I've felt this one person for 8 years is the ONE he has always been respectful and enjoy each other's company. Though he never has crossed the line towards a relationship not just friendship. Our time is more memorable than with anyone else and he is the only man to never try to get in my pants etc. Just genuinely enjoys my company. What do I do. Keep the hope up and maybe he's not ready or letgo
what about having autisme, and have neen daignosed but that ot did'nt make sense towards how to get work social, but what the daihsnosed just told me, he not good with words better with hands. how can i do that into relationship or dating?
I recently quit therapy, because it wasn't getting me anywhere. This conversation was more valuable than the hundreds of dollars that I wasted on my therapist.
@@madisonhicks7072 You're right. It was a bad fit. I feel the same way about dating though. I exude a lot of energy. But it's exhausting and disappointing. At this point I just do inner work and spent my time working on creative projects, and helping other people work on their creative projects. I think life is too short to spend energy on frustrating things.
Hey try the Emotion code !! I see talking about your problems does not work. ❤ This is a therapy identifying the issue and removing it from your brain and body
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isn't always Rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is, to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain, sister. after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
This video is soooo spot on and people just dont take the time to focus on who we are and the good that we are versus a feeling of immediate lust and then discarded because there is no immediate reaction. Take the time to see their true character and values.
My son is 30 and not dating. He's works on his health and fitness, career and spends a good amount of time with family . He is happy being the cool uncle.
"Before you come to couples therapy, I want each of you to come in and say: if you were to be the best selves in this relationship, what would you need to change?" 1:03:08 Thank you for this question
I just want to quickly say… I am beyond grateful to have access to this. This podcast has helped me tremendously and I can’t help but to share my gratitude.
I just wanted to make a note on every sentence, but the most powerful one for me was about love. Love is saying, I am taking the time to understand your operating instructions🔥❤️
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
I dont usually click on relationship videos. Maybe because I'm scared of relationships and I'm scared of what I'll hear that I'm doing wrong. But I tell myself its because I dont want to be given the wrong advice on something that would come naturally. 30 minutes in, I'm glad I clicked on the video. there are things I can work on but I feel empowered instead of shamed
Another fantastic interview. I love these ideas and mindsets. I've been ghosted now 3 times with in this past 2 years and wondered why this has increased. I read a book about gaslighting that I just couldn't finish as it seemed like very rare situations. I always ask my self this question when things go wrong in a connection, what I am doing to attract this into my life, and does this behavior need to change and then I do the work from there. Love this information you are sharing in this podcast, thank you SO much! 🙂
Really loved this conversation! There’s a lot that I learnt I very much agree, we are all so quick to cut people out of our lives but the better approach is to put a boundary and work on trying to understand each other
Going through a separation with kids and I know he isn’t my person simply because I’m watching this video and I don’t feel as if me sharing this info will help him want to put aside our challenges and refocus on the right questions to ask ourselves as individuals …. All in all I married the wrong person out of lust and familiarity
I think on the part where we want our partner to read between the lines and know our needs is bc we are still subconsciously looking for that unconditional parental support that we needed growing up. When you’re a baby, you expect your needs to be understood and fulfilled and when that doesn’t happen from an attuned parent I think you go through life still looking for that attuned parent to know you & fulfill your needs as if you were still a child who can’t communicate.
Omg, this was so perfect to receive in my spirit, and where i am at this point in my life, I am definitely listening to this the next 30 days. This was awesome and sooooo deep on so many levels. This is going to help elevate me on a different level.
So good, those terminologoes are thrown around like it's free. Sometimes it's our own poor communication that lead to the other not knowing or aware of our needs. Self awareness and self reflection then look at the other person. Love how you mentioned how do we feel after interacting with the other person❤
what about if your past relationships made you a person that has very hard time to accapte new trust from some one that is'nt totaly honest. like me, i as guy did have hard time being honest to my ex. because a was afraid she wouldn't accapte me for being autistic, getting guided be people that help me to know how to take care of meself. it felt that i couldnt tell her everything, so i told her bitz, but then again i did lie because she asked me after the talk, was that everything is there more, were i said, that it, even there was more but i was holding back because i was afraid if she would not accapted me, with getting help from people that guide me in to this. it felt like i was not a adult even that i was 35 at that time and now 36, and me ex left me 3 months ago for not being honest and not meself. but her past relationship were some very broken trust issue on to her. with her mom and her past ex. so she wanted all the answers right from the start. even that she was also hidding history from her parents that she felt was more painful to tell right away.
Love this discussion ! Thank you so much for all these advices.. There so much to learn on how treat our self and others better. I will keep in mind, the fact that we all have our own way of functioning, so we need to be willing to learn and understand our partner/ friend’s mode of functioning.. love is a verb.. how can I be more loving ? Also, am I respecting my own boundaries? Last but not least, helping others to open up by creating a safe place.. it’s important to validate their feeling, letting them the space to feel their emotion.. Thank you ! I’m looking forward to see Lorie Gottlieb back to your channel !
I`m a viewer from Germany. Thank you both so much for this very interesting conversation! As a 50 year old single mom of two boys(teenager) I had come to realize over time that I grew up in very unhealthy relationship dynamics within my family. Of course my ex-husband had the same upbringing, so we navigated the ship blindly and into the wrong direction. We broke up 5 years ago. I'm constantly improving my Mom-skills to help my boys grow into healthy human beings, but just thinking of a new relationship and all the work that comes with it makes me feel exhausted. How can I overcome this?
Another purposeful podcast & constant learning! Hope more coming true parental encouragement & asking for requests to anything! Keep up the great work Jay 💪
Wow great conversation thanks for sharing I’m 34. I notice in myself a deep need to feel loved. I recently had an experience where after a few dates I felt compelled to tell someone how I felt about them. It really threw me they said it they felt I was love bombing. The rejection blind sided me and illuminated a deep fear of rejection after what I thought was a genuine connection. Your conversation has helped me analyse what my part in all this was, did I subconsciously attach meaning to something that wasn’t there because I fear rejection? Did I get carried away because my brain was hijacked by the highs of dating? What are my blind spots? Was I being self serving perusing this person? I’m trying to remain curious and analyse my own part in all of this.
Sometimes boundaries is just not going to your in-laws anymore because they won’t listen 👂 so you don’t spend time going over at all because there very toxic and won’t change and they come from the Ego mindset they don’t change. So sometimes it’s better to just let go of those toxic individuals
"Criticism is not a funny way of making a joke and if you have to put someone down to be funny than it's probably not someone you want to be in a relationship with"
Hi, thank you so much for this enlightening conversation. I am 31, have been with the same guy for 8 years now, we are not married and have no kids (my goal has always been marriage before kids). I feel he hasn't taken much initiative over the years to work on being the future provider I'd like him to be. We are not in a good space financially (he's been in the same job with no promotion for 6 years now, and I've switched jobs in that period for better income. It's only now that he's actively looking for better roles on the job market, nothing's come up yet). He says he does plan to marry me and would like us to start a family, but I don't see how when he's not making much effort to be financially stable. I'm starting to doubt his love and commitment for me. Am I wasting my time with him?
Hi guys, thanks for this video. One thing I’d like to add about attachment style.. it seems that no one is talking about the experience of someone who has lost the principle care giver.. through death !! Not the one who wasn’t available or unreliable or absent for long periods of time but the one who never came back because of death In early childhood ., at the age of 17 months old or 18 months old How do you describe this type of attachment style when you have lost your mother as such a young age and the replacement wasn’t great nor stable?? ( long story) Thank you for your thoughts
Update alleuia Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for Keely 30 weeks pregnant on Nov 10 Keely had baby Freya 3 lb 4 oz 16 inches long in ICU Keely went home but baby Freya has to stay in the hospital she desperately needs your continued prayers please pray for them God bless you all.
Do you have any advice for me . I’m 52 but I’m only attracted to men who are at least 10 or 15 younger for me . They are into me too . I look 35 and I don’t find men in their 50 attractive . I cannot help it .
One of the top ways to stop being What I call the oscillation of b*******, stop judging your life by other people's lives. They are not you. They don't have your souls contract and You weren't put here to be anyone else other than your authentic self.
His operating instructions, "I need to be able to sleep around." After 10 years together, 6 married of cheating and lying, projection. Its hard to especially to have to come to terms with what a true narcissist is. I dont see a way forward with this person any longer, no matter the mountain of love I have for him.
‘It’…boils down to a man’s wealth, wealth creation, wealth management… all the other relationship markers can work, but in my experience if a guy isn’t supporting or aligning with her standard of living he’s toast…
Well I hope that after doing the inside work I’m going to be attracted to healthy people . But who knows - maybe it is not going to happen in this life . 😊
Im 31 and im still single. I chose not to be define by society pov of settling less than I deserve. With the high divorce rate and young marriages. Nah
If only some parents can be that understanding lol I'll never see my mom again if I say that to her. Her EQ is too low to take any criticism. She has her good qualities, EQ is just not one of them unfortunately 🤦🏻♀️
38:40 I used to think like she did about narcissism before I actually went through narcissistic abuse and didn’t even know it. It’s more complex than how she is putting it and the way she is downplaying it can be a disservice to ppl who actually went through it.
It is actually cringe because instead of isolating the fact that it’s often misused, she coupled it with the fact that narcissism is not common. That is not correct. She should stay away from this topic (narcissism) if she is not aware of the complexities and the reality of it.
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I've felt this one person for 8 years is the ONE he has always been respectful and enjoy each other's company. Though he never has crossed the line towards a relationship not just friendship. Our time is more memorable than with anyone else and he is the only man to never try to get in my pants etc. Just genuinely enjoys my company. What do I do. Keep the hope up and maybe he's not ready or letgo
Tell him!!!!!!!@@yotagerlie
Omg- 28 and “behind” pssh !
How do I stay true to my principles without putting to much pressure on my partner, to meet my standards?
what about having autisme, and have neen daignosed but that ot did'nt make sense towards how to get work social, but what the daihsnosed just told me, he not good with words better with hands. how can i do that into relationship or dating?
I recently quit therapy, because it wasn't getting me anywhere. This conversation was more valuable than the hundreds of dollars that I wasted on my therapist.
Therapists aren't a one size fits all. It's like dating, you gotta find the one best for YOU 🌼
@@madisonhicks7072true. In this metaphor the therapist is the partner that is always perfect
@@madisonhicks7072 You're right. It was a bad fit. I feel the same way about dating though. I exude a lot of energy. But it's exhausting and disappointing. At this point I just do inner work and spent my time working on creative projects, and helping other people work on their creative projects. I think life is too short to spend energy on frustrating things.
Hey try the Emotion code !! I see talking about your problems does not work. ❤ This is a therapy identifying the issue and removing it from your brain and body
@@Sarah-bx6xr I'll look into it. Thx!
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isn't always Rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is, to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain, sister. after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
This video is soooo spot on and people just dont take the time to focus on who we are and the good that we are versus a feeling of immediate lust and then discarded because there is no immediate reaction. Take the time to see their true character and values.
My son is 30 and not dating.
He's works on his health and fitness, career and spends a good amount of time with family . He is happy being the cool uncle.
My 30 yr old son is doing same thing and same age
I am 31 and doing the same thing 🙏🏼
Great priorities~ will attract the same!
Please introduce your son to me. Thank you 😂
Or me! Thankssss hahaha
"Before you come to couples therapy, I want each of you to come in and say: if you were to be the best selves in this relationship, what would you need to change?" 1:03:08 Thank you for this question
thx🙏
I just want to quickly say… I am beyond grateful to have access to this. This podcast has helped me tremendously and I can’t help but to share my gratitude.
Great convo! It’s awesome that you’re in a place to have celebs on, but these types of convos are so much more relatable! Thanks J
I just wanted to make a note on every sentence, but the most powerful one for me was about love. Love is saying, I am taking the time to understand your operating instructions🔥❤️
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This just reminded me of something! This book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”. My confidence shifted in a whole new way.
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Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
I dont usually click on relationship videos. Maybe because I'm scared of relationships and I'm scared of what I'll hear that I'm doing wrong. But I tell myself its because I dont want to be given the wrong advice on something that would come naturally. 30 minutes in, I'm glad I clicked on the video. there are things I can work on but I feel empowered instead of shamed
The way I’m 28, worried, and single.. I needed this
Girl I’m worried too ☹️
Same!
Another fantastic interview. I love these ideas and mindsets. I've been ghosted now 3 times with in this past 2 years and wondered why this has increased. I read a book about gaslighting that I just couldn't finish as it seemed like very rare situations. I always ask my self this question when things go wrong in a connection, what I am doing to attract this into my life, and does this behavior need to change and then I do the work from there. Love this information you are sharing in this podcast, thank you SO much! 🙂
Really loved this conversation! There’s a lot that I learnt
I very much agree, we are all so quick to cut people out of our lives but the better approach is to put a boundary and work on trying to understand each other
Going through a separation with kids and I know he isn’t my person simply because I’m watching this video and I don’t feel as if me sharing this info will help him want to put aside our challenges and refocus on the right questions to ask ourselves as individuals …. All in all I married the wrong person out of lust and familiarity
I think on the part where we want our partner to read between the lines and know our needs is bc we are still subconsciously looking for that unconditional parental support that we needed growing up. When you’re a baby, you expect your needs to be understood and fulfilled and when that doesn’t happen from an attuned parent I think you go through life still looking for that attuned parent to know you & fulfill your needs as if you were still a child who can’t communicate.
One of the best conversations I’ve heard IN MY LIFE. Thank you.
This is a phenomenal interview. This can even go for married couples who have been together for a very long time like myself. Thank you
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Omg, this was so perfect to receive in my spirit, and where i am at this point in my life, I am definitely listening to this the next 30 days. This was awesome and sooooo deep on so many levels. This is going to help elevate me on a different level.
So good, those terminologoes are thrown around like it's free. Sometimes it's our own poor communication that lead to the other not knowing or aware of our needs. Self awareness and self reflection then look at the other person. Love how you mentioned how do we feel after interacting with the other person❤
Thank you for the realness in this conversation. It's okay to grow with each other 💓
In a relationship, you have to have trust and honesty
YES!
what about if your past relationships made you a person that has very hard time to accapte new trust from some one that is'nt totaly honest. like me, i as guy did have hard time being honest to my ex. because a was afraid she wouldn't accapte me for being autistic, getting guided be people that help me to know how to take care of meself. it felt that i couldnt tell her everything, so i told her bitz, but then again i did lie because she asked me after the talk, was that everything is there more, were i said, that it, even there was more but i was holding back because i was afraid if she would not accapted me, with getting help from people that guide me in to this. it felt like i was not a adult even that i was 35 at that time and now 36, and me ex left me 3 months ago for not being honest and not meself.
but her past relationship were some very broken trust issue on to her. with her mom and her past ex. so she wanted all the answers right from the start.
even that she was also hidding history from her parents that she felt was more painful to tell right away.
This was an amazing episode/conversation that I didn't want to end, but I'm glad there's another conversation from you guys to check out
YES! 🙌
Love this discussion ! Thank you so much for all these advices..
There so much to learn on how treat our self and others better. I will keep in mind, the fact that we all have our own way of functioning, so we need to be willing to learn and understand our partner/ friend’s mode of functioning..
love is a verb.. how can I be more loving ?
Also, am I respecting my own boundaries?
Last but not least, helping others to open up by creating a safe place.. it’s important to validate their feeling, letting them the space to feel their emotion..
Thank you !
I’m looking forward to see Lorie Gottlieb back to your channel !
I love how emphasized and clear she talks....
I`m a viewer from Germany. Thank you both so much for this very interesting conversation! As a 50 year old single mom of two boys(teenager) I had come to realize over time that I grew up in very unhealthy relationship dynamics within my family. Of course my ex-husband had the same upbringing, so we navigated the ship blindly and into the wrong direction. We broke up 5 years ago. I'm constantly improving my Mom-skills to help my boys grow into healthy human beings, but just thinking of a new relationship and all the work that comes with it makes me feel exhausted. How can I overcome this?
I feel you, I'm 53 and had some similar experiences. Hang in there.
"Emotionally generous",that got me as it is my downfall in relationships.
An amazing interview I not only learned about my partner but received so much insight about myself
Lori is amazing. You should read her book Maybe You Should Talk To Someone
One of the best videos I saw this month
People don’t abandon the ones they love. They abandon the ones they use.
Another purposeful podcast & constant learning! Hope more coming true parental encouragement & asking for requests to anything! Keep up the great work Jay 💪
Wow great conversation thanks for sharing
I’m 34. I notice in myself a deep need to feel loved.
I recently had an experience where after a few dates I felt compelled to tell someone how I felt about them. It really threw me they said it they felt I was love bombing. The rejection blind sided me and illuminated a deep fear of rejection after what I thought was a genuine connection. Your conversation has helped me analyse what my part in all this was, did I subconsciously attach meaning to something that wasn’t there because I fear rejection? Did I get carried away because my brain was hijacked by the highs of dating? What are my blind spots? Was I being self serving perusing this person? I’m trying to remain curious and analyse my own part in all of this.
Sometimes boundaries is just not going to your in-laws anymore because they won’t listen 👂 so you don’t spend time going over at all because there very toxic and won’t change and they come from the Ego mindset they don’t change. So sometimes it’s better to just let go of those toxic individuals
Im 50 and Divorced. But ill Figure it out. :)
The boundaries part is soooo powerfull
AGREED!
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Hey Jay brother i listen to your podcast...it's really very good
How about if you feel behind and are dating in your 40's as a man?
Love Lori Gottlieb. Such wisdom ❤
Thank you so much for this podcast❤❤❤
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"Criticism is not a funny way of making a joke and if you have to put someone down to be funny than it's probably not someone you want to be in a relationship with"
i came here to improve my english thank so much jey 🙏
Nice episode. 🤘 Sending love from RSA🇿🇦❤️
More love 🇿🇦
Such an enlightening conversation 👌
My favourite speaker Jay genius l love all his programs very much ❤
Let your light 🕯️ shine praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all....
Is making a partner watch this kind of episode help them open up, or will they use it to navigate and further hide their true feeling?
This is incredible!! Thank you 🙏🏻
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Thank you..such good suggestions on finding the best friend & lover
Thank you! This is pure gold
Thank you for watching!
So GOOD! Thank you SO MUCH!
You’re so welcome!
Amazing video . Thank you
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What about 40s and 50s?
The same principle applies, if you’re doing the work it’s not too late. Thank Neuroplasticity
uauuu 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻what an excelnt conversation ❤❤❤❤
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Right msg right time thank u so much u saved my life 🙏🙏🙏
Great Writer😊
So good! Thank you!
Thank you for watching! ❤
Hi, thank you so much for this enlightening conversation. I am 31, have been with the same guy for 8 years now, we are not married and have no kids (my goal has always been marriage before kids). I feel he hasn't taken much initiative over the years to work on being the future provider I'd like him to be. We are not in a good space financially (he's been in the same job with no promotion for 6 years now, and I've switched jobs in that period for better income. It's only now that he's actively looking for better roles on the job market, nothing's come up yet). He says he does plan to marry me and would like us to start a family, but I don't see how when he's not making much effort to be financially stable. I'm starting to doubt his love and commitment for me. Am I wasting my time with him?
Dziękujemy.👏
Hi guys, thanks for this video.
One thing I’d like to add about attachment style.. it seems that no one is talking about the experience of someone who has lost the principle care giver.. through death !! Not
the one who wasn’t available or unreliable or absent for long periods of time but the one who never came back because of death
In early childhood ., at the age of 17 months old or 18 months old
How do you describe this type of attachment style when you have lost your mother as such a young age and the replacement wasn’t great nor stable??
( long story)
Thank you for your thoughts
Hi 👋 do you have a Spanish version of your podcast?
thank you,this is very helpful
This episode is awesome!!
❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌
Update alleuia Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for Keely 30 weeks pregnant on Nov 10 Keely had baby Freya 3 lb 4 oz 16 inches long in ICU Keely went home but baby Freya has to stay in the hospital she desperately needs your continued prayers please pray for them God bless you all.
how i miss that feeling of being loved, especially by her. Wherever she is, I hope she's fine
Jay, I think you should get Kute Blackson on the pod
Awesome program! ❤
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Do you have any advice for me . I’m 52 but I’m only attracted to men who are at least 10 or 15 younger for me . They are into me too . I look 35 and I don’t find men in their 50 attractive . I cannot help it .
1:11:30 thank you so much for this.
Great episode!
Thank you for watching! ❤
Wow this is the best show
Thank you! ❤
One of the top ways to stop being What I call the oscillation of b*******, stop judging your life by other people's lives. They are not you. They don't have your souls contract and You weren't put here to be anyone else other than your authentic self.
His operating instructions, "I need to be able to sleep around." After 10 years together, 6 married of cheating and lying, projection. Its hard to especially to have to come to terms with what a true narcissist is. I dont see a way forward with this person any longer, no matter the mountain of love I have for him.
Great video
Gods plan!!
Love in a day to day is verb. How can I be loving to another person?. How is someone being loving as a verb to me?
‘It’…boils down to a man’s wealth, wealth creation, wealth management… all the other relationship markers can work, but in my experience if a guy isn’t supporting or aligning with her standard of living he’s toast…
Well I hope that after doing the inside work I’m going to be attracted to healthy people . But who knows - maybe it is not going to happen in this life . 😊
Ty ❤😅
Thank you Jay. Us Gen Z really needed this!
This is amazing! Also should be “breaking news” on CNN or some s$&!
25:32 yes
42:58 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Im 31 and im still single. I chose not to be define by society pov of settling less than I deserve. With the high divorce rate and young marriages. Nah
“Go to therapy” is the fad and universal advice of this generation
👌🏽✨ love
28?! Not behind at all..lol.
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to many ads on this video.
I loved this episodes but damn there were a lot of ads
If only some parents can be that understanding lol I'll never see my mom again if I say that to her. Her EQ is too low to take any criticism. She has her good qualities, EQ is just not one of them unfortunately 🤦🏻♀️
Unfortunately I need to reject 99 percent of men because of red flags 🤷♀️
My wife and I 😉 instead of Me and my wife.
Women don’t need to get married because we are going to end up doing everything. Women generally do more than men.
world leading therapist is so backwards lol
How?
38:40 I used to think like she did about narcissism before I actually went through narcissistic abuse and didn’t even know it. It’s more complex than how she is putting it and the way she is downplaying it can be a disservice to ppl who actually went through it.
It is actually cringe because instead of isolating the fact that it’s often misused, she coupled it with the fact that narcissism is not common. That is not correct. She should stay away from this topic (narcissism) if she is not aware of the complexities and the reality of it.
Stop using others by following espionage