nah it's just a pp going into a vageegee nothing sacred about it. unless you're holding a bible or like wearing a jesus costume or something while you're doing it then i'll agree you've added some holiness to it.
Now sex and talk over it like discuss over ur fantasy is as common as , discussing political agenda , people have destroyed it and it's gonna destroy them , amen
Conclusion for Men: •Be vigilant for infidelity Like women are •Have your personal accomplishments to have a strong self esteem •Learn to walk away and LEARN from it •Have strong values and make them know. If they're broken leave. •Men/Women will change when they value the relationship if not then your a toy •Have a high demands •Be a good person yourself you'll attract good too Add point in comments or rebuke me 😂
THIS IS GOLD, and that's because I've noticed and thought about these exact things "if she's really the loyal girl she portrays she wouldn't put herself into positions like that"... They called me insecure for this.
Nope they call you insecure because as per Saadia "you chose a woman like that and now you don't like her habits and try to change her" Also just lay your bounds and leave when they're broken so simple.
@@oanling917this right here. The most important part of this video is being SECURE within yourself. Having internal boundaries and if they are violated then you walk. If you’re not secure, the neediness, jealously, controlling, and passive aggressive behavior will show out.
Rule 1 : Avoid early attachment Rule 2 : be vigilant and assess her character through her behaviour. If any red flags are detected, walk away or pull away a bit (pull away only if it's not a major red flag). Rule 3 : have strong boundaries and make them known. Rule 4 : always have the willingness to walk away whenever necessary. Rule 5 : value healthy values in a woman which are conducive to a healthy relationship more than her physical appearance. Rule 6 : meet all her needs, physically and emotionally. Rule 7 : be the best man she has ever had.
Anything can happen at any given time!Be confident in who you are and don't be dependent on anyone for your happiness!No one will ever take you granted!
Just don’t put your life or well being in the hands of another person. The worst is when you’ve worked your guts out physically and mentally & they walk away with your house or money
Start by not committing to anyone. Expect infidelity. Prepare for it. Set boundaries and enforce them. Focus on building your own life, your own network of friends, your own hobbies. Invest in yourself. So when anyone cheats, it only affects a tiny portion of your life and since you are expecting it, planning for it, you just replace it with the next. Prepare for this, protect yourself financially, emotionally and spiritually. In today's society people believe that sex is going to fix their loneliness, lack of life and lack of self-worth. It does the opposite. If you have an amazing life, first you will not be overly preoccupied with sex, and sex and relationships would only be an enhancement to an already great life. Focus on having this great life first... and if you do, even if you nave no relationships, you will have an amazing life anyway!
The bruised self-esteem or a broken heart is far more brutal than a dagger into the heart. Emotions at play, inability to walk away from a toxic relationship.
In the end, a woman cheats because she is making the choice to cheat. Life is never perfect, but cheating does not solve life issues. It only makes them worse. There are certain women that belong to the streets. She was never yours, it was just your turn.
What's interesting is these traits about women who cheat are the same for men who cheat. Deceitful behavior has a pattern that can be relatively easily detected when you observe the person you're dating closely and carefully.
Avoid online dating. Doesn't matter how pretty or well put together they may seem. Speaking from experience and from friends' experience in a big city.
@@IkeFromFrontStreet It doesn't end well a lot of the time. It's better to put yourself out there doing stuff you love/enjoy or initiate convo spontaneously in coffee shops, music venues, etc. Or through friends. Between online dating and meeting women in person, the latter has always been much better.
I think it’s simple, just always have guard up. It’s self care. It’s ok to be in love with someone, just understand and be ok with the fact that you don’t know what’s going through someone’s mind. I get what she says when she says women don’t want a sense of false security, men are supposed to be the backbone of the relationship in all matters. I’ve set boundaries early on in my relationship. It’s needed. But once again, keep your guard up and pay attention.
You can set boundaries, and ultimately not cheating should be an obvious one, but if that partner has no respect for you because they don't respect themselves.... They'll run to someone else who allows them to stay in their insecurities. I'm over approaching conflict, and stating hurt to people that just don't care until you're gone.
@@jordansharp7081 it may be important to let them early on ahead of time to let them know that you are a valuable asset in their life. One thing I’ve seen in some of these videos that I agree on is, leave your girl atleast one time. Very risky if you want the relationship to work, but you’ll also get her feed back on where she stands as well. And… in a weird way, it’ll turn her on.
Men don't think women will not cheat on them. We just don't have time and energy to investigate you, we are happy with being happy we don't go around looking for reasons to hurt ourselves.
She spitting PURE FACTS❗I am considered very attractive....but because I have very low body count & DON'T LEAD WITH MY SEXUALITY....I GET PASSED OVER ALOT❗💯💯
Only men and women who want to be kept with good morals and ethnics will not cheat on you. You can be the best wife or husband..and that doesn't bother them to potentially lose you. There is nothing you can do to prevent your other partner from cheating.
An insecure man will leave for an insecure woman if he is being asked to step up to the play and support the loving partner. People cheat because they are insecure and don't like being called out on their behaviour- so they leave for someone that enables their bad behaviour.
@jordansharp7081 You can have insecurities, but if you know right from wrong and strong willpower, that will not lead you to cheat. At the end of the day, it's not cheating with the other partner that is attractive it's a mentally unstable person who can't be happy and finds it through other ppl.
Don't give them your trust right away. Learn who they are and what there about. Take your time to get to know the person. Trust comes with pain. Trust is like glass once it brakes it's hard to put back together again.😅😊
Self esteem issues is what i told my cheating ex is the main reason for cheating. If you have self esteem you have boundaries and certain things that you just won't do. Learned the hard way, stay away from hyper independent women and party girls
Long story short... At the end of the day, women can and will do whatever they want. You can set all the boundaries you want. She will leave and find someone who will give her what she wants. Women who are serious about relationships are one in a million, and they get snatched up in to marriage and family real fast. That's why you can't find them ANYWHERE. Try to tell me I'm wrong. I'll wait.
The same can be said about men. There are great men out there, as well as great women. The issue is that many haven't learned to vet someone. And many on both sides carry traumas. It's important to work on ourselves and improve as much as we can and work on releasing traumas and baggage we carry. Then, look for someone who's done the same. You'll have to look for a partner in the right place. You won't see good and genuine people at bars, clubs, and filthy places. A woman who respects herself and wants to be a wife won't be found in certain environments, and the same with respectful men who want to be husbands.
Omg this lady is SPOT ON. I had a roommate who values her independence and HERSELF always higher than ANY relationship. She has NEVER been faithful or loyal to anyone. The men are really as mentioned giving themselves a false sense of security. She puts herself in positions that are just...not ideal.
17:10 - I think this applies more to women than men. Because of social media, many average women think they deserve a tall, handsome, self-made billionaire.
I don't think so. Whatever a woman might say, she ultimately settles for a man who is ambitious and kind, and mostly it has nothing to do with looks. There are exceptions to this rule of course.
@@sadiapsychology There are a lot more hot women than there are tall, handsome, self-made billionaire men. I think men see a lot of average, below average men (in terms of money, status, looks) hook up with these hot women enough times where they think, "why not me?" You are spot on in your video though; love all your content.
@@sadiapsychology That's a fantasy. Its not real. Any sane man should be able to differentiate between fantasy and reality. Unless if the dude is completely delusional.
Most reasonably successful relationships I have been in, the girl was starting out cheating on her boyfriend. It does make it that I don't trust her much when I find out, which makes her chase me more! Maybe that is why I am single now and have been most of my life
This video summarised my 2 year roller coaster on-off relationship with a gorgeous young women who turned out to be a lot of trouble and for which I was not mentally ready for (after having injured a great blow to self esteem due to personal circumstances)
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As a man who works with lots of women, I can confirm that she is 100% correct when she says women cheat more than men. They speak quite openly around me, and the latest comment was, I’m not going to cheat on my boyfriend with my husband and they all laughed. This woman (35 years old) met someone on a ‘girls’ holiday and is now seeing him on ‘business trips’ and is refusing to sleep with her HUSBAND!!!
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What she saying is so true when you stop and think about it...she is right about so many things. You think to yourself ill treat her like a queen and better than her last partner then she will love me forever....that is so right.
A person who cheats on their partner does not respect themselves because they are not able to keep their words, and the moral values that their words represent: with actions.
I think the real problem is when men get married, they really don’t know what they’re getting into. Being with the same woman for the rest of your life is totally against biology. Even happy people in marriages cheat.
@Sadia, you are so very beautiful inside out. I love how you show women that we can be our own beautiful successful woman.You are féminin, you care about how you look, you seem super simple and nice. I love watching and hearing your take and great advice on relationships. Thank You for sharing your gift. May you continue being the happy person you peace to be. Loads of Love❤
Dating is to build up connections, independence is to cut off connections. While I wouldn't recommend staying in a bad relationship, indifference is much worse trait than independence. I would never teach anyone an irrecoverable ability to cut off people or want to date a person so emotionally broken to be able to do.
Let me translate this again: - Even if a woman is in a relationship with you, she has so little ability to tell you'd cheat or not, she will not let it go until she finds her own value seen through the man's eyes. That validates the initial attraction apparently. - Experienced men know about this, which is why they don't take women too seriously in the beginning. After all, you'll be giving her potential opportunities in her head, for you to cheat. Don't show your power until she's attracted to you. Then she lets her walls down, which just means she doesn't look into the negative towards you by default. - Women need facts to make decisions, but its hard to check feelings that may lead to cheating. Especially if she herself has been ran through, she doesn't know what trust looks like. To those women, facts are something that can be weaponised against her, much like how friendliness and inticimacy can be used against men. - Men who are weak adapt to a woman's perspective BEFORE she is attracted. Strong men only do it towards the values or actions women have acknowledged to be attracted to. - Essentially an inexperienced man OR woman, do not know how to recognise the 'safety' in one another. That's why its a number game (in the beginning). - If you have trouble with intimacy, Sadia apparently has some material for you. But from what I've gathered, its marketing. In another video Sadia said every women has her own values, and therefore her own things to be attracted to. There is no universal manual to a woman's attraction aside from simply being superficially valuable (charm). - Both men and women have trouble to walk away. If both of you do, that's when you got something toxic in the making. Ironically real connection has value only when its negotiable (giving it is still a choice, and not a given). If you do not excersize this choice, you cannot walk away. Men are more likely to learn to walk away, as he has to do the initial investment (approach) initially (that isn't sex). here you go :)
Sadie is amazing everything she has said is 100% true wow I love this woman
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A broken heart due to her infidelity is not worth the risk. I just went through it. To have loved and lost is much worse than to never have loved at all.
Red flags 🚩? cheating? Why waste ur precious time analyzing whether the person is cheating or not. You simply cannot find out the ugly truth as people are wearing mask all the time. Instead listen to your gut feeling 😊 Ur intuition will send you signs if the person is not right for you.. also people who cheats (so called liars) have bad karmas so they might be going through their own lessons in life. Anyways this woman is beautiful and wise love her hair 😮
@ItsLaurenBiiTCH1 You are the most astute person here, and by default, the SMARTEST. Your observations are spot on👌 Yes . . . Sadia has had a very middle-class life and obviously, obviously amongst upper middle class, which provides a barrier. Here in Australia we refer to this caccooned environment as: Living in La La Land She also contradicts herself every third point. That is, Sadia will make a point and 3 sentences later, contradicts her main point. Non -sensual Rambling E.g. Men in today's society over value sex Really ? Hedonism and promiscuity by default demean sex into a base, meaningless animal act. As sex has no place in relationships in the West- USA, UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Germany and France - thrse relationships collapse after 3 months. They are just 3 months long one night stands.
Create an environment where you can be totally honest with each other and not judge. Then each side will feel safe to bring up thoughts about other people or whats not working. Then people don't to hide. Being judgemental creates cheating.
100% and women are more sneaky, and creative hence men never find out. The second thing is many men go for looks and don’t care about the character that much. That’s why need to trust the gut and don’t date women without values.
Picking your partner is always a risk for their wandering eyes and mind. To not get cheated on is to be high value, and lead by example and ahead of the curve for others to catch up to your life’s goals. If they cheat replace them, it’s their loss. ❤️🔥🙏🙌😉
Sadia makes a good point about men who have been with a lot of women, and how they have seen the "cheating side" of women. I've been with between 75-80 women (I know guys who have been with a LOT more). I'd say about 35-40% of the women I've been with had boyfriends, fiances, or husbands. Since I have personally witnessed that side MANY times, I just assume women are going to cheat.
If you don’t care you can never get cheated on. Being cheated on is a perspective. Just don’t commit / put your *_whole_* heart into any one person. The only thing to remember is that , humans are imperfect.
Sadia, your knowledge is stunning. You've beautifully unraveled and organized the behaviors of both sexes. So much to learn from you and so on point. Thanks
Sadia, you are a beautiful woman, please don't do more plastic surgery. Something seemed to happen to your cheek. There is no need for this. You are already the most beautiful woman, be grateful for what you have 🌻
She isn't on the money regarding men's attitudes to sex being the cause and women with low experience having difficulty finding a man. Her being a selective woman that hasn't played the field like the rest has given her a blind spot on that issue, despite being great on most other points she makes. I have no issues getting a date and I'll only select women with low experience. I'm not the only one by far. I'll also never commit to one with tattoos/high body count - and not because of a judgement of those things. Aside from the fact I don't find it attractive, I just acknowledge that the 'cause' of those things manifesting will also be the cause of her inability to pair bond in a healthy relationship with me. The outward manifestations themselves aren't the cause. She also didn't quite get the number of partners vs damage thing for men in another video suggesting its more damaging for men. In fact, its only more damaging if we bond during the encounter which for men, unlike women, doesn't happen during sex - it happens through other components of the experience and interaction. Commitment and resource allocation for example. As for if the bonding itself is more damaging to men - I'd say that's correct because we haven't evolved to have to deal with it like women have (war/invasion etc). It's just that we rarely bond due to sex and women exclusively do. If the clients she notices these patterns from had no issues with women, they wouldn't be consulting with her. As such, she notices the patterns specifically of the men with difficulties that need her help. When it comes to understanding and explaining women on the other hand, she's probably the best there is.
You described what is going on perfectly. I 've heard her say that there is not problem for women having a high body count but it is a huge problem if men have a high body count because they're more likely to cheat. There is substantial data showing that promiscuous women are more likely to cheat so her comment is completely false. I think she has good things to say but a lot of it comes from a very narrow perspective and a lot of it is just the same info repeated over and over on different podcasts.
@@knowledgelibrary1141 Totally agree. It's weird how accurate she is with so much except that, which is way off. I mean even the simple biology of how many women we can get pregnant a day vs women obviously reflects the situation. I think a few of her own fears coming to the surface on her opinions on that to be honest.
Very simple, actually it's called self control, if a woman is in heat, it's pretty much a losing battle for her, a woman needs to understand what she is risking how much she will lose, when she decides to step out. Men don't go in heat like women, they can pick up on them and usually have better impulse control unless he still in his teens and early 20s.
Women cheat a lot more than men. (In general) That's just the way it is. Now, eventually, she will face the consequences. You see, women often leave a guy because they get bored or think they can do better. In reality, they left a good man. It's only later in the future by real bad experiences with real jerks that she thinks back about that good man. She realises her mistake. In the meanwhile, this good man has moved on. This guy is genuine, reliable, stable, and caring. I have seen it so many times women, really regretting leaving a good man. However, there's no way back. A good man has values, morals, honour, self-respect, dignity, and is strong inside. So even if he's still single, that woman has no chance to win him back.
One thing that troubles me is the lack of precision with language. I get that it’s difficult and less sexy, but it’s technically more precise if you say a majority of men or a minority of men or a significant number of men as opposed to just men. Because then otherwise, I have to constantly address all of the assumptions that are being made while you’re speaking and that takes a lot of energy.
Cheating has nothing to do with the person getting cheating on and everything to do with the cheater’s inability to cope and articulate their feelings.
I agreed with you. Been with my wife for 30 years now. Master indifference. Don't waste your energy over spilled milk. I am a AHOLE. It's my way or the Highway. She wants to be a part of my life; she has to play by my rules. She knows that I will walk away without a seconds thought if I THINK that she is messing around. ( I don't need to verify anything, if I even think...it is over). I know my wife better than I know myself, if there is even a single shift in habits or behavior I would know. Lastly, gaslighting does not work on me....I heard it all...I grew up with players, cheaters, and bad boys since I was 16 years old, and I am about to turn 50 this year. There is not a single line or phrase that I have not heard of.
sometimes after watching many videos of good any type of relatable sadia pychology content, it has a real flatness.They all have a gradual drastic look, you heard all you needed to hear, the rest is more and slightly in the air they breath without knowing.
They respect relationships and still cheat. They are unpredictable, You can do everything right or wrong and you will still get cheated on. It's how they feel, it's chemistry, loyalty is lost by delusion.
Get a Christian woman and your chances go very high that she won’t cheat. You look at the woman’s behavior, if she respects yourself, values herself and has morals that’s the best you can get. If u get a girl from the club, bar, chances are she will cheat just a matter of time
I’ve been with mine for 5yrs and after several godless I’ve never been happier. Shes loyal, a wonderful mother to our children, she respects and supports me. I went through hell and wish I had done this sooner
Oh boy are you wrong 😑 but if that’s what you believe then she better never be unhappy for a lengthy time. No woman is 100% loyal UNLESS she’s crazy in love. Please open your eyes, pay attention and ears and correct things before they get rocky.
If a supposedly Christian woman is willing to be with a man who is simply looking to ‘get a Christian woman’, but doesn’t necessarily love God himself, then I would question the level at which the woman values God herself. And therefore, how willing she is to uphold these values, if she in fact does not love the truth, God, and others before herself? Will she turn under certain circumstances? But it would seem even more obvious to question that man’s love for God as well, and therefore his willingness to treat that woman with the same dignity that he wants to be treated with. Thus it would seem to me that the better way is to seek the truth first, seek God first, both before one’s own desires, and then find a woman who also seeks the truth and God first.
What’s funny to me is a woman tells you or in my case tells you that she’s open to cheating. When I was younger I let a lot of women cheat and now I can spot it instantly. They use words to let you know that are open to the idea / actions and willing if you are interested( talk about how they are not happy, stressed, problems etc).
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When you classify your clients as "high end" and "high value" you r kind of objectifying them. It sounds ugly
Sex is destroying everything. It’s not something to be swung around easily. It’s sacred and it’s being destroyed
I think so too
Yes, sex is a union of two souls not a giveaway or obligation.
nah it's just a pp going into a vageegee nothing sacred about it. unless you're holding a bible or like wearing a jesus costume or something while you're doing it then i'll agree you've added some holiness to it.
Now sex and talk over it like discuss over ur fantasy is as common as , discussing political agenda , people have destroyed it and it's gonna destroy them , amen
@@KathleenMcCormickLCSWMPH You watch far too many Rom-Coms
How to never get cheated on - don't get in a relationship
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nope
Everything has a chance to fail why bother breathing then if you'll die randomly
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Conclusion for Men:
•Be vigilant for infidelity Like women are
•Have your personal accomplishments to have a strong self esteem
•Learn to walk away and LEARN from it
•Have strong values and make them know. If they're broken leave.
•Men/Women will change when they value the relationship if not then your a toy
•Have a high demands
•Be a good person yourself you'll attract good too
Add point in comments or rebuke me 😂
Thank you I have an attention problem even to interesting things...such summaries really help me
@@lonewulfmo9128 Your welcome. :)
Magnificently stated.👏
yep
Yes! i will also add
-stop watching pornography (date at your level)
THIS IS GOLD, and that's because I've noticed and thought about these exact things "if she's really the loyal girl she portrays she wouldn't put herself into positions like that"... They called me insecure for this.
Nope they call you insecure because as per Saadia "you chose a woman like that and now you don't like her habits and try to change her"
Also just lay your bounds and leave when they're broken so simple.
@@oanling917 💯
As a woman I've said that, and I have been called toxic for it.
@@oanling917this right here. The most important part of this video is being SECURE within yourself. Having internal boundaries and if they are violated then you walk. If you’re not secure, the neediness, jealously, controlling, and passive aggressive behavior will show out.
Just dont pick a jezabel. It’s extremely easy if you know how to simply read people.
Rule 1 : Avoid early attachment
Rule 2 : be vigilant and assess her character through her behaviour. If any red flags are detected, walk away or pull away a bit (pull away only if it's not a major red flag).
Rule 3 : have strong boundaries and make them known.
Rule 4 : always have the willingness to walk away whenever necessary.
Rule 5 : value healthy values in a woman which are conducive to a healthy relationship more than her physical appearance.
Rule 6 : meet all her needs, physically and emotionally.
Rule 7 : be the best man she has ever had.
Be a superman. So she can decide to give you a chance. Oh no. By any means.
Sometimes men judge and reject good women who has health boundaries and feel she's hard work but in actual fact she's a decent good women.
Boy she still gone cheat it's a human thing cheating ain't bad
@@Romeferlanostop trolling, if its not bad then why do people not like it.
Umm, nah. I don't care what they think and feel. MGTOW!
Anything can happen at any given time!Be confident in who you are and don't be dependent on anyone for your happiness!No one will ever take you granted!
Just don’t put your life or well being in the hands of another person.
The worst is when you’ve worked your guts out physically and mentally & they walk away with your house or money
Fall in love with nature it's beautiful and you will never be cheated 😎💯
Thunderbolt ? Tsunami ? Forest Fires ? hmm ?
So true, nature never disappoints
Everyone doesn’t cheat so
@@oanling917i prefer a tornado! I want a partner who will lift me off my feet 🤣
nature doesn't have a poosy though
Start by not committing to anyone. Expect infidelity. Prepare for it. Set boundaries and enforce them. Focus on building your own life, your own network of friends, your own hobbies. Invest in yourself. So when anyone cheats, it only affects a tiny portion of your life and since you are expecting it, planning for it, you just replace it with the next. Prepare for this, protect yourself financially, emotionally and spiritually. In today's society people believe that sex is going to fix their loneliness, lack of life and lack of self-worth. It does the opposite. If you have an amazing life, first you will not be overly preoccupied with sex, and sex and relationships would only be an enhancement to an already great life. Focus on having this great life first... and if you do, even if you nave no relationships, you will have an amazing life anyway!
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Exactly ! ❤🎉💯
11:30 gold advice. This is where love yourself first before entering a relationship comes into play
The bruised self-esteem or a broken heart is far more brutal than a dagger into the heart. Emotions at play, inability to walk away from a toxic relationship.
When you're too smart, they call you insecure.
Is anyone else turned off by the title of this video? This implies that cheating is YOUR fault. But that’s not your fault it’s the other person’s lol.
Actually they’re intimidated 😉
True
In the end, a woman cheats because she is making the choice to cheat. Life is never perfect, but cheating does not solve life issues. It only makes them worse. There are certain women that belong to the streets. She was never yours, it was just your turn.
"Your turn"? A man of standards wouldnt even want a turn. You are one of them😂😂😂😂
@@Maijn2345 You clearly misunderstood what he was actually saying.
I love this woman so much. I have very high self esteem and self respect. She's never wrong about what she says..
You cannot control the results, only your actions.
Super
What's interesting is these traits about women who cheat are the same for men who cheat. Deceitful behavior has a pattern that can be relatively easily detected when you observe the person you're dating closely and carefully.
The mistake I made
Observe? Ok
Actions over words
Absolutely!
Avoid online dating. Doesn't matter how pretty or well put together they may seem. Speaking from experience and from friends' experience in a big city.
@rajmathew6220 please explain further
It just doesn’t work
@@IkeFromFrontStreet It doesn't end well a lot of the time. It's better to put yourself out there doing stuff you love/enjoy or initiate convo spontaneously in coffee shops, music venues, etc. Or through friends. Between online dating and meeting women in person, the latter has always been much better.
No digity, no doubt!
@@veramorgado5152
Sometimes it works for few people
Words of wisdom, "The toxicity comes from the inability to walk away."
The world is like your shadow. When you chase it it flees. To gain the world you have to turn within.
Give this woman a medal
A medal made by men 😎
Boundaries!! Willingness to walk! Leaving a “alpha man” who brought me unknowingly into a third party situation. Healing from CPTSD!
Sorry about that. Get better 👍
I think it’s simple, just always have guard up. It’s self care. It’s ok to be in love with someone, just understand and be ok with the fact that you don’t know what’s going through someone’s mind. I get what she says when she says women don’t want a sense of false security, men are supposed to be the backbone of the relationship in all matters. I’ve set boundaries early on in my relationship. It’s needed. But once again, keep your guard up and pay attention.
You can set boundaries, and ultimately not cheating should be an obvious one, but if that partner has no respect for you because they don't respect themselves....
They'll run to someone else who allows them to stay in their insecurities.
I'm over approaching conflict, and stating hurt to people that just don't care until you're gone.
@@jordansharp7081 it may be important to let them early on ahead of time to let them know that you are a valuable asset in their life. One thing I’ve seen in some of these videos that I agree on is, leave your girl atleast one time. Very risky if you want the relationship to work, but you’ll also get her feed back on where she stands as well. And… in a weird way, it’ll turn her on.
Men don't think women will not cheat on them. We just don't have time and energy to investigate you, we are happy with being happy we don't go around looking for reasons to hurt ourselves.
She spitting PURE FACTS❗I am considered very attractive....but because I have very low body count & DON'T LEAD WITH MY SEXUALITY....I GET PASSED OVER ALOT❗💯💯
Only men and women who want to be kept with good morals and ethnics will not cheat on you. You can be the best wife or husband..and that doesn't bother them to potentially lose you.
There is nothing you can do to prevent your other partner from cheating.
An insecure man will leave for an insecure woman if he is being asked to step up to the play and support the loving partner.
People cheat because they are insecure and don't like being called out on their behaviour- so they leave for someone that enables their bad behaviour.
Is anyone else turned off by the title of this video? This implies that cheating is YOUR fault. But that’s not your fault it’s the other person’s lol.
@jordansharp7081 You can have insecurities, but if you know right from wrong and strong willpower, that will not lead you to cheat. At the end of the day, it's not cheating with the other partner that is attractive it's a mentally unstable person who can't be happy and finds it through other ppl.
@@Misbehavedcollection thankyou! Hit the nail on the head, I should have added/explained my points more.
Dude this woman is amazing. This is GAME. Absorb this information fellas
Don't give them your trust right away.
Learn who they are and what there about.
Take your time to get to know the person. Trust comes with pain.
Trust is like glass once it brakes it's hard to put back together again.😅😊
Google the song: "Treat Her Like a Prostitute" by Slick Rick. Old song, but it talks about what you're saying.
@sadiapsycology what an amazing line " The toxicity comes from the inability to not walkaway"! Inspirational.
We need a Sadia and Dr. Orion interview
So true! Orion Teraban and Sadia Khan together would be epic!
Please. This will be epic!
@sadiapsychology
The level of knowledge and honesty coming from this woman is unmatched.
Self esteem issues is what i told my cheating ex is the main reason for cheating. If you have self esteem you have boundaries and certain things that you just won't do. Learned the hard way, stay away from hyper independent women and party girls
I can't even get beyond 2min. This is content for men.
Long story short... At the end of the day, women can and will do whatever they want. You can set all the boundaries you want. She will leave and find someone who will give her what she wants. Women who are serious about relationships are one in a million, and they get snatched up in to marriage and family real fast. That's why you can't find them ANYWHERE. Try to tell me I'm wrong. I'll wait.
The same can be said about men.
There are great men out there, as well as great women. The issue is that many haven't learned to vet someone. And many on both sides carry traumas.
It's important to work on ourselves and improve as much as we can and work on releasing traumas and baggage we carry. Then, look for someone who's done the same. You'll have to look for a partner in the right place. You won't see good and genuine people at bars, clubs, and filthy places. A woman who respects herself and wants to be a wife won't be found in certain environments, and the same with respectful men who want to be husbands.
I have so many friends who are serious about relationships but they are struggling to meet men who want to try something long term
@@rosyapplekitchen635 I'm in the same situation. It would be nice to meet one of your friends. Is there another way I can contact you?
Simple solution. Don't be in a relationship.
be a coward
Hahah
Wise man.
Pretty much .
Great advice for the weak
Omg this lady is SPOT ON. I had a roommate who values her independence and HERSELF always higher than ANY relationship. She has NEVER been faithful or loyal to anyone. The men are really as mentioned giving themselves a false sense of security. She puts herself in positions that are just...not ideal.
Guess who has the same mindset? Men. Nothing is wrong with women putting their own needs first because that is exactly all men do
Self Love Self Respect always put yourself FIRST
17:10 - I think this applies more to women than men. Because of social media, many average women think they deserve a tall, handsome, self-made billionaire.
And you think porn and insta models hasn’t made men think they deserve hot women ?
I don't think so. Whatever a woman might say, she ultimately settles for a man who is ambitious and kind, and mostly it has nothing to do with looks. There are exceptions to this rule of course.
@@sadiapsychology There are a lot more hot women than there are tall, handsome, self-made billionaire men. I think men see a lot of average, below average men (in terms of money, status, looks) hook up with these hot women enough times where they think, "why not me?" You are spot on in your video though; love all your content.
@@sadiapsychology That's a fantasy. Its not real. Any sane man should be able to differentiate between fantasy and reality. Unless if the dude is completely delusional.
@@sadiapsychology Men want hot women, sure. But they are way more realistic about what they can get and where they really rank than women.
Most reasonably successful relationships I have been in, the girl was starting out cheating on her boyfriend. It does make it that I don't trust her much when I find out, which makes her chase me more! Maybe that is why I am single now and have been most of my life
This video summarised my 2 year roller coaster on-off relationship with a gorgeous young women who turned out to be a lot of trouble and for which I was not mentally ready for (after having injured a great blow to self esteem due to personal circumstances)
I wish u a happy day and keep doing these videos, Mike was right u are very good at it !
it’s happened to me, and it’s whatever now; you just need time to unravel and process 🌊
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As a man who works with lots of women, I can confirm that she is 100% correct when she says women cheat more than men.
They speak quite openly around me, and the latest comment was, I’m not going to cheat on my boyfriend with my husband and they all laughed. This woman (35 years old) met someone on a ‘girls’ holiday and is now seeing him on ‘business trips’ and is refusing to sleep with her HUSBAND!!!
Be the best version of YOU, they’ll adjust.
don't force her to change. that was spoken directly to me
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Hello!! how do you make such monthly, I’m a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself 😭 because of low finance but I still believe God
Thanks to my co-worker (Carson ) who suggested Ms Christy Fiore
She's a licensed broker here in the states🇺🇸 and finance advisor.
After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery….Glory to God, shalom.
Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenges lately
Cheating or getting cheated on can happen to anyone if you allow to be put in certain situations. Don’t expect too much from a human, we are flawed.
What she saying is so true when you stop and think about it...she is right about so many things. You think to yourself ill treat her like a queen and better than her last partner then she will love me forever....that is so right.
A person who cheats on their partner does not respect themselves because they are not able to keep their words, and the moral values that their words represent: with actions.
I think the real problem is when men get married, they really don’t know what they’re getting into. Being with the same woman for the rest of your life is totally against biology.
Even happy people in marriages cheat.
@Sadia, you are so very beautiful inside out. I love how you show women that we can be our own beautiful successful woman.You are féminin, you care about how you look, you seem super simple and nice. I love watching and hearing your take and great advice on relationships. Thank You for sharing your gift. May you continue being the happy person you peace to be. Loads of Love❤
This lady knows how to split rocks !!!❤
Wow this woman is brilliant. Thank you and keep up the amazing work!
Dating is to build up connections, independence is to cut off connections.
While I wouldn't recommend staying in a bad relationship, indifference is much worse trait than independence. I would never teach anyone an irrecoverable ability to cut off people or want to date a person so emotionally broken to be able to do.
Let me translate this again:
- Even if a woman is in a relationship with you, she has so little ability to tell you'd cheat or not, she will not let it go until she finds her own value seen through the man's eyes. That validates the initial attraction apparently.
- Experienced men know about this, which is why they don't take women too seriously in the beginning. After all, you'll be giving her potential opportunities in her head, for you to cheat. Don't show your power until she's attracted to you. Then she lets her walls down, which just means she doesn't look into the negative towards you by default.
- Women need facts to make decisions, but its hard to check feelings that may lead to cheating. Especially if she herself has been ran through, she doesn't know what trust looks like. To those women, facts are something that can be weaponised against her, much like how friendliness and inticimacy can be used against men.
- Men who are weak adapt to a woman's perspective BEFORE she is attracted. Strong men only do it towards the values or actions women have acknowledged to be attracted to.
- Essentially an inexperienced man OR woman, do not know how to recognise the 'safety' in one another. That's why its a number game (in the beginning).
- If you have trouble with intimacy, Sadia apparently has some material for you. But from what I've gathered, its marketing. In another video Sadia said every women has her own values, and therefore her own things to be attracted to. There is no universal manual to a woman's attraction aside from simply being superficially valuable (charm).
- Both men and women have trouble to walk away. If both of you do, that's when you got something toxic in the making. Ironically real connection has value only when its negotiable (giving it is still a choice, and not a given). If you do not excersize this choice, you cannot walk away. Men are more likely to learn to walk away, as he has to do the initial investment (approach) initially (that isn't sex).
here you go :)
Sadie is amazing everything she has said is 100% true wow I love this woman
A broken heart due to her infidelity is not worth the risk. I just went through it. To have loved and lost is much worse than to never have loved at all.
Red flags 🚩? cheating? Why waste ur precious time analyzing whether the person is cheating or not. You simply cannot find out the ugly truth as people are wearing mask all the time. Instead listen to your gut feeling 😊 Ur intuition will send you signs if the person is not right for you.. also people who cheats (so called liars) have bad karmas so they might be going through their own lessons in life. Anyways this woman is beautiful and wise love her hair 😮
Its important to be physically better than her ex ..first than everything is fine, we are complicate things
Cheating is of the ego . Shed the Ego my fellow brothers and sisters, Shed the EGO and be pious and humble before God.
She's talking about herself and her OWN values. Through and through. Although I am 100% within her belief system.
Edit to add, she talks so fast and so much... whoa. The last part is true...
@ItsLaurenBiiTCH1
You are the most astute person here, and by default, the SMARTEST.
Your observations are spot on👌
Yes . . . Sadia has had a very middle-class life and obviously, obviously amongst upper middle class, which provides a barrier.
Here in Australia we refer to this caccooned environment as:
Living in La La Land
She also contradicts herself every third point.
That is, Sadia will make a point and 3 sentences later, contradicts her main point.
Non -sensual Rambling
E.g. Men in today's society over value sex
Really ?
Hedonism and promiscuity by default demean sex into a base, meaningless animal act.
As sex has no place in relationships in the West- USA, UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Germany and France -
thrse relationships collapse after 3 months.
They are just 3 months long one night stands.
Create an environment where you can be totally honest with each other and not judge. Then each side will feel safe to bring up thoughts about other people or whats not working. Then people don't to hide. Being judgemental creates cheating.
Never listen to what people say. Watch what they do.
100% and women are more sneaky, and creative hence men never find out. The second thing is many men go for looks and don’t care about the character that much. That’s why need to trust the gut and don’t date women without values.
Only the ones men chose are sneaky.
Picking your partner is always a risk for their wandering eyes and mind. To not get cheated on is to be high value, and lead by example and ahead of the curve for others to catch up to your life’s goals. If they cheat replace them, it’s their loss. ❤️🔥🙏🙌😉
No truer words have been spoken. I was so shocked going into the women's word. I learnt women are not as innocent as I thought... 😢
Sadia makes a good point about men who have been with a lot of women, and how they have seen the "cheating side" of women. I've been with between 75-80 women (I know guys who have been with a LOT more). I'd say about 35-40% of the women I've been with had boyfriends, fiances, or husbands. Since I have personally witnessed that side MANY times, I just assume women are going to cheat.
If you don’t care you can never get cheated on. Being cheated on is a perspective. Just don’t commit / put your *_whole_* heart into any one person.
The only thing to remember is that , humans are imperfect.
Pinpoint marketing message - value add and target market. Nice.
Sadia, your knowledge is stunning. You've beautifully unraveled and organized the behaviors of both sexes. So much to learn from you and so on point. Thanks
All they need is to be as beautiful as you +being smart like you.
Excellent video. Thanks Sadia. It's always a pleasure to listen to youe valuable podcasts.
never fall in love, keep your emotions in check most important
@ 14-15...you have summarized it so beautifully.
This whole conversation is summed up in the Bible. 😂 The Word of God showed us how to avoid these situations .
As a cheater , I can honestly say she is not lying.
haha THANK YOU XX
lol what happen
So in other words insecure people are more likely to sleep around and struggle keeping a relationship going.
Sadia, you are a beautiful woman, please don't do more plastic surgery. Something seemed to happen to your cheek. There is no need for this.
You are already the most beautiful woman, be grateful for what you have 🌻
She isn't on the money regarding men's attitudes to sex being the cause and women with low experience having difficulty finding a man. Her being a selective woman that hasn't played the field like the rest has given her a blind spot on that issue, despite being great on most other points she makes. I have no issues getting a date and I'll only select women with low experience. I'm not the only one by far. I'll also never commit to one with tattoos/high body count - and not because of a judgement of those things. Aside from the fact I don't find it attractive, I just acknowledge that the 'cause' of those things manifesting will also be the cause of her inability to pair bond in a healthy relationship with me. The outward manifestations themselves aren't the cause. She also didn't quite get the number of partners vs damage thing for men in another video suggesting its more damaging for men. In fact, its only more damaging if we bond during the encounter which for men, unlike women, doesn't happen during sex - it happens through other components of the experience and interaction. Commitment and resource allocation for example. As for if the bonding itself is more damaging to men - I'd say that's correct because we haven't evolved to have to deal with it like women have (war/invasion etc). It's just that we rarely bond due to sex and women exclusively do. If the clients she notices these patterns from had no issues with women, they wouldn't be consulting with her. As such, she notices the patterns specifically of the men with difficulties that need her help. When it comes to understanding and explaining women on the other hand, she's probably the best there is.
Best there is best there was best there ever will be
You described what is going on perfectly. I 've heard her say that there is not problem for women having a high body count but it is a huge problem if men have a high body count because they're more likely to cheat. There is substantial data showing that promiscuous women are more likely to cheat so her comment is completely false. I think she has good things to say but a lot of it comes from a very narrow perspective and a lot of it is just the same info repeated over and over on different podcasts.
@@knowledgelibrary1141 Totally agree. It's weird how accurate she is with so much except that, which is way off. I mean even the simple biology of how many women we can get pregnant a day vs women obviously reflects the situation. I think a few of her own fears coming to the surface on her opinions on that to be honest.
@@Mark-mo4bo🎯
Very simple, actually it's called self control, if a woman is in heat, it's pretty much a losing battle for her, a woman needs to understand what she is risking how much she will lose, when she decides to step out. Men don't go in heat like women, they can pick up on them and usually have better impulse control unless he still in his teens and early 20s.
I've never cheated. I make it clear from the beginning that I won't tolerate it. And I don't.
Can’t lie she speaking truth sad but true!!
Whenever I think I am seem to make a connection with a woman, I always assume there is a third party...
Safe assumption
Sadia i love you ❤ you're a role model to every woman, especially young age ones❤
Women cheat a lot more than men. (In general) That's just the way it is. Now, eventually, she will face the consequences. You see, women often leave a guy because they get bored or think they can do better. In reality, they left a good man. It's only later in the future by real bad experiences with real jerks that she thinks back about that good man. She realises her mistake. In the meanwhile, this good man has moved on. This guy is genuine, reliable, stable, and caring. I have seen it so many times women, really regretting leaving a good man. However, there's no way back. A good man has values, morals, honour, self-respect, dignity, and is strong inside. So even if he's still single, that woman has no chance to win him back.
Both be true believers in GOD
One thing that troubles me is the lack of precision with language. I get that it’s difficult and less sexy, but it’s technically more precise if you say a majority of men or a minority of men or a significant number of men as opposed to just men. Because then otherwise, I have to constantly address all of the assumptions that are being made while you’re speaking and that takes a lot of energy.
Say that you reject generalization...And I agree with you on that
Cheating has nothing to do with the person getting cheating on and everything to do with the cheater’s inability to cope and articulate their feelings.
Easy, don't commit to her and be indifferent. Become emotionally attached at your own risk
Then you can't get cheated on, because she will never be in a relationship with you.
I agreed with you. Been with my wife for 30 years now. Master indifference. Don't waste your energy over spilled milk. I am a AHOLE. It's my way or the Highway. She wants to be a part of my life; she has to play by my rules. She knows that I will walk away without a seconds thought if I THINK that she is messing around. ( I don't need to verify anything, if I even think...it is over). I know my wife better than I know myself, if there is even a single shift in habits or behavior I would know. Lastly, gaslighting does not work on me....I heard it all...I grew up with players, cheaters, and bad boys since I was 16 years old, and I am about to turn 50 this year. There is not a single line or phrase that I have not heard of.
Never get emotionally attached NEVER
That's a learnt skill.
@adz-ql6kv It's learned the hard way
sometimes after watching many videos of good any type of relatable sadia pychology content, it has a real flatness.They all have a gradual drastic look, you heard all you needed to hear, the rest is more and slightly in the air they breath without knowing.
They respect relationships and still cheat. They are unpredictable, You can do everything right or wrong and you will still get cheated on. It's how they feel, it's chemistry, loyalty is lost by delusion.
Forget the topic…. Who did Sadia’s nose? It’s on point.
She’s very intelligent
You are so great! I love listening to your opinion. Some stuff you say makes me blush 😂 because its so frank.
Get a Christian woman and your chances go very high that she won’t cheat. You look at the woman’s behavior, if she respects yourself, values herself and has morals that’s the best you can get. If u get a girl from the club, bar, chances are she will cheat just a matter of time
I’ve been with mine for 5yrs and after several godless I’ve never been happier. Shes loyal, a wonderful mother to our children, she respects and supports me. I went through hell and wish I had done this sooner
Totally wrong I’m afraid, doesn’t make a difference!
Sorry to burst you bubble...they cheat too
Oh boy are you wrong 😑 but if that’s what you believe then she better never be unhappy for a lengthy time. No woman is 100% loyal UNLESS she’s crazy in love. Please open your eyes, pay attention and ears and correct things before they get rocky.
If a supposedly Christian woman is willing to be with a man who is simply looking to ‘get a Christian woman’, but doesn’t necessarily love God himself, then I would question the level at which the woman values God herself. And therefore, how willing she is to uphold these values, if she in fact does not love the truth, God, and others before herself? Will she turn under certain circumstances?
But it would seem even more obvious to question that man’s love for God as well, and therefore his willingness to treat that woman with the same dignity that he wants to be treated with.
Thus it would seem to me that the better way is to seek the truth first, seek God first, both before one’s own desires, and then find a woman who also seeks the truth and God first.
You have to be one of the most beautiful people on the planet and the fact that you're smart and interesting just makes that beauty explode.
Answer: Don’t date insecure people.
They require constant validation and will get it anywhere and any way they can.
What’s funny to me is a woman tells you or in my case tells you that she’s open to cheating. When I was younger I let a lot of women cheat and now I can spot it instantly. They use words to let you know that are open to the idea / actions and willing if you are interested( talk about how they are not happy, stressed, problems etc).
Thank you for uploading this video, it was very educational and informative; I found it very helpful and will bear this in mind.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WOMEN GROW UP IN A SINGLE HOUSEHOLD WITH A MOTHER? THIS IS NOT MEN VS WOMEN, IT'S GOOD MEN/WOMEN VS MANIPULATING MEN/WOMEN!!!