Why Do They COME BACK Once You Let Them Go?

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  • @AaronDoughty44
    @AaronDoughty44  2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Hey guys! Listen to the most powerful meditation for attracting a relationship for 21 days here: ➡️ th-cam.com/video/urLm5MfM1Tw/w-d-xo.html

    • @lovepositivity2632
      @lovepositivity2632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Infinite thanks to you Aaron you posted this video at the right time every time you are posting videos according to my situation ❤️

    • @noraabdulla2486
      @noraabdulla2486 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks u. I know it’s hard u for this video thqnks u

    • @zahidakozlic254
      @zahidakozlic254 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do not try to be super smart as nobody before....do not try to make eny experiment hidden me abot me....you know nothing about me......just try represent your self and sekf idea....if you think you know every thing...please think again.....you can be free here only hidden me.....Whats ever I am kay for everything even I have sace eart not ond but twice time even every universe that are hidden me right now......I work by secret speciffic order even with every god ans over......

    • @mariaola2269
      @mariaola2269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!

    • @almaelizalde2973
      @almaelizalde2973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Aaron, you mention a book on Consciousness what was the book?

  • @crazyanimeloveable
    @crazyanimeloveable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1745

    Because people are unpredictable!
    We most often want things we cannot have and thats just the Ego.
    Its best to move on, its not worth your health. Be with someone who appreciates every piece of you! Who prays that you are a part of their lives. Don't ever sell yourself short! For you are one of a kind ✨ ❤

    • @pinkypie445
      @pinkypie445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So true

    • @elizabethnavarrete-natured1258
      @elizabethnavarrete-natured1258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Very helpful. Thank you 🙏🏻

    • @kcsnipes
      @kcsnipes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for saying this, I don’t need the video tho I appreciate it, I feel what you said in my heart !

    • @dub1951
      @dub1951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Great comment and so true

    • @angie-my5jz
      @angie-my5jz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for this comment 🙏🏻

  • @knowitintobeing
    @knowitintobeing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1757

    If you read this, that means you are a super powerful manifestor. ✨💪

    • @shakracoaching2847
      @shakracoaching2847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lol!🤞💃🕺🏻💪🧚🏻‍♀️

    • @1college100
      @1college100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I Am!

    • @knowitintobeing
      @knowitintobeing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thanks guys and girls. 😊 You are indeed! 💪🌟

    • @ravenstillwaters5195
      @ravenstillwaters5195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep

    • @gandergoose1170
      @gandergoose1170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      11:11 777 222 444 888 555 888 I receive the powers humbled in grace blessings and abundance 🕊starseed 12-22-77 Thank u Lord in the mighty mighty mighty Name of Jesus Christ 🔥🙏🔥

  • @laserus3333
    @laserus3333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +405

    People are like shadows.Try to catch your shadow it runs away, turn around and walk off and your shadow follows you. People are like shadows.

    • @befair2029
      @befair2029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯

    • @Mollyjak4
      @Mollyjak4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awesome

    • @tictoc5746
      @tictoc5746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Never thought of it like this thanks for that bro

    • @vet4life
      @vet4life 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow!!! Idk why but this is super deep! 🙌

    • @samusaran7317
      @samusaran7317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I must be a bigfoot impersonator 👀

  • @alexandraboisteanu3629
    @alexandraboisteanu3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    Yes, this just happened to me last night. When You completely let go, they come back in the most unexpected ways. So let go of the attachment and the right people Will come back to You.

    • @samusaran7317
      @samusaran7317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      What if you want to be left alone? I'm always open for a chill smoking buddy but that's about it.

    • @alexandraboisteanu3629
      @alexandraboisteanu3629 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samusaran7317 I mean.. it depends on You.. and what You want..

    • @Alwayzblessed36
      @Alwayzblessed36 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Hell sometimes the wrong people come back

    • @Ajay-uk6kc
      @Ajay-uk6kc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Facts… At the weirdest time in the weirdest ways

    • @kamiennykamien9578
      @kamiennykamien9578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What happened? Something magical? I cant believe in law of attraction... It does'nt exist

  • @linesyverinsen9215
    @linesyverinsen9215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    "Stress is who you think you should be, relaxation is who you really are."

  • @gamerboy4life702
    @gamerboy4life702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Letting go shows confidence and confidence is attractive. Letting go is for your own health..desperation makes people appear pathetic

    • @notworking2128
      @notworking2128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi friend I got my broken relationship fixed with the help of this great spiritualist who brought my partner Back in 48hours after many years of separation.💯❤

    • @tarunsharma_._._410
      @tarunsharma_._._410 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How​@@notworking2128

  • @dushisoundsmeditationmusic
    @dushisoundsmeditationmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    To the person reading this: THANK YOU for being here and adding value to our world 💖 Hope you have a blessed day filled with joy, happiness, health and love! 💖

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Everyone there are 7.8 Billion people in the World, when someone chooses too leave… let them go, there are Sooooo many others, Have an Abundance mindset, chase Excellence and you will Win 👏🏻

    • @JayJay-sq6rv
      @JayJay-sq6rv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Abundance mindset 🙌💯👌

    • @user-yk4gd1fl4z
      @user-yk4gd1fl4z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You live in a city of 7.8 billion people? Wow man.

    • @samusaran7317
      @samusaran7317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-yk4gd1fl4z Much wow

    • @BabyFaceRose
      @BabyFaceRose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-yk4gd1fl4z stopp 🤣🤣

    • @jackiemm2325
      @jackiemm2325 ปีที่แล้ว

      Profound ..."have an abundance mindset"

  • @Stephanie-ku8wl
    @Stephanie-ku8wl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +599

    Love shouldn't repel people!! It should pull you closer together!! Why as a society are we so messed up on this? Everyone should want their Divine Counterpart that will stay!!

    • @Katrica670
      @Katrica670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @Stephanie N this what I said so many times! Soooo messed up@ too much games!

    • @davidmorrissey5075
      @davidmorrissey5075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Difference between loving someone and needing someone. One is healthy and the other isn't

    • @Katrica670
      @Katrica670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@davidmorrissey5075 nah we just live in a society that plays too many games, don't love love, empathy, loyalty or gentleness anymore, and disposes people!
      This makes me think of Lions and Tiger and Bears by Jasmine Sullivan.

    • @gaple1995
      @gaple1995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I get what you are saying but I think what’s actually repelling others is not “love” but it’s actually that you’re emitting an energy of needing the other persons validation and relying on them to feel okay. Idk how to describe the energy exactly but believe me, it’s not love. Pure, unrestrained, no agenda love is the most attractive force/energy. But not energy that has ulterior motives and needs you in order to be “okay”. Does that make sense?

    • @befair2029
      @befair2029 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davidmorrissey5075 which one is which?

  • @pickmeupstix
    @pickmeupstix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +547

    Another way of looking at it is to just be as fully present in the now as you can, and to declare out loud “I don’t mind what happens” multiple times everyday so it energetically sinks in ✨💜🌞

    • @witchypoo3535
      @witchypoo3535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love this! 😍❤️

    • @pickmeupstix
      @pickmeupstix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@witchypoo3535 😊 glad to hear it helped you!

    • @mindyann8903
      @mindyann8903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I needed to hear this ! Thank you 🙏

    • @pickmeupstix
      @pickmeupstix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@mindyann8903 you’re so welcome! 😋 Something else I started saying everyday is “I am free from all attachments to past and future. I am completely anchored in the now.”

    • @thegreatest_ar1813
      @thegreatest_ar1813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is how I like to look at it!

  • @JorgeF783
    @JorgeF783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    The more you want it, the less you have it.

    • @True38
      @True38 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      And the less you want something or someone, the more you are desired.

    • @chantehowe7798
      @chantehowe7798 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@True38 That sounds wierd

    • @samusaran7317
      @samusaran7317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@chantehowe7798 It sounds weird but that's how most minds work.

  • @rinkolove3170
    @rinkolove3170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    This is so true though. When I am waiting for someone comes back to me, it never happen. They always come back after I detach the person…. This is crazy…

    • @True38
      @True38 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      That's because people have free will and despise having their free will imposed by someone else. People like to choose for themselves, whether it's a job, career, or a partner.
      Also, everything is about self-interest, so whatever you want in life, you have to give what THEY want first. Because people could care less about YOUR needs and wants, and there's no one out there that really cares for you or who wants to help you. Unless you satisfy THEIR self-interest, whatever that might be.
      That's why the best way to succeed in life is to focus to become great at something that earns you a lot of money, and you surround yourself with like-minded individuals in an organization to create the best results. You can also start your own business and do your own thing if you have what it takes.
      But whatever you do in life, never be a naive victim because everybody is playing THEIR game, and you either play your own game or become a victim of someone else's game.
      Become hard, fearless, and powerful in life and you'll go a long way.

    • @rinkolove3170
      @rinkolove3170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@True38 Hi, thank you for the explanation! Well… I get the idea people care about them self and need to have high self-interest to succeed in life, but I was not able to understand how it relates to this video “why do the come back once you let them go”… Can you explain it a bit more? Thank you 🙏

    • @Alwayzblessed36
      @Alwayzblessed36 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, happens to me quite often

    • @adalycruz9515
      @adalycruz9515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's crazy seeing you guys got a repaonse back it's been months for me & nothing of that in the nature . No calls no nothing moved onto next

  • @omaewamoushindeiru5937
    @omaewamoushindeiru5937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Before I thought this is BS. But trust me guys this is real. Before I woke up every morning with a heavy feeling in my chest but after I let her go . Everything feels better . The energy that he is saying is also real, do everything that he said for u to find out. ❤️

  • @carringtonlovejr2325
    @carringtonlovejr2325 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is actually happening to me right now. I started taking my energy back after watching your videos. And my ex that broke up with me is sending me attention..
    You have to let go people…and work on yourself

  • @nathanielola3462
    @nathanielola3462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    It is always possible to get someone back into your life,
    We just have to let them go,
    because if we keep holding on even though it hurts, all we can see is fear of loosing them and all the factors that made us think that it's impossible to get them back again,
    And once we had moved on, and come back to our own frame,
    We gain clarity over the situation.
    And we will realize that there are still ways to get them back,
    Peoples thought and feelings will not be set as stone forever,
    And most of all we Just have to trust God, because he is the only one who knows everything and will write a good chapter for your life,
    If it's not ment to be with that specific person, it's ok,
    There still someone better out there that is destined

    • @susanb5177
      @susanb5177 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How old are you? If you answer that question I will be able to ask you another question.

    • @nathanielola3462
      @nathanielola3462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm 23

    • @BabyFaceRose
      @BabyFaceRose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love this 🙏🏼💜

  • @Gnosis33
    @Gnosis33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    "If you are ever tempted to look for outside approval, realize that you have compromised your integrity. If you need a witness, be your own." Epictetus

  • @Anum52529
    @Anum52529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I don't want a person who doesn't want me...simple! ☺️

  • @simonswamy688
    @simonswamy688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    When you break up with someone with whom you had a healthy relationship it's painful but when you break up with someone who was toxic it's a nightmare

    • @royaljai5009
      @royaljai5009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My ex is in a relationship with someone else and pregnant and still acts crazy and jealous if I'm with another woman.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Protect my energy at all cost , so I can go have fun on my own ! Enjoy horse riding , enjoy camping , enjoy beach enjoy sea enjoy the world

    • @befair2029
      @befair2029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am trying to protect my energy lately, but tough! 😌

  • @erictripton
    @erictripton ปีที่แล้ว +60

    A heartfelt honest prayer to the Almighty to release me from it and let go...is the sure fire way that works.
    Any other techniques keep confusion.
    In other words, TURN IT OVER TO YOUR HIGHER POWER TO BE FREE

  • @rachellp7897
    @rachellp7897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    Thank you! I’m going through a breakup that was the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had…. So far! At first I was afraid I’d never find that again, but this really shows me there is more to come!

    • @isisrodriguez4468
      @isisrodriguez4468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hey, how is it going after 3 weeks? I'm going through the same now, and I'm devastated... I don't feel strong enought to go through this

    • @rachellp7897
      @rachellp7897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@isisrodriguez4468 I just made it to 5 weeks post breakup! Today is the first day I’m not in active pain. Due to an age gap (I’m 13 years older) we broke up because he wants to have kids of his own, so there isn’t really a possibility of him coming back. That has made it easier for me to move into the acceptance stage of grief. It’s been absolute torture, but there’s no hope either. No contact has helped me break what was basically, my addiction to him. This has been one of the hardest losses of my life. Trust that what’s meant for you will stay. Never beg for love. ❤️

    • @rarasirius3795
      @rarasirius3795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@isisrodriguez4468 hey Isis, I'm in my second week of no contact. It is torture and I feel your agony in not feeling strong enough to continue or go through it. You have to keep yourself busy, you have to fight every single day to make yourself go through it. If you know you are worth it, then all this suffering is worth it. You will have to fight every day until the feeling disappears, and it will eventually

    • @kellypamely
      @kellypamely 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@isisrodriguez4468 same here, 8 days ago here as well. Hang in there, you are not alone! Connect, and stay connected:)

    • @mariog3326
      @mariog3326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rachellp7897 Yes you are correct. Never beg for what should come naturally. We are worth more than that and deserve to be loved as we love.

  • @andreasdejong1846
    @andreasdejong1846 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am a theoretical economist and no dating coach, but I can explain this using knowledge gained from economic theories.
    I will limit my explanation to two main economic principles that most people are aware of.
    1) The law of supply and demand
    2) The sunk cost fallacy
    First of all I want to be clear that the product/resource/good traded here is "attention" and that all people suffer some degree of risk aversity.
    1 - As most people know the law of supply and demand explains the interactions between sellers of a resource and buyers for that resource. If we apply this to the subject of a break-up and one person "letting go" everyone here understands that the person who "let go" of the other person suddenly supplies less attention to the other person. In economic terms one could say that the person supplying attention suddenly places a lower value on the currency he is rewarded with for giving that attention.
    At the same time the person receiving the attention doesn't so drastically change his or her demand for attention. This results in a temporary scarcity of the good attention, which makes the receiver of attention having to pay more for that attention.
    So, in short, supply of attention decreases while demand for attention stays the same, increasing the value of attention.
    2 - Going back to the tendency of people to be risk averse explains why people rather seek attention from someone they know, instead of investing time in meeting new people as potential attention-givers. In economics the tendency to continue an endeavour if we already invested time and effort in something, regardless if that something is profitable or not is referred to as the sunk cost fallacy. It shouldn't be too hard to see the analogy here.
    I also would like to add that people are social creatures, so one could argue that the phenomenon of people coming back to someone who "let go" can be explained by just looking at the regret of losing a social connection. Even if you aren't in a relationship anymore there still remains a social connection as long as one person puts in energy in trying to stay connected to you. People who have studies behavioral economics know that losing or regretting something makes people behave a lot more irrational than winning something. Once you have lost something you desperately want to win it back, to the point of investing more in winning something back than the value of the actual winnings. (That's an explanation of why gambling addicts exist)
    Another way to look at it is by looking at the value of the person who has "let go" of the past. That person grew emotionally as he/she overcame hardship. That person thus gained value, which explains why the other party is more willing to invest time and effort to get that person back. Simultaneously the other party perceives him- or herself to have lost value, at least in the eyes of the person who let go of him/her.
    Cheers.
    PS. I hope my grammar isn't too bad, because I enthusiastically wrote this down in one go and I am not motivated enough to double-check at the moment. Forgive me for that :-)
    EDIT: I just started watching the video and I notice that Mr. Doughty is talking about this from a wholy different perspective, so I understand if the people reading my comment think that the way I analysed this isn't their cup of tea.

  • @Avasiaa0130
    @Avasiaa0130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Every time I feel weaker when it comes to no contact rule and I feel like contacting him, I come across your videos and it helps me to stay strong. 😢 You are such blessing in my life, thank you!

    • @mikedebright3682
      @mikedebright3682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bt before move on try ur best to maintain relationship sometimes people change

    • @monicau9720
      @monicau9720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m glad that you defend your dignity 🙂

  • @nanipanini
    @nanipanini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    "laying out your heart, going into this experience, KNOWING that you could get rejected … thats vulnerability and that's courage"

  • @FrancisTrach
    @FrancisTrach 2 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    When we create an energy of resistance and attachment, we repel the energies and people that are in alignment with our Higher Self because we're not resonating at that level of energy which like Aaron showed is almost like 2 magnets which simply repels what we actually prefer at a higher level of consciousness. Once we start to align our energy with our hearts desires and who we truly are, we start to attract the people that are in alignment with that same energy, which might be someone that we were attached to and created a lot of resistance in the past. Great Video Aaron! Thanks for being one of the people that inspires me to post videos every single day. Much Love 🙏

  • @SpicyEmma
    @SpicyEmma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I watched this video yesterday and he came back today…. After 3month silent!!! Like wtf ?! Aaron is the best ! And they do always come back!

    • @skndmr9036
      @skndmr9036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope so!

    • @SpicyEmma
      @SpicyEmma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Poker-is8dt I really don’t get your comment…. Why this monologue on obesity ?!

    • @Poker-is8dt
      @Poker-is8dt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SpicyEmma If he ghosted you then he was likely messing around or has some issues and is not trustworthy imo. My point is that you have to live by certain principles (at least from a guys perspective). If a chick says she wants a break or ghosts you for a extended period of time then you end it forever otherwise they will know you will be waiting for them no matter what they do thereafter. Maybe your scenario is different, who knows, but one must ask themselves why people do what they do. Hope all is well, cheers

  • @Geekgurlcode
    @Geekgurlcode ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Most of the time they never come back and that is a blessing..😊

  • @DesireLamar
    @DesireLamar ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I started watching your videos after a break up and it helped me so much through depression. Your completely accurate because now that I’m over him , he wants me back ‼️I’m now the star of my movie ❤

    • @Betty_Netch
      @Betty_Netch 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I love that expression! Star of your own movie. That's wonderful! I hope you guys work it all out, if that's what you want. If not, I'm glad you have peace with yourself. Go you!! 🎉

  • @Βασιλικηνικα-β4θ
    @Βασιλικηνικα-β4θ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They come back because their see that you completely change mentally and physically.Keep up forward never back.Glow up sis you deserve it

  • @trinam8306
    @trinam8306 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Be open to everything and attach to nothing.

  • @pithyparty6145
    @pithyparty6145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I, personally, don't want anyone that would make a relationship this complicated.😂

    • @christinemariequigless
      @christinemariequigless 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      we attract what we are, and I'm guessing that you are definitely attracting no-drama relationships! yes!

    • @j.k5654
      @j.k5654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣
      And the one you want is already doing this without you knowing, that’s why you want them 🤣🤣🤣🤣.

  • @emmaalvarez1617
    @emmaalvarez1617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    The point is you want them to come back but once you focus on self love and no longer on them, when they come back you no longer want them anymore so it really didn't fix the situation. It sucks how we all have to become lovers of ourselves.

    • @DukeOfLA
      @DukeOfLA 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is true and is the way of the world but it is not Gods way. Prayer to God to bring them back if it’s His will ..and giving them what they want is far better. Bc you still want them but you are now trusting in God ..not them ..putting God first ..on the pedestal. This is the same concept but different approach. The outcome is also different ..bc if they come back you can be more assured they came back bc God ordained it ..and it was not based in energy ..making for a healthier long lasting relationship
      We should never love ourselves ..for we already do ..and what is there to love ..we are as serpents from birth. No ..it is bc God loved us first that we can then love ourselves.

  • @BarbieRachelEvans
    @BarbieRachelEvans 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    It works every time true! I let go just as Aaron says to practice this : “4:13 The thing I most often say is simply LET GO..let go of the story that you might tell yourself about this person ….let go of the outcome…the more you let go the more you will bring your energy back “

  • @arthealth174
    @arthealth174 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Aaron, I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart. There is something about the way you’re teaching and presenting the information that’s shifting my whole mindset and makes me feel seen and validated and understood. I have had a lot of trauma and finally understand how to let go of the emotion attached to my past experiences and I wanted to let you know it’s thanks to your videos and the way you act and the community that’s on here. It makes me feel whole and like I am not alone and there’s no need to be ashamed for my feelings anymore. Thank you and I hope one day I won’t have to go back and question my value since It’s deeply engrained in myself ❤

  • @Chris-ey7zy
    @Chris-ey7zy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I feel all these words. It was so hard to let go of this girl I felt such a strong connection Sooooo much because of my abandonment issues. But when I did, I felt a change inside me that made me feel more mature. It just felt right even if I still feel the way pain of not having her. Learning to let go is the hardest thing any person can do.

  • @earthtokatie7939
    @earthtokatie7939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Thank you so much Aaron; I’ve been feeling this intuitively, and I’ve really been guided to fully let go not just physically (which I already have), but energetically too. I believe in the connection, but right now I’m being called to embody the love in my heart and not focus on the external for now.

    • @sweetcapricorn
      @sweetcapricorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same... 77 👍 by the way. A divine number. He messaged me like what happened cause I left him on read he almost got me back but I stood my ground. There is something special but things are in both of our ways for now im detaching and he is feeling it

    • @Troy12-fitnessmodel
      @Troy12-fitnessmodel 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beautiful Katie. Thanks

  • @gavinspeaks
    @gavinspeaks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m wishing everyone who clicked on this channel nothing but LONG LIFE & PROSPERITY💰☀️🌎
    ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction TH-camr💜

    • @maxisworld
      @maxisworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw thank you and same to you brother 🙏🤗

    • @cliffhenderson4425
      @cliffhenderson4425 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's some good stuff right there brother. God will Bless you

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When someone some girls want to come back when I am in the best version of myself , I do not allow them ! I only reunion with girls who treat me well in my worst situations !

    • @alanzo428
      @alanzo428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true. I started drinking due to my dad's death and she left

    • @lindasworldnyc8431
      @lindasworldnyc8431 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

  • @Juliamh2222
    @Juliamh2222 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    If they want to be with you, they will be. Period. Stop playing yourself and just live your life. If they left once, they’ll do it again.

  • @keristella7201
    @keristella7201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    When one is in this state of trying to let go to get someone, it won’t work. They literally cannot care about whether they are with the person or not. Letting go is very difficult for people in this state.

    • @Anu-po5ml
      @Anu-po5ml 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @rockysingh2200
      @rockysingh2200 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't get it. Could you explain it clearly

  • @InTheNow2020
    @InTheNow2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Very good content. The Power of Letting Go. As my mom would say, "let go and let God".

    • @NinaVeronikaxoxo
      @NinaVeronikaxoxo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My mom literally said this to me a hour ago lol. ✨

  • @StelaRoseRhythm
    @StelaRoseRhythm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Aaron- this is so shocking to me in the synchronicity as I am literally in the middle of experiencing this exact same scenario that you have described… I am so grateful for this message- totally turning this around right now! Going directly to this MEDITATION- HUGE GRATITUDE! 💜💜💜

    • @mindyann8903
      @mindyann8903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same !! I opened my phone this morning and this was my first notification! I was upset all night after 2 weeks of being swept off my feet to now being ghosted .. this was RIGHT on time ! Time to take my power back and validate my damn self ! We are worth it !! 💫

    • @StelaRoseRhythm
      @StelaRoseRhythm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mindyann8903 yessssssssssssss

    • @toyaamor
      @toyaamor 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mindyann8903 my same situation! We was connecting so well together to now he has ghosted me

    • @melissaroshan
      @melissaroshan ปีที่แล้ว

      Just checking in ❤. Are you doing happy now? I’m going through it and just coming out of the hurt part.

  • @nightmareappliance
    @nightmareappliance 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I needed this.
    I needed this to be the last video I’m going to watch in order to move on, because the more I watch, the more I perpetuate the distance. Thank you 🙏

  • @anthonygiachinta3056
    @anthonygiachinta3056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Take your new energy and run and don’t look back !!! Because like a battery they will drain you again !!! You are better off with out them !!!!

  • @dr.m6152
    @dr.m6152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Embodying love is basically manifestation. So if you're manifesting someone, you can think about them because you aren't 'waiting' for them. You're also not attached to the 3d version of them. You're living in the end,which basically means, if you had that person in your life already, you wouldn't be wishing and wishing for them to be with you. You also would probably not think of them 24/7. But yes, it is important to still embody love, have self love and not be dependent on the outcome. Even though I'm manifesting an sp, I always tell myself that me amd God come first. You can live without anyone, you don't 'need' anyone except God.

  • @g.1260
    @g.1260 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Aaron, the good that you are doing for people is unimaginable. Who you are, as well as your message, is like a brother, a cousin, a real friend, offering the most wise and insightful guidance. I so much appreciate it. Just watching and hearing you and your message has been healing and encouraging (en-courage-in)! Thank you so much!

  • @stellaancimer8505
    @stellaancimer8505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We can't talk about people like an energy, get away from toxic people, be with people who wants you, who cares for you, narcissist love that you are running to them, it is trauma respond, let magnets stay magnets, human is a lot more than energy, what you are speaking can put somebody in delusional state... You can let go a ball from the hand, if you don't have disfunctional hand, so letting go a person is a whole process, with a lot of emotional work. Love on❤

  • @bolicious7606
    @bolicious7606 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "that's just as deep as it's BEEN".... omg. That section was awesome. I'm going to have to come back and listen again and again to this one.

  • @samstanford3301
    @samstanford3301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You should not have to change for someone else. Be yourself. Someone should love you for you . They should love you for who you are or you should find someone else that wants you as you are.

    • @edith.avenue
      @edith.avenue ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sometimes, it's not necessarily changing that is needed but personal growth. Some people can be further along their spiritual journeys than others.

  • @MJ-eb6fk
    @MJ-eb6fk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks Aaron. You have probably saved many people from downward spirals. You certainly are saving me from despair and helplessness

  • @MaeBelleArt
    @MaeBelleArt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Let it go and pull you energy back👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @michaelthompson6080
    @michaelthompson6080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am focused and grounded, and my goals are clear.

  • @davidnorman2134
    @davidnorman2134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Right but at that point, you've lost all your interest in that person, so it doesn't matter at that point what they want or whether or not they want you or not, it doesn't mean anything anymore, so more or less, when people feel their in control of the situation, they loose interest.

  • @travisvanekelenburg
    @travisvanekelenburg ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This video was literally like someone telling my story! Word by word. Its truth!

  • @shelleyj5939
    @shelleyj5939 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so hurt. I told him that I was falling for him, and he said that he likes what we have now, it’s fun and carefree. He also said he didn’t have a timeline on when his heart and mind would be ready. I told him that I needed time and space. I’m so hurt.

  • @Tlin22
    @Tlin22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hi Aaron, I recently started watching your videos since I am having no way to let him go.... I am still trying, but I like your points of how we are sending them energy when we miss them and keep tracking on them... he is draining my energy even when he is literally doing nothing to/for me everyday, I really need my energy back and will watch more of your videos and let this thought deeply go into my mind... thank you.

  • @Ky_yo
    @Ky_yo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    After a few of your ‘letting go’ videos in addition to the build up of information throughout, I really resonated with the topics of “integrity” and, “The relationship serving its purpose”. I really felt a click inside…difficult to explain.
    Love your content. I’ve only recently been able to cognitively accept energies as a resource we can all manage. Thank you for helping me open that door.

  • @BigMoney21
    @BigMoney21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Thank You Aaron Brother you have helped me many years on my journey I am sending good vibes and good luck 🍀 to everyone so it is Thank You Father ❤️🐯🦁👊👑

  • @mzcolorsandhearts1521
    @mzcolorsandhearts1521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love this. I am actually going through a similar process of learning internal emotional regulation rather than external emotional regulation. It has been SOOO FUN!! And freeing!! ❤

  • @thehotcoffeehouse6081
    @thehotcoffeehouse6081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes. The "old energy dynamic" is so true. I found myself drawn to someone, but the circumstances were absurd for me to be feeling that...& so, I had the "soul awareness", for some reason, to recognize it as an "ancient" vestige of past wrong relationships. I withdrew and did not move in that direction.
    & I think the reason my soul signaled me like that, is because I asked it to, during the interaction with the person, and also afterwards...I said to myself, why am I feeling this way about this person...and I realized the ancient imprinted pattern had been triggered by the person's persona ...not the person's fault, they were just being them. But my response was going in the dysfunctional dire tion and I stopped it. A real growth experience for me.

  • @avgb2115
    @avgb2115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is called Detachment...and it applies to everything including people.

  • @TheSandsplash
    @TheSandsplash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was told that I was very popular among my college girls and the only reason was that I was focused on studying and career than anything else. And after getting the job, I wanted to seek the attention now and approached by chasing a girl and woala she rejected me by sensing that energy. So I can confirm this. Only suggestion is to find higher goals and purpose but still look for signs from females which I rejected during college days

  • @Ghostface00007
    @Ghostface00007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Instead of watching this video you should find someone who will love you at your worst, not at your best otherwise you’re just gonna be playing mind games just to keep them in your life

  •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I have been working hard for my ex, but she was constantly on and off with me, breaking up with me all the time.
    Once i let her go, she finally found relief and moved on with someone else.
    I am devastated.

    • @thecheesburgler
      @thecheesburgler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's going to be a long hard road man I will not lie to you. I got broken up with 2 years ago and have tried that whole time to get it back. But very slowly I am learning that the answer is self focus, self improvement. I hear you man the struggle is very real. But get started with facing your fears and improving, I promise you it is the way out of this.

    • @isaacramos5206
      @isaacramos5206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here. I worked so hard for her and twice she left to other guys. I am also devastaded while she is off with her life like I never existed. And yes its extremely difficult to just let go and feel like they are going to dissapear from our lives forever. And even if they came back will they be in love or will they be an empty shell? I really hope we all find happiness again wether it be recovering our ex or finding someone else. Lets be strong and let time reveal what shall be.

    • @Nk77780
      @Nk77780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Means tht its not meant to be.let go of ppl tht dont love u anymore. Dont waste ur time

    • @LotusFlower732
      @LotusFlower732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's rebound it won't work. I got dumped after 6 years and engaged he is with his ex and his ex who is married. Two women.

    •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LotusFlower732 :(

  • @markpraire2572
    @markpraire2572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow man, I just got divorced and from time to time I feel miserable and this just helped to understand what’s going on energetically in me

  • @sallylemon5835
    @sallylemon5835 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It hurts. It should be there when I wanted it the most.

  • @dre5036
    @dre5036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This truly helped, because I just got dumped , this was really true . Thank you man

  • @myraphoenixnature88
    @myraphoenixnature88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This reminds me from my past experiences. Gladly I found myself back within again at the same time I've learned a lot from the experiences and it made me feel much stronger and the vibe went high and inspired after pulling back and letting go. Meditation and being with nature is powerful.💚💙☯️♾🌈☀️❤
    Thank you so much.🙏

  • @Andreas_K_III
    @Andreas_K_III 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this guy. He gives so much positive energy to everyone

  • @junglejuice23
    @junglejuice23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for every video that you make. I've lived in Vegas for a little over 1 year, and finally getting over something that happened with someone when I moved here. I dont have anyone to talk to about living here (ups, downs, culture, etc) but knowing that you were able to tune out all of the negativity, focus on your craft and become a success here really motivates me and gives a different perspective. I'm going to Flagstaff and Sedona next week for a much needed getaway and relaxation. Can't wait! If I run into you, I will wave hello!

  • @georgesaunders3532
    @georgesaunders3532 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    5 month situationship that's constantly up and down, her pulling away, me feeling rejected.... just realised this is exactly how I felt when my dad would go out of my life for years on end, come back into it only to leave it again... Holy crap, crazy

    • @Ella-te7fe
      @Ella-te7fe 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is because of your dad that you are with that person. You are reproducing what is familiar to you.

  • @originalgoldengoddess
    @originalgoldengoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Relationship's are pretty much a headache... you can't just want someone because that just pushes them away... but if you don't want them you attract them... too much head games. I have a son I don't have time for this rubbish...

    • @TheEliminator1992
      @TheEliminator1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then what are you doing here?

    • @planetChristie
      @planetChristie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No what he is saying is you can want someone but what is the intention..is it out of desperation (external reasons like validation) or self love.

  • @humantrader1340
    @humantrader1340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i noticed all this on my own was hungry for change emidiatly when we broke up...very usefull informations for life..

  • @robertclark7584
    @robertclark7584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Man it's hard to not think about them sometimes but I figured it out when you started that not remembering her she make that phone call or text you or just come over unexpectedly at your house so you can still havel a thought that will fill that energy that pull them closers to you cause once the memory fade that energy fade

  • @parusha33
    @parusha33 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not about vulnerability - that exposes you to losing boundaries - it is about sensitivity

  • @snowwalker9999
    @snowwalker9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    One reason is that in today’s world most people don’t love themselves. And they can’t stand the idea of someone wanting to be with them thinking something must be wrong with that person. People feel they have to work hard to earn someone’s love.

    • @befair2029
      @befair2029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly! I am so in love with this person, instead of love me back or let me go, he said” love yourself, if you don’t love yourself, how you’re going to love me?”What he said broke my heart so bad!😥

    • @alanzo428
      @alanzo428 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@befair2029 sorry for your loss, just don't turn to drinking like I have. I'm one month into my break up. Everyday it seems to get worse when it should be abating

    • @matyasmachacek1598
      @matyasmachacek1598 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alanzo428 me too, brother. How are you now?

    • @alanzo428
      @alanzo428 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@matyasmachacek1598 You're not gona believe this but the day after my Ex left me, I stopped drinking and started praying for her to come back and 3 weeks later, after much agonizing heartache, I now have 4 beautiful young women messaging me on the dating site I rejoined after 2 years

    • @giowiqarishvili2397
      @giowiqarishvili2397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@befair2029 yes it is true, but it’s not mean that you can’t love someone more than yourself, I think when you love someone more than yourself you know what is love exactly 😍

  • @shinigami2669
    @shinigami2669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let go not in hope them coming back, but really letting them go forever from your life.

  • @moonbeam7815
    @moonbeam7815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank You SO much! Feel as I have truly just attended a real ife-lesson Masterclass. YES, we have been told and YES, we have heard before, "Let Go"! But this lesson was shared and delivered in such a personal, direct, genuine, engaging way that it is relevant and meaningful for each person listening, in a different and specific way. And one has to be good at what he does and relateable to be able to achieve that, even with thousands of people. Congratulation on ALL you've accomplished through your supporting the learning and growth of others!

  • @venividiscripsi
    @venividiscripsi ปีที่แล้ว

    maestro, it’s not the video what helped me the most from all of your works, but i felt the urge to give a written feedback this very moment, so let it be below this video. i think you are and what you’re doing is just AMAZING. your energy, message and delivering have helped me through while even deep sincere talks with my close ones had not. the thing is that i couldn’t believe in what they were saying, like “it’s just a phase”, “take your time” and so on: actually pieces of advice like that do not work at all, they stretch the endurance, the anxiety, they promise too much. whilst your powerful approach - to what i can more than relate to - it really changes everything. i felt relieved just after the first vid of yours what i’ve seen. now i’m on my 6th day of meditation. i feel completely recharged, and i see the world changing around me. you know, it’s just nuts! i found my comfort while listening to you. and probably the most funny part of it is that i stopped this needy thing just after you so ridiculously impersonated this type of energy with “oh please love me please make me feel whole please” - that was so hilarious, so earth l-shuttering for me! my though were somewhat ‘what a mess i’ve been all this time, duude’ :))) everything’s different now. the first time i heard it i didn’t believe it but now i declare nodding: let go is easy when you decide so. thank you so-so much 🌅🙏🏼

  • @jwheatley6018
    @jwheatley6018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Loving the teachings here! So excited that I’m finally going to witness your wisdom in person at The Shift Experience in May 2022!!! Can’t wait, Thank you Aaron!!! Austin here I come!🙏🏽🔥🖤

  • @Unaminousverdict
    @Unaminousverdict 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember you in a relationship with that other TH-camr and you looked extremely uncomfortable and not yourself glad you figured it out it helps me understand

  • @mindremind3289
    @mindremind3289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It would be awesome when Aaron and Sadhguru could have a conversation. Would be something different but I would freaking celebrate that haha

  • @franciskoomson7312
    @franciskoomson7312 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, this guy is smart and intelligent. There are so many truths in what you've been explaining. It happens in real life and it has happened to me many times. God bless you brother

  • @jamiesimko
    @jamiesimko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Aaron. This message was divinely timed. Thank you.

  • @caradonnelly7335
    @caradonnelly7335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This proves that renunciation is an attractive quality and opulence. The soul is naturally sat chit ananda so it makes sense.
    The way to perfect our human life is to become attracted and attractive to God.

  • @Yolodiane
    @Yolodiane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thank you Aaron,I learned a lesson of letting go of one story and the outcomes was awesome.

  • @bolicious7606
    @bolicious7606 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OK so i thought this was going to be about no contact or whatever, but this was some really good stuff about self growth and ego death. Really love this.

  • @charlesvela1800
    @charlesvela1800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Aaron, thank you so much. You've helped me in a lot of situations in my life I can't stress enough how much I'm grateful for your content. You help me by reminding me of the things that are true, and that's all I need. I'm going to head on that meditation you talked about because I think I really need it. Thank you much love

  • @ghatak8576
    @ghatak8576 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right now, I'm stressed about our long distance relationships.
    I don't trust my girlfriend.
    I can't neither break up nor approach to her, I'm very very very stressful, anxiety, can't study anymore.
    I'm wasting my time every about a month now.
    What I want to say is, thank you more than you can see on my comment.
    You make me out of stressful, anxiety and scared of losing that love.
    You you you are the problem reliever to me

  • @lisavargas471
    @lisavargas471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you Aaron ! Im going through some challenging times with a relationship I just got out of🥲 You are an Angel because somehow you make videos that come to my rescue! God Bless you! 😍🥰😘

  • @susanagutierrez5925
    @susanagutierrez5925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're better than a psychologist hands down! 💯 %

  • @AstroskyOfficial
    @AstroskyOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love your videos man letting go is the hardest part but iv let go. Dont care anymore and I feel like it's best I focus on myself. Feels best this way

  • @apontutul
    @apontutul 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely brilliant analysis. All play dating mind games unknowingly but you showed the psychology behind it

  • @dawnm7450
    @dawnm7450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Spot on! And you’re even cuter in how you explain it. Your teachings are priceless. Thank you.

  • @pamelagatfield2093
    @pamelagatfield2093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You really nailed it for me. The external vs internal and especially the concept of MEANING I attached to them. That I'll never find x,y,z, again. Now that I've separated the meaning from the person, I can finally let go and get my precious energy back.

  • @bf_stv
    @bf_stv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This video has come to me at the most perfect time in my life. Thanks Aaron. 🙏🏻💙

  • @iphigenie7311
    @iphigenie7311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They come back to check if they still have a spell on you... It's an ego thing.

  • @priyankam2017
    @priyankam2017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Exactly what I needed to hear. 🌼🍀Sending you lots of grace and gratitude from India!🙏🏼

  • @stylist62
    @stylist62 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Living in your integrity authentic is the best place to be, a toxic person can steal all of who you you are and run all over you, take you in deep hole of darkness. If you allow it.