@@saywhatnah5328 isn’t it odd how that is something that has to be learned? Or taught at a spiritual school. How to undo the years of dogma and control.
Wow I never really thought of it that way. Sometimes I get confused trying to understand how I can enjoy something for what it is but be equally fulfilled when it goes and that there’s something else different in its place with different things to enjoy. I guess that’s what unconditional love is
I always told my mother to put her camera down while on vacation. She had a TERRIBLE habit of taking waaaaay too many photos. She and my sister told me I'd be very sorry some day that I didn't have pictures to look back at and enjoy the memories. I've always had an "elephant brain". LOL I NEVER forget anything important to me. I have many memories of vacations, my older relatives teaching me how to do their old dances, older cousins braiding my hair and teaching me how to swim or tie my shoes, etc. I didn't need pictures for any of that. 🥰 My point is...I enjoyed all of it while it was occurring, it can never happen again because they're all deceased, and I have no family left. I'm extremely sad about that, but they visit me in many ways. I'm lucky enough to be an empath and intuitive psychic medium! There is detachment there, but I get reminders when THEY'RE ready. I'm sure everyone else does as well. A smell, a song, a voice...something will remind a person of the past. Things, or people, that leave us, weren't meant to be there at that moment. Some are meant to teach us a lesson, some are meant to hold a place in our life for a brief moment until someone else comes along and some are meant to be with us for eternity. Knowing that somehow helps to let go. 🙏💗
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
So that means he stays with his currently gf in a relationship without feeling attached ... but anyway feels the need to have someone by his side otherwise he wouldn't feel the happiness??? .. that sounds kind of paradoxical to me isn it? .. like people want to feel detached but anyway want to be in a relationship becausw otherwise they wouldn t experience happiness as it fullest
@@donovan847 Right, I suggest you build higher trust in the Universe/yourself. The lesson here is to surrender. Start letting go of the small things. Aligning energetically with what you want (asking Source to deliver), asking friends for help etc.! You won't be able to trust if you continue to hold on to. Otherwise now you're aligned with fear and control and this is what you get.
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
Yeah, and I have no choice but to let go because being attached is not going to bring anyone back, and I don't need her. Sure, I desire the woman she was at some point, but that's gone, but more than that, I desire to the best person I can be.
@@Bazza5000 its hard because a man broke up with me feeling I am not who he thought. but I am (I think its an excuse. he is the one breaking it off. I love forever and would have never left him) so me trying to prove to him that I am still that same person isnt working. he is not having it. I can admit I still love him. and would want to be with him forever, I didnt fall out of love. he says he did. so i am confused .
So true!! I'm finally letting go. The guilt that comes with divorcing a narcissist and all of their antics is has been so exhausting and mentally draining. I know I have to do this, but it's even harder with a child involved =( I have finally started standing up for myself and standing firm on this choice... thankfully with the support of my therapist, close family and friends, and a Divorce support group. I'll get through this.
Aaron I stumbled upon this video just when I needed to hear it and you spoke words that were so influential and powerful. Thank you for that. You rock!
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪
My girlfriend broke up with me a year ago. I was devastated and hurt for 9 months. I saw this video 3 months ago and I really worked on letting go, loving myself and focusing on myself. I’m the happiest I’ve ever felt in my life now and guess what? My ex just sent me a message yesterday, apologizing for booting me out of her life. Now I’m deciding whether to give it another go with her or not but letting go is so so powerful.
The biggest thing I had to learn to let go of was placing others on a pedestal and giving them the power to influence my inner state...times have changed😁✌🏻
makes sense...a lot of people have that.. I lost it early enough after being disappointed too many times. It always comes down to developing in the art of presence as our internal dialogue is a record of our past and we keep recreating the past rather than allowing a greater present-future
I started to cry at the 1,000 flowers analogy. When you focus on watering 1 flower, the rest of the garden dies. Also, if you pick 1 flower and hold on to it, it will eventually die instead leave them planted and water all of them.
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻😝🔥😈
LoL, but he in this video is ALSO wanting you to CHANGE. If no one changed, this world would be pathetic. There is nothing wrong with them FEELING that, because sometimes YOU need to be the one to plant that seed for them to feel so they can IMPROVE.
I needed to see this badly. I’ve been miserable after the end of a relationship and this gave me the clarity I needed to let go of the pain. Thank you so much
@@daver1161 I had a period maybe a couple months after that where I got back together with the person I was talking about. It was good for a few months until she decided to make the same decision again. I was blindsided and felt dumb for setting myself up to be hurt again but ultimately it was much easier to deal with that time because I’d already been through the mourning process. I’m in a new relationship of 5 months and things are going very well and I’m really happy now. She’s almost the total opposite of my ex and things feel a lot more equal rather than everything falling on me to take care of someone. If you’re going through it just focus on yourself and see what happens for now. Don’t look for someone for a while, but also be open to possibilities if they present themselves to you. You never know when you’ll meet your next love, it could happen anywhere at anytime.
Russell Brand said something really profound. He said " I have over calculated my significance to that person." Once you truly understand this, the easier it becomes to detach.
I met a guy online when I was in a very vulnerable state of mind. I didn't feel happy or complete. And guess what, he was a reflection of me. Exactly the same. The same issues with life and even worse sometimes. It's so true what you said, we attract the same people we are like in our lives. Incomplete and not whole, unhappy. Happiness is a state of mind, if we can be happy and whole in ourselves, only then can we attract someone who's also happy and whole. What a shift of perspective! Anyone reading this: you'll get through this sooner than you realize. You're not alone. We're all in this together. We're all experiencing a pain but trust me, one day, it'll get better. Let go of the outcomes and enjoy where you are in life. Do what you have to do right now. Everything else will fall in It's right place at the right time!!!❤
Hope, thank you for the encouraging words. And things will get better for you too you hang in there and be strong and be positive. Thanks will work out for the best for both of us
This is nonsense! No we do not attract the same people into our lives, new age garbage! So abusers attract abusers into their lives and abuse victims are an oddity? Ridiculous
@@michaelsilverfoote6272 I can feel the hurt and pain you're going through right now my friend. This is one of those feelings that are very important for our growth but terribly painful at the same time. Tell yourself that you're doing the best that you can with the knowledge and resources that you have. Trust me on this, if there's anything I can promise you, it's that eventually this will get better and you'll feel better. So hang in there, and take it one day at a time. We're all in this together!!
Thank you, Aaron. My partner broke up our 6 year relationship 3 weeks ago... unexpectedly and suddenly. And it devastated me... the grief was ENORMOUS! But listening to your videos, I am finally in a position to completely let her go. As I realise that the Universe has something even better, in store for my journey. And now, I wish her all the best. ... 😇
5 years here. I tried to get her back home for the last three months. I thought I was “fighting” for her , in all reality I was losing myself and just pushing her
@@sangohanuchiha ... thank you for asking, mate. It's been an absolute roller-coaster since I wrote the original message... in brief, she lead me on for another 2 months making me believe we still had a chance... (she'd say, "I still love you!" ... "i need time for myself" ... "no im not with anyone else! Who would want me?", etc) ... I fell for it hook, line and sinker... Anyway, I eventually discovered that she'd been sleeping with her boss the whole time! ... and by that, I mean months before we'd actually broken up. This wrecked me beyond belief ... BUT, it was at that point when I stopped chasing her, talking to her... I stopped ALL communication completely, from that point on. And I'll never speak with her again. Even if she ends up on the streets (where she belongs) ... from here on in, she is dead to me. And I've moved on. I now realise that her cheating was inevitable. And if it didn't happen when it did, it eventually would've happened some other time... because it is in her weak nature to do so. Now, I wish myself all the best, and couldn't care less where she is, or what she's doing. She is trash. And I've learnt a harsh lesson.
There is pain in letting go because it feels like one is abandoning oneself and others which feels lonely and sad because one knows one will soon abandon the present self too. One can only dull and forget this pain with happy social interactions on a daily basis.
I got super emotional when he said to stop living in the future. I feel like I've been doing this for so long without even realizing it. Life has blown past me it seems
When the student is ready the teacher arrives. Thank you Aaron for this. I am over 50 and learning the most important lesson of my life. Much, much gratitude!!
If you're reading this, know that you are loved, appreciated and never alone. This life thing isn't easy but it's totally worth it. The lessons we learn and the growth that our soul experiences is priceless. Hold onto your faith and be a giver of kindness whenever possible. Sending you peace, balance, and gratitude... It is always darkest before the dawn. Know that better days aren't too far away.
I think that in order to fully make your feelings believe the statement "I'm going to be okay no matter what", you need to stop seeking external validation or to let external things or outcomes decide whether you feel okay/safe or not
When you try to attach too much, force, control, push ……you’re actually telling the universe that you don’t deserve that outcome that you’re looking for. You have to trust the process what God and the universe is trying to teach you. 💕
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
Don‘t know if someone is reading this, but if you are : You are amazing and beautiful! I believe in you! Enjoy your journey and keep your head up, from a small TH-camr who also love creat as possible you may never find again 🙏 🌟 ❤️
Has that worked for you? I've been manifesting since childhood ( 8 yrs old, toured Europe at 10, etc), before LOA was a thing. I'm very interested in what works for other people. It's clearly not the same for everyone, I'd love to know what works for other individuals. I just ask & trust. Nothing else has an affect. Emotion is there in the asking, but I've manifested my soulmate & 2 businesses with severe PTSD, anxiety & depression. HOWEVER, on another level I was a vibrating love, which must trump the depression. I also have a Angelic team & I was born knowing things. Now there is so much info on it, but no one ever explains what they manifested & how. I just know it's a individual thing, what blocks one person may or may not block another. And some people are just born manifestors, I know many, although there is a basic formula some are just tapped into it. Jim Carrey spoke on it " I ask the Universe, it appears" ( he was poor, new bike) much love♥️♥️🌎🌎⚡⚡♾♾
@@gymnast2890 I'm also a "natural" LOA like you, started realising it at around 11/12 years old, the whole LOA culture didn't exist back then. I'm a very stubborn person and also always loved acting so, as a child,I created and played stories and "moments" in my mind about what I wanted. Nowadays I use music and objects. I manifested a house even though I had zero money, based on the object thing. It was basically a very beautiful straw basket that reminded me of those elegant, tidy and cozy "Instagram" homes. I really loved that object and every time I reorganized and cleaned my old ugly hental apartment I would just concentrate on the qualities of that object, abstracting the rest of the place. This way I vibrated in the "perfect house" momentum and forgot about the bad situation at that given time. I found my soulmate through music, 7 years of marrisge and when I was with severe depression too. Music and objects are my favorite strategies. Try this: select from what you have or buy something that represents your perfect life Idea. It's gonna be your "magical" object. Use it, everyday. Look at it and abstract the rest, the objects that represent stuff you don't like. Touch and see the object, enjoy using it and think about how that piece is real , exists and belongs to a whole reality yyou are about to acess. Think about this object as a "clue". Imagine It is a sign that the parts of your ideal world are manifesting ,falling in your lap.
@@sandramarques6866 Fascinating! I never came across anyone who manifested before LOA online, weirdly, I know people/kids who have. I totally didn't realize it until my 20's in retrospect, when I found a book on it, but still no LOA existed, it wasn't called that. I just realized my relationship with the Universe & how things aligned that I wanted, especially when bad things happened around 11/12 I would imagine something & things would magically align & produce a miracle. I use music for sure, I will definitely be trying your object technique...always looking for new techniques & ESPECIALLY as I'm older & working on my imagination, healing & spirituality. Thank you so much for sharing! Much love♥️♥️🌎🌎
Thank you so much for this! Attachment has been causing me so much unnecessary pain over the past 2-3 months. I've decided to let go and leave it to the universe. This is such a blessing. ❤️
Love the video My clinginess energy is what pushed my twin flame away from me. Didn't even need to be vocal about it, it was just how I felt in my mind. Over the past few months I neutralized the energy, focused on myself and learned to be present, meditated consistently. I learned to let go of attachments and expectations (was difficult at first but i was able to do it eventually)... and it attracted my twin back. Now she just wants to interact with me whenever she can Edit: She ran away again after I got caught in old thinking patterns 😂 Been 7 months now. But anyways... separation is an illusion
I just pushed away my twin too in the same way. I feel deep down that we're supposed to be together. I'm also doing the same as you did and I hope she comes back as she did for you..Thanks for sharing!
I think I may have pushed my twin flame away. I was not clingy but I did feel the bond much more strongly. I have gone zero contact for 3 weeks now and will continue for as long as necessary 🙏. If I meet someone else in the meantime that can’t be helped. At least I gave it a fair chance.
Flow state go state: - attachment = resistance - letting go is a choice - letting go of external control = internal happiness - pleasure does not = happiness - we move how we think - inner pressure = subconscious wall - 1,000 flowers = so many options!!! - ABUNDANCE OF ABUNDANCE BABAY - shedding = freedom - let go of control. - when u don’t care what ppl think, ur being your most authentic self. - let go, let in 💚 - let go = free
I've been seeing a therapist for insecurity and fear of abandonment and rejection for a little while. This video really set a light off in my brain. You said everything I needed to hear so clearly. I am going to save this video anytime I need to remind myself to let go of my attachments. Thank you so much for making this. I want to send this to my therapist too to see what he thinks about it.
@@Rigoletta53 Haha no, therapy is good for more than core fears and issues. My therapist has been a great outlet to vent and gain second opinions on events in my life I migh tbe struggling with. I honestly think everyone should have a therapist. Even if they don't really think they need one
Hello and good for you on your healing journey. What type of therapist would you recommend for healing and trauma? I’m trying to find one, but I don’t want to take any meds and that’s what I’ve been coming across. They’re trying to prescribe depression medication.
@@Galatea_GanymedeIf you’re always going to depend on a theraphist you’re never going to commit your own mistakes and have to take accountability for your actions. Now you’re just replicating the theraphist’s opinions and experience and learning nothing going forward.
This also plays a big part in being authentic too!! Here's a quote I hope it reaches someone who needs it! "Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are" -Brené Brown
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻
Vernon Howard said the same, he was an incredible teacher in 50s - he is big on being Authentic & True to oneself & strip all the false identities we obtain, want to be or attachments. So we must practice letting go not only daily, but at every moment - "be vigilant" said Jesus.
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
I've been "letting go" for a couple of weeks now and now being aware of all the things that no longer serve me. I'm feeling much better mentally and physically. What a wonderful feeling! You explain it well, thank you 😊❤
ya.....get past it a bit and its a great feeling of strength that returns to your soul.....am almost addicted to that feeling now.........maybe its just my testosterone producing workout......who knows
This message helps me to know that once I detached from that relationship that serves me no purpose I will open healthier relationships and opportunities that awaits me for being patient in the process. Walking away is so hard but in order to get out of hard situations. I must go through it. That’s the only way I can see myself flourish is if I am able to do something uncomfortable.
I finally decided to let go of something I’d held so close for a while this morning and within an hour it came back to me, letting go really is the key to having everything you’ve ever desired, TRUST 💖
That is amazing. so easy in theory so hard in practice but I love it that the universe gave you a gift. I find the more I parctice presence and let go of the internal dialogue the less I attach and the more I can let go with ease and grace
@@TheMediumChannel thank you so much that’s lovely of you!! Yes you’re so right, quieting that inner dialogue and just being is such a peaceful way to be and allows us to flow with ease ☺️🙏🏼✨
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻
I’m an empath. My husband is toxic. Even though he was literally affecting my physical and emotional state, it was hard letting go. It took everything I had in me to do so. I am 62 yrs old. It took a lot of determination, decision, strength, and courage to leave. I had to drive 2500 miles to come back home where my family lives. He moved us away from my family. I’ve learned so much from these videos and getting support from the comments I read. I’m not alone. No one is alone. We can do this and get our life back on track.
I uploaded a video 2 days ago referring to my breakup and how I moved on. Watch until the end I genuinely think it's worth it. I've had a great response on Instagram, and I'm new to TH-cam
@@tonyjlorns1727 I'm not quite sure what your question is, yet if you're asking how I let go of control and let things just flow? I stopped caring about everything. Everything does not matter and pertain to me. I allow the people around me to live their lives without judgement, as I want for mine.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
“Let go to Let in”.... thank you Aaron, you can never repeat this message enough to us lower vibe folks. I slip back and forth between letting go a bit and then gripping tightly again. It feels very scary to let go, but I know it is the ultimate end and the right thing to do.
Personally, I always envision a cord going from my head to the object of attachment. I cut this with scissors, and imagine the object floating away(like a balloon) and the other side of the cord being pulled back in to my head. This side of the cord represents my freedom, and so I sit and feel gratitude for the fact that I've got it back. I managed to let go of the things that I was most attached to in life by doing this. Instantly upon doing this, something inside of me exhaled, released a whole bunch of tension, and said "finally, I can rest". It was an incredible experience!
I think letting go of an attachment isn't easy if u love someone. If ur not emotionally invested then letting go of anything can become easy. However if ur an empath then these terms aren't too easy bc ur always giving and nurturing. If ur a taker then once u feel u have no need 4the other person then walking away is easy. So it depends what type of role u play in the relationship what makes it easy to let go.
letting go doesnt mean you stop loving them,.... it means you surrender to whats not in your control. And not allow it or them to be what makes you happy. Letting go doesnt mean you stop loving them. :) All you can really do is trust that what is yours will come back. Its not easy, but healing means growth. And if they want to come back theyll see that as something positive to come back to. Rather than coming back to the same thing.
I think one thing that may help is the belief that it isn't easy.. That you are the one giving and nurturing in the relationship.. that creates a sense of "need" or importance which could be allowing your ego the "reason" why it's harder for you and why letting go isn't the same for you as other people(any time there is separation is a good signal that its on the ego realm). As you begin to see what you are getting from ideas and beliefs then you allow yourself the choice to replace it with something that is more beneficial to you and that will take you closer to peace. Hope that makes sense!
@@csillaherczeg How can you develop genuine and deep feelings for someone (love) and not become “attached” to them? You’re “attached” because you’re emotionally connected to them.
Wow! I needed this message so much. I've been attached to a person and it has been causing me a lot of anxiousness. I am going to let go. I am saving this video to keep watching as a reminder! Thank you!
I've been so attached too 'my relationship' and needing constant validation and contact. Like a drug. Thank you for this video. Its giving me so much clarity to detach and let go. Letting things flow naturally. A weight has been taken of my shoulders by this video. Perfect timing. Thank you for sharing our wisdom 🙏
I'm only halfway through this video and when I tell you this spoke to my SOUL, it really did. Thank you, Aaron. This randomly showed up on my timeline and I am so grateful that it did.
I NEEDED this more than anyone could know. I’ve been too attached to the outcome. And I’m ready to let go and be happy with or without. And I’m so so thankful for all of the good things in my life! Thank you for this video ❤️
I've been putting to much focus on a new relationship, trying to rush things for fear of being hurt again. I am now trying so hard to just let it be , enjoy it and leave it to the universe . Thank you for your wise words x
10:30 spot on dude. During the pandemic last year I was 25 lbs overweight, lethargic, numbing on video games and the worst version of myself...ever. Started dating, and the universe gave me exactly who I deserved...a mirror reflection of my inner state. I CANNOT tell you how true that statement you said is "You'll also attracted someone not whole and complete". Absolutely my friend
Thank you, Aaron and The Universe, for this affirmation. Yesterday, I realized that my desire for and devotion to the man I love was placing an unwanted attachment burden on HIS vibration, and I had to let go, BECAUSE I love him. This video's info gives me hope that letting go will eventually help me accept that loss without feeling loss.
I cried with this video, thank you so much. I feel so much better because I found letting go so difficult. Thank you so much, Aaron. Blessings your way.
What if your faith has been altered due to long term abuse, manipulation and trauma? If this core element has been distorted and impacted by the abuser, then how would someone encourage victims to release the disturbing, chaotic, life altering changes that they’ve experienced from their abuser? These effects can last for a lifetime and they will never be the same again. The residual hangover is nothing to take lightly. Though many people often assume that letting go of a false illusion is something easy to do or that it doesn’t take a continuous effort to acknowledge, swallow and reluctantly accept their inhuman actions and/or behavior!!! That’s what keeps some victims and survivors from letting go. Take it or leave it. But it’s the truth, coming from someone who has experienced it first hand. OhhhhLAWD lol
@@amazingrace81 narcissism is definitely the toughest to overcome. But realize you attracted one because of your light, and they’ve tried to dim it or steal it for themselves. Reclaim that light, and eminate it. Kill them with kindness. Allow all their attempts of negativity and verbal abuse to bounce off you. Be the mirror, so that they can see their ugly reflection.
Endlesssoul how do I reclaim my light? By killing them with kindness. How do I allow their attempts to nitpick to bounce off of me? Everyone always says what to do but I don’t know the how. 😔 Thanks for replying
@@amazingrace81 it’s a choice to absorb negativity, a choice to react in anger or frustration, a choice to walk on eggshells. That’s the key, choose to say no I won’t engage in this. Give yourself permission to live your life to the fullest, to say that’s THEIR problem. Because it is. The problem they have with you doesn’t exist outside of THEIR own head. Narcissists are full of insecurity and as soon as you show that they’re attempts to belittle you no longer hold weight, they will cower. Along with being an empath usually comes people pleasing and these narcs subconsciously know that. They assume you will forever be manipulatable. Show them you know who they are and you’re done with the BS. It would freak you out to know how much I resonate with your situation. Took me years to overcome. And you’re right, so much easier said than done. The people you see who seem impenetrable simply chose to be. You owe no one anything Gracie, live for you.
Endlesssoul I stopped engaging in his negativity years ago. The hard part is living my life afterwards. We share a child. Plus, the residual effects still linger. I’ve come a long way but my healing journey isn’t over. Thanks for your support. I’m glad you overcame it. That’s a blessing 💜
So wait....you just literally permanently tattooed the motto of a mantra that is all about impermanence and detaching. Learning to let go....LOL...I thi k you completely missed the point Hun
Even the ending is so smooth. His glow 🤩 up is so beautiful to watch. He was good before but there is a sense of relaxed, ease that he has now. It’s beautiful to see his work pay off.
i can't stress enough how much i needed to hear this right now. just got out from a difficult breakup, the wound is still fresh, and I'm trying to find some clarity in it. no one says it will be easy immediately, and that the memories I have with this person will be forgotten. but with time and self-introspection, I will realize that those are just good memories from my past like others. I didn't lose anything. On the contrary, I gained a new life for me that will come and a good friendship that I will develop with this person, maybe even healthier and sincere than our romantic one. so I really thank you for making me see the light at the end of the tunnel.
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Thank you! When I asked why I wanted this person back, I couldn’t answer it logically. It made me realize it was just me being hurt and having a bruised ego from being dumped.
Great content thanks, just wanted to mention that not everybody is the same in terms of brain functioning to let go of things easily, some people like me have serious challenges due to trauma that makes it very difficult for them to let go of thoughts and emotions. If there are people like me out there, just want to say hi to them and say that I know hard hard it is, you are doing a great and brave job fighting it and trying to find a way, keep up the good job, with love
I know exactly what you mean going through the same things. Oh we got to hang in there and be strong and be positive. Thanks will work out just give it some time
Hey man, just want to let you know I’m so grateful for this. I’ve been struggling for over a year now, but you helped me identify what really was wrong: me. I was able to properly reflect for once after seeking so many answers everywhere. This is the bit of information that made me realize I’ve been holding on, resisting, and expecting outcomes to go my way which in turn only creates attachment, neediness and a desire for control of things I can’t tame. Again, thank you! You helped me understand it’s okay to let go, not have to be in control, and to value myself.
It’s startling to realize how obvious the answers make themselves when someone is ready to think and face them. Accepting personal human weakness and feeling the pain is where it’s at.
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻😝
Thank you, Aaron, you have taught me a good thing. Proverbs 11 versus 24: One person gives freely, yet gains more; another withholds what is right, only to become poor.
Good stuff. Hope that everyone who is watching this is doing well in their journey! It is never fun or easy to get through some of these tough times. I wish everyone a pure heart and journey.
It’s scary to let go of him. The pain is the only thing I have left of him 😭😭😭. Worse thing is I know he’s doing okay and thriving. I’m the only one suffering
This video should help you to let go it definitely is one of the most important videos I have ever seen I just let go of the outcome. I’m so free me Attaching to the Outcome is what’s causing me pain. I just totally let him go. This video makes me realize and small subtle ways I was trying to control him I’m not doing this with a guarantee that he will come back I am doing this from my own peace of mind
@@mizzcrazygal for sure dont! thats messed up these boys are not it. I only wanted my ex back because I made mistakes too but he doesn't trust me so oh well.
I’m 55 yrs old. My daughter sent me your “Wounded Masculine and Feminine Polarity” video last week, and it was spot on. I began listening to the rest of your videos. I’m in the “Letting Go” playlist. I have to tell you, just from me opening my heart, and really receiving the message, it all really works. Here is how I know: about an hour ago, I drew a small picture on a piece of cardboard. I really want to learn to draw and paint. I LET GO of trying to make it perfect, and just drew it for the enjoyment of drawing (a cat sitting in a window, next to a vase with 2 flowers.) My friend came by my desk and loved it. I was surprised, but, all that you’ve been saying just clicked. I wasn’t concerned about the outcome. Thank you for all that you’re doing. It works.
I came across your videos on tiktok , i guess I needed to listen to you . Felt asleep listening to you and woke up woth the need to listen to your teachings again ! I claim that someone like urself crosses my path ! 😌 You're a wonderful being . Stay in bleassed ❤
Hi I’m 76 granny and today just split with my 14 year long partner in another area , it won’t hurt so much this time as I realise now , if they don’t want to be with you,you certainly don’t want to waste your time on them , when the spark has gone on one or both sides it’s time to end it , I haven’t cried yet , come near to it driving home , but nothing , just numb , but it will pass , when you are indifferent to your ex you will know your truly over them , the best revenge ( if needed) is to be happy ,this really annoys them when they want you to pine over them ,don’t give them that satisfaction a moment longer ,xx
i'm in the exact same position... thats how i ended up here, this opened my eyes so much... i litereally sent a message to her and she didn't respond until now... i hadn't realizaded that THIS is causing me pain... loving her so much that i can't let go, and all that does is hurt me... i let go of her... i wil not feel any pain by that.
@@ghoul2408 don't let someone else steal your happiness... Pain is temporary. Someone more beautiful and understanding will enter your life soon. Good things will come to good people. 👍
This video has been so eye opening. And its allowed me to realise how unhealthy my mind has been and motivating me to make the right changes. But its daunting because i realise i NEED to rebuild my whole thought process and i feel both hopeless yet motivated at the same time.
This last month I feel this different energy from Aaron, its giving me an energy of him not being attached anymore or less then before, he use to try hard to be funny, you can tell but now, it's like he doesn't care anymore and it's such a magnet energy, literally what he's talking about in the video
Everything is this life experience is TEMPORARY anyways. So letting go should be easy once a person realizes their consciousness ( spirit body) is much longer lasting then the temporary constructs to this current experience.
Your videos helped me through my first break up in high school. 3 years later you’re helping me through my second one. I truly appreciate your videos ❤
This is so good! I didn’t realize that keep thinking about the outcome is an attachment until now, while it’s a work in progress I keep think about achieving the planned outcome and that’s causing me anxiety... enjoy the moment and don’t overthink👌
Just simple,, “ Do not expect anything from anyone or don’t get too much attached unless he/she feel the same way towards “.Peace be unto you✌🏻✌🏻Stay safe everyone 🙏😘
hey everyone! here is the playlist I mentioned in the video on letting go!➡th-cam.com/play/PLmD49HKQ8KUGcE3MjDK-yNRFkbR5OTP3F.html
Thankyou I need this right now! Much love 💗 Happy NewYear 💋😘🙏
Happy new years bro....
I like the term dangerously authentic and free to be yourself. Sounds like an excellent way to exist.
@@saywhatnah5328 isn’t it odd how that is something that has to be learned? Or taught at a spiritual school. How to undo the years of dogma and control.
Thank you for being a great spiritual teacher.... I’m here in Sedona sucking up all of the great energy!!!
“Detachment is an art of enjoying something while always being open to the possibility of losing it someday.”
Wow I never really thought of it that way. Sometimes I get confused trying to understand how I can enjoy something for what it is but be equally fulfilled when it goes and that there’s something else different in its place with different things to enjoy. I guess that’s what unconditional love is
I always told my mother to put her camera down while on vacation. She had a TERRIBLE habit of taking waaaaay too many photos. She and my sister told me I'd be very sorry some day that I didn't have pictures to look back at and enjoy the memories. I've always had an "elephant brain". LOL I NEVER forget anything important to me. I have many memories of vacations, my older relatives teaching me how to do their old dances, older cousins braiding my hair and teaching me how to swim or tie my shoes, etc. I didn't need pictures for any of that. 🥰 My point is...I enjoyed all of it while it was occurring, it can never happen again because they're all deceased, and I have no family left. I'm extremely sad about that, but they visit me in many ways. I'm lucky enough to be an empath and intuitive psychic medium! There is detachment there, but I get reminders when THEY'RE ready. I'm sure everyone else does as well. A smell, a song, a voice...something will remind a person of the past. Things, or people, that leave us, weren't meant to be there at that moment. Some are meant to teach us a lesson, some are meant to hold a place in our life for a brief moment until someone else comes along and some are meant to be with us for eternity. Knowing that somehow helps to let go. 🙏💗
I love that.
Great quote!
Bro...
May everyone that sees this let go to what they remain attached to.
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪
please let me let go
AMEN!
Don't take this video as Absolute!
It's just another self help video
Some things work to a degree for some, but there is no absolutes!
Done ✅
"Attachments bring pleasure but they do not bring happiness" gold ⚡️
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
Attachment is a normal part of forming a bond with a loved one. This guy confuses it with unhealthy attachment
So that means he stays with his currently gf in a relationship without feeling attached ... but anyway feels the need to have someone by his side otherwise he wouldn't feel the happiness??? .. that sounds kind of paradoxical to me isn it? .. like people want to feel detached but anyway want to be in a relationship becausw otherwise they wouldn t experience happiness as it fullest
@@katystrawberry2513 people who are detached are avoidant. And yeah, it makes no sense.
@@SallyM-hi1mhnot with unconditional love
"It's the choice to let go that is hard", this message is timely for me right now
Same here
How did it work out ?
The choice and the decision that we feel like it brings more pleasure to have that person around than to let him go which may not true
Same for me. I. feel happier after letting go.
"We believe that if we let go - we won't actually get it" - this is one of the best things I've heard on the "letting go" topic!!
Overwhelmed with appreciation I needed this!
yes this makes sense
This is honestly what I’m afraid of.
@@donovan847 Right, I suggest you build higher trust in the Universe/yourself. The lesson here is to surrender. Start letting go of the small things. Aligning energetically with what you want (asking Source to deliver), asking friends for help etc.! You won't be able to trust if you continue to hold on to. Otherwise now you're aligned with fear and control and this is what you get.
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
“90% of raising your vibration is letting go.” I love that.
Yeah, and I have no choice but to let go because being attached is not going to bring anyone back, and I don't need her. Sure, I desire the woman she was at some point, but that's gone, but more than that, I desire to the best person I can be.
@@Bazza5000 its hard because a man broke up with me feeling I am not who he thought. but I am (I think its an excuse. he is the one breaking it off. I love forever and would have never left him) so me trying to prove to him that I am still that same person isnt working. he is not having it. I can admit I still love him. and would want to be with him forever, I didnt fall out of love. he says he did. so i am confused .
So true!!
I'm finally letting go. The guilt that comes with divorcing a narcissist and all of their antics is has been so exhausting and mentally draining. I know I have to do this, but it's even harder with a child involved =(
I have finally started standing up for myself and standing firm on this choice... thankfully with the support of my therapist, close family and friends, and a Divorce support group. I'll get through this.
Aaron I stumbled upon this video just when I needed to hear it and you spoke words that were so influential and powerful. Thank you for that. You rock!
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LETTING GO = GETTING OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY!
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪
My girlfriend broke up with me a year ago. I was devastated and hurt for 9 months. I saw this video 3 months ago and I really worked on letting go, loving myself and focusing on myself. I’m the happiest I’ve ever felt in my life now and guess what? My ex just sent me a message yesterday, apologizing for booting me out of her life. Now I’m deciding whether to give it another go with her or not but letting go is so so powerful.
My gf broke up with me 1 month ago and i was hurt like hell. Finally today I decided to let go.
What did you do?
Don't entertain such people again in your life
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Don’t do it! You’re worth more!
The biggest thing I had to learn to let go of was placing others on a pedestal and giving them the power to influence my inner state...times have changed😁✌🏻
Fr fr brudda. No ones bouta knock us out of alignment anymore✌🏽😆
Yes 🙌
Exactly 👌🏾
makes sense...a lot of people have that.. I lost it early enough after being disappointed too many times. It always comes down to developing in the art of presence as our internal dialogue is a record of our past and we keep recreating the past rather than allowing a greater present-future
Same here ✋👏
I started to cry at the 1,000 flowers analogy. When you focus on watering 1 flower, the rest of the garden dies. Also, if you pick 1 flower and hold on to it, it will eventually die instead leave them planted and water all of them.
Omg
This truly is a profound comment, thank u
Beautiful ❤️
bah.....I just want to walk away from that garden and let them ALL die.....guess I still havent let go yet.....lol.......
"you wanting people to change is manipulating them....they can FEEL that." brilliant
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻😝🔥😈
My ex came back just to see if I "changed" and came in testing me and told me I had things to prove. Which I realized he is a manipulator.
Eish..... That's me on my previous relationship, i felt like i am manipulating her until i decided to let her go.
LoL, but he in this video is ALSO wanting you to CHANGE. If no one changed, this world would be pathetic. There is nothing wrong with them FEELING that, because sometimes YOU need to be the one to plant that seed for them to feel so they can IMPROVE.
Facts it was a powerful statement
I needed to see this badly. I’ve been miserable after the end of a relationship and this gave me the clarity I needed to let go of the pain. Thank you so much
Update a year later… how do you feel now?
@@daver1161 I had a period maybe a couple months after that where I got back together with the person I was talking about. It was good for a few months until she decided to make the same decision again. I was blindsided and felt dumb for setting myself up to be hurt again but ultimately it was much easier to deal with that time because I’d already been through the mourning process. I’m in a new relationship of 5 months and things are going very well and I’m really happy now. She’s almost the total opposite of my ex and things feel a lot more equal rather than everything falling on me to take care of someone. If you’re going through it just focus on yourself and see what happens for now. Don’t look for someone for a while, but also be open to possibilities if they present themselves to you. You never know when you’ll meet your next love, it could happen anywhere at anytime.
Facts
Russell Brand said something really profound. He said " I have over calculated my significance to that person." Once you truly understand this, the easier it becomes to detach.
Thanks for sharing- so good!
Ooh I needed to see this! Thank you, Nikki! 😊
Thanks Nikki. That is something I need to be mindful of.
Where did he say this?
I really needed that today
"Don't be a slave to your own desires"
Thankyou for this!
I met a guy online when I was in a very vulnerable state of mind. I didn't feel happy or complete. And guess what, he was a reflection of me. Exactly the same. The same issues with life and even worse sometimes. It's so true what you said, we attract the same people we are like in our lives. Incomplete and not whole, unhappy. Happiness is a state of mind, if we can be happy and whole in ourselves, only then can we attract someone who's also happy and whole. What a shift of perspective!
Anyone reading this: you'll get through this sooner than you realize. You're not alone. We're all in this together. We're all experiencing a pain but trust me, one day, it'll get better. Let go of the outcomes and enjoy where you are in life. Do what you have to do right now. Everything else will fall in It's right place at the right time!!!❤
Omg! Im crying as Im reading your comment! I needed to hear this, but its so painful!
I needed this today…going exactly though this and your comment brought me to tears and gave me a sense of relief. Thank you 🙏
Hope, thank you for the encouraging words. And things will get better for you too you hang in there and be strong and be positive. Thanks will work out for the best for both of us
This is nonsense! No we do not attract the same people into our lives, new age garbage! So abusers attract abusers into their lives and abuse victims are an oddity? Ridiculous
@@michaelsilverfoote6272 I can feel the hurt and pain you're going through right now my friend. This is one of those feelings that are very important for our growth but terribly painful at the same time. Tell yourself that you're doing the best that you can with the knowledge and resources that you have. Trust me on this, if there's anything I can promise you, it's that eventually this will get better and you'll feel better. So hang in there, and take it one day at a time. We're all in this together!!
Thank you, Aaron. My partner broke up our 6 year relationship 3 weeks ago... unexpectedly and suddenly. And it devastated me... the grief was ENORMOUS!
But listening to your videos, I am finally in a position to completely let her go. As I realise that the Universe has something even better, in store for my journey.
And now, I wish her all the best. ... 😇
Bro 3.5 years but me too
5 years here. I tried to get her back home for the last three months. I thought I was “fighting” for her , in all reality I was losing myself and just pushing her
@@zadki1660 ... good on you for realising it though, mate. ... 😉
How are you now ?
@@sangohanuchiha ... thank you for asking, mate.
It's been an absolute roller-coaster since I wrote the original message... in brief, she lead me on for another 2 months making me believe we still had a chance... (she'd say, "I still love you!" ... "i need time for myself" ... "no im not with anyone else! Who would want me?", etc) ... I fell for it hook, line and sinker...
Anyway, I eventually discovered that she'd been sleeping with her boss the whole time! ... and by that, I mean months before we'd actually broken up.
This wrecked me beyond belief ... BUT, it was at that point when I stopped chasing her, talking to her... I stopped ALL communication completely, from that point on.
And I'll never speak with her again. Even if she ends up on the streets (where she belongs) ... from here on in, she is dead to me.
And I've moved on.
I now realise that her cheating was inevitable. And if it didn't happen when it did, it eventually would've happened some other time... because it is in her weak nature to do so.
Now, I wish myself all the best, and couldn't care less where she is, or what she's doing. She is trash. And I've learnt a harsh lesson.
"The more you let go, the higher you will rise"
Attachment=suffering + temporary pleasure=scarcity mindset=pain=needy.
Choose to let go=not to control=trust universe=abundance.
Nicely summarised👍
@Jaime Ares By saying you can't do it, you are holding yourself back. You can.
@Swathi thank you! ❤ this!
There is pain in letting go because it feels like one is abandoning oneself and others which feels lonely and sad because one knows one will soon abandon the present self too. One can only dull and forget this pain with happy social interactions on a daily basis.
truth, i have learnt in Buddhist teaching
I got super emotional when he said to stop living in the future. I feel like I've been doing this for so long without even realizing it. Life has blown past me it seems
Or the past... can't change the outcome either way!
Craning your neck to see behind you, or too far in front of you causes pain. Live in the now.
The Past is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today’s a gift, that’s why it’s called the Present 💝
Peace Love & Divine Light
@lolWillieP thank you! Me too! ❤ it and the past, as Most of us sadly do! 😥
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I was so anxious before this video. I feel so much peace now.
"Attatch to nothing, connect to everything."
When the student is ready the teacher arrives. Thank you Aaron for this. I am over 50 and learning the most important lesson of my life. Much, much gratitude!!
True to the core❤️
2 late...
I’m with you on this one, but better late than never I’m grateful 😊
Also 50 and trying to figure out how to let go of a 17 year relationship that seems to have been wrong from the start....
@@RanOvaT I guess you know how long someone will live ...do you?
If you're reading this, know that you are loved, appreciated and never alone. This life thing isn't easy but it's totally worth it. The lessons we learn and the growth that our soul experiences is priceless. Hold onto your faith and be a giver of kindness whenever possible. Sending you peace, balance, and gratitude... It is always darkest before the dawn. Know that better days aren't too far away.
Much love and light your way 🙌
I totally agree! Thank you for your beautiful and uplifting words....🙏🏽
@@AaronDoughty44
Thanks Aaron! You da man! :D
@@ThePowerofYourImagination You're welcome! Namaste :)
Thank you 😊 🙏🏻
I think that in order to fully make your feelings believe the statement "I'm going to be okay no matter what", you need to stop seeking external validation or to let external things or outcomes decide whether you feel okay/safe or not
When you try to attach too much, force, control, push ……you’re actually telling the universe that you don’t deserve that outcome that you’re looking for. You have to trust the process what God and the universe is trying to teach you. 💕
Yes! God! 🕊️
🤜🏻✝️🤛🏽
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How do I trust God?
what God has for you no man can stop it (good or bad)
What if you don’t believe in god though?
@@JH-id4te it s not about believing in “god”. It s about being faith! Faith that things will happen.
“You’re good either way because you’re not attach to the outcome” I like that
Attachment is the cause of a lot of suffering🙏
U r great sir
All suffering.
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
All suffering
true
Don‘t know if someone is reading this, but if you are : You are amazing and beautiful! I believe in you! Enjoy your journey and keep your head up, from a small TH-camr who also love creat as possible you may never find again 🙏 🌟 ❤️
The secret to efforless manifestation is finding the perfect blend of intention and surrender🙌🏽💚
Well said man
Has that worked for you? I've been manifesting since childhood ( 8 yrs old, toured Europe at 10, etc), before LOA was a thing. I'm very interested in what works for other people.
It's clearly not the same for everyone, I'd love to know what works for other individuals.
I just ask & trust. Nothing else has an affect. Emotion is there in the asking, but I've manifested my soulmate & 2 businesses with severe PTSD, anxiety & depression. HOWEVER, on another level I was a vibrating love, which must trump the depression. I also have a Angelic team & I was born knowing things. Now there is so much info on it, but no one ever explains what they manifested & how. I just know it's a individual thing, what blocks one person may or may not block another. And some people are just born manifestors, I know many, although there is a basic formula some are just tapped into it.
Jim Carrey spoke on it " I ask the Universe, it appears" ( he was poor, new bike) much love♥️♥️🌎🌎⚡⚡♾♾
Dude!!! Sing it!
@@gymnast2890 I'm also a "natural" LOA like you, started realising it at around 11/12 years old, the whole LOA culture didn't exist back then.
I'm a very stubborn person and also always loved acting so, as a child,I created and played stories and "moments" in my mind about what I wanted.
Nowadays I use music and objects. I manifested a house even though I had zero money, based on the object thing. It was basically a very beautiful straw basket that reminded me of those elegant, tidy and cozy "Instagram" homes.
I really loved that object and every time I reorganized and cleaned my old ugly hental apartment I would just concentrate on the qualities of that object, abstracting the rest of the place.
This way I vibrated in the "perfect house" momentum and forgot about the bad situation at that given time.
I found my soulmate through music, 7 years of marrisge and when I was with severe depression too.
Music and objects are my favorite strategies. Try this: select from what you have or buy something that represents your perfect life Idea. It's gonna be your "magical" object. Use it, everyday. Look at it and abstract the rest, the objects that represent stuff you don't like. Touch and see the object, enjoy using it and think about how that piece is real , exists and belongs to a whole reality yyou are about to acess. Think about this object as a "clue". Imagine It is a sign that the parts of your ideal world are manifesting ,falling in your lap.
@@sandramarques6866 Fascinating! I never came across anyone who manifested before LOA online, weirdly, I know people/kids who have.
I totally didn't realize it until my 20's in retrospect, when I found a book on it, but still no LOA existed, it wasn't called that. I just realized my relationship with the Universe & how things aligned that I wanted, especially when bad things happened around 11/12 I would imagine something & things would magically align & produce a miracle.
I use music for sure, I will definitely be trying your object
technique...always looking for new techniques & ESPECIALLY as I'm older & working on my imagination, healing & spirituality. Thank you so much for sharing! Much love♥️♥️🌎🌎
Your attachment to the outcome is the very reason you’re not manifesting the outcome.
Well said! 🤗
I know but HOW
"He who let's go of the desired outcome is he who is most likely to realize it."
Then why girls i let go a long tine ago didnt manifest never....?
@@tommydawson7147 I don’t understand your question?
Thank you so much for this! Attachment has been causing me so much unnecessary pain over the past 2-3 months. I've decided to let go and leave it to the universe. This is such a blessing. ❤️
Was it a relationship? Did they return?
Leave it to our LIVING GOD NOT UNIVERSE. BECAUSE GOD CREATED THE UNIVERSE
I got past that loss and pain just after 3 days
Just getting out if a similar situation. I feel sad but also a great relief now..
@@danielbrown8602 i dont think they returned....they re gone for good...not all us can comprehend that...
Love the video
My clinginess energy is what pushed my twin flame away from me. Didn't even need to be vocal about it, it was just how I felt in my mind. Over the past few months I neutralized the energy, focused on myself and learned to be present, meditated consistently. I learned to let go of attachments and expectations (was difficult at first but i was able to do it eventually)... and it attracted my twin back. Now she just wants to interact with me whenever she can
Edit: She ran away again after I got caught in old thinking patterns 😂 Been 7 months now. But anyways... separation is an illusion
I just pushed away my twin too in the same way. I feel deep down that we're supposed to be together. I'm also doing the same as you did and I hope she comes back as she did for you..Thanks for sharing!
@@iamrobinaberg any luck?
@@iamrobinaberg make sure that you’re doing it for yourself,
@@r0b0bert unfortunately no… I chose myself instead.
I think I may have pushed my twin flame away. I was not clingy but I did feel the bond much more strongly. I have gone zero contact for 3 weeks now and will continue for as long as necessary 🙏. If I meet someone else in the meantime that can’t be helped. At least I gave it a fair chance.
Flow state go state:
- attachment = resistance
- letting go is a choice
- letting go of external control = internal happiness
- pleasure does not = happiness
- we move how we think
- inner pressure = subconscious wall
- 1,000 flowers = so many options!!!
- ABUNDANCE OF ABUNDANCE BABAY
- shedding = freedom
- let go of control.
- when u don’t care what ppl think, ur being your most authentic self.
- let go, let in 💚
- let go = free
"I was attached to being right" ... It was like getting shot in the head with this awareness. Mind blowing, thank you man.
I have the exact same problem, for some reason I just always have to be right
Wow.. I needed this. Never ever thought about it
Very true. I thought I was too smart to be played and I was going to easily get detached. Boy did I learn a lesson
Man, it's like finally seeing the code of the matrix
That is why after letting go of my past toxic relationship with my ex now 2 years later I feel soooo much happier and it's so peaceful and freeing.
Love to see it!!! 🙏🏽💕
I've been seeing a therapist for insecurity and fear of abandonment and rejection for a little while. This video really set a light off in my brain. You said everything I needed to hear so clearly. I am going to save this video anytime I need to remind myself to let go of my attachments. Thank you so much for making this. I want to send this to my therapist too to see what he thinks about it.
Maybe you can quit the therapist!
@@Rigoletta53 Haha no, therapy is good for more than core fears and issues. My therapist has been a great outlet to vent and gain second opinions on events in my life I migh tbe struggling with. I honestly think everyone should have a therapist. Even if they don't really think they need one
Hello and good for you on your healing journey. What type of therapist would you recommend for healing and trauma? I’m trying to find one, but I don’t want to take any meds and that’s what I’ve been coming across. They’re trying to prescribe depression medication.
@@Rigoletta53yeah they don't help TH-cam is best
@@Galatea_GanymedeIf you’re always going to depend on a theraphist you’re never going to commit your own mistakes and have to take accountability for your actions. Now you’re just replicating the theraphist’s opinions and experience and learning nothing going forward.
This also plays a big part in being authentic too!! Here's a quote I hope it reaches someone who needs it! "Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are" -Brené Brown
thanks for sharing! 🙏
Thanks so much dear
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻
Vernon Howard said the same, he was an incredible teacher in 50s - he is big on being Authentic & True to oneself & strip all the false identities we obtain, want to be or attachments. So we must practice letting go not only daily, but at every moment - "be vigilant" said Jesus.
Your not actually letting go your just giving it to the universe and not the ego 🤔❤️👁 (makes it a little easier)🤣
that is a good take. I think letting go of the need to let go is part of letting go actually IMHO
Thank you, that does make it easier 🙂
Certainly does, thank you Dante!
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
Dante- you are way ahead of your time- fantastic thought my friend!!
I've been "letting go" for a couple of weeks now and now being aware of all the things that no longer serve me. I'm feeling much better mentally and physically. What a wonderful feeling! You explain it well, thank you 😊❤
ya.....get past it a bit and its a great feeling of strength that returns to your soul.....am almost addicted to that feeling now.........maybe its just my testosterone producing workout......who knows
I just felt the feeling you were talking about and it’s liberating ! Thank you for articulating this !
Your all over thinkers
@@jacksmith1086 head case
@@Brascobadboy jealous ?
This message helps me to know that once I detached from that relationship that serves me no purpose I will open healthier relationships and opportunities that awaits me for being patient in the process. Walking away is so hard but in order to get out of hard situations. I must go through it. That’s the only way I can see myself flourish is if I am able to do something uncomfortable.
You’re enthusiastic and easy to pay attention to
thank you Ashley!
"you wanna be right, at the expense of your happiness"... that's killer
Should be a compromise one side can't give everything the other asks with no return sacrifice
I finally decided to let go of something I’d held so close for a while this morning and within an hour it came back to me, letting go really is the key to having everything you’ve ever desired, TRUST 💖
That is amazing. so easy in theory so hard in practice but I love it that the universe gave you a gift. I find the more I parctice presence and let go of the internal dialogue the less I attach and the more I can let go with ease and grace
@@TheMediumChannel thank you so much that’s lovely of you!! Yes you’re so right, quieting that inner dialogue and just being is such a peaceful way to be and allows us to flow with ease ☺️🙏🏼✨
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻
@@ollieewin4757 Yes I love that, I'm definitely going to use that thanks for sharing! :) I'll check it out!
Just made 444 . Much love
I’m an empath. My husband is toxic. Even though he was literally affecting my physical and emotional state, it was hard letting go. It took everything I had in me to do so. I am 62 yrs old. It took a lot of determination, decision, strength, and courage to leave. I had to drive 2500 miles to come back home where my family lives. He moved us away from my family. I’ve learned so much from these videos and getting support from the comments I read. I’m not alone. No one is alone. We can do this and get our life back on track.
youre amazing ❤
You are brave!Just want you to know!
“You let go to let in. That’s just the way this reality works!” I love that! 💕💕
This video came in divine timing for me. This is exactly what I needed to hear at this exact time. Thank you Aaron!
happy to hear that 🙌
I uploaded a video 2 days ago referring to my breakup and how I moved on. Watch until the end I genuinely think it's worth it. I've had a great response on Instagram, and I'm new to TH-cam
Brotha you is PREACHING!!!!!😭🙌🏾👏🏾 thank you for this!
I'm happiest when I'm God conscious...and exploring His awesome universe! (Salam...peace)
"The universe wants to give you things because you are energetically free" Thanks Aaron!!! ♥️
I listen to this everyday. It's been the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Letting go of control feels good. I'm enough and blessed to just be.
Bella how you finding the results you have achieved?
@@tonyjlorns1727 I'm not quite sure what your question is, yet if you're asking how I let go of control and let things just flow? I stopped caring about everything. Everything does not matter and pertain to me. I allow the people around me to live their lives without judgement, as I want for mine.
Seriously, I needed this right now. I decided to let go yesterday and it's still fresh, and finding this is perfect timing.
No its just the universe doing its work.
No, it is him as individual who made a choice. Don’t put your own responsibility somewhere else. Only weak people do this.
I decided to let go today and I found this video.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him
His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
He is Fatherabulu has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive
You don’t want to let go because you want to be “right”
Thank you brother.
“Let go to Let in”.... thank you Aaron, you can never repeat this message enough to us lower vibe folks. I slip back and forth between letting go a bit and then gripping tightly again. It feels very scary to let go, but I know it is the ultimate end and the right thing to do.
"Happiness is a state of consciousness. You're present in the moment. You're not attached to the outcome."
Sometimes, you find the perfect video in the right moment of your life. Thanks Aaron 😊
Personally, I always envision a cord going from my head to the object of attachment. I cut this with scissors, and imagine the object floating away(like a balloon) and the other side of the cord being pulled back in to my head. This side of the cord represents my freedom, and so I sit and feel gratitude for the fact that I've got it back. I managed to let go of the things that I was most attached to in life by doing this. Instantly upon doing this, something inside of me exhaled, released a whole bunch of tension, and said "finally, I can rest". It was an incredible experience!
Amazing
I think letting go of an attachment isn't easy if u love someone. If ur not emotionally invested then letting go of anything can become easy. However if ur an empath then these terms aren't too easy bc ur always giving and nurturing. If ur a taker then once u feel u have no need 4the other person then walking away is easy. So it depends what type of role u play in the relationship what makes it easy to let go.
Exactly!!
I agree
letting go doesnt mean you stop loving them,.... it means you surrender to whats not in your control. And not allow it or them to be what makes you happy. Letting go doesnt mean you stop loving them. :) All you can really do is trust that what is yours will come back. Its not easy, but healing means growth. And if they want to come back theyll see that as something positive to come back to. Rather than coming back to the same thing.
I'm in this exact problem, I guess what helps is either finding someone who is better or treating yourself like the person who you love the most.
I think one thing that may help is the belief that it isn't easy.. That you are the one giving and nurturing in the relationship.. that creates a sense of "need" or importance which could be allowing your ego the "reason" why it's harder for you and why letting go isn't the same for you as other people(any time there is separation is a good signal that its on the ego realm). As you begin to see what you are getting from ideas and beliefs then you allow yourself the choice to replace it with something that is more beneficial to you and that will take you closer to peace. Hope that makes sense!
This is so true, whenever I am attached to a person, they pull away….let go and they come with an offer 🤗🥳
What do you mean they come with an offer?
Every time I attach they pull away. I'm lonely
@@csillaherczeg How can you develop genuine and deep feelings for someone (love) and not become “attached” to them? You’re “attached” because you’re emotionally connected to them.
Wow! I needed this message so much. I've been attached to a person and it has been causing me a lot of anxiousness. I am going to let go. I am saving this video to keep watching as a reminder! Thank you!
Me too didnt realize it
Update?
It has been working and they are starting to reciprocate more@@rrancani444
I hope you're living in the moment now. ❤
I've been so attached too 'my relationship' and needing constant validation and contact. Like a drug. Thank you for this video. Its giving me so much clarity to detach and let go. Letting things flow naturally. A weight has been taken of my shoulders by this video. Perfect timing. Thank you for sharing our wisdom 🙏
This completely opened my eyes during an extremely difficult time in my personal life. Thank you for the blessing my friend
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I'm only halfway through this video and when I tell you this spoke to my SOUL, it really did. Thank you, Aaron. This randomly showed up on my timeline and I am so grateful that it did.
I NEEDED this more than anyone could know.
I’ve been too attached to the outcome. And I’m ready to let go and be happy with or without. And I’m so so thankful for all of the good things in my life!
Thank you for this video ❤️
I've been putting to much focus on a new relationship, trying to rush things for fear of being hurt again. I am now trying so hard to just let it be , enjoy it and leave it to the universe . Thank you for your wise words x
Going through that now myself. How's it working out for ya?
10:30 spot on dude. During the pandemic last year I was 25 lbs overweight, lethargic, numbing on video games and the worst version of myself...ever. Started dating, and the universe gave me exactly who I deserved...a mirror reflection of my inner state. I CANNOT tell you how true that statement you said is "You'll also attracted someone not whole and complete". Absolutely my friend
Thank you, Aaron and The Universe, for this affirmation. Yesterday, I realized that my desire for and devotion to the man I love was placing an unwanted attachment burden on HIS vibration, and I had to let go, BECAUSE I love him. This video's info gives me hope that letting go will eventually help me accept that loss without feeling loss.
I cried with this video, thank you so much. I feel so much better because I found letting go so difficult. Thank you so much, Aaron. Blessings your way.
Force creates resistance, faith moves mountains😤💪🏽
What if your faith has been altered due to long term abuse, manipulation and trauma? If this core element has been distorted and impacted by the abuser, then how would someone encourage victims to release the disturbing, chaotic, life altering changes that they’ve experienced from their abuser? These effects can last for a lifetime and they will never be the same again. The residual hangover is nothing to take lightly. Though many people often assume that letting go of a false illusion is something easy to do or that it doesn’t take a continuous effort to acknowledge, swallow and reluctantly accept their inhuman actions and/or behavior!!! That’s what keeps some victims and survivors from letting go. Take it or leave it. But it’s the truth, coming from someone who has experienced it first hand. OhhhhLAWD lol
@@amazingrace81 narcissism is definitely the toughest to overcome. But realize you attracted one because of your light, and they’ve tried to dim it or steal it for themselves. Reclaim that light, and eminate it. Kill them with kindness. Allow all their attempts of negativity and verbal abuse to bounce off you. Be the mirror, so that they can see their ugly reflection.
Endlesssoul how do I reclaim my light? By killing them with kindness. How do I allow their attempts to nitpick to bounce off of me? Everyone always says what to do but I don’t know the how. 😔 Thanks for replying
@@amazingrace81 it’s a choice to absorb negativity, a choice to react in anger or frustration, a choice to walk on eggshells. That’s the key, choose to say no I won’t engage in this. Give yourself permission to live your life to the fullest, to say that’s THEIR problem. Because it is. The problem they have with you doesn’t exist outside of THEIR own head. Narcissists are full of insecurity and as soon as you show that they’re attempts to belittle you no longer hold weight, they will cower. Along with being an empath usually comes people pleasing and these narcs subconsciously know that. They assume you will forever be manipulatable. Show them you know who they are and you’re done with the BS. It would freak you out to know how much I resonate with your situation. Took me years to overcome. And you’re right, so much easier said than done. The people you see who seem impenetrable simply chose to be. You owe no one anything Gracie, live for you.
Endlesssoul I stopped engaging in his negativity years ago. The hard part is living my life afterwards. We share a child. Plus, the residual effects still linger. I’ve come a long way but my healing journey isn’t over. Thanks for your support. I’m glad you overcame it. That’s a blessing 💜
This video literally changed my life. Just got the words “Let Go” tattooed onto my wrist tonight. Thank you. ❤️
Wow... Thats super cool....
Hopefully you don't get attached to "Let Go".
@@reald3d23 🤣🤣
So wait....you just literally permanently tattooed the motto of a mantra that is all about impermanence and detaching. Learning to let go....LOL...I thi k you completely missed the point Hun
@@mr.fettesq.7705 you seem fun at parties
Even the ending is so smooth. His glow 🤩 up is so beautiful to watch. He was good before but there is a sense of relaxed, ease that he has now. It’s beautiful to see his work pay off.
crazy how this video actually appeared out of the blue when i actually needed to hear it the most
"It hasn't ever actually served you to be really attached to the outcome of anything" - story of my life
i can't stress enough how much i needed to hear this right now. just got out from a difficult breakup, the wound is still fresh, and I'm trying to find some clarity in it. no one says it will be easy immediately, and that the memories I have with this person will be forgotten. but with time and self-introspection, I will realize that those are just good memories from my past like others. I didn't lose anything. On the contrary, I gained a new life for me that will come and a good friendship that I will develop with this person, maybe even healthier and sincere than our romantic one.
so I really thank you for making me see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I can introduce you to the most powerful relationship restorer who helped me got my ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly
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I'm on minute 5 and this is already one of the most shifting videos I've ever watched💗💗
Thank you! When I asked why I wanted this person back, I couldn’t answer it logically. It made me realize it was just me being hurt and having a bruised ego from being dumped.
Letting go of self limiting beliefs is so crucial to building a life and person you can be proud of
This couldn’t come in a better timing
Great content thanks, just wanted to mention that not everybody is the same in terms of brain functioning to let go of things easily, some people like me have serious challenges due to trauma that makes it very difficult for them to let go of thoughts and emotions. If there are people like me out there, just want to say hi to them and say that I know hard hard it is, you are doing a great and brave job fighting it and trying to find a way, keep up the good job, with love
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Im a bpd. I know exactly what you mean .
thank u
I know exactly what you mean going through the same things. Oh we got to hang in there and be strong and be positive. Thanks will work out just give it some time
Hey man, just want to let you know I’m so grateful for this. I’ve been struggling for over a year now, but you helped me identify what really was wrong: me. I was able to properly reflect for once after seeking so many answers everywhere. This is the bit of information that made me realize I’ve been holding on, resisting, and expecting outcomes to go my way which in turn only creates attachment, neediness and a desire for control of things I can’t tame. Again, thank you! You helped me understand it’s okay to let go, not have to be in control, and to value myself.
It’s startling to realize how obvious the answers make themselves when someone is ready to think and face them. Accepting personal human weakness and feeling the pain is where it’s at.
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my TH-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻😝
Thank you, Aaron, you have taught me a good thing. Proverbs 11 versus 24: One person gives freely, yet gains more; another withholds what is right, only to become poor.
Good stuff. Hope that everyone who is watching this is doing well in their journey! It is never fun or easy to get through some of these tough times. I wish everyone a pure heart and journey.
So true! You have everything you need within you, allow yourself to feel that vibration and watch things soar towards you x
It’s scary to let go of him. The pain is the only thing I have left of him 😭😭😭. Worse thing is I know he’s doing okay and thriving. I’m the only one suffering
I'm stuck there too
This video should help you to let go it definitely is one of the most important videos I have ever seen I just let go of the outcome. I’m so free me Attaching to the Outcome is what’s causing me pain. I just totally let him go. This video makes me realize and small subtle ways I was trying to control him I’m not doing this with a guarantee that he will come back I am doing this from my own peace of mind
@@LonjeMarie7 Ill try..
i feel ya, i know my ex is talking to other girls he’s always been like that plus this is the second time he’s dumped me so i can’t ever let him back
@@mizzcrazygal for sure dont! thats messed up these boys are not it. I only wanted my ex back because I made mistakes too but he doesn't trust me so oh well.
I’m 55 yrs old. My daughter sent me your “Wounded Masculine and Feminine Polarity” video last week, and it was spot on. I began listening to the rest of your videos. I’m in the “Letting Go” playlist. I have to tell you, just from me opening my heart, and really receiving the message, it all really works. Here is how I know: about an hour ago, I drew a small picture on a piece of cardboard. I really want to learn to draw and paint. I LET GO of trying to make it perfect, and just drew it for the enjoyment of drawing (a cat sitting in a window, next to a vase with 2 flowers.) My friend came by my desk and loved it. I was surprised, but, all that you’ve been saying just clicked. I wasn’t concerned about the outcome.
Thank you for all that you’re doing. It works.
I've been hearing this for a long time but it's finally starting to click with me and things are manifesting like crazy now
I came across your videos on tiktok , i guess I needed to listen to you .
Felt asleep listening to you and woke up woth the need to listen to your teachings again !
I claim that someone like urself crosses my path ! 😌
You're a wonderful being . Stay in bleassed ❤
Dude. You make this whole process feel so simple, which before has always felt difficult. I appreciate it bro
Letting go is a ultimate sign of abundance... I think I have to let go of me chasing my ex... It's hard painful
Everyone goes through that. Enjoy your own life instead! She probably is!
Hi I’m 76 granny and today just split with my 14 year long partner in another area , it won’t hurt so much this time as I realise now , if they don’t want to be with you,you certainly don’t want to waste your time on them , when the spark has gone on one or both sides it’s time to end it , I haven’t cried yet , come near to it driving home , but nothing , just numb , but it will pass , when you are indifferent to your ex you will know your truly over them , the best revenge ( if needed) is to be happy ,this really annoys them when they want you to pine over them ,don’t give them that satisfaction a moment longer ,xx
i'm in the exact same position... thats how i ended up here, this opened my eyes so much... i litereally sent a message to her and she didn't respond until now... i hadn't realizaded that THIS is causing me pain... loving her so much that i can't let go, and all that does is hurt me... i let go of her... i wil not feel any pain by that.
@@ghoul2408 don't let someone else steal your happiness... Pain is temporary. Someone more beautiful and understanding will enter your life soon. Good things will come to good people. 👍
@@abhinayramanan7907 thank you so much, its some real hard times im going through, i wish the same to you, hope you’re having a great day
"When you let go, you let in."
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This video has been so eye opening. And its allowed me to realise how unhealthy my mind has been and motivating me to make the right changes. But its daunting because i realise i NEED to rebuild my whole thought process and i feel both hopeless yet motivated at the same time.
This last month I feel this different energy from Aaron, its giving me an energy of him not being attached anymore or less then before, he use to try hard to be funny, you can tell but now, it's like he doesn't care anymore and it's such a magnet energy, literally what he's talking about in the video
Everything is this life experience is TEMPORARY anyways. So letting go should be easy once a person realizes their consciousness ( spirit body) is much longer lasting then the temporary constructs to this current experience.
Oooo I like that
@@marianavilla2847 Sending you positive energy right now
This was framed in a way that lifted a weight off my shoulders, thank you internet stranger.
@@claudiao7743 Hi!! TY for your beautiful comment sending you good vibes PEACE!!
Wow. I needed to hear that. It was so eloquently put, tooo.. Love that!
This video has just unblocked my deep rooted beliefs which has had me stuck. Thank you for being here.
Your videos helped me through my first break up in high school. 3 years later you’re helping me through my second one. I truly appreciate your videos ❤
"Let go to let in"... Blessings brother, thank you.
This is so good! I didn’t realize that keep thinking about the outcome is an attachment until now, while it’s a work in progress I keep think about achieving the planned outcome and that’s causing me anxiety... enjoy the moment and don’t overthink👌
Just simple,, “ Do not expect anything from anyone or don’t get too much attached unless he/she feel the same way towards “.Peace be unto you✌🏻✌🏻Stay safe everyone 🙏😘
How to do that?