The WORST Mistake People Pleasers Make... (Don't Ignore)

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  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

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  • @galdevina1224
    @galdevina1224 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    so beautiful to watch how Julien does his magic and people open up and shine

  • @veronikaheidt9586
    @veronikaheidt9586 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Im proud of that girl❤ You did so good!

  • @invan99999
    @invan99999 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Julien might be the most practical and easy to learn from since he has so much experience in-field. he is so relatable. i feel like he is one of us..who has made it

  • @neldora1766
    @neldora1766 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Hey girl if you seeing my comment we loved what you did so don't go back keep going and lots of love from planet earth ❤️✨

  • @Rootazz
    @Rootazz 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The secret of all teachings of manifestation and self improvement is to feel now "how you would feel when if you have or be what you want" and the world will deliver it to you in the ways that you even expected! If you feel unloved from childhood or from some kind of trauma, then that "lack of love" feeling is just amplified and what you get/see in your life is just unlove/ lack of love. How you feel is what you get from lie, and there's no other secrets! Great teachings Julien!

  • @aidengeddit7908
    @aidengeddit7908 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Thank you Julien for what you do.
    I still have a lot to fix step by step, it's a long journey but your help and your guests are a true inspiration.
    Keep it up !

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I'm glad my content has been so helpful! You got this! 👊

  • @deekseeper
    @deekseeper 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This woman is a spiritual leader vibe. Congrats!!

  • @garethmarshall6574
    @garethmarshall6574 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I hate that I cried through the whole thing, but I love it so much. I can feel my ego telling me that this is embarrassing and stupid but the child in me is like "I wanna be there and motor boat and bibble bibble as well!". Distinctively knowing the difference between the ego mind and the real me, is slowing killing off the ego

  • @denischinese
    @denischinese 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Love yourself first sounds nice. But it is really hard to do it if you doesn't have a strong foundation of people's approval in childhood. You might achieve some results with letting go, but there will always be that voice in your head reminding you about who you were in childhood.

    • @DimaArhipov-ym8vb
      @DimaArhipov-ym8vb 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You are right but the goal is to overcome that voice and not to get rid of.

  • @CHECKHIMOUT
    @CHECKHIMOUT 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    YOU GO GIRL!!!☮♥

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      She did amazing! MASSIVE respect to her! 🙏

  • @John_Conner222
    @John_Conner222 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My experience is actual sabotage. If I do not please then both family and friends go out of their way to physically cause problems until the behavior is changed. This year I will have no choice but to move and assume a new identity. It's not all in my head. I have tried everything and now I finally understand the source of the problem. Will I ever be my normal self, I doubt it but I will make sure I am in charge of my environment from here on out so I don't have to people please.

    • @get_ready_1
      @get_ready_1 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s all in your head, change your mind/thoughts and it will change your reality. It’s not easy, it takes time and work, but it will work 😉

  • @get_ready_1
    @get_ready_1 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I watched like 10-15 different personal coaches but Julien is one of a kind, he has really really good techniques and I think he’s hitting the core

  • @nadinetikowsky
    @nadinetikowsky 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you Julien, great work! ❤

  • @mehless
    @mehless วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Whatever outfit that is on Julien, I need it.

  • @walteregana9489
    @walteregana9489 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Truly Julien himself, bro. thankz a lot

  • @Jake38nine
    @Jake38nine 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    A lot of this is crazy how much people suppress their inner child. I have almost no issue doing some of the "childish" things done in these workshops.

  • @SRD111-11
    @SRD111-11 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is pure GOOOOOOOOOOOLD 🤗

  • @tomsmarkovs1946
    @tomsmarkovs1946 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Damn. . that "anyone" really hit hard.

  • @xasanmalay3390
    @xasanmalay3390 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Massive ❤respect

  • @rishabhprajapati8423
    @rishabhprajapati8423 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Your introspection examples are extremely good. I often put myself in your shoes, and then play it with myself. It helped me TREMENDOUSLY!!! I can't even express how truly grateful I am to you my man!
    Question: I get triggered each time my ex posts something on social media. Should I keep using social media to become a trigger chaser and release each time I get triggered OR should I take a break from social media to avoid getting triggered for a while?

    • @SefyaneAlaoui
      @SefyaneAlaoui 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      i THINK YOU SHOULD RELEASE EVERY TIME YOU GET TRIGGERED , and you have to know the source of your insecurity rather than releasing your emotion , like for example: maybe you get triggered because he find a better option or maybe because you think that you are not enough for him.

  • @upschunter87
    @upschunter87 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love from India Julian ❤

  • @ludvanlazarz
    @ludvanlazarz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great job both of you! 🎉 bringing up and working with these parts of the psyche is very hard, but this setting you created is magic Julien, thank you!

  • @yaasi_diary123
    @yaasi_diary123 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    I liked without watching till the end 😅❤️

    • @Zazzy-w3l
      @Zazzy-w3l 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Me to bro I just joined😂😂😂😂

    • @carlosmoreno3016
      @carlosmoreno3016 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I disliked without even watching. Shout out Julian!! Keep up the good work!!🎉

    • @nadinetikowsky
      @nadinetikowsky 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your comment made me do the same 😂

    • @nadinetikowsky
      @nadinetikowsky 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@carlosmoreno3016disliked?

    • @Isaac-ye4mm
      @Isaac-ye4mm 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How dare you 😮😂

  • @nadinetikowsky
    @nadinetikowsky 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I always learn something more, our better said rediscover a truth I already new. Great to hear it ❤

  • @_cr8ive_
    @_cr8ive_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 This was great...👌🏻 She did fabulous....

  • @DanielleFox-g5j
    @DanielleFox-g5j 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Julien, it’s the holidays, majority of people met up with their family for Christmas. Most people get triggered seeing them. Can you make a video about navigating the shit most people experience during this time? I only see mine 2-3 times a year thank goodness

    • @MagneticSoulPower
      @MagneticSoulPower วันที่ผ่านมา

      Keep observing the family stuff! It can be so much fun if you are in an observant state what goes on out there and also inside you. 🎉

  • @itgirl959
    @itgirl959 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Julien should ask the people who come up how they were picturing their time on stage while they were watching his videos, what excited them about the idea. And in the end he should ask them if theyre hoping that their video gets uploaded or not

  • @DreamLife-bd7rz
    @DreamLife-bd7rz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Fantastic ❤❤❤

  • @iSpart2299
    @iSpart2299 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am sweating even with no Shirt on and just by imagining her fear...

  • @goodshorts6058
    @goodshorts6058 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wish ..i was there to speak to you about my insecurity 😢

  • @TheKlaco
    @TheKlaco 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Are u ever planning going to Portugal?

  • @epicbehavior
    @epicbehavior 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I hate people too much to want to please them. I want to please myself and that’s it.

    • @Mil07n
      @Mil07n 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      thanks for this realization

    • @dilantoco813
      @dilantoco813 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      oh man you probably want to let go from a lot of stuff. you are in anger state. good luck facing your deepest inner self:)

    • @epicbehavior
      @epicbehavior 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dilantoco813 At least anger is of higher vibration than desire, fear, grief, apathy, guilt, and shame.

    • @EternalGeneral
      @EternalGeneral 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      hating people doesn't seem like a happy and fun way to live is it ?

    • @epicbehavior
      @epicbehavior 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ Not really

  • @ananyawalunjkar
    @ananyawalunjkar 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Would love to meet you one day

  • @BibiZebaDILMAHAMOOD
    @BibiZebaDILMAHAMOOD 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    PRESENT !! ✋🏼

  • @Ambruzzo
    @Ambruzzo 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Julien, just wanted to ask if you ever do any live events in Italy?

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I don't have any planned at the moment, but I did an event in Milan earlier this year... 👌

  • @Arabiscuits1
    @Arabiscuits1 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can you come to Saudi Arabia?

  • @marinammhdez
    @marinammhdez 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow❤️

  • @RonFlux
    @RonFlux 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Is the watch you wear a present from your daughter? Just wonder.

  • @VasacceDivv
    @VasacceDivv วันที่ผ่านมา

    Social~Excellence?

  • @4Authenticity
    @4Authenticity 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    30:09 atta girl!

  • @meritaplestina9712
    @meritaplestina9712 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    JULIEN I HAD A DREAM ABOUT MEETING YOU AYAAA~~~ EARLYYY~~~ ^^

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Make it out to a live event! 👉 www.noanxietytour.com

    • @meritaplestina9712
      @meritaplestina9712 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @JulienHimself ahhh my god if i only couldddddd~~~~ 😩😩😩😩 I cant lol i'm stuck with PEOPLE HERE!!! AYAAA

  • @avinashyadav6156
    @avinashyadav6156 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi!!

  • @CameronHarris-b8l
    @CameronHarris-b8l 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Like the celebrate your wins.

  • @Iit0501
    @Iit0501 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤ from india

  • @spike200a
    @spike200a 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Anyone look at Photos from your childhood? Is it even a good idea?

    • @flowerchasethesunshine9063
      @flowerchasethesunshine9063 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think yes

    • @iSpart2299
      @iSpart2299 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      definitely, and look at memories and try to embrace these times and be you

  • @Sukamonaa
    @Sukamonaa 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I don't trust people who present themselves as helpers like this dude.
    U will never what are they hide inside their heart u might find Ugliest things

    • @SRD111-11
      @SRD111-11 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He is no different from a psychologist/guru with a diploma that costs 50 euros per hour. The only thing that matters is whether you believe in it or not 🤗

  • @itgirl959
    @itgirl959 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's captivating to watch her burst into tears right from the start. She already came up there with so much trust for you and was ready to enter that level of intimacy with you. I think most people crave to be looked at like that

  • @Keksent
    @Keksent 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Give yourself a break its your first time playing the game of life

  • @Platsky
    @Platsky 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    First!

  • @PlainMundane
    @PlainMundane 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She had a demon in her

  • @aliabbas4852
    @aliabbas4852 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Her I'd

  • @Edwo1
    @Edwo1 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Has anyone ever heard julien comment on addiction? Wethere its entertainment or drugs, I wonder about his take.
    Here is my very very condensed take: Addiction stops, when you truly understand (with your inner child together) that you dont want the thing anymore that you are addicted to.
    For example if you go through all the pros and cons of smoking cigarettes, you can come to the conclusion, that cigarettes make you less happy in the grander scheme of things (MOST SMOKERS DO NOT BELIEVE THAT) I believe, that if you truly understand with your inner child, that you are TRULY worse off with it, then without it, then you will naturally quit it and the urges stop, since you understand that you are better off without it.
    The stoppage of urges is a sign, that you truely got rid of the addiction and it comes from understanding.

    • @flowerchasethesunshine9063
      @flowerchasethesunshine9063 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes I think his take on addictions is that addictions are a coping mechanism, a way to run away from your problems and feelings, and when you truly accept yourself and let go you don't feel the need to run away from anything and don't need your addiction anymore.

  • @chelseodende3211
    @chelseodende3211 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Julian drop the mask, we already know you're not from this planet! I learned so much from this video than with a lot selfbooks< YOU'RE SO FREAKING AMAZING, big hug man🫂