Communication is everything! I think talking through them is very helpful. Sure your partner can't fix that feeling inside of you, but them discussing it helps you work out where those feelings are coming from. Mine was a direct link to the verbal abuse and rejection I felt from it. In that case talking to my ex didn't help. He got defensive when blame shifted onto how cruel he was to me. I wasn't allowed to bring it up. He often told me I was just trying to make him feel bad. He had no real sympathy for what he did or how I felt. Saying that helps, it makes me understand the level of apathy he had for me. Anyway, ramble over. Lol
I subscribed to your channel to increase my exposure to diverse view points because I don't agree with you and find your ideas confusing = I hope to learn from you where my Perspectives are faulty or have gaps because they clash or dont mix well with your Perspective and so I will learn and grow because if we only listen to what we agree with, we will never be challenged to examine our own perspectives and this is why I have subscribed to your channel. Thank you for your time and efforts and for confusing me with your Perspectives. I appreciate your having different views to myself and am grateful I am confused. Confusion, examined, either produces understanding or a reckoning with confusion as life is full of a mixed bag of ideas and perspectives, many which aggrivate, some which remain confusing and others that become new understanding that shatters and renews a growth of new perspectives and a letting go of the old "map" of perspectives and understandings
Communication is everything! I think talking through them is very helpful. Sure your partner can't fix that feeling inside of you, but them discussing it helps you work out where those feelings are coming from. Mine was a direct link to the verbal abuse and rejection I felt from it. In that case talking to my ex didn't help. He got defensive when blame shifted onto how cruel he was to me. I wasn't allowed to bring it up. He often told me I was just trying to make him feel bad. He had no real sympathy for what he did or how I felt. Saying that helps, it makes me understand the level of apathy he had for me. Anyway, ramble over. Lol
I subscribed to your channel to increase my exposure to diverse view points because I don't agree with you and find your ideas confusing = I hope to learn from you where my Perspectives are faulty or have gaps because they clash or dont mix well with your Perspective and so I will learn and grow because if we only listen to what we agree with, we will never be challenged to examine our own perspectives and this is why I have subscribed to your channel. Thank you for your time and efforts and for confusing me with your Perspectives. I appreciate your having different views to myself and am grateful I am confused. Confusion, examined, either produces understanding or a reckoning with confusion as life is full of a mixed bag of ideas and perspectives, many which aggrivate, some which remain confusing and others that become new understanding that shatters and renews a growth of new perspectives and a letting go of the old "map" of perspectives and understandings