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Send her too André Rieu in Holland. She will fit in there and learn from a master! And her future will be playing concerts!! Please give her this information. She is such a sweet hearted lady! But also a person who "feels" so much. She is beautiful! Even with short hair. Greetings from Holland. Bless her God and guide her ways, so that she will be going on the path you send her! 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
I've just started watching the video and I judged her by saying "how an adult like her cries like this in front of everyone and a camera it's cringe" and I thought she is weak, then I realized that's how I treat myself, that's how I beat my inner child when he gets anxious or sad, and most probably that's why I have extreme social anxiety when I do public speaking, because I always try to hide my emotions especially being anxious or sad to not seen as a weak or loser when everyone is focusing at me. Big respect to her 💯
I am also 19 years and like her I really needed to hear this...thank you to the brave teenage girl who spoke up, the young man who coached her, and the camera man who got this message out to others like me who needed this
I was told I was brave at 19 by adults who also pursued self development avenues. After 20 years, the difference for me now at 39 is that I'm no longer "brave" for being openly lost with little success. I'm simply lost with little success. I beg you all to stop telling 19 year olds they have time. They need to live and find their own peace, self defined success, and inner drive NOW. The spoiling bc she's young will kill her soul. Y'all are maybe just jealous you started later than her, but she's here to live and learn, not be babied. Consider her soul, not how she's "sooo young and has a head start to be doing this." she's fucking 19. Treat her as a goddess, not a baby. Don't tell her she can trip and fall and figure shit out later. You're giving mixed messages, that she both won't fall and trip later, but also that there's no happily ever after. If she wants to be a millionaire at 20 like she sees on social media, tell her she can do it, but it needs to come from happiness. There's no reason to give her the impression that she needs to be poor at the beginning for a long long time until suddenly she's 40 and she needs to be a millionaire. Let her have that millionaire mindset. Yes, she can start her hero's journey from where she is, but don't limit her desires. I understand everyone is meaning to be positive. But it's detrimental, as someone who heard the same "slow down, you're worthy, you're too young judge yourself for your achievements, judge yourself later" shit when I was her age.
@purplerainbow1995 you my age, 29, no? You write a lot of bullshit - mainly projection, i think. Read books, act on what u learn and train your body. To be lost is egoistical. Find purpose, if u can't - their is aways God and all the different teachings, choose one and follow it; but be a good person. It is that simple.
@purplerainbow1995 people have wrote everything, already, u need to just act. Watch some comedians, comedies, romantic comedies. Not that hard man. Enjoy life. This is not meaning to be a hedonistic person. Hedonism is not the way - in my opinion.
She’s exhausted from the travel and waiting, being sleep deprived lowers your defenses. She looks like she could use a hug badly. How manny times are we in need of love/affection and just toughen up and build a wall around our hearts instead. ♥️🙏🏼
Man, this made me cry. Imagine if her parent had talked to her the way you did. Gentle and helping her to be self aware and self-regulating through her breathing.
I used to think the same. But the only thing you can do is imagine. It's not gonna help. Rather accept the fact and hope they will change one day. And if you are truly grateful, you know they do a ton of other good stuffs. Only then you can grow and heal.
Her pain is SO palpable. Having depression or negative emotions is far more difficult when it just goes ON and you feel like it’ll last forever. I’m so proud of her that she went out of her way to get herself help and care❤
This breaks my heart. Parents are supposed to be the people that cares about you the most. But when that isn’t there, it is like a house without foundations. Unfortunately it happens more often than people realize.
They cannot care in the right ways because they were not cared for by their parents in healthy ways. They cannot give what they do not have. There is no one that really got out unscathed, because I can't say that anybody's parents have actively done their own spiritual or emotional healing in order to create a healthy lineage.
Don’t get me wrong, it breaks my heart and I’m sad to hear it. But her mother is worried about her and is trying to push her to do what her mother thinks will make her more attractive and therefore more successful in life and love. People poke and criticise each other to give feedback, even if it’s mean or even if it isn’t even good feedback. It isn’t the right way to achieve her goals, but at least it is probably a good goal. There are parents out there who don’t care; that is even worse.
Well that's the unfortunate part of parents there's far too many who don't have good emotional health or mental health then they have kids and make their kids either like them or worse off and neglect their own kid's emotional/mental health. Then people wonder why so many people grow up with issues in those regards and turn into narcissists or other various forms of bad behavior.
@@mattfugate9029precisely. And it's sad because you know why they neglect their kid's mental and emotional health. Because they don't even know or have the necessary tools to understand how to take care of their own mental and emotional wellbeing as a parent and human themselves.
To the guy who called her weak. Know the reason you feel that way about her is because someone made you feel that way. Someone taught you that emotions are wrong. Someone hurt you. That belief you have comes from that belief deep down of "i am weak' "i don't deserve this or that". But you do. Know that actually people who label others as weak and are too scared to break down and be vulnerable don't realize how much strength and courage it takes to do that. That girl is incredibly strong and even though I don't know her, I am so so proud of her. Because actually breaking down in front of a crowd is so incredibly strong. Whoever taught you that. Whoever hurt you. Know that is a reflection of them that you do not have to take with you. Being scared but being courageous is something a very strong person does. And the way to do that is just by doing it but to the right person. Being vulnerable is the strongest thing you can do. Sometimes you have to break down in order to heal because your body needs to release the baggage you've swept under the rug in order to understand it, and move on. Understanding it is the most important part.
When i see people commenting stuff like u i just wonder if yall are therapists? because the wise words u guys have is unbelievably helpful , Thank you i was looking for this
That 19 year old girl needs a hug 😊 im so proud of her despite not knowing her. I'm literally almost her age but I can gladly say that she is doing so well. Hopefully I'll be around JulienHimself when I'm 19!! 😊
She is damn brave she knew she needed help and she knew that she could find it there and she just went that far to reach for it, so brave of her. Plus she really articulates her emotions freely, literally a strong and brave person.
Hearing that you're supposed to be lost and confused at 19 is so relieving. I'm 18 and it always feels like everyone around me know what they're doing. They have jobs, they live separately from their parents, they have friends and partners, they can drive, they're not afraid of dealing with documents etc. And I don't. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do.
By your 30s you learn that no one actually knows what they're doing and everyone is making it up as they go along. Have fun and make sure you enjoy life.
Shes so cute 😭 my heart breaks for her! The world needs more people brave enough to show their pain and hopefully we can build a compassionate society. If you think this is weak, you don't know strength! Fake is bold and loud!
A Diana, si puede leer esto. No estás sola. Vivo en Madrid. Si necesitad cualquier tipo de ayuda, cuenta conmigo. Eres una guerrera valiente, y en lo que pueda ayudarte, estaré a tu lado. La gente valiente como tú no está sola.
My definition of success for the weekend is 1. Walk around busy areas 2. Start conversations & 3.Experience full the sensations that come from those conversations 4. Do a release afterwards ❤
People need to receive love in order to be able to give love. Many people haven't been adequately loved as a child and are still walking around with that unmet need. Your kindness can change people forever, even if they seem lost. @@blister9366
My siblings and I were raised by a narcissistic mother, and an abusive and alcoholic father. We’re 9 kids in the family. My 3 older brothers were heavily into hard drugs and alcohol. The oldest died at 19 due to cirrhosis. The second older (than me) died at 47 due to cirrhosis. The third older (than me) died, due to cirrhosis, right after his 50th birthday. My youngest brother was recently diagnosed with renal failure due to heavy drinking and diabetes complications. He lost his vision on both eyes. He is immobile, and bedridden. He just turned 37 last October 2024. My oldest sister is still doing drugs and alcohol. She’s 68. The second older was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She’s 65. My twin is still living like a teenager, who is now 56. I started therapy in 2008 due to deep depression, anxiety, and trauma. In short, we’re all fucked up. With the aid of therapy, I finally mustered the courage to recreate and redefine the direction of my life. I chose to break the vicious cycle for my children’s sake. Enough is enough. The buck stops with me.
🥹 You're really strong.. And im sorry that you have to be. You're being the person your younger self needed but didn't have and are working through being a cycle breaker for your ancestral line and thats amazing, im proud of you dear stranger🫂🥹 rooting for your healing journey!! ❤ & hopefully your other siblings will one day realise they deserve better treatment from themselves :')
@@blizrinarine593 All glory to God Almighty. I cannot, and won’t, take credit for the strength to stand up against my family’s cycle of insanity and violence. My children have been my inspiration to be a better human being. My children are now the first generation detached from the past generational cycle of narcissism. My prayer is that the succeeding generations will be much better off than our ancestors. To God be the glory.
I’m so sorry for what has happened to your family. I can’t imagine such tragedy. I really hope you know that you are an absolute hero. You’re not just a survivor but a fucking trailblazer and I admire that deeply. Keep on keeping on 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
You are amazing! It takes a different kind of strength to break those toxic cycles. I’m so sorry for your siblings I hope they’ve found peace and I’m so very proud of you!
it is super brave for any of these people to WANT to change. To be better. They should feel proud in that alone, without even doing any actual work on themselves. That is truly the first step. The mindset switch
She so cute, I understand when you are hated at home, you can't be yourself because you are drowned in your beliefs, they constantly tell you and remind you not to forget that I am nothing 😢 Everything is fine now
It takes strength to ask for help and great communication skills to communicate how you feel. She’s incredibly inspiring and strong for going there with whatever she had left with whatever she knew how to do at the time. Sending her hugs ❤
I applaud this young woman's bravery!! Thank you for showing us what it is to be human! You will find your light!! Don't chase money, chase your dreams, be willing to sacrifice, and the rest will fall into place. We will all be the villain in someone's story eventually and haters are going to hate. Be true to yourself and God be with you ✝️🕊️☯️
I guess God made this video come to me. I have my 2nd year university exams going right now, and I feel miserable and not good enough because I don't know much of the syllabus. I don't feel like eating and going outside my room. I am very mentally exhausted. I literally feel and am just lying on my bed hungry all day, because I feel I am not good enough if am not good in studies. I was feeling so sad. I thank whatever power there is because of which I got the opportunity to see this video in my this stage of life. Thank you Julien! I needed to hear this! ❤ P.S. I have decided to drop out of my university.
@7l3ma87if you really believe that then leave them alone to make their own decision for THEMSELVES. We all have our own path to walk. By this “wait” post you are essentially trying to push your own agenda onto someone else.
I don't know who you are pretty girl and if you will ever read this: I love your short hair and I am a young woman having really short hairt too 😊 So I can you feel and I am proud of you. You look gorgeous!❤
Being a person with zero self-esteem and having been studying the violin (I don't wanna be famous or win competitions, I just get disappointed in myself cause even though I have great professors I improve much slower that I would like to, and I don't practice enough time for that cause I love doing lots of other things and am scared of failure) for most of my life, this hit real close. But it also helped a lot, I love Julien's videos so much 💖
This is my first time seeing this dude, i saw his videos and I think he definitely deserves alot more than that but still it doesn’t matter who cares and who doesn’t but the society we are living in right now needs more souls like him , even if the majority in the world doesn’t except him but i do except him and his wisdom and knowledge and authenticity and his purpose is priceless Lets spread more love and joy We love humanity ❤ I would love to meet him someday if i could make it till that time alive 😂 Love yourself Be you ✌🏻
Today I had the WORST self sabotage day and decided to to look into some healing videos as well as a therapist “which I always think won’t help” I came across this video and boy I feel so great ful to have came across this video!! ❤ she is so brave to get up there and pour out her heart!!
Seeing her cry immediately broke me, because this really hits home, if I ever talk about my feelings I end up breaking down and that makes me feel super embarrassed and just makes it worse. Just a few days ago, I messed up an interview because I didn't expect them to call out of nowhere while I was eating and I got so nervous and when my dad asked about it, I literally broke down, I couldn't control it. She is super brave to be able to do this in front of so many people, super proud of her :')
I cried a lot whatching her cry cuz the way she cries seems like me when i cry i look like a baby and i don't like it and i was say today already bc my mom keeps critizising me and this video suddnly pops up i don't know if it's a considence
Im an older person watching this, you are excellent. I totally relate, she has a whole life ahead of her. Im at the end and I just want to be HAPPY and ignore my mother's judgemental ways. She is 85 what can you expect from a very stubborn southern lady. However very STRONG mentally for her age. That's been my ego for, well till now, watching your channel and then subscribed. This just hit home. All that's happened to her, and all you've said is so real life. I'm like 40 plus years older than her and I felt like her, what are YOU TALKING ABOUT, until you experience life and when one watches your channel, tjen you understand at my age looking back. Now it's move forward. Im going to meet my next challege, finish my classes to get my AA and create my own channel, wasnt sure what I was going to do. Now I know. Ill keep you updated. 😊👍🏻🙏🏼
I can only think how strong she is to release all her emotions outwards like that. Not everyone has the bravery to express freely without worrying about being vulnerable.
Everytime I watch these videos every week I feel better. I feel empowered to make changes and these people are so brave on his videos to be vulnerable and free. Its inspiring me to live authentic. I redyed my hair pink and living my best crazy clothing days. Its me.
Whatever life has in store when we pass, Julien... you undoubtably deserve the best. I'm sure you hear it very often but what you do is truly awe-inspiring and in a unique way I haven't seen before. The energy/vibe you resonate is so damn impactful, and a HUGE reminder to society of who we really are on the inside as the world gets more confusing and complicated. I may never get to meet you in this lifetime... but will for sure search for you in the next or after-life due to how authentic and genuine you are. Feel like I could just relax/chill and chat for hours with ya. Don't ever stop being you Julien
She is a hero for hetself and others. I'm so proud of you kid, this is huge step for your life, when you are old and look back, you will thank what you did so much. You are such a good example of being hero.
She says she's not successful but has 20k subscribers. I dont even have 1k yet and its been years. Im hoping to help people but I'm doing something i enjoy.
Hey Julien, Love from Sri Lanka! 🇱🇰 I'm so glad I stumbled upon your channel. I've been dealing with extreme social anxiety for years, and I could really relate to the people in your videos. Your self-improvement content gives me hope and inspiration that I can overcome my struggles and grow into a more confident and better version of myself in the future. Thank you for all that you do!
Thanks for sharing. I really needed to hear what you said in that video. It resonated with me a lot. It was also lovely to see you enjoying the wildlife and nature of Sri Lanka!
I wish I could experience this live event in person again it was so epic and inspiring! I can't recommend enough attending a live Julien event it's such a powerful experience, thanks again for everything Julien! Here are some of the main takeaways I got for this part of event. - Adopt the Player’s Perspective, Not the Character’s This example of the the violinist girl who felt that her self-worth was entirely tied to external success, like how many Instagram followers she had or how many people attended her free street concerts helped us understand a lot about how we judge ourselves and our self-worth if we use external validation as a compass. Like the fact that if she didn’t hit certain milestones, like winning a prestigious violin award by a certain age, she felt like a failure and less worthy as a person. This can be so relatable since a lot of us judge ourselves like that, we just change the meaningless external metrics that we use to wrongly evaluate our self-worth or what "success" is. But as Julien explained, she was living life like the character in a video game, where the value of the player depended on how much gold the character collected. In reality, though, the player’s value never changes based on how the character performs in the game. If you live life as the character, your self-worth is going to fluctuate based on every success or failure. But if you live life as the player, your inherent value stays the same, no matter how many people show up to your concert or how many followers you have. The violinist girl wasn’t a failure because she hadn’t hit those external goals. She was just playing a game, the game of life and that game doesn’t define her value. You are the player, not the character. When you adopt that mindset, the ups and downs of life don’t affect your worth, they’re just part of the experience. This is what makes life epic. Plus at the end of the day only you decide who you are and how you want to live your life, that search for external validation is just pointless, live authentically and true to yourself. Question the assumption, stop saying or thinking that you're only as good as how much "gold" you collect on the game, you're good enough just because, stop attaching anything external to your value. - Your Hero Journey is Happening Right Now Stop rushing through the hard parts We all want to reach the peak, the "success story." But what we can learn from this is that these early years, the struggle, the uncertainty, the growth, are part of the hero’s journey you’ll look back on with pride. The journey is just as important as the destination. When you’re in the thick of it, it can be easy to wish you were already at the finish line. But these moments of growth, where you’re pushing through discomfort, are what make your story epic. Like Julien sharing about his time living broke in LA sleeping on a mattress on the floor of a basement, infested with cockroaches, this is what makes the story so epic. Years from now, you’ll realize these were the moments that made you. Enjoy them while you’re in them 😎
I also highly recommend visiting one of Julien's live events. It’s just an unforgettable experience-or at least it was for me! You will feel such a different vibe compared to just watching from home. You’ll feel like you’re not alone in this. It always brings something special for you and gets you where you need to be!
Diana, play for the people in the streets. It s not easy but u can earn money and make a brighter day for everyone including urself. U r going to be fine. Hug from Germany ❤
16:59 God is showing me something here. He's reminding me that I don’t have to serve Him in a church building to be faithful to Him. I can serve Him wherever I am-on the streets, in my home, or anywhere life takes me. If people close doors on me, judging me for my past mistakes or my sins, I need to remember that God will open a new door for me. Even if it’s a door I never expected-like one with strangers on the streets-it’s still an opportunity. I may feel drawn to serve in a bigger church, praying for others, believing for miracles, and experiencing deliverance with a larger crowd. But even if I don’t have that opportunity right now, I can trust that God is with me. Together, He and I can go out into the streets and serve Him in the way I’ve been longing to do.
Not only do I find myself relating to a lot of the people in these videos, but I find myself drifting off into my own experiences and having to rewind several minutes at a time. It's a little bit of shadow work and a little bit of the golden retriever attention span, but I'm always feeling better at the end.
Be brave, Diana ❤ You got it ❤ Learn a marketable skill/trade on the side (bakery, pastry, etc...) just in case your career as a musician will not work for you, and you will be 100% ok.
I was a bit skeptical at first, but this is truly inspiring and incredibly beautiful! Can’t believe I’ve never come across you in all my years of life❤
That girl is really brave, i admire her a lot for doing what she did (the travel and spending all she has for advice), I would like to see her playing the violen but it's impossible to find his social i guess, so wish her good luck
The video is about self-esteem and how to improve it. The speaker talks about their own experiences with low self-esteem and how they overcame it. They also offer advice on how to improve your own self-esteem. Here are some of the key points from the video: * You are not your thoughts. Your thoughts are just thoughts, and they don't define who you are. * You are not your accomplishments. Your accomplishments are not a measure of your worth. * You are not your failures. Your failures are not a reflection of your character. * You are worthy of love and respect, just as you are. * You are capable of achieving your goals. * You are not alone in this. There are many people who care about you and want to support you. The speaker also encourages viewers to seek professional help if they are struggling with low self-esteem. They also recommend watching the speaker's other videos on the topic of self-esteem. Overall, this is a very helpful and insightful video on the topic of self-esteem. I would recommend it to anyone who is struggling with low self-esteem.
A la chica del video, soy de España. Actualmente estoy cerca de Madrid si quieres conectar. Con tu edad y estar ahí ya sabes cómo lograr más que mucha gente. Congrats on you
Julien ❤ 😍, your thoughts soothe my soul. At 19, I face the same challenges and expectations as a rocking musician girl. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.
I have been in a similar situation as her. Feeling just this much emotions all at once and I felt so overwhelmed that I couldn't speak well or just say stuff like an absolute hurt child. That was my inner child coming and asking for help through the cries and I can say confidently that I have grown a lot after that time. More power to her!!
Sis,if you're reading this,from what I see, you're such a beautiful, warm, adorable, brave and fun young woman (+a killing smile &childlikeness😊).Ofc, my judgement doesn't make you greater or lesser person, but I'm just pointing it out because you may not be seeing those things.Keep up the same care and courage to move forward in life..I find you inspiring, and,like Julien said, isn't it exciting to be the beginner,in a way?! I am of same age with similar kind of struggles. If you were near, I would be wanting to be friends with you ❤ Wish you the best!
I have been feeling so shitty. This video was on my watchlist and whew, you might've just saved me from getting into a very depressive state. Was feeling lonely, stupid and worthless, almost like a person who doesn't like being with their ownself? That realisation was pretty hard for me to swallow cause I am all I have got and I can't throw myself away ever again. Thank you for reminding me that :)
I have a teen daughter and I know how she struggles to like herself and how low self esteem she has. This is heartbreaking because young people feel so much pressure nowadays. It is worst when your own familiy doesn't support you. 😢
26:00 You can have all your desires but only to numb your sense of self even further 27:20 know what your goals are & then only consume what’s aligned to your goals You know too much don’t overspend precious time just studying the manual instead of playing the game. You decide what’s success for you nobody else does. 29:20 fulfillment doesn’t increase without more… learn to enjoy playing level one or wherever you’re at. There’s just as much fun playing level one as in playing level ten.
Last week’ I was going to end it’ this depressing is beating me down it’s as soon as I wake up’ first thing in my head don’t want to be here all day ‘ I’m so jumpy own shadow it’s got so hard to get out of bed. This was lovely 💋🇬🇧
Omg she’s so cute and adorable! She’s pretty and she should be an actress… The accent is also the cutest thing ever! Omg lol ❤ I wish you the best girl… go get ‘em!
Man I respect this girl so much and she seems like a good person. She's also truly gorgeous. Honestly she just needs a friend who appreciates who she is so she can know herself.
Wow! I am speechless, the way it found me at the perfect time is crazy. I failed pretty badly in the last couple of months, nothing is working for me. But this give me confidence to start again. Thank you julein.
"You are trying to fast forward the movie. You are trying to rush toward death" Thats so true and very sad.Happens when the persons you lived with and love died like grandparents, parents. Happened to me too and happens sometimes again but more seldom. Vilion is not easy, among pro piano and violin are among the top harderst thing a human can do. Spend 1-2 hour per day for 10-12 years and you will become a pro , unless you suffer from hands issues or memory injuries. I am close to piano degree and do other job to feed my passion and i am not 19! I wish i was 19 but i did not had money to study not to buy classical piano. So started lessons at 30 now i am 34. At 19 was in seduction watching Julien it was free, less complex than Beethoven or Bach and more crazy hahaha! Great times solo traveling EU with some crumbs
13:30 this is for me the most profound statement! when i play a video game i know i'm gonna be a boss hero if i just keep playing! so why not with life!?!!
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Send her too André Rieu in Holland. She will fit in there and learn from a master! And her future will be playing concerts!! Please give her this information. She is such a sweet hearted lady! But also a person who "feels" so much. She is beautiful! Even with short hair. Greetings from Holland. Bless her God and guide her ways, so that she will be going on the path you send her! 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️
I've just started watching the video and I judged her by saying "how an adult like her cries like this in front of everyone and a camera it's cringe" and I thought she is weak, then I realized that's how I treat myself, that's how I beat my inner child when he gets anxious or sad, and most probably that's why I have extreme social anxiety when I do public speaking, because I always try to hide my emotions especially being anxious or sad to not seen as a weak or loser when everyone is focusing at me. Big respect to her 💯
Beautiful insight and thanks for sharing. I can relate to this. Also massive respect to her!
Extremely proud of you for catching your own mental behaviors. Best of luck on the path you tread
Real, but she was only like 19 😂
@@phoenixayanna8637and what? Biological age often dont equal to mental age
@@3than0lvideos2219 is not a adult, mentally speaking in any universe. It rings especially true in this video 😂
She just 19, man... How courageous of her! Truly courageous and meaningful lady.
I am also 19 years and like her I really needed to hear this...thank you to the brave teenage girl who spoke up, the young man who coached her, and the camera man who got this message out to others like me who needed this
I am going to turn 20 soon but hearing this lady really brought perspective on what true struggle is and what true internal courage is
I was told I was brave at 19 by adults who also pursued self development avenues. After 20 years, the difference for me now at 39 is that I'm no longer "brave" for being openly lost with little success. I'm simply lost with little success. I beg you all to stop telling 19 year olds they have time. They need to live and find their own peace, self defined success, and inner drive NOW. The spoiling bc she's young will kill her soul. Y'all are maybe just jealous you started later than her, but she's here to live and learn, not be babied. Consider her soul, not how she's "sooo young and has a head start to be doing this." she's fucking 19. Treat her as a goddess, not a baby. Don't tell her she can trip and fall and figure shit out later. You're giving mixed messages, that she both won't fall and trip later, but also that there's no happily ever after. If she wants to be a millionaire at 20 like she sees on social media, tell her she can do it, but it needs to come from happiness. There's no reason to give her the impression that she needs to be poor at the beginning for a long long time until suddenly she's 40 and she needs to be a millionaire. Let her have that millionaire mindset. Yes, she can start her hero's journey from where she is, but don't limit her desires. I understand everyone is meaning to be positive. But it's detrimental, as someone who heard the same "slow down, you're worthy, you're too young judge yourself for your achievements, judge yourself later" shit when I was her age.
@purplerainbow1995 you my age, 29, no? You write a lot of bullshit - mainly projection, i think. Read books, act on what u learn and train your body. To be lost is egoistical. Find purpose, if u can't - their is aways God and all the different teachings, choose one and follow it; but be a good person. It is that simple.
@purplerainbow1995 people have wrote everything, already, u need to just act. Watch some comedians, comedies, romantic comedies. Not that hard man. Enjoy life. This is not meaning to be a hedonistic person. Hedonism is not the way - in my opinion.
She’s exhausted from the travel and waiting, being sleep deprived lowers your defenses. She looks like she could use a hug badly. How manny times are we in need of love/affection and just toughen up and build a wall around our hearts instead. ♥️🙏🏼
Man, this made me cry. Imagine if her parent had talked to her the way you did. Gentle and helping her to be self aware and self-regulating through her breathing.
I used to think the same. But the only thing you can do is imagine. It's not gonna help. Rather accept the fact and hope they will change one day. And if you are truly grateful, you know they do a ton of other good stuffs. Only then you can grow and heal.
This person reminded me of my father and I feel so grateful to have someone to teach me like this. Bro I keep almost crying omg lol
Her pain is SO palpable. Having depression or negative emotions is far more difficult when it just goes ON and you feel like it’ll last forever. I’m so proud of her that she went out of her way to get herself help and care❤
It’s SO difficult to get help when you have depression and try to help yourself. She did amazing.
she is clearly so brave just by sharing herself so openly so publicly
This breaks my heart.
Parents are supposed to be the people that cares about you the most. But when that isn’t there, it is like a house without foundations. Unfortunately it happens more often than people realize.
They cannot care in the right ways because they were not cared for by their parents in healthy ways. They cannot give what they do not have. There is no one that really got out unscathed, because I can't say that anybody's parents have actively done their own spiritual or emotional healing in order to create a healthy lineage.
Don’t get me wrong, it breaks my heart and I’m sad to hear it. But her mother is worried about her and is trying to push her to do what her mother thinks will make her more attractive and therefore more successful in life and love. People poke and criticise each other to give feedback, even if it’s mean or even if it isn’t even good feedback.
It isn’t the right way to achieve her goals, but at least it is probably a good goal. There are parents out there who don’t care; that is even worse.
Well that's the unfortunate part of parents there's far too many who don't have good emotional health or mental health then they have kids and make their kids either like them or worse off and neglect their own kid's emotional/mental health. Then people wonder why so many people grow up with issues in those regards and turn into narcissists or other various forms of bad behavior.
@@mattfugate9029precisely. And it's sad because you know why they neglect their kid's mental and emotional health. Because they don't even know or have the necessary tools to understand how to take care of their own mental and emotional wellbeing as a parent and human themselves.
Parents never learned what you just said. Now that you have you make sure to incorporate it with your kids 😉👍🏼
To the guy who called her weak. Know the reason you feel that way about her is because someone made you feel that way. Someone taught you that emotions are wrong. Someone hurt you. That belief you have comes from that belief deep down of "i am weak' "i don't deserve this or that". But you do. Know that actually people who label others as weak and are too scared to break down and be vulnerable don't realize how much strength and courage it takes to do that. That girl is incredibly strong and even though I don't know her, I am so so proud of her. Because actually breaking down in front of a crowd is so incredibly strong. Whoever taught you that. Whoever hurt you. Know that is a reflection of them that you do not have to take with you. Being scared but being courageous is something a very strong person does. And the way to do that is just by doing it but to the right person. Being vulnerable is the strongest thing you can do. Sometimes you have to break down in order to heal because your body needs to release the baggage you've swept under the rug in order to understand it, and move on. Understanding it is the most important part.
When i see people commenting stuff like u i just wonder if yall are therapists? because the wise words u guys have is unbelievably helpful , Thank you i was looking for this
That 19 year old girl needs a hug 😊 im so proud of her despite not knowing her. I'm literally almost her age but I can gladly say that she is doing so well. Hopefully I'll be around JulienHimself when I'm 19!! 😊
Girls will say this then lose all respect for their man when seeing them cry
Gosh I just wanna hold her precious precious little girl she needs so much love ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Agree with you 💯
She's an incredibly pure and soulful person ,how human should be
Exactly, it seems to me that she's just a human being as she should be.
"You don't need people to double tap your existence to matter". That's the gold talking through you. ❤
Massive respect to that girl
Sometimes, people or environments can trigger low self esteem. Limit exposure to things or people that don’t support your well being.
She is damn brave she knew she needed help and she knew that she could find it there and she just went that far to reach for it, so brave of her. Plus she really articulates her emotions freely, literally a strong and brave person.
She’s so endearing and her vulnerability is so beautiful
She needs money.
nah fr tho @@nawabali4619
She is the cutest girl I've ever seen in my life. I hope everything works out somehow for her
Hearing that you're supposed to be lost and confused at 19 is so relieving.
I'm 18 and it always feels like everyone around me know what they're doing. They have jobs, they live separately from their parents, they have friends and partners, they can drive, they're not afraid of dealing with documents etc. And I don't. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do.
yet parents put unachievable goals and always compare you little garbage to them great everything achievers tryharders of life
Most important thing to do: always be kind and understanding to yourself! ❤ Thats all ok!
By your 30s you learn that no one actually knows what they're doing and everyone is making it up as they go along.
Have fun and make sure you enjoy life.
You should definitely get it together. Trust me, buying a dream car/ dream whatever at 22-23 is awesome
Omg same thank you for writing this comment
“You have gold in here 👉🏼❤️” that really was cute when she said that 😊
Shes so cute 😭 my heart breaks for her! The world needs more people brave enough to show their pain and hopefully we can build a compassionate society. If you think this is weak, you don't know strength! Fake is bold and loud!
So touching to see a girl with a pure heart asking for help. You surely gave her some hope and courage in life!
A Diana, si puede leer esto.
No estás sola.
Vivo en Madrid.
Si necesitad cualquier tipo de ayuda, cuenta conmigo. Eres una guerrera valiente, y en lo que pueda ayudarte, estaré a tu lado. La gente valiente como tú no está sola.
Awwww.... thank you for this. ❤ I love your heart.
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Aww, that’s really sweet of you!! 🤍🤍🙏🏼
Gracias por brindar verdadera ayuda ❤
She has the best origin story of a movie. People love seeing someone start from nothing.
she’s just adorable!
I hope she doesn't get in trouble or danger. If her family isn't supportive I hope she finds other SAFE people.
My definition of success for the weekend is
1. Walk around busy areas
2. Start conversations &
3.Experience full the sensations that come from those conversations
4. Do a release afterwards ❤
you can also release in the moment itself by trying to accept that you are feeling anxious while you are doing it
@@alexwm369 fantastic idea dude
Keep it up , Julien you are changing lives
Thanks! 🔥👊
Agreed. Great job Julien! I've actually been helping people by teaching them your concepts and pointing them towards your content. Absolute Gold.
After watching this video, I feel a bit lighter.😢
Life’s tough man love as many people as u can
No, love the right people 😅
@ you ain’t the right person but I love you
People need to receive love in order to be able to give love. Many people haven't been adequately loved as a child and are still walking around with that unmet need. Your kindness can change people forever, even if they seem lost. @@blister9366
My siblings and I were raised by a narcissistic mother, and an abusive and alcoholic father. We’re 9 kids in the family.
My 3 older brothers were heavily into hard drugs and alcohol.
The oldest died at 19 due to cirrhosis.
The second older (than me) died at 47 due to cirrhosis.
The third older (than me) died, due to cirrhosis, right after his 50th birthday.
My youngest brother was recently diagnosed with renal failure due to heavy drinking and diabetes complications. He lost his vision on both eyes. He is immobile, and bedridden. He just turned 37 last October 2024.
My oldest sister is still doing drugs and alcohol. She’s 68.
The second older was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She’s 65.
My twin is still living like a teenager, who is now 56.
I started therapy in 2008 due to deep depression, anxiety, and trauma.
In short, we’re all fucked up.
With the aid of therapy, I finally mustered the courage to recreate and redefine the direction of my life. I chose to break the vicious cycle for my children’s sake. Enough is enough. The buck stops with me.
🥹 You're really strong.. And im sorry that you have to be. You're being the person your younger self needed but didn't have and are working through being a cycle breaker for your ancestral line and thats amazing, im proud of you dear stranger🫂🥹 rooting for your healing journey!! ❤ & hopefully your other siblings will one day realise they deserve better treatment from themselves :')
Bravo😎
@@blizrinarine593 All glory to God Almighty.
I cannot, and won’t, take credit for the strength to stand up against my family’s cycle of insanity and violence.
My children have been my inspiration to be a better human being. My children are now the first generation detached from the past generational cycle of narcissism. My prayer is that the succeeding generations will be much better off than our ancestors. To God be the glory.
I’m so sorry for what has happened to your family. I can’t imagine such tragedy. I really hope you know that you are an absolute hero. You’re not just a survivor but a fucking trailblazer and I admire that deeply. Keep on keeping on 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
You are amazing! It takes a different kind of strength to break those toxic cycles. I’m so sorry for your siblings I hope they’ve found peace and I’m so very proud of you!
it is super brave for any of these people to WANT to change. To be better. They should feel proud in that alone, without even doing any actual work on themselves. That is truly the first step. The mindset switch
Same
Yes! And that strength is just the beginning of the journey :)
She deserves a big warm hug 🥲
You saved a life right now, thanks mate!
This is what a true hero looks like! You handled this like the usual champion that you are. Just wow👏
She so cute, I understand when you are hated at home, you can't be yourself because you are drowned in your beliefs, they constantly tell you and remind you not to forget that I am nothing 😢 Everything is fine now
She is such a sweetheart, i hope she can see how amazing she is!
It takes strength to ask for help and great communication skills to communicate how you feel. She’s incredibly inspiring and strong for going there with whatever she had left with whatever she knew how to do at the time. Sending her hugs ❤
I applaud this young woman's bravery!! Thank you for showing us what it is to be human! You will find your light!! Don't chase money, chase your dreams, be willing to sacrifice, and the rest will fall into place. We will all be the villain in someone's story eventually and haters are going to hate. Be true to yourself and God be with you ✝️🕊️☯️
She is already so far ahead, she just doesn't know it yet. Wishing you much love Diana ❤
Omg i always cry watching your videos.. like a little kid.. pure and honest.. they show me the way to interpersonal and self-compassion. Thnx a Lot!
I guess God made this video come to me. I have my 2nd year university exams going right now, and I feel miserable and not good enough because I don't know much of the syllabus. I don't feel like eating and going outside my room. I am very mentally exhausted. I literally feel and am just lying on my bed hungry all day, because I feel I am not good enough if am not good in studies. I was feeling so sad.
I thank whatever power there is because of which I got the opportunity to see this video in my this stage of life.
Thank you Julien! I needed to hear this! ❤
P.S. I have decided to drop out of my university.
Same here 2 yr uni gettin these sypntoma vit d defucient@7l3ma87
@7l3ma87if you really believe that then leave them alone to make their own decision for THEMSELVES. We all have our own path to walk. By this “wait” post you are essentially trying to push your own agenda onto someone else.
This men is the truth himself
Thanks bro
I don't know who you are pretty girl and if you will ever read this: I love your short hair and I am a young woman having really short hairt too 😊 So I can you feel and I am proud of you. You look gorgeous!❤
Being a person with zero self-esteem and having been studying the violin (I don't wanna be famous or win competitions, I just get disappointed in myself cause even though I have great professors I improve much slower that I would like to, and I don't practice enough time for that cause I love doing lots of other things and am scared of failure) for most of my life, this hit real close. But it also helped a lot, I love Julien's videos so much 💖
Julien’s a gawt damn legend.
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@@JulienHimself❤❤❤
This is my first time seeing this dude, i saw his videos and I think he definitely deserves alot more than that but still it doesn’t matter who cares and who doesn’t but the society we are living in right now needs more souls like him , even if the majority in the world doesn’t except him but i do except him and his wisdom and knowledge and authenticity and his purpose is priceless
Lets spread more love and joy
We love humanity ❤
I would love to meet him someday if i could make it till that time alive 😂
Love yourself
Be you ✌🏻
Today I had the WORST self sabotage day and decided to to look into some healing videos as well as a therapist “which I always think won’t help” I came across this video and boy I feel so great ful to have came across this video!! ❤ she is so brave to get up there and pour out her heart!!
Seeing her cry immediately broke me, because this really hits home, if I ever talk about my feelings I end up breaking down and that makes me feel super embarrassed and just makes it worse.
Just a few days ago, I messed up an interview because I didn't expect them to call out of nowhere while I was eating and I got so nervous and when my dad asked about it, I literally broke down, I couldn't control it. She is super brave to be able to do this in front of so many people, super proud of her :')
I cried a lot whatching her cry cuz the way she cries seems like me when i cry i look like a baby and i don't like it and i was say today already bc my mom keeps critizising me and this video suddnly pops up i don't know if it's a considence
That girl is adorable, scorched by life.
I hope she becomes happy.
Im an older person watching this, you are excellent. I totally relate, she has a whole life ahead of her. Im at the end and I just want to be HAPPY and ignore my mother's judgemental ways. She is 85 what can you expect from a very stubborn southern lady. However very STRONG mentally for her age. That's been my ego for, well till now, watching your channel and then subscribed. This just hit home. All that's happened to her, and all you've said is so real life. I'm like 40 plus years older than her and I felt like her, what are YOU TALKING ABOUT, until you experience life and when one watches your channel, tjen you understand at my age looking back. Now it's move forward. Im going to meet my next challege, finish my classes to get my AA and create my own channel, wasnt sure what I was going to do. Now I know. Ill keep you updated. 😊👍🏻🙏🏼
I want to expose myself like her! I Guess honesty is the best thing you can do to yourself ❤❤❤❤
I can only think how strong she is to release all her emotions outwards like that. Not everyone has the bravery to express freely without worrying about being vulnerable.
You are changing lives! Sending love from Bulgaria!
Sending love from Bulgaria too 💗
So refreshing and endearing to see an authentic vulnerable honest person asking for help. Mad respect.❤
I never saw this kind of genuine content
This hit my spirit hard. I really really need to watch this. Universe works in mysterious ways.
Everytime I watch these videos every week I feel better. I feel empowered to make changes and these people are so brave on his videos to be vulnerable and free. Its inspiring me to live authentic. I redyed my hair pink and living my best crazy clothing days. Its me.
Whatever life has in store when we pass, Julien... you undoubtably deserve the best. I'm sure you hear it very often but what you do is truly awe-inspiring and in a unique way I haven't seen before. The energy/vibe you resonate is so damn impactful, and a HUGE reminder to society of who we really are on the inside as the world gets more confusing and complicated. I may never get to meet you in this lifetime... but will for sure search for you in the next or after-life due to how authentic and genuine you are. Feel like I could just relax/chill and chat for hours with ya. Don't ever stop being you Julien
you`re really amazing julien .........huge respect.......!!!!!
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She is a hero for hetself and others. I'm so proud of you kid, this is huge step for your life, when you are old and look back, you will thank what you did so much. You are such a good example of being hero.
She says she's not successful but has 20k subscribers. I dont even have 1k yet and its been years. Im hoping to help people but I'm doing something i enjoy.
That was blowing my mind too!!!!🤯
You handle people so well, empathizing and coaching without absorbing it as your responsibility. It's very helpful to see
Hey Julien, Love from Sri Lanka! 🇱🇰 I'm so glad I stumbled upon your channel. I've been dealing with extreme social anxiety for years, and I could really relate to the people in your videos. Your self-improvement content gives me hope and inspiration that I can overcome my struggles and grow into a more confident and better version of myself in the future. Thank you for all that you do!
Glad my content has been so impactful for you! Btw, check out this video I recorded in Sri Lanka: th-cam.com/video/Pn00Fdy7k3Q/w-d-xo.html 👌
Thanks for sharing.
I really needed to hear what you said in that video. It resonated with me a lot. It was also lovely to see you enjoying the wildlife and nature of Sri Lanka!
I wish I could experience this live event in person again it was so epic and inspiring!
I can't recommend enough attending a live Julien event it's such a powerful experience, thanks again for everything Julien!
Here are some of the main takeaways I got for this part of event.
- Adopt the Player’s Perspective, Not the Character’s
This example of the the violinist girl who felt that her self-worth was entirely tied to external success, like how many Instagram followers she had or how many people attended her free street concerts helped us understand a lot about how we judge ourselves and our self-worth if we use external validation as a compass.
Like the fact that if she didn’t hit certain milestones, like winning a prestigious violin award by a certain age, she felt like a failure and less worthy as a person.
This can be so relatable since a lot of us judge ourselves like that, we just change the meaningless external metrics that we use to wrongly evaluate our self-worth or what "success" is.
But as Julien explained, she was living life like the character in a video game, where the value of the player depended on how much gold the character collected.
In reality, though, the player’s value never changes based on how the character performs in the game.
If you live life as the character, your self-worth is going to fluctuate based on every success or failure. But if you live life as the player, your inherent value stays the same, no matter how many people show up to your concert or how many followers you have.
The violinist girl wasn’t a failure because she hadn’t hit those external goals. She was just playing a game, the game of life and that game doesn’t define her value. You are the player, not the character.
When you adopt that mindset, the ups and downs of life don’t affect your worth, they’re just part of the experience.
This is what makes life epic.
Plus at the end of the day only you decide who you are and how you want to live your life, that search for external validation is just pointless, live authentically and true to yourself.
Question the assumption, stop saying or thinking that you're only as good as how much "gold" you collect on the game, you're good enough just because, stop attaching anything external to your value.
- Your Hero Journey is Happening Right Now
Stop rushing through the hard parts
We all want to reach the peak, the "success story." But what we can learn from this is that these early years, the struggle, the uncertainty, the growth, are part of the hero’s journey you’ll look back on with pride.
The journey is just as important as the destination. When you’re in the thick of it, it can be easy to wish you were already at the finish line. But these moments of growth, where you’re pushing through discomfort, are what make your story epic.
Like Julien sharing about his time living broke in LA sleeping on a mattress on the floor of a basement, infested with cockroaches, this is what makes the story so epic.
Years from now, you’ll realize these were the moments that made you.
Enjoy them while you’re in them 😎
I also highly recommend visiting one of Julien's live events. It’s just an unforgettable experience-or at least it was for me! You will feel such a different vibe compared to just watching from home. You’ll feel like you’re not alone in this. It always brings something special for you and gets you where you need to be!
Diana, play for the people in the streets. It s not easy but u can earn money and make a brighter day for everyone including urself. U r going to be fine. Hug from Germany ❤
16:59
God is showing me something here. He's reminding me that I don’t have to serve Him in a church building to be faithful to Him. I can serve Him wherever I am-on the streets, in my home, or anywhere life takes me. If people close doors on me, judging me for my past mistakes or my sins, I need to remember that God will open a new door for me.
Even if it’s a door I never expected-like one with strangers on the streets-it’s still an opportunity. I may feel drawn to serve in a bigger church, praying for others, believing for miracles, and experiencing deliverance with a larger crowd. But even if I don’t have that opportunity right now, I can trust that God is with me. Together, He and I can go out into the streets and serve Him in the way I’ve been longing to do.
She is so adorable owww
Not only do I find myself relating to a lot of the people in these videos, but I find myself drifting off into my own experiences and having to rewind several minutes at a time.
It's a little bit of shadow work and a little bit of the golden retriever attention span, but I'm always feeling better at the end.
Be brave, Diana ❤
You got it ❤
Learn a marketable skill/trade on the side (bakery, pastry, etc...) just in case your career as a musician will not work for you, and you will be 100% ok.
I was a bit skeptical at first, but this is truly inspiring and incredibly beautiful! Can’t believe I’ve never come across you in all my years of life❤
That girl is really brave, i admire her a lot for doing what she did (the travel and spending all she has for advice), I would like to see her playing the violen but it's impossible to find his social i guess, so wish her good luck
She’s so courageous, I truly hope she’s in a better place right now. In her heart, mind and pockets full of money.
The video is about self-esteem and how to improve it. The speaker talks about their own experiences with low self-esteem and how they overcame it. They also offer advice on how to improve your own self-esteem.
Here are some of the key points from the video:
* You are not your thoughts. Your thoughts are just thoughts, and they don't define who you are.
* You are not your accomplishments. Your accomplishments are not a measure of your worth.
* You are not your failures. Your failures are not a reflection of your character.
* You are worthy of love and respect, just as you are.
* You are capable of achieving your goals.
* You are not alone in this. There are many people who care about you and want to support you.
The speaker also encourages viewers to seek professional help if they are struggling with low self-esteem. They also recommend watching the speaker's other videos on the topic of self-esteem.
Overall, this is a very helpful and insightful video on the topic of self-esteem. I would recommend it to anyone who is struggling with low self-esteem.
A la chica del video, soy de España. Actualmente estoy cerca de Madrid si quieres conectar.
Con tu edad y estar ahí ya sabes cómo lograr más que mucha gente.
Congrats on you
I dont know why but this girl made me cry...her innocence is so beautiful it shines out of her ❤
Julien ❤ 😍, your thoughts soothe my soul. At 19, I face the same challenges and expectations as a rocking musician girl. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.
Her honesty is beautiful 😊.. that’s raw emotion there needing validation with added logic for the magic to happen towards something we call hope ❤
Sending some love and hugs. ❤
I have been in a similar situation as her. Feeling just this much emotions all at once and I felt so overwhelmed that I couldn't speak well or just say stuff like an absolute hurt child. That was my inner child coming and asking for help through the cries and I can say confidently that I have grown a lot after that time. More power to her!!
Sis,if you're reading this,from what I see, you're such a beautiful, warm, adorable, brave and fun young woman (+a killing smile &childlikeness😊).Ofc, my judgement doesn't make you greater or lesser person, but I'm just pointing it out because you may not be seeing those things.Keep up the same care and courage to move forward in life..I find you inspiring, and,like Julien said, isn't it exciting to be the beginner,in a way?! I am of same age with similar kind of struggles. If you were near, I would be wanting to be friends with you ❤
Wish you the best!
I have been feeling so shitty. This video was on my watchlist and whew, you might've just saved me from getting into a very depressive state. Was feeling lonely, stupid and worthless, almost like a person who doesn't like being with their ownself? That realisation was pretty hard for me to swallow cause I am all I have got and I can't throw myself away ever again. Thank you for reminding me that :)
She's just so adorabl.❤
I have a teen daughter and I know how she struggles to like herself and how low self esteem she has. This is heartbreaking because young people feel so much pressure nowadays. It is worst when your own familiy doesn't support you. 😢
Tell her to watch this therapy sessions and to go out in nature workout on a park or at home! And maybe look for a community! She will be okay!
Julien, you are so kind and compassionate. Thank you!!!
I love to see you helping this girl, God bless you all ❤
26:00 You can have all your desires but only to numb your sense of self even further
27:20 know what your goals are & then only consume what’s aligned to your goals
You know too much don’t overspend precious time just studying the manual instead of playing the game.
You decide what’s success for you nobody else does.
29:20 fulfillment doesn’t increase without more… learn to enjoy playing level one or wherever you’re at. There’s just as much fun playing level one as in playing level ten.
She brakes my heart. You are going to be ok!❤🙏🦋🌻
I accidentally landed on your channel but, im so glad that i did❤ loving the content🎉
I want to raise my kid the way you educate those people ❤️
Last week’ I was going to end it’ this depressing is beating me down it’s as soon as I wake up’ first thing in my head don’t want to be here all day ‘ I’m so jumpy own shadow it’s got so hard to get out of bed. This was lovely 💋🇬🇧
Omg she’s so cute and adorable! She’s pretty and she should be an actress… The accent is also the cutest thing ever! Omg lol ❤ I wish you the best girl… go get ‘em!
Man I respect this girl so much and she seems like a good person. She's also truly gorgeous. Honestly she just needs a friend who appreciates who she is so she can know herself.
I think not only she, we all need someone to appreciate❤ we all crave for the love 😊
She talked like a child, she cried, and she spoke with a funny accent. She’s a legend just by doing all that in front of a crowd. 👏🏾
A lot of ppl talk like a Child when they’re upset it’s like you naturally regressing to a child her accent is nice
@ she talks like a child child.
@ And your point is?. She can be whatever she wants to be
@@teaacustardcream2868
Nobody here is throwing a tantrum but you. Get your anger issues fixed.
her accent is funny? u must be american
Wow! I am speechless, the way it found me at the perfect time is crazy. I failed pretty badly in the last couple of months, nothing is working for me. But this give me confidence to start again. Thank you julein.
"You are trying to fast forward the movie. You are trying to rush toward death"
Thats so true and very sad.Happens when the persons you lived with and love died like grandparents, parents. Happened to me too and happens sometimes again but more seldom.
Vilion is not easy, among pro piano and violin are among the top harderst thing a human can do. Spend 1-2 hour per day for 10-12 years and you will become a pro , unless you suffer from hands issues or memory injuries.
I am close to piano degree and do other job to feed my passion and i am not 19! I wish i was 19 but i did not had money to study not to buy classical piano. So started lessons at 30 now i am 34. At 19 was in seduction watching Julien it was free, less complex than Beethoven or Bach and more crazy hahaha! Great times solo traveling EU with some crumbs
Im learning piano. Im 47. Lol. Im so slow.
this is the funniest session ever 😂 I learned and enjoyed the whole video
Allowing to being yourself is confidence.
She's such a beautiful soul.
She is so courageous! I am confident that she will do great ❤️
Shes so amazing i have so much respect for this girl, i wish her the best.
"you have good in there" beautiful!
13:30 this is for me the most profound statement! when i play a video game i know i'm gonna be a boss hero if i just keep playing! so why not with life!?!!
I had chills all along!!! I just found out about this chanel and it toutch m’y heart.. thanks to you and Diana ✨🌹