I grew up in an Indian neighborhood and not one burned cow shit or sprinkled urine around their houses. They honored cows and dod not eat beef, but never did they did any of these vile, disgusting things!! His family is weird, mom doesn't talk to dad, sons sleep with their mother and now this!!!
I’m Indian and this not an uncommon practice. You would find people who follow these customs in more traditional/suburban communities in many parts of north India. They revere cows and will literally bathe in urine if they could because they think it cures all. I can’t believe TJ never told Kim about all this. Hindus also believe woman on her period is impure and treat her like an untouchable while she menstruates. Can’t wait to have Kim find out about that!
My guess is that ether A they do it for the show because ya know gotta get people to watch crazy shit no pun intended or B TJ's fam just does it i guess
You need to check out the benefits and uses of cow dung nd urine... They r even imported to western countries... Some of these r very precious nd is smuggled by the peoples ... Its often used in medicines nd treating some diseases ...
She should have known that before. She lived in India. She just closed her eyes. She thought she would be treated differently because of being a foreigner 😂
I was 100% team TJ until he started being manipulative and lying in regards to how Kim’s life would really be after marriage. Why does Kim have to listen to and do what Yas tells her to do? He’s her brother-in-law, not her husband!
Because that’s the culture! Dummy! She should have BEEN READ THE ROOM! I’m American and I knew my role marrying into my husband’s family. Accept it or get lost! You cannot change people! You can only control yourself!
Because that’s obviously the Indian culture, which she should have researched beforehand (same as the wedding ceremony). Not to just come there, unprepared and absolutely clueless, acting like a total dummy.
@@hierophant6281cut with the crap .. my whole family is Indian and brother-in-laws have no place to teach women their duties. But there are a lot of sissy useless men in India who run behind their mother and are incapable of fending for themselves. This is not Indian culture, it's bad parenting.
@@hierophant6281 She should have but she didn't that's why TJ should have explained it to her. He knew she didn't know but didn't want to bring it up to her AFTER the wedding ceremonies. I give Kim credit that she wants to do her part. But, her husband is the weak link in this union.
And the mom touched it! Then touched the counters and TJ drips cow urine all around the house with his hands and no hand washing. How do they stay well? Not for me man
I don’t think TJ and his family will have a great reputation in India after this season. India is rapidly gaining a middle class that actually kinda looks down on these extremist rituals. The crazy rich Indians I know agree that the cow is scared but find these behaviors unhygienic and backwards.
Actually this is very common in India believe it or not either rich to poor they worship and use cow poop in sort of sense so will definitely not effect this family . Actually this is true dark side that’s hidden everywhere in Internet and glad it came out some Indian family kill like Kim by burning and again it’s common in India this is true and dark side
If she really did go home, I don't blame her. Poop in the kitchen is NOT sanitary, nor is sprinkling urine on the floor! The cow can't be that sacred! EWWWW!
Saw a documentary where they would poop and urinate in a river then continue to bathe, wash and drink that same water. That was one of their most holy water sites
@@sphinxOfEgyptDictionary definition: _When someone intentionally withholds relevant information, leading the other person to believe something untrue._
Kim was toxic from day 1, but people saying Kim should’ve researched more are just being mean. Most Indians online are also bewildered by these practices and never heard of them. How was she supposed to know? And TJ has been of no help, he has admitted to lying to her to get her to stay despite her research. Most people believe their partner about *their culture* over a Wikipedia article.
@@KagomeYasha023Do you know how many people are in India? Do you know how many languages and dialects are spoken? Around 20,000. Twenty Thousand different languages and dialects. So _obviously_ the 1.4 Billion ppl don't _all_ do the same customs since they don't even speak the same languages. Why do they sell cow dung cakes on Amazon for this purpose if _no one_ does this? No one said it was a common practice, but it is a practice for many. Also, there's nothing wrong with burning cow dung. They're herbivores. You're basically burning grass. Millions of ppl burn it for fuel in many countries. Nothing wrong with it.
From the get go they seem like extremist so the least she could do was a lil hardcore research on her own… or idk… talk to her sister in law though a translator app. Literally anything rather than expect her man to hand feed her every single thing when he has given her contradiction after contradiction.
@@feralhomunculus It is quite literally a microbiological hazard. There is something ABSOLUTELY wrong with burning any type of stale bodily waste , human, animal, anything
How was she supposed to do her research wen there r different traditions in different places and it was his job to tell her everything before marriage i mean she shud also know what she’s marrying into and wat her life after marriage is
As an Indian, i can say this. In olden times when houses were made of mud in villages little cowdung was mixed with clay to coat the verandahs and exterior. Villagers used to burn it in the open brick stoves along with sticks and wood. No one does this shit anymore. Not in cities, not in villages. These people are just off, run Kim.
This practice is actually still prevalent in rural areas. Most villages still don't have access to bricks or cement so they have to make do with what they have.
🤢🤢😂😂this is sooooo wrong. The memory of all the delicious meals shes been served probably flashed in Kim's mind when she saw the mom touching and lighting poop, then using same rag to wipe dishes
They're just trying to justify their behaviour by blaming it on "society", "culture", "oh this is just how we do things here", but Indians can certainly see right through their bullshit! As an Indian, it makes my blood boil to see our "culture" get dragged & misrepresented unnecessarily. And we're not this obsessed with cows or any kind of poop or urine... this is just disgusting & unrelatable af!!!!!
I remember TJ claiming he hired people to build their apartment but never did, just tried to do it himself and pretended " the workers" were sick in the hospital when it wasn't finished. He lies a lot
@@ronaldmussulman2735 this is India! there is absolutely no way TJ will build his own house with his own hands unless he is a construction worker himself. A single look at his LinkedIn profile should tell you that he comes from a financially stable background with a degree in law and economics. Even people who aren't as rich as him will hire labours to do this job but they won't do it themselves. I guess it maybe common in the US since cost of living is higher and hiring skilled people is expensive.
@@Venus_3095 not that, but in some places in India,mostly rural places, women who are in thier mensuration gets treated differently, like they're put in separate rooms, they're not allowed to be in the kitchen, stuff like that, but i hope it's not the same now.
I’m from a 3rd world, in a hut village, in a jungle-and I was a very picky eater bc even when I was 5, some things - esp some animal foods, were so abhorrent that I refused to eat it. When I went to India as an adult for 2 weeks, I came back 15lbs lighter. I could not eat. At the very least in my village, we had to constantly clean things. It was the kids job to boil water and make things sanitary bc of diseases. The smells in India made me want to vomit.
@@railfan_neonTJ’s family is vegetarian and they used the cow sh!t. I’d be more suspicious of vegetarian restaurants because the 💩 thing is from worshipping cows and same reason they don’t eat beef. If someone’s fine with cooking a cow, they aren’t likely to believe cow excrement is holy.
@@tritrungnguyen5580 you might need to since it's so hard for foreigners to come to terms with this completely different culture! And even more difficult for people with small eyes. That would feel like an overload for those small eyes so habituated to seeing anything that moves being eaten raw 🤮 btw vegetarian food is cheaper than non vegetarian food in India 😂😂
This is what most or a lot of Asian daughter in-laws struggle with everyday. It's like this until she dies, or you die, or she moves out, or you move out. This is what happens when you marry into the Asian culture and live with their family. It's not your house. You are not the boss. You are not the matriarch.
So true. They treat their daughter in-law like slave and expect her to cook, clean and serve the husband whole family. They expect her to get a job and give 90% of her salary to them. Sick culture and tradition.
@@503zzach Totally agree. There is an Indian lady in her 50s who lives next door to us, once says back in her hometown. It's a requirement for her to serve and give sensual body rub/body massage for her father in-law and brother in-law twice a week.🥴
“What’s your mom cooking for dinner?” TJ: Billions of pathogens and deadly bacteria meant to be excreted back to the earth🦠. And a side of Shrooms (for those that don’t know, psilocybin is a hallucinogenic 🍄 that grows from cow manure.) This ritual is purely for the lowest of low class individuals in India. What a shame they give to their country! Along with this, The Ganges River is highly polluted and literally thousands of people will use the river as a restroom and chemical release factory just to bathe in the river downstream. Disgusting is the most polite way of describing this family and the mother. This is beyond the realm of disgusting 🤢🤦🏻♂️
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Omg I wouldnt care if it is part of there practices because it is so unhygienic it is literally crazy. You dont even need to take 1 science class to understand the problems with this.
I am w Kim 100%. I feel the same way about dishes. Rinse them if u r not washing the dishes. The 💩 is a no. I would have vomited the minute i found out. I ate here 😢 Just mortified 🤢☠️
I am indian hindu and NEVER got anykind of SHIT or URINE in my house and never heard of anyone doing shit like that!! And even i wouldnt wake up 6 am to clean and do work around so wouldnt my sister in-laws!! Servants in india are sooo cheap! If they want someone to clean dish and all then just get a frekn servant! TJ family is just pure TOXIC!!!😢
Most cows there aren't kept in good condition, so I highly doubt the cow was healthy given its urine sample too. Which means they are spreading more diseases by pouring infected cow urine everywhere.
I'm a South African Indian and I find this absolutely disgusting. I will certainly not eat anything that's cooked in that kitchen. Also, the cleanliness of TJ's mum is on another level. Initially I thought that Kim was just too much, but now I don't blame her for behaving that way. TJ should have been upfront with her and his traditions. He kept on lying to her. Sorry Kim.
They're just trying to justify their behaviour by blaming it on "society", "culture", "oh this is just how we do things here", but Indians can certainly see right through their bullshit! This is just one crazy family! And they need to stop using "culture" as an excuse for their madness!!!
TJ has lied or kept her in the dark, crap talked badly about her with his family. Not that’s she been great all the time but he sucks. She should run on home at this point. The family is going to use and abuse her.
I am an Indian and yes cow and all it's by products are considered holy and they are used in any religious ceremony, they must have been used in their marriage too. But what I see here is an extreme orthodox behaviour not just in the name of religion but in the name of culture with no open mind or grace for a person coming from a completely opposite culture to accept it all (that will obviously be a shocker for them) .what about giving someone some time and space as to whether they want to incorporate those things in their life and equating everything to insulting the culture and religion . And they live in some city area only, even in villages these things dont happen .. I am being an Indian resident saying this just by looking at the guy only I would have said no to marry this guy, he drips of delusion and immaturity and nonsense and lies. And I can also say for a bug chunk of of Indian women too who would never willingly want marry this person or his family . This poor girl Kim I hope she finds a way out .life's too short to be wasting on useless and close minded people ..Run Kim Run ..vgg
I cook and do the dishes for my family everyday, but my hubby has to put the kids to bed (and they are all his for the night) in exchange. Totally worth it haha
Omg I’m an Indian myself this “daughter in law duties” are a nightmare. It still happens in a lot of places or poorer communities who can’t afford housekeeping. Even in the rich daughter in laws are expected to compromise to the husbands families bs. I can’t with this. It’s not everywhere but mainly it’s like this. I’m so scared of getting married cause if this. I’ve heard more stories from my mum my aunts and everyone to know this is not the life for me. But that cow dung thing I dunno man doesn’t happen in my house.
I am indian hindu and NEVER got anykind of SHIT or URINE in my house and never heard of anyone doing shit like that!! And even i wouldnt wake up 6 am to clean and do work around so wouldnt my sister in-laws!! Servants in india are sooo cheap! If they want someone to clean dish and all then just get a frekn servant! TJ family is just pure TOXIC!!!😢
the whole family culture is messed up. pee around the house, fecal matter on the pots/pans/counters, burning literal shit around the house so they end up breathing it, sleeping with each other in the same bed at their big ass ages, and more. Jesus. I get that when you’re poor, there’s some things you have to do but what they are doing is INSANE
They are NOT poor. People defending them keep using that as an excuse for their gross behavior. TJ recently did a livestream Q&A and said he has 2 college degrees, a masters in economics and bachelors in law and works at a company doing mergers and acquisitions. He has a visa to come to the US soon for business meetings in California and New York. He’s wealthy enough to buy 2-3 new pairs of prescription glasses a month, because he said he keeps accidentally breaking them. From a Reddit user: “According to Tejaswi’s LinkedIn profile, he’s currently based out of Gurugram, Haryana, and not in Jaipur. In his profile, Tejaswi says that he works as a Senior Associate CGT (Americas Public Equity) at GLG full-time. Tejaswi’s job requires him to host events and contribute to content strategy by building a pipeline of programmable events, identify and research market trends and company updates, and execute user-focused event strategy, and ensure all content meets high quality and compliance standards in the workplace. Tejaswi is also a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) candidate for the year 2023.” I looked at it myself and that’s what it really says, but can’t post the link because YT has been weird when I include links in my comments.
Gross, this happens in conservative Indian families, me being Indian havent heard of half of these rituals and would never marry into this family. He needs to marry an uneducated girl from his village to cater to all these selfish patriarchal needs!
I understand that Kim is annoying but I am in agreement with Kim at this point. I mean there is cow poop in the kitchen, how could poop have anti-microbial properties? The whole point of cleaning is to get rid of germs not add germs. I saw poop crumbs next to those carrots.
@@Tarasbasement Maybe she's legally separated, or even not. It's not wrong. She didn't abandon him in the street without food or shelter. She can leave the country if she wants.
I dont know if these are actual traditions or if it's just something TJ's family does, but I would have the same reaction as Kim. Poo and pee being sprinkled around my place would make me wanna bleach everything.
This is a very niche thing. His family is extreme. Most middle class Hindu houses don't do this $hit. People do treat cow as sacred and feed her but that's about it.
Culture or not, no science backs up their cow poop "theory". I wouldn't have let them do it, I'm sorry 😂 They would be out in 30 seconds. This is disgusting. And thinking it is antioxidant is plain stupidity, religion or not. 😅
@@feralhomunculusno sorry I’m not letting cow dung fumes and droplets inside my home. Building a fire is something you do outside not within 4 walls of your home
How desperate are you for relationship to accept this type of situations. I could never. I rather die alone. That's why choose a man who has his own house. Or you have your own house before getting married. Or rent a cheap apartment. That's better than living with inlaws
That’s why she left, she didn’t accept it. And it was his insistence on living there as his family’s conservative tradition, she wanted to have their own place like she had when she lived in India before.
the true lesson is to always consider your potential partner cultural background. it doesnt matter if he have his own home when he still believes that having burning cow dung in the kitchen is healthy.
Kim wasn't allowed in the kitchen, remember? And what TJ and his family do is a actually very niche way of worship.we have never seen any other couples in India pull that.
She wasn’t allowed in the kitchen before the wedding, and with the cow right outside the front door, she would’ve figured that’s where stink was coming from.
just bcz its normal in indian, doesnt mean its generally normal, thats a very unhealthy and backward practice with all due respect, i mean how stupid can u be to believe in such non sense ?
Im a 2nd generation north lndian born raised overseas. i find the environment so toxic claustrophobic, i wouldn't dream to be a part of it .Kim ,you must set your own boundaries, otherwise run back home 🏡 its okay to divorce ,you live only once ...its disgusts me looking at tj's family even
I had 2 fairly close friends in uni thats from india and i went to their place heaps, both of them were second generation their parents came from a coastal town in south india i remember. I mean the household looked nothing like that, maybe a bit cramp with all the cultural stuff but generally very clean. But you guys do eat wayyy to much carb and fat, like everytime I went to their places for group assignment the food kock me out for a good hour after dinner.
The cow manure thing is only done in Bihari families which is a small population in India. They mostly come from the rural areas so they have certain practices and traditions which might seem unconventional to most people. Not all Indians deal with cow manure, Kimberly was just unlucky enough 😅
I also thought that Kim was being an upitty spoiled American, however I now give her kudos for all the ridiculous crap she has had to tolerate ,and be gracious about. The cow poop and pee was way over the top! I would of whipped out my antibacterial cleaners and wiped down everything!!!! TJ lied and didn't disclose so much. Shame on him! No marriage should start that way. If Kim is back in the USA I can't blame her.
THEY HAVE CRAP ON THE TABLE RIGHT NEXT TO THE FOOD N THEN THE MOM DID CLEAN THE PAN WITH THE SAME RAG SHE CLEANDE THE CRAP OFF THE TABLE I'M SORRY I'M ON THE NEXT PLANE BACK HOME IF HER HUSBAND WANTS TO GO THEY CAN GET A VISA OR LEAVE HIM THERE I COULD NOT LIVE THAT WAY AT ALL JUST THE SMELL OF COWS PEE N CRAP I WOULD BE PUKING ALL OVER THE PLACE
Nope they don't smell. Cow dung smells sweet when it's wet and upon drying it gives no smell. Used as combustion material in Africa and India. Same with cow pee, it doesn't smell like cat/dog litter... Used as antibacterial in organic farming
i dont understand these foreign ladies, who will marry a indian village boy then complain. To be honest even Indian city girl will think 100000 times to marry in village. I am so sure If she would have married indian city guy it wont be this dificult but then again indian city girls work and this lady right here dont want to
As an Indian I would like to confirm people in India are madly obsessed with cow urine it is sprinkled around the house on a mensurating woman on her fifth day to make her ‘pure’ cow urine is sold in stores that sell prayer goods other Indians saying this is not are just trying to defend themselves this is a standard Brahmin practice most Brahmins do this in their homes except the ones that live metropolitan cities like mumbai or Delhi in rural and urban rural cities this is very common. People who beg to differ are just being ignorant like they always are defending their backward practices traditions also people here se cow as pure and sprinkle it for purification and expect people from other to respect their culture accept it and not judge while don’t hesitate even a bit criticising other people’s cultures and beliefs hygiene is big problem in India. (Now fellow Indians will tell me to go Pakistan)
Dumbo, cow dow dung and urine doesn't smell.. cow urine is used as antiseptic and cow dung used as combustion material.. If you don't know anything, stfu
Why do man marry one woman then ex9ect her to change into someone different like a ring is amagic genie. Why marry a modern American whyt girl then expect her to be the perfect traditional rural Indian wife. If they are still together I would be shocked!
8:31 so she’s a new daughter-in-law and it’s her first kitchen ceremony. She’s going to be cooking for the first time for the family.. that is why they’re doing this ritual and it’s only done when she cooks for the first time.. as it’s an respectful thing for Indians because they cooked with this cow manure many years ago on a mud stove it’s like native Indians eat turkeys on Thanksgiving and Americans still eat turkey on that day but they’re not eating it. They’re just doing a ritual by burning it if she ask them maybe they will explain it to her.
What did their family so but want to spend time with her and give her a place to stay? It was her choice to move in..:she needs to accept their rules or she should have decided not to stay
We used poop to mk our traditional house in village and it keeps house clean and cold . it is clearly difference in culture, in village ppl also use cow manure to cook food as it burns too
We are a brahman hindu family too and we do it almost every second day in mumbai. I don't know what kind of hindus you guys are. Sprinkling cow urine is actually healthy and clean. It keeps the bugs away too. And it's also good luck for wealth too (lakshmi)
This is why they didn’t allow her in the kitchen until AFTER the weddding…
Damn. That’s messed up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I dont remember Summitt's mom doing this type of shit.
Literally
Jenny must've feel really lucky to not have to deal with the crap that Kim has to deal with.
@@KM-ne1ftpun intended! Lol
@@KM-ne1ftJenny's put up with a lot of bs too. He's constantly lied and deceived her from the beginning
Every region is different in India. This is also very weird for most of us😅
No matter how much I love a person, I draw the line at cow shite in my own home. No way. Goodbye.
Yes is DISGUSTING INSANE AND ABSOLUTELY STUPITY IGNORANCE STUPITY!!
It's not normal India to use cow dung and cow urine sad to see on this show.
@@karangill6470I've seen it a bunch
@user-fl6jn1wb2tbut it’s not on the kitchen table where you prepare food
It's not cow sh*t, it's bio fuel. The cow dung is dried and baked in the sun to the point it becomes a natural fuel. How
There's no way in hell I would eat anything from that home 🤮
No way in hell I’d eat anything in India
@@Sarah-qx4vz no this is not normal in India I'm shocked to see this 😭
@@karangill6470public pooping is.
@@Sarah-qx4vz where are you from?
Same
Def was right to not ever eat at other ppls cribs. This is nasty.
Or pot lucks
Discusting
@@MyTwoCents22/561 3:28
I definitely thought Kim was a brat but TJ is not the man she thought she fell in love with. He is manipulative and deceptive and that would be a no.
His mother has an evil smile…lol
Kim is just as evil. They say a man looks for his mother in his wife. He succeeded.
I grew up in an Indian neighborhood and not one burned cow shit or sprinkled urine around their houses. They honored cows and dod not eat beef, but never did they did any of these vile, disgusting things!! His family is weird, mom doesn't talk to dad, sons sleep with their mother and now this!!!
I’m Indian and this not an uncommon practice. You would find people who follow these customs in more traditional/suburban communities in many parts of north India. They revere cows and will literally bathe in urine if they could because they think it cures all. I can’t believe TJ never told Kim about all this. Hindus also believe woman on her period is impure and treat her like an untouchable while she menstruates. Can’t wait to have Kim find out about that!
They do this stuff
Newark Ave isn't the same as living among cows
My guess is that ether A they do it for the show because ya know gotta get people to watch crazy shit no pun intended or B TJ's fam just does it i guess
This show is r@cist tbh
Lighting up cow shit but no garlic and onions is CRAZY
For them anyone eating animals is more disgusting than anything else
Animals have higher IQ@@bichuscorpion1504
You need to check out the benefits and uses of cow dung nd urine... They r even imported to western countries...
Some of these r very precious nd is smuggled by the peoples ...
Its often used in medicines nd treating some diseases ...
@@darkhorse7952pls tell its a joke
@@aadisharma4987 U can google it !!
Kim literally gave up her entire life to become a servant.
She should have known that before. She lived in India. She just closed her eyes. She thought she would be treated differently because of being a foreigner 😂
I believe she actually went back to America on Instagram she’s back home lol
@@Tarasbasement I was thinking the same (that she is back). I live in Jaipur. I might have seen her here 😂
@@kalpanabharatme and the fact they used infected cow urine tops it all of if you see his family run 🏃🏽♀️💀
SAHW/SAHMs aren’t servants. Marriage is teamwork.
I was 100% team TJ until he started being manipulative and lying in regards to how Kim’s life would really be after marriage.
Why does Kim have to listen to and do what Yas tells her to do? He’s her brother-in-law, not her husband!
Because that’s the culture! Dummy! She should have BEEN READ THE ROOM! I’m American and I knew my role marrying into my husband’s family. Accept it or get lost! You cannot change people! You can only control yourself!
Because that’s obviously the Indian culture, which she should have researched beforehand (same as the wedding ceremony). Not to just come there, unprepared and absolutely clueless, acting like a total dummy.
@@hierophant6281cut with the crap .. my whole family is Indian and brother-in-laws have no place to teach women their duties. But there are a lot of sissy useless men in India who run behind their mother and are incapable of fending for themselves. This is not Indian culture, it's bad parenting.
Wow an Indian lying... theyre known for their integrity and cleanliness
@@hierophant6281 She should have but she didn't that's why TJ should have explained it to her. He knew she didn't know but didn't want to bring it up to her AFTER the wedding ceremonies. I give Kim credit that she wants to do her part. But, her husband is the weak link in this union.
And the mom touched it! Then touched the counters and TJ drips cow urine all around the house with his hands and no hand washing. How do they stay well? Not for me man
😂😂😂 I guess they immune to cow urine!!!
Low life expectancy.
Immunity from years of that environment
Welcome to India
@@cherylmagiera7741or they're used to fecal bacteria
I don’t think TJ and his family will have a great reputation in India after this season. India is rapidly gaining a middle class that actually kinda looks down on these extremist rituals. The crazy rich Indians I know agree that the cow is scared but find these behaviors unhygienic and backwards.
i am so glad to read this
Actually this is very common in India believe it or not either rich to poor they worship and use cow poop in sort of sense so will definitely not effect this family . Actually this is true dark side that’s hidden everywhere in Internet and glad it came out some Indian family kill like Kim by burning and again it’s common in India this is true and dark side
TJ's mom is a psycho woman and I say this as an Indian. She needs treatment at a mental assylum
Lmao middle class
Good
If she really did go home, I don't blame her. Poop in the kitchen is NOT sanitary, nor is sprinkling urine on the floor! The cow can't be that sacred! EWWWW!
ikr like it's is very extreme being a sacred animal in India it seems like. You don't see Egyptian people having cat shite in their home lol
@KM-ne1ft
Well, Egyptian and muslim now, so they don't worship animals
Saw a documentary where they would poop and urinate in a river then continue to bathe, wash and drink that same water. That was one of their most holy water sites
i’ve never seen a normal indian person do these things to be honest, it must be for the show
@@solaris5922at least a river flows
TJ needs to know that a lie of omission is still a LIE
And kept lying after being confronted and blaming the mom!
@@MariellaEnergywhat exactly is lie of omission?
@@sphinxOfEgyptDictionary definition: _When someone intentionally withholds relevant information, leading the other person to believe something untrue._
And Canada just imported 4 million of these creatures😂😂😂
Not indian only hindus 🤮
Onion and garlic... NOPE! but cow shit, that's just fine! 😂
Kim was toxic from day 1, but people saying Kim should’ve researched more are just being mean. Most Indians online are also bewildered by these practices and never heard of them. How was she supposed to know? And TJ has been of no help, he has admitted to lying to her to get her to stay despite her research. Most people believe their partner about *their culture* over a Wikipedia article.
Right I’ve seen a ton of Indians saying nah fool we ain’t like this either this family is one of a kind
@@KagomeYasha023Do you know how many people are in India? Do you know how many languages and dialects are spoken? Around 20,000. Twenty Thousand different languages and dialects. So _obviously_ the 1.4 Billion ppl don't _all_ do the same customs since they don't even speak the same languages. Why do they sell cow dung cakes on Amazon for this purpose if _no one_ does this? No one said it was a common practice, but it is a practice for many.
Also, there's nothing wrong with burning cow dung. They're herbivores. You're basically burning grass. Millions of ppl burn it for fuel in many countries. Nothing wrong with it.
From the get go they seem like extremist so the least she could do was a lil hardcore research on her own… or idk… talk to her sister in law though a translator app. Literally anything rather than expect her man to hand feed her every single thing when he has given her contradiction after contradiction.
@@feralhomunculus It is quite literally a microbiological hazard. There is something ABSOLUTELY wrong with burning any type of stale bodily waste , human, animal, anything
How was she supposed to do her research wen there r different traditions in different places and it was his job to tell her everything before marriage i mean she shud also know what she’s marrying into and wat her life after marriage is
As an Indian, i can say this. In olden times when houses were made of mud in villages little cowdung was mixed with clay to coat the verandahs and exterior. Villagers used to burn it in the open brick stoves along with sticks and wood.
No one does this shit anymore. Not in cities, not in villages. These people are just off, run Kim.
Na , this indian family is normal for India 🤢
Could be the producers asked them to do it for drama?
Maybe the show producer wants this kind of drama to make the show more spicier and outrageous culture shock.
This practice is actually still prevalent in rural areas. Most villages still don't have access to bricks or cement so they have to make do with what they have.
for sure!@@503zzach
🤢🤢😂😂this is sooooo wrong. The memory of all the delicious meals shes been served probably flashed in Kim's mind when she saw the mom touching and lighting poop, then using same rag to wipe dishes
That’s probably why she had that bad diarrhea and sh!t her pants the morning of the wedding.
They're just trying to justify their behaviour by blaming it on "society", "culture", "oh this is just how we do things here", but Indians can certainly see right through their bullshit! As an Indian, it makes my blood boil to see our "culture" get dragged & misrepresented unnecessarily. And we're not this obsessed with cows or any kind of poop or urine... this is just disgusting & unrelatable af!!!!!
it gives unique flavors that's why they protested a proposed ban, look it up i wish i was making this up
They are way too caught up in rituals, it’s crossing a line where it’s more mental illness than culture.
I remember TJ claiming he hired people to build their apartment but never did, just tried to do it himself and pretended " the workers" were sick in the hospital when it wasn't finished. He lies a lot
Where did you hear that he did it himself?
Wow that makes way more sense actually
there is no way he can do that himself 😂😂 stop manufacturing stories
@@railfan_neon Season 5, episode 4. I don't think u paid attention.
@@ronaldmussulman2735 this is India! there is absolutely no way TJ will build his own house with his own hands unless he is a construction worker himself. A single look at his LinkedIn profile should tell you that he comes from a financially stable background with a degree in law and economics. Even people who aren't as rich as him will hire labours to do this job but they won't do it themselves. I guess it maybe common in the US since cost of living is higher and hiring skilled people is expensive.
Wait till they treat her like untouchable during mensuration
I mean it’s in the Bible we will be unclean
@@Venus_3095 not that, but in some places in India,mostly rural places, women who are in thier mensuration gets treated differently, like they're put in separate rooms, they're not allowed to be in the kitchen, stuff like that, but i hope it's not the same now.
Unclean=\untouchable@@Venus_3095
@@Venus_3095it is not that type of unclean,you take the meaning literally.
@@faisalkashmiri7274 who told you that what I said is physical
I’m from a 3rd world, in a hut village, in a jungle-and I was a very picky eater bc even when I was 5, some things - esp some animal foods, were so abhorrent that I refused to eat it. When I went to India as an adult for 2 weeks, I came back 15lbs lighter. I could not eat. At the very least in my village, we had to constantly clean things. It was the kids job to boil water and make things sanitary bc of diseases. The smells in India made me want to vomit.
sad you did not even have enough money to eat at a good vegetarian restaurant in India! 😢😢😢
@@railfan_neonTJ’s family is vegetarian and they used the cow sh!t. I’d be more suspicious of vegetarian restaurants because the 💩 thing is from worshipping cows and same reason they don’t eat beef. If someone’s fine with cooking a cow, they aren’t likely to believe cow excrement is holy.
@@railfan_neondam you gotta pay big buck just to not shit yourself in India? 🤮
@@tritrungnguyen5580 you might need to since it's so hard for foreigners to come to terms with this completely different culture! And even more difficult for people with small eyes.
That would feel like an overload for those small eyes so habituated to seeing anything that moves being eaten raw 🤮 btw vegetarian food is cheaper than non vegetarian food in India 😂😂
@@railfan_neon not a small eye joke from one of the smallest pp on the planet. shesh
That’s not only repulsive but it’s extremely unsanitary and unsafe
That cow is definitely dehydrated lol
yuppppp
It's a “shity relationship” lol 🤣😂
The family is positively *delighting* in making Kim conform, especially in TJ's absence.
This is what most or a lot of Asian daughter in-laws struggle with everyday. It's like this until she dies, or you die, or she moves out, or you move out. This is what happens when you marry into the Asian culture and live with their family. It's not your house. You are not the boss. You are not the matriarch.
not true.
So true. They treat their daughter in-law like slave and expect her to cook, clean and serve the husband whole family. They expect her to get a job and give 90% of her salary to them. Sick culture and tradition.
Nahhhh not in every family’s
It says most not every
@@503zzach Totally agree. There is an Indian lady in her 50s who lives next door to us, once says back in her hometown. It's a requirement for her to serve and give sensual body rub/body massage for her father in-law and brother in-law twice a week.🥴
I would literally gag!!!!! Having 🐄💩 & pee in the house?!?!??! Culture or not, that is absolutely 💯 disgusting!!!
ABSOLUTELY RIGTH DISGUSTING STUPITY !!
@@rafaelrotellini7141Why are you screaming? Are you okay?
“What’s your mom cooking for dinner?”
TJ: Billions of pathogens and deadly bacteria meant to be excreted back to the earth🦠.
And a side of Shrooms (for those that don’t know, psilocybin is a hallucinogenic 🍄 that grows from cow manure.)
This ritual is purely for the lowest of low class individuals in India. What a shame they give to their country! Along with this, The Ganges River is highly polluted and literally thousands of people will use the river as a restroom and chemical release factory just to bathe in the river downstream.
Disgusting is the most polite way of describing this family and the mother. This is beyond the realm of disgusting 🤢🤦🏻♂️
My thoughts exactly. I'm curious did they do this around babies
Fully 100% agree 🤢🤮
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Omg I wouldnt care if it is part of there practices because it is so unhygienic it is literally crazy. You dont even need to take 1 science class to understand the problems with this.
I am w Kim 100%. I feel the same way about dishes. Rinse them if u r not washing the dishes. The 💩 is a no. I would have vomited the minute i found out. I ate here 😢
Just mortified 🤢☠️
I am indian hindu and NEVER got anykind of SHIT or URINE in my house and never heard of anyone doing shit like that!!
And even i wouldnt wake up 6 am to clean and do work around so wouldnt my sister in-laws!!
Servants in india are sooo cheap! If they want someone to clean dish and all then just get a frekn servant!
TJ family is just pure TOXIC!!!😢
Im not an expert on “Bullsh*t” (pun intended) but that cow needs dialysis😂☠️
😂😂
I’m pretty sure they are trying to kick Kim out and using an aged stereotype to their advantage.
i was thinking this too, like maybe they’re trying to scare her off
@@cherrymima no kidding. They absolutely despise her and are willing to do anything even if that makes them sick too 😂
In Hindu religion cow dung and urine is pure and sacred.
,it's cultural and religious method to clean home .
If that is the colour of cow pee, is that cow healthy? that bottle or urine was sketchy
Yeah, that cow in their front yard looks really boney, not healthy.
Most cows there aren't kept in good condition, so I highly doubt the cow was healthy given its urine sample too. Which means they are spreading more diseases by pouring infected cow urine everywhere.
I'm a South African Indian and I find this absolutely disgusting. I will certainly not eat anything that's cooked in that kitchen. Also, the cleanliness of TJ's mum is on another level. Initially I thought that Kim was just too much, but now I don't blame her for behaving that way. TJ should have been upfront with her and his traditions. He kept on lying to her. Sorry Kim.
They're just trying to justify their behaviour by blaming it on "society", "culture", "oh this is just how we do things here", but Indians can certainly see right through their bullshit! This is just one crazy family! And they need to stop using "culture" as an excuse for their madness!!!
TJ has lied or kept her in the dark, crap talked badly about her with his family. Not that’s she been great all the time but he sucks. She should run on home at this point. The family is going to use and abuse her.
I am an Indian and yes cow and all it's by products are considered holy and they are used in any religious ceremony, they must have been used in their marriage too. But what I see here is an extreme orthodox behaviour not just in the name of religion but in the name of culture with no open mind or grace for a person coming from a completely opposite culture to accept it all (that will obviously be a shocker for them) .what about giving someone some time and space as to whether they want to incorporate those things in their life and equating everything to insulting the culture and religion . And they live in some city area only, even in villages these things dont happen .. I am being an Indian resident saying this just by looking at the guy only I would have said no to marry this guy, he drips of delusion and immaturity and nonsense and lies. And I can also say for a bug chunk of of Indian women too who would never willingly want marry this person or his family . This poor girl Kim I hope she finds a way out .life's too short to be wasting on useless and close minded people ..Run Kim Run ..vgg
I cook and do the dishes for my family everyday, but my hubby has to put the kids to bed (and they are all his for the night) in exchange. Totally worth it haha
Omg I’m an Indian myself this “daughter in law duties” are a nightmare. It still happens in a lot of places or poorer communities who can’t afford housekeeping. Even in the rich daughter in laws are expected to compromise to the husbands families bs. I can’t with this. It’s not everywhere but mainly it’s like this. I’m so scared of getting married cause if this. I’ve heard more stories from my mum my aunts and everyone to know this is not the life for me. But that cow dung thing I dunno man doesn’t happen in my house.
If they did the ceremony every day in the kitchen, she wouldn't know bc she wasn't allowed in the kitchen before
He’s so religious that he lies to his wife about not knowing she’s expected to coddle the whole family , the cow gods would be ashamed 😂😂
She wasn't allowed in the kitchen until they were married, that's why she didn't see this practice before
Sorry not sorry, using the same rag for 🐄💩 AND the counter is 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
And the DISHES
@@Barbieinawheelchair yeah, I wanna know who was doing her dishes before she went there?!?!?!
@@michelleallred8521what does sorry not sorry. Does that mean you're sorry?
I am indian hindu and NEVER got anykind of SHIT or URINE in my house and never heard of anyone doing shit like that!!
And even i wouldnt wake up 6 am to clean and do work around so wouldnt my sister in-laws!!
Servants in india are sooo cheap! If they want someone to clean dish and all then just get a frekn servant!
TJ family is just pure TOXIC!!!😢
@@smiritisri3636 damage control
the whole family culture is messed up. pee around the house, fecal matter on the pots/pans/counters, burning literal shit around the house so they end up breathing it, sleeping with each other in the same bed at their big ass ages, and more. Jesus. I get that when you’re poor, there’s some things you have to do but what they are doing is INSANE
They are NOT poor. People defending them keep using that as an excuse for their gross behavior. TJ recently did a livestream Q&A and said he has 2 college degrees, a masters in economics and bachelors in law and works at a company doing mergers and acquisitions. He has a visa to come to the US soon for business meetings in California and New York. He’s wealthy enough to buy 2-3 new pairs of prescription glasses a month, because he said he keeps accidentally breaking them.
From a Reddit user:
“According to Tejaswi’s LinkedIn profile, he’s currently based out of Gurugram, Haryana, and not in Jaipur. In his profile, Tejaswi says that he works as a Senior Associate CGT (Americas Public Equity) at GLG full-time. Tejaswi’s job requires him to host events and contribute to content strategy by building a pipeline of programmable events, identify and research market trends and company updates, and execute user-focused event strategy, and ensure all content meets high quality and compliance standards in the workplace. Tejaswi is also a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) candidate for the year 2023.”
I looked at it myself and that’s what it really says, but can’t post the link because YT has been weird when I include links in my comments.
Exactly🤢🤮
Big ass ages 😂😂😂
They are not poor. They are middle class and can certainly afford a bigger house with more rooms. They are just cheapskates
Gross, this happens in conservative Indian families, me being Indian havent heard of half of these rituals and would never marry into this family. He needs to marry an uneducated girl from his village to cater to all these selfish patriarchal needs!
I understand that Kim is annoying but I am in agreement with Kim at this point. I mean there is cow poop in the kitchen, how could poop have anti-microbial properties? The whole point of cleaning is to get rid of germs not add germs. I saw poop crumbs next to those carrots.
Spoiler alert. Kim has left TJ and is back in the states. She claims that TJ lied to her. Haven't heard if she is getting a divorce.
👏👏👏 finally!
Good for her!
@@ajheartsongif I was Kim, I would still do what I want.
@@sphinxOfEgypt first that’s wrong she’s married 💀 second she should get a divorce first
@@Tarasbasement Maybe she's legally separated, or even not. It's not wrong. She didn't abandon him in the street without food or shelter. She can leave the country if she wants.
I dont know if these are actual traditions or if it's just something TJ's family does, but I would have the same reaction as Kim. Poo and pee being sprinkled around my place would make me wanna bleach everything.
This is a very niche thing. His family is extreme. Most middle class Hindu houses don't do this $hit. People do treat cow as sacred and feed her but that's about it.
If he’s so religious, why is he married to a white women?
Na most hindu indian households are like this.
Disgusting , dirty and racist country!!!
Honestly I probably would have just let her do whatever then re clean my entire house the moment they left 😂🤣
What would you do to get rid of cow dung fumes in your house though ? 😅
@@kahfOpen a window. 🤷🏻♀️ Cow dung doesn't even smell bad. It's burned for fuel and used as a mortar to build homes by millions of ppl.
Culture or not, no science backs up their cow poop "theory". I wouldn't have let them do it, I'm sorry 😂 They would be out in 30 seconds. This is disgusting. And thinking it is antioxidant is plain stupidity, religion or not. 😅
Cows only eat grass, so their poo doesn’t stink, its used to build homes in some poor countries
@@feralhomunculusno sorry I’m not letting cow dung fumes and droplets inside my home. Building a fire is something you do outside not within 4 walls of your home
How desperate are you for relationship to accept this type of situations. I could never. I rather die alone.
That's why choose a man who has his own house. Or you have your own house before getting married. Or rent a cheap apartment. That's better than living with inlaws
That’s why she left, she didn’t accept it. And it was his insistence on living there as his family’s conservative tradition, she wanted to have their own place like she had when she lived in India before.
the true lesson is to always consider your potential partner cultural background. it doesnt matter if he have his own home when he still believes that having burning cow dung in the kitchen is healthy.
I'm hindu and i want to permanently erase this cow worship in India. Make it illegal and punishable by jail time for encouraging it or promoting it.
😂
How is worshipping wrong ?
Worshipping keeps them safe dumbfck
Using poop pee surely is weird.
It’s literally Hindu religion
I don't think u are above lord Krishna lol
@@adityaraajsingh4322 fuck cows
Came here via Barry Stanton X post, lmao 😂😂😂😂
Hahha same, bro’s fighting the good fight against 1,5 billion poopfans
They must have strong immune system…and Kim will get sick because she hasn’t built this kind of immunity
Kim wasn't allowed in the kitchen, remember? And what TJ and his family do is a actually very niche way of worship.we have never seen any other couples in India pull that.
Cow urine does not have antimicrobial properties!!!!
Stereotypes exist for a reason
Right, because they are true
A normal hindu don't do this so stfu it's like saying every American schools have school shooting
@@ric8961I agree, they always contain truth
@@victory548 damage control 🥱🥱
Nice justification for racism lmao
Cultural differences aside.....I don't think this relationship has a chance.
apparently they are divorcing
Girl, just run!! Run a far as you can...😂😂and don't look back!
That makes you wonder what it smells like if she goes into the kitchen and doesn't smell cow manure immediately
She wasn’t allowed in the kitchen before the wedding, and with the cow right outside the front door, she would’ve figured that’s where stink was coming from.
Not much to say, other than 🤮🤮🤮🤮
In Hindu religion,its pure and holy .its very normal here.
just bcz its normal in indian, doesnt mean its generally normal, thats a very unhealthy and backward practice with all due respect, i mean how stupid can u be to believe in such non sense ?
Holy 😂😂
@@SajidSajid-s9z Holyshit 😂😂
Ok, if she hates doing dishes, then who did her dishes before she went there???
Parents, room mate, or maybe a dish washer. She better not have kids ohhh boy 😂
Most American homes have a dishwasher appliance.
@@MaddHeathershe doesn’t need to do the dishes.
Im a 2nd generation north lndian born raised overseas. i find the environment so toxic claustrophobic, i wouldn't dream to be a part of it .Kim ,you must set your own boundaries, otherwise run back home 🏡 its okay to divorce ,you live only once ...its disgusts me looking at tj's family even
I had 2 fairly close friends in uni thats from india and i went to their place heaps, both of them were second generation their parents came from a coastal town in south india i remember. I mean the household looked nothing like that, maybe a bit cramp with all the cultural stuff but generally very clean. But you guys do eat wayyy to much carb and fat, like everytime I went to their places for group assignment the food kock me out for a good hour after dinner.
She didn’t see it because she wasn’t permitted in the kitchen
Lol😂
if she watched one saas bahu serial she would have left him lol
Kim is doing way better than I would have 💁🏾♀️
I thought she is clairvoyant, how did she not see this coming ?
Next episode Kim is tasked with retrieving the cow 🐮 dung.
The cow manure thing is only done in Bihari families which is a small population in India. They mostly come from the rural areas so they have certain practices and traditions which might seem unconventional to most people. Not all Indians deal with cow manure, Kimberly was just unlucky enough 😅
Ay shut up. I am from rural india. We do not do that shit
TLC be like: "Oh yea, this is good content, good content" 🤭
I also thought that Kim was being an upitty spoiled American, however I now give her kudos for all the ridiculous crap she has had to tolerate ,and be gracious about.
The cow poop and pee was way over the top!
I would of whipped out my antibacterial cleaners and wiped down everything!!!!
TJ lied and didn't disclose so much.
Shame on him!
No marriage should start that way.
If Kim is back in the USA I can't blame her.
THEY HAVE CRAP ON THE TABLE RIGHT NEXT TO THE FOOD N THEN THE MOM DID CLEAN THE PAN WITH THE SAME RAG SHE CLEANDE THE CRAP OFF THE TABLE I'M SORRY I'M ON THE NEXT PLANE BACK HOME IF HER HUSBAND WANTS TO GO THEY CAN GET A VISA OR LEAVE HIM THERE I COULD NOT LIVE THAT WAY AT ALL JUST THE SMELL OF COWS PEE N CRAP I WOULD BE PUKING ALL OVER THE PLACE
Nope they don't smell. Cow dung smells sweet when it's wet and upon drying it gives no smell. Used as combustion material in Africa and India.
Same with cow pee, it doesn't smell like cat/dog litter... Used as antibacterial in organic farming
Im respectful of other cultures but this is where i draw the line
I draw the line at cow anything in my kitchen. Return ticket be here.
TJs Mom can get her butt up & help too. ANYONE who lives there is capable of doing housework
Are you blind ???what did you see kim do ??? , its TJs mom who is cooking, cleaning while kim is just standing there complaining 😅
So, if I visit an Indian restaurant here in the states should i expect that cow dung is being burned in the kitchen😮
look up what US Customs said about them bringing it over from overseas on planes
i dont understand these foreign ladies, who will marry a indian village boy then complain.
To be honest even Indian city girl will think 100000 times to marry in village.
I am so sure If she would have married indian city guy it wont be this dificult but then again indian city girls work and this lady right here dont want to
No wonder she got food poisoning.
As an Indian I would like to confirm people in India are madly obsessed with cow urine it is sprinkled around the house on a mensurating woman on her fifth day to make her ‘pure’ cow urine is sold in stores that sell prayer goods other Indians saying this is not are just trying to defend themselves this is a standard Brahmin practice most Brahmins do this in their homes except the ones that live metropolitan cities like mumbai or Delhi in rural and urban rural cities this is very common. People who beg to differ are just being ignorant like they always are defending their backward practices traditions also people here se cow as pure and sprinkle it for purification and expect people from other to respect their culture accept it and not judge while don’t hesitate even a bit criticising other people’s cultures and beliefs hygiene is big problem in India. (Now fellow Indians will tell me to go Pakistan)
thank you for your honesty, which is rare as you can see in the other damage control comments
Dumbo, cow dow dung and urine doesn't smell.. cow urine is used as antiseptic and cow dung used as combustion material..
If you don't know anything, stfu
Im a brahmin and NO what you have written is PURE fiction. Nobody is out sprinkling cow urine on menstruating girls
Anyone from other part of India will think about 100 times before getting married to this family.. forget about Kim😂
How innocent and naive Kim is ❤️ my heart breaks for her . She tried her 1000 percent, I could have never
The guy didn't communicate enough, he said don't worry....
Pajeet calchar saar!!! 🐄💩💩
The whites see you the same Abdil
I bet TLC encouraged this, for ratings
Why do man marry one woman then ex9ect her to change into someone different like a ring is amagic genie. Why marry a modern American whyt girl then expect her to be the perfect traditional rural Indian wife. If they are still together I would be shocked!
Kim is back in the US.
Good morning sirs
Kindly respect our culture sirs
8:31 so she’s a new daughter-in-law and it’s her first kitchen ceremony. She’s going to be cooking for the first time for the family.. that is why they’re doing this ritual and it’s only done when she cooks for the first time.. as it’s an respectful thing for Indians because they cooked with this cow manure many years ago on a mud stove it’s like native Indians eat turkeys on Thanksgiving and Americans still eat turkey on that day but they’re not eating it. They’re just doing a ritual by burning it if she ask them maybe they will explain it to her.
Better to Marry an American lol. This is grossss. I wouldn’t even go there to visit
Same
This is a show they have to exaggerate everything 😂
damage control
I’m not a fan of either person, but TJ is absolutely ridiculous for not explaining everything from square one.
What did she expect lmao
I would never eat the mother's cooking again.
What did their family so but want to spend time with her and give her a place to stay? It was her choice to move in..:she needs to accept their rules or she should have decided not to stay
I only eat Muslim Indian food
Good choice that is the safe option
I am from India. Even I would not eat any food from that kitchen. So gross...
We used poop to mk our traditional house in village and it keeps house clean and cold . it is clearly difference in culture, in village ppl also use cow manure to cook food as it burns too
I feel bad for her poor girl has no clue all alone tj not even being completely honest omg
His family isn’t way more religious then the average Hindi family in India. Please start doing research on the cultures of these people.
I’m a hindu but this hasn’t happened in my house,not even cow pee has entered my home. It’s their cast customs I think.
We are a brahman hindu family too and we do it almost every second day in mumbai. I don't know what kind of hindus you guys are. Sprinkling cow urine is actually healthy and clean. It keeps the bugs away too. And it's also good luck for wealth too (lakshmi)