Feeling behind & off-course, Making (real) Friends, Overextending yourself, & more to help you grow
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ก.ค. 2024
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It takes courage and vulnerability to ask questions when we are in times of doubt in our lives. Reaching out to others is the process of expressing our internal questions and releasing them into the universe so it can properly guide us. In this episode, Tarek thoughtfully answers the questions submitted on his Instagram feed. Listen in because you may be in the same space right now. It can be so comforting to know you are not alone.
Tarek Reveals:
-If you are feeling off course, know that we are all on our own journey.
-Your decisions are your own. Pull yourself forward, not back.
-What direction does your heart tell you to go?
-Shame and judgment have no place in your life.
-The important elements of making friends in adulthood.
-Protect your inner child like you would protect a friend.
-Never forget you are valuable.
-How to juggle different interests and your career path.
-The pain of overextending yourself for people who don’t reciprocate.
0:00-04:45 feeling behind & off course
4:45 juggling multiple passions
9:21 Making Friends
13:53 Feeling Unappreciated & Overextending yourself
17:27 the reason to grow
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F A Q
what’s your name? Tarek Ali (Tuh-reek Ali)
are you muslim? no, but kind of? I'm omnist/perennialist
what’s your instagram? @itstarekali on everything
how old are you? 24 ( birthday 11/11/97)
What's your sign? Scorpio (virgo rising, aries moon)
how tall are you? 6'1"
what’s your ethnicity? African-American
where are you from? childhood in 757, middle school years in Richmond/Chesterfield, high school in PG Maryland (DC area)
what equipment do you use to film?
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➭ editing: final cut pro
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" Thinking about what you really want, not what makes sense" When i tell you that quote just woke me up lol clearly that makes sense to me.
Most of the adults are in my ear telling me. Well what about money? Nobody ever says what about happiness. I know money is a concern I’m not naïve. But I want to live for something other then money. I want to be happy and not live for money and materialism.
LITERALLY thats all they talk about
@@francesthompson4639 yesss!!!
A wise person once said money isn’t everything but it controls everything you do.
The topic of making friends as an adult hit so close to home. Validation plays a huge part of it and now I can see God has removed so many people from my life because I need a lot of time to focus on my self to grow. I never saw it that way till now. Great advice, it really is helping people.
Tarek is so hard working and puts so much effort into his content and work it’s SURREAAL
Have you heard of the saying that, "Hurt People hurt people" ? Well People who are healed and/or are healing have the power to also heal people also. Love the Podcast Tarek!!! Keep on touching lives with your soul language. I'm inspired...Peace and Blessings ☮🙏
I’m in love with your softness omg🥺 your energy literally brings my insides down into like the mellow flow. Love everything about this!!!!
Girl this is just in time. I just transferred schools and I’m having second thoughts on my major. It’s Mass Comm. But I’m really passionate about writing for film and television but I’m worried my passion my not be the right career for me. It feels like everyone is moving in the fast lane and knows there destination. Im severely confused on where to go. I need guidance on where my path is.
Omg i can relate to this! I’m making a big move from FL to MA for college and although I’ve told everyone that I’m studying medicine, i have such a PASSION for creating art. However, i have such a fear of failing or not choosing something “stable” enough. I genuinely wish you the best Liyah and honestly peace of mind for the both of us. We have time to figure it out even if there’s pressure from others to move quicker than the pace that’s meant for us.
I HEAVILY agree with you on the first sentence
@@angiec2469 thank you best of luck to you in your wishes 🙏🏾❤️
Omg same !! I’m also a Comm major and I was thinking of changing my major to computer science bc tech is so big rn but noo girl we need writers in the world !!!
You're so wise ... your life is gonna be better than your peers and I'm not talking about material possessions and how much money you got which is how ignorant people gauge a "good life". There are a lot of well traveled rich "successful" people miserable with shitty dead lives (some have committed suicide they felt so dead on the inside) ... don't see that for you.
I'm the same way with weight loss or fitness!! I can't track my progress on a daily basis cause it seems to stir up a competitive and perfectionistic mindset in me that leads to burn out. So I do what you do, and just show up in the mirror a few weeks later to see the changes but overall its more about how I feel about my body rather than how much weight I loss.
Thinking about my inner child as a separate entity is a great concept. I consider the varying extremes of my personality as separate entities of which I can call forth and speak on an astral/spiritual level. And, I treat other children that come under my wing as living embodiments of my inner child at that age and protect them as such.
omg it’s like you always make a video on exactly what i’ve been needing 😵💫🤧‼️
EXACTLY
Hey Tarek.I'm rooting for you my Prince George's County Brother!!Love you King 👑Your channel us dope.❤️Please continue enriching others.
I know this video is old but I really needed to watch this video. Lately I’ve been feeling trapped and like I’m not making progress in my life .I’ve been working a retail job for a year trying my best to save up to go to Bowie state for my bachelor’s and learn how to drive and in Turn getting a car. My mother doesn’t make it any better by saying “ I thought you was going to get a government job You wasted all that money, got your associates and your not doing anything with it”. This truly hurt me and kinda put my negative thoughts into overdrive I responded with “I know things are moving a bit slow now but trust the process and I’ll do what I need to do”.
This was a great discussion. Giving me guidance that I was looking for. Thank you for being open and allowing us to grow with you. Years down the road and you will help so many others with this same podcast who can identify with you like I can.
This is so helpful, thank you tarek. this helps alot
Tarek and Chris are such a great duo. Your voices together is music to my ears :)
Another great video Tarek! Thanks for being so open and vulnerable and sharing not only your experience but also advice with us. You are such an inspiration and we can't wait to see what's next for you! ✨❤
After not being accepted into the nursing program at my main school, I have really been thinking about my major
Thank you so much for your honesty and your testimony 🤍
You inspire me so much ! God bless you
Yass this episode was amazing!!! I’m so happy to hear your growth lessons and tips they are always so helpful!!
I needed dis❤️
I was definitely meant to see this can’t wait to watch
This was so calming , thank you ❤️
Thank you for this
Love this ❤
this is GOLD
This is so helpful, great video.
Thank you soo much ❤️
Wow this was so eye opening and relatable. Great content as always! Thanks tarek :)
Such good topics!
Yes to the Podcast Instagram!
I adore you Tarek 💞💞💙
Oh my gosh. Where have you been? I love you. And I really missed you. I was just thinking about you the other day. You have inspired me so much 😀❤️
Completely off topic but, I really feel like the Platinum here was just made for you LOL.
7:04 dropping gems
13:07 value.. A whole topic
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First here ❤️❤️❤️
okay business card!
14:59 RE EVALUATE
I found you on twitter & I’m obsessed hiiiiiii🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Gratitude 💜🤍💗🫶🏽✨
This video was just confirmation to do what I’ve been thinking about doing. I’m cutting people off this time I’m not going to wait for them to do it to me like they always do, and I leave with a heartache. 🥹 thank you so much I’ve been learning from you for years but I’ve just now started applying them lol
Same here!
I watched you’re video about 20s in my teenage years didn’t really understand it (because I wasn’t in my twenties) until I turned 21 3weeks ago. 🫣