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@@buckjones4901it seems that's the summary of any western woman's life when they have problems. The ones who actually say "I messed up badly and that led to my current situation" are the exception. And people wonder why guys are going overseas or just giving up.
The guy was an effin drug dealer. I’m guessing common sense and integrity were missing from the equation. Cut her some slack. I’m sure you’re all perfect 🤡🙄
Im 41 now, i have an older sister, she stated "a women needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" back when i was 12. That was what 1994-1996?? Shes has 3 kids from 2 different men and is divorced and miserable.
They’re used to chatting with and telling their girlfriends all these things, where they get the attention and validation from for their current poor behavior
The beauty and horror of the internet is that it has allowed women to show us who they really are. No surprise that most men don't want to get married anymore.
I’m 43 and although I think a life partner would be great I’ve flat out told many friends and family i am NEVER signing that piece of paper - there is ZERO benefit to it today.
Sure, not all snakes are bad, but the ones with rattles, hoods, and certain stripes are-- and that's what social media is to women: the warning to us men.
In my early 20’s I dated a girl for 3.5 years who had daddy issues. I was naive in thinking I can change her mind on men… in reality she just wanted another guy to blame for her problems in life. Stay far away from these girls, they have serious self work to do.
How bad are these Red Flag? I dated a girl for 9 months who had Daddy Issues. Her father was an alcoholic & died when she was young. She was raised by a single mom. The relationship with her was full of drama & toxicity. These are the Red Flags I identified. 01. High Body Count, 12 bodies by the age 24 02. History of taking Anti Depressant's 03. Dates only much older men 04. Previous relationship to me, was also Toxic 05. Prefers to keep lots of Male Friends 06. Has a combative attitude, doesn't like a man telling her what to do 07. Challenges a mans boundaries 08. Has several large tattoos 09. Has female friends who are low quality 10. Drinks alcohol, history of going to clubs/bars 11. Doesn't communicate like an adult, and is immature 12. Was disrespectful to me on several occasions 13. Was addicted to Social Media, Tik Tok, Facebook, Instagram, then damn lot. I walked away dumped her after 9 months, it was chaos
Its not a dad's job to be nice to his daughter. His job is to prepare her for a cruel and unforgiving world that is the complete opposite of the disney fairytale these muppets grow up believing it is. FFS, these 304s expect their own fathers to be simps now too. Theres no hope.
Buddy , YOU ARE SPOT ON! I was saying this to my ex wife twenty five years ago. We had three daughters and she was always saying I was too hard on them. Always undermined my discipline and ridiculed me to them behind my back. Now divorced for 13 years my daughters 26 , 20 . and 18 , no longer speak to me except for the occasional long text berating me for the same shit their mother did years ago. Just like a Maoist struggle session. I won't simp for any broad including them.
I’m Not sure. I don’t think this is the same but my mother and I relationship changed when I could form my own opinions and saw her gaslighting. I don’t think parents should brainwash their children. My mother would have me repeat to her that “I will take care of mommy and never leave,” and my dreams of being a navy seal are “fucked up and I’m fucked up.” I get her story with her dad.
They spend their lives throwing themselves at the kind of guy their dad told them to avoid out of spite. Which is kinda like cutting off your nose to spite your face...
Women just don't seem to understand what revenge or proving a point really means. Another example is a broad who gets "revenge" on her bf for cheating by letting guys run a train on her or sleeping with his friend. Yeah, that'll show him. By all means, get those rookie body count numbers and therapy bills up.
@@cygnusprime6728 They don't understand vindication because they don't understand *points* for the most part. How can you be proven right when you didn't actually have anything coherent to say? I said spite, and I chose my word carefully.
I can tell you all what a woman with Daddy issues look like at age 45; - 2 kids from 2 diffrent dads - not a single relationship longer than 4 years - allot of tattoos, big and small - working in the “healthcare” branch - her parents split up. - sexual abuse trauma - abandonment issues - attention and validation seeking - shift blaming - always wants her way - when drunk speaks the truth - acts in such way that after 4 years you don’t want to live (with her )anymore Edit: also gotto mention; never married. And was pushing it
I called of the wedding with a girl who have severe daddy issues In the last month of 2022 *my wedding was in 3 months* And I swear to god 2023 was my year 🥰
Any hair colouring except highlights, tattoos or piercings - don’t touch for more than ten minutes. Ten minutes means you can get your job done at least twice .
I live in woke Melbourne Australia where men have zero authority in the household. There was a case here where the father disciplined his son, the mother reported him to the police. He was charged and prosecuted, fast forward some months he was allowed to move back into the home after begging for forgiveness. He sleeps in a separate room, no sex, no authority and now just a money pig. His status in the house is lower than the pet dog.
She reminds me of my 1976 Alfa Romeo Spider Veloce 189,000 miles 2 blown engines every inch worked on with body hammers n fillers . Still roars like wild beast .
Responsibility without Authority. Sums it all up. Rich you are correct; the breakdown of the family. External forces (government, etc.) cannot repair the internal damage. I feel terrible for all the children whose parents made terrible decisions, voluntarily (cheating on, abusing spouse, abusing children) or involuntarily (the recipient of the spouses treatment, both verbal and physical). People make terrible decisions everyday, but most of them do not have such tremendous and generational repercussions.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring her back
I raise the daughter and she was at Daddy's girl until she basically started doing things behind my back when I would go to my youngest child's baseball practice and she was like 16 or 17 calling other boys having boys even come over when I wasn't there. Then when I found out about it I didn't even get really angry I just told her how dangerous that was and for the years from her being 16 up to about 20 she acted like I was the most terrible dad ever. She's came back to her senses now she has a baby and she's 27 but for several years I was a terrible Dad when she became a teenager I guess because I had somewhat rules and I didn't just allow her to go completely wild.
I know a girl similar to this. Her parents are still together but her dad didn’t give her the ‘love and attention’ she felt she deserved. She now seeks validation from men in excessive promiscuity. It’s sad to see because she had a lot of potential. The red flags are so often directly related to this issue.
Lol...I'd say is more about "Mommy Issues"...The father of this one girl I dated was always doing everything for her, very supportive etc...Parents were Divorced, she grew up with her mom, mainly...as it turns out, after we broke up she got a new boyfriend right away, the guy was everything she "wanted" A Psychologist, talked to her about everything, was "kind" ..."respected her"...he was very into working out, did the Iron Man every year...extremely fit...but, could not deliver...So, she would go back to her "ex" (yours truly) to get her fix, and she said her mom, after she talked to her...told her "it is ok to get what you need from one and another" 😳🤣...in a few words, that she could keep me around to scratch that itch I could only reach...and, stay in that relationship with her bf because he was the one giving her the "emotional attention she wanted" 🤦...So, ya...it is "mommy issues" more likely than not...Girls talk to their moms about everything, not their dads...They learn how to hear the truth and interpret it as "verbal abuse" from the mom...that and all that bs that to us guys is the right thing to do, to be completely honest...but to women is being a complete a'hole...🥴 Whatever, I rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am NOT...Best way to stay single btw 😎 no regrets!
Richard, I really appreciate your worldly views Thanks for taking the time to making these clips as it helps me and many others to see things properly.
Saw this complete episode. That woman is completely bonkers - completely disconnected from Reality. There's really profound mental illness there - multiple severe pathologies. Frightening.
To be fair, it doesn't sound like her parents were the best. Sometimes we are. A product of our environment. Those of us who are self-aware and getting help don't deserve to be judged by our bad parenting.
I dated a girl in my mid twenties who had these issues. It was brutal. Very promiscuous past, couldn’t trust her, and had a weird moral compass. I couldn’t fix her and when you try to fix broken people…you get cut.
So I’m a conservative stay at home mom, but I just wanted to clarify that they don’t drill a hole in your ear. It’s years of slow stretching to achieve it.
Been married 50 years had a good relation with my daughter . Now she never talks to me . But she is always talks to her mother . What I am trying to say farther gets a raw deal . Never hit her took her swimming and other things
It’s hilarious how everyone is defending the father who clearly had some integrity and ethical issues, yet did his best to raise a perfect daughter. Right 🙄 I’m not saying she’s not a bag of issues but living through traumatic events thanks to your parent’s complete lack of judgment is going to leave a mark. That doesn’t make you worthless as a person. Few people had the perfect child/parent relationship but if you’re willing to learn from your mistakes and those of your family’s, you might become a better person for it. Let us not forget that at least 3 men were attracted to this bag of issues. Clearly she’s not the only damaged one
The majority of MEN don’t want the RESPONSIBILITY of what it means to truly be a DAD! This isn’t just women who don’t have dads in their lives growing up. This is men. I see this everywhere I have dated four men who grew up with no dad. As someone who decided to get on a dating app of course you get multiple matches. I’ve recently talked with three people and each of them did not grow up with their dad. I highly caution people in this comment section and you who made this video probably won’t see this that this is not just a woman problem. I can tell you right now I grew up with my dad and he was severely ab*sive, I don’t need to go into detail and yes that created trauma and normally when trauma happens for an extended period of time you get complex PTSD. I asked people if you know someone that grew up without a father or a mother either gender because this happens not just with women so stop pointing the finger at women all the time and you see patterns that aren’t healthy. Maybe gently tell them that there might be something stemming from that behavior and go talk to a counselor and maybe get evaluated. I came back last year that I have complex PTSD and let me tell you working through that changing my brain pattern getting the counseling that I need has helped SO much!
If a woman has an emotional incest with her dad she won't be able to connect emotionally with a partner in her adult life. These may lead to very different patterns: 1. She becomes a femme libertine and at the end of the day always reduce relationships to flings. 2. She becomes very conservative at the outside under the pretense of looking for the one partner for all her live which translates into her relevant other should be the replacement for her dad. Sooner or later she'll find out that her partner is an individual of his own right, start hating him for that and finally opt out of the relationship. So, at the end of the day it comes down to the same failure. These women just won't be able to establish lasting emotional bonds with a partner - because the bond already the wrong way exists to her dad. As soon as these women realize they are getting into an emotional bond with someone else they get a bad feeling. Her subconciousness despises that she is about to betray the love of her life, which is dad, with another guy. She may rationalize that negative feeling in any given way. And she won't be aware of the mechanism behind it. She wouldn't be able to explain why. All the reasons are made up. But not so much that she is intentionally lying, but she really doesn't know any better.
@@sod172 Ha, that would be my mother in that case. Thanks for that, I'd never heard that term used before, but I had heard of the Husband Son complex, which pretty much amounts to the same thing. If you're an only child to a screwed up single mother, you've basically had it. Worst if you are the spitting image of your father and she has resentment towards him.
@@Longlostpuss It's also quite frequent that in a marriage the husband is emotionally detached from the wife because of too much infighting or whatever. The couple lives apart together and that's when the wife picks the only child for emotional comfort.
Maybe have some compassion for her, and that the trauma from your childhood can really shape a lot of your life and that maybe it’s best for her to go seek some help for that kind of damage that she went through. I think people need to lead more with compassion instead of judgment no kid asked to be raised in a dysfunctional home.
I had no problem attracting women, all my life. But..... still had failed relationship after failed relationship. I get it now. it was at least 51% my fault. But it's shit like this that jumps me right over (edit)red pill into black pill!
Don’t. Most guys recognize someone like this pretty quickly..as long as they aren’t blinded by beauty or sex. The give away is the fact that there is an emotional disconnect. She talks about all the horrible things she’s done and others have done to her with that nauseating perkiness…. That’s a huge sign of bad wiring…
Same here… there was a steady stream of women in my life .. however I was guilty of not testing them in innocuous ways .. like saying no to some request if theirs JUST to see their reaction to my no. Remarkable results when one tries it Inevitably they all failed but most of the time, but not all, I did the dumping as certain intolerable behaviors showed up .. just like the man said .. let them talk and just listen .. in all the women I dated, I can identify only ONE that never put me thru poor behavior on their part … ONE .. I dated a very professional woman cop .. very attractive .. not the precinct thot .. those don’t get promoted ever …2 years on she stepped all over my boundaries at her party in front of all these other cops off duty .. I dumped her the next day and there was going to be no discussion about it .. I ended up stalked for the next 8 months .. so f’g weird but that’s what happened
About if you're a man with father issues does that make you a bad person? I wanna better relationship with my father but he's double standard about everything he loves my sister more than he does me. He also secretly records my every conversation I have with family or friends.
Every girl i know coming from this 2 scenarios, has daddy issues for different reasons: - mother is the boss and hates her father for not opposing her craziness. Daughter grows up treating all men as she saw in her family - father is an alchoolic and possesive, daughter grows up searching for her father in other men. I”m sure there are a lot of people who overcome this or had the power to searxh for the opposite. But my guess from what i”ve seen in my life and also beeing atractted to it because i had savior complex, there are 2 many broken people in this world.
Lets clear on thing! If a woman dates a guy with at least 10 years age gap she has daddy issues. She could get the same age guy why she wont go for that? You say money… there are rich young guys as well. Alpha males, you are old, if you want a young girl you can get one, but she will have daddy issues🤷🏻♂️
Due to the egoistic approach, all long-term plans always have a negative outcome. For this reason, they are not able to make good long-term decisions, which can be measured in all areas. They are their own worst enemy.
I see a lot about dating but I don’t see much about maintaining a good family home environment. My dad was a good dad overall, but completely abusive and over the top in his anger and disciplinarian ways. Almost sadistic…
It couldn't be if her mom was narcisist. That explains everything. Also moms conditions daughters that don't listen yo daddy he is talking nonsense. Diminishing causes this. Then daughter thinks its dad's fault when actually its moms gasliting. My fix is simply. Jesus Christ and Bible.
You think any of these men out here super soaking the neighborhood, with four, five kids by two, three, four different women has anything to do with all of these red flag women?
I hate householt-stuff bu I genuinely like gardening, driving, and making a lot of love - with super beautiful young teenage gils, etc etc - plus super-efficient and funny fatherhood skills. Do not try to to hurt me who programmed me.
She dont look 33. She looks like 73. This lady certainly proves the quote of men age like fine wine, while women age like moldy bread 😂😂😂 especially with all that piercings etc
Could you honestly believe that this chick at 15 smoking weed, drinking alcohol, doing drugs, breaking the law, would not have a notch count in the hundreds lol?
The topic is of interest but the 1.5x speed of the interview was insufferable. So I bailed out early in the broadcast and went to watch the actual interview.
Poor wretched thing. Just ghastly. How old did she say she was, 33? Only 44 more years and your nightmare will finally be over, honey. Unless the booze takes you out sooner ❤
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great job!!!💯
keep going all the way!!!✌️☮️
Okay, now do one for women with both mommy and daddy issues. You know what I mean the ones with BPD, OCD, CPTSD, D.I.D.
This lady could open up a red flag superstore. She has them all.
You win the internet for the day!!! That shit is hilarious....and sadly true.
Her entire interview could be summarized in a few words with just saying, "it is everyone's else fault but mine"
She's got more red flags than a chinese Red Guard parade.
@@buckjones4901it seems that's the summary of any western woman's life when they have problems. The ones who actually say "I messed up badly and that led to my current situation" are the exception. And people wonder why guys are going overseas or just giving up.
She is NOT alone😂
"Got a mind of my own" is code for I got sassy and smart mouthed and daddy didn't reward my bad behavior
It also means she decided to become a feminist and be rebellious.
😳 Wow.
So even if a guy wants to be a great dad he’s fighting against a diseased mindset that tells these chicks that they are oppressed.
The guy was an effin drug dealer. I’m guessing common sense and integrity were missing from the equation. Cut her some slack. I’m sure you’re all perfect 🤡🙄
All it means is, she put a quarter on the CC. And daddy didn't try to stop her
@@RioGirl16typical feminist comment
Im 41 now, i have an older sister, she stated "a women needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" back when i was 12. That was what 1994-1996?? Shes has 3 kids from 2 different men and is divorced and miserable.
good... sorry for the kids tho
Ha ha…
Serves her right
Self inflicted 100%
If you let women talk long enough they’ll always tell on themselves.
every single time
They’re used to chatting with and telling their girlfriends all these things, where they get the attention and validation from for their current poor behavior
I agree. Best thing about redpill/Manosphere advice it helps you identify red flags when they talk.
😂😂😂💯
The beauty and horror of the internet is that it has allowed women to show us who they really are.
No surprise that most men don't want to get married anymore.
I’m 43 and although I think a life partner would be great I’ve flat out told many friends and family i am NEVER signing that piece of paper - there is ZERO benefit to it today.
Not really though. People who appear on these platforms are selected for dysfunction to gather clicks. It's also the business model of F@ Fit.
the internet is a very skewed representation of life
Sure, not all snakes are bad, but the ones with rattles, hoods, and certain stripes are-- and that's what social media is to women: the warning to us men.
Or anything to do with women.
Just another spoiled grown up kid at 33, who has adapted the victim identity, blaming the whole world for her own problems.
Seems like we’re having more of those now
In my early 20’s I dated a girl for 3.5 years who had daddy issues. I was naive in thinking I can change her mind on men… in reality she just wanted another guy to blame for her problems in life. Stay far away from these girls, they have serious self work to do.
@@jose123mx i agree
Happens to the best of us, it's tough to walk away if the girl is smoking hot.
No accountability
@@bassw1758 mine was hot and toxic
How bad are these Red Flag? I dated a girl for 9 months who had Daddy Issues. Her father was an alcoholic & died when she was young. She was raised by a single mom. The relationship with her was full of drama & toxicity. These are the Red Flags I identified.
01. High Body Count, 12 bodies by the age 24
02. History of taking Anti Depressant's
03. Dates only much older men
04. Previous relationship to me, was also Toxic
05. Prefers to keep lots of Male Friends
06. Has a combative attitude, doesn't like a man telling her what to do
07. Challenges a mans boundaries
08. Has several large tattoos
09. Has female friends who are low quality
10. Drinks alcohol, history of going to clubs/bars
11. Doesn't communicate like an adult, and is immature
12. Was disrespectful to me on several occasions
13. Was addicted to Social Media, Tik Tok, Facebook, Instagram, then damn lot.
I walked away dumped her after 9 months, it was chaos
Holy shit man - your list is spot on now that I think about it..
@@gnarlytothemax Yeh these Red Flags she had, are without a doubt related to a girl who lacked discipline from a strong father
Too much months in this situation with me maybe 2 or 3 is enough!!!
You think high body count is 12😂 you should try the UK where every girl in her early 20s is on atleast 30 guys
You can triple that body count... they will never tell you the real number
Its not a dad's job to be nice to his daughter. His job is to prepare her for a cruel and unforgiving world that is the complete opposite of the disney fairytale these muppets grow up believing it is. FFS, these 304s expect their own fathers to be simps now too. Theres no hope.
Ironically, they actually hate simps, but they like claiming that to not be the case.
@@st0a They love the validation simps give them. Fills them with enough confidence to go chase Chad and Pookie.
Buddy , YOU ARE SPOT ON! I was saying this to my ex wife twenty five years ago. We had three daughters and she was always saying I was too hard on them. Always undermined my discipline and ridiculed me to them behind my back. Now divorced for 13 years my daughters 26 , 20 . and 18 , no longer speak to me except for the occasional long text berating me for the same shit their mother did years ago. Just like a Maoist struggle session. I won't simp for any broad including them.
@@hamilcarbarca8659 Damn bro thats absolutely brutal. F'n jezebel destroyed your family. Unforgivable.
In other words, she didn't want to listen to anything her dad had to say, he realized it, he was tired of it and decided to save his energy.
I’m
Not sure. I don’t think this is the same but my mother and I relationship changed when I could form my own opinions and saw her gaslighting. I don’t think parents should brainwash their children. My mother would have me repeat to her that “I will take care of mommy and never leave,” and my dreams of being a navy seal are “fucked up and I’m fucked up.”
I get her story with her dad.
They spend their lives throwing themselves at the kind of guy their dad told them to avoid out of spite.
Which is kinda like cutting off your nose to spite your face...
Right? Lets ignore dad out of spite but then prove him 100% right and ruin our own life in the process. Brilliant.
Women just don't seem to understand what revenge or proving a point really means. Another example is a broad who gets "revenge" on her bf for cheating by letting guys run a train on her or sleeping with his friend. Yeah, that'll show him. By all means, get those rookie body count numbers and therapy bills up.
@@cygnusprime6728
They don't understand vindication because they don't understand *points* for the most part.
How can you be proven right when you didn't actually have anything coherent to say?
I said spite, and I chose my word carefully.
Just looking at her appearance says it all tbh.
I can tell you all what a woman with Daddy issues look like at age 45;
- 2 kids from 2 diffrent dads
- not a single relationship longer than 4 years
- allot of tattoos, big and small
- working in the “healthcare” branch
- her parents split up.
- sexual abuse trauma
- abandonment issues
- attention and validation seeking
- shift blaming
- always wants her way
- when drunk speaks the truth
- acts in such way that after 4 years you don’t want to live (with her )anymore
Edit: also gotto mention; never married. And was pushing it
100%.
Do not get involved even in the slightest way with these women.
Ever.
At all.
I hope you walked away from that train wreck
So if you’re 40m and single what do you do?
@@AlexRocks80s80s date younger!
Get your shit together.
Rich has a video about this somewhere
“The six six”es” / 6 sixes idk.
You should find it.
@@AlexRocks80s80s you date younger.
You should have learned that from this channel
I called of the wedding with a girl who have severe daddy issues In the last month of 2022 *my wedding was in 3 months*
And I swear to god 2023 was my year 🥰
Any hair colouring except highlights, tattoos or piercings - don’t touch for more than ten minutes. Ten minutes means you can get your job done at least twice .
Yeah, don't screw crazy.
Truth I’m a hair dresser
men dont have the pants in the family anymore.
I live in woke Melbourne Australia where men have zero authority in the household. There was a case here where the father disciplined his son, the mother reported him to the police. He was charged and prosecuted, fast forward some months he was allowed to move back into the home after begging for forgiveness. He sleeps in a separate room, no sex, no authority and now just a money pig. His status in the house is lower than the pet dog.
A weblink or a citation would be helpful
@@annarboriter I heard it on the radio.
Because he allows it.
@@jabba0975 he is truly pathetic, he should've just walkead away and kept his dignity.
She reminds me of my 1976 Alfa Romeo Spider Veloce 189,000 miles 2 blown engines every inch worked on with body hammers n fillers . Still roars like wild beast .
That Alfa is more reliable.
Responsibility without Authority. Sums it all up.
Rich you are correct; the breakdown of the family.
External forces (government, etc.) cannot repair the internal damage.
I feel terrible for all the children whose parents made terrible decisions, voluntarily (cheating on, abusing spouse, abusing children) or involuntarily (the recipient of the spouses treatment, both verbal and physical). People make terrible decisions everyday, but most of them do not have such tremendous and generational repercussions.
Glad your talking about this stuff. Women with Daddy issues in USA running rampant and for three generations.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do I reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white, and she is a great spiritual counsellor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
What you Miss is the Charakter in your head Not the reality of Who she truly is. Paralyzing but it gets better
33, SHE LOOKS CLOSER TO 53.
Its cuz of lack of attention
I raise the daughter and she was at Daddy's girl until she basically started doing things behind my back when I would go to my youngest child's baseball practice and she was like 16 or 17 calling other boys having boys even come over when I wasn't there. Then when I found out about it I didn't even get really angry I just told her how dangerous that was and for the years from her being 16 up to about 20 she acted like I was the most terrible dad ever. She's came back to her senses now she has a baby and she's 27 but for several years I was a terrible Dad when she became a teenager I guess because I had somewhat rules and I didn't just allow her to go completely wild.
He didn't stop being present. She stopped listening. There's nothing he can do with that. His job wasn't to be nice. His job was to be Dad.
But the problem is when dae leaves how could he leave his own family.
@@vitkomusic6624easy lmao i would leave as soon i find out its a girl
More red flags than a Chinese communist parade was classic and hysterical. 😂
As much as they stare into mirrors you’d think they’d eventually see themselves and who they are
I know a girl similar to this. Her parents are still together but her dad didn’t give her the ‘love and attention’ she felt she deserved. She now seeks validation from men in excessive promiscuity. It’s sad to see because she had a lot of potential. The red flags are so often directly related to this issue.
If her dad was a drug dealer why would she respect him or her mother?
Lol...I'd say is more about "Mommy Issues"...The father of this one girl I dated was always doing everything for her, very supportive etc...Parents were Divorced, she grew up with her mom, mainly...as it turns out, after we broke up she got a new boyfriend right away, the guy was everything she "wanted" A Psychologist, talked to her about everything, was "kind" ..."respected her"...he was very into working out, did the Iron Man every year...extremely fit...but, could not deliver...So, she would go back to her "ex" (yours truly) to get her fix, and she said her mom, after she talked to her...told her "it is ok to get what you need from one and another" 😳🤣...in a few words, that she could keep me around to scratch that itch I could only reach...and, stay in that relationship with her bf because he was the one giving her the "emotional attention she wanted" 🤦...So, ya...it is "mommy issues" more likely than not...Girls talk to their moms about everything, not their dads...They learn how to hear the truth and interpret it as "verbal abuse" from the mom...that and all that bs that to us guys is the right thing to do, to be completely honest...but to women is being a complete a'hole...🥴 Whatever, I rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am NOT...Best way to stay single btw 😎 no regrets!
most women today expect men to have all responsibleity and no authority.
Richard, I really appreciate your worldly views
Thanks for taking the time to making these clips as it helps me and many others to see things properly.
Saw this complete episode. That woman is completely bonkers - completely disconnected from Reality. There's really profound mental illness there - multiple severe pathologies. Frightening.
This is as good as it's going to get for her. She will spend the rest of her life in poverty.😮
EVERY, SINGLE, PERSON Mark interviews on his channel has had either no father or a poor quality father!!!
To be fair, it doesn't sound like her parents were the best. Sometimes we are. A product of our environment.
Those of us who are self-aware and getting help don't deserve to be judged by our bad parenting.
Could have sworn I saw you in a Sushi bar in Nebraska yesterday.
Did a triple take and was like “nah that can’t be Rich”, lol
I dated a girl in my mid twenties who had these issues. It was brutal. Very promiscuous past, couldn’t trust her, and had a weird moral compass. I couldn’t fix her and when you try to fix broken people…you get cut.
My siblings and I hated out authoratitive Dad. Thank fek I we had him - diolch Dad!
So I’m a conservative stay at home mom, but I just wanted to clarify that they don’t drill a hole in your ear. It’s years of slow stretching to achieve it.
And She is SO proud of Herself🤦♂️
Been married 50 years had a good relation with my daughter . Now she never talks to me . But she is always talks to her mother . What I am trying to say farther gets a raw deal . Never hit her took her swimming and other things
LOL Rich, I was going to email you to speak about this topic.
She doesn't know it yet, but she belongs to the Streets and it is her own Doing.
I think about the daughter of Dr. Peterson. She has a lot of red flags. But is it his fault mostly or the age we're living in?
Glad I am not alone in that regard, she is a Chinese marching band in my book.
always stay w/in 1.25x speed
so you dont sound too slow
if we keep it listenable
Those kids won't have issues will they jeeeesus christ😇🙏❤️
She looks like she's in her 50's!
yes..she is a junkee. she should try E-meth
It’s hilarious how everyone is defending the father who clearly had some integrity and ethical issues, yet did his best to raise a perfect daughter. Right 🙄 I’m not saying she’s not a bag of issues but living through traumatic events thanks to your parent’s complete lack of judgment is going to leave a mark. That doesn’t make you worthless as a person. Few people had the perfect child/parent relationship but if you’re willing to learn from your mistakes and those of your family’s, you might become a better person for it. Let us not forget that at least 3 men were attracted to this bag of issues. Clearly she’s not the only damaged one
The majority of MEN don’t want the RESPONSIBILITY of what it means to truly be a DAD! This isn’t just women who don’t have dads in their lives growing up. This is men. I see this everywhere I have dated four men who grew up with no dad. As someone who decided to get on a dating app of course you get multiple matches. I’ve recently talked with three people and each of them did not grow up with their dad. I highly caution people in this comment section and you who made this video probably won’t see this that this is not just a woman problem. I can tell you right now I grew up with my dad and he was severely ab*sive, I don’t need to go into detail and yes that created trauma and normally when trauma happens for an extended period of time you get complex PTSD. I asked people if you know someone that grew up without a father or a mother either gender because this happens not just with women so stop pointing the finger at women all the time and you see patterns that aren’t healthy. Maybe gently tell them that there might be something stemming from that behavior and go talk to a counselor and maybe get evaluated. I came back last year that I have complex PTSD and let me tell you working through that changing my brain pattern getting the counseling that I need has helped SO much!
@@seizuregirlllll You don’t the majority of men😂😂😂
It’s one expression I loath immensely, when women smile after saying something serious, especially news readers.
If a woman has an emotional incest with her dad she won't be able to connect emotionally with a partner in her adult life. These may lead to very different patterns:
1.
She becomes a femme libertine and at the end of the day always reduce relationships to flings.
2.
She becomes very conservative at the outside under the pretense of looking for the one partner for all her live which translates into her relevant other should be the replacement for her dad. Sooner or later she'll find out that her partner is an individual of his own right, start hating him for that and finally opt out of the relationship.
So, at the end of the day it comes down to the same failure. These women just won't be able to establish lasting emotional bonds with a partner - because the bond already the wrong way exists to her dad. As soon as these women realize they are getting into an emotional bond with someone else they get a bad feeling. Her subconciousness despises that she is about to betray the love of her life, which is dad, with another guy. She may rationalize that negative feeling in any given way. And she won't be aware of the mechanism behind it. She wouldn't be able to explain why. All the reasons are made up. But not so much that she is intentionally lying, but she really doesn't know any better.
Bro, nailed it. Straight up.
Explain "emotional incest" I don't get what you're saying, or the context? Was the relationship supposed to be good or bad with her father?
@@Longlostpuss Emotional incest is when a parent forces his or her emotional needs on the child that normally would be addressed at an adult person.
@@sod172 Ha, that would be my mother in that case.
Thanks for that, I'd never heard that term used before, but I had heard of the Husband Son complex, which pretty much amounts to the same thing.
If you're an only child to a screwed up single mother, you've basically had it. Worst if you are the spitting image of your father and she has resentment towards him.
@@Longlostpuss It's also quite frequent that in a marriage the husband is emotionally detached from the wife because of too much infighting or whatever. The couple lives apart together and that's when the wife picks the only child for emotional comfort.
MY EX had the worst daddy issues. I will never make that mistake again.
Can you explain what she did
Maybe have some compassion for her, and that the trauma from your childhood can really shape a lot of your life and that maybe it’s best for her to go seek some help for that kind of damage that she went through. I think people need to lead more with compassion instead of judgment no kid asked to be raised in a dysfunctional home.
I had no problem attracting women, all my life. But..... still had failed relationship after failed relationship. I get it now. it was at least 51% my fault.
But it's shit like this that jumps me right over (edit)red pill into black pill!
Incorrect.
Women are Biologically Programmed to Leave Men.
All da Women U were with were Programmed 2 Leave U from Day1.
Don’t. Most guys recognize someone like this pretty quickly..as long as they aren’t blinded by beauty or sex.
The give away is the fact that there is an emotional disconnect. She talks about all the horrible things she’s done and others have done to her with that nauseating perkiness….
That’s a huge sign of bad wiring…
Same here… there was a steady stream of women in my life .. however I was guilty of not testing them in innocuous ways .. like saying no to some request if theirs JUST to see their reaction to my no. Remarkable results when one tries it
Inevitably they all failed but most of the time, but not all, I did the dumping as certain intolerable behaviors showed up .. just like the man said .. let them talk and just listen .. in all the women I dated, I can identify only ONE that never put me thru poor behavior on their part … ONE .. I dated a very professional woman cop .. very attractive .. not the precinct thot .. those don’t get promoted ever …2 years on she stepped all over my boundaries at her party in front of all these other cops off duty .. I dumped her the next day and there was going to be no discussion about it .. I ended up stalked for the next 8 months .. so f’g weird but that’s what happened
Daddy issues is not an excuse to be a terrible person.
About if you're a man with father issues does that make you a bad person? I wanna better relationship with my father but he's double standard about everything he loves my sister more than he does me. He also secretly records my every conversation I have with family or friends.
Rebelling against your dad the drug dealer isn't always a bad thing. She apparently had no positive male role model
Every girl i know coming from this 2 scenarios, has daddy issues for different reasons:
- mother is the boss and hates her father for not opposing her craziness. Daughter grows up treating all men as she saw in her family
- father is an alchoolic and possesive, daughter grows up searching for her father in other men.
I”m sure there are a lot of people who overcome this or had the power to searxh for the opposite.
But my guess from what i”ve seen in my life and also beeing atractted to it because i had savior complex, there are 2 many broken people in this world.
Lets clear on thing! If a woman dates a guy with at least 10 years age gap she has daddy issues. She could get the same age guy why she wont go for that? You say money… there are rich young guys as well. Alpha males, you are old, if you want a young girl you can get one, but she will have daddy issues🤷🏻♂️
You can definitely roughly infer their notch counts from social media! It's just common sense when you look at their lifestyles
Due to the egoistic approach, all long-term plans always have a negative outcome. For this reason, they are not able to make good long-term decisions, which can be measured in all areas. They are their own worst enemy.
These women's are crazy. 3 baby daddy's tells you there's is something wrong with society. 100%
I've got two basket case daughter in laws like this. Both of divorced parents
3 baby daddies w 2 kids 😂😂😂 wayyy too funny😂😂😂
What I know ..I wish I had known back then!
Your use of the the word ‘trail’ recalls those trains 🚂 pulled by promiscuous girls back in the day. I’m richer for it.
I grew up near Griffith Indiana
RICH, how do we raise our daughters to be virtuous and feminine in this day and age
I see a lot about dating but I don’t see much about maintaining a good family home environment. My dad was a good dad overall, but completely abusive and over the top in his anger and disciplinarian ways. Almost sadistic…
It couldn't be if her mom was narcisist. That explains everything. Also moms conditions daughters that don't listen yo daddy he is talking nonsense. Diminishing causes this. Then daughter thinks its dad's fault when actually its moms gasliting.
My fix is simply. Jesus Christ and Bible.
Red flags you say...........................holy shit!
1.5 speed doesn’t set well with me.
I was at a bar today. I had 4 women fight for my attention.
You think any of these men out here super soaking the neighborhood, with four, five kids by two, three, four different women has anything to do with all of these red flag women?
That thumbnail, hahahahaha
Putting Misbehaving Women in a Time Out is Good.
I hate householt-stuff bu I genuinely like gardening, driving, and making a lot of love - with super beautiful young teenage gils, etc etc - plus super-efficient and funny fatherhood skills. Do not try to to hurt me who programmed me.
If their daddy abandoned them when they were little girls, they become narcissists. I made the eternal mistake of marrying one.
She dont look 33. She looks like 73. This lady certainly proves the quote of men age like fine wine, while women age like moldy bread 😂😂😂 especially with all that piercings etc
Whatever issues the parents have fet passed down to the next generation if they arent dealt with
What if the woman’s father passed away when she was a kid? Do daddy issues still apply? Just curious.
Yes definitely
The mother energized the problem
She is the kind of wahmen you would want to take home and show mommy. And mommy would say ,I thought I told you to take out the trash.
A Red Flag 🚩 MegaCenter
The problem is complicated
Guys creating problems for themselves by dealing with such a women.
Could you honestly believe that this chick at 15 smoking weed, drinking alcohol, doing drugs, breaking the law, would not have a notch count in the hundreds lol?
She was getting spit roasted starting at about 16.
Just reading the headline, they turn into 304s.
In the psych world or AA it's called telling war stories, she's enjoying it due to the attention she's getting.
Your "shut up" or "shut up and listen" makes me feel more masculine.
A Red flag is a Green light
The topic is of interest but the 1.5x speed of the interview was insufferable. So I bailed out early in the broadcast and went to watch the actual interview.
They become single moms who love jailbirds
Smart men don't get married.
Exactly
Poor wretched thing. Just ghastly. How old did she say she was, 33? Only 44 more years and your nightmare will finally be over, honey. Unless the booze takes you out sooner ❤
Check out the movie "Thirteen".. 💥😬
Omg, what a train wreck! Who in there f’n right mind would introduce this chick into their life?
They turn into Whamen
She looks 45, when shes supposed to be early 30s.