Randy Helps Bride With OCD Who Is Brought To Tears By Dress Appointment | Say Yes To The Dress
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20-year-old Kasey has been struggling with OCD since she was a child and finds the experience of buying her wedding dress very overwhelming. Luckily, Randy is here to help.
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Can we just take a minute to praise the staff for their patience, perseverance and all round gentle care? At no point did they express frustration or push their vulnerable bride. Beautiful to see.
I'm so tired of seeing the phrase "Can we just take a minute/moment." Obviously it's popular and it gains points for the commenter.🫥
@@IceSkater8491I disagree. I know know you probably think it sounds cliche, but life in general needs more focus on the good things in life. Mental health comes with a lot of stigma, so to be treated with such respect is likely not something she's used to. And this is one of the most important times of her life.
Amen
Seems staff is working additionally as psychologists!!!!Whats the world we living in!!!
@@jenniferlee1410Go to the mental health specialist's, no wander this generation is called snow flakes!!!
Randy would have made an absolutely incredible father
he is gay lol.
Agreed! But he can still be a father one day, & hopefully he will be, if he wants to be.
@@coldwinter5710 It will never happen.
@SahMai why because he's a gay man?
He's a great fur dad ❤
*As a mom, I understand the parents struggling whilst watching their child struggle with learning how to live with how she is. Whether it be dyslexia, OCD, ADHD, Autism, etc., they have to learn how to manage it as they grow up and thereafter. You can't do it **_for_** them, you can just cheer them on. And worry...even when they are older.*
100% 👍😉🇵🇹
kacie chose well in the end and overcame a huge hurdle in the process. Mum was an absolute gem!!! Xx
You are a good Mom 🙂
Bambi I very much agree with you. With her issues she is way too young to get married and marriage is hard enough. What's her issues she may drive her husband crazy. I get the feeling her parents love her very much but it would be okay if she lives with her husband not in their house. If I would have come home at 20 and had not yet finished University. Now I could do what I wanted. But I understood that my parents loved me and wanted the best for me
I van relatie to that too. When jou see tour child breack down and struggling that breacks tour heart
I noticed Kasey was actually very decisive and could quickly make decisions when she did NOT like something. It seemed like committing or saying yes to things was more difficult. Obviously this is just a very small, edited snippet, but I wonder if she would gain confidence in rejecting the identity that she’s not good at making decisions. She actually demonstrated good skill and assertion when it came to declining dresses she knew she didn’t like.
I like this perceptive observation
Reversing the process
Sort of like SWOT into TOWS
AMAZING SUPPORT ALL ROUND
WISH HER JOY
I agree. She has allowed negativity to permeate her life. I think she could benefit from a lot of counseling to help her focus more on the positive rather the negative
Those are good points.
@@chrislent6142That's some toxic positivity. To me she seems just very perfectionist, to the point where she's afraid of making a choice and then finding out that it wasn't the best possible choice after she's stuck with it. That's why she has no problem saying no to dresses, because you can automatically say no to any dress that's worse than at least one other dress, and realistically if you change your mind no one is going to say you can't have it because you said no once. But feeling confident that you won't find a better dress, not even in another store or online, when you can't afford to buy a second one after you buy the first one...impossible. And the culture that it seems like she comes from probably doesn't help, when having a perfect dress is considered to be a reflection of your inner purity and being a good person, and not having a "perfect dress moment" is some kind of judgement on your relationship with your significant other... I wouldn't want to make decisions, either.
That is so insightful, you made such a great point. It would be awesome if she saw your post. 😊
God bless her parents for being so supportive and understanding...the bride looks beautiful in her selection.
Yeah her parents are so supportive. Her mom Karen had so much empathy.
"i just want her to be happy" love this lady. Wish I had supportive parents like them.
I'm also suffering from OCD but my parents are like "aww stop all this drama"
My mom never understood either...
I'm so sorry. I am a fellow OCD struggler and it is not you being dramatic at all. We do not choose this.
I'm sorry your parents treated you like that it's so sad. It's not your fault
there's a line that has to be walked between understanding the issue and not using it as an excuse to disempower yourself or others.
As someone with OCD my heart aches for her. Even on highly produced tv you can see her genuine pain. Props to the staff for handling her appointment with care.
I’m impressed by this young woman’s courage in being vulnerable with a world of strangers while navigating a major life milestone. Kudos, too, to her wonderful family and caring consultants. Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect, y’all. Our roads are not always easily travelled.
I don’t think picking out a wedding dress is that big of a milestone. Many people make it seem like it is though.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj it's a big deal for her as she has OCD and is struggling
YES! EXACTLY!
3,000 dollar dress, so hard, much struggle
I'm sorry but there is absolutely not one drop of courage.
Can we take time to appreciate the mom? It's too bad that her name is such a negative stereotype. She is everything a mom should be
Yes, it’s way past time that people stop using the name Karen in such a negative, mean spirited way. People should pause for a moment and think how they’d like it if their name has almost become a swear word in today’s society. It’s immature and hateful, and equates the user as exactly that, picking on thousands and thousands of really nice women who have the name.
One of my favourite names..and the name of a very good friend. I,m not American so maybe it doesn't have the same negative connotations for us in the UK.
@jessicaellina3878 yeah, unfortunately the name Karen has come to mean an entitled pushy woman who thinks that all she has to do it complain to management to get what she wants. A Karen also has no qualms in approaching someone who they think is doing something wrong and tries to push her views on someone else.
I just wish we could have a different word for it, not an actual name.
@@jessicaellina3878 I apologise if I've misunderstood your comment, but I am also a Brit & I'm very aware of the use of 'Karen' as an descriptive insult. However my son is a teenager who uses YT & Tiktok a lot, so maybe that explains it 🤷🏼♀️
Ps I also have a good friend called Karen, although it's spelt Karan (still sounds exactly the same though) 😏
I agree. It’s like Jerry or Dick, etc. It’s so degrading and I’m not saying that just because my mom and one of my best friends are named Karen.
I have anxiety and it’s hard to make decisions cause you never know if it’s the right one. It’s scary. This poor baby!!! I fell in love with her. How sweet is she!!!! Such a beautiful girl.
You’re an amazing person, I’m glad we have people like you in the world
I love you and I am proud of you how brave you are❤❤
I love how aware she is of her state of mind and how she can verbalize it so well too. It is a testament to her parents, therapist, and of course her hard work. ❤
I totally understand this bride's struggle, but the entourage and the staff seem just let it roll instead of rolling their eyes and yelling at her for it.
The smile on her dad's face alone on the last dress is priceless. And the mom's response to the situation is *chef's kiss.*
Shout out to this mom; she's so understanding, patient, and loving.
I love the way her mum calmed her. Tone and patience is very important. Her mum asked how do u feel... Randy and the staff were excellent and very patient too. ❤❤❤
My God, she is soooo young.. she's struggling so much with this, I cannot imagine the responsibility of being a wife and future mother.. yikes. I hope she finds teh help she needs. Her future hubs must be a lovely soul.
They have two kids, this was over 10 years ago.
Exactly 💯
Thing is, her OCD won’t go away. Regardless of her youth. To choose to live your life, continue on and power through your disorders is what makes someone even more strong than you realize. I have ptsd, (and adhd). Regardless of my issues, I still need and want to live. I want the experiences other people have without someone thinking ‘yikes’. My husband helps me with my issues because he loves me. And it will be the same for this lovely lady in the video. And as another comment said, 10 years later she’s still married and has 2 children. Further proving she made the right choice for herself. It all worked out just like it does for everybody else. She just had to work harder for it. Her ocd will always be there but her life doesn’t have to suffer and stay stagnant because of it.
@Seal_pup Well, said. You lent some deeper understanding to this conversation...and some empathy. Thank you!
@@L.Spencerdamn, really? Hope she got help and medicated for her ocd because kids are messy af she'd be cleaning all day. I would think people with ocd wouldn't want kids because of how messy they can be. I certainly hate the idea of having to clean up all the time
I totally understand what she’s feeling right now, having OCD is not fun, people don’t realize it’s a real thing, I appreciate the staff for being patient and gentle with her.
as someone with OCD, it was very impactful for me when i heard her mom mention letting her daughter work through decisions on her own even though it took longer and was frustrating for the parents. my parents cared, but didn’t have the tools to fully understand and work toward that patience. this mom did though and i am so so so happy for her and proud of her. such a win for the whole family dude :)
I hope she and her partner have a good marriage. I was married to someone with an extreme OCD and love is not enough. Lots of patience and being ready to hear no a hundred times might be difficult for the marriage in the long run. My ex had a borderline personality disorder in addition to it so it made my life hell. She seems really sweet and so happy she found something she can commit to.
I hear you. And I wonder how she will fair at 20 with making decisions on so many things that really matter in life like where to live, your job, compromises to make, when to stand firm. Seems like a lot to take on.
So glad for this young lady that her parents understand her so well and support her as she works through making a decision! She looks lovely in the gown she chose!
Awwwe I'm so greatful she found her dress. For me, the challenge will be the sensory feeling. I'm autistic and ADHD and anything that feels uncomfortable becomes overwhelming and equals a meltdown 😅
I can relate. One of my main concerns is that the dress or any clothing doesn’t keep irritating or overwhelming me in some way.
I know..like sequins on a part of the bodice that rub against arms 😭
I’m autistic too and I’m worried about that as well xx
I have a generalized anxiety disorder and can definitely relate to this. I hope life has gotten better for her!
The mom is super supportive and Randy and Jessica were so patient and caring in helping Casey find her dress . I wish her the best on her wedding day
I can only imagine how difficult it may be for her to be married.
Yes, why the rush at 20? Could have used more "adult" time to find herself.
Exactly. I find sharing my space with someone else to be a nightmare when you have OCD.
Her internal fight with OCD is REAL & Kleinfelds staff are very patient & super supportive of her feelings! Congratulations Kleinfelds on your Consultants, your reputation is wonderful!
She's very self aware that she is blocking herself from enjoying the experience. I can see the anxiety on her face and feel bad for her.
I truly admire her parents because I don’t know how they do it. I was just watching this process for 9 minutes and I’m exhausted. Whew!
They don’t have a choice.
Yes they do. And they chose to be supportive. Some wouldn’t.
@@ginaschelleman9011What I meant was, it is their child so they have to be supportive to some extent.
@@ginaschelleman9011Its a fine line with anxious children. Sometimes you heed to push them a little but know when not to.
Her mom is a godsend. My mother would never sit and comfort me like that or shed tears over me.
I'm kinda surprised that she said yes to a proposal! You chose beautifully.
This sweet girl needs intense counseling before having children, who throw so many "decisions making moments" st you, she'll need to handle those things in order to have a happy family. Bless her.
I wish her and her groom a lifetime of love ❤✨-her grown is beautiful on her
They have two kids, well at least. She wore the dress in 2012.
I understand her pain. I also was diagnosed with ocd in the third grade. For what it’s worth, so many dresses are beautiful- she won’t make a mistake ❤️
The struggle is real. I am so happy for her, no matter what, at least she was able to choose her husband!
I wonder how she chose a husband then? She is young too. I thought she would pick a husband way later on in her life.
Because he made the decision for her!! 🙃🙃
I know her struggle all to well. When you struggle with OCD, and anxiety making decisions is very difficult. The worry, fear, and second guessing is right there to throw you into a full blown episode. For me I’m afraid to go out in public, because I’m afraid I’ll end up embarrassing myself. I’m so happy she was able to overcome, and found her absolutely beautiful dress.
Randy you are just so in tune with your clients. People skills are so important.
Your bridal assistants are equally respectful and so patient.
OCD/ADHD and Autism can be difficult for these persons.
Randy well done 👊
Australia ❤
PS the gown she chose was beautiful..it suited her.
Randy is just the best. He really feels for the bride . . . and shows it.
What a great mom. Thank you, sweet lady, for genuinely loving and understanding your daughter.
This is such a good momma!
Oh I’m so glad she was open about her struggles and the consultant was so supportive and understanding. She looked beautiful
She is such a sweetheart. So kind and loving. I suffer from anxiety and depression and i know that sometimes making big decisions is hard. Its scary and stressfull. Especially with everyone watching you. And i suffer from just learning things so sometimes i make things harder than they really are. So i understand her completely. She is so beautiful and her husband is so lucky.
I feel so sorry for her, my heart goes out to her 😢. Luckily she has a very understanding and supportive mother, which is wonderful.
I don't think I've ever been more happy for a bride to say yes to the dress! I can't imagine how difficult OCD would make things! And Kleinfeld's staff is second to NONE, they're absolutely incredible!
She made the right decision. She looked stunning!
I have OCD and I can relate to a lot of her story! She seems like a lovely person and I hope her wedding day is beautiful and fun!
Idk this young lady, but I’m so happy everyone was patient with her. She looks beautiful in her pick.
God bless her parents!! Thank goodness for randy and his staff
I'm not sure why she's getting married so young, but she looked very pretty in the gown she chose.
Statistically people who took a virginity pledge are more likely to marry young. Which sounds slightly amusing, but is actually a bit worrying. I wouldn't have liked to get married so young. I would have married the wrong person 🙈
I really wonder how this girl is able to carry the challenges of adult life as a married woman.
The staff deserves medals
Absolutely that dress was for her! Beautiful, beaming bride. Wonderful to see a family so supportive of each other.
Amazing family support, esp. Mom!! May all be well for them.
I have OCD. And this breaks my heart. Thank you for helping her.
She looks happy and very beautiful...Thank you to her parents and family along with Kleinfeld staff for being caring and supportive of her!!!😊
Our lives sound exactly the same. I was also in 3rd grade when I also starting washing my hands until they bled due to severe stress in my home. My mother was being physically abused and I had so much guilt that I, as a child, would not get up in the night and try to help my mom. I wouldn't touch other children because I was afraid they would die if I touched them. The thoughts that would threaten me if I didn't do the obsessions and compulsions it asked me to do. Finally 100 mg. Of Prozac a day helped me soooo much for years until I had gastric bypass and then all my meds quit working. They never told me that they take out about 8 feet of your intestines when they do gastric bypass weight loss surgery and in those 8 feet of intestines is where most of our medications break down and blend into your body so hardly any meds work for me now. There is hope for you , I promise. You can do this! Prayers!
Prozac transdermal gel
I hope she was able to settle on a dress and new tools to help her deal with OCD.
Dress two, was absolutely stunning on her. So was the one that had the big floral belted look on? It came in pink as well. She can’t go wrong. She’s a beautiful young lady.
She looked so beautiful in her dress! Love her family and the consultant too. Hope shes happily married with her SO 😊
I feel really bad for her😢 it must be exhausting to struggle and think about each and every decision she's asked to make. I wish her a happy life with those who understand how sweet she is.
Absolutely! She showed no pressure to say they were pretty or try things she didn’t like.
I don’t have OCD but have a lot of anxiety and waiting to be tested for ADHD and I could totally feel her struggle and emotion 😭 not only is there pressure on yourself to find something you love when there’s always something that I’d pick out to not love, also the pressure of having people there and staff helping when you just don’t know 😭 amazing family and amazing staff in this episode!!🥹 and the dress is BEAUTIFUL on her!!😍
"I've earned my white", loved that :D
Absolutely stunning on her! I was sitting here rooting for her!
The dress she chose is gorgeous ❤
The gown Casey chose is very pretty and she looks spectacular. Casey trust yourself more. You’ve done great. Wishing you much happiness on your marriage.
OMG this child got me in tears! I'm so glad she was able to say Yes to the Dress!
Love the desine of the peach defently white.
You're like a princess good luck
To you both on your wedding
day.
Kasey that is definitely the perfect dress for you
You look absolutely stunning
Casey is so pretty. Will be a gorgeous bride. Wish we could take that negative talk in her head away!!!
How did she decide to accept her fiance's proposal? Genuinely curious, since that's an even bigger decision than a dress you'll wear for 10-12 hours.
My youngest son has OCD and it’s very debilitating! My heart goes out to this beautiful young lady!
wonderful parents
I have a son with Tourette's and severe OCD. He doesn't like to acknowledge or admit to the OCD, but it's such a struggle as a parent to watch your child have such difficulty with things that are normal everyday situations for others. This mom was amazing and my heart goes out to this girl. She's lovely and makes a gorgeoua bride.
I love this mom. She's so supportive❤
She looks so beautiful in her dress
I don’t understand parents supporting an 18-20 year old getting married. I’d be encouraging my child to wait.
As a rule I've noticed brides in the rural South tend to marry at younger ages than the rest of the country.
Honestly, that is very young to be getting married, especially with the issues this young lady has.
I hope her husband to be totally understands what he's getting.
Have you ever TRIED to persuade a young couple that they would be better off waiting a few years to marry when they are SO IN LOVE and no one OLD understands. No wonder there is a relationship between age at marriage and divorce rates.
The replies here are, with one exception so far, very rude and judgemental. Deciding that you know what's best for someone else after watching a short video on TH-cam is jaw droppingly presumptuous. Where she's from and her age are, frankly, none of your concern and not factors that a stranger could use with any accuracy to determine what she should do with her life.
This young lady is so beautiful!! That dress is even more special for her, considering the obstacles she had to overcome to reach the decision to say yes! I wish her and her husband-to-be a wonderful life together!!! ❤
Bless that young woman! I cannot EVEN imagine what she goes through on a daily basis! And Randy! I have such respect and love for this man. Amazing how sensitive he is towards all these young women, having no children of his own. Bless him too!
A very understanding and kind mom, who encourages her daughter to trust herself and patiently allows her to take her own time. The staff and wonderful, compassionate Randy were great too. Perfect dress!!!
I wonder how her marriage is going. Randy is incredibly kind, patient and understanding.
I'm so disappointed by all the negative comments on this video. SYTTD and their affiliates chose to showcase a young woman working with/through her struggle in order to pick out a dress she's wanted for a long time. Whatever she chooses to do to cope with her OCD is her call and commenting in a pitying way doesn't help her or anyone who relates. This was brave of her and I hope her hubs knows how amazing the woman he gets to marry is 😌
Where she all the negative comments? I haven't seen any?
Empathy isn't pity
I don't know why you don't have a sample book filled with all the different elements. And the book is divided into three, like children have and represents the top, middle, bottom. And people can sit down and mix and match and come up with the elements of the dress and then you start with that. You could also print it up and put it on a board and give the bride colouring pencils so they can colour the copy while they are waiting and gives them something else to think about it, like art therapy. Then you can autograph it and they can take it home. Also saves time. And it can change as the appointment goes on. That way there is no back and forth and less frustration, stress and anxiety.
David's bridal had something like that when I got married. (Are they still in business or bankrupt?) . You'd create your avatar with your weight, height, hair, eyes etc and then "try on the gown". You could even choose a ballroom or formal garden background. It really helped me.
What a great mom! God bless the bride and her groom, and the family
Wow. Her Mom looks so young and flawless. I want that DNA. LOL
The bride is adorable and chose a beautiful gown.
Bless her I have had many patients with OCD & their pain is so real.
That dress is one of my top 5 favorite dresses of all the episodes I watched so far. I love how patient her mom is with her daughter. Same goes for the staff who showed so much compassion for her.
HER PARENTS ARE A BLESSING!!!! omg to have such people when you deal with any neurological or mental disorder
She has been dreaming of this since she “was a little girl”. She is 20 years old!!! She is still a little girl.
No, a very young adult.
No, 20 is a young adult and not a little girl!
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 20 has zero life skills. It's basically an child with an adult body.
Randy and Jessica are fantastic. Such patience. Such empathy. It was hard to watch the Bride struggle and cry. I could feel the Mom's love. Glad she got the dress that she felt comfortable in. It was a unique, flattering and beautiful choice. Wishing her the best.
This has to be the sweetest episode I have watched. So much patience for her by the staff and family. ❤
Awww, sweet girl, you did so great working through it 💜
And Mama, so tender and understanding
That is a gorgeous gown!! She will look beautiful on her wedding day.
Muitos parabéns pela atitude da mãe dela. Sem dúvida está a ser muito boa no trabalho. Muita sorte no futuro a todos. Kiss from Portugal 😘🇵🇹
She’s not behaving in a way that’s different than any other bride. Not sure why the ocd would be brought up so much. She doesn’t seem challenging or overly picky at all. And she looks radiant!
At 20, she should wait a bit to get married and continue to work on herself.
Beautiful young woman. Outstanding staff. And her parents as well : )
Loved this episode. Truly appreciated how patient and understanding they are with Kasey after she revealed her condition.
It makes me sad how many negative mean comments there are about her on here cause she has OCD. OCD is so misunderstood
She’s so beautiful and her smile lit up the room.
Stunning ! I personally have OCD but it’s been helping with my life and I’m way too good with decision making. I only hesitate if I’m not convinced 😅
Casey's mom is a saint. The way she handles her daughter is amazing. The staff was great too.
I love how the whole entourage chimed in and kept saying positive things about the dress. Helped her focus less on the doubts her brain is giving her and more on the good stuff. They knew her well, not just with knowing when the dress was right, but how to help her confidence in her choice. What a lovely family.
Perfect choice! She looks absolutely stunning! The perfectly beautiful bride!💕