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Mum's Old 80's Dress Or A Beautiful Brand New Wedding Dress? | Something Borrowed, Something New
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 เม.ย. 2018
- Lauren needs to make a decision on whether she will get married in her mum's old 80's style dress, or a brand new one she has picked out for herself.
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The old dress was 5 million times better than the new one, what a shame.
Well if she was feeling better in her new dress then that’s better. U don’t have to like it 👍🏻
You are absolutely right! The dress became more revealing which lessened its class and elegance. What a pity!
Five million times better as a rag.
The mom came from humble beginnings and her husband got that dress for her first purchase! The remake looks tacky and cheap and really badly made. You can really tell that the mom doesn't like it at all and she's going to cry.
I haven’t finished the video, but I feel for the mom because she does cherish the dress so much. I wouldn’t risk totally obliterating my beloved wedding gown for the purpose of my daughter POSSIBLY wearing it for her wedding.
@@jessicazeller8060 Yeah I don't like the premise of this show at all. Seriously, TLC?
heck I'm not even the mom or bride and I wanna cry for them
I so disagree. The borrowed dress has a touch of class, the new one - just no.
How many of you think the original dress is better? 🙋♀️
I liked the old ones bottom much more
Me
Yep
Racquel Castilla 🙋🏻
Racquel Castilla I don’t really like either one because of the low cleavage but I do like the idea of remaking the dress but why are they always made low cut I would like to see a modest one
Noooo the original dress was perfect!! They ruined it :-(
I agree
@@daniellaalmeida1139 i love how you are a guy with fashion sense
@@StevieMichelle Girl...but thanks I guess
It was perfect for mom. Not The daughter
So what. The daughter didn't
A perfectly vintage dress has been completely ruined
Mom should have let her daughter get her own wedding dress
For real💀💀😂
Well, it's a good thing then this show offers a pick between old and new. The old dress would have only been ruined if the daughter wouldn't even consider wearing it to her wedding after the alterations. Just because it's not your taste doesn't mean it's "ruined". She wouldn't have worn it to her wedding the way it was. The way it is now she does consider it and it's now a fair competition with the new dress of her own choosing.
I absolutely agree!That beutifull lacing on the neck!Totally ruined!
totally agree.
Yess what i was thinking
I think the new dress fit weird and unflattering. I don`t think it was worth destroying the original, plus I think it was really traumatic for the mother.
yeah me too
Well then they shouldn't have gone on the show cause that's the point and the mother knew what she was getting herself into
Aria Anna True, but that is obvious. If you notice, my comment contains three ''I'', meaning it was my personal opinion.
that sums it up well
Milena Koseva it looks like an old season. Maybe it's the kind of style.
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Hi yes. The fact that smthe mom started to cry when she took the scissors to it I...
The mom should have kept the dress to herself
Seriously it was so important to her
Yeah. They committed crime with changing this fabulous dress. They ruined it, they shitted on it.
menaga maniyan and her mouth shut as well
@@HA-gx2dg Yep. A lot of times the moms on this show are just being pushy about their daughters wearing their dresses when they say no. And then, they regret when their daughters pick the new dress they actually like.
I think the old dress looked better the original way it would have been so beautiful if they left it like that and just made it whiter
Maisie Agreed! It looked sophisticated on her before. And the after-dress just looks like a cheap Frankenstein made with very little thought. This show hired poor designers. Not to sound mean, but they can definitely do better/ find someone else.
I like it too. I might just would wear it without the lace on top such as when the designer cut the top front off because my skin right there usually gets irritated easily. But it is a beautiful vintage dress. I really love it the way it was too.
totally agree..the original was way better
Maisie exactly, the transformation is horrible
The designer broke mom's beautifull dress... The renew dress is look like cheap one...
The original was much better and more expensive looking. The daughter looks uncomfortable in the new one. The original, with the high neck cut out, was perfect!
@Ash id have just cut off those little sleeve/back flap thing and been done with it. I loved the neck
You did hear Lauren say she hates the neckline? Better listen again
You were not going to wear it. The daughter hated it
I thinks the orig is much pretty the neckline from.chest to shoulder is loose
how do I like a comment several times?
God I wouldnt let that "designer" design garbage bags, let alone to destroy my mom's dress
From the videos I’ve seen of her work...it’s atrocious and she butchers those dresses 90% of the time
She may as well have built a garbage bag out of that dress. It legitimately looks like a trash bag to me.
Kelly is a terrible designer she ruins
Lovely old dresses
They ruined that dress. The lace and skirt area of the original was stunning and ethereal. To cover that all with cheap, shiny satin and weird beading...so disappointing.
If she would have just stopped after removing the part around the neck and restoring the color on the old dress, it would have been beautiful and flattering. Instead, she completely ruined it.
Thorn Volkov I completely agree
agree
I agree with you on her mother's old dress I liked it with the short sleeves
I agree
I like the added beading, but I agree about removing the lace and sleeves. This one looks fine, but it doesn't look as..magical? I guess?
Omg they butchered that dress! Horrible! Looked so much better the way it was originally. So chic and boho
Yasss
The old dressed looked more modern lol
yes
The neckline was awful
Sadly yes...
"Mom's dated dress" was perfect. Just needed a little washing.
I agree I would have rocked it proudly knowing I had a mother so cares and loves me
I think removing the lace above the neckline was a good idea, but otherwise it was perfect. And then she went and destroyed the neckline by flattening it out -_-
Agree... the remodel was not good... ratty neckline... it was lovely before... just needed careful cleaning.
The neckline look absolutely horrendous after she altered it!
Trinity W made her look flat and frumpy at the same time
Ikr? I can understand wanting to remove the lace on the collar but it should've stopped there.
They said its off the shoulder...
Its not even below the shoulders
She destroyed the bodice and those straps are both too short and uneven.
The mom's dress was beautiful..they ruined it 😑
Irene Maria Thomas yeah it was sooo pretty 😍
Right!?
Irene Maria Thomas ikr
should’ve kept it in the box in the closet. i would have loved that dress. ugh i might just think about getting a similar one for my own wedding in the future
Irene Maria Thomas i agree -_-
OMG NO! When she cut off the illusion and “turtle neck” it was so perfect. I cannot believe they took away the cape. They completely butchered that gorgeous dress.
The mom genuinely looked like she was about to cry
Agreed! :(
Wow this was awful. She should have stopped at that neckline, and just soak & whiten it.
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And, cut the capped sleeves… it would have been perfect.
Tell the truth here. you hid the original dress and bought the "altered" dress on Wish.
I hope so! I'd love it if they didn't actually destroy that beautiful dress.
if you look at the patterns of the lace, its unfortunately the same dress
rest in peace
@@double0hsnap538 I expected a better job on the Dress. Made it look cheap. She could have used the pretty bling neckline as a belt, or enhance the bust.
God I fucking hope.
It actually looks older!
They changed a beautiful old dress into a cheap looking dress😑
lol
The 1980's dress is originally hidious. The remake is a vast improvement.
The old dress looked way more enchanting and elegant than the new and bland dress.
Edit: Thanks for the likes! I've never had this many likes before T__T
And they don't make dresses with sleeves or cap sleeves any more. Unless it's custom made.
If the waist part would be more fitted, I'd love to wear it if I'll ever gonna get married hahaha love the skirt as well
@@TheRabidWolverine if she had some alterations then it would look stunning on her.
@@annaconigliaro2907 no argument there.
Yes! The lace was so beautiful. My gosh.
The pain in the mother’s face and voice and how forced she sounded saying “it’s just beautiful” at the end. I’m so sorry her beautiful dress got destroyed.
The look in her eyes. You can see the hidden distraught.
Can't believe they destroyed such a wonderful ethereal dress and made it look so cheap
I think it is selfish to expect your daughter to reuse your moment. She is entitled to her own moment.
Completely so thats my thought as well
That's why they are on this show to begin with? This show offers a compromise by altering mum's dress to something the bride would wear and a choice between that and a new dress. I think agreeing on this compromise is not selfish and pretty much selfless. Because you agree to be on a show of which you already know they'll be cutting your old dress apart. Selfish would have been if she wouldn't have been okay with cutting in her dress and forcing her daughter to wear the dress as it was before. They are on this show because they love their daughters and are open to a compromise. And love means that both parties are open to compromise and meet each other in the middle. This show is the part where they meet in the middle.
Iv1309 picking a wedding dress can be so sentimental. The moment you put on that dress and see the perfect dress for you is so special. Because of the mom, the daughter can’t have that moment. Moms like this are so obsessed with reliving their wedding, when it’s not their wedding it’s the daughters moment and the daughter should be able to have that special moment. The mom can’t “force” her to wear it, she’s a grown ass woman. The mom should understand it’s the daughters special day, not hers.
Maybe the daughter wanted to do this
@@joyceprice4811 Not Mom for sure, having her very important dress be destroyed for 50% chance her daughter would wear it? No thanks.
*The older version looked better, now it looks cheap*
Maybe if her mum hadn't pushed her daughter into having her dress it still would have belonged to her mother, now it's been spoilt and I don't really think either of them like it, I wouldn't have a second hand dress either unless it was a really old vintage dress that had been passed down the family, her mother didn't wear second hand, why should the daughter unless it was her own choice
Agreed
It looks like it was made in China
The mum has been kinda pushing her old dress onto the daughter..wtf..if it was my mum i would say thanks but no thanks early on, the girl has her own ideas
She took what was an expensive, good quality dress in ~1983 and made it look homemade.
That dress looked waaaay better beforehand
It looks cheap now😒
@@oldmcdonalds2287 ikr
New dress looks like a night gown for sleeping 😂😂😂😂
Omg same 😂
Holy Crap you are so right
I think I had one like that when I was 6. In 1974.......
To me it looks like a cheap Barbie dress
I was just about to write that exact same! 😂
Mom's dress was the prettiest 80's dress I have ever seen.. They ruined it.. So sad.
For me personally, the old dress was better before the change.
Mom is so traumatized. I loved the vintage look. I agree about removing the neck part but they completely changed everything.
I believe she went under-budget... in a bad way 😐 her mom's dress is very charming, even with the original neckline, it just needed a little whitening in my opinion.
Went from a beautiful 80s wedding gown to an 80s cheap prom dress 🙄 looked best with just the neck cut out. The new skirt lace looks cheap
yep looks so cheap
Why did she put that cheap satin finish?? Nooo I loved the back draping of the dress.
They need a new “designer,” they make the new dresses worse than the old.
Alondra Moya exactly! That new fabric looks like it was bought off of aliexpress
The neck piece was actually soooo beautiful. The dress used to be such a beautiful piece.
You guys did not keep the integrity. The original was perfect
FAILED. The original is better!Poor mom 😩
Mom had her wedding day. She needs to let her daughter have hers.
Poor mom didn't have to go on this show.
They didn't fail. They would have failed if after the alterations the daughter would have disliked it because it's about what she thinks and she likes, not about what you, a random stranger, would have done differently and what you would wear to your wedding day, it's not about you or any of us random strangers on TH-cam. But because she now likes it and might wear it on her wedding day, while the dress before alterations she wouldn't have because it's not her, it means they did a good job. And concerning mum, they wouldn't have even been on the show if she didn't agree that her dress will get altered. She knew what she signed up for. Of course it's emotional when they start cutting. But obviously she was also happy to see the altered version.
of course theyd pretend to be happy they signed up for the show but its funny because their faces actually reveals how unhappy they are, just look at.the mom she says wow.but she looked traumatized lol
@@Iv1309 this video is posted online specifically for the approval of strangers who watch TV. They did a garbage job, and I'm sure that if the altered dress was worn down the isle it would receive several stiffled snickers
I don’t understand the concept of the show at all, why do you have to butcher an old dress that has sentimental values attached to it, when you’re not even a 100% sure you’re going to wear it!!
Justgirlystuff 101 because some brides are bridezillas and don't care about other people's feelings.
Same thought.
Because some moms are so fixed on having their daughters wear their wedding dress instead of having the daughter get their own.
I mean when I was in contact with my mom she was hell bent on making me wear her dress. And I wanted to change it. I wanted to remove all the sleeves get rid of the high waist belt and completely change it. And even then I didn't know if I would like it. It can be hard to imagine what you would look like in the dress if it hasn't changed any. Though I totally get where you are coming from.
It's a show and it gets people to watch? If you hate then why are you watching it?
I don’t like what she did to the moms dress :(. It looked like it was falling off her shoulders and didn’t accentuate any part of her body. Just looked like it was hanging on her about to slip off the shoulders
Mallow07 M ... it was called an “off the shoulder dress”
to whoever edits and puts these videos together: LET US SEE THE END
That 31 year old dress was amazing without any alterations. I’m sad that they ruined her mom’s dress
she RUINED IT i would have sued that "designer" wtf
Dee Sherlock same. she just hated the neck than cut that part out perfect but no she had to destroy it and make it unflattering
well if she likes it that shouldn't matter
marycielo arroyo I agree it's upto the bride but it doesn't look good on her. It looks cheap specially since the original dress was so pretty
Pink Heart it does look good on her. But the original did look better.
Everyone always wants to “sue” ugh idiots SMMFH
Too bad...the old dress was incredible, vintage and beautiful. I cannot believe they've ruined it like that!
honestly yeahh
For an 80s dress, that needed no redo and fit her just fine. It looked modern enough, just needed a few touches. Not THIS.
The fact that they butchered that beautiful dress hurts me deeply
Personally, I preferred the original dress over the new dress. The lace up to the neck had so much charm. Not to mention the fabric. It looked great. The new one looks like plastic
The train doesn't even match the dress?
Chari I agree
Isn't it trail..?
Niharika Agarwal it’s a train
I thought it was trail
I know
Oh hell no that was one of the most beautiful dresses I’ve ever seen...HOW do you even make something so stunning look so tacky
Looks like they bought it on Wish or something
The original was flowy, beautiful cute, fancy, vintage, and it looked more expensive in a good way
I honestly don’t think I could put my mum through this
The mom’s dress was surprisingly quite classic and beautiful. The back flap might be a little more dated . But “very 80’s” to me would be like giant muttonchop sleeves and a shiny fluffy satin cake topper bottom.
That dress is most likely early 80s before the extreme sleeves and highly ornamented trains became popular.
These moms that want their young daughters to wear their wedding gowns from the 1980s, I just don’t get it, and I don’t feel sorry for them. This isn’t about them.
Also it looks even worse after they ‘fixed’ it. I have yet to see a re-done dress on these show clips that actually looks nice.
Exactly! Like all clothing, wedding dress styles change. Unless there's no other choice, no one wants to wear an old, dated-looking dress. But I did think this dress was beautiful in that brief moment that we saw it without the (pretty awful-looking 80s style) neckline. But I absolutely hate the fabric she added in front. Ruined it.
Kary J. My mom got married in 1980 and was a size 0, i couldn’t even fit my leg into it, I was so glad!!! 😂😂😂 My skinniest friends couldn’t even get into it. It was one time I was thankful that I was plus size and big boned! 🎉🎉🎉🙈
Agreed
Because it was traditional back in the day that you pass your wedding dress onto your daughter.
Kary J. Some are very classic looking. My mother’s is gorgeous. Ideally i want to wear my grandmother’s from the 40’s.
if that was my old wedding dress, i would have sobbed at the first snip!
That lady is one of the worst designers I have seen.
"This is actually bringing it back to life"
Now it looks pretty dead to me.
Lyncitia got that right 😂
😂
They pulled it out of a grave for her to put on. It was dead before they pulled it out of the box
The redone dress looked super cheap with the satin and looked very ill-fitting around the torso.
Usually, I love transformations they do on the show but this one got me thrown badly. To be honest, after they scooped out the neck part they should have stopped right there!!! The older version was Classy, it looks cheap and disturbing.
I am sorry but wtf. I thought they were keeping the neckline cutout she showed them at first. Got the dress look tackyish and the neckline looks too pulled together smh.
I loved the old dress it's better than the new ones.. They completely ruined it by editing.
Mom's dress was beautiful and mom looked gorgeous!!!!
The vintage dress was beautiful!!! It compliments her pretty face.
I don't understand why mothers want their daughters to marry in their wedding dress. Don't get it.
Michele Nakamura My mother does not, but I do. My mom got married in 1987 and had a beautiful silk dress that I find timeless and perfect for my taste and style. When I told my mom I want to use her dress when time comes (I am not even close getting married yet), she was like No, you can buy something new and beautiful. But I still stand by my decision and I will proudly wear it.
If you look into the history of the white, one-time use wedding dress that women use today you may better understand; it's a relatively new tradition generally created and reinforced by the "wedding industry". 100+ years ago only the very wealthy could afford a white (hard to keep clean) wear only once dress. The was no 'middle class' like today and they just wore their best dress or borrowed a dress. Many wedding traditions today are relatively new.
Ivana Pesic - wait you’re going to wear your mums dress despite her not wanting you too?
Sophie - Trafotoz She just wants me to know that I have choice and no pressure or demands from her part about my choice (unlike some mother that expect their daughters to listen to their wishes about dress). I will 100% wear that dress the day I get married because I love the style and how it fits me and it is the one if I can be cliche.
Ivana Pesic - not cliche at all, I love “the one” & think it’s a beautiful phrase💜 and when you know it’s the one, you know!
the way they remade it was SUPER unflattering and honestly ruined the original dress
Mom should have let her pick her own dress for her own very special occasion!
Agreed
Hello, that's exactly why this show offers a choice? Mother would like daughter to wear her dress, daughter doesn't want that, and this show first of all offers a compromise by altering mum's dress to something the bride might actually wear, and second of all gives her a choice between something old or something new, and obviously the something new is something they picked themselves. The mums on this show understand that their daughter might not pick their dress even after the compromising alterations. This is the concept of the show. This is what they agree on to be part of the show.
Imagine the first dress with a cathedral veil...the new one makes me want to scream. Poor mum.
Great Halloween costume !
The old dress was gorgeous originally. I personally loved the neckline.
Immortality Angel same
Yeah I liked the shear but now it’s just glossy af it looks tacky
Same, the higher neckline gave me grace Kelly vibes and I just thought it was gorgeous! The new satiny one looked like it was from a costume store
why would she just cut it without the mums consent but like mums should never pressure their daughters/sons to get the dress that the mums want
Billy Jeans The mothers know going in that their dresses are going to be re-designed. It’s the premise of the show. I have watched about 12 episodes and I have yet to see a bride choose their mother’s dress.
Consent was given when she agreed to be on this show
They give their consent when they sign up for this show. 🤷♀️ Mum would love to see daughter in her dress, daughter doesn't like the dress, this show offers a compromise. And you know what you sign up for. This show offers a compromise by altering mum's dress to something the bride would like to wear, but also give the bride an option of wearing something new of her own choosing.
What kind of designer are you? I'm not one to go off on people, but these people TRUST you to make something look better and half the time you butcher it.
You... really need to go back and study your craft. Something is very... very wrong here.
the designer: "it's my job to keep integrity of the original dress"
me: you should be fired. you ruined it, it looks cheap, and fits her poorly
Now it looks like she bought it of eBay
Where did she learn designing? 😑😑
That awkward moment of silence when she came out with the altered borrowed dress. Only the guy host said it was beautiful. The rest of them were just stunned into silence, and i didnt think they were stunned by the beauty of the dress, more like "what have you done?!! This is totally different and not a good kind of different"
The bride then awkwardly adjusted the neckline of the dress, trying to hide the discomfort at how ugly the dress turned out to be, and laughed trying to fill that awkward silence. The mom's face is horrified. Horrified.
Everyone involved in "remaking" that dress should be blacklisted from the fashion industry
agreed
I read the comments before fin8shing the video and thought "everyone saying it was ruined but surely it's not that bad" then when I saw it finished I agreed... they should have stopped after they removed the lace my the neck...
Same 😑
The dress was so beautiful before omg they ruined it
if l was in this girl's shoes l would choose my mum's dress straight away.
My heart started to hurt once they showed the woman cutting the dress...then it was ripped out when I saw the mother's face and what they have done to her beautiful 80's dress...I died a little bit inside and I feel so bad for the mother....
nooo, the transformation is horrible, the before dress is far away better
The 80's one for SUREE. That's not even a question. It has a backstory, saves money and looks better in my opinion. If it was just cleaned and fitted it would be great. I would KILL for that dress :( they don't even have to fix it. In my opinion.
Chari i personally don't like the old dress, so i guess the bride had a different opinion as well.
Chari same 😢
I agree! I thought the old dress was really pretty. The only thing about it i didnt like was the sort of V of material that fell off the back. I like the neck and the cap sleeves but the neck might have been itchy or so. At most I would have cut off the lace and then neck to open it up a bit but just left the general shape. They really ruined a beautiful dress :/
@@tess2082 If I were the bride, I honestly would have not invited mom if she kept pressing me about wearing that 80s monstrosity at my wedding. "But it's just a dress" ? Sure, but it also shows you can't respect that I'm a grown woman with different taste than you. What else would you try to control in my marriage ?
I actually really like the old one as a whole with all the craftsmanship, the mom had good taste, it feels very georgian-era dress like pride and prejudice /bridgerton, a style that some modern brides choosed to wear. The bride could've just clean it and have a theme photoshoot in her moms dress.
Mom should have let her daughter get her own wedding dress! They just ruined it! The dress turned out hilarious! Even worse. No offence🤷🏻♀️
That mom must be heartbroken right now.....
If she had just let her daughter wear the dress she bought she'd still have her old dress intact.
Also she should have gotten a new dress not destroy her moms heart
That's the thing. SHE HAS A NEW DRESS. Her mother's was borrowed. :(
She should have said no very firmly to hte old dress in the beginning, it would have been the kindest thing to do. Just laundered it and maybe taken a photo in it for comparison.
"I saw myself" It's not you though... it is your daughter. Stop trying to make her relive your day and let her have her own. Seems pretty selfish.
It absolutely is selfish and childish.
Caitlyn Dicroce that’s my teacher and her husband teaches at the same school as her and true!
Agree!
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When does a mother own their child? It seems like parents are just free charity... never becoming a parent.
I just wish they’d gone with the new dress and just left the old one alone.
That first dress is absolutely gorgeous. They didn’t even have to do anything with it for it to look amazing. When they removed the neckline, it was still gorgeous.
Then she just sabotaged it.
Wow ..mom was bomb when young
The original dress was beautiful and it looked much much better on the girl. I don't think they should have ruined the mothers dress plus the mom looked like it broke her heart to have it cut. The end result didn't even resemble the mothers wedding dress. I think it is a shame that they altered it.
am i going delusional or did the mom just say "oh my god horrid.." 5:52
I'm shocked. The old dress was very soft and romantic looking, after the lace in the front was removed it was stunning. As most of us here agree, just whitening the dress after that would have been a much better wedding dress
They took away all the best elements of the old dress - if it had been properly fitted to her body it would've looked beautiful without any more modification. The new new dress is a boring, cookie cutter bridal style.
Deirdre McMahon you could tell the bride was not happy in her mother’s dress (especially in its original state). She’s happier in the new dress.
Sorry but I think the 80's dress is very beautiful... I love the high neck... Too bad they took it away :(
Me too. I actually like it with the high neck its so beautiful and timeless.
The dress is classic.
I love how the designers can just draw a picture of the old dress to a new dress
At 5:53, I'm pretty sure I hear the mom saying, "Oh my g-d-- horriiiid." And she's right.
Am I the only one who loved the original dress exactly how it was?!
I seriously like the original dress much better than the after version
I was an 80s bride and love my dress. When the time comes, I can't wait for my daughter to find HER dream dress; can't imagine trying to guilt her into wearing mine.
I think that's what a lot of the people commenting '"But the original old dress is better" don't get : It may be nicer to them but not to the bride. I agree with the bride in saying it's totally not my style, so we wouldn't be cajoled into being on the show in the first place. Ultimately, though, it's the bride that decides.
glad to see everyone hating on this monstrosity
The original one was more pretty and elegant
I'm sorry but that new dress looks kinda cheap 😕
when her mom said "it's amazing", my reaction was like "is it??? really???"
Kelly had taken mom’s old dress and DESTROYED IT. Goooosh