My wife’s dad left when she was 9 and as a result she has always craved attention from males. Been married for 13 years and she is filing fir divorce. When it comes down to it, she would rather go dancing or whatever and get that superficial male attention that she desperately “needs”. We’ve got two little ones. But society has been surprisingly supportive of her behavior and very critical of me. I feel dead inside. My heart feels like it’s going to collapse on itself. I’m just so sad.
So sorry to hear this. I am 27 and very grateful to find these knowledge being still single and on my purpose. But honestly west is doomed. I live in very conservative society where most of marriages are arranged by parents. I used to feel that this culture is toxic to our freedom but reality is men here have much higher control over women then those in western cultures. Truth is if women doesn't fear the men, she will eventually destroy him.
I've been married for over 40 years.the problem I see in most relationships today is that each person is looking at what they are getting out of it instead of what they can give.good luck with that.
I agree with this list... people who are in any of these situations,😧 or in some cases all three, should not be trying to date in the first place, they have more serious issues to focuse on, like finding a better counselor or lawyer. ... I have dated guys in these categories too... I think, these are pretty general dating situations to avoid.
This video is 💯 right, spot on! I'd an exgf (not tom mention also a half sister) who are classic psychological textbook cases mentioned. My sister would use, shag, marry from one man to another, these poor guys, nothing was good enough. My exgf was an entitled little b*tch, whose dad was an abusive drunk then out of the picture when she was young. She took everything for granted, unfortunately her mum's traits (playing the victim card) became her own (felt like she was dating her mum and not me). Nothing was good enough, she was selfish, didn't drive, leeched money and the worst she would suck up energy like an emotional vampire and i got tired of "rescuing her from her own made up b.s. I broke up with her and took the red pill and am so glad i did!
Agreed, instead they fill our heads with useless garbage we spend the next 5 years out of school unlearning the bullshit, they dont teach life skills in school just academic skills to become a good slave worker to the dirty system.
First of all, I am a woman. I am writing this to the females of our species (especially radical feminists) that are currently screaming in rage after watching this video: My dear fellow females, I 100% agree with what this guy says. What ya'll are misunderstanding is that having daddy issues/custody problems/etc is not indicative of you being a bad person. This man is not saying that. What he IS saying, however, is that you have unresolved issues in your life (not necessarily your fault) and a wise man would not want to be involved in that. And I believe that is a wise decision to make, because the issues in your life are going to affect the man you are dating as well. Please understand.
funny how men are the ONLY people causing daddy issues, but then they are also the boyle ones who get to deem any women that suffers from said issues as less “valuable”… don’t you see the circular reasoning here? don’t you see how problematic that is?
He didn’t say unsolved issues he just said issues. Even if you’ve dealt with your issues with male role models you cannot lie and say you had role male models when you didn’t. There’s plenty of women with absent male role models who appreciate a good man.
100% agree with you and him. As a mother of 2 sons I didn’t want my sons to marry these kind of women. Marriage is hard enough without inviting in a troubled woman.
@@originalewalk Men aren't the only ones causing daddy issues. There are plenty of mothers out there that poison the well of the love their children want to have for their dad by talking trash about him and keeping them from him. I've personally witnessed this happen to a number of men that I know. They aren't bad or dangerous men, just men that had kids with self-centered women.
stay away from woman who never go a week without having a new boyfriend or if their boyfriends seem to overlap one another.. for instance a woman is flirting with you and says she is in a relationship but its not going very well and is hence interested in you. their boyfriends generally aren't very special to them and they choose them based on who is convenient for them and they will do the same to you. it also shows they can't be independent at all.
soldatheero A woman recently was giving me the googly eyes and flirty body language while standing next to her husband. I smiled and winked to see how she would react. She blushed like a school girl and did that thing girls do when they brush their hair behind their ear and bat their eyes. At that moment I knew she had no respect for her husband, or any man for that matter. I am not a home wrecker so I left. All of this happened at a gun store while her husband was purchasing a firearm and ammo. I am 38 and she looked to be about 10 years younger than me, but I am horrible at judging a woman's age. I feel sorry for her husband. If she hasn't cheated on him yet, she will eventually. Poor guy.
Dalia Alfakih My ex wife did not reject me, I rejected her hence why I made her move out and I filed for divorce. The woman from the store did the opposite of reject me, so who exactly are you talking about? I am not sexist! What I said was truth. The kind of woman that will flirt with a man while standing next to her husband has no respect for her husband and likely sees men as a way to improve her life through the status of a man instead of standing on her own two feet. That is not the kind of woman I would date or marry. That is not sexist, that is an observation of human nature. By the way, I handle rejection quite well. Let me tell you a recent story that goes to prove my point. A few months ago I met this gal that worked at a local comics store. I was looking to get back to reading comics since I stopped reading them as a kid when I discovered girls, ah that was a magical time...*fondly remembers his first crush*...Anyways she seemed to be really into me and we had a lot in common, comics movies and firearms, it turns out more than I realized. She would ignore other customers just to talk to me. She started to find me in the store when I was just looking around and we rarely talked about comics. She was flirty but not aggressively so. Anyways I guess I misread her because one day about a month or so ago I asked her out and she said she was kinda into girls and had a girlfriend and pointed to her girlfriend. My immediate reaction was shock, I am sure it was visable on my face, but I quickly recovered. I said "at least it isn't anything I can do something about." She responded with, "well there is but I doubt you would take hormones and have surgery just to go to diner." I said while chuckling, "No, not really." We then had a good laugh and we are currently friends. I did get rejected in this case, and by a lesbian though I am thinking she might be bisexual, and not only did I handle it well but we are now friends. I respect her enough to leave it at that. I can call some women out on their bullshit and not be sexist. The real sexists are feminists that demonize all men. I do not demonize all women, but I have no problem calling a spade a spade when I see a woman that is a shitty person. Critisizing a woman, or a group of women, is not sexist. Making a statement like "Women are too crazy to be president" is sexist. That statement is inclusive of all women while saying that I would not date certain types of women, or that feminists are female supremacists, is not sexist because it is not inclusive of all women. Not all women are the same, and not all women are feminists. If I said that a woman's place is at home in the kitchen, this is not a belief I have yet I do think it is best for a mother to stay home when her kids are under school age if possible, that would be sexist. Though I personally believe in traditional gender roles, women have the God given right to live their lives the way they choose. So stop throwing around these stupid labels. Just because a man disagrees with your ideology doesn't make him sexist. One last thing, I literally begged my ex-wife to work for years and she refused. We had no kids that needed to be taken care of, and we struggled financially for the first 3 years we where together. There was no reason why she couldn't work. That hardly sounds sexist, in fact that makes her an entitled brat that wants men to take care of her.
Dude, she doesn't care. She just proved to herself that she can get three paragraphs of attention from you with only one word. She gets double jollies for putting you down as a sexist without consequences and for you validating her pointless comment.
*Type of women to stay away from: Any and all Western women living in any westernized country. Doesn't matter what her personality is like; the culture is feminist which means they all fuck around with dozens of men and have zero loyalty and respect for men. Even if you were to find one who isn't a whore, doesn't matter, marriage is completely out of the question in the U.S. and Canada and Europe because the woman has GOD LIKE LEGAL POWER OVER YOU and your children. Most men don't find that out until after they've been permanently ejected from the home and can't see their children simply because she's bored of you.*
Exactly lol😆! So what! I’m glad we all failed and now I learned and I’m super happy at 50 with zero debt to enter 2022! Men and women continue to talk about the past! Like if everyone is perfect. F no! Nobody is an Angel or excellent
The first and easiest step men can take to improve their lives is to boycott companies who engage in male-bashing advertising such as Gillette and Nissan USA.
Yep bullshit world we live in. Back in the day you would just off them and say you havent seen her and get a girlfriend and have shots of whiskey together. I love my wife but hate what she has become. Selfish one sided know it all .
Kinda ironic but.. I turned out okay despite my upbringing and opposition.. Here's the reason. My dad was ousted out for being and alcoholic.. But my mom was wayyyyy worse. My Mom is 100% Narcissistic Jezebel and I was the Bane of her existence. Impossible for me to explain the details here but to keep it very shrt the woman hates my guts to the core. I was a daddy's girl up til the point she through his ass in jail and took custsy. She abused me all my life even up til recently when I finally cut her ass off. As a kid when she abuse me I told her I wanna live with Daddy despite his alcoholism. In my mind dealing with an alcoholic was wayy easier then an harshly abusive Narcissistic Mother. Anyways later in life I tracked him down and moved in with him when I hit hard times when she kicked me out for no good reason. He told me she caused an abortion because she couldn't get something at the store.. She through a tantrum and beat her pregnant stomach.. That was my sister.. SHE KILLED HER! I was shocked. This woman (my mother) is everything vile and disgusting I see in modern day women. So my life goal was to be the direct opposite to everything she stands for... The outcome- I landed a very great man.. An Alpha who I love, adore and respect to the core. She got very vwey jealous. To the point where she felt threatened that I was having an affair with my own step dad!! I know 100% psychotic.. But not uncommon with narcissistic mom.. OOHHH THEY ARE BEYOND EVIL! TRUST ME! So I cut ties with my family for more than 6 mths ago to stop the abuse. I can tell you millions of stories of what it's like for a daughter of a Narcissistic mom but lemme tell you there is now plenty of info on this subject on YT and the internet already Thank God! I can ses clearly the behaviors my mom displayed in most women today 😩 Sorry men.. I would love to give you an easy solution to finding a decent lady but sadly... Narcissism in women is at it's peak! Best advice I can offer is focus on your personal success and if any womwn come into your life as you make your way to the top REALLY put them through shit test. We aren't living in a prefect world where women are taught traditional values 😟 inside they are embracing feminazi brainwashing. My own mom tried brainwashing me into it but I resisted! Becoming the scape goat. But my younger sister, on the other hand,adhered to the brainwashing making her the Golden Child at 28 years old living in her home with her spineless BETA husband. It's the most pathetic situation imaginable. Anyways.. Thought I would share.. I know this was long.. Sorry.. But I have horror stories of women like this thanks to my mom and what their life turns out to be in the end cause of experience.. Feel free to ask me anything I'll be happy to help wake up anyone to these types of evil women. God Bless!
@@isaacsanders9203 Having divorced one they really are a kind of monster. Something just not completely human about them. It doesn't even occur to them that there is anything wrong with their abusive behavior. I didn't know that she had it until years after our divorce when a psychologist told me it sounded like she had it. I read a list of 10 signs they have it and she was a dead ringer for 7 or 8 of them.
@@stevecarey2030 it’s such a dangerous disorder. Glad to hear you’re away from the abuse. Hope you’re doing well. Many men do not survive to live or rebuild. Cheers friend
Great video and advice. My heart sank when the first trouble type you said was a girl with daddy issues. I came out of a 2 year failed relationship with a girl like that last year. Her father was basically a piece of furniture when she was growing up, and when I finally learned the extent of her anger toward her father it was a huge red flag, but I really fucking loved this girl and wanted to save her. Big mistake. She really showed a lack of respect in general towards me, because she never had a reason to respect her father, so she of course didn't feel any need to respect me. The biggest thing is the emotional damage that had been done to her. She was kind of bi-polar. She would retreat into these deep frigid spells and virtually shut me out completely. It resulted in some major issues in our relationship that were extremely painful. Honestly, it kills me, because other than the daddy issues, which were admittedly terrible, she was a damn amazing girl with so many good qualities, and very very beautiful. Life is just fucking tragic sometimes...
@@Sartheris They are indeed all the same. A quick way to identify a girl with potential daddy issues (or severe emotional damage) is if she is basically emotionally unavailable. They will show very very little concern or support for you, even early on in the relationship. As early as the second or third date. If talking to them and showing basic human needs and concerns starts to feel like a one-way street, I exit fast. Just dropped one last week after a few dates.
@@inrptn how do you drop one nicely? Like whats a favorite quote of yours for breaking up? Like what exactly do you tell them that the chemistry isnt there?
I’m fucking a single mom She just wants to fuck. That’s fine. I don’t want anything to do with her kid, and she don’t want me to have anything to do with her kid either. She make her own money. She wants to come to the gym with me then fuck.
Amen to that! Or any woman with rich tastes. A great book “The Millionaire Next Door” found that most millionaires don’t show it. One of the more interesting characteristics is that their spouses spent less than they did.
but she might be thrifty and got it from a second hand store for $50 !!! Be careful about judging on clues...take a clue as an indicator and find out more...
I've been married to woman#1"daddy issues" for 27 years and as of this moment we are separating. The point about not seeing value in the man and how is transpires into the marriage is spot on!
I can confirm that its a nightmare to date the girls with daddy issues, trust me guys you will see it at least after 1 month and when the honeymoon phase faded away.
What about a son with mommy issues?? I was married to one, trust me. You don't want to deal with one, he would be psychopath, sex offender that doesn't value women at all. Unfortunately there are man like that.
@@eh4235 i am also like that, but i stay away from women, either that or i m very upfront about it. problem is they don't believe/understand these issues. It's not like your bipolar or narcissistic on purpose, if you're really attached it messes with your head.
Young MEN please listen & heed the advice this man is telling you the last two women I dated fell in two of the categories of women to avoid it cost me 16yrs of life & over $90,000 in waisted expenses.
Ton Robert after I read that i let out a very strong “MMMmm” i feel sorry for u bro but we appreciate the advice it’s gonna propel others forward. Thanks seriously
spot on about daddy issues. of course, the ones with daddy issues are usually hot. :/ every girl that I've known who had no father in the picture has had (all of the following): 1. drug problems 2. emotional instability 3. seldom have a career or future goals 4. piss poor financial common sense 5. the need for immediate gratification, 24/7, live for now mentality 6. her problems are paramount to anything going on in your life 7. wants you to respect her "independence", while still expecting chivary (but not appreciating it)
A lot of girls don't have career goals, even if they're "normal". But #4,#5,#6,#7 is spot on. I've met one and I'm glad I recognized the red flags. Girls with daddy issues usually have extremely high levels of narcissism.
1 never did drugs 2 people have emotions 3 3 time business owner 4 I’m buying a house cash to retire early Well those are my plans 5 no 6 no 7 no 🤷🏻♀️ still single Just had cheater exes and not willling to stay in my past relationships because of that ... yeah the daddy issues is dumb to me, as a child you don’t get to choose what kind of house hold you grow up in
This is a must watch. After being in 2 relationships post divorce I finally realized that most women have daddy issues. I’m 50 years old...I dated women my age and they still had these issues lingering. I’m sending this video to my 24 year old son
But if I have them too, what should I do to help myself? 🤔 So that if I meet the love of my life I'd be a better person. At the end of the day, having grown up without receiving much attention from your father is sth that's out of your control
I got married to a woman with daddy issues. It was big! mistake. She said very bad things about her father and did not have any respsect for him. And now I am the one who is not respected.
On the very first date she mentioned that she had emotional breakdown because of her of dad. I mentally made a note however later dismissed it. She later spoke of him badly blaming for all the bad things in her mother’s life including her mother getting sick and passing away in relatively young age. She even spoke of him in the manner like “this idiot” or “this looser”. After her mother passed away, her father started to date other women. As a side note, she was already 24-25 years old at this point and married to me. I was really surprised how incredibly mad it was making her. As if her father had no right to date anyone and, god forbid, to bring his girlfriends to the house where my wife grew up. She could ignore her father and not speak with him for months. While we were married I was making about ¾ of our joint income. I did my best to take care of things around the house. She did not even know on what days of the week the trash was picked up. We never had any children and our intimate life became very bad. There was one time when I took her on Caribbean vacation in very expensive resort and did not even have single intimate encounter with her there during entire vacation. After couple years she tried to drive away my premarital friends. I was not to speak with anyone who was not on her “approved” friends list. We would have a party and she would act if she was a head of household while my job was to make drinks for her girlfriends and take care of their needs. She would even tell a story to her/”our” friends about how successful she was before marriage and while speaking about me say something like “and now I am married to this”. She would literally kick my ass with her foot in front of her girlfriends. And, I had to ask permission for every small thing such as going fishing or spend some money on myself. Every time I wanted to express an opinion on any matter during social events she would interrupt me and make me to shut up. My friends kept telling me that she was acting as if she was single while we were at social events as a couple. And, I had no right say No to her. Every time I tried to say 'No' the shaming would begin that often would turn into a tantrum with screaming and name calling. There were times when her tantrums would turn into vomiting for several hours. Of course I was supposed to feel guilty after that and try to make it up to her. I even got physically hit several times. She would engage in emotional abuse call me things like “stinking looser”, “alcoholic” and that all friends think that I am crazy and need professional help. At the end, I decided I had enough and I chose to leave her.
Dee Ja. We are separated now and going through divorce. It took me too long to realize that I was wasting my time with this woman. As they say, it is better later then never.
Vanchin Af that's not daddy issues, that's narcissism. And yeah those come in male gender too. I left mine after 17 years of abuse. I would never wish that on anyone!!!
Especially if they don't have kids! Don't assume they will be on the pill. One night of 'oh damn I forgot to take it' or 'well there's always 1% chance it won't work so I guess we got unlucky' and you are basically screwed. If you don't want kids, get the op or make sure you are in control of contraception the whole time. Women panic in their 30s if they still haven't got kids and want them, and will have no issue ruining a man's life to get pregnant. I've seen it happen so many times. Then the guy either feels bad and marries her or spends the next 20 years arguing with an ex while trying to find other women to date who will put up with that drama.
LDT7Y yep! my father’s ex-girlfriend did that to him. she lied and said she was on the pill, which he usually saw her take but she had been off of it for a while. she was 36 with no kids and lived on her own. now I have four half siblings because my father wasn’t smart about the women he was with
I always took my daughters out for their birthdays, one on one. I would open the car door for them, pull their chair out, and just generally treat them with respect. This way I can be confident that when they start dating, and some punk pulls up to the curb with his music blasting and honks the horn to get their attention, they won't even bother coming outside, because they've experienced the behavior of a respectable man and no poser with a narcissism problem is gonna keep their attention. I effectively raised the bar for them before they even began really interacting with boys. Today they are all very well adjusted
Dude, almost every girl has daddy issues. Many girls are neglected by their overworked dad because they were too tired to even look at them after work. This is a problem since decades.
Exactly and how is it the girls fault? With that said, not all those girls even have the issues that this guy is talking about and if so, its a spectrum. We can talk all day about the baggage he has that he may or may not even be aware of. Ridiculous reasonings.
Yeah... good idea! Not like the bunch of pussies commenting around here! I lost my all my money 4 times in my life... some times also because of men...been homeless... been saved... been dumped ... got up back. I guess only God made all that possible. But here???? Ya’allll weenie babies. Sounds like you all don’t wanna be bothered with your partners issues... which we all may have and we can resolve. You wanna be so free that the only thing I can suggest is: get a f¥¥Nng plastic doll. @the rock.... this isn’t personal you
This is so true my ex had daddy issues and I was constantly drained because she always had the victim mentality and didn't have initiative to do something for herself.
I hit the jackpot! Single mother with bipolar and a party girl!!!! She also grew up without a father! She's now a single mother to three kids to three fathers.
Spooky Mumbles Spooky, if you could expound on number 4. I want to know what you meant about "those that take selfies". I am attracted to a lot of those types. Please help!!!
Always ignored the red flags. I just wanted to hit it. After two failed marriages I met this woman at my job who had a lot of red flags but I was so infatuated I didn't care. Been married for 22 years and she's solid gold.
Lol reminds me of my ex whom my family tore us apart, cause they didn't like her and her redflags she was a nyph, a loyal nyph mind you, best damn woman I ever had, she stayed home cleaning and preparing herself and house for what's to come while I worked and returned home to a cex demon every day, yeah I had cameras in the house cause even I was cautious since she was a nyph for sure I thought she has gotta be doing someone else while I'm working.
I just ended a relationship with my girlfriend, it was really hard but I had to do it. She didn't have typical daddy issue but pussified father. She bragged all the time how she can do everything, how strong she is and shit like that, but her dad or brother help her all the time with just everything you can think of. She was hard to spot on at first, but as you said, there are only problems with such girls, endless problems. On the other hand, I am the guy that gets things done, I recently started my own business and women like that just don't appreciate qualities that I bring to the table. I must get through this breakout. Cheers
Wow. I had a friend that literally dropped everything when his daughter called . She was 21 at the time . Always needed help with something. He made her breakfast one morning and instead of thanking him she complained about how he made the eggs. I couldn’t believe my ears. My farther didn’t make me breakfast?? And if he did - I’d say a proper thank you. I spoke to my friend about her behavior and he didn’t see it. He planned a dinner birthday party for her and she texted him “I’m going out with friends dad..” He’s teaching her to treat men like crap by being too nice and bending over backward ! That was the # 1 reason why I refused to date him. Every weekend was a chore he had to do for his daughter! She’s now living with a guy and he just proposed to her. I feel SORRY for that guy. He looks super simp and done already.
Dang that seems crazy because it is ,, mabey the father feels strong remorse for producing a creature in such a awful place called earth so he's dedicated his life to her and she dosen't realize yet that he didn't really try to create her on purpose it was just something that he ate hours previously that got him to sighted by some broad that craps out moving turds from the other side of her boot taze ,,
I've noticed the daddy issue ones, tend to positively view her father, though he wasn't a good father, and compare you to the false impression and you'll never meet the standards.
You're 100% right on everything you said about women with daddy issues. I was married for 12 years with such a woman, it was a roller coaster to try to make her understand that I was not her father she was trying to equate me with, she never appreciated nothing I did for her. At some point she started being jealous of the way I treat my own daughters, she was emotionally unavailable and fought all good initiatives I had for the family. At last I gave up and left her.
Woman in the 5% viewers and loving it! It’s just sound truth... it’s true that we girls look for the same things our fathers gave us.. good or bad! We women should be held accountable for what we “expect” and not just getting it because we are able to manipulate them
To Me you said something VERY Key and I feel that if a Woman does NOT RESPECT what You bring to the table You NEED to Get RID of her because you'll spend your Whole trying to please this tragedy in a dress .
Just broke up with a girl that had all three points. All I can say is it was good for the first few months then became an absolute nightmare. She never valued my effort, had no respect and always needed money and a bailout. We have a son and are fighting for custody she thinks every other weekend is enough time.
I haven't watched this in its entirety, but am writing this as I'm listening. You nailed the daddy daughter situation exactly. I couldn't agree more! I was extremely close to my father, and he was exactly what I needed. I got so much confidence because of that relationship and ended up being a prodigy, level headed, logical (as opposed to emotional), and am very successful. Seriously, he was the one that made me realize as a teenager, that I had what it took to do whatever I wanted for my career. It is absolutely priceless.
Good. It is imperative for a father tobe in his daughter's life, and raise her and listen to her. That a way when she goes out into the real world she knows what the love from a man looks like. My ex never got that, and she resents/hates her father on top of been molested as a child by a family member. It was hard as all to deal with her durning the 4 years we were together. Love her , but I hated all the drama and hate she had towards her family and people around her, she brought me down and brought the worst out of me. I take full responsibility, I saw the red flags early on when we were dating, and I continued down the path. We have a small child together and I love him so much, I'm just thankful we have 50 50 custody of him. Blessed
If you're into saving women, it means you're being the savior and her the victim. If you often fall for these women it means YOU have a problem. You attarct each other.
Sometimes the people with the worst childhoods grow up to be the most wonderful, loving and caring people you will ever know, as in my case. There are exceptions to everything😊!!
I agree with Kelly. I grew up with a step dad that was abusive. It showed me what not to be and or do in a relationship. While I did marry young, I have been in a successful marriage for 15 years. We have one child and I value my husband a lot. I like that he is protective and that he is the head of our home. He is my first in command and I am his second. We are a team and we support each other. Did I have a bad relationship growing up with my step dad, yes. But what it also taught me was what type of guy to stay away from, and what not to do, as a woman, in any relationship I'm in. Sadly so many woman are selfish and hurt men by, for example, taking their kids away. These woman don't understand that they cannot replace a dad. They are hurting their own children in the worst of way. Relationship are 50-50. And I do believe how a woman relates to her father is extremely important, I also know that it's about the mind set. The maturity and a person's ability to recognize damaging behavior in their past, learn from it and make sure they don't repeat it.
There's always an exception to every rule, but the point here is that it's the exception and not the rule. Dating someone with childhood issues is like buying a car from a salvage auction, you never know if it's solid and stable or if there's a serious problem under the hood, waiting for the right trigger to unleash itself. As someone who also had a rough childhood, I can fairly say this
First time i got married I completely neglected the "daddy issues" part. Did not know this was a thing at the time. I was young. I thought my ex was the exception to her train wreck of a family and I was saving her from that environment by marrying her, but just as you said; she didn't appreciate the things I did and I def paid for her unreconciled issues she had with her dad that I had nothing to do with. Good advice right there.
I agree with this so much. I own up to having “daddy” issues and growing up with not having strong parents to give more guidance on how to treat people and most of all how to treat myself. I have found my biggest fear is being that girlfriend or wife who drains her boyfriend or husband dry or takes advantage. My goal is to make a relationship where my man is appreciated and I show an equal contribution to the stress the world throws at us. This video is very appreciate cuz it shows the light on how women in our society are growing up to be. Guys take notes!
lol at the concept of equal contribution when the deck is shown to be perpetually stacked in mens favor so you’re literally promoting doing more work but calling it equal 😂😂😂 im in stitches!!
I grew up with no Dad and a “teenage mom” I did a 180 Degree difference in my life than the way I grew up. 5 well rounded children with morals and values married 25 years tomorrow. Some of us want different than what we grew up with. Don’t judge us by our parents.
The worst is the kind that suffers from too much anxiety, depression, anger issues or are just plain narcissistic. I dated a woman who although she was not perfect physically (in her eyes) to me she was beautiful. But her insecurities always made her test herself in front of other men. So whenever she went out, I feared her attention seeking of men. These types always try to shift guilt to you by saying you have no confidence, you don't trust her, etc. The best kind of women are the types you don't have to worry about them ever cheating on you or disrespecting you.
Jonvolca Man I can so relate still care about her but we can't just live together so it's on slow death spiral. I gave up too much for her a shame really.
Jonvolca Man You're right! That demonic behavior is one of the hallmarks of narcissism designed to torment, manipulate and control you.That game you described destroys families and relationships.
I understand the flirting problem, but anxiety? Anxiety is super common these days in America, especially in women. We have emotions that we sometimes cant handle. I’m glad my boyfriend is caring and loving towards me even with my anxiety.
Jonvolca Man, I so agree with you. I am a woman and she was looking for attention and sympathy all the time from you, I imagine. Always playing the victim role. She felt that you would accept her inappropriate attention to other men, because she had poor self esteem and confidence. That was a big manuplation tool she used against you. Yes, I do agree Narcissistic men abd women are everywhere. You have to be experienced and educated on how to deal with them. The best way i have found is to terminate the relationship or a better term, Go No Contacr. They will make your life miserable.
I don't see where those women exist, sir. But more power to you. These are human beings, and frail ones at that. Their sensitivity (which we as men love when positively directed at us, nurturing and sex and sweet talk) is a dual sided coin. You will evoke their anger-and the pushback from that will be either disrespectful or manifest itself passively aggressively (more often than not because they're not good at confronting or for self-solace in anger). Once that happens, all bets are off.
Point one. "Do not date a woman with daddy issues" that's an unrealistic expectation. This is *increasingly difficult* to find as a millenial. If you are holding out for a woman who comes from a stable marriage with a strong male figure in her life...you will be single for a LONG time.
@@EMichaelBall we come from the age of no-fault divorce and single parent households. Most people I know come from a home that's broken in some way, with no father figure. I consider myself lucky to have come from a stable home with both parents. Then again...my parents are old.
Very wise advice. Recently I met a new girl and our interaction went like this. Her "My father ruined my childhood" Me: "Sorry I got a terrible headache, let's do this another time" (end of my interaction with her) It all lasted not more than 3min. if we do not take into account the formal small talk. First of all you do not share such stuff with a guy you just met, second and not least.. she would feel with me in a relationship that I make her adulthood a nightmare and then.. try to get revenge on me..
"women that need to be saved" perfectly describes by ex gf. She had a masters degree but lived paycheck to paycheck bc she spends al her money on clothes. Still lives with her parents bc she cannot afford her own place and never offered to pick up the tab, it was always me paying for everything. Thank God i was able to get away.
I agree , I dated a baby daddy before and when that happened his baby momma had a fit , so I decided to stick with people my own age and men single never married and without children .
I dated my ex for two years, she had daddy issues. He left the family in another country so he was missing for most of her life. She eventually ended up cheating on me after proclaiming that I did not giver her enough attention. I work as a entry level network engineer and I focus a lot on self development. Anyways, I remember one of the last conversations I had with her shortly after the break up was that she envied me because and quote "Your family is intact and they love you, meanwhile I'm here with my family who doesn't care about me". So yes, girls with daddy issues will mess you up if you're not careful. Needless to say I'm glad I ended that before I committed myself more into the relationship, but sad to say those two years are well behind me.
About 18 months ago I listened to your videos, and quickly dismissed you as a jaded prick. Then I met 'her' . . . and after 1 year of dealing with a woman that you precisely describe I have adopted to your points of view. Your advice is spot on! I've worked harder, been more productive, and have moved past this wealth-draining-wretch in my life thanks to the advice you have provided. Thank you for everything - its much appreciated.
Second vid I've watched from this guy. I'm 54, have to agree with his observations. I'm a 5th generation Canadian, ex Canadian army sergeant, own my own business, men of any age should listen....
Well I am a African American woman who is 46 single, no kids, w/a degree, and 15 years of college under my belt, who still get's carded at 46 soon to be 47, and have been told I look like I am in my late 20's. I know for a "FACT" that I am not the only one out here. I also no that a lot of black women have been lied to and are in bad situation, but I still pulling forward in life. You have to look at EACH person and not group them as a whole. I know you said the majority, but again everyone has baggage you have to find the person who you can deal with "their crazy" is how a friend and I put it. I have not found the man crazy I can deal with yet. You men are just as crazy! Like the man said who has been married for 40 years. Both people have to be able to give what they can. My parents were married for 50 years and my dad just passed away a year ago. I have seen it work. I have a huge family and only 8 couples have split up out of over 100 people. People give up to quick now and move to fast into everything, and don't really take the time to get to know each other from what I have seen. I was adopted by a white hippie family in the 70's. This guy seem to be very unhappy in a lot of different ways to make a lot of these judgements about women and it is sad. But I also say "Live and Let Live". Try to stay happy with who every you choose to be with, because it is your choice.
Wow. So wouldn't that standard eliminate dating black men too? I can spot a man who didn't have a father figure in the home. I grew up in a two parent home so I notice the difference especially the younger the man is. I've seen black men and black women whom both have daddy issues marry each other and they are fine. Anyway I was listening to see if what he might say to avoid in women was interesting but the interesting part was that the 3 things to avoid can apply to men too.
One thing you said in this video - I realise I'm being picky as fuck but critisism is good :) "If she doesn't value it as a child why would she value it as an adult woman" Disagree, values change as you age. Apart from that, great video, agree with all your points.
When I heard "women with daddy issues" my heart sank. I loved my father who passed away recently. He was a man ahead of his time , who told me I was smart and capable and could do anything I put my mind to. He didn't believe in stereotypes and had a heart of gold. I was not fortunate enough to marry a strong man like that. Five years later I have reinvented myself and am living the life my father told me I was capable of. A strong man builds up women and raises strong and capable daughters. Not dependent ones.
That doesnt sound like daddy issues daddy issues is more in the sense of him not being there for u/being abused. If u were raised right then i think ur good
i've always felt that about the 'daddy issues' if a girl cant respect her father.. she will never respect a man. the father is the number 1 man in a womans life until she meets her husband. how she interacts with him is a good look into how she really views you
If you live in a Western democracy, the first question to ask, is whether she's a feminist. If so, give her a wide berth. It indicates a victim mentality, pettiness, and a tendency to blame others for her own shortcomings.
She Natural - SMH that is exactly the problem. Poor decision making. Poor judgment of character. Poor life's choices. These literally encompasses female nature.
@@anonymousnearseattle2788 As a 42 yo male, I'm here to tell you if you find a woman in her 40's with no kids, take caution. I won't say avoid, but definitely be cautious.
agree. i dated a girl for 2 years with a woman who had daddy issues. MAN! that was the worst relationship ever! she had all the works: attention seeking, over jealousy, hate, materialism, and even trust issues. goodness, everytime we had an argument, she'd always end it with, "why don't we just break up". every single time we had a fight. Told her "we have an argument so we can settle things not break up. in two years, i always showed her that when conflicts would arise, the solution is NOT to break up. finally, i gave up, and to her surprise i agreed. she was stunned! she said she never meant it (breaking up with me). i Guess she realized i was really putting up with her all these years and finally gave up. she was the worst ever. like EVER. she is now 42 (as of my count) and still has not settled down. MY guess is, she will never ever settle down. MEanwhile, i am already engaged to (in my opinion) the perfect one for me. our wedding date is fast approaching. great Vid. thanks.
Had a friend who knocked up his date and moved on (with that child) to a woman with 3 children and no employment (and a worthless ex). Last I heard the 5th child was on the way and she still didn't work while he did shifts at a Volvo factory. Decent guy in most regards, but he just threw away any chance of building a strong foundation for himself and his family by supporting a broodmare and a legion of small children.
Damsel in distress is a guaranteed disaster. First, it will set up the man as the fixer/provider role which as we know is different from the attraction/lover role. You will spend heaps of time and money all the while her attraction goes lower and lower. She develops "affection" for you. Then in the end you will ALWAYS feel betrayed/used no matter how much you told yourself and others who were warning you that "I really WANT to help her." No matter how much you told yourself and others that she "isn't the type" to use you.
It’s amazing how rare a man that steps away from the “Adam” syndrome actually exist. Oh hello Adam… Adam does the dirt but Adam has never taken accountability for his own actions. I hear that men have created these types of women but I don’t hear any man here saying what he has done to rectify that other than walking away. Most men today are looking for women who make more than them and are yet still submissive. Who is submitting to you when all you do is work one job and be a butt? Your hygeine tends to be poor, your sex is trash, you are self absorbed clearly as you see all the men here are just complainers portraying themselves as chit commodities??? Fellas what makes you valuable?
To piggyback on the one with daddy issues -- the pussified dad. I dated a girl that had a pussified dad, and it was a nightmare. Even if the dad is a good guy, a loving guy, a caring guy.....if he's a complete softy pushover, guess what she's going to expect you to be? You guessed it....just like him. They had a great relationship, but her and her mother definitely wore the pants in that household. I can't allow that from a potential wife. For any businessman, this is going to be damn near impossible. Also, beware of the perfectionist-type of woman. Trust me, it's a nightmare and NOTHING you do will be good enough.
My beautiful and amazing mistress It goes against nature and it simply isn't attractive. No matter how much you don't want to acknowledge nature, or the truth, it is what it is. If anything, a relationship should he half and half, not her trying to dictate my life and act like a male. No man with pride and testosterone is okay with being bossed around and having their life dictated for them. Sorry, but you're simply a feminist-brainwashed woman. At the end of the day, a woman's nature is to be submissive. They lose all respect for a guy that is a complete puppy dog and does everything she says -- and you know that's the truth.
Kravesin You wanna hear something crazy and, my hand to God is the 100% truth? Her mother was a school teacher. I swear on my life. You should be a profiler. Lol.
I want to say thank you for making this video. I have been saying to my friends with children the very same thing. I was very lucky to have an amazing Dad. My Dad was an old school tough guy. He owned an oil & gas company and I spent as much time with my Dad as possible. Dad showed me how a man should take care of his family and respect his wife. My parents were old school and taught me to have strong morals and intergrity. I am confortable with who I am because my Dad was stern with me when I needed it and also supportive when I needed him to be. He also taught me I need to be my own person and take care of myself. The problem now is I can't find any quality men that don't have mommy issues or feel insecure because I dont need them to take care of me. They can't accept I'm with them because I want to be instead of because I need to be. Or they have 2, 3 or 4 women that they have kids with and they are being ruled by these crazy women. I look around sometimes and think where did all the real men go.
No offense, but if you look like your profile picture, then the issue might be with your standards. You know what you want and you are independent that is great. However, if you want to marry your dad 2.0 that is creepy af. Not every man is the same and if you do not take your time to know people you will never see their true face and you might miss out on your ideal partner. Not every man has a company and the ones that have can get the hotest young women they prefer. I would never date anyone over 25 even if they are amazing. Men care about looks and youth before anything else and if you wait too long you will simply unable to get valuable men as they are all married. Time is ticking and none of us gets any younger, but you do you.
Roert Horvath are you fucking kidding? You would espouse that men have higher standards for women and veto them if they have children with a garbage boy yet you're telling women to lower their standards? Jeezus fucking Christ!
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What you have said about women with daddy issues is clinically spot on! No respect, no interest in the value you bring to the table, they throw you like a garbage when you do not serve them the way and at the time they like... You are a very perceptive man!
you def have to include women who are Borderline or Bipolar. So critical, because these women can be undiagnosed and are often extremely sexual from the very beginning. Due to the sexual nature of the realtionship men can lose their focus. Not realizing the foundation of the relationship is built on the woman's fear of being abandoned rather than being loved.
I agree with OP. I think more probably.... Women being extremely sexual from early on is in and of itself a red flag. A woman's sexuality is her nuclear bomb.. her strongest weapon. It's designed to be a powerful bonding agent. If a woman starts using it right off the bat... Well... Why is she doing that? It will get her quick results. That is, shell have a man's interest captivated quickly. But should that be necessary to catch his interest? Shouldn't her personality be able to keep a man interested even without the lure of sexuality? Or... Perhaps she just really loves sexuality. Again.. why? Was she abused as a child? Why is that her go to move? Etc It's always best to remain analytical... And least to a degree. Sexuality can be so powerful that it blinds men, even to otherwise obvious red flags.
The daddy takes care of everything she ever needs is a massive red flag. I dated a girl who was 25 and her dad would wake up early to come scrape her windshield when it got cold overnight + other things that’s just 1 example. She was a train wreck emotionally, couldn’t handle any adversity. The smallest thing would ruin her day and make her pout.
+Triberetgoddess Oh, absolutely. There are plenty of us mere, mortal, males with all sorts of problems - some real a**holes. No one gender has a monopoly on bad behaviour and personal issues. I will say this much though - When men have behavioural issues or conduct themselves badly, they're often terrible. But at the same time, they're often blatant and obvious - easy (easier) to spot. When women have issues, they often go to greater lengths to hide these issues. No one gender is better or worse than the other, but men and women are just different, and this also extends to personal issues and problems.
Triberetgoddess I was married to a man with mommy issues...she did everything for him, he never had to lifted a finger. I was raised in more of a diplomatic nuclear family...shared responsibility. He came from a family....mommy did everything even after a full time job. His dad laid on the couch. Won't ever make that mistake again. Even if a man says he isn't looking for his mother.....he is.
+HeckNoGMOs What you said in your comment is spot on. There are definitely some of us mere, mortal, males with issues...."Mommy issues", and otherwise. And any guys that seem like trouble - steer clear of them. Make no mistake, there are lots of us guys about that are nothing but trouble. One thing I really don't like doing is making generalisations, or categorising people. But having said that, there are definitely some general trends that can be seen around you. In my opinion, I tend to think that in past/older generations, when there have been problems or troubles in relationships, it's "generally" the men that have been at fault. They've often been violent, abusive, disrespectful, unfaithful, etc, etc. And more often than not, many men acted this way because their wives were financially dependent on them and had nowhere to go; they just had no job or house to live in. That's not to say that there aren't any women from past/older generations that were trouble, but I tend to think that the bad partners from yesteryear were predominantly males. I've witnessed this myself first hand, and in more than one circumstance. I find this absolutely disgusting, but I tend to think it's gradually on the decline as women are becoming more financially independent and won't put up with it. But today, I think women are massively bridging the gap, in terms of bad/toxic behaviour in relationships. And nowhere is this more prevalent than when it comes to women who are unemployed/have financial problems....*ESPECIALLY* in regards to Single Moms. Not talking about Single Moms in general, not at all. Nor am I looking to insult or berate Single Parents as a whole. *What I'm referring to is Single Moms in a financial mess.* What is happening nowadays in a big way is that many of these women are simply looking to fleece men for their money and assets, and/or to "upgrade" to a better (i.e. wealthier) option, the moment it (he) presents itself. This is in no way saying that there haven't been men that have defrauded women of money and assets, but it is far and away more common for females to do this to males. And this is more the trend nowadays. All said and done, no specific gender has a monopoly on having personal issues or being malicious. And in no way am I prejudiced or misogynistic, as I would dispute this vehemently. But I have not only seen various instances of this above, but experienced them first hand.
shazlikd Yep...both sides have their issues. Newly divorced this year...I am staying single for a long while. I am the happiest I have been in 8 years. Most adults don't seem to understand each needs to find their own happiness and self worth for themselves before taking on the near impossible task of meeting a partner. Most look to others to fulfill their happiness, this should not be the case.
I came this channel recently, and it's GREAT. So many of the videos pertain to me. I was married to a Hungarian woman who turned into a beast as soon as I paid off the mortgage. She never lifted a finger to help our two girls and I had to take a job I couldn't stand, but that allowed me to work from home instead of a much better/higher salary one that I would have loved, just so I could take care of my children AND work FULL-TIME, while their mother sat on the couch and DOUBLED her weight.
Mingling with a woman like this will sink you into a hole that you might never be able to crawl out. So the hand is not such a bad option. Trust me on this
great video man. Men need to hear this. Also you managed to be very respectful to those people who have made these mistake and even admitted that you've made a few of your own. Such is life. Much repect to you and great video and channel man. Keep up the great work.
I think these are true, but don't negate the fact that wise, creative, and intelligent women can grow and heal from their past. If they haven't done that extremely difficult work, definitely move on. I wonder what types of issues in men are red flags for women. Controlling mother I'd say is one because they will have trust issues thinking you're like their mother while also unconsciously wanting you to mother them. Addicts, or any man who numbs out instead of facing life. Men who allow the women to be the man...for example, when women who don't understand how men think shame their men (you're "bossy" , "cold", "obsessed with sex" etc) and the men appease the women instead of standing firm in their masculinity. Just a few off the cuff I'm thinking of... I've learned these the hard way. I like these videos, thanks for providing the male perspective. It's intriguing. Definitely rough times between men and women :(
Just because men have flaws doesn't mean we should accept your flaws. Like they say, two wrongs don't make a right. Men usually don't expect women to solve their problems. It's not really a rough time, it's an awakening that's been forced on men due to the changes that feminists, divorces, unjust laws and treatment have brought about in intelligent men. I grew up wanting to love and take care of my woman forever until I learned that I was just being used and lied to by the one who promised me 'til death but made it clear that it wasn't.
For me it's men that don't take care of their children. Men who blame everyone else for their issues except thier own poor choices, men who aren't kind , intelligent and emotionally intelligent. And those that can't spell 😂. Also men who speak badly about their ex's... Red flag there for sure.... I mean we have all pick some shockers throughout our lives, but sooner or later you have to realise if your relationships have failed the only common denominator in all of them is YOU. It's one thing to give men advice on the women you should avoid dating, but if Daddy issues is the number one maybe you could do something a bit more Intelligent,, creative thought provoking and affirmative like start to get men to discuss what it is to be a "man" , and how that is changing. And why girls have Daddy issues in the first place...? Because from MY research and discussions what it means to be a "man" , actually seems to be rooted in some archaic sense of masculinity from a bygone era. Maybe you could engage in a dialogue about how most of what is expected from you via society, and much of what shapes that concept is actually chosen FOR you from a really young age and doesn't serve any of you very well. I mean it's akin to a 30 year old woman who still thinks she is a princess, seriously when are you going to grow the fuck up and make decisions about what it is to be a man, and what it means to be a good man.... for yourselves... .. This tit for tat, pity party disguised as 'advice on dating' is kind of banal and if you were a female, I'd call you a basic bitch... . Really these comments are just an exercise on dick pulling. . Who's been shit on the most by women, whilst taking absolutely no responsibility for choosing what you deserve. Honestly... it's a really interesting, complex topic and one that could be honestly discussed since you have an audience. Men are suffering, many are literally dying, suiciding every day, in record numbers, families are aching and breaking, children are being ripped apart and traumatised, boys and girls growing up without their fathers, or being abused by them, or being too weak to lead a family righteously. The jails are full, violence against children is at insane levels, women are dying daily because men can't hold their anger, men are self medicating ,and abusing themselves and it's all part of the same issue... and you want to discuss which women to avoid... 👏👏👏 Surely you have more to contribute it's than that ? Pretty sad really.
1. Mommy issues 2. Commitment phobics (it seems to transfer into their whole lives, not just romance, I.e. careers) 3. Arrogance (not confidence, big difference)
I agree. I found myself in a narcissistic abusive marriage. I had a solid upbringing and my parents are still happily married and are my best friends. Because of that, I knew my worth going into it and I knew my worth getting myself out of it. He tried to break me (almost did) but he didn't. I'm not who I was before. I'm actually better. It did leave scars but it revealed a strength I never knew I had. I know I still have work to do. I'm not interested in dating because it's not fair to me, my two kids or a prospective man until I've completely rebuild. That's all this guy is trying to say. He's right. Without sounding conceited because I'm not, I know who I am and what I offer. But I tried to date when I was still separated, a mess and it didn't go well. The good men will not be interested and predators will target you. You have to know who you are and value yourself before you can be of any value to somebody else.
@@delishme2 well said! Society in general needs a serious tune up! We are all responsible for how things are going down. We can all work together as a team to make it a better place and take responsibility for our actions and reactions or we xan just continue abusing and blaming one another. Everyone has a choice.
what you said about the daddy issues was sooooo accurate dude, i had that girl i wanted to engage and i discovered she had daddy issues and noticed her attention seeking behavior and everything is all about her , not caring about me or my life , so i cut the ties immediately and walked away. what you said happened exactly as u said
Another type of woman to be careful of and think needs to be mentioned are those with BOTH Mommy and Daddy issues, I mean extremely dysfunctional upbringing. Abusive dominant Mother and pussified Father who enables the abusive mother by Not standing up for his children and their welfare. So the woman grew up with resentment for her father and sees men as weak and only worthy of verbal/physical abuse and bossing them around.
Women & Men To Avoid: (I'm a guy, will use "She") (1) If she tells you she did something horrible to her past partners, she will definitely do it to you as well. (2) If she pushes for children or marriage within 2yrs of knowing her. (3) If she seems pleasant and sweet within the first 3-6 months and then begins to devalue you with insults, name calling, yelling, blaming, gaslighting, basically any form of disrespect. Learn these terms, by learning about narcissism. (4) If she keeps contact with her ex or claims to have a male best friend (which is usually her ex in disguise). (5) If she claims she wants to take things seriously, but goes to parties, bars and clubs without you. (6) If you have your own apartment or house, she finds out about it and not long later claims to have a fight with her parents, room mates, siblings, etc... and now needs a place to stay. (7) If she wants an official by the state marriage; no man or woman should want marriage in this day and age and no person should pressure you to marry them. Don't get married, period. (8) If you have ambitions, goals and things you wish to accomplish and you've already made it clear that you value your time, but they continue to attempt to distract you or become upset when you choose your ambitions and goals over them. Leave them immediately, their attempting to strip you from your identity. (9) If there is something you really love, it could be a passion or something as simple as always working on and hooking up your car and they look for ways to take these things away from you. For instance, "When are you going to sell your BMW, we have kids now, we should have a mini van" if you love your car and it brings you happiness to have it, don't let anyone take it away from you, no matter how reasonable they sound. Their attempting to take away your happiness and they know it. I remember a friend saying it best, "I'll fight for my car, I won't fight for a woman". (10) If she can't take away your happiness, so she makes your happiness your burden. Example: Let's say you have a dog, she attempts to find ways for you to get rid of it, but she's unsuccessful, suddenly you'll hear things like, "Ugh.. can you shower your dog... it stinks" even though you know you just cleaned it. She's attempting to make you hate what you love. Alright. I hope this helps someone.
What if you leave her after 60..there's a difference between a man and a woman. Man, you are stronger than her, at least physically, a few things you mentioned are okay but what if the woman actually loves her husband. She cooks cleans goes to the market. This is selfish period
@@gunjananand2271 A woman can cook, clean and do all sorts of favors, BUT if she is behaving toxic, causing you misery, making you feel uneasy (as if something is up or you feel in your gut she's done something, but you can't quite put your finger on it), if she is yelling, disrespecting, you feel confused, etc... all these things are ground for termination; it's a sign she is making you feel uncomfortable within your own skin. That is a person of worth to be with.
@@steffot8468 I have a personal rule and understanding... The honey moon phase... when there is a lot of sex and fun it is often confused for "Love"; it's only after the honey moon phase ends that the relationship has truly begun. If you truly have a connection, you'll both continue to enjoy each others company. Personally for me, I have come to understand that Religion actually had one thing correct, if a woman isn't a virgin, chances are the relationship is already doomed. (This doesn't mean marry a woman claiming to be a virgin and definitely be careful with women that claim to be virgin and will wait until their period begins to have sex with you to try and fool you into believing you've taken her virginity.) With this said, I don't recommend a relationship, especially at the time. I am personally between monk and casual sex. By monk I simply refer to having sex, but avoiding to release my sperm. I am also careful with women of low value or energy; their bad luck becomes your misfortune once you're sleeping with them. SEX - Sacred Energy Exchange.
I am a woman that watches your channel. I have daddy issues. The thing that sucks is that it wasn't my fault. I hope everyone who watched this video doesn't generalize me, & write me off as a lunatic. Edit: I do appreciate your red pill point of view. I think you are very intelligent & that's why I watch your channel.
He missed one . Never date a woman who owns a horse. The horse always comes first ,and if she needs something big and powerful between her legs she doesn't need you
My wife’s dad left when she was 9 and as a result she has always craved attention from males. Been married for 13 years and she is filing fir divorce. When it comes down to it, she would rather go dancing or whatever and get that superficial male attention that she desperately “needs”. We’ve got two little ones. But society has been surprisingly supportive of her behavior and very critical of me. I feel dead inside. My heart feels like it’s going to collapse on itself. I’m just so sad.
Hey dude. Its been a year since you commented hope you’re doing well.
@@sthembisomakelefane8727 thanks man...I’m doing okay 👌 still coping but I’ve learned that time heals all and that things still work out
So sorry to hear this. I am 27 and very grateful to find these knowledge being still single and on my purpose. But honestly west is doomed. I live in very conservative society where most of marriages are arranged by parents. I used to feel that this culture is toxic to our freedom but reality is men here have much higher control over women then those in western cultures. Truth is if women doesn't fear the men, she will eventually destroy him.
Stay strong bro and i hope the best for ur kids
@@javierdavis696 thanks brother - been spreading kindness lately. It works wonders :)
Rich - Learn from my experiences
Me - she has all 3 red flags but let me see what happens.
Me 10 months later - Rich is right
Same
She was hot, huh?
@@your.dark.lord. yeah, she was. Hot and a hot mess.
Same here but replace 10 months with three years and subtract the third sign
5 years later for me
I've been married for over 40 years.the problem I see in most relationships today is that each person is looking at what they are getting out of it instead of what they can give.good luck with that.
True true.
Lorna Phillips Amen to that. People need to focus on how they can be better. Generally the other will respond in like
Truth
I’m trying to get a big booty cute wife that knows how to cook and won’t cheat.
That’s all I need.
danae hernandez Marry me.
I’ve been too attracted to women who need saving, it’s been the most expensive and tiring ten years of my life. Single for 18 months and way happier.
Yeah, same here. If you tell her that you cannot be with her because she’s a mess, she will cry and make you feel bad.
Read about codependency. Good book is "Codependency No More"
@@ericpowell4350 thank you
Rescuers on some level expect her to be grateful and subservient. BUT NO. They will be the opposite. Do not fool yourself.
You still happier bro?
1. Daddy Issues. 0:50
2. Damsel In Distress 6:56
3. Custody Catastrophe's 9:34
yo! thanks for doing this
My friend's old girlfriend I'm pretty sure was all 3. After they broke up, she continued to hang around like a parasite.
Lol, ew.
I agree with this list... people who are in any of these situations,😧 or in some cases all three, should not be trying to date in the first place, they have more serious issues to focuse on, like finding a better counselor or lawyer. ... I have dated guys in these categories too... I think, these are pretty general dating situations to avoid.
Been there done all that
At 61 I’m the expert on women
I’ve learned a lot from my stupid mistakes
Three women you should avoid dating or marrying; Those 25 and under, those between 25 and 40, and those 40 and over.
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Made a mistake marrying a 22 year old. So immature and full of her self. Biggest mistake in my life.
@Auset Luceus Gay means happy!
LOL. :-)
@@ZakuZuko damn bro, how old were you at the time?
Stuff like this should be a high school class for guys. Had to learn this shit the hard way.
So many of us learned the hard way, better to learn that not at all. Better late than never 👍
This video is 💯 right, spot on! I'd an exgf (not tom mention also a half sister) who are classic psychological textbook cases mentioned. My sister would use, shag, marry from one man to another, these poor guys, nothing was good enough.
My exgf was an entitled little b*tch, whose dad was an abusive drunk then out of the picture when she was young. She took everything for granted, unfortunately her mum's traits (playing the victim card) became her own (felt like she was dating her mum and not me). Nothing was good enough, she was selfish, didn't drive, leeched money and the worst she would suck up energy like an emotional vampire and i got tired of "rescuing her from her own made up b.s.
I broke up with her and took the red pill and am so glad i did!
It's as if they want young men to fail
Agreed, instead they fill our heads with useless garbage we spend the next 5 years out of school unlearning the bullshit, they dont teach life skills in school just academic skills to become a good slave worker to the dirty system.
Sure!
First of all, I am a woman. I am writing this to the females of our species (especially radical feminists) that are currently screaming in rage after watching this video:
My dear fellow females,
I 100% agree with what this guy says. What ya'll are misunderstanding is that having daddy issues/custody problems/etc is not indicative of you being a bad person. This man is not saying that. What he IS saying, however, is that you have unresolved issues in your life (not necessarily your fault) and a wise man would not want to be involved in that. And I believe that is a wise decision to make, because the issues in your life are going to affect the man you are dating as well.
Please understand.
I'm SO with you and I couldn't agree more! Well said!
funny how men are the ONLY people causing daddy issues, but then they are also the boyle ones who get to deem any women that suffers from said issues as less “valuable”… don’t you see the circular reasoning here? don’t you see how problematic that is?
He didn’t say unsolved issues he just said issues. Even if you’ve dealt with your issues with male role models you cannot lie and say you had role male models when you didn’t. There’s plenty of women with absent male role models who appreciate a good man.
100% agree with you and him. As a mother of 2 sons I didn’t want my sons to marry these kind of women. Marriage is hard enough without inviting in a troubled woman.
@@originalewalk Men aren't the only ones causing daddy issues. There are plenty of mothers out there that poison the well of the love their children want to have for their dad by talking trash about him and keeping them from him. I've personally witnessed this happen to a number of men that I know. They aren't bad or dangerous men, just men that had kids with self-centered women.
Women that are always on their phone. Obsession of finding someone new. Women that have to always have attention from other men
Aka a narcissist
This was my ex girlfriend, covert narcissist.
Girls with a “guy best friend”
That’s literally all women.
BTW,every nowadays women
stay away from woman who never go a week without having a new boyfriend or if their boyfriends seem to overlap one another.. for instance a woman is flirting with you and says she is in a relationship but its not going very well and is hence interested in you. their boyfriends generally aren't very special to them and they choose them based on who is convenient for them and they will do the same to you. it also shows they can't be independent at all.
soldatheero A woman recently was giving me the googly eyes and flirty body language while standing next to her husband. I smiled and winked to see how she would react. She blushed like a school girl and did that thing girls do when they brush their hair behind their ear and bat their eyes. At that moment I knew she had no respect for her husband, or any man for that matter. I am not a home wrecker so I left. All of this happened at a gun store while her husband was purchasing a firearm and ammo. I am 38 and she looked to be about 10 years younger than me, but I am horrible at judging a woman's age. I feel sorry for her husband. If she hasn't cheated on him yet, she will eventually. Poor guy.
Chris Holman sexist...stop putting down women just coz u got rejected by one..get over it dude..have a life u can still be important
Dalia Alfakih My ex wife did not reject me, I rejected her hence why I made her move out and I filed for divorce. The woman from the store did the opposite of reject me, so who exactly are you talking about? I am not sexist! What I said was truth. The kind of woman that will flirt with a man while standing next to her husband has no respect for her husband and likely sees men as a way to improve her life through the status of a man instead of standing on her own two feet. That is not the kind of woman I would date or marry. That is not sexist, that is an observation of human nature. By the way, I handle rejection quite well. Let me tell you a recent story that goes to prove my point.
A few months ago I met this gal that worked at a local comics store. I was looking to get back to reading comics since I stopped reading them as a kid when I discovered girls, ah that was a magical time...*fondly remembers his first crush*...Anyways she seemed to be really into me and we had a lot in common, comics movies and firearms, it turns out more than I realized. She would ignore other customers just to talk to me. She started to find me in the store when I was just looking around and we rarely talked about comics. She was flirty but not aggressively so. Anyways I guess I misread her because one day about a month or so ago I asked her out and she said she was kinda into girls and had a girlfriend and pointed to her girlfriend. My immediate reaction was shock, I am sure it was visable on my face, but I quickly recovered. I said "at least it isn't anything I can do something about." She responded with, "well there is but I doubt you would take hormones and have surgery just to go to diner." I said while chuckling, "No, not really." We then had a good laugh and we are currently friends. I did get rejected in this case, and by a lesbian though I am thinking she might be bisexual, and not only did I handle it well but we are now friends. I respect her enough to leave it at that.
I can call some women out on their bullshit and not be sexist. The real sexists are feminists that demonize all men. I do not demonize all women, but I have no problem calling a spade a spade when I see a woman that is a shitty person. Critisizing a woman, or a group of women, is not sexist. Making a statement like "Women are too crazy to be president" is sexist. That statement is inclusive of all women while saying that I would not date certain types of women, or that feminists are female supremacists, is not sexist because it is not inclusive of all women. Not all women are the same, and not all women are feminists. If I said that a woman's place is at home in the kitchen, this is not a belief I have yet I do think it is best for a mother to stay home when her kids are under school age if possible, that would be sexist. Though I personally believe in traditional gender roles, women have the God given right to live their lives the way they choose. So stop throwing around these stupid labels. Just because a man disagrees with your ideology doesn't make him sexist. One last thing, I literally begged my ex-wife to work for years and she refused. We had no kids that needed to be taken care of, and we struggled financially for the first 3 years we where together. There was no reason why she couldn't work. That hardly sounds sexist, in fact that makes her an entitled brat that wants men to take care of her.
Dude, she doesn't care. She just proved to herself that she can get three paragraphs of attention from you with only one word. She gets double jollies for putting you down as a sexist without consequences and for you validating her pointless comment.
*Type of women to stay away from: Any and all Western women living in any westernized country. Doesn't matter what her personality is like; the culture is feminist which means they all fuck around with dozens of men and have zero loyalty and respect for men. Even if you were to find one who isn't a whore, doesn't matter, marriage is completely out of the question in the U.S. and Canada and Europe because the woman has GOD LIKE LEGAL POWER OVER YOU and your children. Most men don't find that out until after they've been permanently ejected from the home and can't see their children simply because she's bored of you.*
Lets stop beating ourselves up over what mistakes we made picking significant others, and just realize we LEARNED from the mistakes.
Stay strong guys!
Thank you. I needed to hear this.
Exactly lol😆! So what! I’m glad we all failed and now I learned and I’m super happy at 50 with zero debt to enter 2022! Men and women continue to talk about the past! Like if everyone is perfect. F no! Nobody is an Angel or excellent
Learning isn't enough. We NEED to be educating younger men (preferably before marriage or fatherhood)
The first and easiest step men can take to improve their lives is to boycott companies who engage in male-bashing advertising such as Gillette and Nissan USA.
Bruh but that 400z is sick tho lol
@@al69420 fuck that 400z imma buy that Supra. Toyota forever
Oh and don't forget Harry's razors. Buy Jeremy razors
This would have been very useful information 15 years ago. Will pass this on to my son
Your son is about 15 huh...
haha
Stay strong brotha or find a side piece
Yep bullshit world we live in. Back in the day you would just off them and say you havent seen her and get a girlfriend and have shots of whiskey together. I love my wife but hate what she has become. Selfish one sided know it all .
Kinda ironic but.. I turned out okay despite my upbringing and opposition.. Here's the reason. My dad was ousted out for being and alcoholic.. But my mom was wayyyyy worse. My Mom is 100% Narcissistic Jezebel and I was the Bane of her existence. Impossible for me to explain the details here but to keep it very shrt the woman hates my guts to the core. I was a daddy's girl up til the point she through his ass in jail and took custsy. She abused me all my life even up til recently when I finally cut her ass off. As a kid when she abuse me I told her I wanna live with Daddy despite his alcoholism. In my mind dealing with an alcoholic was wayy easier then an harshly abusive Narcissistic Mother. Anyways later in life I tracked him down and moved in with him when I hit hard times when she kicked me out for no good reason. He told me she caused an abortion because she couldn't get something at the store.. She through a tantrum and beat her pregnant stomach.. That was my sister.. SHE KILLED HER! I was shocked. This woman (my mother) is everything vile and disgusting I see in modern day women. So my life goal was to be the direct opposite to everything she stands for... The outcome- I landed a very great man.. An Alpha who I love, adore and respect to the core. She got very vwey jealous. To the point where she felt threatened that I was having an affair with my own step dad!! I know 100% psychotic.. But not uncommon with narcissistic mom.. OOHHH THEY ARE BEYOND EVIL! TRUST ME! So I cut ties with my family for more than 6 mths ago to stop the abuse. I can tell you millions of stories of what it's like for a daughter of a Narcissistic mom but lemme tell you there is now plenty of info on this subject on YT and the internet already Thank God! I can ses clearly the behaviors my mom displayed in most women today 😩 Sorry men.. I would love to give you an easy solution to finding a decent lady but sadly... Narcissism in women is at it's peak! Best advice I can offer is focus on your personal success and if any womwn come into your life as you make your way to the top REALLY put them through shit test. We aren't living in a prefect world where women are taught traditional values 😟 inside they are embracing feminazi brainwashing. My own mom tried brainwashing me into it but I resisted! Becoming the scape goat. But my younger sister, on the other hand,adhered to the brainwashing making her the Golden Child at 28 years old living in her home with her spineless BETA husband. It's the most pathetic situation imaginable. Anyways.. Thought I would share.. I know this was long.. Sorry.. But I have horror stories of women like this thanks to my mom and what their life turns out to be in the end cause of experience.. Feel free to ask me anything I'll be happy to help wake up anyone to these types of evil women. God Bless!
1. Bang on...daddy issues are trouble..
2. 1 single parent or divorced women
3. Women that disrespect you in any way
Single mother....double D's: Debt & Drama
Watch out for women with borderline personality disorder!
@@isaacsanders9203 Having divorced one they really are a kind of monster. Something just not completely human about them. It doesn't even occur to them that there is anything wrong with their abusive behavior. I didn't know that she had it until years after our divorce when a psychologist told me it sounded like she had it. I read a list of 10 signs they have it and she was a dead ringer for 7 or 8 of them.
@@stevecarey2030 it’s such a dangerous disorder. Glad to hear you’re away from the abuse. Hope you’re doing well. Many men do not survive to live or rebuild. Cheers friend
@@isaacsanders9203 Thanks man, appreciate it.
Women who smoke. That is like being friends with cancer.
SMOKING IS ALSO UNFEMININE
Avoid Women who smoke ?
= Oh I Don't Know, Marry Them, Get Them WELL Insured = R.I.P. = MONEY !
Oh, I'm Thinking Like a Woman Now, Ho Hum.
I'm a smoker too soo what's your point dipshit ?
Death's Shadow 99 Skullface alcoholics to dipshit.
Smells gross too
Go spend an hour in any US family court and you’ll get all the reasons you need. Stay single or go overseas gentlemen.
Great video and advice. My heart sank when the first trouble type you said was a girl with daddy issues. I came out of a 2 year failed relationship with a girl like that last year. Her father was basically a piece of furniture when she was growing up, and when I finally learned the extent of her anger toward her father it was a huge red flag, but I really fucking loved this girl and wanted to save her. Big mistake. She really showed a lack of respect in general towards me, because she never had a reason to respect her father, so she of course didn't feel any need to respect me. The biggest thing is the emotional damage that had been done to her. She was kind of bi-polar. She would retreat into these deep frigid spells and virtually shut me out completely. It resulted in some major issues in our relationship that were extremely painful. Honestly, it kills me, because other than the daddy issues, which were admittedly terrible, she was a damn amazing girl with so many good qualities, and very very beautiful. Life is just fucking tragic sometimes...
Invisible Prison yeah but imagine how badly her trust in men was damaged because of her dad =/
Been there ...
You just described perfectly a girl I had fallen in love with. I swear they are all the same
@@Sartheris They are indeed all the same. A quick way to identify a girl with potential daddy issues (or severe emotional damage) is if she is basically emotionally unavailable. They will show very very little concern or support for you, even early on in the relationship. As early as the second or third date. If talking to them and showing basic human needs and concerns starts to feel like a one-way street, I exit fast. Just dropped one last week after a few dates.
@@inrptn how do you drop one nicely? Like whats a favorite quote of yours for breaking up? Like what exactly do you tell them that the chemistry isnt there?
1) Single Moms
2) Single Moms
3) Single Moms
Gotham City dude i had a lady who is NOT a mom tried to make me move in and pay her bills
Single dads.
I’m fucking a single mom
She just wants to fuck.
That’s fine. I don’t want anything to do with her kid, and she don’t want me to have anything to do with her kid either.
She make her own money.
She wants to come to the gym with me then fuck.
@@dominiquemclaughlin565 😂 you wish. A single woman with a kid is damaged goods. A single man with a kid is alright, facts.
Learned this the hard way.
stay away from the $500 purse woman
kathy bost lol
Amen to that! Or any woman with rich tastes. A great book “The Millionaire Next Door” found that most millionaires don’t show it. One of the more interesting characteristics is that their spouses spent less than they did.
TRUE!!!!! I just commented something similar on a different video. Materialistic woman are so easy to spot!!! Good luck men, I'm routing for you!
but she might be thrifty and got it from a second hand store for $50 !!! Be careful about judging on clues...take a clue as an indicator and find out more...
Elise Grace that's a point, but if it's all she's wearing then it's the same difference.
I've been married to woman#1"daddy issues" for 27 years and as of this moment we are separating. The point about not seeing value in the man and how is transpires into the marriage is spot on!
I can confirm that its a nightmare to date the girls with daddy issues, trust me guys you will see it at least after 1 month and when the honeymoon phase faded away.
Agreed
They usually have bpd or npd
What about a son with mommy issues?? I was married to one, trust me. You don't want to deal with one, he would be psychopath, sex offender that doesn't value women at all. Unfortunately there are man like that.
@@eh4235 i am kinda like that sorry u met one I'm working on bettering myself tho
@@eh4235 i am also like that, but i stay away from women, either that or i m very upfront about it. problem is they don't believe/understand these issues. It's not like your bipolar or narcissistic on purpose, if you're really attached it messes with your head.
Young MEN please listen & heed the advice this man is telling you the last two women I dated fell in two of the categories of women to avoid it cost me 16yrs of life & over $90,000 in waisted expenses.
Dam 😬
'expenses' lol........ Do you date hookers
God Damn!!! 🤢
Yes, you got off real cheap! I don't even want to go there. Women can do a 180 on you even after five years.
Ton Robert after I read that i let out a very strong “MMMmm” i feel sorry for u bro but we appreciate the advice it’s gonna propel others forward. Thanks seriously
spot on about daddy issues. of course, the ones with daddy issues are usually hot. :/
every girl that I've known who had no father in the picture has had (all of the following):
1. drug problems
2. emotional instability
3. seldom have a career or future goals
4. piss poor financial common sense
5. the need for immediate gratification, 24/7, live for now mentality
6. her problems are paramount to anything going on in your life
7. wants you to respect her "independence", while still expecting chivary (but not appreciating it)
That isn't entirely true, some women take a bad situation and deal with it, but the state coddles them and its much easier for them to make excuses.
A lot of girls don't have career goals, even if they're "normal". But #4,#5,#6,#7 is spot on. I've met one and I'm glad I recognized the red flags. Girls with daddy issues usually have extremely high levels of narcissism.
You forgot 1 million selfies taken on Instagram....or pics of their body.
1 never did drugs
2 people have emotions
3 3 time business owner
4 I’m buying a house cash to retire early
Well those are my plans
5 no
6 no
7 no
🤷🏻♀️ still single
Just had cheater exes and not willling to stay in my past relationships because of that ...
yeah the daddy issues is dumb to me, as a child you don’t get to choose what kind of house hold you grow up in
I hate that I was only allowed to "like" this, once.
This is a must watch. After being in 2 relationships post divorce I finally realized that most women have daddy issues. I’m 50 years old...I dated women my age and they still had these issues lingering. I’m sending this video to my 24 year old son
But if I have them too, what should I do to help myself? 🤔 So that if I meet the love of my life I'd be a better person.
At the end of the day, having grown up without receiving much attention from your father is sth that's out of your control
I got married to a woman with daddy issues. It was big! mistake. She said very bad things about her father and did not have any respsect for him. And now I am the one who is not respected.
Please explain, it helps the community understand these red pill truths.
On the very first date she mentioned that she had emotional breakdown because of her of dad. I mentally made a note however later dismissed it. She later spoke of him badly blaming for all the bad things in her mother’s life including her mother getting sick and passing away in relatively young age. She even spoke of him in the manner like “this idiot” or “this looser”. After her mother passed away, her father started to date other women. As a side note, she was already 24-25 years old at this point and married to me. I was really surprised how incredibly mad it was making her. As if her father had no right to date anyone and, god forbid, to bring his girlfriends to the house where my wife grew up. She could ignore her father and not speak with him for months.
While we were married I was making about ¾ of our joint income. I did my best to take care of things around the house. She did not even know on what days of the week the trash was picked up. We never had any children and our intimate life became very bad. There was one time when I took her on Caribbean vacation in very expensive resort and did not even have single intimate encounter with her there during entire vacation. After couple years she tried to drive away my premarital friends. I was not to speak with anyone who was not on her “approved” friends list. We would have a party and she would act if she was a head of household while my job was to make drinks for her girlfriends and take care of their needs. She would even tell a story to her/”our” friends about how successful she was before marriage and while speaking about me say something like “and now I am married to this”. She would literally kick my ass with her foot in front of her girlfriends. And, I had to ask permission for every small thing such as going fishing or spend some money on myself. Every time I wanted to express an opinion on any matter during social events she would interrupt me and make me to shut up. My friends kept telling me that she was acting as if she was single while we were at social events as a couple. And, I had no right say No to her. Every time I tried to say 'No' the shaming would begin that often would turn into a tantrum with screaming and name calling. There were times when her tantrums would turn into vomiting for several hours. Of course I was supposed to feel guilty after that and try to make it up to her. I even got physically hit several times. She would engage in emotional abuse call me things like “stinking looser”, “alcoholic” and that all friends think that I am crazy and need professional help. At the end, I decided I had enough and I chose to leave her.
Dee Ja. We are separated now and going through divorce. It took me too long to realize that I was wasting my time with this woman. As they say, it is better later then never.
Vanchin Af that's not daddy issues, that's narcissism. And yeah those come in male gender too. I left mine after 17 years of abuse. I would never wish that on anyone!!!
@@Vankin77 men I dont know how you took so much abuse. Hope you are with a better woman.
Stay away from feminists, single moms, and women between 30-40, slamming through the wall.
Especially if they don't have kids! Don't assume they will be on the pill. One night of 'oh damn I forgot to take it' or 'well there's always 1% chance it won't work so I guess we got unlucky' and you are basically screwed. If you don't want kids, get the op or make sure you are in control of contraception the whole time. Women panic in their 30s if they still haven't got kids and want them, and will have no issue ruining a man's life to get pregnant. I've seen it happen so many times. Then the guy either feels bad and marries her or spends the next 20 years arguing with an ex while trying to find other women to date who will put up with that drama.
BRIDGEBURNERS TV nothing wrong with feminists, unless you’re talking about the ones who want to kill all men
My World my man dates me, a feminist
Volition Iskey what do you mean “by the look of it”
LDT7Y yep! my father’s ex-girlfriend did that to him. she lied and said she was on the pill, which he usually saw her take but she had been off of it for a while. she was 36 with no kids and lived on her own. now I have four half siblings because my father wasn’t smart about the women he was with
I wish they had this in 1980...
Boy i was used big time..
Divorced over 20 years...
It destroyed my family...
same deal here ,only 14 years. The damage done cannot be measured on many levels
Me Also !
16 yrs for me and I still raise one of her kids from her first marriage
Read the rational male
14 years marriage. Two kids. She destroyed the family with her hidden narcissism.
I always took my daughters out for their birthdays, one on one. I would open the car door for them, pull their chair out, and just generally treat them with respect. This way I can be confident that when they start dating, and some punk pulls up to the curb with his music blasting and honks the horn to get their attention, they won't even bother coming outside, because they've experienced the behavior of a respectable man and no poser with a narcissism problem is gonna keep their attention. I effectively raised the bar for them before they even began really interacting with boys. Today they are all very well adjusted
Spot on, sir! Nailed it with the daddy issues thing.
+Rob Reeves #tuth
tuth? Do you need a tuth brush? LOL
Dude, almost every girl has daddy issues. Many girls are neglected by their overworked dad because they were too tired to even look at them after work.
This is a problem since decades.
Exactly and how is it the girls fault? With that said, not all those girls even have the issues that this guy is talking about and if so, its a spectrum. We can talk all day about the baggage he has that he may or may not even be aware of. Ridiculous reasonings.
@ranikalakaar whew! At least someone here is thinking.
We need to raise strong confident Sons.
Yeah... good idea! Not like the bunch of pussies commenting around here! I lost my all my money 4 times in my life... some times also because of men...been homeless... been saved... been dumped ... got up back. I guess only God made all that possible. But here???? Ya’allll weenie babies. Sounds like you all don’t wanna be bothered with your partners issues... which we all may have and we can resolve. You wanna be so free that the only thing I can suggest is: get a f¥¥Nng plastic doll. @the rock.... this isn’t personal you
This is so true my ex had daddy issues and I was constantly drained because she always had the victim mentality and didn't have initiative to do something for herself.
I hit the jackpot! Single mother with bipolar and a party girl!!!! She also grew up without a father! She's now a single mother to three kids to three fathers.
Guy, get some therapy for yourself. Why did you find a woman like this in your life?
@@stevec3526 I was 20 at that time. There was no TH-cam mentors like there is today.
Buy track shoes.
Damn, dude. That’s a hot mess.
So basically ALL women. Got it, monk mode *SOLIDIFIED*
The truth🙏 he has no time to understand women he don't believe in love I think everything is complicated at times especially at the start
@@queenrole6507 Whoooosh
Mr J speak for yourself
@@ulyssesdenice5071 Oveseas chicks become trashy too when exposed to the swamp.Beware!
Hahahha
1. The fat ones
2. The loud ones
3. The loud fat ones
4. The ones that take selfies
5. Def agree on the Daddy issues ones too
Spooky Mumbles only fat guys entertain the idea of dating fat girls you don't have to mention that nobody with dignity dates fatties
Spooky Mumbles Spooky, if you could expound on number 4. I want to know what you meant about "those that take selfies". I am attracted to a lot of those types. Please help!!!
Spooky Mumbles fat ones with no attitude ? That's makes no sense
Bob Down did he mention goldigers?
I think 4 means "instagram whores". Cuz everyone takes a selfie from time to time.
Always ignored the red flags. I just wanted to hit it. After two failed marriages I met this woman at my job who had a lot of red flags but I was so infatuated I didn't care. Been married for 22 years and she's solid gold.
Lol reminds me of my ex whom my family tore us apart, cause they didn't like her and her redflags she was a nyph, a loyal nyph mind you, best damn woman I ever had, she stayed home cleaning and preparing herself and house for what's to come while I worked and returned home to a cex demon every day, yeah I had cameras in the house cause even I was cautious since she was a nyph for sure I thought she has gotta be doing someone else while I'm working.
❤️💕live comes with taking chances love to hear it over again
I just ended a relationship with my girlfriend, it was really hard but I had to do it. She didn't have typical daddy issue but pussified father. She bragged all the time how she can do everything, how strong she is and shit like that, but her dad or brother help her all the time with just everything you can think of. She was hard to spot on at first, but as you said, there are only problems with such girls, endless problems. On the other hand, I am the guy that gets things done, I recently started my own business and women like that just don't appreciate qualities that I bring to the table.
I must get through this breakout.
Cheers
don't go back ive seen it with my mom. my stepdad is whipped.
my grandpas did everything for her
Dude, you nailed it. My wife, totally. And I was am a rescuer and sadly bought into it
Wow. I had a friend that literally dropped everything when his daughter called . She was 21 at the time . Always needed help with something. He made her breakfast one morning and instead of thanking him she complained about how he made the eggs. I couldn’t believe my ears. My farther didn’t make me breakfast?? And if he did - I’d say a proper thank you. I spoke to my friend about her behavior and he didn’t see it. He planned a dinner birthday party for her and she texted him “I’m going out with friends dad..” He’s teaching her to treat men like crap by being too nice and bending over backward ! That was the # 1 reason why I refused to date him. Every weekend was a chore he had to do for his daughter! She’s now living with a guy and he just proposed to her. I feel SORRY for that guy. He looks super simp and done already.
Thats sad ;-;
The only solace a woman has is her discontentment.
@@freeagent8225 amen
Dang that seems crazy because it is ,, mabey the father feels strong remorse for producing a creature in such a awful place called earth so he's dedicated his life to her and she dosen't realize yet that he didn't really try to create her on purpose it was just something that he ate hours previously that got him to sighted by some broad that craps out moving turds from the other side of her boot taze ,,
I'm just gonna assume that your friend is coming from caucasian house hold
I've noticed the daddy issue ones, tend to positively view her father, though he wasn't a good father, and compare you to the false impression and you'll never meet the standards.
You're 100% right on everything you said about women with daddy issues. I was married for 12 years with such a woman, it was a roller coaster to try to make her understand that I was not her father she was trying to equate me with, she never appreciated nothing I did for her. At some point she started being jealous of the way I treat my own daughters, she was emotionally unavailable and fought all good initiatives I had for the family. At last I gave up and left her.
Zebede Zandale -Jezebel offspring.Congratulations on your escape!
Had the same deal. Never valued anything.
Woman in the 5% viewers and loving it! It’s just sound truth... it’s true that we girls look for the same things our fathers gave us.. good or bad! We women should be held accountable for what we “expect” and not just getting it because we are able to manipulate them
I love your response.
Thanks👍
That is true. I am alwsys looking for a man that has the same qualities of my father.
☺💅😊
@@jean7725 I’m guessing you’re single
To Me you said something VERY Key and I feel that if a Woman does NOT RESPECT what You bring to the table You NEED to Get RID of her because you'll spend your Whole trying to please this tragedy in a dress .
Just broke up with a girl that had all three points. All I can say is it was good for the first few months then became an absolute nightmare. She never valued my effort, had no respect and always needed money and a bailout. We have a son and are fighting for custody she thinks every other weekend is enough time.
I haven't watched this in its entirety, but am writing this as I'm listening. You nailed the daddy daughter situation exactly. I couldn't agree more! I was extremely close to my father, and he was exactly what I needed. I got so much confidence because of that relationship and ended up being a prodigy, level headed, logical (as opposed to emotional), and am very successful. Seriously, he was the one that made me realize as a teenager, that I had what it took to do whatever I wanted for my career. It is absolutely priceless.
Good. It is imperative for a father tobe in his daughter's life, and raise her and listen to her. That a way when she goes out into the real world she knows what the love from a man looks like. My ex never got that, and she resents/hates her father on top of been molested as a child by a family member. It was hard as all to deal with her durning the 4 years we were together. Love her , but I hated all the drama and hate she had towards her family and people around her, she brought me down and brought the worst out of me. I take full responsibility, I saw the red flags early on when we were dating, and I continued down the path. We have a small child together and I love him so much, I'm just thankful we have 50 50 custody of him. Blessed
Hope ur relationships turned out great. It will be easier for u to get a man because women with their fathers make good wives imo
If you're into saving women, it means you're being the savior and her the victim. If you often fall for these women it means YOU have a problem. You attarct each other.
Dnt change who u are just be u best self and dnt apologized ever💕❤️
Sometimes the people with the worst childhoods grow up to be the most wonderful, loving and caring people you will ever know, as in my case. There are exceptions to everything😊!!
Nobody wants to play roll the dice with sometimes and end up ruining your life
@@scoobyraw8544 women love rolling the dice since the state loads them ....
I think this is right -
I agree with Kelly. I grew up with a step dad that was abusive. It showed me what not to be and or do in a relationship. While I did marry young, I have been in a successful marriage for 15 years. We have one child and I value my husband a lot. I like that he is protective and that he is the head of our home. He is my first in command and I am his second. We are a team and we support each other. Did I have a bad relationship growing up with my step dad, yes. But what it also taught me was what type of guy to stay away from, and what not to do, as a woman, in any relationship I'm in. Sadly so many woman are selfish and hurt men by, for example, taking their kids away. These woman don't understand that they cannot replace a dad. They are hurting their own children in the worst of way. Relationship are 50-50. And I do believe how a woman relates to her father is extremely important, I also know that it's about the mind set. The maturity and a person's ability to recognize damaging behavior in their past, learn from it and make sure they don't repeat it.
There's always an exception to every rule, but the point here is that it's the exception and not the rule. Dating someone with childhood issues is like buying a car from a salvage auction, you never know if it's solid and stable or if there's a serious problem under the hood, waiting for the right trigger to unleash itself. As someone who also had a rough childhood, I can fairly say this
First time i got married I completely neglected the "daddy issues" part. Did not know this was a thing at the time. I was young. I thought my ex was the exception to her train wreck of a family and I was saving her from that environment by marrying her, but just as you said; she didn't appreciate the things I did and I def paid for her unreconciled issues she had with her dad that I had nothing to do with. Good advice right there.
I agree with this so much. I own up to having “daddy” issues and growing up with not having strong parents to give more guidance on how to treat people and most of all how to treat myself. I have found my biggest fear is being that girlfriend or wife who drains her boyfriend or husband dry or takes advantage. My goal is to make a relationship where my man is appreciated and I show an equal contribution to the stress the world throws at us. This video is very appreciate cuz it shows the light on how women in our society are growing up to be. Guys take notes!
Thank you for your honesty!
Thanks for honesty hope you heal
lol at the concept of equal contribution when the deck is shown to be perpetually stacked in mens favor so you’re literally promoting doing more work but calling it equal 😂😂😂 im in stitches!!
God bless you lady. Its humbling to know there are women who are enlightened out there. I pray you the best .
@@originalewalk youre a really bitter woman if you take pride in belittling another woman striving to have a good life
I grew up with no Dad and a “teenage mom” I did a 180
Degree difference in my life than the way I grew up. 5 well rounded children with morals and values married 25 years tomorrow. Some of us want different than what we grew up with. Don’t judge us by our parents.
Are you a woman?
The worst is the kind that suffers from too much anxiety, depression, anger issues or are just plain narcissistic. I dated a woman who although she was not perfect physically (in her eyes) to me she was beautiful. But her insecurities always made her test herself in front of other men. So whenever she went out, I feared her attention seeking of men. These types always try to shift guilt to you by saying you have no confidence, you don't trust her, etc.
The best kind of women are the types you don't have to worry about them ever cheating on you or disrespecting you.
Jonvolca Man I can so relate still care about her but we can't just live together so it's on slow death spiral. I gave up too much for her a shame really.
Jonvolca Man You're right! That demonic behavior is one of the hallmarks of narcissism designed to torment, manipulate and control you.That game you described destroys families and relationships.
I understand the flirting problem, but anxiety? Anxiety is super common these days in America, especially in women. We have emotions that we sometimes cant handle. I’m glad my boyfriend is caring and loving towards me even with my anxiety.
Jonvolca Man, I so agree with you. I am a woman and she was looking for attention and sympathy all the time from you, I imagine. Always playing the victim role. She felt that you would accept her inappropriate attention to other men, because she had poor self esteem and confidence. That was a big manuplation tool she used against you. Yes, I do agree Narcissistic men abd women are everywhere. You have to be experienced and educated on how to deal with them. The best way i have found is to terminate the relationship or a better term, Go No Contacr. They will make your life miserable.
I don't see where those women exist, sir. But more power to you. These are human beings, and frail ones at that. Their sensitivity (which we as men love when positively directed at us, nurturing and sex and sweet talk) is a dual sided coin. You will evoke their anger-and the pushback from that will be either disrespectful or manifest itself passively aggressively (more often than not because they're not good at confronting or for self-solace in anger). Once that happens, all bets are off.
Point one. "Do not date a woman with daddy issues" that's an unrealistic expectation.
This is *increasingly difficult* to find as a millenial. If you are holding out for a woman who comes from a stable marriage with a strong male figure in her life...you will be single for a LONG time.
Most such women are snapped up early.
@@EMichaelBall we come from the age of no-fault divorce and single parent households.
Most people I know come from a home that's broken in some way, with no father figure.
I consider myself lucky to have come from a stable home with both parents.
Then again...my parents are old.
Very wise advice. Recently I met a new girl and our interaction went like this. Her "My father ruined my childhood" Me: "Sorry I got a terrible headache, let's do this another time" (end of my interaction with her) It all lasted not more than 3min. if we do not take into account the formal small talk. First of all you do not share such stuff with a guy you just met, second and not least.. she would feel with me in a relationship that I make her adulthood a nightmare and then.. try to get revenge on me..
She sounds like a Sagittarius they can share everything to anyone, and it rubs cancers the wrong way I'm gonna assume you a cancer.
"women that need to be saved" perfectly describes by ex gf. She had a masters degree but lived paycheck to paycheck bc she spends al her money on clothes. Still lives with her parents bc she cannot afford her own place and never offered to pick up the tab, it was always me paying for everything. Thank God i was able to get away.
Redbull357 damn how old is she?
You are a dustie , a man’s job is to provide and protect.
@@praised1745 Yes, for a woman that is worthy. She wasn't the one.
@@praised1745 Girl what ? you will remain a single mom if you keep thinking like that lol.
@@praised1745 He said gf, not wife. Your words only apply if she's your spouse
Listen to this guy. I married one of these girls and happened exactly what he said, only troubles.
Yeah me too
Unfortunately, so did I.
Spot on brother, this should be a high school course 101. I learned the hard way.
a man should not be a baby daddy before being a husband, bottom line.
Dewayne Eberhardt ...oh no! thatsy boyfriend.
Dewayne Eberhardt why? you loose your home if you marry
Amen Dewayne
It’s worst getting married to just to have kids, then have your wife take all your shit. No thank you.
I agree , I dated a baby daddy before and when that happened his baby momma had a fit , so I decided to stick with people my own age and men single never married and without children .
I dated my ex for two years, she had daddy issues. He left the family in another country so he was missing for most of her life. She eventually ended up cheating on me after proclaiming that I did not giver her enough attention. I work as a entry level network engineer and I focus a lot on self development. Anyways, I remember one of the last conversations I had with her shortly after the break up was that she envied me because and quote "Your family is intact and they love you, meanwhile I'm here with my family who doesn't care about me". So yes, girls with daddy issues will mess you up if you're not careful. Needless to say I'm glad I ended that before I committed myself more into the relationship, but sad to say those two years are well behind me.
About 18 months ago I listened to your videos, and quickly dismissed you as a jaded prick. Then I met 'her' . . . and after 1 year of dealing with a woman that you precisely describe I have adopted to your points of view. Your advice is spot on! I've worked harder, been more productive, and have moved past this wealth-draining-wretch in my life thanks to the advice you have provided. Thank you for everything - its much appreciated.
Second vid I've watched from this guy. I'm 54, have to agree with his observations. I'm a 5th generation Canadian, ex Canadian army sergeant, own my own business, men of any age should listen....
Don’t save her she doesn’t wonna be saved don’t save - J cole 👏🏿
*project pat
Project Pat you dumb fuck
Pensacola Poker be easy, they don't know 😅
They prefer to be proud of their wounds than to be told how to solve them. Life is boring for them without wounds to be licked.
That was Prohect Pat you millenial clown. 😂😂😂
you know what's sad? #1 eliminates the majority of African American women. And as a black man i can speak that truth.
Thaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaank yoooooooooooooooooooou!
Well I am a African American woman who is 46 single, no kids, w/a degree, and 15 years of college under my belt, who still get's carded at 46 soon to be 47, and have been told I look like I am in my late 20's. I know for a "FACT" that I am not the only one out here. I also no that a lot of black women have been lied to and are in bad situation, but I still pulling forward in life. You have to look at EACH person and not group them as a whole. I know you said the majority, but again everyone has baggage you have to find the person who you can deal with "their crazy" is how a friend and I put it. I have not found the man crazy I can deal with yet. You men are just as crazy! Like the man said who has been married for 40 years. Both people have to be able to give what they can. My parents were married for 50 years and my dad just passed away a year ago. I have seen it work. I have a huge family and only 8 couples have split up out of over 100 people. People give up to quick now and move to fast into everything, and don't really take the time to get to know each other from what I have seen. I was adopted by a white hippie family in the 70's. This guy seem to be very unhappy in a lot of different ways to make a lot of these judgements about women and it is sad. But I also say "Live and Let Live". Try to stay happy with who every you choose to be with, because it is your choice.
Wow. So wouldn't that standard eliminate dating black men too? I can spot a man who didn't have a father figure in the home. I grew up in a two parent home so I notice the difference especially the younger the man is. I've seen black men and black women whom both have daddy issues marry each other and they are fine. Anyway I was listening to see if what he might say to avoid in women was interesting but the interesting part was that the 3 things to avoid can apply to men too.
Chuck Taylor 🙏🏾
Ray Black so true.
One thing you said in this video - I realise I'm being picky as fuck but critisism is good :)
"If she doesn't value it as a child why would she value it as an adult woman"
Disagree, values change as you age.
Apart from that, great video, agree with all your points.
When I heard "women with daddy issues" my heart sank. I loved my father who passed away recently. He was a man ahead of his time , who told me I was smart and capable and could do anything I put my mind to. He didn't believe in stereotypes and had a heart of gold. I was not fortunate enough to marry a strong man like that. Five years later I have reinvented myself and am living the life my father told me I was capable of. A strong man builds up women and raises strong and capable daughters. Not dependent ones.
That doesnt sound like daddy issues daddy issues is more in the sense of him not being there for u/being abused. If u were raised right then i think ur good
Facts
Don't get too emotional these are just basic standards
First video I've ever seen from you and I just subscribed. 7 years with a woman who had daddy issues and I'm finally free. You are 100000% right bro
Ace Wright grats on getting out. Thank God my ex showed her crazy a bit earlier.
I appreciate you! Marriage anniversary would be new years eve. Instead I'm going to hit the city SOLO and have a hell of a start to 2019
i've always felt that about the 'daddy issues' if a girl cant respect her father.. she will never respect a man. the father is the number 1 man in a womans life until she meets her husband. how she interacts with him is a good look into how she really views you
TNOutdoorsGuy so true
I just left mine because she turned out to be all 3 women you described here 😅
This video was nice, polite, and directly to the point with no bullshit. 10/10
If you live in a Western democracy, the first question to ask, is whether she's a feminist. If so, give her a wide berth. It indicates a victim mentality, pettiness, and a tendency to blame others for her own shortcomings.
Date a black woman - we are anit-feminist
Elise Grace lmao!!!?
Elise Grace That's the crazies shit I've heard thus far. They are bat-shit lunatic.
Elise Grace Black women fell for those feminist lies,milking off money as single mum’s off the state now.
@@GoldKingsMan are you speaking from personal experience from women you have chosen? Discernment is everything.
Women with grown children living at home would also be one to avoid.
Just simplify it to avoiding women with children, period. She left their dad for some stupid, fabricated reason, and she'll do the same to you.
She Natural - SMH that is exactly the problem. Poor decision making. Poor judgment of character. Poor life's choices. These literally encompasses female nature.
@@anonymousnearseattle2788 As a 42 yo male, I'm here to tell you if you find a woman in her 40's with no kids, take caution. I won't say avoid, but definitely be cautious.
The ultimate life hack. Never finance a depreciating asset. Rent don’t buy, date don’t marry.
If only a true christian man could do this 😔
agree. i dated a girl for 2 years with a woman who had daddy issues. MAN! that was the worst relationship ever! she had all the works: attention seeking, over jealousy, hate, materialism, and even trust issues.
goodness, everytime we had an argument, she'd always end it with, "why don't we just break up". every single time we had a fight. Told her "we have an argument so we can settle things not break up. in two years, i always showed her that when conflicts would arise, the solution is NOT to break up. finally, i gave up, and to her surprise i agreed. she was stunned! she said she never meant it (breaking up with me). i Guess she realized i was really putting up with her all these years and finally gave up. she was the worst ever. like EVER. she is now 42 (as of my count) and still has not settled down. MY guess is, she will never ever settle down.
MEanwhile, i am already engaged to (in my opinion) the perfect one for me. our wedding date is fast approaching.
great Vid. thanks.
Had a friend who knocked up his date and moved on (with that child) to a woman with 3 children and no employment (and a worthless ex). Last I heard the 5th child was on the way and she still didn't work while he did shifts at a Volvo factory. Decent guy in most regards, but he just threw away any chance of building a strong foundation for himself and his family by supporting a broodmare and a legion of small children.
Self inflicted wounds
Damsel in distress is a guaranteed disaster. First, it will set up the man as the fixer/provider role which as we know is different from the attraction/lover role. You will spend heaps of time and money all the while her attraction goes lower and lower. She develops "affection" for you. Then in the end you will ALWAYS feel betrayed/used no matter how much you told yourself and others who were warning you that "I really WANT to help her." No matter how much you told yourself and others that she "isn't the type" to use you.
It’s amazing how rare a man that steps away from the “Adam” syndrome actually exist. Oh hello Adam… Adam does the dirt but Adam has never taken accountability for his own actions. I hear that men have created these types of women but I don’t hear any man here saying what he has done to rectify that other than walking away. Most men today are looking for women who make more than them and are yet still submissive. Who is submitting to you when all you do is work one job and be a butt? Your hygeine tends to be poor, your sex is trash, you are self absorbed clearly as you see all the men here are just complainers portraying themselves as chit commodities??? Fellas what makes you valuable?
I’m from six years in your future. Your gonna kick some ass with this channel. Thank you.
To piggyback on the one with daddy issues -- the pussified dad. I dated a girl that had a pussified dad, and it was a nightmare.
Even if the dad is a good guy, a loving guy, a caring guy.....if he's a complete softy pushover, guess what she's going to expect you to be? You guessed it....just like him.
They had a great relationship, but her and her mother definitely wore the pants in that household. I can't allow that from a potential wife.
For any businessman, this is going to be damn near impossible.
Also, beware of the perfectionist-type of woman. Trust me, it's a nightmare and NOTHING you do will be good enough.
Good points
My beautiful and amazing mistress It goes against nature and it simply isn't attractive. No matter how much you don't want to acknowledge nature, or the truth, it is what it is.
If anything, a relationship should he half and half, not her trying to dictate my life and act like a male.
No man with pride and testosterone is okay with being bossed around and having their life dictated for them.
Sorry, but you're simply a feminist-brainwashed woman.
At the end of the day, a woman's nature is to be submissive. They lose all respect for a guy that is a complete puppy dog and does everything she says -- and you know that's the truth.
My beautiful and amazing mistress women shouldn't wear the pants... ever
Female School teachers primarily fall into that category that you just mentioned.
Kravesin You wanna hear something crazy and, my hand to God is the 100% truth? Her mother was a school teacher. I swear on my life. You should be a profiler. Lol.
Wholly shit!!!! Man my ex fits all 3. Omg I see it now.
Good experience bro, isn't it?)))))
yep
I want to say thank you for making this video. I have been saying to my friends with children the very same thing. I was very lucky to have an amazing Dad. My Dad was an old school tough guy. He owned an oil & gas company and I spent as much time with my Dad as possible. Dad showed me how a man should take care of his family and respect his wife. My parents were old school and taught me to have strong morals and intergrity. I am confortable with who I am because my Dad was stern with me when I needed it and also supportive when I needed him to be. He also taught me I need to be my own person and take care of myself. The problem now is I can't find any quality men that don't have mommy issues or feel insecure because I dont need them to take care of me. They can't accept I'm with them because I want to be instead of because I need to be. Or they have 2, 3 or 4 women that they have kids with and they are being ruled by these crazy women. I look around sometimes and think where did all the real men go.
No offense, but if you look like your profile picture, then the issue might be with your standards. You know what you want and you are independent that is great. However, if you want to marry your dad 2.0 that is creepy af. Not every man is the same and if you do not take your time to know people you will never see their true face and you might miss out on your ideal partner. Not every man has a company and the ones that have can get the hotest young women they prefer. I would never date anyone over 25 even if they are amazing. Men care about looks and youth before anything else and if you wait too long you will simply unable to get valuable men as they are all married. Time is ticking and none of us gets any younger, but you do you.
Exactly
Seems to me that you have an oil & Gaz Company Standard. Standard Oil Mary Lee.Change your standard a little bit & Good luck! Chick.
Roert Horvath are you fucking kidding? You would espouse that men have higher standards for women and veto them if they have children with a garbage boy yet you're telling women to lower their standards? Jeezus fucking Christ!
Am Over here 100% man 👨 all my dreams is to success in life to make the best family ever in this life because this is the fruit of this life contact me seriously who knows it’s not just a comment .
What you have said about women with daddy issues is clinically spot on! No respect, no interest in the value you bring to the table, they throw you like a garbage when you do not serve them the way and at the time they like... You are a very perceptive man!
Bad credit is a huge one for me. My mortgage would have been $1100 from $600 if i added my ex wife.
The three types of women that you should not marry .
!) Those who are standing up .
2) Those who are sitting.
3) those who are laying down .
Donald Miller -Lol!!!!!
Mike Arthut if they are men then they are not women lol
scarlace They think they are real women ! and will lie.
Mike Arthut no. They say they are transgender.
scarlace ALL OF THEM? nope. Some will LIE. make you a fool. especially if they had the surgery and got a fake vagina.
you def have to include women who are Borderline or Bipolar. So critical, because these women can be undiagnosed and are often extremely sexual from the very beginning. Due to the sexual nature of the realtionship men can lose their focus. Not realizing the foundation of the relationship is built on the woman's fear of being abandoned rather than being loved.
I agree with OP.
I think more probably.... Women being extremely sexual from early on is in and of itself a red flag.
A woman's sexuality is her nuclear bomb.. her strongest weapon. It's designed to be a powerful bonding agent.
If a woman starts using it right off the bat... Well... Why is she doing that?
It will get her quick results. That is, shell have a man's interest captivated quickly. But should that be necessary to catch his interest? Shouldn't her personality be able to keep a man interested even without the lure of sexuality?
Or... Perhaps she just really loves sexuality. Again.. why?
Was she abused as a child? Why is that her go to move? Etc
It's always best to remain analytical... And least to a degree. Sexuality can be so powerful that it blinds men, even to otherwise obvious red flags.
The daddy takes care of everything she ever needs is a massive red flag. I dated a girl who was 25 and her dad would wake up early to come scrape her windshield when it got cold overnight + other things that’s just 1 example. She was a train wreck emotionally, couldn’t handle any adversity. The smallest thing would ruin her day and make her pout.
Stay away from drama!
99% of women are Drama though...
Wrong. "Drama'....Finds YOU, No matter what.
DRAMA, MELODRAMA, STRIFE, THEATER, CHAOS, ETC
Three types of women to avoid.
1. All of them
2. All of them
3. All of then
We get it, you're gay.
I feel the EXACT same way about men with Mommy issues, separted men, spoiled and entitled men. Common sense on both sides.
+Triberetgoddess
Oh, absolutely. There are plenty of us mere, mortal, males with all sorts of problems - some real a**holes. No one gender has a monopoly on bad behaviour and personal issues. I will say this much though -
When men have behavioural issues or conduct themselves badly, they're often terrible. But at the same time, they're often blatant and obvious - easy (easier) to spot.
When women have issues, they often go to greater lengths to hide these issues.
No one gender is better or worse than the other, but men and women are just different, and this also extends to personal issues and problems.
Triberetgoddess I was married to a man with mommy issues...she did everything for him, he never had to lifted a finger. I was raised in more of a diplomatic nuclear family...shared responsibility. He came from a family....mommy did everything even after a full time job. His dad laid on the couch.
Won't ever make that mistake again. Even if a man says he isn't looking for his mother.....he is.
+HeckNoGMOs
What you said in your comment is spot on. There are definitely some of us mere, mortal, males with issues...."Mommy issues", and otherwise. And any guys that seem like trouble - steer clear of them. Make no mistake, there are lots of us guys about that are nothing but trouble.
One thing I really don't like doing is making generalisations, or categorising people. But having said that, there are definitely some general trends that can be seen around you. In my opinion, I tend to think that in past/older generations, when there have been problems or troubles in relationships, it's "generally" the men that have been at fault. They've often been violent, abusive, disrespectful, unfaithful, etc, etc. And more often than not, many men acted this way because their wives were financially dependent on them and had nowhere to go; they just had no job or house to live in. That's not to say that there aren't any women from past/older generations that were trouble, but I tend to think that the bad partners from yesteryear were predominantly males. I've witnessed this myself first hand, and in more than one circumstance. I find this absolutely disgusting, but I tend to think it's gradually on the decline as women are becoming more financially independent and won't put up with it.
But today, I think women are massively bridging the gap, in terms of bad/toxic behaviour in relationships. And nowhere is this more prevalent than when it comes to women who are unemployed/have financial problems....*ESPECIALLY* in regards to Single Moms. Not talking about Single Moms in general, not at all. Nor am I looking to insult or berate Single Parents as a whole.
*What I'm referring to is Single Moms in a financial mess.*
What is happening nowadays in a big way is that many of these women are simply looking to fleece men for their money and assets, and/or to "upgrade" to a better (i.e. wealthier) option, the moment it (he) presents itself. This is in no way saying that there haven't been men that have defrauded women of money and assets, but it is far and away more common for females to do this to males. And this is more the trend nowadays.
All said and done, no specific gender has a monopoly on having personal issues or being malicious. And in no way am I prejudiced or misogynistic, as I would dispute this vehemently. But I have not only seen various instances of this above, but experienced them first hand.
shazlikd Yep...both sides have their issues. Newly divorced this year...I am staying single for a long while. I am the happiest I have been in 8 years. Most adults don't seem to understand each needs to find their own happiness and self worth for themselves before taking on the near impossible task of meeting a partner. Most look to others to fulfill their happiness, this should not be the case.
Triberetgoddess pretty much 90% of women in a relationship, welcome to our world
I came this channel recently, and it's GREAT. So many of the videos pertain to me. I was married to a Hungarian woman who turned into a beast as soon as I paid off the mortgage. She never lifted a finger to help our two girls and I had to take a job I couldn't stand, but that allowed me to work from home instead of a much better/higher salary one that I would have loved, just so I could take care of my children AND work FULL-TIME, while their mother sat on the couch and DOUBLED her weight.
3 women you should avoid: your ex, your current, your next.
Gigi Fabozzi not just women, seriously! I strongly believe some men are worse than women. They just love drama! WTF????
@@chelsatabithavalley6685 never said that all men are good
Ha ha ha
90% of your dating pool enjoy your hand
Mingling with a woman like this will sink you into a hole that you might never be able to crawl out. So the hand is not such a bad option. Trust me on this
My hand is better..... it doesn’t argue, cost me money or want to cuddle when I’m finished 😂
@@appointedone9574
More for me.
Lol
So.. what's your advice ? ..
@@dobermadd
Pump n dump
great video man. Men need to hear this. Also you managed to be very respectful to those people who have made these mistake and even admitted that you've made a few of your own. Such is life. Much repect to you and great video and channel man. Keep up the great work.
More women need to watch and learn from the content you are providing. That's why I'm here .
OMG!! Soon as he stated #1 I threw my hands in the air in agreement! He's got my full attention now 😅
I think these are true, but don't negate the fact that wise, creative, and intelligent women can grow and heal from their past. If they haven't done that extremely difficult work, definitely move on. I wonder what types of issues in men are red flags for women. Controlling mother I'd say is one because they will have trust issues thinking you're like their mother while also unconsciously wanting you to mother them. Addicts, or any man who numbs out instead of facing life. Men who allow the women to be the man...for example, when women who don't understand how men think shame their men (you're "bossy" , "cold", "obsessed with sex" etc) and the men appease the women instead of standing firm in their masculinity. Just a few off the cuff I'm thinking of... I've learned these the hard way. I like these videos, thanks for providing the male perspective. It's intriguing. Definitely rough times between men and women :(
Just because men have flaws doesn't mean we should accept your flaws. Like they say, two wrongs don't make a right. Men usually don't expect women to solve their problems. It's not really a rough time, it's an awakening that's been forced on men due to the changes that feminists, divorces, unjust laws and treatment have brought about in intelligent men. I grew up wanting to love and take care of my woman forever until I learned that I was just being used and lied to by the one who promised me 'til death but made it clear that it wasn't.
For me it's men that don't take care of their children. Men who blame everyone else for their issues except thier own poor choices, men who aren't kind , intelligent and emotionally intelligent. And those that can't spell 😂. Also men who speak badly about their ex's... Red flag there for sure.... I mean we have all pick some shockers throughout our lives, but sooner or later you have to realise if your relationships have failed the only common denominator in all of them is YOU. It's one thing to give men advice on the women you should avoid dating, but if Daddy issues is the number one maybe you could do something a bit more Intelligent,, creative thought provoking and affirmative like start to get men to discuss what it is to be a "man" , and how that is changing. And why girls have Daddy issues in the first place...?
Because from MY research and discussions what it means to be a "man" , actually seems to be rooted in some archaic sense of masculinity from a bygone era. Maybe you could engage in a dialogue about how most of what is expected from you via society, and much of what shapes that concept is actually chosen FOR you from a really young age and doesn't serve any of you very well. I mean it's akin to a 30 year old woman who still thinks she is a princess, seriously when are you going to grow the fuck up and make decisions about what it is to be a man, and what it means to be a good man.... for yourselves... ..
This tit for tat, pity party disguised as 'advice on dating' is kind of banal and if you were a female, I'd call you a basic bitch... .
Really these comments are just an exercise on dick pulling. . Who's been shit on the most by women, whilst taking absolutely no responsibility for choosing what you deserve.
Honestly... it's a really interesting, complex topic and one that could be honestly discussed since you have an audience. Men are suffering, many are literally dying, suiciding every day, in record numbers, families are aching and breaking, children are being ripped apart and traumatised, boys and girls growing up without their fathers, or being abused by them, or being too weak to lead a family righteously. The jails are full, violence against children is at insane levels, women are dying daily because men can't hold their anger, men are self medicating ,and abusing themselves and it's all part of the same issue... and you want to discuss which women to avoid... 👏👏👏 Surely you have more to contribute it's than that ? Pretty sad really.
1. Mommy issues
2. Commitment phobics (it seems to transfer into their whole lives, not just romance, I.e. careers)
3. Arrogance (not confidence, big difference)
I agree. I found myself in a narcissistic abusive marriage. I had a solid upbringing and my parents are still happily married and are my best friends. Because of that, I knew my worth going into it and I knew my worth getting myself out of it. He tried to break me (almost did) but he didn't. I'm not who I was before. I'm actually better. It did leave scars but it revealed a strength I never knew I had. I know I still have work to do. I'm not interested in dating because it's not fair to me, my two kids or a prospective man until I've completely rebuild. That's all this guy is trying to say. He's right. Without sounding conceited because I'm not, I know who I am and what I offer. But I tried to date when I was still separated, a mess and it didn't go well. The good men will not be interested and predators will target you. You have to know who you are and value yourself before you can be of any value to somebody else.
@@delishme2 well said! Society in general needs a serious tune up! We are all responsible for how things are going down. We can all work together as a team to make it a better place and take responsibility for our actions and reactions or we xan just continue abusing and blaming one another. Everyone has a choice.
You hit the nail on the head 100% about the daddy issue girl. Just had along relationship with one.......huge issues......avoid them guys.
what you said about the daddy issues was sooooo accurate dude, i had that girl i wanted to engage and i discovered she had daddy issues and noticed her attention seeking behavior and everything is all about her , not caring about me or my life , so i cut the ties immediately and walked away. what you said happened exactly as u said
Another type of woman to be careful of and think needs to be mentioned are those with BOTH Mommy and Daddy issues, I mean extremely dysfunctional upbringing. Abusive dominant Mother and pussified Father who enables the abusive mother by Not standing up for his children and their welfare. So the woman grew up with resentment for her father and sees men as weak and only worthy of verbal/physical abuse and bossing them around.
Women & Men To Avoid:
(I'm a guy, will use "She")
(1) If she tells you she did something horrible to her past partners, she will definitely do it to you as well.
(2) If she pushes for children or marriage within 2yrs of knowing her.
(3) If she seems pleasant and sweet within the first 3-6 months and then begins to devalue you with insults, name calling, yelling, blaming, gaslighting, basically any form of disrespect. Learn these terms, by learning about narcissism.
(4) If she keeps contact with her ex or claims to have a male best friend (which is usually her ex in disguise).
(5) If she claims she wants to take things seriously, but goes to parties, bars and clubs without you.
(6) If you have your own apartment or house, she finds out about it and not long later claims to have a fight with her parents, room mates, siblings, etc... and now needs a place to stay.
(7) If she wants an official by the state marriage; no man or woman should want marriage in this day and age and no person should pressure you to marry them. Don't get married, period.
(8) If you have ambitions, goals and things you wish to accomplish and you've already made it clear that you value your time, but they continue to attempt to distract you or become upset when you choose your ambitions and goals over them. Leave them immediately, their attempting to strip you from your identity.
(9) If there is something you really love, it could be a passion or something as simple as always working on and hooking up your car and they look for ways to take these things away from you. For instance, "When are you going to sell your BMW, we have kids now, we should have a mini van" if you love your car and it brings you happiness to have it, don't let anyone take it away from you, no matter how reasonable they sound. Their attempting to take away your happiness and they know it. I remember a friend saying it best, "I'll fight for my car, I won't fight for a woman".
(10) If she can't take away your happiness, so she makes your happiness your burden. Example: Let's say you have a dog, she attempts to find ways for you to get rid of it, but she's unsuccessful, suddenly you'll hear things like, "Ugh.. can you shower your dog... it stinks" even though you know you just cleaned it. She's attempting to make you hate what you love.
Alright. I hope this helps someone.
ProGamingProphecy well fuccin put!
What if you leave her after 60..there's a difference between a man and a woman. Man, you are stronger than her, at least physically, a few things you mentioned are okay but what if the woman actually loves her husband. She cooks cleans goes to the market. This is selfish period
Number 3 is true , experienced it and it hurts like hell. Emotional abuse is like a fking drug. Thanks dude
@@gunjananand2271 A woman can cook, clean and do all sorts of favors, BUT if she is behaving toxic, causing you misery, making you feel uneasy (as if something is up or you feel in your gut she's done something, but you can't quite put your finger on it), if she is yelling, disrespecting, you feel confused, etc... all these things are ground for termination; it's a sign she is making you feel uncomfortable within your own skin. That is a person of worth to be with.
@@steffot8468 I have a personal rule and understanding... The honey moon phase... when there is a lot of sex and fun it is often confused for "Love"; it's only after the honey moon phase ends that the relationship has truly begun. If you truly have a connection, you'll both continue to enjoy each others company. Personally for me, I have come to understand that Religion actually had one thing correct, if a woman isn't a virgin, chances are the relationship is already doomed. (This doesn't mean marry a woman claiming to be a virgin and definitely be careful with women that claim to be virgin and will wait until their period begins to have sex with you to try and fool you into believing you've taken her virginity.) With this said, I don't recommend a relationship, especially at the time. I am personally between monk and casual sex. By monk I simply refer to having sex, but avoiding to release my sperm. I am also careful with women of low value or energy; their bad luck becomes your misfortune once you're sleeping with them. SEX - Sacred Energy Exchange.
I am a woman that watches your channel. I have daddy issues. The thing that sucks is that it wasn't my fault. I hope everyone who watched this video doesn't generalize me, & write me off as a lunatic.
Edit: I do appreciate your red pill point of view. I think you are very intelligent & that's why I watch your channel.
Greatness comes from awareness, and improvement... letting your past anchor your future is never a recipe for being better.
He missed one . Never date a woman who owns a horse. The horse always comes first ,and if she needs something big and powerful between her legs she doesn't need you