My Little Brother Is Causing A Family Crisis!
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- My Little Brother Is Causing A Family Crisis!
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Some people are confusing Dave for Dr. Phil.
I was waiting for the money related question to emerge?! 😂
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Just threw my nearly 40 year old out because of drugs , abuse, and alcohol...yes, tough love and its winter out and guess he's gonna have to find a cold pillow..he wasnt happy with the room and board and food and love , now he has nothing.
Good job 👍.
He's 40 years old. Should've been thrown out years ago. But I guess better late then never.
@@Charlie-gv3zt thanks charlie..a mothers grief , ya know 😔
@@genxx2724 Yes..i kept him afloat with his life jacket on..now its off.
@@sofiaruby603 Yes, it's hard.
Just say, "Happy 18th Birthday. You're on your own since you want to be."
Getting kicked out was the best thing that ever happened to me. In the army and on the Millionaire track now.
Appreciate you brother. Supporting your channel from Yuma, Arizona
The spam army maybe
Casey has a dark past huh?
Respect to Cassy
Not on that army salary you aren’t lol. Make sure to learn some good skills in there
You can't help someone who isn't willing to work to help themselves. Distance can often be your best option.
You’re right on the mark with your first statement but I will argue it’s hard to ‘distance’ yourself from a dependent in your household. Tickets, creditors, authorities (in more severe cases) and shadier figures will present themselves at your doorstep because this person attracted them there. From my humble perspective, I don’t think distance is a feasible option. I don’t support the opposite end of the spectrum because I don’t think taking complete control works either. Consider the scenario where your family members cannot all get on the same page in taking actions like the ones Dave suggested in his video. There’s a chance that the caller will seek punitive actions (tough love) while the mother or other family members will remain reluctant to follow because they are more convinced a softer reaction will work better. I’m living a similar situation myself, so humor what I’m saying even for a moment.
I'm just watching to make sure it isn't my sister calling in.....
Hence why you don't have 15 different kids with 15 different baby daddies. Despite what the culture says, a child needs a father, and their own father is typically best for them unless he's some sort of addict or molester.
Agreed! Dads matter! We live in a culture that neither supports or values this. For true equality - men need to be empowered to be fathers. Fatherhood is not optional. It is a necessity in a child's life.
Preferably don't have a kid with an addict or molester regardless of gender in the first place lol
Fathers in the neighbor is key
I’m not saying you’re wrong here, but how does your rant help the kid and his family now? I’ll answer that for you- it does not. Lot of kids are living without both parents present and those are the ones more likely to spiral in early adulthood. The question in the video is, how do you prevent the spiral or at least soften the landing at the bottom? That’s a lot harder to answer than simply saying that the missing father should be there.
I've been marathon watching Paternity Court on YT. People are just cranking out babies by God who knows. Gone are the days of years of dating, getting a career in place, marriage and a planned family.
I've been close to that situation and the worse thing was that the grandmother would not stand firm with myself which basically enabled him to continue acting that way. But 18, Dave is right take the things away from him he takes for granted. Otherwise people will continue whatever the ones around them enable them to do.
For a brother who live with the problem child, how do you not know his past legal issues or which grade he is in.
I miss the calls where it was focused on finances...
Is dt phil show now
Anytime Ken Coleman is there you get these type of calls
This situation where one sibling is really a problem to the family, happens MUCH more than you think.
My adult sibling was and still is a parasite to our family. Our parents enabled the sibling from the day he/she was born. They ended up broke in their endeavor to save this person. The sibling has always been cruel to me. Now, even though we have been estranged, for many he/she recently called me asking for money.
He needs to go to his dads house.
Who will talk to the kid about his fractured upbringing and his family going after him? He's clearly broken and needs help
Dave Ramsey Show 🙏
You helped me alot !!!
That would be a perfect call for Dr Phil to sort out. This show deals with finances.
Oh I thought I was watching the Ramsay show, not the marcenel Joseph show.
Yeah, not really sure why he called this show in particular.
I’m like so when is he gonna ask about money …. 😂😂
Thank you
Papa Dave you are so wise and genuine! ❤️
The military is ALWAYS hiring.
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The Military is Voluntary.
The military pays less then minimum wage, besides for officers.
The military might not want someone with problems with drugs or legal convictions
“And your financial question is?”
I always hate hearing about family problems but they’re real. Hope they work through it
a therapist is definitely essential for .. any teenagers these days tbh
No it's not. Every generation had kids that misbehaved
Kicking him out he will be in streets and probably take to the streets until lock up.
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At 17 he can't get kicked out
Tough Love is most definitely an act of Love, but it’s never easy for any member of the family to go through this. Wishing this family strength, and healing for that kid who’s in pain and causing pain.
Unfortunately, family is always in crisis....
He needs to move out at 18, and DON'T let him move back home later! Empathy never benefits anyone in these situations.
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I don’t know if I agree with never letting him back. But he does need to suffer for a couple months first. My husband was kicked out of his parents house at 18, and now he owns a successful business and makes over 230k a year (profit, after all expenses). My husband’s biggest complaint is that after he learned his lesson and slept outside in the freezing cold, for months, his dad didn’t ever let him back in. It’s shaped him and made him tough, but he also has less emotions bcuz of it. Ideally his dad should’ve let him back in *once* he learned his lesson and was actively working hard at a job. He had to pay full price on rent, etc, and obviously that really delays someone’s start in life when parents give zero help
When my kid acted up, I took away his cell phone, computer, game machine, and car. Everything at the same time. That got him moving in the right direction real fast.
only works if your child is a coward who doesn't stick up for himself.
@@mmaybee2353 coward? Toward his parents?
Tell him that when he is 18 he needs to move out because he won't live by the house rules. End of story. If he won't leave, put his stuff out on the doorstep.
Pedro is living under the sea, judging by his cell phone connection…. 😅
If mama takes his phone away he may kill her. That’s how some of these kids react now a days!!
Seriously, that’s what happened in my apartment complex a few years back. The X-Box was taken away from the kid. In retaliation he killed his mom and brother. Crazy world we live in.
So sad
Give him notice that him being home isn’t working and will be asked to leave on 18th birthday. If he won’t leave the police will be called
This. Change the locks on his 18th birthday
Send him to love with his dad in PR. He won’t be so tough down there.
How did I know the dad wasn't in the picture?
And sometimes when you kick people out in the street, they end up dead.
Good advice. I recommend the book Boundaries, by Drs Cloud & Townsend. Dr Cloud has an online daily show that answers questions like this.
My brother is still a "knuckle Head" at the age of 39. He will never change.
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Dave’s show is now more about people’s problems and marriages then money.
my opinion on the matter is, this child is lost. he is might feel abandoned and or looking for loyalty or respect from others. this kids needs a counselor while he is still young and resilient. why do kids join gangs? possibly for the brotherhood and respect from others.
Dude go to therapy. This show is about MONEY
Different Dads. Mom parentalized the other son. Mom’s a champ, for sure.
But yeah it’s totally a bad son and not a bad mom.
Say it with me everyone: PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY
okay but was does this has to do with finances
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Marijuana is legal in Connecticut. I mean, you're not supposed to if you're under 21, but still.
Send him to the military
The real crisis is that phone. I don’t think a kid acting out is a crisis. When he turns 18 have him move out.
Remember when this show used to take calls about personal finance? Those were the days!
He needs a new phone
Where’s the money related question? Geez
What’s this got to do with finances?
i would add that i think they should take away any money he has on hand, give it back when he turns 18.
Druggies WILL steal whatever they need to support their habits.
@@raallen1468 and then he can deal with those consequences.
No father, older brother doesn't know much about him and smoking green is somehow a problem, WOW I CAN'T IMAGINE WHY THERE'S BEHAVIORAL ISSUES🤦♂️
Yeah the kid is not in a good environment to thrive.
I love your channel but this video is more of a family problem that needs to be solved with proper help instead of someone who calls to ask for family advice why not talk about money like the core element of this channel.
I completely agree. As I listened I thought this isn't a money question why is he calling but at the same time money often involves family, friends and spouse issues. Dave typically answers those questions in order to address the money issue's as well. So I think the guy sees that after listening for so long and felt like Dave was the best person to talk to. I'm sure there's other ppl he could have asked but it seems like he wanted it from him bc he's addressed family stuff in the past. I feel bad for the guy
Dave loves to point out that it's not tough love it's just love. He says it as often as he can Even if it doesn't fit
It’s to help show he’s loving, he REALLY doesn’t want people to take this out of context and say it’s tough love, cause again it’s not tough love.
Another Jerry Springer subject...
Get everyone some therapy
I can't understand a word he's saying. 🤦🏽♀️
Why is this guy calling Dave? Delony has a show and this is more of his territory. Dave answers money questions.
How is he cocky when he hasn't said a word and someone else who isn't related by blood is bad mouthing
Here's a hint people, one mother and one father, til death do us part, makes the best offspring possible. Every other option has a probability of failure.
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I mean even having a mom and dad together forever will have the option of failure, And having one parent doesn’t mean you increase the odds of a kid turning out
Don't forget to breathe and pray!
WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH MONEY? WHAT HAD THIS CHANNEL TURNED INTO? 💀
The Jerry Springer Show
Dave is trying to create a "media empire" and he's forgotten his bread and butter as it were
@@SarahConnor562 🤣🤣 Yea that was a wild one
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Someone needs to show him a Bible and exactly what God expects from him. He is acting out maybe because he is hurting, hence hurt people hurt people. He needs to know he has a Father that loves him and wants good for him. Never too early for this lesson. God bless!🙏🏼
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A bible is not a cure-all for mental health issues. There are plenty of Christians who suffer and act out just like this kid. There are also plenty of non-religious people who follow the law and don't suffer from mental health issues. Plus, for all you know he could be reading the bible everyday, but still struggle to make the right choices. He needs help from a professional in mental health.
God ain’t real
Send nuckel head back to PR he can live on the beach eating iguana meat and coco nut milk that grow him up quick
Maybe after High School graduation.
People use the term little brother when the little brother is probably bigger than the older brother you should use the term younger brother, it is correct
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Sounds like the problem is the 17 year old here is stuck in a family of impossible to please, impossible to make happy puritan fanatics. Puritans who wish to isolate & repress him as long as they can.
Best case, don't start trying to ground him or take away phones & thing. Just carry on as best as possible, with both sides clearly understanding that after high school is over, he's out of this catastrophe of a household.