.
unfortunately mental health is really just now starting to be taken seriously, im so sorry you had struggles 😞 sending love 💕
I’m soooo happy for you guys!!You deserve this so much! Congratulations!!!!!! I had PPD after my first really bad… however, with my second and last, I didn’t. Being a new mom was hard for me. Also, I have anemia, so I was constantly tired and not getting sleep. It was easier for me knowing what to expect after my first. PPD is serious and it’s real. I know the struggle. I’ll be praying for you guys. Also, my kids are 10, one is almost 12 and one is almost 16. They are all close and do so much together. I was worried about the gap but it worked out great! I’m so excited about this news! When I saw the title I got so excited hoping this is what it was! ❤️
Congrats!!! Also, there is definitely something so comforting about vlogmas. Nothing really felt holiday-ish for me last year but vlogmas really helped spark the spirit!
I am so excited for you guys! Praying for a smooth pregnancy and delivery. I feel like you're my real life friends I'm just that happy. We were pregnant together last time and our girls are just 2 months apart so I love your family content since I can relate so much. Congratulations!
Congratulations, guys! We were only blesses with one child but I've dealt with depression over 30 years so I have a bit of experience.
I would say definitely think about starting meds near, or just after, your due date. Give yourself every chance to really enjoy those first few weeks.
So happy for you guys!
First congratulations 💕🎊🎉🎉 This is so exciting. Also the age gap is perfect, as a mom who has a 1 yr old and a 5 yr old it’s great. You can definitely have Gigi “help” with baby. So fun 🤗
I’m so happy for you & Tyler. I had a feeling you were when you were moving furniture. I’d love more videos about your pregnancy. I just love your family. I think you & Tyler are just sweet people. Glad you got a new doctor. I would take the antidepressant ahead of time. Nothing wrong in getting ahead of things. God bless you all.
This is so encouraging to hear, I’m in the season of waiting! All in God’s timing. CONGRATULATIONS!!!💕
As soon as I saw you two on camera together I knew what was going on!!! I am over the moon for y'all. You're such amazing parents and i can't wait for Gigi to have a little sib. Many many congratulations and I can't wait for more updates! ❤️🤗🥳
So excited for you! I have incompetent cervix and had to get a cerclage for both pregnancies. These progesterone shots are so thick and painful. Usually with high risk pregnancies they do a weekly ultrasound, so maybe going forward they'll do that! Best wishes for a safe, healthy pregnancy and baby! Congratulations!!!
Y'all don't even get me started on the strong feelings. 😭 It's like I literally knew and was just waiting for you to say something. 😆
Congratulations! ❤ Wishing you all the happiness there is!
Same! Almost every video over the last month, I’ve thought, “I think she’s pregnant.” So happy for them!
Hahaha same!!!!! I just thought it was wishful thinking bc I knew they were trying!!!😂🥲
Same, but I didn't want to ask, because that can be really hurtful and it's rude, imho. She had the pregnancy glow and that gave it away, to me!
@@prittyflutterbystar hahaha yes exactly!!
Honestly the comments you’ve been making about being out of breath made me wonder 😂 but of course we never know until you say it yourselves! Congratulations! 💜 I’m so happy for you guys and Gigi will be a great big sister!
Congratulations to you Tyler and Gigi, this is the best news. God is good and his timing is everything.
I’m 9 weeks and I am so out of breathe and eating is annoying cause I keep catching my breathe😂
Congratulations Jessica and Tyler!! Can’t wait to hear more about this journey along the way!!
Yay CONGRATS, I'm beyond happy and excited for y'all! Having 2 kids will definitely change y'alls life both physically and mentally, some days you'll want to pull your hair out and other days you'll be so tired you can't see straight but in the end it's worth it bc kids are the biggest blessing and all the hard work is worthwhile!! I pray that your pregnancy journey goes smoothly with no complications and you have a healthy baby(girl/boy)! Y'all are ganna be wonderful parents to two and Gigi is ganna be an amazing big sis! I can't wait to watch your family grow!!
Oh and also, yes, God’s timing is always perfect. You may never know why it took “so long,” but I can tell you that I have always been able to look back on seasons of waiting in my life and seen how God was preparing my heart and circumstances. Waiting on the Lord has caused and continues to grow my relationship with him. ❤️
Amen sister! 🙌
He’s doing the same with me in the waiting. I just read recently that the delay is a great opportunity to partner with God in building up my faith; though it can be discouraging, the delay is actually important in strengthening our relationship with God and growing into even stronger Hope/Faith warriors. 💪
Thank you for sharing your comment. I love it and it’s such a confirmation for me! 💖