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Regarding your videos, they are about authenticity and realness, "coming home", general speaking, I have a question: How to be authentic, to be yourself and believe in yourself, when you have the programs from upbringing, family values, society values, coping strategies, programs in our daylig live, thinking distortions, marketing strategies and more...? When to know when you are thinking out of the hardware instead of the software?
I admire your content Julian, I myself am facing social anxiety and educating myself with your content and I think it's really valuable. But I have this one question for you, do you believe that there is a God or a supernatural being in this universe? Since you dig deep into all the negatives and ups and downs in life, I'm just really curious on what is your response to this because a lot of people go through religion to find purpose, vitality, and happiness.
when she let it out, it was very emotionally charged. I could feel it. I got tears in my eyes man.. Her scream was the post powerful I've heard so far. And you can tell that her anxiety is very strong. It's almost like the level of anxiety experienced is proportionate to what you know you're capable of but are afraid of doing.
I feel thats where hatred for all people comes from. Years and years of feeling anxious around people you start hating everyone as a whole because everyone makes you feel horrible.
This actually made me tear up. That was very brave of that girl to scream the way she did, I didn't think she would do it. I was very impressed that she did it, I'm not sure I could have done it even as much as want to do it to get rid of my own anxiety. Well done!
Yes, she crushed it on the first try! I thought for sure It would take her many attempts to get there, if at all. she really wanted it, good for her! Julian thank you for putting these videos out there for us all to see!
I watched this 4 times. I can feel what she's feeling. I was always under the impression as a kid and young adult that we would naturally become more confident, wise and strong as we get older. the opposite seems to be true if you let all this hidden or ignored damage become you
It's unbelievable how good looking these people are, and they still suffer with lack of self confidence. We are all created awesome. We don't have the right to think that we are not good enough.
As someone that has been struggling with anxiety for almost 4 years and slowly getting out of the anxiety cycle. I realised that we grow up in a society that only celebrates the good and because of that we don’t learn to deal with the bad. When we are happy we don’t question it like omg why am i so happy, just a moment ago a was not happy why am i so happy. But when we feel sad/anxious or other not so nice positive emotions we do that. Like why am i feeling so sad i don’t understand i have everything society told me to do and i am unhappy (sad/depressed or anxious) and we get stuck in the why why why and then start blaming and questioning ourselves and think there is something wrong with us. And when we go to a doctor or therapist they will 95% of the te confirm that and stamp us with a label of depression/anxiety disorder etc and give you meds. But the only thing we most of the time just to need to learn is to be okey with the feeling of not feeling okey. Because then the feeling can flow and move trough us. (Emotion “energy in motion”) when we question what we feel all the time our brain thinks there is danger because it does not know the difference between a real tiger and our own thoughts. I am practicing feeling the feelings of anxiety without souding more alarm bells with thoughts like omg what if a pass out or have a heart attack better to xyz to make it go away. No i tell myself yes this is uncomfortable and i don’t like it but i will just let it be there as best as i can without making it worse with trying to make it go away because that has not helped me so far. And since i try to let anxiety just be there without fighting it i am starting to feel better a little better but it takes time and practice. Your video explains this very well
Yeah, so true that those "labels" are made us by humans, whereas the god gave us this beautiful individual emotions to feel them. I remember a saying "Without feeling sadness one doesn't know the worth of happiness" but always framing it as good or bad? It also apply to other emotions (so-called bad) as well. I understand the medical field is somewhat against it as it somewhere affect our health and secondly it effects cuz we aren't embracing them but view them as disease or something,but those what makes us humans, doesn't it?
Julien, thank you for this transformative experience. Being at your workshop was completely different from just watching online. It was a powerful journey of self-rediscovery. Grateful for your guidance and for helping us reconnect with our true selves! ❤️🌟
I started by thinking this is just a way to cope yourself into being more comfortable but it actually makes sense to me. I'll try this and see if it's not just words for me.
julien i have to say i'm following you since your bad boy days, checking in every now and then to see how you're doing and this was the most beautiful, heartwarming presentation of this topic that i ever saw! i felt her emotions deep down, i got tears in my eyes! when does this happen nowadays? society in general is in denial of their emotions, that's why we got so much anger, hate and anxiety around! people like you are now needed more than ever. please keep up the good work!
I keep coming across suggestions for cold showers/ice baths. My son a month ago, my therapist yesterday, and now here this morning. ❤❤gotta be brave bc I HATE COLD
That's why people get angry when they are actually hurt. Because anger is "better" than being a whiny, self-victimizing loser. That's a pretty empowering realization.
Wanna add that its more socially acceptable to be angry cuz "u are defending urself" and "dont let ppl get away with it" than showing sadness/hurt, crying, expressing it, cuz "do something about it instead of this" and its usually cuz ppl are so numb to their own emotions than arent used and/or get aversion to seeing someone crying and showing hurt and want u to stop so they dont have to deal with it lol, at least from that ive seen. Funny thing its that usually they are okay and encouraging it as long as that anger/agression arent directed to them.
I think anger feels powerful and sadness feels vulnerable, because it is. And every person seeks power to avoid one's own vulnerability. It's how you personally learned to view your emotions, based on your unique life experiences.
Thank you for the difficult times that left me with no choice but to be open to any possible solution, even the strange ones that I wouldn’t have considered in normal circumstances. Thank you, my Lord, for guiding me and allowing me to taste happiness again after years of forgetting its flavor. Thank you, Julian, for teaching me “letting go” the right way. Thank you, to myself, for existing-thank you for being Hamza.
Technically speaking you are right about accepting anxiety but when you experience extreme anxiety, or ptsd reaction this is a very simplistic way...does not really help to get out of the rut.
I almost gave up on my dream to be a doctor. Because I'm very worried or anxious about my result . I thought that is I'm deserving to be a doctor because I'm not put my efforts that much how so want to be like a crazy . I started watch your videos since two days and i started thinking that i am capable i want this i can do this. Thanks julien -from INDIA-
anxiety for me has been loss of love ones, and the one that broke me my wife of 13 yrs passed of cancer within 3 months thinking it was menopause and butt pain but was a tumor at 50 last aug 1 2023 :(...edit but yeah, welcome the emotions to get through it like grief ... not get over it, but through it, learn to live with it... eaiser said than done, its a practice everyday... because sadness is useless ......like anxiety
Hey Julien, in my case, I didn't stifle and I'm in flow state and charismatic when talking to new people for the first time but when we're getting close to each other and i have a conversation to that person again that's when my anxiety trigger because they considered me as their friend. Sometimes my mind goes blank for trying hard to give a good vibes in conversation and I think I'm looking so tense. The worst case scenario that bothers me is they thinking that I'm going crazy or insane and that's making my mind goes blank and i dont even know what to do and how to act normally when this scenario pops up in my mind. Btw I'm from Philippines and I would like to get your online coaching but I don't speak nor understand english fluently. I wonder if you have a co-mentor from my country.
yes I know, i believe this happens because we start getting attached to that person somehow and don't wanna loose it so early so we trynna show our perfect side.
I stutter so I'm scared to speak more often when I'm in groups and even when it's 1 on 1 i sometimes censor some words that I feel ill stutter through and I'm sick and tired of not being me it's sometimes that I suffered from 4th grade when a teacher made fun of me and the whole class laughed ever since I've been scared to speak to people and not censor words, I do speak to people but there's a lot of things I don't say that makes me not express my full self, what can I do julien I'm in 12th grade now
Hey friend, most people don't care that you stutter and if you're in 12th grade you're probably gonna get over it soon. It might take some time but you're gonna be alright. Take it easy, it's a journey my friend. I hope this helps
What if u are kinda goofy looking and have experiences that remind u of that? Am I helping those situations to happen because I’m in victim mode. I resemble a movie character that is super nerdy but I am not that bad. Just enough that people laugh. Some girls think I’m good looking but what the fuck can I do? The movie is from years ago so I don’t get that reaction that much but my confidence is pretty bad and I’m chronically single. What would I do if I had 3 ears and being laughed at everyday? How do u just let it go and live life without thinking people suck. Then that negative viewpoint feeds into a loop and on it goes. The years go by…..
@JulienHimself It’s been a minute since I tracked your stuff. Don’t know if you need to hear this or not but you’re hitting in a new and improved way Much more relatable, and the ideas are more evolved
Timidity and anxiety are demons Jesus can deliver you from.ive been a victim for years i hope people come to know the truth about this spirits so they can get delivered
Gotta be careful though and use discernment, the way hypocritical christians presented jesus and christianinty to me as a young boy, it was the cause of my anxiety and timidity
@@shashankgm2533 kinda weird if you think about it, a so called professional not knowing how to read the room. imagine going to funeral looking all hippie or clownish. thats my point. i think he's a sc-m
@@game_is_onnn it really depends on the individual though if someone wants clowns and hippies in their funeral who are we to judge, i heard one women hired dancers to her funeral after she died and a fashion designer asking models to dress up in his clothes and red carpet walk in his own funeral,it was his dying wish and people actually did it because they loved him So if he is helping people dressed like that let him do it,if they are getting scammed then they will realise it when nothing is changing in their life after doing everything he said to do or realise they are better suited for therapy or meditation or god you know Like buddha said live and let live If you are really curious about why he is dressed like that , i think its because to tell people not to be afraid of judgements or attention from others and it doesnt really matter what people think of you , i mean people with anxiety can stand next to him on stage because they know all the attention is on him and unless he directs it to them nothing will happen
@@shashankgm2533 no sane person wants a hippie or clown at their funeral. back to reality please. not be afraid of judgement is one thing, inviting others to judge you is another. its different.
@@game_is_onnn again why do you judge?you dont need to do that ,same with what a sane or insane person is ,if someone is hippie or a clown or had friends who where hippies or clowns or just really liked them when alive, i am pretty sure they would want them in their funeral
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Regarding your videos, they are about authenticity and realness, "coming home", general speaking, I have a question: How to be authentic, to be yourself and believe in yourself, when you have the programs from upbringing, family values, society values, coping strategies, programs in our daylig live, thinking distortions, marketing strategies and more...? When to know when you are thinking out of the hardware instead of the software?
I admire your content Julian, I myself am facing social anxiety and educating myself with your content and I think it's really valuable. But I have this one question for you, do you believe that there is a God or a supernatural being in this universe? Since you dig deep into all the negatives and ups and downs in life, I'm just really curious on what is your response to this because a lot of people go through religion to find purpose, vitality, and happiness.
when she let it out, it was very emotionally charged. I could feel it. I got tears in my eyes man.. Her scream was the post powerful I've heard so far. And you can tell that her anxiety is very strong. It's almost like the level of anxiety experienced is proportionate to what you know you're capable of but are afraid of doing.
Holy shit
I can't ever imagine having anxiety like that, but It's so inspiring to see people get out of their comfort zone.
Julien found a perfect movie that he can reference on his events for years to come
Such an AMAZING movie! 🔥👊
Exactly what I thought when I watched it.
@@JulienHimself thanks dude
I feel thats where hatred for all people comes from. Years and years of feeling anxious around people you start hating everyone as a whole because everyone makes you feel horrible.
Nice insight
This actually made me tear up. That was very brave of that girl to scream the way she did, I didn't think she would do it. I was very impressed that she did it, I'm not sure I could have done it even as much as want to do it to get rid of my own anxiety. Well done!
Yes, she CRUSHED it! Take a lot of courage and willingness... 🔥👊
Yes, she crushed it on the first try! I thought for sure It would take her many attempts to get there, if at all. she really wanted it, good for her! Julian thank you for putting these videos out there for us all to see!
do not get rid of it, embrace it!
She embraced her vulnerability. Beautiful.
Yes, she did AMAZING! Massive respect to her! 🙌
That was epic!
I watched this 4 times. I can feel what she's feeling. I was always under the impression as a kid and young adult that we would naturally become more confident, wise and strong as we get older. the opposite seems to be true if you let all this hidden or ignored damage become you
that was beautiful... i cried and i don't even know why i just felt that
I think that was the best scream I’ve seen someone do on one of these videos. You can really tell when someone means it or not
In the end, much of social anxiety comes from fear of rejection.
Well, what else would be there to back the anxiety up?
If You don't care what others think of You, then what's there to be anxious about?
It's true man...
Wow i knew it we all feel the same 🙂
It's unbelievable how good looking these people are, and they still suffer with lack of self confidence. We are all created awesome. We don't have the right to think that we are not good enough.
As someone that has been struggling with anxiety for almost 4 years and slowly getting out of the anxiety cycle. I realised that we grow up in a society that only celebrates the good and because of that we don’t learn to deal with the bad. When we are happy we don’t question it like omg why am i so happy, just a moment ago a was not happy why am i so happy. But when we feel sad/anxious or other not so nice positive emotions we do that. Like why am i feeling so sad i don’t understand i have everything society told me to do and i am unhappy (sad/depressed or anxious) and we get stuck in the why why why and then start blaming and questioning ourselves and think there is something wrong with us. And when we go to a doctor or therapist they will 95% of the te confirm that and stamp us with a label of depression/anxiety disorder etc and give you meds. But the only thing we most of the time just to need to learn is to be okey with the feeling of not feeling okey. Because then the feeling can flow and move trough us. (Emotion “energy in motion”) when we question what we feel all the time our brain thinks there is danger because it does not know the difference between a real tiger and our own thoughts.
I am practicing feeling the feelings of anxiety without souding more alarm bells with thoughts like omg what if a pass out or have a heart attack better to xyz to make it go away. No i tell myself yes this is uncomfortable and i don’t like it but i will just let it be there as best as i can without making it worse with trying to make it go away because that has not helped me so far. And since i try to let anxiety just be there without fighting it i am starting to feel better a little better but it takes time and practice.
Your video explains this very well
Yeah, so true that those "labels" are made us by humans, whereas the god gave us this beautiful individual emotions to feel them. I remember a saying "Without feeling sadness one doesn't know the worth of happiness" but always framing it as good or bad? It also apply to other emotions (so-called bad) as well. I understand the medical field is somewhat against it as it somewhere affect our health and secondly it effects cuz we aren't embracing them but view them as disease or something,but those what makes us humans, doesn't it?
That also is a very good Horror scream! She did well!
Yes! 🔥👊
Wow, I still can feel the power in that scream. It made me very emotional, because I felt like some of my emotions were being released alongside her.
I really don't understand why I have to cry watching this videos
Julien, thank you for this transformative experience. Being at your workshop was completely different from just watching online. It was a powerful journey of self-rediscovery. Grateful for your guidance and for helping us reconnect with our true selves! ❤️🌟
I always cry during your videos
I started by thinking this is just a way to cope yourself into being more comfortable but it actually makes sense to me. I'll try this and see if it's not just words for me.
No coping here brother, you got this, good luck!
julien i have to say i'm following you since your bad boy days, checking in every now and then to see how you're doing and this was the most beautiful, heartwarming presentation of this topic that i ever saw! i felt her emotions deep down, i got tears in my eyes! when does this happen nowadays? society in general is in denial of their emotions, that's why we got so much anger, hate and anxiety around! people like you are now needed more than ever. please keep up the good work!
Julien, you're doing important work. Thank you, most of these make me teary eyed!
I keep coming across suggestions for cold showers/ice baths. My son a month ago, my therapist yesterday, and now here this morning. ❤❤gotta be brave bc I HATE COLD
Try it out... Remember to RELAX into the sensations of cold! 👌
Same here
I learned a lot from this! I'll relax into the cold showers to train myself to let go more easily!
you're such a great teacher Julian, all your words resonate with me.
That's why people get angry when they are actually hurt. Because anger is "better" than being a whiny, self-victimizing loser. That's a pretty empowering realization.
Wanna add that its more socially acceptable to be angry cuz "u are defending urself" and "dont let ppl get away with it" than showing sadness/hurt, crying, expressing it, cuz "do something about it instead of this" and its usually cuz ppl are so numb to their own emotions than arent used and/or get aversion to seeing someone crying and showing hurt and want u to stop so they dont have to deal with it lol, at least from that ive seen. Funny thing its that usually they are okay and encouraging it as long as that anger/agression arent directed to them.
@@HikaruFERYou sure about that? My experience has been demonized and attacked for getting angry. So I wouldn't say it was "more socially acceptable"
I think anger feels powerful and sadness feels vulnerable, because it is. And every person seeks power to avoid one's own vulnerability. It's how you personally learned to view your emotions, based on your unique life experiences.
Anger reminds to set the boundaries and reverse attention to self
I watch you every day and my subconscious is becoming better and better ❤ your teachings are very valuable. Just wish to go on stage like that one day
amazing as always
Thanks!
These videos are inspiring and so helpful. Keep it up👍🏿
Thank you! Glad to hear it! 🙏
I am so proud of you my beautiful sister ❤️🫶🏽✨
Than you dear Julian ❤
You're so welcome! 🙏
She is so beautiful.
When she screamed I had goosebumps fr and then my eyes welled up
Got to love this display of pure emotions! 😌🙏
Thank you for the difficult times that left me with no choice but to be open to any possible solution, even the strange ones that I wouldn’t have considered in normal circumstances.
Thank you, my Lord, for guiding me and allowing me to taste happiness again after years of forgetting its flavor.
Thank you, Julian, for teaching me “letting go” the right way.
Thank you, to myself, for existing-thank you for being Hamza.
Nice comment!
Technically speaking you are right about accepting anxiety but when you experience extreme anxiety, or ptsd reaction this is a very simplistic way...does not really help to get out of the rut.
I almost gave up on my dream to be a doctor. Because I'm very worried or anxious about my result . I thought that is I'm deserving to be a doctor because I'm not put my efforts that much how so want to be like a crazy . I started watch your videos since two days and i started thinking that i am capable i want this i can do this. Thanks julien
-from INDIA-
Julien you make a huge and valuable contribution to humanity ❤️💪🙏 Respect 💪
Wow.... I can imagine myself being the lady with anxiety nut that exactly who I am.... Great relief I will try it
anxiety for me has been loss of love ones, and the one that broke me my wife of 13 yrs passed of cancer within 3 months thinking it was menopause and butt pain but was a tumor at 50 last aug 1 2023 :(...edit but yeah, welcome the emotions to get through it like grief ... not get over it, but through it, learn to live with it...
eaiser said than done, its a practice everyday... because sadness is useless ......like anxiety
Love from india ❤ do visit India soon❤
If the girl of the video is reading the comments for some reason, want to say that what she did was indeed beautiful, i could feel it, it was so good.
Thank you Julien.
Beautiful.
12:25 watch tall guy (anxiety) have an epiphany. Or die inside.. I can't tell
Julian you are saving lives man and are a true inspiration for me. Keep it up!❤
🙏🙏🙏
This is so great
Hey Julien, in my case, I didn't stifle and I'm in flow state and charismatic when talking to new people for the first time but when we're getting close to each other and i have a conversation to that person again that's when my anxiety trigger because they considered me as their friend. Sometimes my mind goes blank for trying hard to give a good vibes in conversation and I think I'm looking so tense. The worst case scenario that bothers me is they thinking that I'm going crazy or insane and that's making my mind goes blank and i dont even know what to do and how to act normally when this scenario pops up in my mind. Btw I'm from Philippines and I would like to get your online coaching but I don't speak nor understand english fluently. I wonder if you have a co-mentor from my country.
I sorta have the same problem. I can talk fairly well with people at the start, but when they want to connect I start short circuiting.🤖
yes I know, i believe this happens because we start getting attached to that person somehow and don't wanna loose it so early so we trynna show our perfect side.
Julien have you studied unified mindfulness or Andreas NLP? I found it makes your teachings dramatically more effective.
I stutter so I'm scared to speak more often when I'm in groups and even when it's 1 on 1 i sometimes censor some words that I feel ill stutter through and I'm sick and tired of not being me it's sometimes that I suffered from 4th grade when a teacher made fun of me and the whole class laughed ever since I've been scared to speak to people and not censor words, I do speak to people but there's a lot of things I don't say that makes me not express my full self, what can I do julien I'm in 12th grade now
Hey friend, most people don't care that you stutter and if you're in 12th grade you're probably gonna get over it soon. It might take some time but you're gonna be alright. Take it easy, it's a journey my friend. I hope this helps
I'm sorry for your experience. It's okay to stutter, some word are also really difficult to pronounce
I would say that you should embrace the stutter and go with it
Love you Julien you’re the best
Damn 🔥 I love the demonstrations of how to lovingly parent the inner emotions.
Glad this resonates! 🔥👊
How do you relesse fear?
dude's hair built like the blender logo 😭🙏 nah but fr great stuff
Julien is the 🐐
What if u are kinda goofy looking and have experiences that remind u of that? Am I helping those situations to happen because I’m in victim mode. I resemble a movie character that is super nerdy but I am not that bad. Just enough that people laugh. Some girls think I’m good looking but what the fuck can I do?
The movie is from years ago so I don’t get that reaction that much but my confidence is pretty bad and I’m chronically single.
What would I do if I had 3 ears and being laughed at everyday? How do u just let it go and live life without thinking people suck. Then that negative viewpoint feeds into a loop and on it goes. The years go by…..
@JulienHimself
It’s been a minute since I tracked your stuff. Don’t know if you need to hear this or not but you’re hitting in a new and improved way
Much more relatable, and the ideas are more evolved
"Let me out, let me out.
This is not a dance." - Rick
Nice
I don't understand something. If accepting the anxiety and fear. Then it's saying it's okay not to be free and shout loudly.. so confusing
Jesus is what healed me from my inner critic amen 😊
Should I stop listening to subliminal so I could like myself which will also stop the DESIRE to be different?
You did boredom the dirty there man, he was pissed!
I am so angry this is only 20 minutes long
Wow
2:53
Wow i hate cold showers... challenge accepted
❤
🙏
Timidity and anxiety are demons Jesus can deliver you from.ive been a victim for years i hope people come to know the truth about this spirits so they can get delivered
Gotta be careful though and use discernment, the way hypocritical christians presented jesus and christianinty to me as a young boy, it was the cause of my anxiety and timidity
so why he dressed like a hippie? instead of be normal
Why u judging?
@@shashankgm2533 kinda weird if you think about it, a so called professional not knowing how to read the room. imagine going to funeral looking all hippie or clownish. thats my point. i think he's a sc-m
@@game_is_onnn it really depends on the individual though if someone wants clowns and hippies in their funeral who are we to judge, i heard one women hired dancers to her funeral after she died and a fashion designer asking models to dress up in his clothes and red carpet walk in his own funeral,it was his dying wish and people actually did it because they loved him
So if he is helping people dressed like that let him do it,if they are getting scammed then they will realise it when nothing is changing in their life after doing everything he said to do or realise they are better suited for therapy or meditation or god you know
Like buddha said live and let live
If you are really curious about why he is dressed like that , i think its because to tell people not to be afraid of judgements or attention from others and it doesnt really matter what people think of you , i mean people with anxiety can stand next to him on stage because they know all the attention is on him and unless he directs it to them nothing will happen
@@shashankgm2533 no sane person wants a hippie or clown at their funeral. back to reality please. not be afraid of judgement is one thing, inviting others to judge you is another. its different.
@@game_is_onnn again why do you judge?you dont need to do that ,same with what a sane or insane person is ,if someone is hippie or a clown or had friends who where hippies or clowns or just really liked them when alive, i am pretty sure they would want them in their funeral