👍👍👍❤Doctor... നിങ്ങൾ പറയുന്നത് എല്ലാം ശരിയാണ്... ✌️ശരീരത്തിൽ സംഭവിക്കുന്നത് പോലെയല്ല മനസിന് പ്രശ്നം വരുമ്പോൾ., അതിന്റെ എല്ലാ അവസ്ഥയിലൂടെയും കടന്നു പോകണം അവസാനം അവിടെ കാണാം ഒരു സമാധാനം.... സങ്കീർണമായ ഒരു കടലാണ് മനുഷ്യമനസ്സ്...
Yes doctor.. You said it right...If Victims in these relationships gain strength and techniques to deal with these poeple.... We can avoid family destructions for sake of children... Because victims who are able to survive happily even with a narcistic member, who cannot be avoided for some reasons,gain happiness by involving in their passions, and giving less attention to these peoples emotional manipulations.These narcistic people will then understand that victims are no longer going remain the same and try to stay good with them because thy want the victims around them.. Now children come to know about these disorders but a lot of people who had now reached 40's had suffered a lot without knowing about these peoples manipulations..(from gained experince after 40s😊.. Thank God and my children.. Now happy and mentally strong)
I had experienced once , luckily, i move out of that relationship somehow. I am still carrying the trauma. However, it helped me to quickly notice narcissistic traits and set my boundaries immediately. Narcissistic people are not that uncommon around us. I feel like people who got a lot of unwated attention during their childhood could turn into a narcissist. They have extreme superiority complex. For example, those who were born in wealthy families, those who were very pretty and got so much of attention and privileges, a child who is overly pampered by parents, etc. These are the things I have noticed. There are so many awareness videos available nowadays. Even in malayalam. Those who suffer in their relationship, please listen to these videos and get help as soon as possible. Knowledge will fres you up. You will understand what is what. Why are you feeling this way. Why people treat you this way. What to do next. It gives you the power. You will certainly feel better knowing what is happening and why and what can be done.Abusers never change. So let's stand up for ourselves . ❤
You are right. Most of the narcissists I know were treated too special or over validated at some point in their lives. It can be a child who is very good in studies, a celebrity, a person with some power/influence who got treated too special by those around them, etc. The degree varies, some are mildly narcissistic while some develop full blown NPD. I hv noticed those with NPD criticize & talk bad about others excessively. They also talk a lot about themselves- either sob stories or tales of glory, both designed to get attention. Sob stories can be to manipulate also when required. They are hypersensitive while having no empathy for others. They are extremely jealous & selfish, and lie a lot.
ഈ പേഴ്സണാലിറ്റി ഉള്ള വ്യക്തി യേ ഒരു dr ആയ എലിസമ്പത് ന് പോലും നന്നാക്കി എടുക്കാൻ പറ്റിയില്ല 🙄പിന്നെ പാവപെട്ട പെൺകുട്ടികൾ ഇതുപോലെ ഉള്ള ആണുങ്ങളിൽ പെട്ട് പോയാൽ ഉള്ള അവസ്ഥ എത്ര ഭീകരമായിരിക്കും 😢😢
Dr Elisabeth ❤️thangal pandathethinekal smart aayi. Nannayi samasarikkunnu. Ipo nalla clarity und. Athinte pinnilum narcissistic nte victimisation under go cheyithath aanennu thonnunnu. Enik munne manasilayathanu. Anyway all the best achive your dreams❤
നല്ല ഓമനയായ സുഹൃത്താണല്ലോ കൂടെയുള്ളത്. ഇവന്റെ നിറത്തിൽ 25 കൊല്ലങ്ങൾക്ക് മുൻപ് നാടനും അൾസേഷ്യനും മിക്സ് ഇനത്തിൽ ഒരു പൊന്നോമനയായ ആൺനായ ഞങ്ങൾക്കും ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു. അവന്റെ കഴിവിലും ബുദ്ധിയിലും പറമ്പിലൊന്നും കയറാൻ സാധിക്കാതിരുന്ന ഏതോ ഒരു കാപാലികൻ ഇരുട്ടുവീണ സമയത്ത് കൂടിന് പുറത്തുവിട്ടനേരം എന്തോ വിഷം കൊടുത്തു. തിരിച്ചു വീട്ടിൽവന്നു കാട്ടിയ പരവേശവും ഞങ്ങളോട് പറഞ്ഞ ആവലാതിയും ഇന്നും ഓർമ്മയിൽ ദുരന്തമായ വേദനയുടെ ഉണങ്ങാത്ത മുറിപ്പാടാണ്. എന്നോട് പറഞ്ഞറിയിക്കാനാവത്ത അറ്റാച്ച്മെന്റുണ്ടായിരുന്ന അവനെ കാലമിത്രകഴിഞ്ഞിട്ടും വേദനയോടെ ഓർക്കാത്ത ദിനങ്ങളില്ല.
Am a victim.. 41 now, recently i came to know he is narcissist. But undergone lots of problems. Two times attempt suicide, depression.. Since i lost my parents early and for my son i adjusted. This is very critical for victim he always says am big zero, useless. .
@@drelizabethudayan very true.. But staying there is more dangerous... Better love yourself... Accept what happened and dont think that it's ur fault... Its not your fault...ignore them and get out of the stressful and meaningless life
@@drelizabethudayandrinking kal of any kind can affect the brain function, if people use similar other stuff also, it can affect how the brain functions, another important thing is it is only the God of the Holy Bible who can restrain evil, if people don't pray, worship God then the outcome is very much predictable, in the US reading the Holy Bible was outlawed in the 60s, after that the collapse of the nation started, you can take any figures, divorces, single mother, family problems, lawlessness etc.
@@motherhood1646 thank u. I feel i lost every thing and was an emotional fool. When the truth hit hard I escaped, u can say he discarded me for his new supply. Avashyam kazhinjal avar nammale kariveppila pole valicheriyum. Ini onnum kittanilla, waste aayi enn kanumbol. Anyways Iam alive thats the only blessing i hav got. Feel like going mad and on treatment for yrs. No one shud suffer. Now these people are at rise, so if anyone doubts they are in toxic npd relationship run asap. They won't change and u will go mad.
Good Doctor Elizabeth. Giving warning for so many people. Thank you for your good heart ❤ wishig all good for your life. Find happiness within you. Be strong lady... you are so good...
I don’t know how you tolerated Bala. I use to wonder How could you even accept this guy is wt I’m surprised about. Cuz honestly he has some sort of personality issue or mental health issue. Good u escaped . I pray u have a bright future ahead. God bless
ചോര ഊററിക്കുടിച്ച് life partnerയേയും മക്കളേയും ഒന്നിനുംകൊളളാത്തവരാക്കി മാറ്റുന്ന യക്ഷികൾ ഇവരുടെ അടുത്ത് വളരെവലിയ strong personality ആകുക.നമമുടേതായ ഒരു boundary set ചെയ്യുക.
Patryarchiyude kuzhappam Anu .mikkavarum 70%of indian men are narcissists.best responce to them is simply avoid them.distant yourself from a narcissist.if you have to stay avoid confrontation and give a silent treatment(from personal experiences doc)
Ath narcissistic traits undavum enne ullu. Narcissistic traitsum narcissistic personality disorder um onnalla.NPD narcissistic personality disorder verum traits alla, avaru maaroola. Cuz they think they are perfect . Ningalu paranjappole verthe just avoid cheythal um theeroola. Chela nod pinnale vannu nasippikkum. Npd pala types und.
Have felt the same about the connection between patriarchy and narcissism and/ or NPD among men. The same applies to women from the times where matriarchy was around. A lot of their male kids have nicely fit into the patriarchal form of society as narcissists. It's been a vicious cycle for a long time. Ini engilum ninna mathiyaarnnu.
Adaane NPD ulla akarde oru postive. Avark alkare agashikyan pattum through their money, personality, looks, charm,talking style etc. Chela penungal (most) usually ee melil paranye karyangal aanu mainly nokune than caring,respect, gentleman traits of a man which is a fact. Angane peningal pett povum.. Adyan arkayalum mistake varum. Pine aane mansilavunne idonum alla oralil ninnu namnal expect cheyunne enn
@@shwethamenon2664 yes pinne totally avarude custody il pettu ennu thonnumbol ,like a marriage nammal society ye pedichu divorce edukkathilla ,kids unddel avarkku father illaathe pogum ennu pedichu ivaril ninnu rakshapedathilla ennu sure aagumbol, real face purathu varum
@@sanus7071 enganthe alkar ullond kure pavangal de jeevitham ann nashikyune. Apol nammal cheyende inganthe alkarde traits adyame mansilakua, confront and then ignore them
In comment section lot of people say Bala is narscisst and has disorder ,both are not true .. he is normal person ,don't judge on him without any scientific evidence ,as a actor there very very low chance that he is a psychopathy personality
I feel you talk about bala.
Yes...
Yes
Yes correct 💯
Mattullavarude veettukaryam kelkkan bayankara thalparyamanalle setta or sechi
Entha sechi ku angu sangadayo balaannaye alukal thiricharinjapol?@@DR_AKP
👍👍👍❤Doctor... നിങ്ങൾ പറയുന്നത് എല്ലാം ശരിയാണ്... ✌️ശരീരത്തിൽ സംഭവിക്കുന്നത് പോലെയല്ല മനസിന് പ്രശ്നം വരുമ്പോൾ., അതിന്റെ എല്ലാ അവസ്ഥയിലൂടെയും കടന്നു പോകണം അവസാനം അവിടെ കാണാം ഒരു സമാധാനം.... സങ്കീർണമായ ഒരു കടലാണ് മനുഷ്യമനസ്സ്...
Yes doctor.. You said it right...If Victims in these relationships gain strength and techniques to deal with these poeple.... We can avoid family destructions for sake of children... Because victims who are able to survive happily even with a narcistic member, who cannot be avoided for some reasons,gain happiness by involving in their passions, and giving less attention to these peoples emotional manipulations.These narcistic people will then understand that victims are no longer going remain the same and try to stay good with them because thy want the victims around them.. Now children come to know about these disorders but a lot of people who had now reached 40's had suffered a lot without knowing about these peoples manipulations..(from gained experince after 40s😊.. Thank God and my children.. Now happy and mentally strong)
I had experienced once , luckily, i move out of that relationship somehow. I am still carrying the trauma. However, it helped me to quickly notice narcissistic traits and set my boundaries immediately. Narcissistic people are not that uncommon around us. I feel like people who got a lot of unwated attention during their childhood could turn into a narcissist. They have extreme superiority complex. For example, those who were born in wealthy families, those who were very pretty and got so much of attention and privileges, a child who is overly pampered by parents, etc. These are the things I have noticed.
There are so many awareness videos available nowadays. Even in malayalam. Those who suffer in their relationship, please listen to these videos and get help as soon as possible. Knowledge will fres you up. You will understand what is what. Why are you feeling this way. Why people treat you this way. What to do next. It gives you the power. You will certainly feel better knowing what is happening and why and what can be done.Abusers never change. So let's stand up for ourselves . ❤
A neglected child also turn into a narcisst not only the overly pampered one
@sonys6625 Right also, a person who has been a victim of narcissistic abuse can develop certain traits or behaviors that resemble narcissism
You are right. Most of the narcissists I know were treated too special or over validated at some point in their lives. It can be a child who is very good in studies, a celebrity, a person with some power/influence who got treated too special by those around them, etc. The degree varies, some are mildly narcissistic while some develop full blown NPD. I hv noticed those with NPD criticize & talk bad about others excessively. They also talk a lot about themselves- either sob stories or tales of glory, both designed to get attention. Sob stories can be to manipulate also when required. They are hypersensitive while having no empathy for others. They are extremely jealous & selfish, and lie a lot.
ഈ പേഴ്സണാലിറ്റി ഉള്ള വ്യക്തി യേ ഒരു dr ആയ എലിസമ്പത് ന് പോലും നന്നാക്കി എടുക്കാൻ പറ്റിയില്ല 🙄പിന്നെ പാവപെട്ട പെൺകുട്ടികൾ ഇതുപോലെ ഉള്ള ആണുങ്ങളിൽ പെട്ട് പോയാൽ ഉള്ള അവസ്ഥ എത്ര ഭീകരമായിരിക്കും 😢😢
@@bindhur2333 ivare daivam thampuranu polum nannakkan pattilla. Kalanu polum vendatha janthukkal aan narcs
Dr Elisabeth ❤️thangal pandathethinekal smart aayi. Nannayi samasarikkunnu. Ipo nalla clarity und. Athinte pinnilum narcissistic nte victimisation under go cheyithath aanennu thonnunnu. Enik munne manasilayathanu. Anyway all the best achive your dreams❤
Happy to see our people are getting awareness about narcs
Glad to know that u came out of it
Good video Elizabeth mam☺️. Nammal ariyunna oru tamil Malayalam nadan ithine one of the living examples aayi thonunnu
Aaarane avan
@@jlo7204 Baala
😄😄Sathyam
Dr.Elizabeth nte ee awareness video kanditt engilum aa celebrity actor kk oru self realisation indavatte bhagawane🙏🏼
@@nimamanu5547 nadannathu thanne !!!.Never going to happen.Leave them to their fate...
@@nimamanu5547chirippikaathe
I am sure you know about it
നല്ല ഓമനയായ സുഹൃത്താണല്ലോ കൂടെയുള്ളത്. ഇവന്റെ നിറത്തിൽ 25 കൊല്ലങ്ങൾക്ക് മുൻപ് നാടനും അൾസേഷ്യനും മിക്സ് ഇനത്തിൽ ഒരു പൊന്നോമനയായ ആൺനായ ഞങ്ങൾക്കും ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു. അവന്റെ കഴിവിലും ബുദ്ധിയിലും പറമ്പിലൊന്നും കയറാൻ സാധിക്കാതിരുന്ന ഏതോ ഒരു കാപാലികൻ ഇരുട്ടുവീണ സമയത്ത് കൂടിന് പുറത്തുവിട്ടനേരം എന്തോ വിഷം കൊടുത്തു. തിരിച്ചു വീട്ടിൽവന്നു കാട്ടിയ പരവേശവും ഞങ്ങളോട് പറഞ്ഞ ആവലാതിയും ഇന്നും ഓർമ്മയിൽ ദുരന്തമായ വേദനയുടെ ഉണങ്ങാത്ത മുറിപ്പാടാണ്. എന്നോട് പറഞ്ഞറിയിക്കാനാവത്ത അറ്റാച്ച്മെന്റുണ്ടായിരുന്ന അവനെ കാലമിത്രകഴിഞ്ഞിട്ടും വേദനയോടെ ഓർക്കാത്ത ദിനങ്ങളില്ല.
Am a victim.. 41 now, recently i came to know he is narcissist. But undergone lots of problems. Two times attempt suicide, depression.. Since i lost my parents early and for my son i adjusted. This is very critical for victim he always says am big zero, useless. .
Yes, its very difficult to come out of it. Healing process is also difficult
@@drelizabethudayan very true.. But staying there is more dangerous... Better love yourself... Accept what happened and dont think that it's ur fault... Its not your fault...ignore them and get out of the stressful and meaningless life
@@drelizabethudayandrinking kal of any kind can affect the brain function, if people use similar other stuff also, it can affect how the brain functions, another important thing is it is only the God of the Holy Bible who can restrain evil, if people don't pray, worship God then the outcome is very much predictable, in the US reading the Holy Bible was outlawed in the 60s, after that the collapse of the nation started, you can take any figures, divorces, single mother, family problems, lawlessness etc.
Dr. Susan koruthu in malayalam, dr Ramani for English. I was living with one for 27 yrs. Now out of it with empty handed.
Dr ramani video njan kanditund
Takecare🥰
@@drelizabethudayan thank u ❤u too tc
Congratulations to breakfree you are not empty handed you are someone who walked out from a destructive fire as gold.
@@motherhood1646 thank u. I feel i lost every thing and was an emotional fool. When the truth hit hard I escaped, u can say he discarded me for his new supply. Avashyam kazhinjal avar nammale kariveppila pole valicheriyum. Ini onnum kittanilla, waste aayi enn kanumbol. Anyways Iam alive thats the only blessing i hav got. Feel like going mad and on treatment for yrs. No one shud suffer. Now these people are at rise, so if anyone doubts they are in toxic npd relationship run asap. They won't change and u will go mad.
ബാല ഇങ്ങനെയുള്ള വീഡിയോ കാണുമോ ????
അതിനുള്ള ബുദ്ധി അയാൾക്കില്ല...
Dear doctor hope your doing well
Be strong come out if u stuck.
Good Doctor Elizabeth. Giving warning for so many people. Thank you for your good heart ❤ wishig all good for your life. Find happiness within you. Be strong lady... you are so good...
U r a gem of a person. 😘 such a cute fur baby is sitting patiently ❤
ഡോക്ടർ സത്യത്തിൽ ഒരുപാവം ആണ്..🌹♥️
Bala is a typical Narsist
Best example is Bala 🙄
She is talking about narcissistic personality disorder not about Bala.
I feel for you. Bala is an apt example
I don’t know how you tolerated Bala. I use to wonder How could you even accept this guy is wt I’m surprised about. Cuz honestly he has some sort of personality issue or mental health issue. Good u escaped . I pray u have a bright future ahead. God bless
This is the case of all victims of NPD people. because of their charms thw victims still tolerate until they discard the victims.
👍👍 explained well
You are Very Simple and Humble God Bless you dear ❤❤
ഡോക്ടറെ എനിക്ക് നല്ല ഇഷ്ട്ടമാണ് ❤
ചോര ഊററിക്കുടിച്ച് life partnerയേയും മക്കളേയും ഒന്നിനുംകൊളളാത്തവരാക്കി മാറ്റുന്ന യക്ഷികൾ ഇവരുടെ അടുത്ത് വളരെവലിയ strong personality ആകുക.നമമുടേതായ ഒരു boundary set ചെയ്യുക.
Elizabeth take care jagede prayer support epozhum unde be careful bala cruel man take care 🙏🙏🙏🙏💕
I am a victim... 26 years.... I can understand u Doctor.... It's true... 💯
I am also a victim.
Patryarchiyude kuzhappam Anu .mikkavarum 70%of indian men are narcissists.best responce to them is simply avoid them.distant yourself from a narcissist.if you have to stay avoid confrontation and give a silent treatment(from personal experiences doc)
Ath narcissistic traits undavum enne ullu. Narcissistic traitsum narcissistic personality disorder um onnalla.NPD narcissistic personality disorder verum traits alla, avaru maaroola. Cuz they think they are perfect . Ningalu paranjappole verthe just avoid cheythal um theeroola. Chela nod pinnale vannu nasippikkum. Npd pala types und.
Have felt the same about the connection between patriarchy and narcissism and/ or NPD among men.
The same applies to women from the times where matriarchy was around. A lot of their male kids have nicely fit into the patriarchal form of society as narcissists.
It's been a vicious cycle for a long time. Ini engilum ninna mathiyaarnnu.
A person turns into a narcisst bcoz of wrong parenting
Wrong parenting cause narcissm.parent child relationships with either too much pampering or too much neglect,criticism
Dr. I love you so much❤❤❤
I think Bala is a narcissistic
Ithre oke arivulla Doctor engne correct aayt Bala de aduth chenn pettu?😮
Adaane NPD ulla akarde oru postive. Avark alkare agashikyan pattum through their money, personality, looks, charm,talking style etc. Chela penungal (most) usually ee melil paranye karyangal aanu mainly nokune than caring,respect, gentleman traits of a man which is a fact. Angane peningal pett povum.. Adyan arkayalum mistake varum. Pine aane mansilavunne idonum alla oralil ninnu namnal expect cheyunne enn
@@shwethamenon2664 yes pinne totally avarude custody il pettu ennu thonnumbol ,like a marriage nammal society ye pedichu divorce edukkathilla ,kids unddel avarkku father illaathe pogum ennu pedichu ivaril ninnu rakshapedathilla ennu sure aagumbol, real face purathu varum
ur husband Bala is an example of narcisst
ഇത് ബാലയെ കുറിച്ച് തന്നെ 😂😂😂
Enik angane orale ariyam oru actor aanu.tamil malayalam actor
Aara ?
Bala..അല്ലാതാര്...
Enikkum ithupole annubavam annu
Thank you.. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ayaale study cheyyaanaano doctor ayaale kettiye? 😂😂
100 100 100% true true true ...Dr Elizabeth hats off to you💐. ...i had the same experience....now escaped.
Dr Tommy bedil ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰👍
Docter, Rekshapedan nokke ayaalil ninnum, jeevitham waist aakkanda
She already
Ur opinion is so right
Couldn't believe that you left Bala .
MBBS evideya cheythe
Bala
Ethe balaye thannaya parayunnathe athayalum nalla chathiyil petu
Dr symptoms of mania plus schisopherinia
Ponnu Dr ethynte kedarunu vall DR ketti nalloru life kittillatunno
I am also a victim.. But came out of it👍🏻
Ithu trearment cheythal maarumo
മാറാൻ ബുദ്ധിമുട്ട് ആണ്. മുഴുവനായും ഒരിക്കലും മാറില്ല
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No.. Unless everyone realise and stay away from them before it gets complicated
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Bala😂😂
glad you dodged that ONE particular bullet😅
Hi എലിസബത് ഞാൻ ലൈവ് കേറി but കമന്റ് കിട്ടിയോ അറിയില്ല. എന്റെ live 8pm ആണ് വരോ ❤❤❤🥰♥️♥️😊
I have an experience
.. Luckily escape from him..
Am a victim
Bala
🙄🙄Dr rakshapettu pavam😢😢😢
Bodhi psych services in kerala mainly deals with npd abuse
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Hi elikutty
Poor girl from experience
Athinu entjenkilum mattem varumio
Its need a long term treatment but recovery is still a question mark.almost impossible.
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Ith genetically transfer akumo?
Illa. Idu usually cherudavumbol namade envt nganea adu pole aane ee trait generate avune. Eg. Kastapad arinyu varune sahacharyathil ulla kuttikalk varilla. But parents kastapadd ariyikyade, well off ayye family anel, pinnr avarde kuravukal arikyade pine parents ngane anel adu kandu valaruanel namak varan chance undd as our brain is conditioned to that. Angane kore factors undd. Councelling kondu onum marulla.. Idinu oru marunne ullu nammal arinyu nammal odane avail agatti jeevikyanel.
@@shwethamenon2664 ooh..different factors und alle..Thanks 4repling
@@sanus7071 enganthe alkar ullond kure pavangal de jeevitham ann nashikyune. Apol nammal cheyende inganthe alkarde traits adyame mansilakua, confront and then ignore them
@@shwethamenon2664 ys
Is she a psychiatrist???
I am a victim
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Keep it up
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Apo rakshaletathanalle
Ithippo Bala ye kurichu parayunna polay.
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Njaan oru victim aanu.
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Paavam penn
First viewer
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@drelizabethudayanikk varan povunna karyangle ortt over tention....full negative chinda..43years.ayi.....oru happy illa..one month ayi medicine yedukkunnu....yatra nal yedukkendivarum
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In comment section lot of people say Bala is narscisst and has disorder ,both are not true .. he is normal person ,don't judge on him without any scientific evidence ,as a actor there very very low chance that he is a psychopathy personality
This itself is a big lie
Madam സൈക്കോളജിസ്റ് ആണോ????
പുള്ളിക്കാരി ഡോക്ടർ അല്ലേ, so സൈക്കോളജിക്കൽ issues അവർക്ക് അറിയാം
@@Anu...... Ath kond correct aayt Bala ne thanne ketty😂
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