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@@jayviktor6130 I have a coworker of mine going through that very situation right now. He got the house and property but his ex took the kids halfway across the country away from him and is now living with an abusive boyfriend who puts his hands on his kids. Absolutely nothing he can do about either. So sad.
Yes sir.. we both made almost 6 figures together 11 years ago I filed after affairs drugs drunkenness and craziness.. payed her way through college and 95% of the bills in our marriage... divorced her Lost half my income and was living so much BETTER on every LEVEL !! True facts here 💯%
@@sdmfp333Bro, they put on an act, they're on their best behavior to get commitment then a good percentage of them flip the script and show their true colors.
sleeping as much as you want, spending money without worrying about getting yelled at later, eating whatever you want, coming and going as you please, totally overrated bro haha
I’m telling you fam. I def can’t go back and won’t lol. I’m able todo what I want when I want with no women chirping In my ear about what we need todo lol
When you live with a woman, you literally bring a testing machine into your house, whose tests can cause you mental problems and continuous stresfful state
After 3 decades married (then divorced), it took me 1 additional decade to recover. It was the most focused, hardest recovery I've ever made. I'm now incredibly free and financially set. My work to get that way will not be wasted. To all my brothers out there....be well, live in peace.
I worked 8-5 for 15 years, no "me time" now I work fun job with irregular hours. Today is friday and I am alone at home :) Saturday while wife with kids at home I will be away all day :) I think this helps me a tone :)
never forget: self-delusion is their primary super power. they actually FULLY BELIEVE their own irrational gaslight most of the time. that's why their acting can be so convincing to the blue-pilled sucker.
From my experience having spent 41 years on this planet, and having girlfriends and dating since 7th grade, I have come to the conclusion that the ideal strategy for men in man/woman romantic relationships, is no cohabitation, no long-term monogamy, and absolutely no marriage. Hang out, have fun, hook up. That's it. As soon as the fun stops and drama starts, it's time to cut bait and move on. Anything more than that is recipe for disappointment at best, and a life ruining trap at worst.
@@-NFiN8- Well, good for you, bro. Regretfully I realised this much later. One thing is when you know about all this, quite another when you start experiencing it. There comes a realization that you can only invest in reciprocal relationships and nothing else. Also, the cohabitation spoils everything👍👍
Women reserve the right to change their mind at any time...I would add that men are expected to be resolute and keep their word forever. You'll be held to whatever you said regardless of how long ago or what has changed since then. She is not held to this standard.
100% true. I was going to leave the country and work abroad since she moved me out of the house. She said don’t leave. Long story short I brought this up a few months later she said don’t guilt me. I changed my mind.
A lot of women will file a false dv charges to kick the guy out the house and move in her new boyfriend all while he’s still paying the mortgage and all the bills. Ive seen this happen countless times.
its standard practice now. Its actually unusual when a woman doesn't do it. A victim mentally allows one to behave like a criminal and feel justified in doing so as well as the state supports her very bad behavior.
When I was married I never had any spare money no matter how much I worked. My divorcee wife and her kid just sucked it all up. She divorced me after a while. I didn't lose much. Went back to work and concentrated on me. My happiness. My involvement with women over the past few decades does not include anything emotional. I feel nothing for them. I know what they really are. So now I'm well off, retired at 46. I would not be here if I had wasted my feelings and time on women.
Dude that is incredibly inspiring. Thank you brother for sharing your story. Men, do not waste your energy via feelings or emotions with women. Do not get attached. They are ruthless. Recreational use only, or nothing at all. They will take advantage of every “yes” you give them. Stay in a state of sovereignty, men. It’s your life, your freedom, your money. Also, protect your wiener. Woman are dirty nowadays due to their body counts. Just rub one off at night if you need to, and focus ONLY ON YOU.
Honestly women's main utility, their only utility is sex. Any real companionship, any real company, any real communication you can get from hanging out with a friend.
"Yo dude, my girl's not like that". She's not like that...this second. She'll be a completely different person when she turns on you, and she WILL turn on you.
The biggest one is freedom. Or lack thereof. I like being able to go and leave when I please. Not have to check in with someone with where I’m going everytime I leave the house.
You're right. And when they change their mind, the guy is stuck with the bills. I've spent my whole life rebuilding, and now I'm sitting quite well. There's no way I will ever put myself in that situation again. The older you get, the harder it is to rebuild. " Once bitten, twice shy." Fool me once, shame you, fool me twice, shame me. Hopefully, if we can educate the future generation of men, we can turn the tables on this monopoly women have created for themselves.
for us older men and women, living together is not a necessity as we aint siring children. just enjoy time together and the time apart. don't bring complications to a relationship when you're 50+
I am in my 60s. I live alone. I see a few women when we can set it up. I make no promises and have no expectations. If she is away from me I don’t care what she does as long as it has no impact on my life. This type of lifestyle has been most agreeable for me when it comes to women.
In my experience as a guy over 50, even at that age most women want to change you (while they themselves are perfect of course). They just cant help themselves, even the better ones.
I never wanted to get married in the first place. All through my 20s I experienced seeing first hand how women cheat on there boyfriends and husband's with no guilt or remorse.
And divorce courts and guy friends and annoying single women friends in their ear and social media and feminism. It’s all ruined everything. It’s so annoying lol
I know a young man 23 years old who just purchased a home with a girl that has two kids from another guy. At the same time, I have an employee who is 35 years old, his wife asked him for a divorce on Christmas day. When he married her, she already had two kids with another guy, during the marriage they had 3 more kids. He was only gone from the house a couple days and she had updated her facebook page "In a relationship" yes she had his replacement already in the house just as soon as he was show the door. Now, he's learning the hard costs financially. On top of that, he found out in court that she's saying he was abusive etc, the typical stuff.
They almost always claim abuse now days. It helps them get everything they're asking for. When asked what the abuse was? It's always vague "he was controlling, verbally, and emotionally abusive". Stuff that can't be proven true or false but it makes the guy default unable to defend against.
@@DB57RB things are becoming very clear now yes the accusations are always vague wispy little things that have no more substance to them than a summer breeze.
Last serious relationship I was in ended shortly after her demanding that I move in with her. We'd been together two years'ish and she owned her home. As in the mortgage was cleared. She started dictating the terms of me moving in with her and she told me I had to give her 700 a month (this like 7/8 years ago so this money was worth more). I said but why don't I simply pay half whatever each months utilities bills are. Simple as. Because I knew they wouldnt be anywhere near at the time 700! No she said, it's 700. Then she added you're paying that out now on your lease so whatever you'd do you'd have to pay out, so just pay me. I could see in her eyes the wanting to make something out of me!!!! They're just selfish as truck. All of them.
I've raised my son red pilled. He's 21, and he's a monk. He understands our gynocentric culture and is aware of the corrupt family courts. He won't make the same mistake I did.
Dad of the year over here. My kid is only 9. Still a little early to shatter his world view and then build him back up. But I'm waiting patiently for the right time.
@@Shaolin91z The mistake was marrying his mother. He is the good thing from my marriage. I, like most young men wasn't born again at that stage of my life.
Treat women the way women treat men. Do what’s right for you, complain regularly demanding insignificant things. Women will understand this because it’s how they “think”😅. Reserve doing what’s right and other higher qualities for other men who understand this level of mentality
Living with a woman will suck more resources than dating 3 different women a week guaranteed I’ve crunched the numbers!! Giraffes a beautiful but do you really want to own one?
Crazy, isn't it? It's like when women talk about guys going overseas "Oh, you'll have to pay for her AND her family, too". My response is that "it's STILL cheaper than dealing with any one of you". I have a number of women I deal with in the Dom Republic. If I were to give them $200-$300 a month, they'd be over the freaking moon (I don't, but I wanted to make a point). You spend more if you have a committed woman in the States. Just going out to eat at somewhere decent once, plus doing something else fun will eat up way more than $300. Not to mention all the other shit you end up spending on.
@@funloverdavis1796 food dinner travel shopping holiday events valentines her birthday majority if not all of the bills etc and most of the time they don’t even want to sleep with you
That is why living below your means and expressing modest behavior, while at the same time, doing cool shit, is ALWAYS advantageous when meeting women. Frame has never been so important today.
Man u ain't never lie. The more money I make....the poorer I am when I meet women. I legit tell women I work low wage jobs just to scare off the gold diggers.....sadly I've found out that once they smell the truth...it's a wrap
Stories like this one make my blood boil. Because of the overwelming amount of such stories constantly being brought to light, I can't even see myself getting with a woman anymore. I can't stand them-or the systems so hell-bent on not only justifying and excusing women's horrible decisions and behaviors but aiding in their execution. Jesus Christ...
Just understand their nature and know that the one you'll meet; no she's not different. Keep your own place and have fun. You can have three if you want. Seeing it as a game instead of a necessity helps to keep a clear mind.
Once a man realizes how the game is played when it comes to women, it is easy to be bitter and angry. We have all been there. Now I don’t expect anything from her nor do I ever forget the thing that has saved me….I will never fully trust a woman simply out of survival. Indifference is now my best ally.
This reminds me of my brother in law that married his high school sweetheart. A rather handsome woman, not a head turner, but built very well and a pleasant personality. She had a good job at a bank and was doing well…… until he married her. Then…. Suddenly….. she had to quit her job, as it was too stressful for her. Her doctor commanded that she stay at home, and engage in relaxing hobbies to help her maintain. My brother in law agreed. And suffered over the next 22 years working like a dog to survive. As she stayed at home gardening, sewing, watching soap operas, and enjoying a few drinks everyday as, “therapy “. Poor bastard couldn’t take it anymore, and filed for divorce. She got everything, but….. he passed away, and she had to go back to work. And is still working today….. funny how that works. There is a lesson here gentlemen. Take note, least you become a slave with no life, no love, and no hope.
@@farmdaddy510 yes. But her contribution was on a low level. Compared to the fact he gave everything. I loved my brother in law, but he ended up dead at 48. He took a job as a prison guard because the state paid for it. But he was always scared of what went on there. Meanwhile she wa doing fine with her hobbies. Doesn’t seem fair. Today she works, because she had to….. good for her. But he is dead. It would have been better for him. If he had met and married someone who had an equal work ethic. Instead of a “ It’s the man’s job to earn the money, and the wife’s job to stay at home.” Attitude. Marriage is a partnership, not a servitude roll.
Jesus Christ man this is insane. I just think about my hard earned pension and the fact she can take half away from me. All those long hours. Weekend and holidays. Sweating.. No way man no way…
The number of Millionares that his wife was unsatisfied is larger: Michael Jordan, Tom Cruise x2, Nicolas Cage, Paul McCartney, Blake Shelton, Tiger Woods, Nick Cannon, Seal, Marc Anthony, Ben Affleck, Usher, Shanning Tatum, Tim Duncan, Deion Sanders, Tony Parker, Shaquille O'Neal , Alex Rodríguez, Mike Tyson, Jeff Gordon, Jason Kidd, Michael Jackson, Michael Strahan, Hulk Hogan, Elon Musk x2, Kanye West, Donald Trump x2, Sergey Brin, Jim Clark, Larry Elison, Ted Turner, Rupert Murdock
As Sun Tzu said, "all warfare is based on deception". Who engages in deception? Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you are weak - Sun Tzu. The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.
You stop at the store & purchase steak, salmon, turkey, chicken, salad, vegetables, dessert, red wine, you git back and she will whine that she is out of dryer sheets.
1) Get Training a Targeted Education w/ a Goal in mind , 2) Stay Single Do Not Get Married -- 3) Don't Volenter for anything .( don't join the miltary din't pay for someone elses kid etc . ). 4) Put Money in Growth Stocks, High. Yielding Dividend Stocks, Buy Rental Real estate like Trip deckers and Duplexes. -- Let your Tenents pay your Morgages and your Property Taxes.. 5) Don't Deviate from the Plan.. You. Will be Golden. 6) Travel to other countries for recreation.....
"Family law isn't unique in that it hates Fathers" In most states, family law still has maternal biases by default when it comes to parenting time and custody. When I first met with my attorney, he said "wow, you are the most involved Father I've ever met. Unfortunately, you are still on the 1-yard-line because you are a man." I was able to get 50/50 parenting time but it took multiple legal battles and tens of thousands of dollars.
The good news is that state family laws are SLOWLY changing now that studies on 50/50 parenting plans are available. But it doesn’t mean you won’t have a fight on your hands. It’s why many vindictive moms create a “hostile parenting environment” as a tactic out of thin air.
One of my exes and I, during the early stages of our relationship, discovered that we had independently established remarkably similar trust structures to manage our properties. She expressed a sense of relief, remarking, 'I'm glad you understand that you won't be entitled to any of my properties. Women do it too. I hope they are forced to hand over stuff as well.
@@dommidavros2211 anyone who sympathizes with a male who marries twice and gets hosed twice is not a simp, but a midwit...quite fitting for your username
Just when I thought I had to take these dating coaches seriously on how to get good with women. All it took for me was one really bad relationship to not care anymore on whether or not I’m good with women. Now I want to tell these dating coaches why would I want to be good with women? And for what? I learned that trying to be emotionally intelligent and meeting other people’s needs is not a good thing because if you are great at it you will just get used and screwed because people will see you as reliable and dependent. I’m happier being a nobody in peoples eyes because they no longer will use me and I have my peace of my and mental sanity. A true victory is when you are content with yourself and living life on your own terms and convenience.
I was working with a co-worker, and during our conversation, he was talking about his phone. He said his phone is his best friend, but he was joking around, and it clearly was just him joking about the features of his new phone. Then he said "no, my wife is my best friend." When he said that, he wasn't joking around, he was serious. I cringed. It's his life, his business and not my place. But when a guy says his wife is his best friend, I get the impression that he's the type who will cave in to his wife every time, "or else".
I live in NZ, and I can tell you that to be in a de facto relationship, a couple has to live together for at least three years. I guess this problem is very common in NZ. NZ is a land of feminism for sure.
ik from experience, a woman will ask you out, tell you how she loves you and wants to be with you forever and all that bs, then turn around a day after you get together and tell you she changed her mind
I lived with a woman in Minnesota for 25 years, had two kids, never got married because of her big student loan. When she left I got the house in my name and no payout or child support as the kids were over 18. A no common law state is a good place to shack up.
I knew a lot of the content you speak about already Rich (hyoergamy etc), but the the way you convey it is so much more interesting informative and makes it relatable. You nail it mate.
One of my aussie buddies who i was serving with in Afghanistan got hit by de facto marriage laws. He was obviously away serving on his deployment, but his name was still attached to the lease of his apartment with gf back home. She literally waited for the two-year mark to sue him and she did. She got half his earnings up to that point and half sale of the car
I lived with a girl in my young age. A lot of sex was good. We had fun going around on weekends. She helped me with loneliness, cause I was foreigner without knowledge of local language. She didn't bring drama, but neither she cooked. I spent years with her, instead really pushing my savings, learning new skills. Did this later on, in my 30s, while I also become father. It was like 3x times harder than doing in my 20s. Women are cost. Always remember this.
Yeah....men are so in love that they all of a sudden can't fo the dishes, cook, or clean....so much love..men are lazy and they want a all in one home appliance. And you still think that women should do that for free. Stay single guys....if you didn't catch up, no woman is here to care for your dusty ass...because you have a job!!! How about being an adult!!!
I'm 38, no kids, no wife, single and believe it or not actually happy & free. Most of my friends have kids by now and I can tell without any doubt which ones will end up single parents. Only time will tell how they'll end up, which ones will end up ok. I'm not against dating or having kids, each time I saw trouble, I avoided the trouble. I'm not black pill, just being careful. Just waiting to get asked out by the one girl that has few to no red flags, so far only seen major red flags. In the past I walked into red flag hell without knowing way too many times. So far I got no chains, I'm free, but we'll see how the next 10 years go. I don't think I'll ever get married, but I wouldn't mind having a kid with the right person.
Point Chevalier is a harbourside Auckland suburb where every house costs a million USD. Not because the houses are big...just because it is a great location. Nice parks nearby, zoo, lake, beach etc. I stayed in an AirBnB guesthouse there for a few months, great area.
i do know some couples who absolutely love one another after years and years. Im amazed. Ive tried it and was never stress free. I never felt comfortable. I like being in a solid relationship but living alone.
I've never met a woman who didn't change her mind...or do the polar opposite of what they would say.....not one in 40 plus years I've had experiences with GF or ones of friends and aquatinence..... Consistency is not a female trait Their identity is based off trends, friends, and media....which is to say they done have one they have a hundred😂
Rule #1: Monogamy is not a natural state. People want variety, exploration, and emotional freedom. Monogamy was invented by the church to prevent chaos in society Now that woman have more say, their need to live based on feelings and wants will pull us out of a monogamous society. Jealously is the only thing that gets in the way, which is present even in monogamous relationships, and can be dealt with as humans learn to understand their own emotional stares. I also believe that if sexual and emotional freedom was expected from everyone, jealousy would actually be easier to deal with. My biggest problem has always been: why is it that doing something good for someone else, is at the same time doing something bad for the other person. If I play golf with Tim on Tuesday that should have no effect on my relationship playing with John on Saturday. I should be able to give a positive experience to both individuals
My husband and I did not live together before marriage (he would have, I would not as it was against my values). We got married, built a business, a home, and a life. Both of our lives are blessed, and better off because of our union. He always calls me his blessing from God. It’s a landmine out there, both men, and women must choose wisely which is a tricky task. I honestly believe there are more bad, selfish, unstable people out there these days, and the idea of remaining single is definitely more appealing than marriage. Good luck to anyone out there who is pure of heart, and mentally stable, trying to find someone who is deserving of you is like trying to find a unicorn. Where did all the normal people go?
Greetings to all my fellow brethren around the world! I spent the most part of my most productive years with a woman who bounced off after 8 years when my income lapsed for a moment. She went with household utilities, our nice German car, our two gorgeaus full bred hounds at same time her career went through the roof. She had already checked herself a new sperm sling to whom she very quickly made babies.. And we are talking about a very sporty, beautiful Nordic woman with skills to hold a home.. Already in the early times I got a bit of a 'heads-up' from her stepsister who I had very straight forward relations with that ".. I think you are like a moutfull of fresh water to my sister but because I like you, you should be aware that there is a more sinister side to our lovely Anna*** .. When things don't go her way there's a hell to pay.." Boy was she right.. Cold as ice took everything and left my exhausted and annihilated ass hangin in the breeze.. :D
HOLY CRAP! Three times? A dollar to a donut says you didn't learn a damn thing and will, most likely, repeat your behavior. You know what they say. The best indicator of future behavior is what? Past behavior, of course!
This is why I live in Florida. No common law marriage regardless of how long you live together. I agree with Rich. I have been in a relationship for 7 years with the same gal, she's great, we both have our own homes and vehicles, jobs, etc. Very happy indeed.
Marriage is the largest “invisible” contract you will sign without knowing. Those us that have gone through divorce know what I’m talking about. Wish someone would have told me before marriage about me signing up for the largest invisible contract of my life. Think I would have negotiated terms and conditions a little better. No one seems to get legal advise upfront but we all lawyer up when it falls apart.
Always sign Prenup and or Binding financial agreement and let your other partner knows thats how you forsee future moving forward, unless they bring half the cash for the total property to begin with even then sgn a binding agreement. dont trust what they say.
Guys need to be smarter about committing to a relationship , or living with a woman. There are decent women out there, believe it or not. I've been divorced for over ten years and we didn't involve the family court system to decide our fate, or who gets what. and only needed a solicitor to handle the property settlement. , we put together a parenting plan and worked out a fair and sensible property settlement( Consent Orders) and the court accepted and filed it. That's how it was for me anyway. Guys, if its all coming apart, seriously, try to communicate properly, Avoid the expensive legal system if you can, as that only serves the parasites working in it. Everyone seems to think you HAVE to engage legal representation to get a divorce, in my experience its only designed for people who can't work their own shit out, like adults.
Thank you. My ex and I worked everything out too. We even went on a trip to celebrate our divorce and our new chapter as friends, and we’ve remained good friends ever since. No gold digging, no house-taking, no child abductions. I feel for these men who attract partners who rake them over the coals, but none of my friends would ever consider doing that. Most women I know have good jobs and their own assets.
@@FreedomRider-id6yv Because I want kids and don't want bastard kids running around or to be a baby daddy. I'm going to an African or Muslim country to get married, not America.
I woke up this morning freaking out about my ex-girlfriend like always. But the data hit me especially hard this morning. Like what is she? I loved her with all my heart. We just moved into a nice new house. We had everything we could have ever wanted. She then sabotaged us and I was reviewing memories this morning and what struck me is her hatred. She HATES me. I love her so much and she absolutely HATES me. She cornered my mind from every direction. She had a man place his hands on me after I came home from work, she sold our home and got $14,000 from the sex trafficking government, she then sent me pictures in the mail of the children she was having with other men, she said she was going to call me on the phone while they were having sex making me afraid to pick up the phone, I told her 'we would have had a nice life,' and she said, 'for you maybe.' She has cornered my mind from every angle. She is trying to kill me.
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If he was the beneficiary of the trust then moving the property into it was a pointless action.
When the man cheats, he loses his house, his car and half his money. When the woman cheats, he loses his house, his car and half his money.
No. He loses more than half. Ask any man that's ever gone through divorce. If children are involved, it's far and above more than half.
Yep this happened to me
Oh how true to the note!😮
Damn that is bad!
@@jayviktor6130 I have a coworker of mine going through that very situation right now. He got the house and property but his ex took the kids halfway across the country away from him and is now living with an abusive boyfriend who puts his hands on his kids. Absolutely nothing he can do about either. So sad.
When I got divorced, even with child support for one child, my standard of living WENT up. Living alone is a blessing.
Yes sir.. we both made almost 6 figures together 11 years ago I filed after affairs drugs drunkenness and craziness.. payed her way through college and 95% of the bills in our marriage... divorced her Lost half my income and was living so much BETTER on every LEVEL !! True facts here 💯%
Same here bro !!
Same here, it was like a magic! Paying full support alimony and child support for two, and my bank account finally started going up again.
A super blessing. I don’t miss living with my BM
@@derekbilly4784 well they like to spend money for no reason… So being out from underneath that is amazing
I am right now in the process of leaving my wife. Women do not compromise. They are amazing manipulators and actors.
Good Job 💪🏻
Why did u marry her? Was she like that before u married her?
@@sdmfp333Bro, they put on an act, they're on their best behavior to get commitment then a good percentage of them flip the script and show their true colors.
FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
a victim mentally allows one to behave like a criminal and feel justified in doing so as well.
After my divorce I don't think I can ever go back. The freedom is so awesome
sleeping as much as you want, spending money without worrying about getting yelled at later, eating whatever you want, coming and going as you please, totally overrated bro haha
I’m telling you fam. I def can’t go back and won’t lol. I’m able todo what I want when I want with no women chirping In my ear about what we need todo lol
Some men do it over and over again. Crazy thing is that women hate those men anyway
YES!!!👍
@@troysmith5749man this is awesome 😂
The day she moves in... The nagging begins.
We will all be better off with sex bots or just celibacy
@@Napoleonwilson1973 lmao 😂
@@Napoleonwilson1973More real women for me
bro, she's nagging you because she cares about your high fat, salty diet and all the booze you drink with with your bum friends yo
I swear if your wife sees you sitting down, relaxing, doing nothing, she has to create work for you and it has to be done now.
Ex wife when talking about divorce (re: taking 50%) "I would never do that to you" . Proceeds to do that to me.
As a rule. They say one thing, and do another.
Did you get a prenup?
Man, when the words come out of their mouth...KNOW that they will do that exact thing.
No@@kamronwilliams2634
What Kamron Williams asked… 👀
Dont marry and dont live together. Men take care of yourselves just as women are doing. Freedom and peace is its own reward.
Where do children fit into this hot mess of a situation?
Most men aren't having children anymore.
Just come out of the closet already! It's ok!
@@nunuvyurbiz123it's not a hot mess, it's wonderful
Could not agree more.
When you live with a woman, you literally bring a testing machine into your house, whose tests can cause you mental problems and continuous stresfful state
you will be held to the test.
Freedom is better than any woman. I’ve been free for a few years now from the spell of needing a relationship. It is a whole new existence.
It's great once you get to break free. In my late 50's now so I'm going to stay this way forever!
After 3 decades married (then divorced), it took me 1 additional decade to recover. It was the most focused, hardest recovery I've ever made. I'm now incredibly free and financially set. My work to get that way will not be wasted. To all my brothers out there....be well, live in peace.
@@Last_one_before_I_go It's MGTOW.
@@Last_one_before_I_go Live free or die.
I worked 8-5 for 15 years, no "me time" now I work fun job with irregular hours. Today is friday and I am alone at home :) Saturday while wife with kids at home I will be away all day :) I think this helps me a tone :)
The Best Actors in the World= Women.
Man I've been saying this for years. They truly are amazing actors
Counterpoint: Leonardo Dicaprio
Oscar
Facts
never forget: self-delusion is their primary super power.
they actually FULLY BELIEVE their own irrational gaslight most of the time.
that's why their acting can be so convincing to the blue-pilled sucker.
From my experience having spent 41 years on this planet, and having girlfriends and dating since 7th grade, I have come to the conclusion that the ideal strategy for men in man/woman romantic relationships, is no cohabitation, no long-term monogamy, and absolutely no marriage.
Hang out, have fun, hook up. That's it. As soon as the fun stops and drama starts, it's time to cut bait and move on.
Anything more than that is recipe for disappointment at best, and a life ruining trap at worst.
I realised this at 46 😊 You realised this 5 years earlier 😊 Lucky you 😊👍👍👍
@@Elman_Baku actually I realized it at 37. The last 4 years have drama free.
@@-NFiN8- Well, good for you, bro. Regretfully I realised this much later. One thing is when you know about all this, quite another when you start experiencing it. There comes a realization that you can only invest in reciprocal relationships and nothing else. Also, the cohabitation spoils everything👍👍
Women reserve the right to change their mind at any time...I would add that men are expected to be resolute and keep their word forever. You'll be held to whatever you said regardless of how long ago or what has changed since then. She is not held to this standard.
And a woman can withdraw consent at any time as well. Even well after the act a man can find himself being accused of grape.
I really dislike that for Guys, but I really think that its mostly guys who pushed that on other guys.
100% true. I was going to leave the country and work abroad since she moved me out of the house. She said don’t leave. Long story short I brought this up a few months later she said don’t guilt me. I changed my mind.
A lot of women will file a false dv charges to kick the guy out the house and move in her new boyfriend all while he’s still paying the mortgage and all the bills. Ive seen this happen countless times.
Power move. Their lawyers will even suggest it as an option.
Well said. This is also something I have seen countless times which is the reason why I will never marry and never have married
She and the boyfriend must not be afraid of magnum bullets, then.
its standard practice now. Its actually unusual when a woman doesn't do it. A victim mentally allows one to behave like a criminal and feel justified in doing so as well as the state supports her very bad behavior.
This is exactly what happened to me.
When I was married I never had any spare money no matter how much I worked. My divorcee wife and her kid just sucked it all up. She divorced me after a while. I didn't lose much. Went back to work and concentrated on me. My happiness. My involvement with women over the past few decades does not include anything emotional. I feel nothing for them. I know what they really are. So now I'm well off, retired at 46. I would not be here if I had wasted my feelings and time on women.
Dude that is incredibly inspiring. Thank you brother for sharing your story. Men, do not waste your energy via feelings or emotions with women. Do not get attached. They are ruthless. Recreational use only, or nothing at all. They will take advantage of every “yes” you give them. Stay in a state of sovereignty, men. It’s your life, your freedom, your money. Also, protect your wiener. Woman are dirty nowadays due to their body counts. Just rub one off at night if you need to, and focus ONLY ON YOU.
“Her kid”? So you went out with a single mom? Have you read the book?
Sounds like you paid your tuition and actually learned something.
Honestly women's main utility, their only utility is sex.
Any real companionship, any real company, any real communication you can get from hanging out with a friend.
@@jthomas4361sounds like he married a single mother 😬
"Yo dude, my girl's not like that". She's not like that...this second. She'll be a completely different person when she turns on you, and she WILL turn on you.
Just wait.
Absolutely spot on.
Women never show their true face during wedding day, they show their true face during divorce day.
The biggest one is freedom. Or lack thereof. I like being able to go and leave when I please. Not have to check in with someone with where I’m going everytime I leave the house.
Hell, yea
FACTS
Just that is priceless bro!
Sure the term "ball and chain" comes to mind.
No doubt
You're right. And when they change their mind, the guy is stuck with the bills. I've spent my whole life rebuilding, and now I'm sitting quite well. There's no way I will ever put myself in that situation again. The older you get, the harder it is to rebuild. " Once bitten, twice shy." Fool me once, shame you, fool me twice, shame me. Hopefully, if we can educate the future generation of men, we can turn the tables on this monopoly women have created for themselves.
It's more about changing societal norms. Not turning the tables, men and women still need each other to procreate
The world is in for a sad change, remember equal fights equal rights!
Yes. Once a philosopher, twice a fool.
for us older men and women, living together is not a necessity as we aint siring children. just enjoy time together and the time apart. don't bring complications to a relationship when you're 50+
Too Right ...live separately .Keeps them keen ...
😮facts don't ever ever live with a woman
Facts!!!!
I am in my 60s. I live alone. I see a few women when we can set it up. I make no promises and have no expectations. If she is away from me I don’t care what she does as long as it has no impact on my life. This type of lifestyle has been most agreeable for me when it comes to women.
In my experience as a guy over 50, even at that age most women want to change you (while they themselves are perfect of course). They just cant help themselves, even the better ones.
I never wanted to get married in the first place. All through my 20s I experienced seeing first hand how women cheat on there boyfriends and husband's with no guilt or remorse.
And divorce courts and guy friends and annoying single women friends in their ear and social media and feminism. It’s all ruined everything. It’s so annoying lol
Exactly... I lived on my own skin,,, is amazing how a woman has no remorse, opposite they blame you as many for her failure 😤
And beware of the wife that asks you if does this outfit make me look fat, say yes and walk to the 7 11 for good!
I know a young man 23 years old who just purchased a home with a girl that has two kids from another guy. At the same time, I have an employee who is 35 years old, his wife asked him for a divorce on Christmas day. When he married her, she already had two kids with another guy, during the marriage they had 3 more kids. He was only gone from the house a couple days and she had updated her facebook page "In a relationship" yes she had his replacement already in the house just as soon as he was show the door. Now, he's learning the hard costs financially. On top of that, he found out in court that she's saying he was abusive etc, the typical stuff.
Nice !!!! I'm so use to hearing this stuff and seeing it too that it is almost normal.
Oh my God she jettisoned him Christmas Day
They almost always claim abuse now days. It helps them get everything they're asking for. When asked what the abuse was? It's always vague "he was controlling, verbally, and emotionally abusive". Stuff that can't be proven true or false but it makes the guy default unable to defend against.
@@DB57RB things are becoming very clear now yes the accusations are always vague wispy little things that have no more substance to them than a summer breeze.
Women won’t end the relationship until they have someone else ready first
Last serious relationship I was in ended shortly after her demanding that I move in with her. We'd been together two years'ish and she owned her home. As in the mortgage was cleared. She started dictating the terms of me moving in with her and she told me I had to give her 700 a month (this like 7/8 years ago so this money was worth more). I said but why don't I simply pay half whatever each months utilities bills are. Simple as. Because I knew they wouldnt be anywhere near at the time 700! No she said, it's 700. Then she added you're paying that out now on your lease so whatever you'd do you'd have to pay out, so just pay me. I could see in her eyes the wanting to make something out of me!!!! They're just selfish as truck. All of them.
I've raised my son red pilled. He's 21, and he's a monk. He understands our gynocentric culture and is aware of the corrupt family courts. He won't make the same mistake I did.
Dad of the year over here. My kid is only 9. Still a little early to shatter his world view and then build him back up. But I'm waiting patiently for the right time.
@funloverdavis1796 Introduce him to Black Phillip before it's too late
What mistake did you make? Not putting God first and leaning on your own understanding? 🐕
@@Shaolin91z The mistake was marrying his mother. He is the good thing from my marriage. I, like most young men wasn't born again at that stage of my life.
Women have that manipulating switch that they turn on or off for depending what they want.
That's a shame...whats funny is on alotta Christian pages on TH-cam...manipulation is said to be a form of witchcraft...
Treat women the way women treat men. Do what’s right for you, complain regularly demanding insignificant things. Women will understand this because it’s how they “think”😅. Reserve doing what’s right and other higher qualities for other men who understand this level of mentality
“Complain regularly demanding insignificant things” got me 😂 Nail meet head 👏
Living with a woman will suck more resources than dating 3 different women a week guaranteed I’ve crunched the numbers!! Giraffes a beautiful but do you really want to own one?
Lol I gotta remember that one lol
I love this line lmao
Crazy, isn't it?
It's like when women talk about guys going overseas "Oh, you'll have to pay for her AND her family, too".
My response is that "it's STILL cheaper than dealing with any one of you".
I have a number of women I deal with in the Dom Republic. If I were to give them $200-$300 a month, they'd be over the freaking moon (I don't, but I wanted to make a point). You spend more if you have a committed woman in the States. Just going out to eat at somewhere decent once, plus doing something else fun will eat up way more than $300.
Not to mention all the other shit you end up spending on.
@@funloverdavis1796 food dinner travel shopping holiday events valentines her birthday majority if not all of the bills etc and most of the time they don’t even want to sleep with you
Never think you are ahead in the game dating multiple women at the same time,when they start to strike back the blow will be terrible.
I really am better off staying single.
That's a shame too bro, you look young and have yourself put together. I would be in prison if a woman tried to steal my house in such a sneaky way.
@elypowell6797 Yeah, I have a good job, and I own my house - also a prime target for divorce and child support 😅 it's just not worth it.
Aside from sex, your not missing much
@@jrd3675lol same
Divorced twice here. Current relationship 5.5 years, live separate, love and share equally. Less risk.
Still stuck with all the bills and wealth cut as soon as she farts herself out the door 🚪 for the next guy
That is why living below your means and expressing modest behavior, while at the same time, doing cool shit, is ALWAYS advantageous when meeting women. Frame has never been so important today.
Man u ain't never lie. The more money I make....the poorer I am when I meet women. I legit tell women I work low wage jobs just to scare off the gold diggers.....sadly I've found out that once they smell the truth...it's a wrap
all women are gold diggers tho lmao
I don’t understand what you mean by frame?
It’s the everyday with someone. Familiarity breeds contempt!!!!
Preach
100% !!!
I needed to be reminded of this
Uh huh
Say louder for the ppl in the back
Stories like this one make my blood boil. Because of the overwelming amount of such stories constantly being brought to light, I can't even see myself getting with a woman anymore. I can't stand them-or the systems so hell-bent on not only justifying and excusing women's horrible decisions and behaviors but aiding in their execution. Jesus Christ...
Just understand their nature and know that the one you'll meet; no she's not different. Keep your own place and have fun. You can have three if you want. Seeing it as a game instead of a necessity helps to keep a clear mind.
if you can't handle her, it's your fault.
@@chuckiegravesfield3170 I refuse to. There's a difference.
Once a man realizes how the game is played when it comes to women, it is easy to be bitter and angry. We have all been there. Now I don’t expect anything from her nor do I ever forget the thing that has saved me….I will never fully trust a woman simply out of survival. Indifference is now my best ally.
Your a mysoginist! U hate woman ! Who hurt u ! Patriarchy !
🎶 "....she's never satisfied." 🎶
~ Quote, Prince
I was lucky my ex wife showed her colors before I had any wealth, and I was smart enough to get out at the first disrespect.
This reminds me of my brother in law that married his high school sweetheart. A rather handsome woman, not a head turner, but built very well and a pleasant personality. She had a good job at a bank and was doing well…… until he married her. Then…. Suddenly….. she had to quit her job, as it was too stressful for her. Her doctor commanded that she stay at home, and engage in relaxing hobbies to help her maintain. My brother in law agreed. And suffered over the next 22 years working like a dog to survive. As she stayed at home gardening, sewing, watching soap operas, and enjoying a few drinks everyday as, “therapy “. Poor bastard couldn’t take it anymore, and filed for divorce. She got everything, but….. he passed away, and she had to go back to work. And is still working today….. funny how that works. There is a lesson here gentlemen. Take note, least you become a slave with no life, no love, and no hope.
If he woulda had life insurance, she coulda live off that and not have to work.
That's what it costs to have intimate relations available 24/7.
Did she take care of him/kids and the house?
@@farmdaddy510 yes. But her contribution was on a low level. Compared to the fact he gave everything. I loved my brother in law, but he ended up dead at 48. He took a job as a prison guard because the state paid for it. But he was always scared of what went on there. Meanwhile she wa doing fine with her hobbies. Doesn’t seem fair. Today she works, because she had to….. good for her. But he is dead. It would have been better for him. If he had met and married someone who had an equal work ethic. Instead of a “ It’s the man’s job to earn the money, and the wife’s job to stay at home.” Attitude. Marriage is a partnership, not a servitude roll.
Doesn't everyone😁 have a penis nowadays?@Lookup2Wakeup
Jesus Christ man this is insane. I just think about my hard earned pension and the fact she can take half away from me. All those long hours. Weekend and holidays. Sweating.. No way man no way…
Tom Brady, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Johnny Depp. What else do you need to know?
Good point.
Don't forget mel gibson
Robert DeNiro and Johnny Carson too
The number of Millionares that his wife was unsatisfied is larger: Michael Jordan, Tom Cruise x2, Nicolas Cage, Paul McCartney, Blake Shelton, Tiger Woods, Nick Cannon, Seal, Marc Anthony, Ben Affleck, Usher, Shanning Tatum, Tim Duncan, Deion Sanders, Tony Parker, Shaquille O'Neal , Alex Rodríguez, Mike Tyson, Jeff Gordon, Jason Kidd, Michael Jackson, Michael Strahan, Hulk Hogan, Elon Musk x2, Kanye West, Donald Trump x2, Sergey Brin, Jim Clark, Larry Elison, Ted Turner, Rupert Murdock
What a gossiper!
A wedding is an onerous legal contract disguised as a show-off party.
As Sun Tzu said, "all warfare is based on deception". Who engages in deception?
Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you are weak - Sun Tzu.
The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting.
If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.
BROTHER. THAT ONE ! Went Way over their Head 🔥 ✔️ ✅️
Freedom and not answering to anyone is awesome ! If I want doughnuts for dinner I’ll have doughnuts for dinner 😁
You stop at the store & purchase steak, salmon, turkey, chicken, salad, vegetables, dessert, red wine, you git back and she will whine that she is out of dryer sheets.
Dryer sheets are disgusting
@@ezr168 ikr
There's an old saying where I come from.... "if you want to drink some milk, you don't need to purchase a cow" 😂 Spanish
This should be taught at schools to young boys!!
Scream it loud and proud Rich, some people are just too deaf dumb and blind !!..
Keep up the great work ✌️
"every action has an equal and opposite reaction"
5-10 years from now New Zealand is going to be wondering why men refuse to let women move in . . .
Never. Men will always simp and be stupid.
1) Get Training a Targeted Education w/ a Goal in mind , 2) Stay Single Do Not Get Married -- 3) Don't Volenter for anything .( don't join the miltary din't pay for someone elses kid etc . ). 4) Put Money in Growth Stocks, High. Yielding Dividend Stocks, Buy Rental Real estate like Trip deckers and Duplexes. -- Let your Tenents pay your Morgages and your Property Taxes.. 5) Don't Deviate from the Plan.. You. Will be Golden. 6) Travel to other countries for recreation.....
"Family law isn't unique in that it hates Fathers"
In most states, family law still has maternal biases by default when it comes to parenting time and custody. When I first met with my attorney, he said "wow, you are the most involved Father I've ever met. Unfortunately, you are still on the 1-yard-line because you are a man." I was able to get 50/50 parenting time but it took multiple legal battles and tens of thousands of dollars.
The good news is that state family laws are SLOWLY changing now that studies on 50/50 parenting plans are available. But it doesn’t mean you won’t have a fight on your hands. It’s why many vindictive moms create a “hostile parenting environment” as a tactic out of thin air.
Also caught that erroneous statement. Unbelievable. Dude never went through the wringer in family court.
I was a single dad for 15 years. Worth it.
Every single man must learn how to protect their assets.
My gf and i lived together for a few years and we have lived apart for over a decade. Still together but it’s a relief to have my own place
One of my exes and I, during the early stages of our relationship, discovered that we had independently established remarkably similar trust structures to manage our properties. She expressed a sense of relief, remarking, 'I'm glad you understand that you won't be entitled to any of my properties. Women do it too. I hope they are forced to hand over stuff as well.
Stay with that smart girl duh
It is insane the way court systems screw guys over. We are always viewed as the bad party that has to be punished.
Old white simps made these rules
Hypocrisy in the courts! 😮
Old white guys who were simps made the rules, family and divorce courts should be put on trial..
it's a stupid tax. i really don't have sympathy for guys anymore.
Spoken like a true simp!
@@dommidavros2211 anyone who sympathizes with a male who marries twice and gets hosed twice is not a simp, but a midwit...quite fitting for your username
Same. I actually enjoy hearing stories like this. Guys are stubborn and always think they found a UNICORN and red pill doesn't apply to them.
@@zuibeckpulezon4626and think they’re better than us… I love it when it goes wrong 😂
Women and family court have the same goal. Extract as much of a man's financial resources as possible. Period.
Just when I thought I had to take these dating coaches seriously on how to get good with women. All it took for me was one really bad relationship to not care anymore on whether or not I’m good with women.
Now I want to tell these dating coaches why would I want to be good with women? And for what?
I learned that trying to be emotionally intelligent and meeting other people’s needs is not a good thing because if you are great at it you will just get used and screwed because people will see you as reliable and dependent. I’m happier being a nobody in peoples eyes because they no longer will use me and I have my peace of my and mental sanity.
A true victory is when you are content with yourself and living life on your own terms and convenience.
I was working with a co-worker, and during our conversation, he was talking about his phone. He said his phone is his best friend, but he was joking around, and it clearly was just him joking about the features of his new phone. Then he said "no, my wife is my best friend." When he said that, he wasn't joking around, he was serious.
I cringed. It's his life, his business and not my place. But when a guy says his wife is his best friend, I get the impression that he's the type who will cave in to his wife every time, "or else".
No, you're just gay! And that's ok!
@@only5186 So, what did he say that makes him gay?
@@MrBmicthe fact that he cringes when a man has a wife rhat is his best friend. That is hiw it works....
@@em7937 That doesn't make him gay, that is his opinion. That is how that works.
Reminds me of a bait-and-switch scenario.
"before they take your shit...they'll do the standard..." ROFL. so true
I live in NZ, and I can tell you that to be in a de facto relationship, a couple has to live together for at least three years. I guess this problem is very common in NZ. NZ is a land of feminism for sure.
Dropping gold nuggets as always Thanks Rich!
Once you start living together and sleeping together, you are defacto married. It was too late to sign a pre nup or put your property in a trust.
In this case though, the guy put the house in a trust before he got with the woman...still didn't matter, though.
Depends on the state
@@erictriplett33he put the property in a trust in 2004 after he started dating her earlier that year.
Guys it even comes down to the individual judge. And yes it’s political and big money.
STAY OUT OF “FAMILY “ COURT.
I’ll help anyone who needs help
"Two cannot live cheaper than one" said Andy Johnson our Junior high social studies teacher. , 1968. Retired now good advice
ik from experience, a woman will ask you out, tell you how she loves you and wants to be with you forever and all that bs, then turn around a day after you get together and tell you she changed her mind
"Living with someone makes you just friends" - woman who was cheating on her boyfriend who she lived with, with me.
I lived with a woman in Minnesota for 25 years, had two kids, never got married because of her big student loan. When she left I got the house in my name and no payout or child support as the kids were over 18. A no common law state is a good place to shack up.
It's better to want what you don’t have, than have what you don't want!
True.
A lot men need to hear this loud and clear
I knew a lot of the content you speak about already Rich (hyoergamy etc), but the the way you convey it is so much more interesting informative and makes it relatable. You nail it mate.
One of my aussie buddies who i was serving with in Afghanistan got hit by de facto marriage laws. He was obviously away serving on his deployment, but his name was still attached to the lease of his apartment with gf back home. She literally waited for the two-year mark to sue him and she did. She got half his earnings up to that point and half sale of the car
Thats insane! Some of these garden tools are reckless..
Ouch!😮
Anyone know what study he cited where less than 13% of the people in 8+ year relationships said they were still in love? That's horrific.
I lived with a girl in my young age. A lot of sex was good. We had fun going around on weekends. She helped me with loneliness, cause I was foreigner without knowledge of local language.
She didn't bring drama, but neither she cooked. I spent years with her, instead really pushing my savings, learning new skills. Did this later on, in my 30s, while I also become father. It was like 3x times harder than doing in my 20s. Women are cost. Always remember this.
Men are in love, women are in business 🤔😉
Yeah....men are so in love that they all of a sudden can't fo the dishes, cook, or clean....so much love..men are lazy and they want a all in one home appliance. And you still think that women should do that for free. Stay single guys....if you didn't catch up, no woman is here to care for your dusty ass...because you have a job!!! How about being an adult!!!
I'm 67,live alone. Learned from my mistakes, believe me.
Love your attitude and bare knuckled truth telling.Never been married and never felt better about it.Thnx.
Excellent video. Sad and unfair outcome for the guy.
I'm 38, no kids, no wife, single and believe it or not actually happy & free.
Most of my friends have kids by now and I can tell without any doubt which ones will end up single parents.
Only time will tell how they'll end up, which ones will end up ok.
I'm not against dating or having kids, each time I saw trouble, I avoided the trouble. I'm not black pill, just being careful. Just waiting to get asked out by the one girl that has few to no red flags, so far only seen major red flags. In the past I walked into red flag hell without knowing way too many times.
So far I got no chains, I'm free, but we'll see how the next 10 years go. I don't think I'll ever get married, but I wouldn't mind having a kid with the right person.
Point Chevalier is a harbourside Auckland suburb where every house costs a million USD. Not because the houses are big...just because it is a great location. Nice parks nearby, zoo, lake, beach etc.
I stayed in an AirBnB guesthouse there for a few months, great area.
Trust me. I have lived with women and when it is her property, there is NO WAY this would work out the same for a man 😅
i do know some couples who absolutely love one another after years and years. Im amazed. Ive tried it and was never stress free. I never felt comfortable. I like being in a solid relationship but living alone.
Same here.
Rich, thank you for all this information!
I've never met a woman who didn't change her mind...or do the polar opposite of what they would say.....not one in 40 plus years I've had experiences with GF or ones of friends and aquatinence.....
Consistency is not a female trait
Their identity is based off trends, friends, and media....which is to say they done have one they have a hundred😂
I just can’t get enough of these woman hating incel vids. Keep em coming!
It doesn’t surprise me what I am hearing , see it a lot . I agree with you on 1 thing that you said , guys do it to themselves.
Rule #1: Monogamy is not a natural state. People want variety, exploration, and emotional freedom.
Monogamy was invented by the church to prevent chaos in society
Now that woman have more say, their need to live based on feelings and wants will pull us out of a monogamous society.
Jealously is the only thing that gets in the way, which is present even in monogamous relationships, and can be dealt with as humans learn to understand their own emotional stares.
I also believe that if sexual and emotional freedom was expected from everyone, jealousy would actually be easier to deal with.
My biggest problem has always been: why is it that doing something good for someone else, is at the same time doing something bad for the other person. If I play golf with Tim on Tuesday that should have no effect on my relationship playing with John on Saturday. I should be able to give a positive experience to both individuals
It’s almost as if they design a system that only works when two lord loving people meet and connect
If you want your relationship to last... Make sure she has her own apartment.
My husband and I did not live together before marriage (he would have, I would not as it was against my values). We got married, built a business, a home, and a life. Both of our lives are blessed, and better off because of our union. He always calls me his blessing from God. It’s a landmine out there, both men, and women must choose wisely which is a tricky task. I honestly believe there are more bad, selfish, unstable people out there these days, and the idea of remaining single is definitely more appealing than marriage. Good luck to anyone out there who is pure of heart, and mentally stable, trying to find someone who is deserving of you is like trying to find a unicorn. Where did all the normal people go?
Greetings to all my fellow brethren around the world! I spent the most part of my most productive years with a woman who bounced off after 8 years when my income lapsed for a moment. She went with household utilities, our nice German car, our two gorgeaus full bred hounds at same time her career went through the roof. She had already checked herself a new sperm sling to whom she very quickly made babies.. And we are talking about a very sporty, beautiful Nordic woman with skills to hold a home.. Already in the early times I got a bit of a 'heads-up' from her stepsister who I had very straight forward relations with that ".. I think you are like a moutfull of fresh water to my sister but because I like you, you should be aware that there is a more sinister side to our lovely Anna*** .. When things don't go her way there's a hell to pay.." Boy was she right.. Cold as ice took everything and left my exhausted and annihilated ass hangin in the breeze.. :D
Yup, fully and completely with 0 remorse. Because it was your fault anyway, in your mind.
Never ever move in with a woman! Take it from the guy that did it three times and lost every time.
HOLY CRAP! Three times? A dollar to a donut says you didn't learn a damn thing and will, most likely, repeat your behavior. You know what they say. The best indicator of future behavior is what? Past behavior, of course!
@@kagnewcobra5228 nope! Learned that lesson three times already. If you keep doing the same shit expecting a different result that is insanity!
Best video so far! Totally true.... My life is living proof.... every man needs to see this video!
Dude bought that house three times.
Sir... Sir..... 😂
This is why I live in Florida. No common law marriage regardless of how long you live together. I agree with Rich. I have been in a relationship for 7 years with the same gal, she's great, we both have our own homes and vehicles, jobs, etc. Very happy indeed.
….but you guys share a TH-cam? Is that her in your profile pic 😩😅 💀
I have lived alone my entire life. People ask me why. I'm addicted to making my own decisions.
Marriage is the largest “invisible” contract you will sign without knowing. Those us that have gone through divorce know what I’m talking about. Wish someone would have told me before marriage about me signing up for the largest invisible contract of my life. Think I would have negotiated terms and conditions a little better.
No one seems to get legal advise upfront but we all lawyer up when it falls apart.
The contract wasn't invisible when u signed it !!!!! Marriage contract ......ugh😮
Easy to get married. Hard to divorce. Lesson learned. 😎
She duped him about the house in the trust.... the devil is in the details.....
Always sign Prenup and or Binding financial agreement and let your other partner knows thats how you forsee future moving forward, unless they bring half the cash for the total property to begin with even then sgn a binding agreement. dont trust what they say.
Guys need to be smarter about committing to a relationship , or living with a woman. There are decent women out there, believe it or not. I've been divorced for over ten years and we didn't involve the family court system to decide our fate, or who gets what. and only needed a solicitor to handle the property settlement. , we put together a parenting plan and worked out a fair and sensible property settlement( Consent Orders) and the court accepted and filed it. That's how it was for me anyway. Guys, if its all coming apart, seriously, try to communicate properly, Avoid the expensive legal system if you can, as that only serves the parasites working in it. Everyone seems to think you HAVE to engage legal representation to get a divorce, in my experience its only designed for people who can't work their own shit out, like adults.
Thank you. My ex and I worked everything out too. We even went on a trip to celebrate our divorce and our new chapter as friends, and we’ve remained good friends ever since. No gold digging, no house-taking, no child abductions. I feel for these men who attract partners who rake them over the coals, but none of my friends would ever consider doing that. Most women I know have good jobs and their own assets.
Separate bedrooms is a must when I get married
Lol
How does that help you?
Then why get married?
@@FreedomRider-id6yv Because I want kids and don't want bastard kids running around or to be a baby daddy. I'm going to an African or Muslim country to get married, not America.
Just split up with my and i feel lighter already!
At this point it's better to remove women from the equation and become a monk.
I woke up this morning freaking out about my ex-girlfriend like always. But the data hit me especially hard this morning. Like what is she? I loved her with all my heart. We just moved into a nice new house. We had everything we could have ever wanted. She then sabotaged us and I was reviewing memories this morning and what struck me is her hatred. She HATES me. I love her so much and she absolutely HATES me. She cornered my mind from every direction. She had a man place his hands on me after I came home from work, she sold our home and got $14,000 from the sex trafficking government, she then sent me pictures in the mail of the children she was having with other men, she said she was going to call me on the phone while they were having sex making me afraid to pick up the phone, I told her 'we would have had a nice life,' and she said, 'for you maybe.' She has cornered my mind from every angle. She is trying to kill me.