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I am currently reading your book "the unplugged alpha" after going through the worst breakup of my life with a single mom of one. I personally don't have kids off my own but boy ooh boy i was a soy man. Everything you've described in that book is her. Thank you Richard Cooper. You're a gift to many men. I urge many men to find your channel and read your book.
Welcome to the club, my man))) read also: “Predatory female”, “Manipulated man” by Ether Villar and of course “The rational male” by Rollo Tomassi. Those books will peel your eyeballs even more. Especially the manipulated man. Published in 1972! Ether tried to red pill men back then!
@@georgehudson4961 cold only if you're seeking validation from women. Once you turn around the table, everything changes yet stays the same. Dynamics change. However, I have to confess... once eyes are open, you wont forget what you see and having family, co-habitating with women become wasting time. You start doing sports, visit interesting places, change jobs, invest money in yourself. You're not alone, there are many guys like us.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient...
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
😂, i was working on my car, and the GF was cooking Kobe beef burgers on the grill...she throws the patties on, and walks back in the house...soon the patties catch fire, and the whole grill was in a 4 alarm fire...i shut the grill down and go inside and ask WTF shes doing, she escalated and held up her I phone and said..."I GOT A TIMER"...OK i said, i go back to work on my car, minutes later the grill is on fire again...i continue to work on my car...needless to say, we had Pizza that night.
If you tolerate that behavior, actually you show us that you do-past and present, you’re screwed. She was a red flag way before you met her. Pretty sure that this is not an isolated incident. She is oozing disrespect/contempt…Children?
Got me f*cked up. I remember my ex would hover over me while I was putting something together/building. And she’d be over my shoulder “you sure it goes in that way?” Or “ lemme call my brother or dad to go over this to make sure it’s right” told her to kick rocks and build it yourself. Once a woman starts doing this, rich is right, it’s over. She doesn’t believe in your abilities and that will over turn into disrespect over time
My husband is great at building working with steel and wood, so yes we work "together" on home improvements. The truth is that I may have some good ideas, but they are not always practical, so he decides at the end. And, so when people ask about the latest work we did, I tell them I helped, but that means my husband did it all and I added to his troubles by wanting to take part. An older lady told me that women are whimsical and should focus on being a happy loyal companions.
Cigars! OMG! that reminds back in the 90's I was good friends with a former Miss Montana who always had every male's attention no matter where we went. One day we're out of town at a car sales convention and I see a cigar in the window of the hotel where the conference is held and I say I want one! She turns to a random salesman at the convention obviously eyeing her. She says "Buy me a cigar!" and he ran in bought it for her, she thanked him, he lit it for her, she puffed off it, thanked him again, and handed it to me and we walked away....The look in his poor eyes....30 years later and I'm just starting to piece together these events kind of bolstering the whole red pill thing...
The only example i can add to this. And this is an old school example. So take from it what you can, in todays world. Some things DONT change. I am African American (black) ancestry. My grandparents owned the first black owned franchise of the Greyhound Bus company in Texas. During the late 50's-early 60's. Because of racism, the bus drivers would not stop in front of a black owned business, to pickup the customers. My grandmother (very small woman, smart, and tough). Told my grandfather, you stay here, and im going to tell the bus drivers, to stop in front of our business. Because if you do it, you could be lynched. But being a woman, i can get away with it. My father told me this story, i don't know what she said to them. But they never did it again. My grandmother being as smart as she was. Knew there were certain times. When a woman had to do something. And it was smarter for him not to. And my grandfather knew it. This is the teamwork that used to exist. They were married for close to 80 years. And I love them.
I totally agree with you. I think the reason they try to tell us how to do stuff is they just want to be a part of what your doing. Problem is they don't realize they are disrespectful. It's not what you say it's how you say it. There is no perfect woman. If there is she probably won't pick me, so in every relationship there is always going to be something. If you want to be with someone there's going to be good and bad. That's why good conversation is important.
@@zigazdovc6175 the new of the weird serial had to retire the news stories of women with over 50 cats because it had become common and was no longer weird.
@@zigazdovc6175 Men don't hoard cats and typically take better care of their living space if they do have a cat. I've never known a man with a cat (of which there are rather few) who's home smelled like three weeks worth of cat poop and urine. You can often tell when a woman has a cat 20 feet away from her door, just by the stink. Finally, it's not about the cats, it's about the batshit crazy women who have them. It's a stereotype for good reason.
This. Almost every woman I knew during my years at uni who lived in dorms had absolutely filthy rooms. The only one that didn't her dad was a NCO in my future regiment.
We were putting antifreeze in my dad's second wife's car radiator for the winter and she took the cars manual out and said it said to put ethelen glycol in the radiator. I knew they were the same so I said have your other man come do it and she left. So I told my girlfriend about this and she told me if someone falsely accused her of that she would call them a liar so it must be true
Never do what a woman tells you - for that is the start of the end. If you are in a relationship it is supposed to be "equal" she does not tell you what to do. Personally - I have avoided relationships, it's a lot easier and no stress. I have not missed out on s*xual relationships - just I have avoided intentionally long term relationships.
as a person who is aware of the BS current women are throwing at us all the time, but willing to create a family, what kind of choice do we have, than to ignore her BS for as long as possible?
"An incompetent moron" Rich? Most women think their husbands are incompetent morons so that isn't really valid. I have experienced, seen and heard, women boss around men who were above them on the SMV, made hundreds of thousands of $ per year, have high IQ's and can fix almost anything domestically speaking called "idiots" because the wife wasn't happy with the job the guy did.
If you're a single woman you're automatically not a queen. You have to be married to a King to qualify as a queen but in this day and age to qualify as a king you need to own your own home and not the bank, you need to have a business and a network to claim having a castle and a kingdom otherwise we are all just commoners
For catfish girls, instead of asking just for a full body picture I say “how do I know you’re not missing a leg? Send a picture standing up. And that usually works instead of just asking for the full body because they think I’m pervy. Yet if men hid their height or income, they would be outraged.
It’s a metaphor for the man’s “life”. Think about the perimeter of control you have in your life, job, self, family, goals. When a woman enters “your frame” she is prioritizing your life , not hers. When you enter a “woman’s frame” , you are giving up your autonomy to enhance and support her life and goals and desires, not your own.
They are right, but I will add to it. For me it is a broad term. Think of your frame as your own military doctrine or rules of engagement that you have. Or your sports strategy like how a football team has an identity running & defense, or a throwing team etc. You don't change your strategy because she thinks you should.
@@mikebender7434you should only ever be in on other persons frame in your life,your father when you are a boy after that you got to be in your own frame
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Too many women think their role is to correct or admonish you. Bye Felecia.
They say “a man is a head, but a woman is a neck. She moves the head”
the only time my x spoke was to complain about my "behavior"
I am currently reading your book "the unplugged alpha" after going through the worst breakup of my life with a single mom of one. I personally don't have kids off my own but boy ooh boy i was a soy man. Everything you've described in that book is her. Thank you Richard Cooper. You're a gift to many men. I urge many men to find your channel and read your book.
I remember being this way , I read his book about 4 years ago. Changed my life along with many other content creators. Welcome to the club king 🫡
Welcome to the club, my man))) read also: “Predatory female”, “Manipulated man” by Ether Villar and of course “The rational male” by Rollo Tomassi. Those books will peel your eyeballs even more. Especially the manipulated man. Published in 1972! Ether tried to red pill men back then!
@@Urbancorax2 never read the other one before. Def checking it out
@Urbancorax2 thank you man. I will search for it. Is a cold world for men
@@georgehudson4961 cold only if you're seeking validation from women. Once you turn around the table, everything changes yet stays the same. Dynamics change. However, I have to confess... once eyes are open, you wont forget what you see and having family, co-habitating with women become wasting time. You start doing sports, visit interesting places, change jobs, invest money in yourself. You're not alone, there are many guys like us.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient...
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
Absolutely. You got that right.
😂, i was working on my car, and the GF was cooking Kobe beef burgers on the grill...she throws the patties on, and walks back in the house...soon the patties catch fire, and the whole grill was in a 4 alarm fire...i shut the grill down and go inside and ask WTF shes doing, she escalated and held up her I phone and said..."I GOT A TIMER"...OK i said, i go back to work on my car, minutes later the grill is on fire again...i continue to work on my car...needless to say, we had Pizza that night.
The damn timer 🙄
You didn’t lead that situation though
@@KingLouisDaSaint that's correct, no woman tells me how to work on my cars!
@@duanedahl8856😂😂😂Brilliant
If you tolerate that behavior, actually you show us that you do-past and present, you’re screwed. She was a red flag way before you met her. Pretty sure that this is not an isolated incident. She is oozing disrespect/contempt…Children?
Got me f*cked up. I remember my ex would hover over me while I was putting something together/building. And she’d be over my shoulder “you sure it goes in that way?” Or “ lemme call my brother or dad to go over this to make sure it’s right” told her to kick rocks and build it yourself. Once a woman starts doing this, rich is right, it’s over. She doesn’t believe in your abilities and that will over turn into disrespect over time
My husband is great at building working with steel and wood, so yes we work "together" on home improvements. The truth is that I may have some good ideas, but they are not always practical, so he decides at the end. And, so when people ask about the latest work we did, I tell them I helped, but that means my husband did it all and I added to his troubles by wanting to take part. An older lady told me that women are whimsical and should focus on being a happy loyal companions.
I have never found a woman that agreed with how I did anything. They always say someone else does it this way. Total BS from women as usual.
Cigars! OMG! that reminds back in the 90's I was good friends with a former Miss Montana who always had every male's attention no matter where we went. One day we're out of town at a car sales convention and I see a cigar in the window of the hotel where the conference is held and I say I want one! She turns to a random salesman at the convention obviously eyeing her. She says "Buy me a cigar!" and he ran in bought it for her, she thanked him, he lit it for her, she puffed off it, thanked him again, and handed it to me and we walked away....The look in his poor eyes....30 years later and I'm just starting to piece together these events kind of bolstering the whole red pill thing...
Simps
Wallpaper
The only example i can add to this. And this is an old school example. So take from it what you can, in todays world. Some things DONT change.
I am African American (black) ancestry. My grandparents owned the first black owned franchise of the Greyhound Bus company in Texas. During the late 50's-early 60's. Because of racism, the bus drivers would not stop in front of a black owned business, to pickup the customers.
My grandmother (very small woman, smart, and tough). Told my grandfather, you stay here, and im going to tell the bus drivers, to stop in front of our business. Because if you do it, you could be lynched. But being a woman, i can get away with it. My father told me this story, i don't know what she said to them. But they never did it again.
My grandmother being as smart as she was. Knew there were certain times. When a woman had to do something. And it was smarter for him not to. And my grandfather knew it. This is the teamwork that used to exist. They were married for close to 80 years. And I love them.
I totally agree with you. I think the reason they try to tell us how to do stuff is they just want to be a part of what your doing. Problem is they don't realize they are disrespectful. It's not what you say it's how you say it. There is no perfect woman. If there is she probably won't pick me, so in every relationship there is always going to be something. If you want to be with someone there's going to be good and bad. That's why good conversation is important.
They want to establish how much control they have over you
Many women's HOMES are disgusting as well, you just need to get closer to the bedroom and the bathroom (which will stink of her cat's litter box).
Beware the ones who have a fridge in the bedroom… there will be roaches n other bugs… got enuf horror stories
They let these animals destroy their house.
What is this community obsession with hating cats? You do realize men can have cats too?
@@zigazdovc6175 the new of the weird serial had to retire the news stories of women with over 50 cats because it had become common and was no longer weird.
@@zigazdovc6175 Men don't hoard cats and typically take better care of their living space if they do have a cat. I've never known a man with a cat (of which there are rather few) who's home smelled like three weeks worth of cat poop and urine. You can often tell when a woman has a cat 20 feet away from her door, just by the stink.
Finally, it's not about the cats, it's about the batshit crazy women who have them. It's a stereotype for good reason.
My ex's car was always a mess and her house was most of the time.
I lived with female housemates before. Their rooms are dirty/disorganized and some even outright disgusting. Don’t fall into their “window dressing”.
This. Almost every woman I knew during my years at uni who lived in dorms had absolutely filthy rooms. The only one that didn't her dad was a NCO in my future regiment.
How they act in normal activities is a reflection of how they will act when shit hits the fan.
If a chick has an attitude like she's royalty it's the men who treated them like royalty that are responsible. Stop treating them like princesses.
We were putting antifreeze in my dad's second wife's car radiator for the winter and she took the cars manual out and said it said to put ethelen glycol in the radiator. I knew they were the same so I said have your other man come do it and she left. So I told my girlfriend about this and she told me if someone falsely accused her of that she would call them a liar so it must be true
100 percent Rich
All modern women want the last word
I don't let ANY woman tell me how to do ANYTHING.
Never do what a woman tells you - for that is the start of the end. If you are in a relationship it is supposed to be "equal" she does not tell you what to do.
Personally - I have avoided relationships, it's a lot easier and no stress. I have not missed out on s*xual relationships - just I have avoided intentionally long term relationships.
as a person who is aware of the BS current women are throwing at us all the time, but willing to create a family, what kind of choice do we have, than to ignore her BS for as long as possible?
"An incompetent moron" Rich? Most women think their husbands are incompetent morons so that isn't really valid. I have experienced, seen and heard, women boss around men who were above them on the SMV, made hundreds of thousands of $ per year, have high IQ's and can fix almost anything domestically speaking called "idiots" because the wife wasn't happy with the job the guy did.
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9:55 LMAO!!!
If you're a single woman you're automatically not a queen. You have to be married to a King to qualify as a queen but in this day and age to qualify as a king you need to own your own home and not the bank, you need to have a business and a network to claim having a castle and a kingdom otherwise we are all just commoners
For catfish girls, instead of asking just for a full body picture I say “how do I know you’re not missing a leg? Send a picture standing up. And that usually works instead of just asking for the full body because they think I’m pervy. Yet if men hid their height or income, they would be outraged.
What would happen if Becky from HR and Mike from Sales hooked up? It would cause a tear in the fabric of spacetime. 💥😂
Happens all the time at Christmas work parties. Iykyk 😏😂
Let’s be honest, if the your woman is telling you what to do she doesn’t trust you can lead. She’s got you on a leash.
The one about tobacco was ‘Chewing tobacco on her teeth. True story.’
Dinosaurs have big bones
People who do that haven’t figured out that THEY are the incompetent moron. Yeah, I’m look at you ex
o i kno this one
pay day
sometimes the day before
Rich, or anyone, what is meant by "Frame"?
I'm not grasping it.
It’s a metaphor for the man’s “life”. Think about the perimeter of control you have in your life, job, self, family, goals. When a woman enters “your frame” she is prioritizing your life , not hers. When you enter a “woman’s frame” , you are giving up your autonomy to enhance and support her life and goals and desires, not your own.
frame basically means ur ''focus on your own life'', and what is important to you. Plain and simple :).
Or “your world”. Even easier lol.
They are right, but I will add to it. For me it is a broad term. Think of your frame as your own military doctrine or rules of engagement that you have. Or your sports strategy like how a football team has an identity running & defense, or a throwing team etc. You don't change your strategy because she thinks you should.
@@mikebender7434you should only ever be in on other persons frame in your life,your father when you are a boy after that you got to be in your own frame
Stone Cold Stunner will fix it
Stop the simp behavior. I see this so much it's pathetic.
It is not as much fun to tell men at home what to do but WORKING FOR THE 3 LETTER AGENCIES IS 😎 .
Simple!! All the time!!! I could have made a 3 second video.
A MAN SHOULD ONLY BE TOLD WHAT TO DO BY A WIFE IS IF SHE IS OPRAH OR MELINDA GATES.
😂😂
Oprah is a male to female.
Nah, not even that.
whenever you "betas" listen.
I’ve date a chick that dipped Copenhagen briefly, very briefly.
Whose still wanting to shack up with women. Get your sax and move on. When are you all gonna learn....
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Who needs a wrench for a tire when you have a breaker bar 😏 and then in 75 Mi or more it's time to break out the torque wrench😂
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