as a south asian woman, i don’t understand why these men seek out western women and try to mould them into the “perfect” indian housewife when they could get what they want in a traditional marriage.
Honestly, why not marry a traditional Indian women then since a traditional wife is what he wants. Even in my country there are men and women who fell in love with their partners because of how independent, honest, free-spirited they are ect. And then once they are in a relationship, they want to mould their partner into something that they want them to be....that's not love.
Some 6 years ago, a good friend of mine was 7 months pregnant and living with her husband and his parents. One day she wasn't feeling too well and decided to lay down for a bit only for her father-in-law to pull her out of bed an hour or so later and slap her across the face for laying down instead of doing the dishes while her husband juat stood by and watched. After she called her own mother and told her what happened, her mom came over slapped the father-in-law, the mother-in-law and her son-in-law, yelled at them while my friend packed her stuff, then they left together.
@@CrazyHLady Much better, she is back with her husband and they have 3 kids now, they don't live with his parents anymore. They live alone in their own apartment in the neighbouring town. His parents still keep telling everyone they know that she stole their son away from them.
TJ is very selfish for not looking for a traditional Indian wife. He knows how his family is and he knows the expectations they'll put on their daughter-in-law, and since he isn't willing to go against that, he should stick to a woman of his culture. Kimberly and her ghosts need to run.
@@beewest5704 I don't get how an American woman fall for an Indian dude. Kim (not to be confused with "Kimbaaly") is a very pretty girl. If this show is scripted, Kim can get an American man to date, right?
I have friends who eat chicken at muslim eateries and dinners outside family home because their parents are devout Hindus and don´t allow beef be cooked at home. Garlic and Onion is the less problem could cook when are not any Festival where should be avoided. She can cook for herself or buy different set of saucepan and pressure cooker for using it. While don´t offer it as Prasad in the Temple there is no problem. That family should be flexible with her i feel they will not work due their intolerance.
I just don't understand why these guys aren't truthful. They don't want to lose their women, but do they think they will stay when they know how manipulative the guy has been?
Because it works in India. A woman will basically just submit to whatever she is presented with through marriage. It's an extremely patriarchical culture, so new wifes have no bargaining power. Obviously they miscalculate how much more power (through western socialization, financial means, education, legal and familial ties to their home country...) these western women have
India also has the most sexual assaults against women each year. Really shows you how much the culture values women there. Other countries have really horrible aspects too its just good to know these things for safety.
It’s all that BS about their relationship being soooooo important because he did some creepy ritual and she had a dream about someone who’s face she had seen frequently on social media. I’m willing to bet they both use that weird story as an excuse to be toxic 🤦🏾♀️
honestly he is so much more tolerable than she is.. neither of them are a prize, but at least he has some patience and self-control. She is so entitled and rude! Terrible.
@@meredithadams9468 right especially when every fight they have he leaves her crying alone in the unfurnished apartment to bad mouth her to his whole family. Definitely shows self control there.
Being nonconfrontational to the point of lying about what is expected is super Indian. "Later, later" then "why aren't you doing this." Super indirect men which is nice at first...but...not long-term
No, it is totally up to her to research his culture, Americans are usually expecting the whole planet to bend to their customs & cultures. In the real world people respect traditions & religions of their country & do not turn into a native speaking American on their arrival at the airport. Get with the program 😂
Maybe the reason they don't tell them is they know that would be a big no no for many American women ? My advice to them is just don't date Indian men with those stereotypes or at least ASK ABOUT IT, how you see relationships and marriage etc...
As an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN. And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN. I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
Met him through a dream ? Manifested her texting him? PLEASE he added her online and relentlessly messaged her and she caved and responded…. End of story.
The Kimberly is giving up her life, career, garlic, onions and the freedoms she enjoys in America to go cook, clean,take care of her in-laws, husband and children they will expect her to bear😬 I’m far from clairvoyant but I’m pretty sure she’s making a HUGE mistake. This one’s going up be a hilarious disaster to watch 👍🏻😂😂🤣🤣 Do Hindi’s even eat meatballs 🤷♀️ 😂😂😂😂
Question- how is garlic & onions cooking pungent & offensive in relation to CURRY & Tumeric?? Curry is a VERY PUNGENT smell. Dont forget...it's not just garlic and onions- ALL BEEF is now OFF the menu for Kimberly... I couldn't do this little clair-mystical song and dance w TJ
Indian Muslims eat meatballs, and they're absolutely delicious with the spices. Indian Hindus don't eat any meatballs tho, prolly cuz it's usually made of juicy beef/lamb.
If garlic and onions and off rhe menu they are 100% vegetarian as well. It's called Jainism I believe where it's basically like more strict than being vegan
I'm still processing the fact that he has his and hers entire living situation talked thru with his family members but not with HER. He probably knows that she is not gonna be willing to cook, clean and do all of those "extra" things that he is not communicating with her, like she HAS to be ok with that just because, he can't be honest in what is expected from her to see if she agrees or not, keeps happening in this show and I guess is a Indian culture thing. What a loser honestly!!!
As an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN. And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN. I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
10:18 That should honestly be discussed on the first date but the fact that he wants Kimberly to be a housewife but he still lives with his parents and isn’t being the masculine figure is alarming
It is very interesting how important it seems to be for TJ to discuss everything with his parents. It really gives off a vibe as if they will be a very significant part of this relationship, on occasions maybe even bigger than the actual spouses. I understand that it’s rooted in culture but still it’s mindblowing for me.
I don’t understand why all these Indian couples want the wife to do the household chores and cooking when a domestic helper probably costs $800/month. Especially when they have a career & US income
Well, while that's true, as an Indian woman, I can also see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN. And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN. I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
As an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN. And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN. I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
I agree- but as an actual tarot reader (we don’t advertise the way she does as “clairvoyant”???? And we don’t LOVE it, it’s something we have some skill in.
The mothers in law in these families look forward to becoming the slavemasters of their daughters in law because they're bitter from having been a slave. Exactly like how trafficked people become traffickers themselves
But she says she's clairvoyant, so she obviously already knows about the living/chore arrangements, right? Come to think of it, she also must already know about all of the wedding plans, so she should stop complaining about not knowing what's planned.
I certainly don't know how in this Era of information at your fingertips,people do not research what customs are in other countries.Save themselves money/time/and heartbreak.
Question- how is smell of garlic & onions " pungent & offensive" in relation to CURRY & Tumeric?? Curry is a VERY PUNGENT smell... To make her give up curry and onions- that should be a friggin deal breaker.
Being an indian even i would never get married to a traditional Indian guy. Certain parts of india are still backward and i don't blame them for having these expections because its something that has been going on since generations. TJ shouldve warned her about what she was getting herself into. Neither do i approve the American culture where the kids are so disrespectful towards their parents forget about their in laws.
These American women need to do their own homework on cultures and beliefs... its not all on the men.. plus men men never tell u the entire truth anyway
As a western man I learnt a lot from this episode. But I wonder if it would be different if a western man were to marry a Indian women? Would there still be huge cultural differences?
Can you imagine paying a massive dowry to a grown man AND working full-time ON TOP of all that other stuff? Oh, and possibly having to fight off sexual advances from your father in law 🥴🥴 No thanks.
Yep, that's actually a pretty normal thing here. Also, as an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN. And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN. I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
Why is nobody talking about the fact that 2 grown men ( tj and his brother) sleep with their mother? Wtf? Will he expect kimberly to pile on the bed as well? Its beyond bizarre.
If a guy tried that with me, someone would be hiring a maid. Because it wouldn't be me! 😂 I think Indian accents are one of the worst. Up there with German. 😅
0:38 the answer is the so called commitment principle. A marriage is a big publicly stated commitment which reduces the chance of her backing out significantly (see Robert Cialdini)
4:25 Yeah it’s also the same as what narcissists have. It doesn’t mean you’re clairvoyant it just means you think you’re right all of the time, even when you are wrong. A lot of them for some reason (narcissism) love to think this means they have some special power that puts them above other people, and a lot (I’d argue ALL clairvoyants) make money out of conning vulnerable people for same reason (sociopathy). With my experience of Indian culture there does seem to be a very “it’ll work out fine” mentality. I’m not saying in general it is a bad thing, but this does mean the difficult things are left until they happen, rather than preparing in advance so they don’t become a bigger issue down the line. It’s just my experience so I don’t know if this is true on a wider scale but it just seems a cultural thing of doing (or not doing) with a thought that it’ll probably turn out fine anyway. And in a way, if not taken too far (which my experience with this culture does seem to do), it’s a pretty good way to do things because there’s no point in worrying about stuff you can’t control that may never happen. But the flip side is those things that can be controlled that have a needless risk attached to them if they go wrong. One thing we do see this in is some of the things that happen in India that you don’t need to be a health and safety officer in the UK to work out is probably a bad idea.
That's actually true. Also, as an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN. And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN. I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
And the saga continues. You think these women have watched this show. One would think the American woman moving, & marrying an Indian man, would know what was in store for them. Really?? You're on the show, but havent a clue how the other half lives? This is called the Amber Heard defense.😂
She knew what she is getting into she is a fan of 90days fiance and wants to be the NEW Jenny and Summit. These people are in it for a pay cheque. , so they sign up on the show as cast members. They just pretending for the camera all fake.
Can someone please tell me why these people don’t do any research on the cultures and appropriate practices of these countries they want to move to? They get there and then cry and whine about how difficult it is. Who’s fault is that?
Those on this show are just the tip of the iceberg. There must be hundreds of thousands of Americans and Europeans out there messing up their lives on an international scale just like these people.
This is not just bad for foreigner women, this is also ridiculously depressing, mind-boggling situation for an Indian woman also which is created on most of the households after marriage. They don't care about woman's individuality and happiness at all.
I am loving Kimberly, she is not taking their shit. Common grown men sleeping with mommy. Good God. I can't wait to see what happens when she gets told her job is to cook and clean for the family. 😅😅😅😅 Going to be the best.
My white Canadian sister is married to an Indian man from Odisha and she's not been expected to do every damn thing in the house. I think this show purposely seeks out dysfunctional couples.
As an Indian woman, I can confirm that. Your sister's blessed. Also, most indian men will treat western/white women in a much more humane/lovable manner. But when it's our own indian women, they're treated like shift just because they're brown skinned and not fair enough. Indian men will force their indian wives to pay dowry and do all chores, but if they happen to marry a white lady, they'll behave like they're the most generous, loving men on the planet. I've seem it happen first hand in so many households.
The ppl on the show arent in America they're in India. she did it to herself .She didn't even bother to google the culture and marriage before moving over there.
Ladies, if you're not willing to adapt and accommodate in a new city, state, country, culture, religion, society..., then don't period. However, don't throw a fit when things are not completely your way once you have chosen an international partner. I could have never imagined coming to my African MIL house and acted the way most of these GIRLS have in T.O.W. smh
Ok but let’s be honest, American women are expected to maintain the household, clean up after everyone, cook everyone’s meals, have babies AND WORK A 9-5 JOB AND BE THE PRESENT AND PROACTIVE PARENT. It’s incredible that the folks from India have the audacity to assume American women are lazy or whatever. If American society still expected and wanted women here to be stay at home mothers that’d be awesome because then at least we could focus on our children and not be exhausted after doing literally everything for everyone and have to go to work and focus on micromanaging grown ass adults all day.
Why cant kim get a man from India who lives in us ? Or go Canada. Most of them are there. U gotta take d most authentic one hahahhahaha only Indians still practice this.. wmn doing all the household thing
Once again we have a American getting involved with a man in India, expecting it to be like the US. I don’t feel the least bit sorry for her, did she google anything about cultural differences, everyday life in India? Of course not!! Yes Kim seems to be a sweet person BUT take some accountability. She lived there a year, did she wear a bag over her head the whole time?? Hell she could have watched the show and found out many things. Yes she has a business of her own but I wonder how much “help” her parents have given her. From the look of her at the reading of the girl that came in I don’t put much faith in her business skills. Example: woman comes in, Kim meets her then instead of talking with her customer Kim proceeds to ramble on and on about herself. Kim: I am blah blah blah Customer: bitc_ shut up and read the cards for me!! Then we get a look at the preview, he is proud of the apartment, Kim walks in and instant disgust is on her face. Who designed this? It is completely wrong!! The materials and work is substandard! Gee she not only has all those extra abilities she is a master of construction and building materials; In Another Country!! Boy who would have known!! He is wrong too!! He knows she will not accept his & his family’s way of life (culture) and waiting until after they are married to tell her what is expected of her is a big mistake. Put your cards on the table lay out the truth and expectations see if there is a way to compromise and adjust. But we see from the trailer she starts using the I left everything and everyone for you! Scenario expecting him, his family and all of India to change completely and accommodate her. I say the same thing I have said in the other relationships involving western women & Indian men; if you cannot live the way their culture lives don’t get involved!! You have no right to expect anyone to accommodate you in their country, you know the questions before getting involved so ask them, stop looking for a partner in another country that has very different cultures than what you are used to and biggest advice: don’t expect everything & everybody to be like America, they won’t change after the marriage and they shouldn’t have to: Remember:::It’s their country!!!
So he is lying to her about him wanting a maid he can have sex with not a wife and she is just lying about all her hippy dippy bull crap or she is delusional and actually believes she is clairvoyant, perfect match haha
I can never do house chores for my in-laws,who was doing them while I was not there,let them continue with the norm,am only responsible for my hubby's wellbeing
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as a south asian woman, i don’t understand why these men seek out western women and try to mould them into the “perfect” indian housewife when they could get what they want in a traditional marriage.
Green card, maybe?
they don't like how Indian women look
White skin
@@henrysedigzadeh6209obviously not if they ask the women to move in with their indian family, which is in India.
Honestly, why not marry a traditional Indian women then since a traditional wife is what he wants. Even in my country there are men and women who fell in love with their partners because of how independent, honest, free-spirited they are ect. And then once they are in a relationship, they want to mould their partner into something that they want them to be....that's not love.
Some 6 years ago, a good friend of mine was 7 months pregnant and living with her husband and his parents. One day she wasn't feeling too well and decided to lay down for a bit only for her father-in-law to pull her out of bed an hour or so later and slap her across the face for laying down instead of doing the dishes while her husband juat stood by and watched. After she called her own mother and told her what happened, her mom came over slapped the father-in-law, the mother-in-law and her son-in-law, yelled at them while my friend packed her stuff, then they left together.
Wow go mom... the husband and his father sound like 🤡. Was your friend married to an Indian family?
Hope shes doing well now
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Much better, she is back with her husband and they have 3 kids now, they don't live with his parents anymore. They live alone in their own apartment in the neighbouring town. His parents still keep telling everyone they know that she stole their son away from them.
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No, he, his family, my friend and I, we're all from Serbia, tho I live in a different European country now.
TJ is very selfish for not looking for a traditional Indian wife. He knows how his family is and he knows the expectations they'll put on their daughter-in-law, and since he isn't willing to go against that, he should stick to a woman of his culture. Kimberly and her ghosts need to run.
Don’t forget about Sumit and a Jenny
I know you’re right but I can’t wait for the next episode of this train wreck 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
And she has no Google to find out about the culture in India?
Men get off on taking an independent woman and crippling her. Where's the fun of hunting a domestic cat when you can take done a lion?
@@janebaker4912I agree I love strong independent woman because they are the most fun to break
These men have an issue telling their partners how it actually is bc they themselves know it’s wrong and unfair😂
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They also know the women will say hell no!
No way in hell I’d move in with a man’s family and then be responsible for ALL household chores.
Don't understand why men like him (& his family) want a traditional Indian wife but do not marry a traditional Indian woman.
@@beewest5704 I don't get how an American woman fall for an Indian dude.
Kim (not to be confused with "Kimbaaly") is a very pretty girl.
If this show is scripted, Kim can get an American man to date, right?
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The Kim in this video is very pretty?
@@Kc-dq7zj you don't think so?
Call me crazy but I think Jen is cute too. There, I said it.
She got to cook traditional Indian food also so we'll see how tht works 😂😂😂
For someone who's so clairvoyant she sure is oblivious to a lot of things in her own relationship
She didn’t see that coming 🤣
Right 😂I thought the same thing u didn't see that shit coming. During the pandemic people just start making up shit and gifts they supposed to have 😂
that's not really what clairvoyant means lol
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HOW TO SEE IT CUMMING WHEN YUR DEVILS FROM ASIA OR NORTH AFRICA
BLOCK THE PERSON'S AWARENESS,THROUGH SPELLS?
KNOW WHAT I MEAN DUMBO? FROM EGYPT?
They know its a bad deal that’s why they don’t tell the women that
"Kimberly thinks like a U.S. girl..."
Could that be because she IS a U.S. girl?! She needs to run, she can do so much better
lol
Kimberly is worried about the garlic and onions. Girl, you don’t even know about the steak you’ll have to give up.
I have friends who eat chicken at muslim eateries and dinners outside family home because their parents are devout Hindus and don´t allow beef be cooked at home. Garlic and Onion is the less problem could cook when are not any Festival where should be avoided. She can cook for herself or buy different set of saucepan and pressure cooker for using it. While don´t offer it as Prasad in the Temple there is no problem. That family should be flexible with her i feel they will not work due their intolerance.
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I would be ☠️ before I gave up my beef garlic and onions!!!!!😂❤❤ no way no how! Lol
😂😂😂😂. But that’s like the first thing I think when I think for Indian food restrictions
This is going to be a dumpster fire, guaranteed! My spirit guide tells me so. 🤣
My dog's shadow tells me the same.
@@beewest5704haaaaa ha love it. What’s your dogs shadow say about Jasmine knocking off Gino??? Eagerly awaiting a response 🤓
My Higher Self tells is a Trainwreck!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
lol :P
totally agree
I bought a tarot deck for fun, i should pull cards out while i watch her on the screen 😂😂
I just don't understand why these guys aren't truthful. They don't want to lose their women, but do they think they will stay when they know how manipulative the guy has been?
Because it works in India. A woman will basically just submit to whatever she is presented with through marriage. It's an extremely patriarchical culture, so new wifes have no bargaining power. Obviously they miscalculate how much more power (through western socialization, financial means, education, legal and familial ties to their home country...) these western women have
India also has the most sexual assaults against women each year. Really shows you how much the culture values women there. Other countries have really horrible aspects too its just good to know these things for safety.
India still, unofficially, requires a dowry. Perhaps they are thinking these women have untold riches and resources.
The entire family will brow beat her into submission.
That's his advantage for getting her to move there and not the other way around
Because these men don't care about the women.
TJ is spoiled and thinks Kimberley will agree to anything because how could she say no to the amazing TJ
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It’s all that BS about their relationship being soooooo important because he did some creepy ritual and she had a dream about someone who’s face she had seen frequently on social media. I’m willing to bet they both use that weird story as an excuse to be toxic 🤦🏾♀️
honestly he is so much more tolerable than she is.. neither of them are a prize, but at least he has some patience and self-control. She is so entitled and rude! Terrible.
@@meredithadams9468 right especially when every fight they have he leaves her crying alone in the unfurnished apartment to bad mouth her to his whole family. Definitely shows self control there.
@@guttenaug947 well, to be fair, his whole family hears her screeching and carrying on and sees him upset.
Putting getting married ahead of doing research on Customs and Cultures is a sure way of failure. Hope she enjoys catering to his Mom and Dad.
Nothing says she's going to do that. 😂
Being nonconfrontational to the point of lying about what is expected is super Indian. "Later, later" then "why aren't you doing this." Super indirect men which is nice at first...but...not long-term
Sounds passive aggressive to me
Marrying Kimberlay "first" to then tell her she will have to clean, cook and take care of him...I hope he will surprise her sooner. It's a trap, girl
No, it is totally up to her to research his culture, Americans are usually expecting the whole planet to bend to their customs & cultures. In the real world people respect traditions & religions of their country & do not turn into a native speaking American on their arrival at the airport. Get with the program 😂
She’s clairvoyant. I hope she can foresee this😂
Her spirit guides did her 😑 wronggggggg.
Funny her dream was about "being so free and riding motorbikes" or whatever it was - not "scrubbing floors and feeding cows"
😂
Maybe the reason they don't tell them is they know that would be a big no no for many American women ?
My advice to them is just don't date Indian men with those stereotypes or at least ASK ABOUT IT, how you see relationships and marriage etc...
As an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN.
And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN.
I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
With the people they find for this show, 'spiritual' always seems to be synonymous with 'delusional'. 😒🤦
I couldnt agree more!!
And then they reveal the childhood trauma!
What I dont like about TJ is whenever he is having an argument with Kimberly, he immediately goes to his family and complain about her.
They are literally 6 feet away hearing all the yelling.😅
He’s a kid. Look at Sumit. These men didn’t grow up like ever
Met him through a dream ? Manifested her texting him? PLEASE he added her online and relentlessly messaged her and she caved and responded…. End of story.
The Kimberly is giving up her life, career, garlic, onions and the freedoms she enjoys in America to go cook, clean,take care of her in-laws, husband and children they will expect her to bear😬 I’m far from clairvoyant but I’m pretty sure she’s making a HUGE mistake. This one’s going up be a hilarious disaster to watch 👍🏻😂😂🤣🤣 Do Hindi’s even eat meatballs 🤷♀️ 😂😂😂😂
She was over there before for 6 months, I think. How did a traditional Indian household escape her?
Question- how is garlic & onions cooking pungent & offensive in relation to CURRY & Tumeric?? Curry is a VERY PUNGENT smell.
Dont forget...it's not just garlic and onions- ALL BEEF is now OFF the menu for Kimberly...
I couldn't do this little clair-mystical song and dance w TJ
Nice racism bozo
Indian Muslims eat meatballs, and they're absolutely delicious with the spices. Indian Hindus don't eat any meatballs tho, prolly cuz it's usually made of juicy beef/lamb.
If garlic and onions and off rhe menu they are 100% vegetarian as well. It's called Jainism I believe where it's basically like more strict than being vegan
I'm still processing the fact that he has his and hers entire living situation talked thru with his family members but not with HER. He probably knows that she is not gonna be willing to cook, clean and do all of those "extra" things that he is not communicating with her, like she HAS to be ok with that just because, he can't be honest in what is expected from her to see if she agrees or not, keeps happening in this show and I guess is a Indian culture thing. What a loser honestly!!!
Hey, he might just think she already knows what they are expecting her to do, since she says she's "Clairvoyant".
Her spirit guides failed to mention her future as a domesticated house wife who will cater to him and his family
Those extremely positive people, I feel like they might snap at any time 😶
I married an Indian man and I was prepped for EVERYTHING. It was gritty, grueling and disappointing at times and that is just my mother-in-law 😅
😢
😂 same here
Any regrets?
@AA-zq3pw not a single one ❤️
Wtf?! No garlic or onions because of the strong smell?? Indian food is some of the most pungent in existence!!!!!
That man put a love spell on her. 😬 Never start a relationship with a kidnapping!
🤔🤔🤔 a love spell? This ain't sleeping beauty
Regardless of a “spell” being a thing or not - he made a sincere attempt to manipulate her against her will. Ew
I don’t think it’s a love spell Raging hormones maybe
@@emilyfeagin2673facts 💯
As an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN.
And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN.
I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
10:18 That should honestly be discussed on the first date but the fact that he wants Kimberly to be a housewife but he still lives with his parents and isn’t being the masculine figure is alarming
It is very interesting how important it seems to be for TJ to discuss everything with his parents. It really gives off a vibe as if they will be a very significant part of this relationship, on occasions maybe even bigger than the actual spouses. I understand that it’s rooted in culture but still it’s mindblowing for me.
All she had to do was talk to ONE indian woman before going there.
Or read book.
The problem with most these people is that they literally don't have any knowledge of the culture they are marrying into
It’s tru tbh, sometimes doing research helps a great deal
@@LuzakJulek 💯
That's all it is literally. Why didn't she Google what's expected of an Indian wife? It would of saved her time and headaches.🤕
TJ seems like a gas lighter. SMH 🤦♂️
Kimberly makes me exhausted. Kimberly makes me exhausted and TJ is a goofball. No one could be that happy all the time without some sort of burnout.
A lovely chill spiritual woman, who gets angry over doors and skirting boards 😂😂 dying.
I don’t understand why all these Indian couples want the wife to do the household chores and cooking when a domestic helper probably costs $800/month. Especially when they have a career & US income
It’s a cultural thing… not everyone lives the way we live in the US!
@@LuzakJulek when did I ever say “but my culture”?
Well, while that's true, as an Indian woman, I can also see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN.
And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN.
I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
@@mariarox3999 Oh wow that is crazy. It seems as though all they care about is how they come off in society. That’s a shame.
Oh yeah , like these ppl are gonna change "thousands of years" of life just bc we dont get it. 😂😂😂 Yeah right.
Lmao I wish I had spirit guides I just have schizophrenia
your too funny
Why even date outside your race and culture if your unwilling to be excepting of different things?! None of these people make sense to me lol 😂
bingo
As an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN.
And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN.
I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
Soo true.
Comparing Kim to Jenny is a horrible insult to the former and a ego-boosting compliment to the latter.
I agree- but as an actual tarot reader (we don’t advertise the way she does as “clairvoyant”???? And we don’t LOVE it, it’s something we have some skill in.
@@nomeinthecottage4767 Duly noted. I was referring to their physical attributes though..
Kimberly is full of doo-doo, doesn't take gifts to see that.
She will be the maid of the family, this is crazy😂😂😂😂I will never 👎 marry an Indian 😂😂😂😂😂😂
If they belong to the conservative household that is, I'm from urban India and we don't really work that way
now there has to be more people like you and l .. smart people who would never marry an Indian
No one invited u. So chill plus in my household I live separately from my in laws n have maids for jobs. So don’t comment before knowing things
I'd never give up garlic for a man lol I'm also Italian, and it's the best flavour out there.
I'm mexican American and same problem. I have to eat onions and garlic almost every day.
🤤💕😍
Yo I'm an Indian and i can never give up on ginger and garlic ever ! I mean how absurd the food would taste without these ?😖
No wonder they’re excited to wed these two; Free housekeeper!!!!
The mothers in law in these families look forward to becoming the slavemasters of their daughters in law because they're bitter from having been a slave. Exactly like how trafficked people become traffickers themselves
marry now and think later, was effective when women were more submissive, things have changed FYI men of Jaipur!
The Kimberly makes me miss Kimbaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaly.
Kimberly just might cut this "maharajah complexed" egomaniac down to size.😂😂😂😂😂🎉
we'll see
😂😂😂😂she might
But she says she's clairvoyant, so she obviously already knows about the living/chore arrangements, right? Come to think of it, she also must already know about all of the wedding plans, so she should stop complaining about not knowing what's planned.
She must be shuffling the magic cards wrong.
😂
she probably bought the knock off version , dude cards lol
Tj you are clearly a very powerful man can you please manifest me a few million 😊😂
I certainly don't know how in this Era of information at your fingertips,people do not research what customs are in other countries.Save themselves money/time/and heartbreak.
Question- how is smell of garlic & onions " pungent & offensive" in relation to CURRY & Tumeric?? Curry is a VERY PUNGENT smell...
To make her give up curry and onions- that should be a friggin deal breaker.
Maybe she should have did her homework or watched past episodes and she would know some of what to expect.
Being an indian even i would never get married to a traditional Indian guy. Certain parts of india are still backward and i don't blame them for having these expections because its something that has been going on since generations. TJ shouldve warned her about what she was getting herself into. Neither do i approve the American culture where the kids are so disrespectful towards their parents forget about their in laws.
How dysfunctional, grown men sleeping with mommy. What's wrong with these people. What the hell. 😮
Not every culture practice the same thing bruh.
Yeah intercultural marriage has its difficulties. I know first hand 🤭 she better get them pots and pans and rubber gloves ready. 😅
Seriously!! 😂
Her "spirit guides" did her so dirty!!!
"All other things can be talked after marriage "????
This show sure isn’t doing India any favors…
why do they let Americans in ??
Unfortunately, her spirit guides didn't tell her about the disaster she was getting herself into
Hahaha TJ needs to help Danielle manifest 😂
Why don’t American women research Indian culture??? 🙄
Tell me about it, its not hard to walk to the library or jus google it.
These American women need to do their own homework on cultures and beliefs... its not all on the men.. plus men men never tell u the entire truth anyway
As a western man I learnt a lot from this episode. But I wonder if it would be different if a western man were to marry a Indian women? Would there still be huge cultural differences?
Not much because it is the woman who has to adjust to the husband's culture. But be prepared for spicy food, nosy in-laws and Bollywood movies.
Not really i am an indian woman and very chill with very chill family . We dont have these family dramas like other indian familes have
Can you imagine paying a massive dowry to a grown man AND working full-time ON TOP of all that other stuff? Oh, and possibly having to fight off sexual advances from your father in law 🥴🥴 No thanks.
Yep, that's actually a pretty normal thing here. Also, as an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN.
And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN.
I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
Kimberly is so beautiful why does she wanan jump into fire when there is a huge danger sign in front? Seriously sigh 😅😔
Isn’t she all knowing? Why did she looked surprised, didn’t she know. Maybe try googling cultural differences?
Why is nobody talking about the fact that 2 grown men ( tj and his brother) sleep with their mother? Wtf? Will he expect kimberly to pile on the bed as well? Its beyond bizarre.
I dont see anything wrong with that. Problably just a space thing.
Of course her "spirits" are telling her to go with him and marry. They're "spirits" not from God.
The devil likes chaos.😅
Not our men being creepy af and perpetuating the stereotype.
Thats very manipulative not to tell her whats expected of her
I’m not Italian, but I need garlic and onion
Im Mexican and it's the same as Italian's we use onions and garlic on everything 🤤 it's in my blood.
Ok, where is Kimberly spirit guide? How can she not see that there is a tower moment ahead. Lol, fake psychic 🔮 😂😂
She can get a 6-month visa, and try it out for a while.
If a guy tried that with me, someone would be hiring a maid. Because it wouldn't be me! 😂 I think Indian accents are one of the worst. Up there with German. 😅
I gotta be honest.. I kind of used the... "let's get married..then I'll bring up the bad stuff" lol... I'm just glad she still loves me 😂
0:38 the answer is the so called commitment principle. A marriage is a big publicly stated commitment which reduces the chance of her backing out significantly (see Robert Cialdini)
All she had to do was Google whats expected of an indian wife? It would of saved her time and headaches.🤕
4:25 Yeah it’s also the same as what narcissists have. It doesn’t mean you’re clairvoyant it just means you think you’re right all of the time, even when you are wrong. A lot of them for some reason (narcissism) love to think this means they have some special power that puts them above other people, and a lot (I’d argue ALL clairvoyants) make money out of conning vulnerable people for same reason (sociopathy).
With my experience of Indian culture there does seem to be a very “it’ll work out fine” mentality. I’m not saying in general it is a bad thing, but this does mean the difficult things are left until they happen, rather than preparing in advance so they don’t become a bigger issue down the line. It’s just my experience so I don’t know if this is true on a wider scale but it just seems a cultural thing of doing (or not doing) with a thought that it’ll probably turn out fine anyway. And in a way, if not taken too far (which my experience with this culture does seem to do), it’s a pretty good way to do things because there’s no point in worrying about stuff you can’t control that may never happen. But the flip side is those things that can be controlled that have a needless risk attached to them if they go wrong. One thing we do see this in is some of the things that happen in India that you don’t need to be a health and safety officer in the UK to work out is probably a bad idea.
That's actually true. Also, as an Indian woman, I can see that most western women here are sorta unaware that Indian men are really mad about White skin complexions. They will not marry a well educated and excellent woman of character and personality just because she isn't FAIR enough. But they'll marry someone else that they don't even like, just because she's got a whiter complexion (and yes, their families encourage the same since its a matter of pride to have a FAIR and white skinned daughter-in-law). And thus, they will then try to mould her personality into whatever they want. And I've seen all of this happen with first hand experiences. Men in india will literally do anything under the sun just to get a woman of fair complexion to marry them and later they force her to become the IDEAL WIFE they expect her to be. A big reason for this is, indian men take HUGE PRIDE in showing off a wife who's FAIR with a white pale complexion (which is the only and biggest beauty standard in india) to their extended family and friends. I've literally seen indian men boast off how "FAIR or WHITE" their wife is, in parties and family functions. Indian men will run behind a woman as long as she has WHITE SKIN.
And the families of these men are even more racist to girls of our own country because the girls are usually brown skinned and not white or pale. There have been actual cases of domestic violence and forced dowries in indian marriages just because the girl wasn't as FAIR ENOUGH as she was expected to be. Indian men in the past have literally DIVORCED their wives if her complexion wasn't as FAIR as he wanted. Which is why, btw, you also see Indian brides putting on makeup foundations 10x whiter than their actual skin tone, on their wedding day, so their in-laws don't harass them later and can boast about it to their extended families that their daughter inlaw is FAIR AS HEAVEN.
I can't even explain how frustrating all this is to watch as an Indian woman. 😑
That sounds more like her.
No way am I going to be the family servant. I have a hard time picking up after myself and dog and now you want to throw a whole family in? No.
And the saga continues.
You think these women have watched this show. One would think the American woman moving, & marrying an Indian man, would know what was in store for them.
Really?? You're on the show, but havent a clue how the other half lives?
This is called the Amber Heard defense.😂
No and for once the men should be upfront and not spring it on them when the gurl arrives in India
Run, Baby , run !!😢
She knew what she is getting into she is a fan of 90days fiance and wants to be the NEW Jenny and Summit. These people are in it for a pay cheque. , so they sign up on the show as cast members. They just pretending for the camera all fake.
Can someone please tell me why these people don’t do any research on the cultures and appropriate practices of these countries they want to move to? They get there and then cry and whine about how difficult it is. Who’s fault is that?
Those on this show are just the tip of the iceberg. There must be hundreds of thousands of Americans and Europeans out there messing up their lives on an international scale just like these people.
This is not just bad for foreigner women, this is also ridiculously depressing, mind-boggling situation for an Indian woman also which is created on most of the households after marriage. They don't care about woman's individuality and happiness at all.
This is going to be a lot of work because she seems to be a free spirit person. Being held down is going to be a problem .
It will never work .
I am loving Kimberly, she is not taking their shit. Common grown men sleeping with mommy. Good God. I can't wait to see what happens when she gets told her job is to cook and clean for the family. 😅😅😅😅 Going to be the best.
No garlic and ginger?!
Garlic and onion
It sounds like he astro projected
I'm doing right now hoping for a nude Brad Pitt.❤
My white Canadian sister is married to an Indian man from Odisha and she's not been expected to do every damn thing in the house. I think this show purposely seeks out dysfunctional couples.
Nope this is the norm in India. Your sister is an exception.
As an Indian woman, I can confirm that. Your sister's blessed. Also, most indian men will treat western/white women in a much more humane/lovable manner. But when it's our own indian women, they're treated like shift just because they're brown skinned and not fair enough. Indian men will force their indian wives to pay dowry and do all chores, but if they happen to marry a white lady, they'll behave like they're the most generous, loving men on the planet. I've seem it happen first hand in so many households.
The ppl on the show arent in America they're in India. she did it to herself .She didn't even bother to google the culture and marriage before moving over there.
Ladies, if you're not willing to adapt and accommodate in a new city, state, country, culture, religion, society..., then don't period. However, don't throw a fit when things are not completely your way once you have chosen an international partner. I could have never imagined coming to my African MIL house and acted the way most of these GIRLS have in T.O.W. smh
Ok but let’s be honest, American women are expected to maintain the household, clean up after everyone, cook everyone’s meals, have babies AND WORK A 9-5 JOB AND BE THE PRESENT AND PROACTIVE PARENT. It’s incredible that the folks from India have the audacity to assume American women are lazy or whatever. If American society still expected and wanted women here to be stay at home mothers that’d be awesome because then at least we could focus on our children and not be exhausted after doing literally everything for everyone and have to go to work and focus on micromanaging grown ass adults all day.
They deserve one another
Yeap 😂😂😂
Lack of communication
Why cant kim get a man from India who lives in us ? Or go Canada. Most of them are there. U gotta take d most authentic one hahahhahaha only Indians still practice this.. wmn doing all the household thing
we do have quite a few of them here lol
and that's why we are not to say Merry Christmas anymore . well l do and always will. because bite me lol
When I meet a spiritual person, I run away as fast as possible
He wants to stay with his mom. He's not going to do anything and she'll either take it or leave.
Tj get rid of kimberly that will never work. Just find yourself a pretty Indian woman.
Once again we have a American getting involved with a man in India, expecting it to be like the US.
I don’t feel the least bit sorry for her, did she google anything about cultural differences, everyday life in India? Of course not!!
Yes Kim seems to be a sweet person BUT take some accountability. She lived there a year, did she wear a bag over her head the whole time?? Hell she could have watched the show and found out many things.
Yes she has a business of her own but I wonder how much “help” her parents have given her. From the look of her at the reading of the girl that came in I don’t put much faith in her business skills.
Example: woman comes in, Kim meets her then instead of talking with her customer Kim proceeds to ramble on and on about herself.
Kim: I am blah blah blah
Customer: bitc_ shut up and read the cards for me!!
Then we get a look at the preview, he is proud of the apartment, Kim walks in and instant disgust is on her face. Who designed this? It is completely wrong!! The materials and work is substandard! Gee she not only has all those extra abilities she is a master of construction and building materials; In Another Country!! Boy who would have known!!
He is wrong too!! He knows she will not accept his & his family’s way of life (culture) and waiting until after they are married to tell her what is expected of her is a big mistake. Put your cards on the table lay out the truth and expectations see if there is a way to compromise and adjust.
But we see from the trailer she starts using the I left everything and everyone for you! Scenario expecting him, his family and all of India to change completely and accommodate her.
I say the same thing I have said in the other relationships involving western women & Indian men; if you cannot live the way their culture lives don’t get involved!! You have no right to expect anyone to accommodate you in their country, you know the questions before getting involved so ask them, stop looking for a partner in another country that has very different cultures than what you are used to and biggest advice: don’t expect everything & everybody to be like America, they won’t change after the marriage and they shouldn’t have to: Remember:::It’s their country!!!
So he is lying to her about him wanting a maid he can have sex with not a wife and she is just lying about all her hippy dippy bull crap or she is delusional and actually believes she is clairvoyant, perfect match haha
I can never do house chores for my in-laws,who was doing them while I was not there,let them continue with the norm,am only responsible for my hubby's wellbeing