Self-Conscious Bride Looks For A Dress After Losing 120 Lbs | Say Yes To The Dress
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Heather has lost 120 lbs but is still self-conscious about her body and is looking for a dress that makes her feel beautiful for her big day. #SayYesToTheDress
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From Season 4 Episode 8
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Her fiance suggested that her job fire her so he could ask her out. She thinks it's adorable. It's creepy as hell.
I guess it's all about delivery? I'd have run run run too.
Yeah it is
it may not have happened quite that way
Yeah I agree, my mom and dad met at work, and they didn't get fired for dating. Also my great grandparents met at their job, and my grandfather was fired for dating my grandmother cause they thought she did a better job. That shouldn't have been the fiancés call at all
That is creepy and I would have been very upset.
Losing your job because a man wants to date you is not the flex you think it is…..
I agree
Yes, I was bothered by that, too.
I know right, that's crazy 😂
Omg right? I hope he got her a better job at a different location or something
Well, it didn’t sound like a career-type job. Maybe it was just something part time where she could easily get another one.
Gave up her job - HE suggested she be fired so they could date?! Red flags 🚩
She’s gorgeous
Yes! I heard that and thought OMG she's happy for the attention and settling.
@@KellieT73 exactly... And its so sad cause hes not wort it
There was very likely a store policy against fraternization i.e. they probably couldn't date while she worked there, and given her serious lack of self-confidence as a salesperson, she may have been the weakest on the team.
He’s gross looking.
@@heatherc2203sure, and my auntie could be my uncle had she had balls 🙄
I can't fathom that her budget is $5,000, which is a pretty healthy budget, and they come out with dresses that are so blah. Couldn't they find nicer dresses for that price?
maybe not for her size. i was a 00 and 000 for years and i struggled to find clothes despite the overwhelming amount of brands based around the smallest size
Exactly what I was thinking. The dresses they put her in were absolutely underwhelming.
She carries herself so timidly.
The consultant went with her plain requests.
Sometimes brides get stunning dresses for $ 2500 .🤔
cannot believe she calls herself average… she’s stunning
It is good to be humble too.
Self-esteem.
She probably still sees herself as overweight..
perceptions are neither facts nor truth, they are simply a point of view.
When you've had decades of everyone around you reacting negatively to your appearance, that sticks. It's not something anyone shakes off quickly. I hope she gets help because she does not look healthy.
@@CleoS-vx5pdbeen there. I was the fat girl all my life and have been working on weight loss. I was constantly bullied for it growing up and I’m 34 now and you would think that those words and thoughts would go away, but they don’t. They stick to you.
As someone who suffered with an eating disorder, I see too many similarities between myself and her. I hope she’s healthy now. Losing weight can become very addicting-especially when the initial weight loss happens very quickly.
Exactly!
Yeah, when we first see her in a dress, I thought to myself, "She went too far."
Her collar bones!😮
Yes, I was about to comment the same thing. She has gone to the other extreme ..I hope she is okay
Very true, I thought the same. I hope she is well all the same ❤
So many red flags happening here...
Yup
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So he sacked her😮
The whole episode has too many unhealthy things going on. I wish her real love and kindness.
He’s a goblin. Yes,let me fire you so I can date you 🤢
It seems like with a $5000 budget, they could find more “classic, close fitting” dresses than these. I think it is good that she didn’t choose a dress her first time out and without her mom.
This is a very good example of how it's not about weight but mental health. If mental health is not the main focus in any weight loss or gain you can't be happy. Loving yourself and knowing there is no one else like in spite of what say or do is, true happiness. We are all special and unique.
I pray this young lady does not have an eating disorder …
That was my first thought.
And when you saw the brief final photo in her dress. Too much weight loss.
Amen
Looking at her face…. I think she too low now, no cheeks whatsoever and if that fat is gone she took it too far, i hope shes ok now
She looks so thin, even bony
Why didn't Randy pull some dresses? For a $5,000 budget they sure didn't give her much of a choice. The dress she chose was okay, but nothing spectacular. She's stunning and played it too safe.
I hope she reads these comments and I hope she gets some support because it looks to me like she's heading towards an eating disorder.
This is a very old episode.
Oh stop with your negativity
$5,000 budget and that’s all the consultant can come up with????
The price of EVERYTHING has gone up. Wedding dresses have always been highly overpriced anyway.
body dysmorphia ..anorexia? Her posture speaks of her lack of self-confidence. Hopefully this will improve as she gets older.. such beautiful eyes
Clearly she doesn't see how pretty she is and that guy knows it well and played it on her
Yes, he's definitely a "predator".
Waaaait… hold on a sec… she’s a gaged to her old supervisor who suggested firing her so he can date her? Did I hear that right?
yes you did 🚩🚩🚩
And she's OK with it....
Yup... This girl needs help
I thought I heard it wrong too.
I've lost 262 lbs., and I feel for her. I can't see what everyone else sees. Ok, once in a while I'll look in the mirror or compare my new self to my old self and it 'clicks', but it's just a fleeting minute and I'm once again back to my old, fat, frumpy self. She's so beautiful. I wish she could truly see it.
I wish I could find out how this bride is doing now ..she clearly went a little too far with the weight loss. Hope she is well
Aww, my goodness, she is so beautiful, absolutely stunning. Please don't lose any more weight. There really isn't any more weight to lose. You are perfect. Wishing you and your groom every happiness, take care xxx
The staff at Klienfelds really let her down .Those dresses fitted into the O.K zone ,but barely .She is lovely. O.K. Is certainly not enough . Her entourage was correct.
I can understand the mental thing. I was a size 12, lost weight, went shopping and I think I thought a 10 would fit, the saleslady said, "Hon, you are not a 10." And brought me a 6.
I was shocked! I hadn't worn a 6 since I was a teen and that was long before 2 babies.
The 6 fit. But it's so hard to even wrap your head around being someone different than YOU thought you were.
I have since put on muscle and got to a natural weight for me which puts me an 8....but it took me DECADES to get here.
I totally understand. I lost 150+ pounds in the early 2000's after growing up chubby due to an undiagnosed thyroid issue that turned out to be cancer. I still haven't gotten used to being thin and won't buy things smaller than a medium for fear that I might get heavy again. I think I will always have that overweight girl in the back of my mind.
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Such a sweet, beautiful young woman; her joy gushes out. Her shoulders and back look too thin to me; I so hope anorexia has not crept in.
they put a sash on it, her friends want more bling, why not try it with a beaded belt instead? i think that would balance out the stuffiness of the lace, give her friends a bit of what they want to see, and break up the dress visually.
When they filmed this one the ribbon sashes were all the rage. No matter what the dress looked like they would slap a sash on it. The fancy beaded belts became more fashionable on a large scale a bit later.
@gardenplots283 haha yah..back when they first aired, I was IN LOVE with the whole "sash look"...now I can't believe I ever felt that way! They are so weird! 😂
Ah man, I so can relate with this bride. Being an overweight child, teen and until my 20's, low opinion of myself because of the weight. There are times when we look in the mirror and see that heavier person in the mirror. I hope she can find the dress of her dreams.
I think so many of us feel her insecurities. Even twenty-five years after losing 80 pounds and keeping it off, I still struggle with seeing a fit image in the mirror. I feel her pain.
Body dysmorphia is a very real thing and I still suffer and struggle with it. Any amount of weight I have gained back sends me spiraling and the image I see in the mirror instantly becomes the one that’s 90lbs heavier than I actually am. It’s hard…and even harder to explain to someone who hasn’t ever dealt with it.
You're right about people not understanding it. My husband tries, but ultimately gets impatient with me. It is especially difficult for me since I grew up being compared to my thinner sister (why aren't you as beautiful as she is?) and I have never felt like I measured up. About ten years ago, I was pretty sick and, for the first and only time in my life, experienced dramatic weight loss without trying. Within about six months, I was down to 95 pounds and, even then, I struggled with my body image. It's crazy what we ourselves, our families, the media and other influencers do to our emotional selves and how difficult or impossible it is to get past it.
I think the dress her friend's pick looked amazing on her.
It did but she was right that she wanted a classic wedding dress not a red carpet dress
She’s so pretty
She needs her mom there to support her 🤍
I think they could have picked better dresses. Mom needs to be there.
She wanted plain.
I get the feeling she’s chosen that man based on her low self esteem…so many red flags here and she chose someone a lil bottom shelf. If I were her I’d go find me first and then date someone who was more top shelf.
I didn’t think any of the dresses were flattering to her.
This consultant has no clue what she’s doing!
I’m here for the comments because I remember when this episode aired and I was like … wth?
shes so pretty omg i hope one day she actually sees how gorgeous she is
Why didn't she shop for a wedding dress in a bridal salon where her mother lives if she's too ill to make the trip to New York?
Maybe she wanted to be on TV.
Kleinfields is a dream shop for many brides.
She is very thin now. I hope she has gotten healthier.
The dresses she tried on were ordinary. Why wasn't she shown something simple but elegant. She had a budget of $5000. They dresses the consultant picked could of been better.
I have another appointment the day before Mother's Day to find my dress. I have an IDEA of what I want, but might have to change my mind since it's being gifted to me by my spiritual Mom.
I thought the dress that the girls picked out was lovely on her, and had a more flattering neckline.
Beautiful girl. She looks stunning in her dress.
I lost around 33 kg and I was shopping the other day and felt so uncomfortable and so unsure about everything when I tried the outfit on that I liked.. it’s like as if you have to find yourself again.
Her fiancé gives a kind of creepy vibe tbh🙂 we shouldn't judge but still..
Sorry but we have right to judge - who normal gets someone fired so they can ask them out?! Its unhinged... Its so sad she doesn't see how creepy it is
The boy friend is giving me a icky moment...
She is so beautiful!
good for this lady! it is obvious that she changed her mindset and changed her life in a positive way for her and her health... congratz!!!
The problem is that strapless is a bad look for her. She doesn’t have much of a bust, and it would be better for there to be straps or short sleeves.
I love her hair.
She is beautiful and such an inspiration!
What a beautiful woman!!
HE GOT HER FIRED????
BEAUTIFUL LADY OUTSIDE AND INSIDE
I’m so happy for her🙌
Heather is absolutely gorgeous! ❤❤
Wow but she does look a little too thin. But she is so beautiful✨
Maybe Panina wasn’t selling there yet? They sure didn’t appear to have anything for her.
Relax, your beautiful, and this 1st dress is you❤🎉❤
Beautiful girl in any dress
You're absolutely right. I hope this girl eventually sees that. It looks like she eventually saw it in the dress she ended up with -- and absolutely, she looked exquisite in it!
Those dresses hang off her, she can’t fill them.
Yes! The only one that fit was her friends’ pick!
Cause all dresses need to be ALTERED individually for MOST of people?
Why didn't Randy bring out one of his dresses????
He had stopped designing for a while. This is an old episode
Thank you
Her body changed by her mind didn't. 🙏🏾
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As a mental health nurse, I've worked in many eating disorder units, so I know it's not the person's weight that's the problem but their brain which tricks them into believing they're fat when in reality they're skin and bone.
It starts off innocuously; losing weight then getting compliments and encouragement from others, but then it keeps going. Then suddenly friends and family see how much their loved one has shrunk and they become concerned and rightly so. Also, they might notice changes in behaviour.
She's a very pretty girl as she was before she lost all that weight. Now she's got to deal with her daemons, so she doesn't lose anymore.
I hope she's been to her doctor to get checked out. I wish her all the best for the future.
one of those frustrating episodes 😒 for 5K they could do so much better. when she’s so slim now, she has curves they just get overwhelmed easily. they kept putting her in more structured, tailored styles & stiffer fabrics. She just needed a damn mermaid dress with some nice drape and a deeper neckline to bring out & flatter those curves, her waist is tiny she doesn’t need any cinching in…. could’ve been so easy and looked amazing. as long as she ended up happy but this was such a fail 🤦♀️
Thanks
As someone that lost the same amount of weight over 13 years ago, I still see the heavier me in the mirror and in my head.
Yess, body dysmorphia
You need to congrat yourself. Amazing. It's not an easy feat.
You are not average you are gorgeous!
Why didn’t Randy or one of consultants step up and tell the entourage they need to be more encouraging????
She's beautiful
If she had any confidence she wouldn't be marrying that creep. Also her mom needs to be there
I would love to see someone try on the dress that's behind them in the interviews.
That's just rude. Buying the same dress from someone else.
I would have gone back with mum and only mum and got the 1st one.
Mom can't travel she said from NC,
I wonder where she is now?
I don't understand why they lose their confidence with the weight 😮
that's not workplace sexual harassment?
That’s crazy!!! I wouldn’t have dated the person that fired me!!! Making it worse marrying them. No. I’m sorry.
She looks good but she wasn’t that big to be honest in her before photos so I hope she’s not trying to be anorexic because she’s kind of extra skinny, you’re able to see her back bones I think she would look more beautiful with some of her weight back on
120 pounds is obese , she looks just fine
So sorry for this girl. She is a clear an anorexic. Wish her all the best!
She's a lovely young woman and it's great that she lost the weight that was bothering her, but she seems to have gone a little overboard. When did "extra skinny" become a compliment, and why?
she lost 120 lbs, she might be 110 soaking wet now, 230 is not what i would call "not that big"... i do agree that she seems to be going too far to the skinny extreme, like the way her collarbones stood out was concerning to me. and saying that she still sees her old body shape in the mirror is a red flag. i hope she's working with professionals.
She may not have pictures of her at her top weight. Lots of overweight women are the picture takers and don't want to be a subject of the picture.
This beautiful young lady needs therapy first then go wedding dress shopping❤
She looks unwell...
Is the price only for the rent or buy entirely?
Vor lauter Abnehmen in die Magersucht ??
I think so too
Unfortunately you can develope Anorexia from dieting
Wow 120 lbs❤
I think there’s a danger she’s become too obsessive with losing weight as she mow looks too thin.
@@deniseadams1703she does not look too thin. 😂.
@@PinkieJoJoshe does look too thin. As someone that was in this situation you can actually get addicted to loosing weight and you can become anorexic
@@PinkieJoJo I thought she looked underweight and bony when they showed her putting on the dress from the back.
Yes,she is too thin. She got even thinner for that last photo
She has a problem
Believe me losing weight by that much does matter how you feel about yourself.
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She's really beautiful; I wish she'd found what she was looking for. (They could have found a better dress at that price range.)
At the end she bought the same dress she liked here but in NC.
Wow 120 pounds you go girl. Chocolate 🍫 fudge and I had a fight today and an I ate the fudge
It's medicinal fudge - an acceptable stress remedy
@@katl6426exactly 💯
I actually just ate a Lindt chocolate bar for breakfast. You show that fudge who's boss, dear! 😊
@@karenstieglitz3443 I just did mom and I just finished it for breakfast 🥞she says she won’t make anymore
@@kellicoffman8440 It's also been proven to be an anti-oxidant for wrinkles, and as @katl6426 pointed out, an anti-stressor. I hereby give permission for Mom to make more. 👍
Omg girl?! You are not an average woman! You could be a model. You're a beautiful woman!
So utterly stunning! 😊
Someone needs to keep reminding her to stand up straight. She keeps hunching her shoulders over. So sad. This is a pretty girl, who needs to believe in herself more. 😢
God bless her but I think she lost too much that may come back to haunt her. Please love ❤️ who you are!!
Um, i’m not sure I like the way her relationship with her fiancé started.
Heather’s friends were looking out for her. She really needed a dress with some bling. Those dresses were too plain.
I don't think those dresses were right for her. She needed something over the top. She needed some bling.
Wait..... Is that Keisha??? It means that this video is almost 6-7 years old.
She is beautiful and congratulations on losing all the weight. Unfortunately you can see by her slouched shoulders she is not comfortable with herself. The last dress picked by her bridesmaids actually looked the best.
The dress looks 1000
Sounds like she is still hurt. Heather.
Being curvy my whole life I totally get her because the fat person still lives in your head but I really think she over did it and is too skinny now! I think 5 or probably 10 more pounds would be perfect! I hope she has a great marriage and loves who she is! That first dress was soooo cute when she it on withOUT that tacky silk belt! I would swap that belt for a bling belt nd it would be perfect.😊
What why 6:35 want the dress so perfect why the horrible confidence, her fiancé paying for the dress is creepy and controlling... she is beautiful but a reck!
Anyone notice her right eye glitching?
Where did the extra skin go?
She is a tall girl, so here she might be 50-55kg (without any skin flap). Was she 110-115 kg before, in her “whole life” ? Any picture of that? (the ones they showed just don’t cut it) By the way it is awesome she could lose weight however much.
What are you talking about seriously you are acting like it matters how much she weighed before. Clearly she was a little overweight and lost a lot she’s at the lower end of a healthy weight
Why put her back in the same dress? Let her pick one out.