Am A High Paid Accountant But Racist MIL Said Am Not Classy For Their "Royal Family" But They Can't
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The narrator is a 33-year-old mixed-race woman married to Jacob, who comes from a family with minor royal ancestry in England. They live together with their two young daughters in the family's large ancestral home that was converted into a hotel.
Jacob's family, including his titled father Edward, materialistic mother Marion, and spoiled sister Arabelle, have never accepted the narrator due to her race and lower social class. They treat her and her daughters as second-class citizens, expecting them to use the servants' entrance and excluding them from family events.
The narrator works as an accountant and has been managing the family's finances for free. However, she discovers they are nearly bankrupt from living beyond their means to keep up appearances. When Arabelle gets engaged, the family plans a lavish party and tells the narrator and her daughters they cannot attend
Furious at their racism and exclusion, the narrator crashes the party dressed as a server. She tells all the guests that the family is broke and made her work as they couldn't afford staff. Chaos ensues and the engagement is called off. The family tries to blame the narrator for their money issues.
The narrator provides evidence to the police proving the family's dire finances were their own doing. She meets with Arabelle's ex-fiancé and shows him the truth. Realizing her marriage is doomed due to her husband's prejudice, the narrator makes plans to divorce him and move out with her daughters.
The narrator cuts off the family financially. Their ancestral home is sold off to pay debts. The narrator finds happiness with her daughters in a new home, while her racist ex-husband fights her in the divorce. The narrator begins a potential new relationship with Arabelle's former fiancé, feeling optimistic about her future.
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Your marriage is already over. He is allowing his family to treat you and his own children like dirt. Expose them.
I'm British and the mother in law sounds like Hyacinth Bucket from keeping up appearances
No lies there lol 😂
At least Hyacint doesn't seem to be racist ..only entitled ...being 'the lady of the house'
Naw, she's toxic as opposed to Hyacinth that's just simple-minded
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LOL! I love that show
She should have left that husband. Having his wife and kids leave through the back door is a red flag.
I almost there
Here
That my friend is a parade of red flags.
Under English law your daughters will inherit any title and property. That is if it is a genuine title and not just bought with the property.
Truth!
Actually NOT true. Neither William nor Harry's daughters or other female descendants can inherit their dukedoms, in accordance with letters patent issued by Elizabeth II. For a female monarch, that was a surprisingly misogynist move 🤷🏻♀️
The FIRST time that I was treated as "less than" i would have been out of there.
A lot of people don't understand that being an aristocrat and royalty are two different things. In England, an aristocrat is not royalty. There are royal dukes like Prince William, Duke of Cambridge and Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex. Most of the dukes, viscounts, barons are aristocrats or nobility. Even if they have royal blood from generations back, they are not royalty. In Denmark and Germany, barons are a dime a dozen. They are not royal but are considered nobility or aristocracy. Most of them are poor and work everyday like the rest of us.
She should have left a long time ago…..especially after their treatment of her children. Don’t expose them, at least not directly as it will damage your reputation to be a trustworthy accountant. She should have “let it slip” to their wealthy friends so they could see how right you were about their situation and possibly get some clientele out of it..
As soon as she told you and your daughters to use the back door because you was a family that right there was the big red stop sign to tell you to go up to your room pack you in your children's things and get out of there and go get your own place.
And actually when you told your husband you wanted to move and he kept telling you his mother and father said y'all had to stay that wasn't number one red sign for real to move out
Girl no one deserves treatment like that. The husband is a jerk as well.
Royalty and nobility are two different things and titles don't mean money if his father is a Baron that is a title of nobility not royalty and usually a title attached to Land
I'm British born and you're spot on
It also doesn’t mean money either as these titles get passed down and money tends to be eaten up with keeping old homes
Baron is also the lowest rank
Why would you stay in a toxic environment like that especially innocent children, and the husband is weak and a coward, shame on him....
To some people race, and sometimes class, or money, are everything. Well, let them continue to be broke jokes on their own, and die the losers that they are.
I would've gone below the belt with that so-called "Royal Family" by saying they must be a newer version of the Habsburg Dynasty with the way they're acting.
I don't care if it is fake or not, it's a good story.
My first MIL was the most opinionated lady I have ever met. She had the opinion that I was of a lower class because my parents had jobs that 'weren't as good as theirs' meaning here's and FIL's. She always put on airs and once at a fourth of July picnic was talking about me with her relatives who came to our house after a parade. She was talking in Polish, but, she didn't realize that a friend of mine was there who also was fluent in Polish. She was kind of protective of me because my mom had died a few months earlier. She basically told the MIL that if she said anything like that again she was going to stomp a mud puddle in her then pound it dry! MIL hurriedly left soon after.
@fredcotterell645, been there also. My family owned property, just not as much as my husband's family. They never thought that I was good enough for them. His mother loved making snide remarks about me. There was a time that I didn't go to her home for over several years. My husband asked me why I'd stopped visiting them wherever he would go. I flat out told him that I never go to places that I'm not welcomed. When she passed, I did support him out of respect.
That a damned good friend.
I actually stayed in a castle that the family turned into an Air bed & breakfast in Ireland. They did it for the $$$. Just because you have a title doesn’t mean you have 💰
And they KNOW it. That is why this story is fake. The attitude is real, the suicidal insanity was bred out after great great great great grandfather wasted a million pounds at the ponies. TRUE story; the legitimate king of England is an Australian. An ancestor of his wasted a FORTUNE on the ponies and his family eventually emigrated.
Never bite the hand that feeds you. Your stories seem to have that phrase on going
...or the one who does your books and knows your finances.
That person who made the second comment seems to have a very strange and limited view of reality
They know what they are talking about because the story is fake
This story was worse than a Hallmark movie. I don't mind fiction, just be honest about it.
I actually believe the story as I work in finance in a country that is technically still a "British colony". My ex boss was a receiver for an estate of a family with aristocratic ties. Many of these families are notorious for having NO idea how to manage money in the modern world. This particular estate included a lordship title and as the receivers, every year someone on staff had to "hold" the title of "Lord X" in order to be a signatory for the estate's affairs. For anyone not familiar, lordships often include property issued to a "lord" by the "crown" so it can get complicated but yeah, old money families needing new money or old money that still has money in order to avoid the fate of this particular estate is nothing new.
I would "anonymously" warn the vendors that they may not get paid if they work at this party.
Same!
Glad op got her revenge on that racist family and never bite off more than you can chew.
For people who live in Europe, it is not that uncommon to mingle with aristocracy. And OP was well off to begin with so I honestly don't question too much that part of the story. You know people from aristocratic families do exist in real life, not only in fiction 😅
And a lot of them are not rich!
The title itself doesn't 'make' you rich
@@robertx8020 Exactly. Why else would so many old houses be commercial enterprises. Because it's the only way they can actally keep their ancestral home.
if i hear this story i think it is about Emma Thynn. her inlaws did not attent her wedding because she was black. There is a lot of racisme in the royal family.
@@paulinadeboer3604 Checked Google and yes, you could be right
My house is my castle and I am the King 😂
Bury this “royal”family completely
If she knew that he was racist why???
The OP's racist ex-husband and his racist family are all the AHs, and the Op should have put those AHs on blast the first time the Just No MIL started her crap.
To all the troll out there bagging on the OP: every single one of you is TA!
To put up with the disrespectful behavior for so long you need therapy badly
I thought her father was going to tell op that if she want good " her nose have to run."
I don't really think the reason OPs in laws dislike her is relevant. Colour or Commoner? Either way I don't get why she has stuck it out for 12 years?
I'd contact the party vendors and advise them they should ask for 50% upfront.
I would just like to point out they said a royal family not the royal family.
The person who made the first comment seems as if he is a close family member of that racist family.
Go to your parents house for the weekend and never go back, your husband has no balls to stand up to his family 🤦♂️
Girl so proud of you and your going to be okay
Why are you accepting this disrespect? You are the accountant, the accountant, that's not your job to expose them.
I believe this story. Look at how the royal family treated Meghan. I also know how wickedly expensive it is to keep up those huge estates.
I'm always amazed when I hear the OP (any OP from any post) say any of these comments
"I was forced,"
"I have no choice."
Or giving into the absurd demands from whomever
This particular story is fake, but what you describe is real. And too many put up with too much, and then put up with more. Until any outsider would be stunned to hear about it. Then they put up with it out of shame of telling people that they have been putting up with so much for long...
A very smart friend of mine, when I told him of a similar situation told me “build bleachers and sell tickets and popcorn”.
She didn't care to act on the ways her inlaws treated her, until they tried to get other women to replace her. I have no sympathy. I'm only on the 2nd update
Stop doing their books AND get a divorce.
I'm a distance relative of King rollo doesn't make me a viking princess. Buy your own home then give your husband a choice. It will tell you where his true heart lies.
Keep your mouth shut and let their own shame take them down. However, you should leave them.
True or not I know people like this that aren’t even “royalty”
I'm not racist but.......
My daughter came out awhile ago so I often get
"Don't get me wrong, I'm not homophobic or anything. Like, I totally support & accept .... THAT.... Kind of lifestyle. But ......"
I'm aware there r huge differences between situations since sexual orientation isn't something that can be ascertained at just a glance. I posted this cuz commenter #2 made me realize the similarities to conversations people start with me at times. I just couldn't help but laugh when I realized just how many times people have used that preface to conversations they've started.
It's almost like they feel it's a disclaimer or a way to exonerate themselves if what they say next is inappropriate or offensive. It's kinda funny in a darkly ironic sense.
Well stated. I am Native American, my late husband was white, so our kids are biracial. When anyone says, "I'm not racist" in front of me, I know immediately that they are. Usually, I can just let it go, but in reality, it hurts.
It kinda depends cause I am not homophobic being I am pansexual. I am not transphobic and am attracted to many trans men and women and have trans friends and 2 friend with trans children....but.....me and even my trans friends and parents of the 2 trans kids don't believe on children getting surgeries. Does my but then change anything in this context? Would the but make a difference if any of my trans mates or the parents of the trans kids say the same? We all agree in social transition just not surgical on children. The but does not always mean the person is about to be cruel or uncover a disgusting view. Unfortunately the "but" most of the time does mean a racist or homophonic or sexist comment will actually be made. But......the but is sometimes just a word to give a view of genuine concern and a belief in something that isn't cruel. I am a pierced woman but....I do not agree on kuds being pierced as babies/ toddlers and say this to friends who did do it to theirs cause it is my opinion you should never treat a child as a fashion statement. This in in the western world of course as i cannot speak gor tribal cultures and their ways though i do not agree with female circumcision as that is deeply cruel, sexist and dont with no good intent in any culture. Any mutalation of gentalia is wrong. I have a boy and do not agree in non surgically needed circumcision. I have had a partner with a botched one done and also he doesn't agree with them being done. The whole it's cleaner thing has been proven as myth. I know it can be needed as Mason almost needed one, glad he didn't as he is autistic and it would of been traumatic. He already traumatised by other things needed doing. I am autistic but.....I do not agree on people using it as an excuse for everything. It is an explanation but not an excuse for no efforts being made to try still help children learn....I have unfortunately met parents who see it as pointless letting their kids try anything or do anything cause they will never be able to anyway. My son isn't likely to succeed in college setting but will I let him try, hell yes cause he wants to and I am just proud of him trying. Have I bought things that were pointless and I knew would not continue, yes but I would rather try than never bother. Same with my daughter and her karate. Will it stick, who knows. I will still pay what I do even if next week she wants yo stop and try something else. I want my children to find themselves and be themselves. Not force my likes on them and use sunken cost fallacy as excuse or special needs as an excuse not yo try or yo make them continue if they like interest. So no not all buts are leading to bigotry. I agree most do though and that is sad. Also people can have their opinions like I can have mine. If theirs is crappy then up there's and they can just go away with that crap and I will tell them they suck and why and walk away. Secism has lead to my late diagnosis, gaslighting from mental health service and being messed up on pills I never should been on when at 8 mum mention autism and was told she justva girl and a troubled one. My daughter facing sexism cause girls mask mire and better usually and are less likely non verbal like lots of boys. So fighting it still atm and had a Dr try say oh yeah but that's just being a girl about my daughter. I pointed out reverse the roles and you see it as a sign in a boy. But people suck. In all walks of life, proffessions etc etc. That is unfortunately the world
@@skeletonfreak.86 while I do agree with many things u said, I would like to point out 1 glaring misunderstanding u have about trans & kids.
Absolutely NO SURGERIES r performed on "children". Until children r adults & legally allowed to sign medical forms themselves, NO SURGERIES r performed.
Surgeries on children r not just unwise, they could also be dangerous, even to the point of life threatening since their body is still developing.
The MOST outside influence on a child doctors can legally provide r puberty blockers. Not only does this prevent a child from going through puberty without causing ANY effect on brain development, it's also COMPLETELY REVERSIBLE by just quitting taking it. There r MANY steps taken B4 puberty blockers r even considered. This includes psychiatric evaluations & counseling. Puberty blockers r not just something prescribed on a whim.
As for male circumcision, my views & medical experiences r opposite yrs too. My Dad & his 4 brothers, along with my brother in law & nephew weren't. My Dad's generation were born at home on the farm, so male circumcision wasn't something widely performed then. My Dad & 3 of his brothers experienced medical issues & eventually found circumcision to be the remedy to prevent further issues. Same with my brother in law, but after my nephew's birth. Since my nephew would've remembered at his age, they r waiting to see if he has issues. Only then would they consider it. I chose to circumcise my son to prevent him going through the same problems & have no regrets. I had it done right at birth to prevent it from being a traumatic memory. My belief is that male circumcision is a medical benefit & would encourage anyone considering getting it done when their son is born. I just don't try to impose my opinion on anyone though. I find that out of line.
Piercing children's ears is another thing that I understand being done as babies to prevent the memory.
My daughter pulled at her ears when she cried, so I waited til she wanted it when she older & made the decision herself. Otherwise I'd have done it b4 she would remember the pain. Ear piercing is a very common thing in my society. Ear piercing doesn't cause medical issues or prevent any physical function, I see no harm in it.
As to vaginal mutilation, there is NO medical reason for this; only a social one which is solely for the future husband's benefit. Since there is no actual medical reason, I find any defense of it abhorrent & sexist. My understanding is that it's done to remove any enjoyment of sex, therefore preventing a wife from "straying". Patriarchal dominance & self-serving male "benefit" is the deplorable excuse I've heard for this occuring.
Male circumcision MIGHT minimally reduce sensations, but female mutilation takes away all.
Those r my differing thoughts on those matters. Any others mentioned, I either agree, or don't remember at the moment.
Difference of opinions is just another thing making us all unique. As long as we respect others & don't force our views onto them, our united differences & strengths can make society a better place for all.
Cheers
Seeing that the in-laws are racists Op should keep quiet and let them spend themselves into bankruptcy. Then divorce Mommy's boy when he suggest they bail mommy and daddy out of financial mess the In-laws fail to listen to their daughter in-law. KARMA hit them in their arrogant behinds.
Love a husband that does not support you. Working for free for a family that doesn't like you.
OP, you and your children need out of that toxic situation. An make sure when you divorce you go after him and the family with everything you can. They are racist scum and they do not deserve a bit of sympathy from you. Don't keep their secrets. Although I don't think I would go ruining there party, just because you already know they can't afford it. Unless you want to make sure as soon as it it over the venders all know that they are dealing with people who might try to stiff them. Let the venders sue them for payments.
Raise your girls to know their worth? Then fluffing get them child support! No matter how awful…he needs to take parental responsibility. Child support is for the child. Swallow your emotions…it’s for their worth!
Get those little girls out of there!!!
Good riddence of the racists and rude ex family! Glad they got their upcommence !
If your husband is not speaking up against this behavior then you do NOT have a good relationship.
Just how many people with titles have had to convert their homes into hotels or apartments just to be able to pay the bills and taxes?
Ladies always know your worth and know when to walk away.
I am also related to royalty, so I understand where you are coming from. If the family is really wealthy, then they would know King Charles III, his grand-children, and everyone else in the royal family. I am related to the royal family in real life, but I have never been to Great Britain, but I would like to go there someday.
Family deserves to be treated equally including pay checks and bonuses no matter what their background. The family reeks of racism and mis-treatment, but I'm glad that you and your daughters got out of there before things got worse. Get DNA tests on your daughters and yourself, as well as your ex-husband to prove who the father of your girls is. The DNA test will also reveal if the family is really 'royal' or not. Go to court and make the divorce legal and show the proof of evidence that you have. Good luck and keep us updated if you can.
I would have let them sink their own ship. Then there's no way they could blame it on me, especially if I had paperwork to back up that I tried to warn them. Let them dig their own graves.
Divorce him he is good for nothing
Nowadays there's quite a lot of people of titled nobility in the UK, that can barely rub 2£ together.
Did the father make HIS wife use the back door? After all she also married into the family
Im British and I can tell you that even royalty doesn't live in castles 😂😅
The first question is if you want to remain in this family and allow the treatment of your daughter's and you.
Make sure there is solid proof that you tried to tell them there financial situation and than go visit parents and let thing fall where they fall. They are adults.
Never sell your heart for money. Most rich people have so much money covering their soul that the heart can no longer see light.
Baron is not that close to Royalty, it's the very bottom rung of the British aristocracy. Plus having a title doesn't mean you are related to the RF. Many titles were given for services to the crown/nation. Such as Horatio Nelson, who was a commoner before distinguishing himself in battle. He became 1st Viscount Nelson, 1st Duke of Bronte KB. He wasn't related to the Royal family at all.
Megan? Harry? Is that you?
I wouldn't do their accounts especially for free
the commenter who claimed the story was fake obviously has never heard of royals who are land rich and money poor.
one of my older sisters is married to a man who has an aristocratic title but no money or land that goes with the title
They can sell the hotel then clean them out.
I hate racism. He knew what she was before he married her. And why would they do this stuff to their grandchildren. I'm glad OP took the high road and got her kids out of there.
Marry your own kind. Less problems. So happy I did!
1 - Even if the story is fake, it's an awesome piece of fiction and better than much of the shows on TV today.
2 - The Royal line is extensive. We know of the top 10 or 15 members, but there are links to the Royal family in countries around the world, even here in Australia, and once you've passed the "20th+ in line for the throne" those Royal links are as statistically common folk like the rest of us peasants, even if they like to think otherwise.
3 - There needs to be at least one more update eventually. I'm hanging out for Ben to propose to O.P!!!
I Love this story! ❤ I'm so glad everything worked out for you!!❤
So leave and sue for the abuse.
You think all those so-called royalty have money? What you must remember is that her father is financially stable and maybe can bail them out.😂😂
Then you move.
Btw for people saying it's fake, you do realise royal families used to be hugeeee. And with time alot started to branch out and abusing money and ended up being with some family wealth but not alot.
Story 1, the people that are responding that they're part of the royal family so they should have money 😂
Do a little more research ✌️
Seriously. Broke aristocrats are a common trope in fiction for a reason, and all but the closest relatives of King Charles III got their allowances cut by Parliament YEARS ago. Keeping up appearances is expensive.
most "Actors" across the globes are broke, except the top one whos still getting the fresh checks, appearances is surely expensive.
You will never have to put up with that soon as they start you block her from her and you stop your husband or your children unless they bad to the children.
I actually agree with the first top comment and the second top comment sounds like a dumbass because here's the thing he doesn't get that there's been a great amount of documented history showing that people who are actual royals have been known to Mary middle class or lower class people throughout the years in our history and it's the thing that even still happens today and not only that I don't think this guy read the story correctly wear it's literally stated by the original poster that her in-laws come from a family of royalty because of a hotel they build a long time ago but no longer are a big deal as royalty as they used to be back in the day and I also do get yes some people can just be 12 year olds making up the story but there's no way of twelve-year-olds to make up a story this will detailed
Let them fall on their faces 😡😡
I'm titled, actually. Mom's side of the family is related to the British Monarchy, I'm first cousins, 12X removed, with Queen Elizabeth the II. 13X with King Charles! All the major Queens are related. I was pretty tormented as a kid, until my dad told me who, and what I was. You just don't tell a grade schooler that, might as well have told me that I was Sleeping Beauty😂 Dad was forced to tell me, that he lied to me - someone known to never lie. It's because it hurt my half-sister's feelings. I think of her as my sister, until her jealous, green-eyed monster rears it's head. Then, I always lost, or got a beating!
But this time, I refused to accept his fake apology, that I knew he told the truth.
Titles mean nothing, in America, anywhere - unless you actually run Charities, help those in need, out!
Ergo, I rarely mention it, unless to prove a point. BTW, of course I wasn't invited to King Charles' Coronation, 😅 I just don't rank high enough on mom's side, unless I use my title.
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Send them a bill for all the accounting services.
Wow the woman commenting first after update 5 sounds like a racist.
I see no color and I raised my kids the same way. In 1986 we took in a white mom and her biracial baby and from that day she and her mom has been family. She was not allowed in her grandparents house because of her color. She is still my niece to this day and invited to all family events.
I also have other family member who we love and except for who they are.
Let them go to hell in their own handbasket.
I would have said nothing at the party. Just let nature take its course. I would have walked out the back door with my girls and filed for divorce.
Good Luck to all!!
Get a divorce
It's an inherited Barony. They didn't earn it a family member did long ago. It doesn't need a blood tie, and doesn't come with a stipend as a rule. Not this far out anyway.
Ugh makes me think British people are willfully blind to the racism in the monarchy as this is not the first time we have heard of these slights on the pretense of class or tradition...
This is either true, or a 12 yo boy wrote it in his mom's basement, no in between
I wonder if it would be possible to look up this story to find out what family this was. I'm sure you could look up a wealthy british family with ties to royalty that was forced to sell a generational home, it probably made the news somewhere.
Bring Them DOWN hard.
You work for them for free and you expect them to respect you. You're just part of this staff. Worse at least staff gets minimum wage
You have no marriage. Move out, see a lawyer, divorce the creep, warn the vendors, and let him and his family sink or swim. Your children are your top priority.
These "important" people always act like they are invincible, but if you live with them, they are easy to take down. A camra and a conversation with a reporter would fix them every time.
If he changes then leave him.
This sounds like the b list version of Harry and Megan 🤦🏽♀️
Do you realize that we (Americans) fought a war to get away from those people?? And that attitude??🙄
As a Black American living in Virginia, I see another version of this 💩 even in 2023🙄.....get out😒....😢
Glad she did well, glad he didn’t. I also am related to the crown, fun to say as party’s but thats about it. Also I’m American so it doesn’t count Lolol!
Yet again,TRUE ROYALTY AND REAL LANDED GENTRY DO. NOT. BEHAVE. LIKE. THAT. How do I know? I worked for the gentleman(TRUE gentleman) who was in charge of Princess Diana's wedding, and he and his fabulous wife were the most down to earth people...EVER. The IL's aren't just snobs, they are examples of why "aristocracy" is looked down on. PERIOD! SHEESH! 'Nuff said.
Actually if you went far back enough you would find aristocratic links in most people's family trees (maybe not royalty and maybe some would be from the wrong side of the blanket).
Having lived in the UK for some time this attitude is still very prevalent even among the people with the smallest/thinnest links to royalty. Remember someone could be made a Baron just by doing a favour or fighting for the Crown - it's one of the lower branches in the hierarchy.