hi everyone! this meditation is specifically designed to help you attract love & relationships in 2020! listen for the next 21 days and watch your life transform :) th-cam.com/video/urLm5MfM1Tw/w-d-xo.html
thank you honey! you give the advises at the right time! explain about "act as if concept" with this topic! most of times thats a point i feel like sometimes it keeps specific person on a pedastle ! but that is a powerful loa method! so pls make a video about the way to keep balance with that method!! thank you!
Chasing someone always feels wrong. No one is that important. The right person with the same vibration as you will come into your life. It is amazing to have all of these comments and likes, especially all these years later! Thank you!
1. Create the fear of losing you 2. Avoid being always available 3. Maintain some mystery 4. Allow them to invest in you 5. Prioritize your needs 6. Don’t make them the center of your life 7. Stop initiating communication all the time 8. Create your own happiness 9. Be willing to walk away
Love the idea of not limiting ourselves to just one person. There are so many possibilities out there! Time to shift from scarcity to abundance mindset.
I lost 5 years of my life behind someone who never appreciated me. I only ended up hating and hurting myself. Trust me guys, it's not worth it. This video teaches us to appreciate and respect ourselves. Keep up the good work everyone.
I’m so stuck between reach out to convey my love is true and don’t reach out cuz I’ll come off as needy. My girlfriend of 2.5 years just broke up with me because she essentially felt the same way. She said I hadn’t been affectionate or loving for some time. She had said things like you never cuddle me or tend to me like I do you when your sick. She honestly does nurture so well. She is a goddess. But what she’s thinking is not the case, and if only the loving universe would open up a space for just long enough for me to show her otherwise. I do agree, I was lacking for probably the last 6 months. I got complacent and comfy. But comfy like an 80 year old couple. Honestly tho in the beginning I was wary and careful, not wanting to hurt another soul, nor hers or thy own. And I wasn’t too quick to jump the gun of i am content with this human. But I had a strong hunch. Sincerely though, every week that goes by I have been thinking more and more that this is indeed the one I’m willing to share my soul with for eons to come. Which is ironic that I became slowly less and less spontaneous, romantic, and affectionate as time had aged us. 6 months ago, about the same time that I could feel us lacking something, I didn’t realize it but in hind sight that’s what it was. Anyways this 6 months ago was the same time I picked up a night shift from 6 pm - 6:30 AM. My girlfriend works 7:15 AM - 6:15 pm. So our schedules literally became opposite. I went from working for myself and spending all this time with her to pretty much 1 day a week. And maybe some hours. I mean think about it tho, I go Into work 15 min before she gets off. So when can we talk, on those days, thur, fri, and sat. we live separately by the way, anyways we’re both off Sunday but I get off Sunday morning at 6:30 AM from my sat night shift and go home to go to bed. I just got off a 12 hour shift and am exhausted and just want to zonk. So I sleep till 5 in the afternoon, wake up and get ready and am to her house around 6ish. She falls asleep early around 10 so we only have a few hours. We also had Mondays together but she deff passes out by 10 on work nights, which is totally cool, that’s not the thing, what happens is both Sunday and Monday I’m still on night mode schedule so I stay up watching tv on my phone till 4 AM. I don’t watch the tv cuz it’s loud and bright so I use my phone with subtitles so she can sleep. But she likes to cuddle, and I can’t really get up in bear hug hibernation mode while I’m wide awake for 6 more hours. Unless maybe I practice hardcore meditation. The body can only sleep so much. I guess I could sleep deprived myself after work sat night so we could have all of Sunday together and then sleep and cuddle together. But that’s not healthy. So anyways she gets upset that I keep her up at night which I don’t mean to do. But apparently she doesn’t sleep as well when I’m awake on the bed watching the flix on my phone. That does make sense. I feel kinda bad. Anyways, then I’m off Tuesday and Wednesday which I would use to work on jewelry. In hindsight I should have devoted one of those nights to cooking her dinner after she got off work. We broke up last Sat. about a month ago she wasn’t feeling well and asked for me to come to her and help. I ducked up and gave attitude and said I’m working on something ): this tears my heart now thinking how I could even say that when my significant other was in distress. I ended up going but then I left to come back to the shop and finish what I was working on. This is when it went the relationship went from okay but distanced from off balance schedules and lack of communicating to essentially her starting to think I have no love for her and so why should she be with me when another would treat her like a true girlfriend. This is my opinion and perspective not her words keep in mind. Anyways then the last couple weeks went by with probably the least communication and for a month we have had these tickets that her boss gave her for a beer festival. I took the sat off to go with and was so excited. But got home from work sat morning at 6:30 AM(my fri night shift). And could not get to sleep! So 9 AM rolls around and I’m thinking how TF can I wake up in 1 hour and go to this beer fest. In hindsight shoulda taken Friday off and slept at a normal person time. But I told her I didn’t think it would be the best idea for me to go to a beer fest with 2 hours of sleep. I bailed hours before we were supposed to leave ): not because I didn’t want to go but because of work. She got home from this event with her friend and essentially dropped the bomb on me, asking why I’ve given no affection, I was stone cold, couldn’t come up with a reason. Just so distraught feeling and like an idiot. But it’s not like what she was thinking! If I could think at the time I would have said ALL of this! To sum everything up, I feel that a lack of communication and genuine time together from opposite schedules led to distance which led to doubts. It’s hard to be intimate and affectionate when you don’t even communicate and are essentially living in 2 diff time zones. Then to add to that I was seriously deep in my mind the last 6 months figuring out what I wanted to do. Obviously the night shift was a crutch until I took my next step, I got a new job as a jeweler. It’s what I enjoy making so i wouldn’t mind punching in for that. All while still building my own business. My last day on night shifts was literally the day before our split. I started my new job Monday. 8 am -7pm 4 days a week. And we have sat and sundays off both and also would be sleeping at the same time. I could wake up and send a good morning text. Cuddle her to sleep, the little things that she missed so much that I wasn’t delivering. Then when she was dropping the bomb I tried explaining the schedule thing and how we literally had no time together like we use to. but in like 10 words. And couldn’t articulate shit. And said that o was doing it so that we could be on the same schedule. She said I shouldn’t be doing things for her but because I want to and for me. But that’s not what I meant, im doing it for me first and foremost, that’s why I picked jewelry. But I am also doing it for us yes. For our happiness. And so that I could actually spend this life on the same frequency as my hopeful wife, and again, I picked something I was passionate about. And something that was stable, that could raise a family. Because for 5 years I’ve been trying to be my own boss and start my own business’ but that’s risky, and if it doesn’t work out and I don’t have support in the bank down the road what the hell am I. Maybe she saw that daredevil go getter boss @$$ attitude fade into secure, predictable, safe attitude and that was a turnoff. Just a thought. Maybe I’m wrong it really was just my lack of initiation, hand holding, cuddling, and affection that drove her so far away. She use to call every night, and even though sometimes I’d be busy wanting to get back to making whatever stupid thing was distracting me, I love her presence so much. And I miss those 2 hour phone calls till one of us falls asleep so much. I wish it wouldn’t have taken so much distance between us for me to realize. That saying of you don’t know what you have until it’s gone hits so deep. I have been in my mind since this night shift gig trying to make big moves now to set up for security and a family; which was distracting me from the the love right in front of me. I wasn’t cheating, wasn’t talking to anyone else, which is cheating, I just wasn’t there emotionally or physically for long enough for her to doubt my love. I wish I could convey all this somehow. God I’ll never get complacent again. No matter the matter
Take them *OFF* the pedestal, relax and know that if it's meant to be it WILL be. *Surrender* and *trust* that everything is working out in your favor and things come at the *right time* Nothing is ever *too* important
“You are the star of your own movie” yeah “Home Alone” Thanks for all the likes and comments guys! I seriously didn’t think this comment would even reach this much recognition 😂 thanks again!
To the person reading this: You are so, so worthy of love ❤️ Edit: Keep up the loving vibes in the comments! What you give always comes back :) You're amazing!
The bottom line is, focus to yourself. When you focus to yourself, your energy is yourself and you gain your power back. When you are in power, they will chase you.
Unless, unfortunately, you are a very physically unattractive person. I’m not too bad looking (based on the many women I’ve banged over the years) and still, the pullback doesn’t always work.
@@janusgreenway6934 there in lies the point. When everybody focuses on themselves and can truly be themselves, things happen more naturally, your interactions with people become more fluid and that’s when you start to connect with others more organically. This will in turn, build actual relationships and you can get to know the actual person, not a caricature of them. I also have noticed the best relationships are the ones that go slow and people are actual friends before moving into relationship territory.
It's not about you not caring. It's just about enriching your own life. That's when people come across you and find you attractive, because you're on your own path. It's about you. Once you got that confidence, then you see who is suitable to be a part of your journey
Edit: Thank you for the many likes! 😊 Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things it will come and sit quietly on your shoulder.
@@ShiaGirl18 ok another thing I need ur perspective I was in a 2 month relationship with this girl she broke up with me cause I was an improper bf tbh. She said I didn’t have much say in the relationship and she felt like she had the balls in the relationship I didn’t say much and I tried to be someone I wasn’t ( because I wanted to be perfect for her but I was perfect for her in the beginning) anyways it’s been 6 months since the break up and In the beginning of it it was nothing but mixed signals her telling me she missed me , she wanted to see me , and she didn’t respect my request for space. When I thought she wanted us back together I tried to make a move only for her to move back and shzz. Then we started arguing a lot cause the mixed signals thing I wanted a second chance she didn’t we kept arguing and we kept not respect each others space. It just got to the point where I blocked her then unblocked her only for her to block me and then unblock me and her deleting me on everything but only for her to add me back on snap only. What I wanna know is what s there still a chance for me and if u can give me any advice only advice I got was move on , wait and see what she does between us , or act like her friend
J2 tha c If the mindset is same, then the destination will also be same. So neither you have to chase your dreams nor your dreams have to come after you. You and your dream will meet together at your destination. Mic drop*!
I’m starting to have this belief. That if it’s the right person nothing I say or do will make them leave. Regardless of whether I’ve put them on this pedestal.
You definitely won’t attract the person by sitting in your basement wishing and wanting. Get out and enjoy your life with no expectations and you will be surprised what happens!
Tbh I've had guys want to get with me while I literally sat in my basement, doing nothin :') It was by choice tho When you're of a higher level of consciousness, things emerge more readily, land in your lap etc as there is less inner resistance so things do come to you on their own lolol It's regarding all things, not just relationship. I have a thought, the thought then happens as physical, pretty much right away, etc
If you’re chasing someone that means other person is running, thats the utter truth someone could told me. I literally can’t thank you enough, Aaron. I really needed someone to told me that.
One guy keep chasing and crying for few months ; even she block him from all contact but due to her friend she was force to unblock and met . Now she is in love with him . What you say in this ?
I think that a good way to accomplish this is to take a break(or completely disable) from social media. Whether it's friends or celebrities....if you're sending the same tweets to the same specific people, everyday.....they will have the "So what else is new?" mentality.
Yeah, I tried with my ex-gf, so I am just in no contact, keeping away from social media, meditating, walking a lot, and started working out. I am focusing on myself. Yeah, if you're running after someone, they just won't think you're so special. You have to respect yourself.
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I just started saying these words… I do not chase I attract what belongs to me will find 😊me! … I am valuable!! 💎💫 and before listening to this video I stopped immediately in chasing! I truly believe that the universe will send my person. Patience is key! Thank you for sharing this information!!
I don't want someone chasing or putting me on a pedestal - i just want equal effort and it being genuine and natural. Wanting someone to chase you sounds narcissistic and needy.
I was chased at first, but I wanted to put equal effort and that's when he slowly began to pull away. I wasn't being needy, I just wanted to be equals, but some guys don't see it that way and just take a good woman for granted.
I know someone who is so like me, or so it seems. I'm not even a blip on his radar. So not so sure about what you are saying. But did get some good points from his video.
I totally agree, even though I know how hard self-love is. But I also think that investing in yourself is so much important than chasing a specific person. It just is not worth it!
It is not a matter of control, it is a matter of balance. I was in the right relationship for a period of time and still encountered a power struggle every now and then, duality.
I needed to hear this today. I've been acting so desperate for so many days that I lost my sleep, appetite and self-worth over it. I'm so glad I could listen to this today. The love we seek outside is already within us. We just need to give that opportunity to ourselves to find it and embrace it. Whatever is meant for us will find us eventually. Until then, let's enjoy this blessing called life. God sent us on this Earth with a purpose bigger than pleasing a few individuals. I hope everyone finds that love within themselves.😃 Sending happy vibes to everyone out there!!!!
Everything you said is so true. When I relaxed and let go, he came back and I ignored him. He apologized for everything he did to me, I forgave and let him be. Now he is trying to chase me just like I did once and guess what I am not interested. I have moved on in a positive way. I love myself so much more now..thanks :)
that what I am saying I really wanted to talk to a girl you know chat and hook up, but they never replied back, sooner or later they will want to chat with me only I don't know if I should reply back because It really hurts when you are ghosted by someone, but ignoring them back is probably best because you don't appear to needy.
Detach from the outcome, let it go. You are always manifesting something, even if you’re manifesting things not manifesting. Trust the process. ~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction TH-camr💜
That is actually a contradiction according to this theory. Right? Celebrity's don't chase each other? Robin Williams didn't. I love that celebrity and know we would have made perfect couple.
You could look at this in a a way to seek to be continually self improving, seek to become want you want to attract, learn how to play guitar, surf, etc for no one but yourself and those people will come
Just be yourself. It's not a game - it's a two way relationship caring for each other. Show your feelings - life is too short for these pathetic games.
vinayaga be with me make yourself believe without a doubt in your mind that you are worthy and you are extremely high value and that you are the absolute best! Believe it believe it believe it💕Girl I’m sooo in this same situation... read this once somewhere... when you run to God, he makes his creation run to you ♥️
Just had a break up from a 3years of relationship. And now I feel like I was in a coma or something. I totally forgot about my dreams, my personality, my hobbies. All I cared about was making her happy. But now I feel like I'm awake. Thank God it happened. Can't imagine how much I'm about to upgrade myself! Daymn this breakup was all I needed.
@Kane Henry thanks brother but no I don't want her back cuz again I'll be in the same stage and I know this is not my identify I'm much better than the person I am today. I have to improve myself so I can be worthy of better person than her.
@@naomiloriana1367 Thank you, bro. But the problem is I've had only one girl in my life (a long time ago). I didn't like her much, cause l bonded with her only to know what a relationship is. I just need to change my mindset, it makes me anxious when I talk to women and I then I stuck in a friend zone. Thank you, sorry for grammar mistakes (non-English speaker).
What he’s explaining in the “twin flame” journey and what it leads to is his advice, finding the love within yourself instead of basing your happiness on the love another.
Man, wish had understood these truths years ago. I kept thinking if I could just find someone who loved me, I would be happy. I didn’t realize you have to be happy first before you can have a healthy relationship with someone. It is a massive hurdle to overcome but you have to overcome it on your own. No one else can do it for you.
I stopped texting him first. Almost 3 days later he texts me , asks me to meet up always and guess what? Asked me out for a date on Valentine's. All you gotta do is value yourself, trust and let go. The universe plays the cupid!❤
Preetha Bose a wonderful guy who has been living with me since Oct - took me out for a beautiful dinner tonight for Valentine’s Day. Then proceeded to tell me that he will never love me - that he only likes me as a friend - he was silent at during the dinner date tonight and took me home after at 8 pm - then left immediately to go to his favourite (very skid/gross and boring) neighbourhood bar until 2 am. He told me when he returned that he would never love me more than a friend. I put (as we women do) so much work into looking my best and beautiful for our date out tonight. I can’t express how sad and terrible all of this tonight made me feel. Why ? Take me out for dinner /cocktails. He paid the very high bill (as he always does when he takes me out for dinner.) he doesn’t have regrets or resent paying. I’m so confused and hurt. I’ve been crying all night and can’t sleep. I have never experienced something like this before. I normally go out in the past with men who do like me and love me. 😢😭😣😩
The part about them feeling the energetic shift when you pull away really hit me. When you were chasing, they could feel your desperation and it pushed them away. The release of that energy is so real. Let go. Let them come to you. I love it.
@@MrEliteGamer01 No, you show interest without chasing. You don't leave them on read, you reply because you're interested, but you still keep your life, interests and self worth. Not chasing doesn't mean ghosting.
Omg. Universe is really with me and m so greatful for this. I really needed to hear this today. I dont know where this came in front of me from nowhere. Thank you universe 🙏🙌
I am suddenly being ignored by a girl i liked rn, i had been waiting for a long time and decided i should try my luck, but it gets worse everytime, it's bad idea to be a good guy, to be caring. Be a bad boy and only think about getting into her pants, it would be fun.
@@akshayp5263 don't let this girl ruin healthy relations for you. Being a bad boy, as you call it, will just give you very unfullfiling series of dates that will leave you deeply broken inside.
Honestly, I've never felt like this before in my life, I feel completely lost ... all of my friends and family can see it. It's mentally making me ill. I stupidly tried contacting her yesterday telling how I felt I now regret it as there was no reply. These videos do help me but I know I've got a long way to go before I heal from this breakup.
Aaron your videos taught me a lot about self worth and detachment. Watching your videos definitely helped me get away from that anxious, scarcity mindset, that needy energy which always caused me to over-invest into someone and eventually spoil them and make them devalue me. Everytime I feel like I am turning back to that state of mind, I come and watch your videos to remind myself how worthy and valuable I am!
a guy ghosted me probably because he felt that i was too into him and gave him too much attention, he was the one who chased me in the beginning and was super interested but the energy switched and he lost interest. I wished him to come back and thought about him constantly for months but still didn’t hear anything from him for a long period, at some point I moved on and accepted the fact that he’s gone and guess what happened? a few days (about 5 or 6 days) after I moved on he contacted me out of nowhere and was super interested, like he felt that his intentions weren’t good tho and I wish I had dumped him earlier but the fact that he came back ONLY when my energy has changed proved himself.
I am going through this right now dating a girl for a few months and we had it going on so great and she told me today literally that it's over we're not compatible...
Sameee, I’ve been talking to this guy for 2 months and at the beginning he was super interested in me but now I feel like he doesn’t care at all and it’s so frustrating.
I really am. I am a voice-over actress and I chased so many people. Degrading myself, not knowing my worth. I now know that I'm the STAR and not them. Ty for creating this video.
Meet a lot of diverse people, have fun(because life is shorter than you think)....and give back. So many people put their crushes, other attractive people, and celebrities on a pedstal. Meanwhile, many people who live in poverty are ignored....as if they don't exist. I've seen it a lot in Chicago, and it's truly sad.
I wish I would have been in your life, I would have loved you like princess. If it's possible we can know each other. I am tired of also giving love and not getting back.
I m in a relationship.. i am being hurt so many fucking times.. every fucking day caring more.. this care even turned out to be cage, n i was a good damn "pretender".... i lost myself n also fucked off mine self respect....!! From today, i want her to show her move... i wont stop loving her but showing her and crying for her... wish me luck...!!
I want you to know ... I felt what you said 100 about your care being a cage. I hear you ... metaphors are so powerful... care shouldn’t be a cage but yeah in abuse you’re only supposed to care for them and never yourself and meanwhile, they’re not even really caring for you (those kind of people in that kind of a relationship)... I’ll be contemplating that metaphor for a WHILE.
I just watched this video repeatedly. It resonated so deeply with me, as I have been dating someone for six months and have been very anxious about them as I was putting them on a pedestal. Thank you for your insights, they are spot on!
Actually this girl wanted me to chase her, I texted her for a couple times and I was like fuck this I'm out....lol still single but I really enjoy it. Lol
John Wilkening I can tell you from my standpoint, most of us like a guy to be just a bit hard to get. If he’s always there and chasing like a puppy it is boring and even annoying. Plus, if you have to chase then the other person has already let go and it’s a waste of your time anyway. Like a dog chasing its tail. Pointless!
This is an older video you did and I probably saw it before but recently saw it again and it seemed to make more sense this time because I have a few women contacting me on a regular basis and I put neither of them on a pedestal but enjoy the attention and conversation with them, what's even more interesting is they both are very financially secure, I don't process the wealth they have but I don't see them better than me in that respect because my confidence in myself and the fact that I don't care whether they are attracted to me or not keeps them interested, I don't tell them I don't care I keep to myself but the dynamic is interesting and true when you don't care they come. I find your tropics informative and in many cases entertaining you have a great way of getting the message across with a little humor and fun. Thanks Man good stuff
When you chase someone.. someone else is running.... What you need is relax and chill... I'm adjusting my energy dynamics. Thank you so much Aaron 🥰 This is so timely.
I wanna she moved to California so bad because people are Excepting of others they don’t care how you are where I live people treat other people like shit and I’m so tired of it
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When you chase something or someone, you put yourself in a state of chasing. That’s why you never “get” it. If you place yourself in a state of “having”, you will “have” it. 🙏
When you started to think' i need this person to chase me', you're already in a wrong place. Not him/her chasing you, not you chasing him/her. Love is love,and it's all about equal efforts. If you love someone,the more they give efforts in you,the more you wants to give back. Remember if you think you'll never find someone like him/her,yes you're right coz you're going to find a better person. 💪 I promise.
I love how it actually works like that not only with women, but also pretty much with everything else you want in life... Stop vibrating "in the absence of it", and start vibrating "in the presence of it"! ✨
My wife recently cheated on me, it made me realise I should have been a better husband and I love her more than I thought. Im now stuck in this chasing / not chasing limbo. Time feels like its standing still trying to battling with my emotions. I wish you all the love in the world if you are struggling with love.
hi everyone! this meditation is specifically designed to help you attract love & relationships in 2020! listen for the next 21 days and watch your life transform :) th-cam.com/video/urLm5MfM1Tw/w-d-xo.html
Thank you . 💜
thank you honey! you give the advises at the right time! explain about "act as if concept" with this topic! most of times thats a point i feel like sometimes it keeps specific person on a pedastle ! but that is a powerful loa method! so pls make a video about the way to keep balance with that method!! thank you!
What place you are now dude?
Dear Aaron is it useful for those who already are in a relationship?? In order to bring more love and intimacy into the relationship?
@@sweets5785 It is.
They always come back when you stop caring.
I hope so.
Stephanie Dekinger wrong mind set
Not always.
How the hell do u stop caring and y💔
literally every time lmao
" if you treat someone like a celebrity they will treat you like a fan" love this quote
So instead get the other person to treat u like a celebrity
@@nimanixo well that's cool.
correct..be a King if you wanna treat her like a Queen..most onf men they’re become servant of the Queen...
Veronica Atkins truth
Love this
Chasing someone always feels wrong. No one is that important. The right person with the same vibration as you will come into your life.
It is amazing to have all of these comments and likes, especially all these years later! Thank you!
Nathaniel Wilson well said sir
Yessssss. Effort=resistance
1000% well said friend!🙌
Best thing a guy I was chasing ever said to me: "When you chase someone this hard, it's never about the other person."
@@presentfuture7563 Wow, that's deep!
1. Create the fear of losing you
2. Avoid being always available
3. Maintain some mystery
4. Allow them to invest in you
5. Prioritize your needs
6. Don’t make them the center of your life
7. Stop initiating communication all the time
8. Create your own happiness
9. Be willing to walk away
Thanks ❤
Love the idea of not limiting ourselves to just one person. There are so many possibilities out there! Time to shift from scarcity to abundance mindset.
The person that cares less about the relationship controls the relationship
EL MEXICANO MALCOLM X facts
You are right on the money there
So true!
Very well said!!
Sucks when kids are involved and the kids sense one parent sux
“Don’t you see when you’re chasing someone, the other person is running” woah
Nice pic
Yeh this hit me too
Verrg fkn hard
Haha
Selfish desire
Walk away that's self respect. Never beg for love. It will come in Gods perfect timing.
Amen 🙏
yup
Indeed
If you put god first and not them 🙏
Yes... easier said than done at first but with practice the concept gets easier and simpler ...
I lost 5 years of my life behind someone who never appreciated me. I only ended up hating and hurting myself. Trust me guys, it's not worth it. This video teaches us to appreciate and respect ourselves. Keep up the good work everyone.
I’m so stuck between reach out to convey my love is true and don’t reach out cuz I’ll come off as needy. My girlfriend of 2.5 years just broke up with me because she essentially felt the same way. She said I hadn’t been affectionate or loving for some time. She had said things like you never cuddle me or tend to me like I do you when your sick. She honestly does nurture so well. She is a goddess. But what she’s thinking is not the case, and if only the loving universe would open up a space for just long enough for me to show her otherwise. I do agree, I was lacking for probably the last 6 months. I got complacent and comfy. But comfy like an 80 year old couple. Honestly tho in the beginning I was wary and careful, not wanting to hurt another soul, nor hers or thy own. And I wasn’t too quick to jump the gun of i am content with this human. But I had a strong hunch. Sincerely though, every week that goes by I have been thinking more and more that this is indeed the one I’m willing to share my soul with for eons to come. Which is ironic that I became slowly less and less spontaneous, romantic, and affectionate as time had aged us. 6 months ago, about the same time that I could feel us lacking something, I didn’t realize it but in hind sight that’s what it was. Anyways this 6 months ago was the same time I picked up a night shift from 6 pm - 6:30 AM. My girlfriend works 7:15 AM - 6:15 pm. So our schedules literally became opposite. I went from working for myself and spending all this time with her to pretty much 1 day a week. And maybe some hours. I mean think about it tho, I go Into work 15 min before she gets off. So when can we talk, on those days, thur, fri, and sat. we live separately by the way, anyways we’re both off Sunday but I get off Sunday morning at 6:30 AM from my sat night shift and go home to go to bed. I just got off a 12 hour shift and am exhausted and just want to zonk. So I sleep till 5 in the afternoon, wake up and get ready and am to her house around 6ish. She falls asleep early around 10 so we only have a few hours. We also had Mondays together but she deff passes out by 10 on work nights, which is totally cool, that’s not the thing, what happens is both Sunday and Monday I’m still on night mode schedule so I stay up watching tv on my phone till 4 AM. I don’t watch the tv cuz it’s loud and bright so I use my phone with subtitles so she can sleep. But she likes to cuddle, and I can’t really get up in bear hug hibernation mode while I’m wide awake for 6 more hours. Unless maybe I practice hardcore meditation. The body can only sleep so much. I guess I could sleep deprived myself after work sat night so we could have all of Sunday together and then sleep and cuddle together. But that’s not healthy. So anyways she gets upset that I keep her up at night which I don’t mean to do. But apparently she doesn’t sleep as well when I’m awake on the bed watching the flix on my phone. That does make sense. I feel kinda bad. Anyways, then I’m off Tuesday and Wednesday which I would use to work on jewelry. In hindsight I should have devoted one of those nights to cooking her dinner after she got off work. We broke up last Sat. about a month ago she wasn’t feeling well and asked for me to come to her and help. I ducked up and gave attitude and said I’m working on something ): this tears my heart now thinking how I could even say that when my significant other was in distress. I ended up going but then I left to come back to the shop and finish what I was working on. This is when it went the relationship went from okay but distanced from off balance schedules and lack of communicating to essentially her starting to think I have no love for her and so why should she be with me when another would treat her like a true girlfriend. This is my opinion and perspective not her words keep in mind. Anyways then the last couple weeks went by with probably the least communication and for a month we have had these tickets that her boss gave her for a beer festival. I took the sat off to go with and was so excited. But got home from work sat morning at 6:30 AM(my fri night shift). And could not get to sleep! So 9 AM rolls around and I’m thinking how TF can I wake up in 1 hour and go to this beer fest. In hindsight shoulda taken Friday off and slept at a normal person time. But I told her I didn’t think it would be the best idea for me to go to a beer fest with 2 hours of sleep. I bailed hours before we were supposed to leave ): not because I didn’t want to go but because of work. She got home from this event with her friend and essentially dropped the bomb on me, asking why I’ve given no affection, I was stone cold, couldn’t come up with a reason. Just so distraught feeling and like an idiot. But it’s not like what she was thinking! If I could think at the time I would have said ALL of this! To sum everything up, I feel that a lack of communication and genuine time together from opposite schedules led to distance which led to doubts. It’s hard to be intimate and affectionate when you don’t even communicate and are essentially living in 2 diff time zones. Then to add to that I was seriously deep in my mind the last 6 months figuring out what I wanted to do. Obviously the night shift was a crutch until I took my next step, I got a new job as a jeweler. It’s what I enjoy making so i wouldn’t mind punching in for that. All while still building my own business. My last day on night shifts was literally the day before our split. I started my new job Monday. 8 am -7pm 4 days a week. And we have sat and sundays off both and also would be sleeping at the same time. I could wake up and send a good morning text. Cuddle her to sleep, the little things that she missed so much that I wasn’t delivering. Then when she was dropping the bomb I tried explaining the schedule thing and how we literally had no time together like we use to. but in like 10 words. And couldn’t articulate shit. And said that o was doing it so that we could be on the same schedule. She said I shouldn’t be doing things for her but because I want to and for me. But that’s not what I meant, im doing it for me first and foremost, that’s why I picked jewelry. But I am also doing it for us yes. For our happiness. And so that I could actually spend this life on the same frequency as my hopeful wife, and again, I picked something I was passionate about. And something that was stable, that could raise a family. Because for 5 years I’ve been trying to be my own boss and start my own business’ but that’s risky, and if it doesn’t work out and I don’t have support in the bank down the road what the hell am I. Maybe she saw that daredevil go getter boss @$$ attitude fade into secure, predictable, safe attitude and that was a turnoff. Just a thought. Maybe I’m wrong it really was just my lack of initiation, hand holding, cuddling, and affection that drove her so far away. She use to call every night, and even though sometimes I’d be busy wanting to get back to making whatever stupid thing was distracting me, I love her presence so much. And I miss those 2 hour phone calls till one of us falls asleep so much. I wish it wouldn’t have taken so much distance between us for me to realize. That saying of you don’t know what you have until it’s gone hits so deep. I have been in my mind since this night shift gig trying to make big moves now to set up for security and a family; which was distracting me from the the love right in front of me. I wasn’t cheating, wasn’t talking to anyone else, which is cheating, I just wasn’t there emotionally or physically for long enough for her to doubt my love. I wish I could convey all this somehow. God I’ll never get complacent again. No matter the matter
@@Laotzsaso hows it going so far were you able to fix things at all im currently in a similar situation
Ive lost 4
I’m trying to break away now. Wish me luck guys
16 years here. Love yourself everyone
@@Laotzsa I made same nistake, went complacent. Mine now said she is out of love. Any update?
Basically choose people who choose you ... And choose yourself over everyone's else ......
thanks. I really need this.
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@@sampreetiacharjya969 thanks again for your uplifting and kind words. may Universe bless you. :)
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Well said.
Take them *OFF* the pedestal, relax and know that if it's meant to be it WILL be. *Surrender* and *trust* that everything is working out in your favor and things come at the *right time*
Nothing is ever *too* important
Love that, life becomes so magical when we relax...
@@davidfilipovic2866 yes!!!! It changes everything David !
"If you want it, its meant to be"- Abraham Hicks
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Erika sweetheart you are so right ! Love you darling!
“You are the star of your own movie” yeah “Home Alone”
Thanks for all the likes and comments guys! I seriously didn’t think this comment would even reach this much recognition 😂 thanks again!
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thankyou for making me smile lol
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hahaha..i love this one
"Do you notice when anyone's chasing someone else, it implies that the other person is running?"
This really resonates with me
I uh… wow
“If you treat someone like a celebrity, they will treat you like a fan.” Well said Aaron. Thank you for inspiring me to make videos 🙏🏾
Appreciate you bro!
Yes sir! He inspires me to do the same! Good luck with your channel brother!💯
literally I came to the comments just to quote that first sentence too.
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Vershon Charles haha yes! good shit...I love Aaron
Whoever left your life was not tied to your destiny. Let them go. Continue on your destiny. Better will come.
dbedazzling1 thank you i needed to hear this.❤️
AMEN
444❤️😁so true
TD jakes
Needed to hear this!
Never chase someone instead love and work on yourself, we don't need anyone to make ourselves happy...
Yeah but you need someone if you want a family lol
@@Caolan-b6rmaybe if you detach yourself from the outcome it will one day come to you
To the person reading this:
You are so, so worthy of love ❤️
Edit: Keep up the loving vibes in the comments! What you give always comes back :) You're amazing!
Thanks, so does the person writing the comment above.
Hey positive energy can I get your number?
No one told me this ever.... thanks 🙈
I know :) [thumbs up emoji]
Yeah, I know. But thanks anyway.
“I started dating later in life, 16 or 17”
Dude, I’m 20 years old and never been in any romantic relationship. :/
s a m e
You did'nt miss much
I’m 29 and have never had a romantic relationship
31 here! Only once for few months and since then lonely.
manjeet singh same
The bottom line is, focus to yourself. When you focus to yourself, your energy is yourself and you gain your power back. When you are in power, they will chase you.
Unless, unfortunately, you are a very physically unattractive person. I’m not too bad looking (based on the many women I’ve banged over the years) and still, the pullback doesn’t always work.
But what happens if they do the same thing?
@@janusgreenway6934 there in lies the point. When everybody focuses on themselves and can truly be themselves, things happen more naturally, your interactions with people become more fluid and that’s when you start to connect with others more organically. This will in turn, build actual relationships and you can get to know the actual person, not a caricature of them. I also have noticed the best relationships are the ones that go slow and people are actual friends before moving into relationship territory.
But what if they watched this video so they won't chase..
Nae you still have to be high value, you could put all your energy into loving yourself but won't make others love you
It's not about you not caring. It's just about enriching your own life. That's when people come across you and find you attractive, because you're on your own path.
It's about you. Once you got that confidence, then you see who is suitable to be a part of your journey
"if you treat someone like a celebrity they will treat you like a fan" WOW
@Sol Cutta how is it bs?
@Sol Cutta yepp
Yes....and fan is short for FANATIC.
I wouldn't because I'm humble.
I treated my Gf like a.. Ac
Whatever you chase , will run away..
When the energy is right and it is meant to be, it will happen naturaly.
No need to chase anything❤❤
I really appreciate you and your helpful video thank u 🤗👍
@@odijana79dijana31 Thanx but I didn't make the video....
Bruh I'm finna start chasing bills, bill collectors, doctors, n some more... lol
@@ternon83 lol
giovanna, the first two sentences of your comment settled it....I am done. Am moving forward with my one month old now. thank you
Edit: Thank you for the many likes! 😊
Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things it will come and sit quietly on your shoulder.
Love this❤
@@roscinapatterson7509 Thank you!
@@ShiaGirl18 u honestly think if I stop chasing my ex she will come back
@@dannyboym4260 If you pay less attention to someone, he or she will miss your attention. This prompts the individual to seek you out.
@@ShiaGirl18 ok another thing I need ur perspective I was in a 2 month relationship with this girl she broke up with me cause I was an improper bf tbh. She said I didn’t have much say in the relationship and she felt like she had the balls in the relationship I didn’t say much and I tried to be someone I wasn’t ( because I wanted to be perfect for her but I was perfect for her in the beginning) anyways it’s been 6 months since the break up and In the beginning of it it was nothing but mixed signals her telling me she missed me , she wanted to see me , and she didn’t respect my request for space. When I thought she wanted us back together I tried to make a move only for her to move back and shzz. Then we started arguing a lot cause the mixed signals thing I wanted a second chance she didn’t we kept arguing and we kept not respect each others space. It just got to the point where I blocked her then unblocked her only for her to block me and then unblock me and her deleting me on everything but only for her to add me back on snap only. What I wanna know is what s there still a chance for me and if u can give me any advice only advice I got was move on , wait and see what she does between us , or act like her friend
“Change your self image and you change your life.” 🔥
Don’t chase them chase your dreams then they will automatically chase you.
Facts 💯💯
I love your comment! So true!
What if they have the same mind set? Then what?
J2 tha c If the mindset is same, then the destination will also be same. So neither you have to chase your dreams nor your dreams have to come after you. You and your dream will meet together at your destination. Mic drop*!
True!
I believe when someone is meant for us, everything works out well, and we end up together no matter what and it's life long bond.
How can you be so sure?
That's in movies
@@tonic1667
Lotta factors involved , so it sometimes isn’t a Disney movie.
I’m starting to have this belief. That if it’s the right person nothing I say or do will make them leave. Regardless of whether I’ve put them on this pedestal.
You definitely won’t attract the person by sitting in your basement wishing and wanting. Get out and enjoy your life with no expectations and you will be surprised what happens!
Corona...
Power House 🤣
a sexless life. not surprising.
Tbh I've had guys want to get with me while I literally sat in my basement, doing nothin :')
It was by choice tho
When you're of a higher level of consciousness, things emerge more readily, land in your lap etc as there is less inner resistance so things do come to you on their own lolol
It's regarding all things, not just relationship.
I have a thought, the thought then happens as physical, pretty much right away, etc
Men... chases whom they like
If you’re chasing someone that means other person is running, thats the utter truth someone could told me. I literally can’t thank you enough, Aaron. I really needed someone to told me that.
One guy keep chasing and crying for few months ; even she block him from all contact but due to her friend she was force to unblock and met . Now she is in love with him . What you say in this ?
Basically, the key to everything in life is detachment.. Buddha was so fond of detachment for a reason.
That's balanced.
Attract visions of receiving.
Detract visions of needing
Now I started agree on detachment 😞
I think that a good way to accomplish this is to take a break(or completely disable) from social media. Whether it's friends or celebrities....if you're sending the same tweets to the same specific people, everyday.....they will have the "So what else is new?" mentality.
Well he left his wife and son. 🤭
Buddha isn't around. And only God knows. God knows. Buddha ain't wise. God is.
Yeah, I tried with my ex-gf, so I am just in no contact, keeping away from social media, meditating, walking a lot, and started working out. I am focusing on myself. Yeah, if you're running after someone, they just won't think you're so special. You have to respect yourself.
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"People feel what you feel about yourself"
Yes!
Amen!🙏👸🙏
Practically, that's not true. My close friend is very beautiful but depressed girl, still many boys get attracted to her.
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I just started saying these words… I do not chase I attract what belongs to me will find 😊me! … I am valuable!! 💎💫 and before listening to this video I stopped immediately in chasing! I truly believe that the universe will send my person. Patience is key! Thank you for sharing this information!!
I will not chase you ,,go fly my angle 😉😁
You will die single
...that sounds like giving yourself as much credit as the main character in this hypothetical movie.
I don't want someone chasing or putting me on a pedestal - i just want equal effort and it being genuine and natural.
Wanting someone to chase you sounds narcissistic and needy.
Ur right SicilianShorty.
@@michaelgonzales4899 there's not wrong or right in this situation, just my preference & my opinion, but thank you for saying so. 😊😉
I was chased at first, but I wanted to put equal effort and that's when he slowly began to pull away. I wasn't being needy, I just wanted to be equals, but some guys don't see it that way and just take a good woman for granted.
@@daphne201239 if u r a womanI wish u were mine.
@@rukiakuchiki5136 I hear you babe, but you gotta understand that happens to men too!
“You always attract what you are.” Those are wise words
like how that work?
That’s why I attract losers cuz I’m a loser😢
I keep attracting mosquitos. Am I a mosquito? 😟
I know someone who is so like me, or so it seems. I'm not even a blip on his radar. So not so sure about what you are saying. But did get some good points from his video.
@@kmstirpitz4285 nah you just like peoples blood
Invest in yourself, because people will drop you at any moment 😒
I totally agree, even though I know how hard self-love is. But I also think that investing in yourself is so much important than chasing a specific person. It just is not worth it!
big facts
😌harsh truth
I'm meant to be loved because I love myself .I AM A STAR 🌟
If you started or feeling like you're chasing someone. Then you're in the wrong relationship. Love is not about control.
Maria Yee : Agree!!!
It is not a matter of control, it is a matter of balance. I was in the right relationship for a period of time and still encountered a power struggle every now and then, duality.
Nice pic
@@iana6955 me too
I needed to hear this today. I've been acting so desperate for so many days that I lost my sleep, appetite and self-worth over it. I'm so glad I could listen to this today. The love we seek outside is already within us. We just need to give that opportunity to ourselves to find it and embrace it. Whatever is meant for us will find us eventually. Until then, let's enjoy this blessing called life. God sent us on this Earth with a purpose bigger than pleasing a few individuals. I hope everyone finds that love within themselves.😃 Sending happy vibes to everyone out there!!!!
Thank you … ❤️
thank u same to u
Been there too.sending positive vibes
Which god?
Koi gaal ni, things happen just keep it rollin
“Be the star of your own movie”
Works like a treat everytime! Regardless of what happens you feel joy and happiness consistently.
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Yep youll win some and youll lose some keep steppin broaden your scope
Someone who is not into you will NOT chase you, no matter what you do. Not everyone is going to be attracted to you. That's the bottom line.
Right but he's talking about people that you are with, that do love you but I think they take you for granted because your chasing them
It's true
Everything you said is so true. When I relaxed and let go, he came back and I ignored him. He apologized for everything he did to me, I forgave and let him be. Now he is trying to chase me just like I did once and guess what I am not interested. I have moved on in a positive way. I love myself so much more now..thanks :)
He sounds like a narcissist and he wants his good supply back but you went no contact.
@@shaheeda wtf😂😂😂
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How long did it take?
that what I am saying I really wanted to talk to a girl you know chat and hook up, but they never replied back, sooner or later they will want to chat with me only I don't know if I should reply back because It really hurts when you are ghosted by someone, but ignoring them back is probably best because you don't appear to needy.
I can smell the marker from the other side of the screen.
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Same
It's an alcoholic based sanitizer
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We are the same weirdo
Detach from the outcome, let it go. You are always manifesting something, even if you’re manifesting things not manifesting. Trust the process.
~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction TH-camr💜
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This is the best way this has been broken down for me. ✨
No matters what the situation is, right person will always stay..
"If you treat someone like a celebrity, there are many chances that they will treat you like their fan"
SO. TRUE.
Namaste Dharani!
@@AaronDoughty44 Namaste Aaron! 😊
Dharani Kanagarajan yeah that got me
That hit me hard, that's exactly what I've been doing sometimes without realizing it
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“You always attract what you are “ very deep I had to replay that part
anthony2saucy hmmp
That is actually a contradiction according to this theory. Right? Celebrity's don't chase each other? Robin Williams didn't. I love that celebrity and know we would have made perfect couple.
You could look at this in a a way to seek to be continually self improving, seek to become want you want to attract, learn how to play guitar, surf, etc for no one but yourself and those people will come
Yep all playboys so I'm a playgal?
This is a scary thing to believe if you are an empath that attracts narcissists.
🙂🙏 "Change your self image and you change your life" loved it! 💖
Just be yourself. It's not a game - it's a two way relationship caring for each other. Show your feelings - life is too short for these pathetic games.
Agree
Exactly
what if that person ignores us so bad while we are extrimenly in love with them?..
@@lamislamis7209 stop being so extremely in love, just be interested and willing to leave when its not healthy
So agree. These TH-camrs make me feel like love and relationships are hopeless.
"Focus on your value. Do what you love."
Most powerful phrase I learned last year and which I am applying into 2020 : "You don't NEED love. You ARE love."
I liked that
This just might be my next tattoo so I will always have a reminder, sometime we get lost in love or the routine of it!
Franchi C no we need love
Try to feel that no one loves you and tell me about your soûl health
Hell yeah
This video has changed my life. I’m implementing this and I actually right now feel an energetic shift within me. Thank you so much
“When you put people on a pedestal, then they are automatically further away.”
😮wow love this 💕🍓🥥
Then how to feel about other person
vinayaga be with me prioritize yourself first.. don’t make your existence based on them
Like when their thoughts come if they r superior to me like he may marry some other girl like that .how to shift that
vinayaga be with me make yourself believe without a doubt in your mind that you are worthy and you are extremely high value and that you are the absolute best! Believe it believe it believe it💕Girl I’m sooo in this same situation... read this once somewhere... when you run to God, he makes his creation run to you ♥️
“When you put them on a pedestal they’re automatically further away.” 👍
Wow thats powerful
Put a person on the pedestal and they'll treat you like a footstool
Put them on a pedestal AFTER you win their heart
@@Jleed989 nope never put anyone on a pedestal regardless
Agreed!!!
I will never forget this… “treat them like a celebrity; they will treat you like a fan”!! So true!!
Can u please explain this?
how so?
That was a great statement, Lori.
@@Hap738
when many people treat us like king ....
we always feel we are superior of them not equal to them...
is this enough explanation?
@@UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude oh thank u very much and this is enough 🥰
Just had a break up from a 3years of relationship. And now I feel like I was in a coma or something. I totally forgot about my dreams, my personality, my hobbies. All I cared about was making her happy. But now I feel like I'm awake. Thank God it happened. Can't imagine how much I'm about to upgrade myself! Daymn this breakup was all I needed.
@Kane Henry thanks brother but no I don't want her back cuz again I'll be in the same stage and I know this is not my identify I'm much better than the person I am today. I have to improve myself so I can be worthy of better person than her.
Chased a guy for four whole months. Enough is enough, I gotta chase my dreams.
Can you believe i chased a guy for 2 years? Me neither.
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@@naomiloriana1367 Thank you, bro. But the problem is I've had only one girl in my life (a long time ago). I didn't like her much, cause l bonded with her only to know what a relationship is. I just need to change my mindset, it makes me anxious when I talk to women and I then I stuck in a friend zone. Thank you, sorry for grammar mistakes (non-English speaker).
@@vasylhoncharov8809 it's okay, you can still get her back
"Be the star of your own movie." BOOM.
Oh mandy nice channel
@@b52_vishwajeetpatil99 Thank you so much.🙏🏼 Look forward to having you as part of the High Vibes Nation! 🙂
your Dad is he a Crazy Russian .???
The movie title is “home alone”
What if you dont really have your own movie! lol
What he’s explaining in the “twin flame” journey and what it leads to is his advice, finding the love within yourself instead of basing your happiness on the love another.
@click.profile.for.his.whtsapp haha.. wow. No thank you.
I hate when people use that 7 billion people on the planet speech.. when ur in love with someone it dosnt matter.
DNA Tru Lyricist ikr
Till realize u lost in one person world and the person live in a world that you don't exist
The main point, though, is to not worry about how many people there are, oddly enough.
Exactly..... it's about li e not chase.... wrong vid ... it's for kids
It’s a mindset shift. When you focus on the lack of on the one, you loose your magnetism and depolarize the relationship! Abundance mindset 💃🏽
When you put off needy vibes people run and when you just love yourself and don't care if there's a man or woman in your life then they start flocking
"Do you ever notice when someone is chasing someone else it implies that they are running". My favorite quote now. Bravo bro
BWR Rock keep running
Man, wish had understood these truths years ago. I kept thinking if I could just find someone who loved me, I would be happy. I didn’t realize you have to be happy first before you can have a healthy relationship with someone. It is a massive hurdle to overcome but you have to overcome it on your own. No one else can do it for you.
I stopped texting him first. Almost 3 days later he texts me , asks me to meet up always and guess what? Asked me out for a date on Valentine's. All you gotta do is value yourself, trust and let go. The universe plays the cupid!❤
Preetha Bose wait until you get stood up on Valentine’s Day 😂
@@CS-zu6jc Bad energy 👎👎👎
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Preetha Bose a wonderful guy who has been living with me since Oct - took me out for a beautiful dinner tonight for Valentine’s Day. Then proceeded to tell me that he will never love me - that he only likes me as a friend - he was silent at during the dinner date tonight and took me home after at 8 pm - then left immediately to go to his favourite (very skid/gross and boring) neighbourhood bar until 2 am. He told me when he returned that he would never love me more than a friend. I put (as we women do) so much work into looking my best and beautiful for our date out tonight. I can’t express how sad and terrible all of this tonight made me feel. Why ? Take me out for dinner /cocktails. He paid the very high bill (as he always does when he takes me out for dinner.) he doesn’t have regrets or resent paying. I’m so confused and hurt. I’ve been crying all night and can’t sleep. I have never experienced something like this before. I normally go out in the past with men who do like me and love me. 😢😭😣😩
"I started dating A LITTLE later in life... at the age of 16"
Damn, yeah that's late...
Thats like a normal but kinda early age for me lol...18 for my kids some day lol..
Dam I started dating at age 19 😅
😂😂😂 I thought he was going to say his mid-20s or something.
I was 26 when I started lol, that isn't late
fuck i'm 28 today.
The part about them feeling the energetic shift when you pull away really hit me. When you were chasing, they could feel your desperation and it pushed them away. The release of that energy is so real. Let go. Let them come to you. I love it.
Alexi Nelson 💯
So if you’re talking to someone , how do you let them come to you ? Just leave them on read and hope they will message you ??
MrEliteGamer01 Dude, I’m confused about that too 😑
You have let it be known otherwise they won't know
@@MrEliteGamer01 No, you show interest without chasing. You don't leave them on read, you reply because you're interested, but you still keep your life, interests and self worth. Not chasing doesn't mean ghosting.
Omg. Universe is really with me and m so greatful for this. I really needed to hear this today. I dont know where this came in front of me from nowhere. Thank you universe 🙏🙌
One day you will meet someone without playing these games. Everything will be natural with carrying honesty and loving time.
thank u so much for this
Being in your element and not needy isn't a game..
Yes Amen
I am suddenly being ignored by a girl i liked rn, i had been waiting for a long time and decided i should try my luck, but it gets worse everytime, it's bad idea to be a good guy, to be caring. Be a bad boy and only think about getting into her pants, it would be fun.
@@akshayp5263 don't let this girl ruin healthy relations for you. Being a bad boy, as you call it, will just give you very unfullfiling series of dates that will leave you deeply broken inside.
'X' chases you.
You dont notice.
You chase 'Y'
They dont care.
This chain continues
@@Threedaughters8871 🤣🤣🤣🤣 what is going on in the world lol
@@Threedaughters8871 🤣🤣 hilarious but so true
Most people can’t stand being chased.
Absolutely! Even those who've found themselves on the other side of the dynamic. It's all push-pull energy.
Leave this up to a women a man would never say that cuz we love chasing
Kat K I agree. :)
Ii
@@funky-yk6nx chasing is feminine energy
Too bad it couldn’t be just like:
I like you, you like me. Let’s be happy. :)
:(
Yes !! ):
Right!? Lol
Life is not fare
Exactly!
Sad : (
Honestly, I've never felt like this before in my life, I feel completely lost ... all of my friends and family can see it. It's mentally making me ill.
I stupidly tried contacting her yesterday telling how I felt I now regret it as there was no reply.
These videos do help me but I know I've got a long way to go before I heal from this breakup.
‘There shall be no other Gods before me’. Never chase anyone. Including celebrities. The God in you is the main and only relationship to nurture. 🧡
Lisa Marie eye opener! Thanks!
That is correct and with that being said no more video's
Very true
Hell yea Lisa Marie
“you’re a star honey, let me tell you that right now” ☺️♥️♥️
I'm not a star.
I think that the "underdog" is a more fitting role for me ;)
I legit loled when he said that
Well actually said. When you're unhappy with yourself then not only do most guys run a mile you attract narcissists, abusers and other toxic people!
Aaron your videos taught me a lot about self worth and detachment. Watching your videos definitely helped me get away from that anxious, scarcity mindset, that needy energy which always caused me to over-invest into someone and eventually spoil them and make them devalue me. Everytime I feel like I am turning back to that state of mind, I come and watch your videos to remind myself how worthy and valuable I am!
Remember: If you have to chase someone, that means that this someone must already be running.
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And running away
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Damn...nailed it.
Wow damn
Chasing = deep down you feel " i am not GOOD ENOUGH" it is time to heal your pain
a guy ghosted me probably because he felt that i was too into him and gave him too much attention, he was the one who chased me in the beginning and was super interested but the energy switched and he lost interest.
I wished him to come back and thought about him constantly for months but still didn’t hear anything from him for a long period, at some point I moved on and accepted the fact that he’s gone and guess what happened? a few days (about 5 or 6 days) after I moved on he contacted me out of nowhere and was super interested, like he felt that
his intentions weren’t good tho and I wish I had dumped him earlier but the fact that he came back ONLY when my energy has changed proved himself.
Ooo I need hear it 🙄🙄!
I am going through this right now dating a girl for a few months and we had it going on so great and she told me today literally that it's over we're not compatible...
Same here lol
So so true. It happens.
Sameee, I’ve been talking to this guy for 2 months and at the beginning he was super interested in me but now I feel like he doesn’t care at all and it’s so frustrating.
I really am. I am a voice-over actress and I chased so many people. Degrading myself, not knowing my worth. I now know that I'm the STAR and not them. Ty for creating this video.
Yea I'm so emotionally drained from trying to get people to love me. Idc. I just want to love myself now.
Maria Awesome. It’s so freeing ❤️
Meet a lot of diverse people, have fun(because life is shorter than you think)....and give back.
So many people put their crushes, other attractive people, and celebrities on a pedstal.
Meanwhile, many people who live in poverty are ignored....as if they don't exist.
I've seen it a lot in Chicago, and it's truly sad.
Thats really good; to love your self
I wish I would have been in your life, I would have loved you like princess. If it's possible we can know each other. I am tired of also giving love and not getting back.
Really weird to hear this from a women, it's usually men who struggle with chasing women unless you are not that good looking
When you focus on getting someone to like you, you lose focus whether you actually like them or if they're even right for you.
@cerulean48 You are so so right! Absolutely spot on
Yes
Wow. Wow. So obvious yet so important to realize. Thanks a ton! ❤
I could care less of the power aspect, I just want equal effort. I’m tired of giving everything for a half ass response
You're chasing. Listen to this video again.
I m in a relationship.. i am being hurt so many fucking times.. every fucking day caring more.. this care even turned out to be cage, n i was a good damn "pretender".... i lost myself n also fucked off mine self respect....!!
From today, i want her to show her move... i wont stop loving her but showing her and crying for her... wish me luck...!!
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Amen
I want you to know ... I felt what you said 100 about your care being a cage. I hear you ... metaphors are so powerful... care shouldn’t be a cage but yeah in abuse you’re only supposed to care for them and never yourself and meanwhile, they’re not even really caring for you (those kind of people in that kind of a relationship)... I’ll be contemplating that metaphor for a WHILE.
I just watched this video repeatedly. It resonated so deeply with me, as I have been dating someone for six months and have
been very anxious about them as I was putting them on a pedestal.
Thank you for your insights, they are spot on!
How to chase her.
1. Stop chasing her.
Woww thats really help.
What more do you wanna know?
Go watch some Zyzz
Take it or leave it 😂
Chasers get taken advantage of because they’re too easy to get.
urthebest1122 easily said pooh
Well thanks guess im easy bc I love people easy.
Actually this girl wanted me to chase her, I texted her for a couple times and I was like fuck this I'm out....lol still single but I really enjoy it. Lol
John Wilkening I can tell you from my standpoint, most of us like a guy to be just a bit hard to get. If he’s always there and chasing like a puppy it is boring and even annoying. Plus, if you have to chase then the other person has already let go and it’s a waste of your time anyway. Like a dog chasing its tail. Pointless!
It's often a lack of boundaries and self love, if not every time really
If your chasing it means she's running away, if she wants you she'll make it easy for you.
Agree
@Ann swansea Nah.. I have lost interest with her.
But i love her no matter if she wants me or not :(.
Yeah but not too easy
This is an older video you did and I probably saw it before but recently saw it again and it seemed to make more sense this time because I have a few women contacting me on a regular basis and I put neither of them on a pedestal but enjoy the attention and conversation with them, what's even more interesting is they both are very financially secure, I don't process the wealth they have but I don't see them better than me in that respect because my confidence in myself and the fact that I don't care whether they are attracted to me or not keeps them interested, I don't tell them I don't care I keep to myself but the dynamic is interesting and true when you don't care they come. I find your tropics informative and in many cases entertaining you have a great way of getting the message across with a little humor and fun. Thanks Man good stuff
Aaron: "I started dating later in my life, like 16-17"
Me: "I didn't know that an opposite sex existed when I was 16"
🤣😭😂
Ikr I thought he was boutta say "25 or 30" 😂 bro said 16 or 17 .( But this guy doing the video is great and has positive energy lol)
@@crysvicious im in my 30 and ive technically never "offically" dated anyone so i got a good chuckle
@@chelsm90 My first serious boyfriend was at age 30. It is not rare.
@@SimplisticallyDigital im not fretting about it ive just never have been interested in anyone before
When you chase someone.. someone else is running....
What you need is relax and chill...
I'm adjusting my energy dynamics.
Thank you so much Aaron 🥰
This is so timely.
“People feel How you Feel about yourself”
So true. I don’t like when women act I’m gonna chase them. I’m fine being single. Great video Aaron!
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I once saw a quote that says " What you seek is seeking you, let go and link with the flow of the universe"
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When you chase something or someone, you put yourself in a state of chasing. That’s why you never “get” it. If you place yourself in a state of “having”, you will “have” it. 🙏
Love this!!
Ashley Watson I’m 28, gonna be 29 in May 🤩
Ashley Watson haha thanks I get that a lot lol 🥰
josan iracheta How to do that? Affirmations?
Chica Zen comes down to changing your beliefs. When you realize you already HAVE everything you NEED, you won’t seek anything anymore.
The key really is to live and accept yourself. Some of us never find a romantic relationship and that's ok, too.
When you started to think' i need this person to chase me', you're already in a wrong place. Not him/her chasing you, not you chasing him/her. Love is love,and it's all about equal efforts. If you love someone,the more they give efforts in you,the more you wants to give back.
Remember if you think you'll never find someone like him/her,yes you're right coz you're going to find a better person. 💪 I promise.
*Simp mode activated* i need to invest my efforts here
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I don’t chase people. I go with the flow. Focus myself glow up. Sometimes I just focus my family .
Guys DNA is to chase...
Wish I had a family
U don't have to chase ur a girl
I love how it actually works like that not only with women, but also pretty much with everything else you want in life...
Stop vibrating "in the absence of it", and start vibrating "in the presence of it"! ✨
You're f****kn genius, thanks.
My wife recently cheated on me, it made me realise I should have been a better husband and I love her more than I thought. Im now stuck in this chasing / not chasing limbo. Time feels like its standing still trying to battling with my emotions. I wish you all the love in the world if you are struggling with love.