Normalizing plastic surgery was a SCAM. | Ti Talks
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The craziest part is people get procedures and STILL edit photos, I can't imagine how messed up their self image must be. Unique traits are almost always more charming and attractive than surgical alterations, imo
& People claim they’re so secure & natural yet edit their photos.
I say this all the time. These ppl are spending tons of $$ on their appearance yet they’re trapped by filters & photoshop & post production. They cannot live w/o them. So what is actually the point? Also (& a lil off topic), I feel this is why a lot of “lookalikes” pop up. Celebs hate it but like, if ur look is easily mimicked by another plastic surgeon bc u have also had work done, u really only have urself to blame. Try mimicking my broken crooked nose! Haha much harder than say a Dr doing the same procedure as Kylie on some1 else’s face. Of course they’re going to end up looking similar! It’s all becoming so creepy frankly…
@@xBelleNoire lol is there anything worse than the “no photoshop no makeup” selfie which is CLEARLY still touched up? Like…. ?? Lol celebs are so weird.
@@HealingMedicyn I’m so bored with the copy/paste look!
Because, after all, it's all about the ✨skin✨ - seemingly.
Former classmate of mine became a plastic surgeon. He was interviewed for the alumni newspaper and he said the most satisfying work he did was repairing the faces of children scarred by war.
Now that is absolutely amazing work.
I love that! ❤
Wow the bravery and resilience one must have to have witnessed the things he’s seen. I hope nothing but a goodness, health, and joy to him and his family
It's also an insult to the doctor when people lie about the work they had done. They are literally taking credit for someone elses work! In school they gave you an F for that 😂
😂 that's a helluva way to look at it
@@DrShaySmith Right?! I'm like 🤔but also 🤣
Mfkn plagiarism. Never even occurred to me. Damn.
Well, that was unexpected! As a teacher, I love this. Nail has met hammer.
😮 oh my GODDDD! LMFAO!!! 🤣👏
I used to be a high school teacher, and it broke my heart to see my students planning their post graduation plastic surgeries. This was a HS in a low income area, so I can’t imagine what it must be like in schools where these kids have the resources.
Oh cripes!
I moved into a more affluent area then where I grew up and I see a lot of teens getting rhinoplasty as soon as they hit 16. These teens are considered white and the conversations are so interesting to me because I now have friends that casually discuss about their surgeries and I'm like "oh word?" 😂 Huge culture shock when I moved lol
@@NappyHappyDrumMajor as someone who was butchered & almost died from my first surgery. Not elective but emergent. I lost my ability to give birth, which to this day, 15 yrs later. I’m still processing. The way ppl these days discuss going in for elective surgery like it’s nothing is so terrifying to me. It is SO serious. Yet for some reason our celeb obsessed media totally glosses over the major risks inherent in these procedures. Even Botox. Like it’s botulism! It’s literally paralyzing the face! & this paralysis can spread. It is nuts.
@@HealingMedicyn I am so sorry to hear that! And you're right! Opening up your body any surgery is dangerous and it's honestly horrifying to young people so desensitized to it. Unfortunately whatever is being done won't be as relevant in even 5 years. Thanks for sharing 🙏
@@amandak.4246 Considered white in terms of checking the white box but may be perceived as some other race or ethnicity. I know there is diversity in each race but that's what I meant. For instance, being middle eastern but checking the white box on forms
The saddest part are women are getting surgery are getting younger and younger. My body filled out at 28, folks are different bloomers and that is ok
Same! My body filled out at 27. I couldn’t imagine getting a bbl at 20 then my body filling out 7 years later. 🤦🏽♀️
@@holographicwing this comment made me LOL. It’s so true. Nobody believes my age bc these kids in high school now look 40. Like make it make sense 😂
I literally just got boobs at 37 lol. You truly never know
Child bearing also! Happens to a lot of women.
Mine filled out in my late 20s too. When I have shown some friends pics of me from high school they are shocked.
One of my biggest questions has been how do you comfort your children about their physical insecurities when they look like you and it wasn’t enough? It breaks my heart 🥹.
I can't imagine the hurt a daughter would feel, if she was proud of looking like her mom and then mom gets something cosmetic done that completely changes her face!
That's my biggest question with Kylie. That's going to be a hard ongoing conversation in their future
This is why I chose not to get a nose job. My baby girl has my same beautiful honker.
These are the moms that “allow” their daughters to have nose jobs as minors after years of commenting on the kid’s appearance.
For that reason I decided not to get any cosmetic procedures, even though I’m insecure about some things. It would be heartbreaking to have my future kids wonder why I changed a certain feature that they then inherited from me. I think it’s a pretty important potential side effect that nobody really seems to talk about
buccal fat removal makes me so sad, these people look like corpses and chubby cheeks are adorable and i find they make you age so gracefully, because the fat naturally dissipates as you age
They look gaunt without the buccal fat!
I always hated my chubby cheeks (which barely lessened regardless of my body composition). If I hadn't grown up with friends and a mom who encouraged me to accept myself, I would get buccal fat removal (or similar procedures) for sure. I know that no amount of cosmetic change will help if you have a skewed sense of self. So many of the people getting these procedures don't have a good support system like mine. I'm grateful.
I used to want buccal fat removal so bad but after some consideration and more research I will fall back. I’ve always had chubby cheeks. I remember when I was 15 a teacher literally squeezed my cheeks as if I was a baby in front of the class. Yes it l was embarrassed and 10 years later I have the same exact face I did before and still feel insecure about looking “too young” which is stupid. I guess i have learned looking “too young” is better than looking like a walking corpse
@@extrashotofespresso_ if you cannot bring yourself to love the way you look try practicing body neutrality and try appreciating the things you do like more than usual
It will never be achieved because the standard keeps moving like a timer....🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
It's all a money pit 😂
Yep. Manufactured wants. I think if we described this kind of society to someone 500 years ago they'd think it was some kind of new circle of hell. You're always chasing the latest trend. Tearing your body and health apart. And just when you get the ideal look...it's no longer in fashion and the opposite is in now!
The Yassification of Plastic Surgery
Yassssss Queen! 😂
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I have been thinking about Bella Hadid a lot these days: she literally was able to buy her way to the top of her profession and that doesnt sit right with me. It rigs the game.
That's been happening for years with models, actresses, singers etc
@erinkinsella91 yes, money makes almost everything easier and it always has.
I grew up in the 1990s were supermodels, as far as I know, were NOT nepo babies born with an average face. So no, it has not always "been this way".
@@Aelffwynn Yup - money, connections, and proximity to whiteness
Most top supermodels nowadays had something done. Same for top pageant competitors, actors, etc. At least with Bella, she's very vocal about the fact that what she went through as a child is wild and that even after all that she's unhappy.
Living in South Korea for anyone who doesn’t follow the Korean beauty standard is hell. I lived there for 2 years and as a bigger girl random strangers would ask the most uncouth questions. I feel bad for that gorgeous girl but hopeful that she’s no longer listening to others BS.
South Korea is the number 1 regarding plastic surgery. 😂 Their beauty standard is beyond insane.
Ugh, I used to live in Korea too. If I got 1,000 won for each time I received unsolicited diet advice or got backhanded compliments about how much I ate I’d be rich.
She is doing very well despite all of that, thank you :)
Me living in Korea now, I feel this.
Omg you're on point. It reminds me when Jackie Aina went from flat chested to small melons and tried to cover it up for a year lol. Everybody was a hater until she finally admitted it.
Her chest job looks sooooo good though
@BreeonaNechole it definitely does look good, no denying that.
I really dont have a problem woth the surgery girls if they go the Jane Fonda route. Any time somebody comments on how good she looks for her age, she's like, "You better believe I look good for my age after what I paid the surgeon" 😂
exactly! but if you looked like a pencil two months ago and now an hour shape you cannot and will not convince me you did that in the gym. we know what gym body’s look like.
less really is more!
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For real 😂 I love Jane Fonda and her surgeons are superior
Yup. I love how transparent both Jane Fonda and Dolly Parton have been. It’s refreshingly honest and authentic. The two also use humor which is always fun to watch.
Women are under tremendous pressure to look good and have a youthful appearance. Beauty is still viewed as an important asset for a woman.
It is critical to explore the negative internal dialogue we have about our bodies. It is also important as a collective that we push against beauty standards, explore the linkage between beauty and the performance of femininity, and the linkage between capitalism and beauty and wellness. I was just talking with a young woman in college. She mentioned how expensive it is to look good (hair, eye lashes, nails, hair removal). Imagine keeping up appearances with very little money.
It's very easy to keep up appearances with little money...learn to do them yourself
This comment- the critique needs to be constantly returned to a critique of beauty standards ( and the benefits of being seen as desirable) and how racism, classism access etc under a white supremacist imperialist capitalist patriarchy ( thanks Sister bell hooks- rest in power)
@@Indigazurewho has time for that when you hustling for a pay check or have to prioritize any “extra” income for ACTUAL survival based needs?
@@happygucci5094 ok! Idk what she means by do it yourself. That saves you money but then you spend increasing amounts of your time keeping up. At least far more than you should. For example I could install my braids myself (which will literally take all day) or pay someone to do it but it costs money. Add on makeup, skincare, supplies, waxes, outfits (both professional and personal), not to mention cosmetic procedures if you feel especially pressured. But the point is the pressures and the cost of meeting beauty standards is ever increasing and can be psychologically damaging. It seems you either pay with your time, money, mental health or otherwise MUST invest in it in some way to be seen as worthy. In my own personal life I don’t do most of that, I don’t get my nails or hair done and I thrift shop but the point about the systemic structures remain.
@@nairabee245 this comment!!! Right? Like this ish is EXHAUSTING asf!
I am shocked by Zac Efron
He was so cute. He doesn't even look like the same person.
I do think steroid usage for some of his roles (like the upcoming pro wrestler movie he filmed) has contributed to his face changing.
He didn't get surgery, he had a jaw injury a few years ago and it flared up. He looks a lot closer to his usual self now, that picture is two years old
It was so unnecessary, he was so handsome. Now he looks scary
@@majorcoconuts7609 and the filler also happened because of his jaw injury that happened in 2013?! Especially since Zac has done a lot of cosmetic work in the past already too.
He looks like a ventriloquist's wooden puppet 😢
I met this 26-year-old guy at the bar who was telling us about he’d gotten Botox done (for cosmetic purposes). One the one hand, it’s his body and if it made him more confident, then more power to him. On the other hand, it’s kinda sad to see young people my age so worried about aging before they even hit their 30s and 40s.
Also, the video of the woman in South Korea being conditioned into feeling like she needed surgery really resonates. Until very recently, I swore I was hideous and needed a nose job. I grew up in predominantly white spaces, so I noticed my features were different than my family’s. Then, I was bullied heavily in school. The Snapchat “beautifying” filters that slim your nose really did a number on me as well. It’s taken a lot of work, a change of environment, and being cognizant of what type of media I consume, but I’m starting to get to a place where I like how I look. 💝
The irony is that most black women who grew up in predominantly black spaces feel exactly the same.
Botox is preventative lol so the younger you start the less wrinkles you get!
As someone who has been into fitness for 37 years, I hate that the surgically enhanced bodies trend has made its way to fitness. We already had the PEDs but even with that, people still have to put in work but the surgeries are just straight cheating. It's annoying to see those fitness influencers promoting squats to get a round butt when all they did was get bbls.
Yep & it’s so obvious. Easy to clock a fake body when the booty doesn’t match the thighs!😂
@@scarletsletter4466 Exactly!
I'll never forget seeing some random video of Natalie Nunn in a gym on the StairMaster; using it all kinds of wrong lol, while telling girls that was how she got her butt when it was clearly hella ass injections. That thang was so unnatural and jarring to look at😭😭😭. These people must be stopped.
@@chenanigans Yes indeed. That's why I appreciate them being called out.
What's a PED?
There used to be a time when plastic surgery was something you did on the low in hopes that people wouldn't notice that it was surgery. Celebs kept their plastic surgery on the hush but now it seems to be trendy to have surgery and let it be obvious because it might imply that you are wealthy or that you are part of the "in crowd." The Kardashians blew the lid off of it because they were getting it so much that they couldn't deny that they were getting work done. When you are highly visible, it's hard to deny cosmetic surgery when people are seeing the changes every time they see you.
Yet they still denied, and continue to deny the majority of their work! Mind blowing in the worst way. SMDH!
edit: smh at Kardashians not commentator 😊
I've read about how plastic surgeons report that patients explicitly say they want to look like whatever filter on tiktok. It's so wild.
That's insaanee
Remember, addressing the truth of reality on social media automatically makes you a "hater". 😂
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I got invited to a “Botox and bubbly🥂” event and it’s such a mindfuck. Like I’m used to it being normalized by celebrities but for it to be so normal to women in their 20s in my midsize southeastern city👺
These are the end times
It jarred me when I found out how normal it was on the West Coast for young young girls. I was working in LA for a bit and I had slowly began to learn that young girls in their early 20s get BOTOX there like its nothing. It's very normalized for them whereas where I come from you don't even hear people getting plastic surgery honestly, it's a very humble type of living. So that was.a culture shock to me to just see how normalized that was and my co-workers having nonchalant conversations about getting work done.
The risks of getting bad Botox/fake Botox at those parties is so high, no thanks! I'm starting to see more "body positive" people getting "baby Botox" and it's such a mindf*Ck to see someone say LOVE YOUR BODY and then get Botox 😢
@@sasamafrass whoever came up with “baby” or “preventative” Botox needs to be publicly canned because wtf
THANK YOU ! I am so sick of otherwise socially aware youtubers focusing on social pressure to the point that they accidentally legitimize the social pressures when they talk about the current state of plastic surgery. Yes, meeting certain beauty standard gives you social rewards but the system of social rewards only works if WE buy into these beauty standards. I don't know how it is that people can be so aware of the hidden bigotry and exploitation in everything while applying a handwavey framework of "choice" or "affirmation" to an industry that was built on erasing ethic differences and feeds of off dysmorphia. Uniqueness and rising above social pressures are admirable traits and surgeries are things to be avoided as much as possible.
Preach!
I went to the dentist for routine work and why were they trying to sell me on closing gaps, straightening out gum lines and I was like, there’s nothing wrong with how I look!
I would hate to live in a world in which the Jaclyn Hill aesthetic is considered normal. I think we won't ever get to that point though, thankfully.
Let us pray.
If that’s ever normal, I’d rather be abnormal because that aesthetic is not attractive to say the least. 😂
" PLAY IN OUR FACES AND LIE ABOUT IT" aint THAT the truth!!!😂 Got folks out here thinking a dress gonna fit when it took a 360 body lift for THEM to be the newest Fashion Nova spokesperson 🤣
I often consider myself pretty (haha) immune to those standards, at the same time, I am not on social media. I have never been big on selfies or anything. But for some reason I avoid"being seen" too much. So that's interesting...
Honestly, I get it completely. Other than TH-cam, the only social media I have is Instagram (which was honestly _my dog's_ IG page, until I finally decided that I should be more business-minded and use it as an extension of this channel).
As someone who just hit 40 and has absolutely no plans to have any plastic surgery, it’s been fascinating to watch the popularity of different procedures rise and fall.
Interesting how it doesn’t stop people from feeling insecure about themselves and use face tune as if their life depended on it. If we’re gonna edit the hell outta photos..you gone lay down thousands prior to doing so? And you risking complications each time? Make it make sense and no thanks.
"..especially if you lived in the ghetto, aka the US-of-A, where a lot of us don't have healthcare in the first place." Lawd.. shots fired!!! 👏And capitalizing on our self-hatred & unhappiness is what it's all about. The "beauty standards" are intentionally unattainable so that we'll always have something to chase.. and these companies will (miraculously) always have *just the right thing* to sell us to "fix" our flaws. It's as brilliant as it is nefarious. Amazing video, as always!
I just hope that more ppl find it within themselves to love themselves unconditionally without feeling the need to risk their life over an unrealistic beauty standard. Thx for the vid TI!
Yes! Shoutout to Lorry Hill for turning us into Armchair Plastic Surgery Detectors! 😂 for real though, her channel has truly improved my self esteem to understand how far from natural most celebs are (except Rihanna, she is a literal natural goddess). And I agree with Ti, I am so happy I grew up before the age of social media. I watch a bunch of younger creators and a few older, but I really appreciate creators my age ( plus or minus a couple years) like Ti and Angelica Nyvquist!
💯 I really worry about the kids growing up now, who won't know what it's like to live in a world without the non-reality of social media.
Lorry Hill doesn't know what she's talking about though. She has idea if people did work or if what they had unless she operated on her. This is why her assessments are dangerous.
Lorry hill has more surgeries than Martha Stuart 😅
Lorry Hill looks so fake. She makes me never want to get plastic surgery. She has that plastic surgery look that you can clock from miles away. 😂
@@9395gbshe doesn't claim to know, if she actually did know and share that info, it would be a HIPA violation. She makes educated guesses and explains her reasoning with examples. It may hurt some kids, but it also may help others by demystifying procedures that make so many famous ppl look the way they do, which can lead to less comparing yourself to unrealistic standards. The plastic surgery is already there, not talking about it isn't going to help the younger generations, Imo.
What makes me really sad is when I see POC get nose jobs. So often a person's ethnicity/race is shown through their nose and when they get a nose job, which inevitably looks like a ski slope you normally only see on a white woman, I feel bad for them. It feels like a disconnection from one's ethnicity and family. I know Bella Hadid said she regretted changing her nose which she shared with her Palestinian dad. I wonder if anyone else who had work done feels the same.
I'm a POC and was considering getting my nose done years ago. However, I decided against it because the doctor wanted to give me an upturned nose and I felt like it would not match my other ethnic facial features. My boyfriend kind of has a nose like that, but he's half white and half Mexican so it doesn't look weird because it's natural. There are surgeons who offer natural nose jobs for "ethnic noses". If I ever get a nose job, I'm going to one who does a lot of POC noses and doesn't want to drastically change them. If I had gotten an upturned nose job, I would look fake and it would be unattractive due to me having that "plastic surgery look". I'm glad I backed out.
I agree that there shouldn’t be so much rhinoplasty. However, nearly 100% of entertainment industry gets a nose job, all races. It might seem like it’s less noticeable on folks with a higher bridge, but almost everyone you see on TV, including local news anchors if you live in a city, has undergone rhinoplasty
@@scarletsletter4466 I know and I hate it. It seems to me like there's no love for ethnic-looking noses, especially hook noses and flat noses. I want to celebrate the beauty in these shapes which are so very different from the standard Caucasian nose which tends to have a higher nose bridge and narrow tip. Why can't all the shapes be beautiful?
Even nose contouring is wild
@@MegTelevised - it literally gives me chills when I see black women carving up their nose like that.
This was an excellent read on normalizing plastic surgery . You’re one of the few brave enough and secure enough to say it. Thank you 🙏🏾💯
Honestly, I haven't felt _this_ nervous about posting a video in a minute. But, the ones that scare me the most tend to be the ones the most worth doing. 🙏🏾
Agreed. What irks me the most are the public figures that are given their services for free & still lie abt it.
My hair girl literally just started dating a new guy, got lip fillers (to a grotesque degree) and lipo because the guy thought it'd be "sexier", and she immediately regretted it and has been trying a million different things to try and speed her way back to her normal lips and shape because she's miserable while her douchey new guy (who literally named his daughter from his first marriage after my hair girl which should've been the first red flag) keeps trying to convince her to change even more about her body (while also trying to isolate her from her friends, family, and work but that's a talk for another time). It breaks my heart because she's visibly a shell of who she used to be and I don't see it getting any better any time soon.
Mr potatohead
@@sunfeatherX3 ??? What?
Girl, these vids are so missed on TH-cam 💗
I'm 63 and I truly wish that women would learn accept, even embrace their natural beauty. This culture of looking for our "flaws" and "fixing" them. At my age I'm determined to age as gracefully as I can. It isn't easy seeing your pretty face *melting* before your eyes! 😂 but it's part of life!
I remember an interview with Brigitte Bardot. She was in her seventies, and no plastic, put on some weight, but so darn *happy!* Doing exactly as she please. The comments! About her letting herself go, etc. I was furious because they "discovered" her as a teenager. They took tons of pics of her, put her in movies...she gave so much of herself. Then when she gets old they want her to...what? Cling desperately to the past? Because that always looks pathetic. 😕 wherever you are Brigitte, do you honey. 🌹
I've always said Beyonce don't even look like BEYONCE 😅
I think it's interesting that I follow quite a few influencers who have (and get) tattoos and piercings, another form of body modification, but it feels so much more like it is about personal expression, and not something that they were societally pressured to do. If anything the opposite, as some people still object to tattoos and piercings.
I very much enjoy when others will alter their appearance in self expression. Decorating their phsyical form. Like your beautiful lavender hair! I am also a big proponent of body autonomy for everyone, which gives me conflicted feelings about plastic surgery, when it seems like people are taking a risk with their life and their health because our society has very twisted and unhealthy ideals about physical appearance.
I think numerous plastic surgeons on TH-cam are also very guilty of this plastic surgery craziness and insecurities in people about their looks. I watched several plastic surgery and beauty doctors videos and they promite certain features as "beautiful" and other as "ugly" in order to promite their work. Usualky they say "this fave shape is ugly but you can fix it with" or "to look ypung your lips have to be.... and not like..." etc. This is highly offensive and they are doctors, educated people. No one ever seems to notice how negative effects those videos have. I wrote once a comment to pne of them that I don't think square face shape is "masculine" and "ugly" and the doctor got offended and wrote that maybe his channel is not for me. Seriously?
Yeah these surgeons are promoting harmful ideas to especially young women... it sucks and I wish more people would promote self-love when it comes to appearance.
@@ima.m.1658 it seems so harmless, at first. I was watching videos and felt more old and ugly by each one of them. Then I realized, they, those doctors, would list "unattractive" facial features, and how to "fix" them, and they would list what looks old and ugly in their opinions and I would look at myself and feel old and ugly because I had most of those facial shapes and age marks they mentioned. It takes time to realize how harmful all that is. Promoting beautifying procedures is fine, but don't list what makes face "ugly" or "old" because it promotes very harmful ideas to people who watch it.
It is wrong, questionable, and potentially defamatory of doctors to make assessments on people they have never done work on or can't confirm the person had work done.
But these assesment videos on celebrities continue the plastic surgery craze and have you all believing everyone is getting work when none of these doctors or any of these youtubers (including Lorry Hill) know if people had work done. It results in more business for the plastic surgery industry because they are telling people you can pretty like this too when you don't know if they did or did not have work done.
I worked in that business and most traditional celebrities (ie actors, fashion models and musicians) do NOT have cosmetic work done. This is why these assessments and speculations on people having cosmetic work done are dangerous.
Yes. I heard a doctor on TH-cam say something like that women's eyebrows are supposed to be a certain height above the eye and lower is masculine or of a man. I'm a woman with low eyebrows. Not extremely low but they aren't as high as he claimed women's eyebrows should be. A bunch of bs. I stopped listening.
@@BondofOblivion yes, according to their "measures" I am masculine and old looking. They also show photos of gorgeous women in their 40s and then point what's "wrong" with their faces. What kind of professional does that?
10:13 Don't @ me y'all but lavender lemonade sounds like an amazing drink. Not as a protein powder shake, bump that mess.
😅 I had a rose lemonade at a sandwich shop a few weeks ago, and it was *delicious* so you're probably right!
A company called Copella used to make lavender apple juice and it was fabulous, but I think it got discontinued
It is, Lol!
After Jackie's death this week...this video hits differently 🕊🕊🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😔😔😔😔
I agree it has gotten out of hand, like why am I seeing fillers on full black lips. Plus it has gotten to the midwest girlies too in Chicago.
lol me reading this as a black girl who wants lip filler
The fitness influencer is such a SCAM!!!
Sis, I had to ask My girlfriend where all these women especially get all this 🍑 from. She said they bought it. No way them cheek splitting yoga pants doing all that.
All I want is a functional healthy body and a breast reduction lol
I think that sounds perfectly reasonable! 🖤
Taraji just touched her face and I was sooooooooo outdone by her decision, but hey, I guess she just couldn't help it in today's world of anti-aging fears!
Not Zac Effron being the favorite Disney PRINCESS 😂😂
LOVE that I got an ad for Juvederm on this video lol
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I NEEDED this sponsor ad !
It’s always lovely to see you Ti 😍🫶🏽 and this subject always leaves me feeling so heavy because our world is so sick. I don’t know how we can even being to heal collectively which is what we need to do to help and be more compassionate with one another. I only hope that one day we realize that there is not one way to look to be beautiful. Our differences make us beautiful and I know it’s easier said than done, but we have to try to do better each and everyday. For ourselves, and each other 💜💯
Ti thank you for covering this topic!!!!!
The masterful use of sound effects in your videos have me cracking up 😂😂😂 I'm mad I didn't get a notification 3 months ago for this video.
Great discussion Ti👏🏽.
First of all, your lipstick is LIFE❤💄 Second, thanks for showing a black woman trying to embrace & accept herself despite the vitriol and lack of encouragement she constantly experiences. “Normalise self acceptance”👏🏽🌺
Im still taken back when I see a bbl in the wild though I can see it becoming more common. Im not kidding the first time I saw one IRL I was staring at it like a total freak because I did not know that's how they looked off Instagram.
Just go to Miami, they’re literally EVERYWHERE. You can’t walk a full block without seeing one (or 5).
Came across an old video from tasted and made me remember how much i used to love to see you in the videos as ive always loved your energy. Glad to see you're still on youtube
Wow how am I just finding youuuuuuuuu❤ happy to be here. You had me shaking my head the whole video girl
Celebrity SZA.. I use to love her body type because mine was similiar, even her face, but now she looks like the others. It's almost a plastic BbL girls club. 😮
Love that hair color on you, Ti. And thanks for talking about this.
looove you & your videos. they’re such a great palate cleanse from the mind numbing & incessant Mikayla and Jaclyn drama coverage .
Love your commentary! I’m so glad I love me just as I am! Glad I grew up in the era of being active! I still hit the gym 4 days a week! Love Zumba , Pilates and bike rides ! These girls don’t realize how crazy they will look in their 50’s and beyond with those BBL’s.
I paused this video to go watch "Being Ugly in South Korea", such a beautiful message. I literally cried at the end. Self Love is revolutionary and I want it for all. There is tremendous beauty and happiness in knowing your self worth. Great video!!
My husband and I were just talking about this topic last night. I think we have swung the pendulum too far on acceptance of plastic surgery. We’re told by many that we should react to people getting work done with a “yes, queen! Do what makes you happy” response. And while I did this for a while I now feel that it’s sad that we’re basically encouraging people to fuck with their body/face through cosmetic surgery. It’s just gone way too far. “Be happy with the way you were born” should be the Motto that we all express. That’s the world I want to live in.
I always get SO MUCH hate when I comment saying I don't agree with anyone getting elective plastic surgery. And people always "people can what they want with their bodies" Sure, absolutely. But I don't have to agree with it. I can voice my opinions. I care because I care about the impact on society and young girls and it also makes me sad that people aren't happy with themselves. People will try to bully me into believing what they believe. But no, not gonna happen.
"Maybe its time to botox...my Labia". Legendary. ❤
This video was peak Ti for me. The quips, the smooth ad-I need that btw, the real. I love it all. I haven’t finished yet had to stop and comment.
Nice to see you popping up in my feed again.
This was excellent. Thank you for making the world a better place by making this video. I hope this reaches many young people who can benefit from hearing your perspective.
you got bars! thank you for posting.
Fantastic take, thank you for saying all of this! Couldn’t agree more
I agree that it is important to call this out
Always live for your wink at the end Ti! 🥰❤️ I need to get my finances (and life) in order so I can finally jump onto your patreon since I’ve been here for years 😂
I need the link to the HAIR!!! Can we say AMAZING 👀 all else you’re always on point
My girl since I found your videos a few years ago. I'm still watching.
Doctors should be allowed to break confidentiality to call out people who lie about the work they got done😂 but in all seriousness this plastic surgery trend has gotten out of control especially the people who lie about it and then profit from pretending to be natural. Don’t tell me to buy your workout plan/app when you have a bbl
Why would they do that? By doing that they're ruining their money making opportunities.
truly loved this, ti. so grateful 🙏
First! Lol and may I say that I love your channel girl, your delivery your commentary, and them braids may I add are just chef’s kiss! Keep on keepin on from a fellow sista from lil’ ole Central Florida!💜
I am in Central Florida, too! 😊
Thank youuu! 🥰
thank you for talking about this, ti
im just confused why everyone is trying to look like the corpse bride with the buccal fat removal
Nothing but facts! You just got yourself a new subscriber, thank you for your take on this issue!
Patricia Bright did this. She lied about it but then came clean. But was honest about “some”.
I thought growing up in the video vixen era was bad, but you couldn't pay me to be a teen girl right now.
Thanks for this, done so articulately. It’s hard to talk about plastic surgery without offending those who have had it. But I’m tired of the standard for sure.
You rock! Simple as that. You are so appreciated, Nappyheadedjojoba.
Loved this video, I came across a reel of Kandi Burres’s daughter and was…wait is that Riley??? I agree with you, society is in a downward spiral..especially for the kids. Happy to have grown up without the pressure of social media, but saddened to see what’s happening to young girls and boys when it comes to self love and acceptance.
Not Riley! I just thought she lost weight.
Obsessed with your hair! 😍
Britney Spears was asked about her alleged breast implants when she was 15 or 16 in an interview 🤢
It’s wild to me that these procedures are popular among folks who don’t make a living off of their bodies, but I guess that’s the due to social media. Now everyone feels like they *could* become an influencer or model if they just changed in XYZ way.
Growing up in Miami (& yes Latina), it wasn’t uncommon for high schoolers to get surgeries depending on the country their family was from. Most docs rec waiting for breast aug, but several girls in my class had it. They went from like an A to full B or small C, though. Nothing was “clockable.”
I had my lips done, but tbf I was a working model and it did help me get print work in cosmetics. Most of us who got lip implants back then later had them removed, except for cadaver implants of course but there’s a stigma against discussing those. Point is, nobody went around bragging about our surgeries, and we wanted it to look natural. Comparing it to todays botched aesthetic, you’d prob think we were wasting our time getting such minor work done 😂
Not botox on the labia 🤣🤣🤣! I swear you are so funny, so witty. I love listening to you talk about...whatever, tbh.
🥺 so you're saying I shouldn't get it??? 😭
@@nappyheadedjojoba 😅😄😐😯 You know I had to Google if that was an actual thing right? I never again in life want to see the word flaccid next to labia...never ever.
Plastic surgery is such a weird thing to me. We thought people in Victorian times were nuts for those corsets and bustles but nowadays people are putting the bustle inside their body and it's totally wacky.
Lori Hill does what she does to justify her own plastic surgery not education. She asked listeners for what they want next ... I asked her to debunk or confirm cosmetic surgery as it ages...I'm not rich so if I get surgery id like to know how it ages... She verbally basically attacked me...she said everything I said was bs her husband is a dentist (I listed I heard Botox ages you and I heard breast implants and dental work can be shot after about a decade... Rumors I'd wondered about)...she said "Botox is key try a natural channel if you want to bash Plastic surgery" quote...uh I want titties and a taught face nothing natural just wanted facts so I can choose for long term and she flipped out on me
I’m never giving Lorry Hill a view… a lot of those debunking spaces online that exist to hyper analyze women’s appearances tend to become toxic messes.
Thank you for this thread because I feel like a lot of people have been duped by Lori, Lori is actually pretty toxic and helllaaa insecure. Not because she calls people out but it's because she has been proven to make entirely baseless and false claims about several celebs. She has real deep-seated insecurities and she uses her Channel as a deflection tool. She is truly what an actual hater would be. And I'm not defending celebrities because I think the whole industry is decrepit but Lori clearly has some false shit on her channel that shes eating off of and doenst care. Like I'll never forget her video when she came for Doja cat and said Doja had a BBL and all these differnet surgeries and the ones of us who are *sane* we're in the comments like uhhhhh no Doja is of South African descent and you all are clearly are sheltered and don't know what African bodies and black bodies look like like. Her shape is so natural and so normal in the motherland yet Lori was dead-ass saying she had had all these surgeries with her whole chest just flat-out lying cuz she's most likely jealous. She came across as a full-on hater. Sad that people are rooting for her and her toxicity.
I would like to ask that you at least show proof of this. I'm all for feeling how you feel about any (and every) one, but I cannot just believe what you say because you said so.
@@CutieQ85 ✅️ exactly its so weird and gross that as a society we think its okay to hyper analyze and dissect womens bodies and their private medical history just bc they dont suit our own moral compass for how they shld look & treat their body like wtf? lol. im all for encouraging women to love their natural appearance, but you dont achieve that goal when u shame women with plastic surgery. its also incredibly weird to run a public content chanel that centers on discussing the (suspected) surgeries ppl have gotten. we need to go back to a time where ppl cld mind their buisness 😅
I feel like the uptick in the drastic plastic surgery coincided with the isolation and loneliness of the pandemic and it all just makes me sad for society
Not unless the Karsashians became famous only during the pandemic... the fascination with plastic surgery has been growing a lot due to folks like Bella Hadid and The Kardashians to say a few. The pandemic did indeed cause isolation however.
Great content as usual! ❤
I enjoyed this video a lot and after thinking about it more, completely agree with the view you have on it. Thank for for sharing. ❤
Great video!❤️❤️❤️
So from a different perspective, I've seen kind of where this aesthetic has gone mainstream. I used to come across it sparingly in the kink world, but it seems like it actually, like many things kink,left its subculture and entered the mainstream. It says something to the melding of fearing aging along with the establishment of strong aesthetic Trends and niches as flaunting this kind of work while taking advantage of the fact that polite Society generally won't be direct about calling it out. My phrasing on this feels clunky but I can't do any better right now.😶
Your skin is amazing! xxx
10:00 whew 😮💨😮💨😮💨 that tea was served piping hot, no warning
Also all the shame (from themselves and others) that people who cannot access such procedures feel/receive. :(
First time watching, just subscribed. Love your take.
Irony is getting a Juvederm commercial right in the middle of this video 😩
For real?! 🤣
@@nappyheadedjojoba yep. I dead ass thought you engineered it that way for the sake of irony lol
The botched esthetic! Hilarious 😂😂
Love your content!