She's a perfect example of the pseudo-spiritual community as a whole. Always sending "love and light" to everything, then having an absolute meltdown and belittling someone at the slightest inconvenience. Homegirl makes a living selling snake oil 🥴
I think a study has been done proving that people who believe in astrology and "spirituality" tend to be more narcissistic than the average person. Doesn't surprise me. I don't believe in that nonsense but when I've been asked what my star sign is by multiple people and told them I'm a Scorpio they say "oh I'll have to avoid you. Scorpios are evil!!"
IMO she reacted like a spoiled teenager, who didn't get her way. She doesn't have the problem solving skills to be married. She needs therapy not a marriage.
She might have not wanted to move if she knew how it would really be though. I don't personally see anything wrong with the apartment but she has every right to choose how she wants to live. And after tj lying about her future duties I can see him lying about things he could feasibly do.
And one of the biggest And most important things in a successful marriage, or any relationship for that matter, is trust. And the fact that he IS, actually lying to her, to get her to marry him, and he will then, be truthful with her, but ONLY AFTER, the wedding, is a HUGE RED FLAG!!!! Starting a marriage, that was literally built, with lies is absolutely NO WAY to start a marriage. As a matter of fact, it actually, will end the marriage. You must have trust in any relationship, but especially, in a marriage. It's a huge part of the foundation, if you will. And we all know that nothing can be built if there's not a strong foundation. They need to go their separate ways and go find whomever they are, supposed to be with. God bless them both!!!
She is so-called lucky not to live with all family together. He loves it. Lucky would be getting the hell out of there. SHOCKING she does not know, and he has deliberately not told her. Selfish bastard. Soon this disaster in the making will be, or was, FINISHED or so much more misery, for all, in the offing. She needs to know her limit, said bro in law. NOT happening!
To be honest, being an Indian, myself, I can assure that this is a pretty good apartment for a rural India scenario. He really has tried his best and I can guarantee he has incurred a good chunk of debt for that.
@@BlaqueMamba52 It depends on how much he wants to be her husband. Love can be weird that way. But if she keeps having meltdowns she is going to make him and his family unhappy.
Kimberly's entire "positive psychic with all the gifts" facade smelled fake from the moment she got on camera; glad to see we don't have to wait all season to see the mask slip.
@@MissCleo24 Well for the future just understand that anyone who preaches about positivity 24/7 is usually the complete opposite. It's called toxic positivity
Her anger is practically biting. She's venomous. How could you be so angry at someone you've missed and say you love do much, over some base boards and sinks. It's an adventure your going on together.
I do not think TJ lied to her. I think she just had high expectations and it doesn’t matter. You do not talk to your partner like shit you do not hurt someone that you love obviously he’s never had his own home. He’s shared a bed with his mother so of course, this apartment is a big project and it means a lot to him and not to mention he took out a loan, so for all of you taking up for Kimberly, y’all are wrong and she is a vicious person and very ungrateful
Maybe she's sent a lot of money for the apartment , which is the reason why she was disappointed with the results of the work being done on the apartment.
@ruthdawang6044 But when she mentioned money he specifically said it was his money. Plus he took out a loan for this purpose. Doesn't sound like she sent any money.
Toxic positivity is the unhealthy coping mechanism of displaying only positive emotions and bottling up negative emotions and thoughts. TJ fell for her toxic facade and hoped that he could handle her meltdowns
@@wanderingsoul2931Hi! I’m so curious - What made you change? I live in Northern California near the Center for Spiritual Living and it is Toxic Positivity Hell? There’s So much Spiritual Materialism here I feel so out of place. Helllpppp! SOS!!! 🤯😢
❤❤❤❤ well said. Simply stated. This is a major aggravation to me, it’s like the furthest from authenticity possible. It comes off hypocritical and unaccountable.
I’m starting to think the producers ask them to act like this. Cause I don’t understand how these people, get with someone from not only a different state but whole other country and shocked about the vast differences.
Some people are suckers for punishment. After so many horror stories online no one has an excuse to jump into a relationship and marriage in a foreign country. We live in a world where people want instant satisfaction and relationships simply don’t work that way. Let the bond build slowly and organically and visit one another first without any crazy expectations and assess if it’s worth the life altering change.
Why is she expecting a fully completed up to Western level contracted addition to his house without lifting one finger to help out with any of it? I would probably expect just a rough beginning of the apartment that would be worked on overtime. She’s really acting like an entitled princess.
She's absolutely unhinged. You should never explode over something as small as the things she was upset about. All that crap she was spewing about herself is a cover up to hide her crazy. Also anyone, man or woman, that says that they like to control things or that they like things a certain way, is a HUGE red flag/indicator that they're not a person that thinks of other's input on things.
I feel so bad for TJ. He has done so much for her, much more than the other two Indian men on 90-day Fiance did, and she can't be grateful at all. I spent 3-1/2 months in India, and I think this apartment is really nice. I also wonder, like you mentioned, was the structure already there, or did they build it from scratch just 2 months ago? She and TJ might be a good couple, but if she can't adapt to Indian culture, how will they survive together?
How will they survive since he didn't tell her the truth about anything? How will they survive if he keeps running to his parents and entire family for all of his personal relationship details? T j is a bit€h baby ... Kimberly definitely has TONS of flaws too, but their biggest flaw is their relationship. However, when you're in a relationship, you never run to your family when you have a spat. It creates an unfair dynamic in the marriage and makes the other person's family. Hostile towards your partner. And even when you make up, your family will still hate your partner. Because you have fed them your feelings in a moment that you were very upset.
It's not really about the flat, she's scared to move to India, to a new country and place, and to live there with her partner's parents. She is scared that her choice was a mistake
@@Gonzokeywest45 3:28 Just cause she's been there before doesn't mean she enjoyed it. And she's a chick... They're emotional thinkers not logical. How she's reacting make sense to me.
@@sandlotkrew8778 men say shit like this about women and then claim they just "couldn't control themselves" after forcing themselves on a woman or go on a shooting spree because a woman rejecting them lmao. Hell, the amount of videos I've seen where men get violent simply because they were rejected is countless. Men are extremely emotional, you just don't think anger is an emotion.
🤣🤣 I bet a lot of these Americans going to countries like India for love are thinking it will be an 'Eat, Pray, Love' type of vibe. And of course are shocked when it's not.
The problems with the apartment aren't little fixes. The door to the bathroom opens into the shower. The toilet is visible from a big window, no wall. And the sink is outside the bathroom completely. Whoever built this really messed up. I can see why Kimberly is upset. But her reaction was way too over the top.
Plenty of custom built homes in the US have the sink outside the bathroom so that it can still be accessed when the toilet is in use. Sink outside the bathroom isn't some major building issue. It's all minor inconveniences, especially when you keep in mind the quality of the homes in the area that we've seen and also the fact that India doesn't have the same building codes/standards as the US.
The family has always shared a single room and she's complaining histerically about this apartment?? It's unbelievable! I wonder how the family feels about it
She is awful, ungrateful, spoiled and entitled! He was so excited to show her what he had built for them and she crapped all over all of it. The look of sadness and disappointment in his face genuinely hurt my heart. She is not a nice person. Material things shouldn’t matter. The fact that she threw in his face that she was giving up everything for him would have been enough for me . I really hope he is done with her. She’s embarrassing. Not to mention , the way she yelled and swore at him, completely unacceptable and obnoxious.
She should have instead considered being with a American millionaire who can give her everything she wants. I am certain TJ would also not want to be in a relation with a local unattractive woman from his community.
Also in the argument with his brother she was horrible 😮😮 not a positive person at all. I notice the Americans are always complaining and never try to find solutions. Like the curtain, just put a cloth in front the window and tie it. Later buy nice curtains. Some things ar so easy to fix or find a temporary solution. Just like Danielle when she visited Johan's meat store and started talking shit. She could buy plastic see through foil and put it on the meat against the flies. And they act really entitled and spoiled.
Tj is really building an apartment for Kim and she is not only ungrateful but yelling at him too. She is not that positive in my opinion anymore, she might be forcing herself to be positive. A real positive person would be calm and try to express theirselves in a different way at that moment
it's a facade, she knows it's an act. just like she knows that she's not a psychic and does it because she enjoys deceiving and defrauding people. I guarantee she's a proper narcissist.
The ONLY thing I’ll say I completely get is this- the door closing into the shower rather than the bathroom/toilet itself actually doesn’t make a shred of sense. And the toilet faces the street hahahah that is actually a very poor design choice that’s pretty insane.
It's a good thing she's so stubborn! Him making her cook and clean for everyone else will NOT fly for her. It's so controlling. Teamwork makes the dream work.
Honestly, considering the area they're in, that apartment looks great. Might look a little rough around the edges, but that's because Americans are used to seeing a house literally ready to move in(might even already be furnished). Americans aren't used to seeing a place JUST finished or about to be finished. That apartment is basically almost done, and it's very clear he bought high quality materials compared to everyone else in that same area/neighborhood. She needs to be grateful and I think that's why there's so much conflict here. She doesn't understand how hard and expensive it must've been to get this all done with local villager workers(even though he tried telling her about it). She completely ignored everything he was saying and again started talking about herself and her feelings. This whole relationship is doomed and it's not because of him, SHE is the issue
Americans are use to wooden houses that can break down easily. They are beautiful because its wood and gypsum. In other countries they make concrete houses which are harder to make seamless but last throughout generations.
She seemed positive but it might be considered unrealistic. She knows nothing about the culture or who she is marrying; TJ is also not being upfront with things and not completely honest
She sounds so angry. But honestly, I couldn't live like that either. These people are blind "for love", and they don't seem to do their research either.
She has every right to freak out, that guy is playing her like a joke and she can sense it. He even said he would turn her into a house slave for his family after they get hitched.
I would have been really upset too but wow I did not expect her to blow up like that! 😂 It's great TV but if I were him I would be wondering what I signed up for with her. And from what I've seen on this show she's lucky to even have an apartment for just the two of them.
I dont get why these women are not aware about the other culture they’re getting themselves into. As a woman that grew up in Scandinavia, I cannot imagine giving up my personal freedom to be reduced to being a maid for a whole family. I know this is normal in their culture but I just can’t begin to wrap my head around it and I’m comfortable with the freedom that I have. I’ll do basic household chores - but being expected to do as much as you have to like in the Indian culture would be such a huge change and a huge shock. If I were to marry a man of vastly different culture- I’d have to make sure he’s also in the same page as me that we’ll both share household responsibilities especially since I wouldn’t give up my job to be a stay at home wife.
You're right, the son said that the father sleeps on the floor and has not slept in the mom's bed for 20 years. Uh...ok? I guess they fell out of love but can't they at least get the dad a bed? And why do the sons have to sleep with her instead lol
Okay I am Indian woman and I live currently in Canada. I have had quite a lot of experience with Indian men both in India and outside India - all I can say is DON'T be with Indian men if you aren't okay with bare minimum. They aren't expected by our society to do much, WOMEN? You are expected to work right after a surgery. Men do SOME more if they love you crazy amounts which I can see here. Though don't expect them to change their patriarchal ways. Don't expect to them be a partner. They haven't even seen their fathers do much. Don't expect them to educate themselves on your issues.
90 Day Fiance No Friggin Way.I have one question. Why the hell do people go online onto international websites looking for love? Unless someone already knows that they want to live in a specific country outside of the U.S. then avoiding getting involved with someone on the other side of the world would be my number one advice. Has Kimberly ever done ANY research on the country she's' going to and how the people live? I mean this girl is the opposite of clairvoyant. She is utterly clueless and way too immature to find a clue. This is not a match and there is no way she is going to be this family's slave, cooking and cleaning, etc.
I really don’t understand why the women on these shows are so dismissive of the cultures of their partners?! It’s so naive to expect these men to change to have western values overnight! Whilst I don’t expect them to be completely submissive, they should meet them halfway! This girls expectations are very unrealistic! If these woman want to man to accept them in a western way, then date a guy at home! Don’t date a guy with a completely different culture and then attack him for it! I mean really what did you expect?!
Whoever designs that was either on drugs or something was wrong with them. Did you see all the cuts into the molding for no reason and then the sink is outside of the bathroom? I hope he didn't have to pay them too much money for that job. It was pretty awful. Then again that kind of work is probably hard and you have to be precise Mathematically to get it perfect. But for God's sakes, why would you have a window looking right at the toilet?
Did you see anything outside window? Was there an apt window right across from theirs. I saw nothing. Also she could've come up with a temporary solution. No she's just going to have a temper tantrum
“5:10 The reason I’m cautious about people who emphasize being ‘positive’ and post affirmations on social media is that genuine positivity is just a part of who they are, not something they need to constantly talk about. It’s like someone mentioning they’ve never committed a crime; it raises eyebrows because it feels out of place. Truly positive people don’t feel the need to constantly reinforce it in conversations; it’s simply an inherent part of their nature. 4:46 oh and this. The exact opposite of what a person who is a positive person would say. 9:45 So as a positive person she’s going to be thinking - Great, a blank canvass, isn’t it good that they haven’t decorated recently because I might not have liked it and it might have put me in a difficult position to want to redecorate so soon after. This is great because there’s nice doors that are going to make the room look nice when it is all done. 🤔 or did she just instantly look in the room and pull a face before she’s given her eyes chance to look at the room properly and make up her mind it’s awful and that’s how it’s going to be forever. One of these thoughts is positive, but her instinctive positive (sarcasm intended) reaction seems a bit odd. 13:00 TBF to him, we don’t know how long her list was. I can imagine she will have had a very long list which didn’t take into consideration what is possible to do in that time. Ok the windows he probably should have had finished first. But it’s not unknown for people like her to bombard you with a long list and even if they have a priority list, it can end up as long and confusing as the general to-do list.
I think she’s exhausted from the trip, and I think if he had been keeping her updated through the process it wouldn’t have gone down like this so I get her melt down. She expected something finished and done and done well. So to be overtired and jet lagged and then seeing a complete disappointment of an apartment I would probably melt down too.
It's a really long, rough flight. THAT is how she ended up melting down within hours. Plus, dealing with wedding stress, and add to it having to deal with construction in a third world country--I am surprised she was as calm as she was! I am no clairvoyant, but after all those hours in a coach seat to Jaipur, then everything else--I could have told them this would happen!
I can see why she's upset because i would be upset about the lay out too. The way she went about expressing herself though was not ok. This was an unnecessary fight.
Kimberly is fake positive as hell and have zero problem solving and communication skills. Seriously ??!! I think she’s hysterical. And TJ? How do u wanan dupe someone into a house wife role when u know she don’t want to? That’s really disaster in making 😵💫
She can be a little nicer. OMG she needs to take a downer. She is way too much to handle. Give him credit for what is done then tell him ok let me write down what we need to do next.
I’m shook that dad sleeps on the couch and the grown men sons sleep next to their mom. It’s very interesting and not the best sign for an American woman who will most likely want to come first in his life.
I'm wondering why her son's are sleeping with her,is it because lack of space or bedrooms? I really don't think she will accept being the maid of the family either, they are too explosive!
South Asian culture has an extreme mamas boy culture😅They have an emotional affair with their sons. They also hate the daughter in-law for "stealing" their son. Not all, but it is their culture. I suggest all women be careful from any man, from any part of the world, who has this type of relationship with his mother.
I don't think Kimberly handled this well, BUT, TJ should have communicated better. I understand her frustration. It's not like she didn't ask TJ about things- she did- and he just kept saying "just trust me". If this is how she's reacting to the apartment, imagine the wedding. He needs to work on his communication and she needs to work on not displaying so much rage and instead explain to TJ why it's important to her that she know exactly what's going on. I don't think that's an unreasonable request of your partner, but you have to go about it the correct way. And TJ needs to not be so dismissive. I think he knew the place wasn't where it should be, but he should have just communicated that so she could manage her expectations. Also, why did either of them think this would be done in 2 months?
Shooootttt, her fiancé built her her own apartment. That’s more than most wives and girlfriend get from their partner 😂. She’s lucky, she just doesn’t know it yet.
She seems ungrateful for everything he has done she needed to research everything before going there and expect her role to be different in another country she seems like a spoiled brat to me
@@reineon you idiots in the comments section english is never taught in any school in india so everything he learned is probably through TH-cam use some damn sense!! god
@@solespirit9211 I was asking because I don't know his country, for all I know maybe it's said as a sign of respect. I noticed he said it 2 or 3 times that I've heard. But if it's a language issue because English is not his first language, I certainly meant no disrespect. He can speak more languages than I can. If somehow my comment offended you, I'm sorry, it wasn't meant to. Have a nice day! 😊
She's a perfect example of the pseudo-spiritual community as a whole. Always sending "love and light" to everything, then having an absolute meltdown and belittling someone at the slightest inconvenience. Homegirl makes a living selling snake oil 🥴
Hahahaha!!!
Exactly !! All these pseudo spiritual ignorant jerks are so worse !! So easy to spot, they 're just so ridiculous !
Exactly!! it's all and act until something doesn't go their way
I think a study has been done proving that people who believe in astrology and "spirituality" tend to be more narcissistic than the average person. Doesn't surprise me. I don't believe in that nonsense but when I've been asked what my star sign is by multiple people and told them I'm a Scorpio they say "oh I'll have to avoid you. Scorpios are evil!!"
YUUUUUUUP she represents it well lol
She should have manifested a better apartment fr
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She is clairvoyant, she should have known this was gonna happen
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Lol
But what is not good about it than? A free living space?I
She's vicious!! No need to be so aggressive, but she could express her disappointment without freaking out!!
IMO she reacted like a spoiled teenager, who didn't get her way. She doesn't have the problem solving skills to be married. She needs therapy not a marriage.
i didn’t think their apartment looked that bad. they’re lucky they don’t have to sleep with the entire family
Well, not lucky, he took out a massive loan
She might have not wanted to move if she knew how it would really be though. I don't personally see anything wrong with the apartment but she has every right to choose how she wants to live. And after tj lying about her future duties I can see him lying about things he could feasibly do.
And one of the biggest And most important things in a successful marriage, or any relationship for that matter, is trust. And the fact that he IS, actually lying to her, to get her to marry him, and he will then, be truthful with her, but ONLY AFTER, the wedding, is a HUGE RED FLAG!!!! Starting a marriage, that was literally built, with lies is absolutely NO WAY to start a marriage. As a matter of fact, it actually, will end the marriage. You must have trust in any relationship, but especially, in a marriage. It's a huge part of the foundation, if you will. And we all know that nothing can be built if there's not a strong foundation. They need to go their separate ways and go find whomever they are, supposed to be with. God bless them both!!!
She is so-called lucky not to live with all family together. He loves it. Lucky would be getting the hell out of there. SHOCKING she does not know, and he has deliberately not told her. Selfish bastard. Soon this disaster in the making will be, or was, FINISHED or so much more misery, for all, in the offing. She needs to know her limit, said bro in law. NOT happening!
To be honest, being an Indian, myself, I can assure that this is a pretty good apartment for a rural India scenario. He really has tried his best and I can guarantee he has incurred a good chunk of debt for that.
Thank you for explaining that. And even if it can be fixed, why would he want to fix it with her bad attitude?
@@BlaqueMamba52 It depends on how much he wants to be her husband. Love can be weird that way. But if she keeps having meltdowns she is going to make him and his family unhappy.
I thought it was too. Us American people are too spoiled.
U a poor beggar boy. You can't afford white puss.
@@stormieinapril9626 we are. I agree. Which is fine if you’re in the US. But I hate when they go to other countries acting a fool.
Kimberly's entire "positive psychic with all the gifts" facade smelled fake from the moment she got on camera; glad to see we don't have to wait all season to see the mask slip.
@@MissCleo24 Well for the future just understand that anyone who preaches about positivity 24/7 is usually the complete opposite. It's called toxic positivity
If you Hv to keep saying “I’m so positive,” all the time, who are you trying to convince? I agree, all a facade.
tell her on instagram. Why is nobody dragging her on Instagram?
@@newyyykkll Y'all use Instagram???
Her anger is practically biting. She's venomous. How could you be so angry at someone you've missed and say you love do much, over some base boards and sinks. It's an adventure your going on together.
wtf cares about baseboards?
It's not all about the apartment, her panic is coming out.
She had been angry about being the in the dark about the wedding and apartment…she just never really showed it until she arrived. It was always there…
She has a right to be this way. Indian loser didn't try hard enough to please her.
She is horny & crazy; good for sex but bad for a marriage.
I do not think TJ lied to her. I think she just had high expectations and it doesn’t matter. You do not talk to your partner like shit you do not hurt someone that you love obviously he’s never had his own home. He’s shared a bed with his mother so of course, this apartment is a big project and it means a lot to him and not to mention he took out a loan, so for all of you taking up for Kimberly, y’all are wrong and she is a vicious person and very ungrateful
💯 Exactly
Maybe she's sent a lot of money for the apartment , which is the reason why she was disappointed with the results of the work being done on the apartment.
I don't know what she expected!
She's a spoilt brat. Hard pass.
@ruthdawang6044 But when she mentioned money he specifically said it was his money. Plus he took out a loan for this purpose. Doesn't sound like she sent any money.
To claim to be spiritually enlightened, yet so unaware of emotional cues and needs is giving me secondhand embarrassment
That’s why I’m less likely to believe people who make it their personality
And a psychic, didn't she foresee this?😂
Toxic positivity is the unhealthy coping mechanism of displaying only positive emotions and bottling up negative emotions and thoughts.
TJ fell for her toxic facade and hoped that he could handle her meltdowns
Ugh so true! I know bc I used to be like this!!
@@wanderingsoul2931Hi! I’m so curious - What made you change? I live in Northern California near the Center for Spiritual Living and it is Toxic Positivity Hell? There’s So much Spiritual Materialism here I feel so out of place. Helllpppp! SOS!!! 🤯😢
tell her on instagram. Why is nobody dragging her on Instagram?
❤❤❤❤ well said. Simply stated. This is a major aggravation to me, it’s like the furthest from authenticity possible. It comes off hypocritical and unaccountable.
@wanderingsoul2931 awesome self awareness ❤ welcome to reality ❤❤❤
She needs to go right back home. She should not be this aggressive. She could have expressed her feelings respectfully
She's the kind of person that always says they're kind and nice and they're not🥴💀
She had high expectations and maybe he lied to her that everything was fine so she was shocked and disappointed.
Will she cover the loan he took out?
Exactly
When are these women going to realize that the world is very different in another country.
I’m starting to think the producers ask them to act like this. Cause I don’t understand how these people, get with someone from not only a different state but whole other country and shocked about the vast differences.
Never
She would find a better place in a city but it's a rural place.
Some people are suckers for punishment. After so many horror stories online no one has an excuse to jump into a relationship and marriage in a foreign country. We live in a world where people want instant satisfaction and relationships simply don’t work that way. Let the bond build slowly and organically and visit one another first without any crazy expectations and assess if it’s worth the life altering change.
the apartment is unfinished and it looks decent to me
I bet you do not use toilet paper either 😂
Why is she expecting a fully completed up to Western level contracted addition to his house without lifting one finger to help out with any of it? I would probably expect just a rough beginning of the apartment that would be worked on overtime. She’s really acting like an entitled princess.
Yeah seems she's not putting any $ into the wedding and definitely not the apt.
I find it ironic he tells Kimberly " im not your servant " when he is trying to trick her into being one.
Interesting. A hyper-spiritual person freaking out over her “lack of control” & material conditions. It seems she has more inner work to do.
Being BlingSpiritual. 🤷🏻♀️
Damn. I always knew that people who seem all positive and bubble are the most intense unhinged and unpredictable people 🤣🤣🤣
She's absolutely unhinged. You should never explode over something as small as the things she was upset about. All that crap she was spewing about herself is a cover up to hide her crazy. Also anyone, man or woman, that says that they like to control things or that they like things a certain way, is a HUGE red flag/indicator that they're not a person that thinks of other's input on things.
I feel so bad for TJ. He has done so much for her, much more than the other two Indian men on 90-day Fiance did, and she can't be grateful at all. I spent 3-1/2 months in India, and I think this apartment is really nice. I also wonder, like you mentioned, was the structure already there, or did they build it from scratch just 2 months ago? She and TJ might be a good couple, but if she can't adapt to Indian culture, how will they survive together?
Nice or nice for India?
It looks pretty nice
He is a bad partner thought?? He is secretly springing servitude on her. They deserve each other. Both extremely inconsiderate.
How will they survive since he didn't tell her the truth about anything? How will they survive if he keeps running to his parents and entire family for all of his personal relationship details? T j is a bit€h baby ... Kimberly definitely has TONS of flaws too, but their biggest flaw is their relationship. However, when you're in a relationship, you never run to your family when you have a spat. It creates an unfair dynamic in the marriage and makes the other person's family. Hostile towards your partner. And even when you make up, your family will still hate your partner. Because you have fed them your feelings in a moment that you were very upset.
She's never going to be part of a good couple
It's not really about the flat, she's scared to move to India, to a new country and place, and to live there with her partner's parents. She is scared that her choice was a mistake
She's been there before. I think they said 6 months. So she should have taken notes. Oh and maybe contribute to the apt and wedding
It's absolutely that. She really doesn't want to be there at all
@@Gonzokeywest45 3:28 Just cause she's been there before doesn't mean she enjoyed it. And she's a chick... They're emotional thinkers not logical. How she's reacting make sense to me.
@@sandlotkrew8778 men say shit like this about women and then claim they just "couldn't control themselves" after forcing themselves on a woman or go on a shooting spree because a woman rejecting them lmao. Hell, the amount of videos I've seen where men get violent simply because they were rejected is countless. Men are extremely emotional, you just don't think anger is an emotion.
This is not 70's where you cant check places before travelling , she should have googled atleast
First! Lol Kim wants eat pray love 😂 and got a dollar tree version
🤣🤣 I bet a lot of these Americans going to countries like India for love are thinking it will be an 'Eat, Pray, Love' type of vibe. And of course are shocked when it's not.
The problems with the apartment aren't little fixes. The door to the bathroom opens into the shower. The toilet is visible from a big window, no wall. And the sink is outside the bathroom completely. Whoever built this really messed up. I can see why Kimberly is upset. But her reaction was way too over the top.
"whoever built this is really messed up" LOL a true villain
Plenty of custom built homes in the US have the sink outside the bathroom so that it can still be accessed when the toilet is in use. Sink outside the bathroom isn't some major building issue. It's all minor inconveniences, especially when you keep in mind the quality of the homes in the area that we've seen and also the fact that India doesn't have the same building codes/standards as the US.
This apartment looks actually really nice for India from my experience there. This is new construction. Her expectations were way too high
@@Pangaea83 oh god
@@hospitable_ghost maybe, but nothing like this.
The family has always shared a single room and she's complaining histerically about this apartment?? It's unbelievable! I wonder how the family feels about it
Between her aggressive disappointment and his hiding his expectations from fear of said aggressiveness, it's such a hot mess.
tell her on instagram. Why is nobody dragging her on Instagram?
The silly outfits and light hearted attitude at the beginning reminds me of Kris the junkie from last season. She's awful and he needs to RUN!
Your reviews are the best man. Thank you! Loving the new Saturday vids!
She is awful, ungrateful, spoiled and entitled! He was so excited to show her what he had built for them and she crapped all over all of it. The look of sadness and disappointment in his face genuinely hurt my heart. She is not a nice person. Material things shouldn’t matter. The fact that she threw in his face that she was giving up everything for him would have been enough for me . I really hope he is done with her. She’s embarrassing. Not to mention , the way she yelled and swore at him, completely unacceptable and obnoxious.
tell her on instagram. Why is nobody dragging her on Instagram?
She should have instead considered being with a American millionaire who can give her everything she wants. I am certain TJ would also not want to be in a relation with a local unattractive woman from his community.
Because she can control delete negative comments @@newyyykkll
Also in the argument with his brother she was horrible 😮😮 not a positive person at all. I notice the Americans are always complaining and never try to find solutions. Like the curtain, just put a cloth in front the window and tie it. Later buy nice curtains. Some things ar so easy to fix or find a temporary solution. Just like Danielle when she visited Johan's meat store and started talking shit. She could buy plastic see through foil and put it on the meat against the flies. And they act really entitled and spoiled.
Why should she give up her freedom? And doesn't want to be controlled?
Tj is really building an apartment for Kim and she is not only ungrateful but yelling at him too. She is not that positive in my opinion anymore, she might be forcing herself to be positive. A real positive person would be calm and try to express theirselves in a different way at that moment
it's a facade, she knows it's an act. just like she knows that she's not a psychic and does it because she enjoys deceiving and defrauding people. I guarantee she's a proper narcissist.
The ONLY thing I’ll say I completely get is this- the door closing into the shower rather than the bathroom/toilet itself actually doesn’t make a shred of sense. And the toilet faces the street hahahah that is actually a very poor design choice that’s pretty insane.
It's a good thing she's so stubborn! Him making her cook and clean for everyone else will NOT fly for her. It's so controlling. Teamwork makes the dream work.
She reminds me of Kris from last season, pretending to be happy and whimsical, but in reality a very angry person.
Honestly, considering the area they're in, that apartment looks great. Might look a little rough around the edges, but that's because Americans are used to seeing a house literally ready to move in(might even already be furnished). Americans aren't used to seeing a place JUST finished or about to be finished. That apartment is basically almost done, and it's very clear he bought high quality materials compared to everyone else in that same area/neighborhood. She needs to be grateful and I think that's why there's so much conflict here. She doesn't understand how hard and expensive it must've been to get this all done with local villager workers(even though he tried telling her about it). She completely ignored everything he was saying and again started talking about herself and her feelings. This whole relationship is doomed and it's not because of him, SHE is the issue
Americans are use to wooden houses that can break down easily. They are beautiful because its wood and gypsum. In other countries they make concrete houses which are harder to make seamless but last throughout generations.
I thought it looked great for a two month build! She was wrong for that attitude.
She seemed positive but it might be considered unrealistic. She knows nothing about the culture or who she is marrying; TJ is also not being upfront with things and not completely honest
This always seems to be a theme with stuff like this. It's so frustrating and annoying lol makes me wanna shake them
If she wanted someone with a nice place and western ideals, why go to India? 😂
She sounds so angry. But honestly, I couldn't live like that either. These people are blind "for love", and they don't seem to do their research either.
I would have called it a day as soon as I heard about his family's sleeping arrangements
😂😂😂😂
She has every right to freak out, that guy is playing her like a joke and she can sense it. He even said he would turn her into a house slave for his family after they get hitched.
I would have been really upset too but wow I did not expect her to blow up like that! 😂 It's great TV but if I were him I would be wondering what I signed up for with her. And from what I've seen on this show she's lucky to even have an apartment for just the two of them.
I can't wait till he tells her she has to cook and clean for the family. 😊
Well isn't she ray of light and positivism 💀 he's not great either 😅😅😅
I dont get why these women are not aware about the other culture they’re getting themselves into. As a woman that grew up in Scandinavia, I cannot imagine giving up my personal freedom to be reduced to being a maid for a whole family. I know this is normal in their culture but I just can’t begin to wrap my head around it and I’m comfortable with the freedom that I have. I’ll do basic household chores - but being expected to do as much as you have to like in the Indian culture would be such a huge change and a huge shock. If I were to marry a man of vastly different culture- I’d have to make sure he’s also in the same page as me that we’ll both share household responsibilities especially since I wouldn’t give up my job to be a stay at home wife.
Is no one gonna talk about how he and his brother take turns to sleep in the same bed as their mother? What?
while the father never does ^^
You're right, the son said that the father sleeps on the floor and has not slept in the mom's bed for 20 years. Uh...ok? I guess they fell out of love but can't they at least get the dad a bed? And why do the sons have to sleep with her instead lol
You couldn't pay me to be with someone like this, and nor any dude with a shred of self respect. I know TJ ain't gonna tolerate this long term no way
Can't wait until she learns that she's the hired help. 🤣
She should atleast pay her half of expenses for building that appartment. That poor man isn't getting paid in American dollars.
She's basically about 2 become his servant everyone is leaving that out. Yes her attitude is b.s just imagine when she finds that out.
That’s The Culture There. It’s Her Fault That She DIDNT do some research on India
@@victoria859well said!
THEN DONT MARRY AND INDIAN GUY
Okay I am Indian woman and I live currently in Canada. I have had quite a lot of experience with Indian men both in India and outside India - all I can say is DON'T be with Indian men if you aren't okay with bare minimum. They aren't expected by our society to do much, WOMEN? You are expected to work right after a surgery. Men do SOME more if they love you crazy amounts which I can see here. Though don't expect them to change their patriarchal ways. Don't expect to them be a partner. They haven't even seen their fathers do much. Don't expect them to educate themselves on your issues.
bitch spitting venom in the comment section
i hate how americans use to think that the world is like in the USA......
I knew something was off about her when she was claiming to be a clair here and a clair there 😂 Is she sure she's a clairvoyant?! 😂
I mean if she was wouldn't she have seen this whole thing being a shit show???
She’s not anything psychic 😂
How did her spirit guide not tell her this was going to happen beforehand?
Hehe
Maybe the spirit guide wanted to be on TLC for longer😂
She just scared the crap out of me 👀
Wow...he hasn't even gotten to the chores yet...!😬
You would think that she would had enough brains to have got on her computer and delved into what she was in for.
90 Day Fiance No Friggin Way.I have one question. Why the hell do people go online onto international websites looking for love? Unless someone already knows that they want to live in a specific country outside of the U.S. then avoiding getting involved with someone on the other side of the world would be my number one advice. Has Kimberly ever done ANY research on the country she's' going to and how the people live? I mean this girl is the opposite of clairvoyant. She is utterly clueless and way too immature to find a clue. This is not a match and there is no way she is going to be this family's slave, cooking and cleaning, etc.
Rewatching this and reading the comments about tj after seeing that he was keeping all of that information from her is so funny
I really don’t understand why the women on these shows are so dismissive of the cultures of their partners?! It’s so naive to expect these men to change to have western values overnight! Whilst I don’t expect them to be completely submissive, they should meet them halfway! This girls expectations are very unrealistic! If these woman want to man to accept them in a western way, then date a guy at home! Don’t date a guy with a completely different culture and then attack him for it! I mean really what did you expect?!
In her defense, you can see the toilet clearly through the window. Just saying.
Whoever designs that was either on drugs or something was wrong with them. Did you see all the cuts into the molding for no reason and then the sink is outside of the bathroom? I hope he didn't have to pay them too much money for that job. It was pretty awful. Then again that kind of work is probably hard and you have to be precise Mathematically to get it perfect. But for God's sakes, why would you have a window looking right at the toilet?
Did you see anything outside window? Was there an apt window right across from theirs. I saw nothing.
Also she could've come up with a temporary solution. No she's just going to have a temper tantrum
Damn. She's got those vibes of a kid that keeps doing something rebellious but hopes their parents will eventually stop them.
Why wouldn’t you buy a bed for each of the people in the house
Space. Apartments in India are small. There would be no floor left just mattresses.
shes a psychopath, otherwise known as passive/aggressive people. what a nightmare
nah. a narcissist, but a proper one. arguably worse than a psychopath.
Psychopaths aren't usually passive/ aggressive lol normally just straight up aggressive.
“5:10 The reason I’m cautious about people who emphasize being ‘positive’ and post affirmations on social media is that genuine positivity is just a part of who they are, not something they need to constantly talk about. It’s like someone mentioning they’ve never committed a crime; it raises eyebrows because it feels out of place. Truly positive people don’t feel the need to constantly reinforce it in conversations; it’s simply an inherent part of their nature.
4:46 oh and this. The exact opposite of what a person who is a positive person would say.
9:45 So as a positive person she’s going to be thinking - Great, a blank canvass, isn’t it good that they haven’t decorated recently because I might not have liked it and it might have put me in a difficult position to want to redecorate so soon after. This is great because there’s nice doors that are going to make the room look nice when it is all done. 🤔 or did she just instantly look in the room and pull a face before she’s given her eyes chance to look at the room properly and make up her mind it’s awful and that’s how it’s going to be forever. One of these thoughts is positive, but her instinctive positive (sarcasm intended) reaction seems a bit odd.
13:00 TBF to him, we don’t know how long her list was. I can imagine she will have had a very long list which didn’t take into consideration what is possible to do in that time. Ok the windows he probably should have had finished first. But it’s not unknown for people like her to bombard you with a long list and even if they have a priority list, it can end up as long and confusing as the general to-do list.
She screams narcissist
You have to love people when they spend the value of a civic and expect a Lamborghini in return. 🤣🤣
Kimberly didn't see that coming 😂😂
Holy hell 😂😂😂you are hilarious!
@3:23 minutes 😂
“ SPLIT HAPPENS “
Kudos to the producers for that one ! 👍
The irony: the things she accused him of are the very things she did to him.
I think she’s exhausted from the trip, and I think if he had been keeping her updated through the process it wouldn’t have gone down like this so I get her melt down. She expected something finished and done and done well. So to be overtired and jet lagged and then seeing a complete disappointment of an apartment I would probably melt down too.
It's a really long, rough flight. THAT is how she ended up melting down within hours. Plus, dealing with wedding stress, and add to it having to deal with construction in a third world country--I am surprised she was as calm as she was!
I am no clairvoyant, but after all those hours in a coach seat to Jaipur, then everything else--I could have told them this would happen!
True. She needs to pee, go to sleep for half a day, then eat a big meal.
@@biancaluedeker Yup! Tho the meal may need to come first, depending on how she is feeling. Or both! That's Jetlag for ya!
🤣🤣🤣🤣long flights are so terrible
Her temper has been revealed. 😂. Just looking at her gives me bipolar vibes, but I am in no place to diagnose anyone. 😅
I hope people that take important advice from clairvoyant persons are paying attention to these results 😅
I was never that early
I can see why she's upset because i would be upset about the lay out too. The way she went about expressing herself though was not ok. This was an unnecessary fight.
Seems to me these 'spiritual' women are just trying to cover up how unstable they are
They usually are anyone who goes above and beyond to show how positive/spiritual they are have issues
Kimberly is fake positive as hell and have zero problem solving and communication skills. Seriously ??!! I think she’s hysterical. And TJ? How do u wanan dupe someone into a house wife role when u know she don’t want to? That’s really disaster in making 😵💫
30 year old men should know by now that buying a good PC Setup is better than marriage
She looks like the type that says grand rising every morning , and spews out some “positivity” bulls%^*. Yes, one of those
She can be a little nicer. OMG she needs to take a downer. She is way too much to handle. Give him credit for what is done then tell him ok let me write down what we need to do next.
maybe just stick to the issue instead of making it about how he's a worthless person.
I’m shook that dad sleeps on the couch and the grown men sons sleep next to their mom. It’s very interesting and not the best sign for an American woman who will most likely want to come first in his life.
I'm wondering why her son's are sleeping with her,is it because lack of space or bedrooms? I really don't think she will accept being the maid of the family either, they are too explosive!
South Asian culture has an extreme mamas boy culture😅They have an emotional affair with their sons. They also hate the daughter in-law for "stealing" their son. Not all, but it is their culture.
I suggest all women be careful from any man, from any part of the world, who has this type of relationship with his mother.
“I’m leaving everything behind for you”….. we’ll then don’t.
He did what he can for the home. The woman just make life difficult for everyone. The house still looks pretty decent.
T.J. should ask for a refund. Like who did that work? What a sloppy job.
I hate people who hide behind spirituality. They make the rest of us look bad 😢
I wouldn't want to live in a 3 dollar apartment either.
I don't think Kimberly handled this well, BUT, TJ should have communicated better. I understand her frustration. It's not like she didn't ask TJ about things- she did- and he just kept saying "just trust me". If this is how she's reacting to the apartment, imagine the wedding. He needs to work on his communication and she needs to work on not displaying so much rage and instead explain to TJ why it's important to her that she know exactly what's going on. I don't think that's an unreasonable request of your partner, but you have to go about it the correct way. And TJ needs to not be so dismissive. I think he knew the place wasn't where it should be, but he should have just communicated that so she could manage her expectations. Also, why did either of them think this would be done in 2 months?
She gave TJ no chance to explain things. The apartment wasn't finished.
Why do they sleep with their mother while the father sleeps on the couch????
Yea that’s strange…
I can see TJ sending their entire life savings to a get rich quick scam.
Drop that little girl throwing tantrums. She does not know what respect is and simply is not ready for marriage.
What a disaster that apt is upstairs 😢😮 I would of went back to the USA.
Similar to Daniele but scarier. Run, TJ, run!
Don't move outside the US and expect everything to be up to the same standards, folks.
That’s her internet/online persona. 😂 Can the real Amanda stand up? 😂
She’s young and has an unrealistic expectation of what living in India would be like.
Why didn’t he have the apartment ready? At least try to make it a LITTLE homey and finish the repairs and lights etc.?
Shooootttt, her fiancé built her her own apartment. That’s more than most wives and girlfriend get from their partner 😂. She’s lucky, she just doesn’t know it yet.
It's just another floor on his parental house. He can't have his wife sleep between his mother and brother, can he?
She seems ungrateful for everything he has done she needed to research everything before going there and expect her role to be different in another country she seems like a spoiled brat to me
she didn't put any money in it.She should be grateful otherwise she should go back to the states
They only make it work when they're far away from each other
Why is she yelling at her partner. She is behaving as someone who us totally entitled. Her behavior is disturbing she seems rude and disrespectful.
Reminds me of the girl in the first Exorcist movie.
Why does he refer to her as "The Kimberly"???
open your damn mind
english is not the first language of everyone
@@solespirit9211it was a simple question. No need to get aggressive
@@reineon you idiots in the comments section
english is never taught in any school in india so everything he learned is probably through TH-cam
use some damn sense!! god
@@solespirit9211 I was asking because I don't know his country, for all I know maybe it's said as a sign of respect. I noticed he said it 2 or 3 times that I've heard. But if it's a language issue because English is not his first language, I certainly meant no disrespect. He can speak more languages than I can. If somehow my comment offended you, I'm sorry, it wasn't meant to. Have a nice day! 😊