So I actually read this a while ago. Mader found out and basically replied sorry my cancer is an inconvenience for you, go f yourself. But with a lot more. Anyway Mader spoke to the woman's fiancé and he called off the wedding.
Good thing the wedding was called off. The groom finally saw what a horrible person the bride is, when one of her bridesmaids was diagnosed with cancer, and was having visible side effects from chemo and radiation. There's other side effects (vomiting, fatigue, etc.) that make you sicker than cancer itself.
@@evadedenbach1226 yeah I'm with you. I have cancer so I felt this more personally than I should. It boiled my blood almost as much as the child getting her ice cream smacked out her hand. Although that did make me wanna see EPs head bounce off a pavement
The moment it was confirmed that Karen attacked the 5YO is the moment the police should have been called. If Karen gets away with this BS once she will continue.
I try to hope that someone else entirely will have called cops on her in a different situation and the outcome would please the masses. Because sadly I do understand exactly why OP didn't call (though I wish the kid running the place had done it.... you know he just didn't want to have to bug the manager over a cop call, which I get too). She was prioritizing her granddaughter's mental health 100% and she knew that involving police would've traumatized her SO much more, and she would be way more likely to actually remember the whole debacle when she grows up. She will probably barely remember this event as it happened, and that is a positive thing. I have to believe that this woman will soon piss off the WRONG person.... she will probably actually get her own ass kicked before she gets arrested honestly, liiiike..... being a Karen gets you arrested. Being whatever this monstrosity is totally gets you curb stomped by a scrappy methhead. Just saying.
Same. I wouldn't have been able to hold myself back though I get why she did but Karen deserved a slap and more I mean the fork to a baby's face. Smh. 🤦🏻♀️
From me, it'd be nose to nose and a simple "I'd beat the living shit out of you but if I'm going to jail, it's for something more dignified than beating up what barely counts as a piece of shit.."
Same. I don't have any kids yet but I'm so protective of children that if I had been in that situation, that mother would have gone home with two black eyes, a purple cheek, and maybe some teeth missing for good measure
Still a big problem, nobody put Karen in her place, now Karen is free to attack another child! Should've called police to arrest her for attacking a child! Never let Karen get away with it so she can keep doing it! Karen go's near my kid, she's going down!
@@Arcader-cs9bs if karma was real, drunk drivers wouldn't live long enough to cause vehicular manslaughter and walk or even drive away unharmed from the crime scenes all over the world every day of every year.
Should have called the cops from the car when granddaughter was safe inside. I would have. There were enough witnesses, and that out of control child, throwing things and hitting the baby, trying to knock ice creams out of hands. Nope, I would have called the cops on her. Lots of flashy lights is exciting to a kid. :-)
Ice cream story : People need to literally stand up, point their finger at that mother and say "shame" shame over and over. We, decent ppl need to stand up to these entitled ignorant people!!
@@Lucas-zg1vz what I keep saying. Entitlement is a disarming word, makes out the person just thinks they're better than everyone else. Sociopathic malignant narcissist is closer to the real description and requires that the perpetrator be evaluated and removed from society asap. Sociopathic because you can bet real money that that Karen would lie about everything. Assaulting a young child, absolutely do NOT know how Grandma kept her cool.
@@SonsOfLorgar a cause or reason is not an excuse. If what the women did was out of pure entitlement publically shaming her may or may not work. If it's a psychological disorder though it needs professional treatment and certainly not public shaming. Public shaming would maybe satisfy the crowd ("serves her right") but it wouldn't move that lady's perception and behavior even an inch. A lot of people seem to struggle with the concept of psychological diseases and think that the affected person just has to "make an effort". But that's BS just like it's BS to assume somebody who broke their spine can simply stand up and walk purely out of willpower.
That woman who slapped ice cream out of a child's hands requires significantly more to happen to her. Stuff that youtube comments doesn't allow me to describe. That wasn't a fun story, I genuinely feel significantly WORSE hearing the way it ended. At the LEAST that mother should get blasted on social media that she'd done this.
True, but the little girl didn't need to witness all that. Personally, I wish one of the other patrons had taken that Karen and mini-Karen to task for them. I know I would've. 😡🤬
@@asherikamichaela8425 Indeed. All for keeping the little girl happy and preferably nontraumatized, but that Karen basically got away with a level of terrible that missing an ice cream just does NOT balance the scales. Yes i've got a massive rager for justice right now and it's NOT GOING AWAY.
@@asherikamichaela8425 This woman is lucky she didn't get knocked out touching someone's grandbaby like that if that was me that Karen won't be so lucky
Ok the second story that daughter could've KILLED that infant when she threw that fork. Holy crap if that happened then the mom would be looking towards a nice comfy court date (at least I think so I'm no law expert). Holy crap that part was as insane as the entire story
If I was the parent of that baby I don't think I'd be able to restrain myself from knocking that bitch's lights out for letting her kid pull that crap.
Actually due to her assaulting those two children someone could of hit her in self defense of the children. Cops definitely should of been called in that story.
I would have fought that woman if that was my child or grandchild. She'd be unrecognizable after I was done with her.. attacking a FIVE YEAR OLD.. over ICE CREAM. That story had me absolutely trembling with rage.
@@tiffanygray Right? If I was the parent of the baby that got hit with the fork, after checking the baby is ok, I’d be having stern discussion with that mom. And she might catch hands.
And the comment about the dog, if I had been a bystander there and witnesser EVERYTHING, including what she said about the dog, I'd probably struggle to refrain from punching that bitch and just beating her. Karens say terrible things, but THAT demon is straight up heartless, not even a human anymore, imagine slapping a 5 year old's ice cream out of their hand because they got the last scoop of ice cream your bratty goblin wanted and then yelling at the grandma as soon as you have the chance and making that kinda comment about a dog. Poor dog didn't even deserve to die, and yet she said it's good? All because she's hypocritical bitch who couldn't wait for ice cream or even get a different kind of ice cream for her child? I hope she messes with the wrong person next time (And yes, I'm kinda an asshole when I hear abt others being assholes, just pisses me off)
In the opening story the bride is definitely narcissistic. I understand you want the wedding day to be perfect. But there is no such thing as perfect. There's always something that went wrong, rain, cake wrong color, Julie's dress was blue, etc. But toss a friendship because friend is seriously ill sets my narcissist meter to 10.
Oh I have seen it before. One of the Bridesmaids told Mader and showed her the message and Mader chewed the bride out, told her she would NOT be going to the wedding at all and told her to essentially do one.
This is a huge tell on a person's personality. Rather than being happy Mader could still come in her condition and wanting to have loved ones present, the bride is MORE concerned with how her physical space will be perceived... It's disgusting, really.
Im so glad the Grandma protected her Granddaughter as much as she could and handled it so well. Most Grandparents in my experience wouldn't have been so nice. They are older and dont take any crap off nobody but she was thinking more about how it would effect her Granddaughter and I loved to hear that because that little girl will just remember how her Grandma was there for her when she lost her beloved dog.
@@gorilladisco9108 They said Grandma in the story and yes men can have urinary problems but so can woman especially after they have children and the older they get it doesn't get any better unless maybe if they have surgery and/or certain medications can help but not always. It's a rather common problem.
My grandmother was a badass old woman and would have bounced Karen's head off the table until the cops got there, of course my grandmother lived through the great depression and worked on base during WW2, she definitely didn't take anyone's shit.
That Grandmother OP was an absolute queen! She consistently put her own wants and urges aside to keep the focus on her granddaughter and make sure that little girl felt safe and calm.
Once they were both safely in the car, she most certainly could have called the cops. Protecting your own is fine, but what about all the other little kids those two are going to harm?
@@rheah7180I mean it’s not just the split ice cream it’s the fact that she knocked the little girl to the floor with her ice cream, harassed the girl and her grandma after they left, and her brat literally hit a baby in the forehead with a fork!
What kind of person targets a five year old child? Ugh! That makes my blood boil! If this happened to my and my husband's seven year old niece, I'm so going to grab the woman by her crappy haircut and drag her out of the store myself.
When confronted outside the store with "my daughter didn't get any I've cream because of you," I 100% would have responded with, "and because of you, they upgraded my granddaughter's scoop of rocky road to a giant, multi-scoop sundae." Then I'd proceed on with the distract-the-granddaughter game.
I couldn't agree more. The fact that the Grandma was able to put her Granddaughter's feelings ahead of any urge she probably had to put that woman in her place is impressive. I kinda wonder if she may have been a therapist because a lot of people dont always think that way in the moment about how if she put that woman in her place it could further traumatize a child that was having her first experience with grief. That is an impressive Grandma.
There was a resolution to that story. The bridesmaids showed Mader what she said & she totally told the bride off in the most glorious fashion & not only quit the wedding, but dumped her as a friend!! If I remember correctly several other bridesmaids quit as well because of it. Sweet justice!
yeah, i agree, because i would probably be going to jail for Felonious Assault and Aggravated Battery because i would have to get pulled off of that broad by several police officers, because i would be turning her face into hamburger
10:08 what a pathetic excuse of a woman who ruins a five year old’s day over ice cream! What a sad sad life she must have to be that petty and trifling. Imagine your life having so little meaning that scoring a “win” against an innocent five year old is something to gloat over!
If someone knocks something out of your hands (or deliberately pours something on you) you can call the cops and charge them with assault. Since it was a grown woman hitting a kid it would be assault against a minor.
So, for story 2, there'd be police on the scene because I would be absolutely giving a reason for that woman's child to be terrified for her life. And Traumatized. And unwilling to have ice cream ever again. It all starts with shoving ice cream into the woman's mouth.
Like... how tf is she so out of touch with reality that "her daughter won't be able to eat ice cream ever again" because she got kicked out. My lady...it's one ice cream parlor. It's not like she couldn't have gone to another ice cream shop.
@@s0lastsummer7 I'm usually nonconfrontational and nonviolent because I'm too shy. But uh... If I had kids and someone treated me like this, the woman knocking ice cream out of my kids' grasp... Yeah. Permanent brain freeze is in order, along with missing teeth and maybe a broken jaw.
This is for the five year old with ice cream. I applaud that grandmother and her patience, if it were my child then as soon as she covered her ears there would gave been a string of obscenities
"Mader didn't have cancer when I asked her to be a bridesmaid, but now she does, and I'm worried she'll be feeling too bad for bridesmaid duties. What to do?" THIS is a reasonable ask. Not, "She might not have hair!"
#2: Mom could pick up her 7 year old, if she loved her kid. In the ice cream shop, I would have called police and pressed assault charges on The monster who hit the ice cream out of the little girl's hand.
Story 2 leaves me with one question that I desperately need to be answered. What happened to the infant who got hit in the head with a fork? Like that is not something you can just mentioned and not follow up on. Edit: I looked it up and all that was said was the baby looked ok.
Story 2: That is one of the craziest entitled parents I have ever heard about she assaults a 5 year old, encourages her daughter to knock Ice Cream out of people's hands, mocks the same 5 year old about her departed dog and has the audacity to throw OP's words back at her!! If it was me I would've called the cops and pressed charges for assault and harassment on a 5 year old!!!
I totally agree with you 100%! Story #2 left me so frickin' disgusted, I'm almost lost for words. But don't worry about that crazy Ice Cream Parlor Karen and her little hellspawn. They'll get what's comin' to them sooner or later.
Our culture is so upside down with values regarding weddings. How sad that a person would be more concerned with how her wedding looks than her friend with cancer!
That entitled Karen's kid in the first story is a perfect example of why the term crotch goblin was invented! OP's sister handled that EM & crotch goblin beautiful
"on the ground throwing a massive temper tantrum, worse than any tantrum Ive seen in children" Its expected from a Karen....but what was the daughter doing?
Story2: OP has more self control than I will ever hope for. The minute granddaughter was out of eye and ear shot, Karen better had gotten ready for a beat down. Scratching, biting, kicking, punching, etc.
The sad reality is that YOU would end up in jail for the night and she would press charges against you . Solving violence with violence never solve anything
Intro - The Mader one is infuriating - wouldn't it be even *more* important for her to be part of the wedding so that she gets to enjoy something nice while she's going through treatment? Story 1 - Anyone who messes with a family with a young baby is on my shit list. Travel is tough enough without entitled types - and if you think you're sitting in the stroller that isn't rated for your weight, you're an idiot. Story 2 - "It's the one you're here for" - Fluff, you know us so well! I'm glad I can trust my mom to look after my daughter - my mom was plenty scary (on my behalf) when I was growing up, but she's even more frightening as a Nana, I don't want to think what she'd do if someone either purposefully made my kid cry or hit her with something. I give the clerk credit for not losing control of the store and making sure OP's granddaughter felt better. Story 3 - This is proof that documentation is king! Dear GOD, people, don't perjure yourself!
Hey, calm a bit. Sometimes you HAVE to travel with kids. Funerals and stuff. Some people are idiots, but most don't CHOOSE to travel with kids. Be nice.
That last point...Yeah, perjury is not nice. There is a bit of kerfuffle going on with a TH-cam channel currently where a certain business partner did exactly that and practically stole the channel earnings. Lying only makes things worse for you in a court case. Always. The case itself may set up legal precedent, so we shall see.
@@shadodragonette That may be true but Parents need to have some control over their Kids and not make things worse by letting them do whatever they want. J/S
No no, don't you understand? If the bride kept Mader in the wedding party so that Mader had something enjoyable during her treatment, then that equates to the bride sharing the day that should be *all about her - THE BRIDE!* Don't you see how selfish that would be of Mader to the bride? Sharing in being made to feel special on that day? And you also forgot that if Mader showed up in a wig or her thinning hair, then wedding guests would start paying more attention to Mader instead of talking about/to the *only* topic that should be people's focus: the bride. I really don't get how you can't see the bride's totally reasonable and not at all callous way of thinking about this. ( /sarcasm 😛) Seriously though, what a heartless b¡tch 😮 The groom to be needs to know about this text, because that bride sure isn't going to care/honour the 'in sickness and in health' part of the vows. Plus he needs to know in general that he's marrying a narcissist. 😮
Step down from your high horse awhile. Weddings, especially for wahmen, are a very special event. Something that made the wedding "special" in a weird way is best be avoided. It's best if she just ask Mader to wear wig, purchase one for her if she had to. But it's unwise for her to announce it in social media, like, what the fuck she thought how social media weirdoes will comment?
I think OP shouldve called the cops for harassment and possibly assault. If she cornered her outside the store i feel there is a good chance she waited for that poor teenager and who knows what happened to him.
I would have just told the EM what a “good role model” she is for her child. And that someone bought my granddaughter a sundae so “thank you” for knocking it off the table.
Blessing in disguise. That ice cream parlor took a negative experience and changed it into a positive one. That sweet little girl deserves that sundae and that evil woman and her crotch goblin offspring deserves to be banned from that ice cream parlor for disturbing the peace. That spoiled child and her offspring never having ice cream again would be a lesser punishment for them and yes, I did say all of that correctly without any typos.
The second story the grandma gets the grandma of the year award. She handled that situation well. And the worker deserves a raise. Especially after what happened with their pet dog. I've lost a pet before and it's not easy
May God bless that ice cream clerk for giving that little girl the best ice cream sundae in the world and for putting up with such belligerent people unless that little girl that's her little heart
Oh My Gosh. I would have been pissed if a women did that to my 6 year old son. He has a VERY hard time with being denied access to items (he has autism) and for a mother to purposely make a child drop their ice cream is so terrible and then accuse them of something they didn't do is absolutely infuriating! Grrrr!
ah yes, that teen running the ice cream store certainly knew how to. cheer up a little kid. when a little kid gets down like that the only effective way to cheer them up is more ice cream than they can imagine.
She would have got a broken jaw if she had assaulted my granddaughter like that. I know this is a fluffy feel good channel but child assault is worthy of pro revenge.
What about hitting and infant too? Those parents should immediately called the police. Help that clerk out. Some jobs unless your robbed you'd get fired for calling
So her kid throws a fork across the room, hits a baby and she was only asked to leave?? I would have called the police and have her charged with child endangerment and assault
I don't think I could have handled that so civilly. As soon as I walked out of the bathroom to my granddaughter on the ground crying, all hell would have broke loose. I may have caught a few felonies.... 😡
I saw the updated bridesmaid post elsewhere, and the other bridesmaids showed Mader the message. She went nuclear on the bridezilla and it was glorious. 😂
I mean I dislike entitled children but it isn’t their fault they’re like that it’s the really shitty parents who don’t teach their kids to be a good person insulting them is kinda unnecessary
Apparently appearances are more important than having someone you care about in your wedding. If I was the bridesmaid and she asked me either question, I wouldn't want to be in her wedding and our "friendship" would be terminated.
That's exactly what happened. I remember where all this was shared. The bridesmaids ratted her out to Mader & she told her off in the most glorious fashion & quit the wedding & dumped her as a friend! She seemed like such a sweet & cool person too, that bride was disgusting! If I remember correctly several other bridesmaids quit as well over it. I would have too if it were me.
Bridezilla should have bought her a silk scarf for her to wear. She could have got something that would match the bridesmaid dress. She should have been supportive of her friend going through a scary, difficult time.
Oh. My. God. Thanks for the palate cleanser at the end, knowing that people like me would be BOILING with rage over the ice cream situation. That's not even a Karen. That's.... something else entirely. I have no words. I HAVE *NO* WORDS. That crazy B should be absolutely ashamed of herself. I cannot understand how a human being can even THINK of doing or saying these things to a HEARTBROKEN CHILD, let alone ACTING on those thoughts. My heart aches for that sweet girl, and I am ever so glad that she is so lucky to have such a loving, thoughtful grandmother to keep her heart safe. 🥺
Story 2, I think I would by the whole carton of rockie road just so the little girl couldn't have any. Then explain to her that she is being punished because her mom is a horrible person.
So , the ice cream lady. Why was that behavior tolerated? It went on for way too long and what she did was assault. Police should’ve been called and she should’ve been charged. I don’t understand how people tolerate that behavior. It’s never going to stop as long as it’s not taken care of at the moment. Infuriating. I know she didn’t want to traumatize her granddaughter any further, but she could’ve taken her out of the situation and still had this woman arrested. Outrageous.
And how would it be traumatizing to see the cause and effect of: karen play stupid game, win stupid prize with special steel bracelets and police escort...
If any human does what Karen in the ice cream shop did, they should immediately be payed out, minus a few teeth. Assaulting a minor should automatically result in a hospital visit, and at least 20 years in prison, no exception.
Then she will tell everybody that you are racist. Heck, she will lead BLM to burn down your house. Yes, if you wonder, the story is reek with capital N.
That grandmother showed lots more restraint than I would have. I would have done one of two things. 1. I would have ordered a HUGE ice cream and then dumped it on the daughter's head. Or 2. I would have cleaned that woman's clock! Mess with me all you want, but mess with one of my grandkids and you're going down!
As soon as I heard that she slapped the ice cream out of my granddaughter’s hand it would have taken an army to stop me from slapping her teeth out her mouth.
Karen: Because of you my kid wont get ice cream Me: Yeah because I was my mind to cut in line, be rude to employee. Then to force your hand to knock the ice cream out of my grandaughter's hand....then flung the spoon from you hand onto the baby's head. Karen: Exactly
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The grandma with her grandchild in the ice cream parlor, has the patience of a saint, I’m usually very quiet, but if someone did that to my grandchild, be certain ,her face would be introduced to the table top she’s sitting at!!
Exactly my thought. The temptation to wipe the smug off her face would be overpowering. At least five times, in quick succession. And that game phone would be disappeared too.
Who the heck knocks a kid's ice cream on the floor?! That is Disney Villian crap! As for her poor dog... My cat passed away a few years ago and I was devastated, and I can't imagine how gutwrenching that must have been for the poor little girl. Monsters like that need fancy new bracelets and an all-expense-paid vacation courtesy of local law enforcement.
I'm glad that grandma had some self-control. I would have broken her jaw and gladly gone to jail for it. God forbid I ever get into a Karen situation. x.x
That lady in the ice cream story has to be just the poorest excuse for a human being I’ve ever heard of. Attack a kid over ice cream. That’s not entitled that’s a monster. I would make her pay. I don’t know how but before God she would pay dearly for laying a hand on my grandbaby.
Not gonna lie, I kinda like Baby Shark. I spend my breaks at work in my car. Sometimes someone who just has to let everyone know how fiscally irresponsible they are by getting car speakers loud enough to ruin my TH-cam listening from halfway across the parking lot will just blast rap music as loud as they can, and not even the good stuff from back in the day. I've been tempted to buy my own loud setup with my Best Buy employee discount (they do car stuff too) and just blast Baby Shark when they play their music for the whole parking lot. I never acted on it, as I would have to be very petty to spend all that money just to be passive aggressive to annoying coworkers, but the temptation was there.
Im sorry, but I am the oldest of 5 and even if one of them picks on each other, I go ballistic on the other! Let someone try it on my future grandchildren! Idc how old and brittle I may be, that lady gonna pay
I had 4 brothers and we fought like cats & dogs a lot, but if any one not family picked on any of us, they received a visit from all of us. It taught me, as a female, how to clobber bullies who tried to pick on me.
If that Crazy Karen had done that to my Grandniece, or my Grandnephew (when he was a baby) I would be in jail! And paying for dental reconstruction!! If she had done that to both of them, she would in ICU!!!
Serious bystander shit on that second story. Storytime with SmiSmi! So, last time I let 'someone else'll do it' steer my actions was with a gas pump handle that was leaking. I was running late and just paid and went. I thought those exact words. Next time I went to fill up on gas, I by coincidence ended up at that pump, and lo, it was still leaking after the valve where the pressure tests wouldn't find it. No one else had done it. I went in and told the clerks, they got the manager. So I repeated it to him and he went pale and grabbed a 'faulty' bag, rushing out the door. On the way to the pump he told me what'd happened in the interim: Some moron with a rolling car fire parked it right next to that very pump. So today I follow the "see something, say something" rule.
I’d love to have her in my wedding even if she had no hair at all. She’d still be beautiful and still my best friend if it was my wedding. That bride is a B----. If I was her soon to be husband I’d have second and third thoughts about marrying her. Then on my third thought I’d say if you’re this selfish and hateful the wedding is off
Seriously my thought process would be that I'd just be forever grateful that she was alive and fighting at the time of the wedding. 🤷🏻♀️ and if she doesn't make it, and was kicked out of the wedding? The B of a bride will forever regret that her lost friend wasn't there and wasn't in her photos to preserve her memory. I'd be working hard to accommodate her as much as possible to ensure she feels wanted and loved.
Oh, for sure. I asked my friends to be my bridesmaids because they were my *friends* and I wanted the people I love to be there to share the happy day with me and my husband-to-be. I didn't give a flip what they looked like, I just cared that they were *there*. My closest friend had a walker--the bride in question would probably have excluded her. A bridesmaid could've been bald as an egg, I sure would've wanted her there if she was up for it. It was a small, no-frills wedding and I didn't want them to have to spring for a special gown, so I even told them to wear whatever they were comfortable in. Two wore jeans, the other wore a casual hippie-style dress. They knew I'd be fine with that (they know me well), and I was. (All our guests were close friends, so they expected things to be a bit...well...eccentric, shall we say? So none of them turned a hair!) It was a lovely celebration of love and community, and that's all that mattered to us! Ms. Bridezilla has her priorities all screwed up IMO, and I feel sorry for the groom.
Holy crap that Ice cream story… I have a few female friends that would have buried that woman’s head into the concrete if they had witnessed that happen.
It's a cultural thing. 'Filial piety'--respecting and caring for one's parents, no matter how horrible they are or how badly they treat you--is a deeply embedded virtue in Chinese culture. Even the Cultural Revolution couldn't change that.
That ice cream story just made me angrier as it went on. It is one of the rare cases that if it were me I would probably have smacked the entitled out of the woman, targeting a 5-year-old. Nothing sets me off more than people picking on the defenseless, and children at that? Hell, even as a bystander I would have stepped in. That level of entitlement needs a lesson in empathy. Good on grandma for keeping her cool.
I am normally a very calm, controlled person. But if another adult was that hateful and mean to my son, the cops would have to pry me off them. No joke, Mama Bear goes rogue. I am seething just listening to that story, so I may have lost it on that girl’s behalf if I had been there. Especially knowing about the dog. My heart! That poor child. I’m glad the sundae made her forget all about it.
Story #1: I would have told EM that she can just pick her daughter up and hold her for a while. Or, many airports I know have places where you can buy or rent strollers; I would have at least inquired one of the guards to suggest if there was a place in the airport she could go find it. Or if not a stroller, she could buy her own rolling bag for the kid to sit on, and there is not a single airport I've EVER been to that doesn't have a place to buy an extra suitcase.
I can't believe how mean and evil the Karen was in the second story.. actually screaming at a 5 year old, knocking her ice cream to the floor and mocking her dog that passed on😡😠
If I was a bridesmaid I would have dropped out after sharing the text with groom, parents & anyone else I could apologizing for dropping out but cannot associate with someone so entitled, thoughtless & callous.
A perfect wedding day is to have those around you that truly mean something to you and that you want to share your special day with. That's all that matters.
That Karen with the kid at the ice cream place really needs to be arrested for multiple assults... 1 for the swatting of the ice cream, 1 for the thrown item... and then each and every other attempted swat. then for the harrassment of the kid.
The title my dear God and the text message at the beginning I can't-
Oh my diabetic a^^ is literally seeing red and I am shaking with anger at that karen.
Over heard about similar and the bride caught so much flak that the wedding was called off. Simple lesson, dont be an @sshole.
So I actually read this a while ago. Mader found out and basically replied sorry my cancer is an inconvenience for you, go f yourself. But with a lot more. Anyway Mader spoke to the woman's fiancé and he called off the wedding.
Good thing the wedding was called off. The groom finally saw what a horrible person the bride is, when one of her bridesmaids was diagnosed with cancer, and was having visible side effects from chemo and radiation. There's other side effects (vomiting, fatigue, etc.) that make you sicker than cancer itself.
@@evadedenbach1226 yeah I'm with you. I have cancer so I felt this more personally than I should. It boiled my blood almost as much as the child getting her ice cream smacked out her hand. Although that did make me wanna see EPs head bounce off a pavement
The moment it was confirmed that Karen attacked the 5YO is the moment the police should have been called. If Karen gets away with this BS once she will continue.
The baby though! That was the LAST CHANCE for the police to be called
Not until she harasses the wrong person
I try to hope that someone else entirely will have called cops on her in a different situation and the outcome would please the masses. Because sadly I do understand exactly why OP didn't call (though I wish the kid running the place had done it.... you know he just didn't want to have to bug the manager over a cop call, which I get too). She was prioritizing her granddaughter's mental health 100% and she knew that involving police would've traumatized her SO much more, and she would be way more likely to actually remember the whole debacle when she grows up. She will probably barely remember this event as it happened, and that is a positive thing. I have to believe that this woman will soon piss off the WRONG person.... she will probably actually get her own ass kicked before she gets arrested honestly, liiiike..... being a Karen gets you arrested. Being whatever this monstrosity is totally gets you curb stomped by a scrappy methhead. Just saying.
One day she'll mess with someone who has no qualms breaking her.
Absolutely.
Grandma has better control than me. That would had been an IMMEDIATE slap in the face.
Same. I wouldn't have been able to hold myself back though I get why she did but Karen deserved a slap and more I mean the fork to a baby's face. Smh. 🤦🏻♀️
From me, it'd be nose to nose and a simple "I'd beat the living shit out of you but if I'm going to jail, it's for something more dignified than beating up what barely counts as a piece of shit.."
Same. I don't have any kids yet but I'm so protective of children that if I had been in that situation, that mother would have gone home with two black eyes, a purple cheek, and maybe some teeth missing for good measure
@@flashstudiosguy I like your attitude
No slap but a head full on melted rocky road from me
Still a big problem, nobody put Karen in her place, now Karen is free to attack another child! Should've called police to arrest her for attacking a child! Never let Karen get away with it so she can keep doing it! Karen go's near my kid, she's going down!
Eventually, karma will get to her, and she'll be arrested for assault.
I’m with you on that
It comes to a point where you need to call a family member to take ur grandkid, and then throw some hands. Jailtime be damned.
@@Arcader-cs9bs if karma was real, drunk drivers wouldn't live long enough to cause vehicular manslaughter and walk or even drive away unharmed from the crime scenes all over the world every day of every year.
Should have called the cops from the car when granddaughter was safe inside. I would have. There were enough witnesses, and that out of control child, throwing things and hitting the baby, trying to knock ice creams out of hands. Nope, I would have called the cops on her. Lots of flashy lights is exciting to a kid. :-)
That 2nd story, the mother of that baby should have called the police on Karen.
I agree
Definitely should have.
Oh hell yeah.
The ice cream story:
I kinda hope CPS and the police gets a call too
I mean, smashing that ice cream had to have been assault, right?
@@Dubanx an adult attacking a minor, yes?
clearly there's issues with the parenting if that psycho kid thought it was okay to throw a fork at a baby's head
@@misschanandlerbong753 What? oh no her little princess would never do that /s
Ice cream story : People need to literally stand up, point their finger at that mother and say "shame" shame over and over. We, decent ppl need to stand up to these entitled ignorant people!!
I'm pretty sure that wasn't just entitlement. As in some stories before I wouldn't be surprised if this was down to a psychological disorder.
@@Lucas-zg1vz still not an excuse.
And people need to restrain and detain people line her until police can take over the arrest. Not just point and shame.
@@Lucas-zg1vz what I keep saying. Entitlement is a disarming word, makes out the person just thinks they're better than everyone else. Sociopathic malignant narcissist is closer to the real description and requires that the perpetrator be evaluated and removed from society asap. Sociopathic because you can bet real money that that Karen would lie about everything. Assaulting a young child, absolutely do NOT know how Grandma kept her cool.
@@SonsOfLorgar a cause or reason is not an excuse. If what the women did was out of pure entitlement publically shaming her may or may not work. If it's a psychological disorder though it needs professional treatment and certainly not public shaming. Public shaming would maybe satisfy the crowd ("serves her right") but it wouldn't move that lady's perception and behavior even an inch.
A lot of people seem to struggle with the concept of psychological diseases and think that the affected person just has to "make an effort". But that's BS just like it's BS to assume somebody who broke their spine can simply stand up and walk purely out of willpower.
That woman who slapped ice cream out of a child's hands requires significantly more to happen to her. Stuff that youtube comments doesn't allow me to describe. That wasn't a fun story, I genuinely feel significantly WORSE hearing the way it ended. At the LEAST that mother should get blasted on social media that she'd done this.
True, but the little girl didn't need to witness all that. Personally, I wish one of the other patrons had taken that Karen and mini-Karen to task for them. I know I would've. 😡🤬
@@asherikamichaela8425 Indeed. All for keeping the little girl happy and preferably nontraumatized, but that Karen basically got away with a level of terrible that missing an ice cream just does NOT balance the scales.
Yes i've got a massive rager for justice right now and it's NOT GOING AWAY.
@@asherikamichaela8425 This woman is lucky she didn't get knocked out touching someone's grandbaby like that if that was me that Karen won't be so lucky
People like this get away with acting like this because the courts won't allow other people to slap the sh!t out of them.
This won't be her only offense by any means, and she'll get what's coming to her. I think she'll get the crap beat out of her eventually tbh.
Ok the second story that daughter could've KILLED that infant when she threw that fork. Holy crap if that happened then the mom would be looking towards a nice comfy court date (at least I think so I'm no law expert). Holy crap that part was as insane as the entire story
She’d be arrested for assault and sent to jail.
And the other people wouldn’t like her.
That is what scared me the most too. I hope that baby is ok
If I was the parent of that baby I don't think I'd be able to restrain myself from knocking that bitch's lights out for letting her kid pull that crap.
Story 2: If assault was legal under certain circumstances, that woman would have a broken jaw
She assaulted a child, a broken jaw would be the least of her trouble.
Actually due to her assaulting those two children someone could of hit her in self defense of the children. Cops definitely should of been called in that story.
In the UK it would be deemed that she deserved it and at worse a caution from Police due to her provocation.
It being illegal wouldn't have stopped me.
That would also suggest that Karen would be allowed to pick on kids
I would have fought that woman if that was my child or grandchild. She'd be unrecognizable after I was done with her.. attacking a FIVE YEAR OLD.. over ICE CREAM. That story had me absolutely trembling with rage.
And then letting her little crotch goblin throw a fork at a baby's head... 😠😧
@@tiffanygray Right? If I was the parent of the baby that got hit with the fork, after checking the baby is ok, I’d be having stern discussion with that mom. And she might catch hands.
And the comment about the dog, if I had been a bystander there and witnesser EVERYTHING, including what she said about the dog, I'd probably struggle to refrain from punching that bitch and just beating her. Karens say terrible things, but THAT demon is straight up heartless, not even a human anymore, imagine slapping a 5 year old's ice cream out of their hand because they got the last scoop of ice cream your bratty goblin wanted and then yelling at the grandma as soon as you have the chance and making that kinda comment about a dog. Poor dog didn't even deserve to die, and yet she said it's good? All because she's hypocritical bitch who couldn't wait for ice cream or even get a different kind of ice cream for her child? I hope she messes with the wrong person next time (And yes, I'm kinda an asshole when I hear abt others being assholes, just pisses me off)
If that was my baby or grandbady I would have told her honey finish your ice cream and plug your ears momma/grandma is about to get ugly
Should have cone them for all my princess diaries fans out there
In the opening story the bride is definitely narcissistic. I understand you want the wedding day to be perfect. But there is no such thing as perfect. There's always something that went wrong, rain, cake wrong color, Julie's dress was blue, etc. But toss a friendship because friend is seriously ill sets my narcissist meter to 10.
yup... but would make it all the most satisfying if it all "crashed and burned" tho..
Cranked the ten dial to one hundred for me.
@@furycarnategaming it's over 9000!
Oh I have seen it before. One of the Bridesmaids told Mader and showed her the message and Mader chewed the bride out, told her she would NOT be going to the wedding at all and told her to essentially do one.
This is a huge tell on a person's personality. Rather than being happy Mader could still come in her condition and wanting to have loved ones present, the bride is MORE concerned with how her physical space will be perceived... It's disgusting, really.
Im so glad the Grandma protected her Granddaughter as much as she could and handled it so well. Most Grandparents in my experience wouldn't have been so nice. They are older and dont take any crap off nobody but she was thinking more about how it would effect her Granddaughter and I loved to hear that because that little girl will just remember how her Grandma was there for her when she lost her beloved dog.
@@gorilladisco9108 They said Grandma in the story and yes men can have urinary problems but so can woman especially after they have children and the older they get it doesn't get any better unless maybe if they have surgery and/or certain medications can help but not always. It's a rather common problem.
@@TheOfficialTarynTots It seems that I missed that part of story. I had to dig reddit to find out OP is a woman. (☉_☉)
@@gorilladisco9108 It's fine. Tbh I dont even use reddit but I like to hear the stories from Dark Fluff.
My grandmother was a badass old woman and would have bounced Karen's head off the table until the cops got there, of course my grandmother lived through the great depression and worked on base during WW2, she definitely didn't take anyone's shit.
Also, reddit gma! Nice
That Grandmother OP was an absolute queen! She consistently put her own wants and urges aside to keep the focus on her granddaughter and make sure that little girl felt safe and calm.
Once they were both safely in the car, she most certainly could have called the cops. Protecting your own is fine, but what about all the other little kids those two are going to harm?
I live in a country where the police aren’t bothered with things like spilt ice cream, but you do you.
@@rheah7180I mean it’s not just the split ice cream it’s the fact that she knocked the little girl to the floor with her ice cream, harassed the girl and her grandma after they left, and her brat literally hit a baby in the forehead with a fork!
What kind of person targets a five year old child? Ugh! That makes my blood boil! If this happened to my and my husband's seven year old niece, I'm so going to grab the woman by her crappy haircut and drag her out of the store myself.
Not to mention the mockery of their recent passing of a dear family member(Their dog)
OP is such a wonderful grandmother for making sure her granddaughter had a fun time
I agree, and she has the patience of a saint. I... Would probably not be as diplomatic..
When confronted outside the store with "my daughter didn't get any I've cream because of you," I 100% would have responded with, "and because of you, they upgraded my granddaughter's scoop of rocky road to a giant, multi-scoop sundae." Then I'd proceed on with the distract-the-granddaughter game.
@@pfftNameschmame If I were in her shoes, that woman would be on the ground after the woman said that OP deserves to have their dog die.
@@elistewart3435 she would have been in the grave the second she slapped ice cream out of my kid’s hands.
I couldn't agree more. The fact that the Grandma was able to put her Granddaughter's feelings ahead of any urge she probably had to put that woman in her place is impressive. I kinda wonder if she may have been a therapist because a lot of people dont always think that way in the moment about how if she put that woman in her place it could further traumatize a child that was having her first experience with grief. That is an impressive Grandma.
There was a resolution to that story. The bridesmaids showed Mader what she said & she totally told the bride off in the most glorious fashion & not only quit the wedding, but dumped her as a friend!! If I remember correctly several other bridesmaids quit as well because of it. Sweet justice!
Why didn't anyone call police on the lady in the icecream parlor???? That's clear assault.
Person in Story 2 needed to call the police. That's straight up assault, and that woman needs to learn there are consequences for her actions.
If women's prisons are anything like men's prisons, Karen would be likely to get beaten up for assaulting a child.
Yeah, the ice cream story...if that were my grand daughter the Karen would almost definitely regret the day she even heard of ice cream.
yeah, i agree, because i would probably be going to jail for Felonious Assault and Aggravated Battery because i would have to get pulled off of that broad by several police officers, because i would be turning her face into hamburger
She would have been able to only eat ice cream for awhile in my case.
10:08 what a pathetic excuse of a woman who ruins a five year old’s day over ice cream! What a sad sad life she must have to be that petty and trifling. Imagine your life having so little meaning that scoring a “win” against an innocent five year old is something to gloat over!
If someone knocks something out of your hands (or deliberately pours something on you) you can call the cops and charge them with assault. Since it was a grown woman hitting a kid it would be assault against a minor.
that would definitely be a charge with possibly a jail sentence and a very large fine as well as a criminal record
Sorry not sorry, the last thing you ever do on this mortal coil is mess with one of my grandkids. Hope you had life insurance.
Please see my comment above, you also deserve the T-Shirt.
So, for story 2, there'd be police on the scene because I would be absolutely giving a reason for that woman's child to be terrified for her life. And Traumatized. And unwilling to have ice cream ever again. It all starts with shoving ice cream into the woman's mouth.
Oh, don't forget that fighting words are a thing, she could've gotten into deep shit if police had been called due to the number of witnesses
Oooooo you know, permanent brain freeze would be a PERFECT karmic reward for her! Shovel it in, lol!
Like... how tf is she so out of touch with reality that "her daughter won't be able to eat ice cream ever again" because she got kicked out.
My lady...it's one ice cream parlor. It's not like she couldn't have gone to another ice cream shop.
@@s0lastsummer7 I'm usually nonconfrontational and nonviolent because I'm too shy. But uh... If I had kids and someone treated me like this, the woman knocking ice cream out of my kids' grasp... Yeah. Permanent brain freeze is in order, along with missing teeth and maybe a broken jaw.
@@s0lastsummer7 You can't freeze something that doesn't exist. 😈😏😂
This is for the five year old with ice cream. I applaud that grandmother and her patience, if it were my child then as soon as she covered her ears there would gave been a string of obscenities
There would have been a fast call to police; keeping the idiot Karen there while they wait. :-)
"Mader didn't have cancer when I asked her to be a bridesmaid, but now she does, and I'm worried she'll be feeling too bad for bridesmaid duties. What to do?"
THIS is a reasonable ask. Not, "She might not have hair!"
Absolutely correct.
i think i would've asked her to step down for her health more than anything else
2nd story: That woman can’t be human. She’s absolutely monstrous. OP was a true trooper. I wouldn’t have handled that situation well at all
Nope, she's Satan's evil twin. 😂
Your pfp fits this situation, lowkey!
#2: Mom could pick up her 7 year old, if she loved her kid. In the ice cream shop, I would have called police and pressed assault charges on The monster who hit the ice cream out of the little girl's hand.
I'd feel that way, too. But I think the grandma figured that having police show up would've upset her little granddaughter even more.
Story 2 leaves me with one question that I desperately need to be answered. What happened to the infant who got hit in the head with a fork? Like that is not something you can just mentioned and not follow up on.
Edit: I looked it up and all that was said was the baby looked ok.
I am so angry at that woman about the ice-cream. What a horrid Karen. That was a very nice grandma, and kind of reminds me of my own grandma.
Story 2: That is one of the craziest entitled parents I have ever heard about she assaults a 5 year old, encourages her daughter to knock Ice Cream out of people's hands, mocks the same 5 year old about her departed dog and has the audacity to throw OP's words back at her!! If it was me I would've called the cops and pressed charges for assault and harassment on a 5 year old!!!
Was thinking I'd just about be inclined to call the cops
That parent isn't even mature enough to have a child if she's doing that shiz. Plus cops should of been called for that assault.
daughter also threw a fork that hit an infant in the head, like holy fuck HOW did NO ONE call the cops?
@@muneyotsuki8164
WHAT?! I wasn't paying attention closely, okay with is wrong with this mother and that child needs to be punished for that!
I totally agree with you 100%! Story #2 left me so frickin' disgusted, I'm almost lost for words. But don't worry about that crazy Ice Cream Parlor Karen and her little hellspawn. They'll get what's comin' to them sooner or later.
story 2 - You said she missed a golden opportunity to teach her child patience. It is impossible to teach what you don't have.
Ohhhhh, the momma bear would have come out of me if I had been in that Ice Cream Parlor!!
"My bag's feet hurt too."
Nice job, fighting Karen logic with Karen logic. That is pure comedic gold!
Our culture is so upside down with values regarding weddings. How sad that a person would be more concerned with how her wedding looks than her friend with cancer!
Yeah-people care more about the one day wedding than the actual marriage. So sad.
That entitled Karen's kid in the first story is a perfect example of why the term crotch goblin was invented! OP's sister handled that EM & crotch goblin beautiful
I have a feeling that the child is a spoiled brat that gets everything she wants, and this may be the first time she's told no.
If any woman had harassed a little girl like that in front of me, I'd have called the cops without hesitation.
Oh... If I was the dad in that ice cream shop that Karen would've had the absolute crap beaten out of her for hitting my kid with a fork.
"on the ground throwing a massive temper tantrum, worse than any tantrum Ive seen in children"
Its expected from a Karen....but what was the daughter doing?
But what was the dog doing
Exactly what her mother probably does or didn't teach her not to do. She's throwing a tantrum like all mini Karens.
Being a pro crotch goblin.
thread winner
Any why wasn’t everyone recording her tantrum?!
Story2: OP has more self control than I will ever hope for. The minute granddaughter was out of eye and ear shot, Karen better had gotten ready for a beat down. Scratching, biting, kicking, punching, etc.
The sad reality is that YOU would end up in jail for the night and she would press charges against you . Solving violence with violence never solve anything
Intro - The Mader one is infuriating - wouldn't it be even *more* important for her to be part of the wedding so that she gets to enjoy something nice while she's going through treatment?
Story 1 - Anyone who messes with a family with a young baby is on my shit list. Travel is tough enough without entitled types - and if you think you're sitting in the stroller that isn't rated for your weight, you're an idiot.
Story 2 - "It's the one you're here for" - Fluff, you know us so well! I'm glad I can trust my mom to look after my daughter - my mom was plenty scary (on my behalf) when I was growing up, but she's even more frightening as a Nana, I don't want to think what she'd do if someone either purposefully made my kid cry or hit her with something. I give the clerk credit for not losing control of the store and making sure OP's granddaughter felt better.
Story 3 - This is proof that documentation is king! Dear GOD, people, don't perjure yourself!
Hey, calm a bit. Sometimes you HAVE to travel with kids. Funerals and stuff. Some people are idiots, but most don't CHOOSE to travel with kids. Be nice.
That last point...Yeah, perjury is not nice. There is a bit of kerfuffle going on with a TH-cam channel currently where a certain business partner did exactly that and practically stole the channel earnings. Lying only makes things worse for you in a court case. Always.
The case itself may set up legal precedent, so we shall see.
@@shadodragonette That may be true but Parents need to have some control over their Kids and not make things worse by letting them do whatever they want. J/S
No no, don't you understand? If the bride kept Mader in the wedding party so that Mader had something enjoyable during her treatment, then that equates to the bride sharing the day that should be *all about her - THE BRIDE!*
Don't you see how selfish that would be of Mader to the bride? Sharing in being made to feel special on that day?
And you also forgot that if Mader showed up in a wig or her thinning hair, then wedding guests would start paying more attention to Mader instead of talking about/to the *only* topic that should be people's focus: the bride.
I really don't get how you can't see the bride's totally reasonable and not at all callous way of thinking about this.
( /sarcasm 😛)
Seriously though, what a heartless b¡tch 😮 The groom to be needs to know about this text, because that bride sure isn't going to care/honour the 'in sickness and in health' part of the vows. Plus he needs to know in general that he's marrying a narcissist. 😮
Step down from your high horse awhile.
Weddings, especially for wahmen, are a very special event. Something that made the wedding "special" in a weird way is best be avoided. It's best if she just ask Mader to wear wig, purchase one for her if she had to. But it's unwise for her to announce it in social media, like, what the fuck she thought how social media weirdoes will comment?
Bride: Help.
Me: Ya you definitely need some, likely professional
I think OP shouldve called the cops for harassment and possibly assault. If she cornered her outside the store i feel there is a good chance she waited for that poor teenager and who knows what happened to him.
For ice-cream grandma: making an attacker karen face legal consequences might even alleviate the trauma karen caused.
I would have just told the EM what a “good role model” she is for her child. And that someone bought my granddaughter a sundae so “thank you” for knocking it off the table.
Blessing in disguise. That ice cream parlor took a negative experience and changed it into a positive one. That sweet little girl deserves that sundae and that evil woman and her crotch goblin offspring deserves to be banned from that ice cream parlor for disturbing the peace. That spoiled child and her offspring never having ice cream again would be a lesser punishment for them and yes, I did say all of that correctly without any typos.
The second story the grandma gets the grandma of the year award. She handled that situation well. And the worker deserves a raise. Especially after what happened with their pet dog. I've lost a pet before and it's not easy
May God bless that ice cream clerk for giving that little girl the best ice cream sundae in the world and for putting up with such belligerent people unless that little girl that's her little heart
Seeing as OP was signing baby shark, when the EM said "Do you feel good?" I would have sang "Yes I do, do do do do do do."
Oh My Gosh. I would have been pissed if a women did that to my 6 year old son. He has a VERY hard time with being denied access to items (he has autism) and for a mother to purposely make a child drop their ice cream is so terrible and then accuse them of something they didn't do is absolutely infuriating! Grrrr!
ah yes, that teen running the ice cream store certainly knew how to. cheer up a little kid. when a little kid gets down like that the only effective way to cheer them up is more ice cream than they can imagine.
In story 2. You forgot that the Karen could/should have been charged with assault against the 5-year old, for knocking the ice cream out of her hands.
She would have got a broken jaw if she had assaulted my granddaughter like that. I know this is a fluffy feel good channel but child assault is worthy of pro revenge.
What about hitting and infant too? Those parents should immediately called the police. Help that clerk out. Some jobs unless your robbed you'd get fired for calling
@@markarmour1898 yeah if that lady slaps the ice cream out of my grandbaby's hands I'll was slap the heck out of her
@@sailorstar3148 I'm with you.
The assault should be for that poor baby who got stabbed in the head! What the heck!
So her kid throws a fork across the room, hits a baby and she was only asked to leave?? I would have called the police and have her charged with child endangerment and assault
I don't think I could have handled that so civilly. As soon as I walked out of the bathroom to my granddaughter on the ground crying, all hell would have broke loose. I may have caught a few felonies.... 😡
You would have gotten off on a temporary insanity defence
I saw the updated bridesmaid post elsewhere, and the other bridesmaids showed Mader the message. She went nuclear on the bridezilla and it was glorious. 😂
Link?
Thank you.
Gonna refer to entitled children as “little goblins” from now on.
"The only good goblin is a dead goblin."
Crotch goblins > little goblins
Some call them crotch goblins.
@@CloverField83 🌟 Little crotch goblins 🌟
I mean I dislike entitled children but it isn’t their fault they’re like that it’s the really shitty parents who don’t teach their kids to be a good person insulting them is kinda unnecessary
Apparently appearances are more important than having someone you care about in your wedding. If I was the bridesmaid and she asked me either question, I wouldn't want to be in her wedding and our "friendship" would be terminated.
That's exactly what happened. I remember where all this was shared. The bridesmaids ratted her out to Mader & she told her off in the most glorious fashion & quit the wedding & dumped her as a friend! She seemed like such a sweet & cool person too, that bride was disgusting! If I remember correctly several other bridesmaids quit as well over it. I would have too if it were me.
She threw a fork and hit an infant?!!!!!! Why weren't the cops called?
Bridezilla should have bought her a silk scarf for her to wear. She could have got something that would match the bridesmaid dress. She should have been supportive of her friend going through a scary, difficult time.
Oh. My. God. Thanks for the palate cleanser at the end, knowing that people like me would be BOILING with rage over the ice cream situation. That's not even a Karen. That's.... something else entirely. I have no words. I HAVE *NO* WORDS. That crazy B should be absolutely ashamed of herself. I cannot understand how a human being can even THINK of doing or saying these things to a HEARTBROKEN CHILD, let alone ACTING on those thoughts. My heart aches for that sweet girl, and I am ever so glad that she is so lucky to have such a loving, thoughtful grandmother to keep her heart safe. 🥺
Story 2, I think I would by the whole carton of rockie road just so the little girl couldn't have any. Then explain to her that she is being punished because her mom is a horrible person.
So , the ice cream lady. Why was that behavior tolerated? It went on for way too long and what she did was assault. Police should’ve been called and she should’ve been charged. I don’t understand how people tolerate that behavior. It’s never going to stop as long as it’s not taken care of at the moment. Infuriating. I know she didn’t want to traumatize her granddaughter any further, but she could’ve taken her out of the situation and still had this woman arrested. Outrageous.
And how would it be traumatizing to see the cause and effect of: karen play stupid game, win stupid prize with special steel bracelets and police escort...
If any human does what Karen in the ice cream shop did, they should immediately be payed out, minus a few teeth. Assaulting a minor should automatically result in a hospital visit, and at least 20 years in prison, no exception.
Then she will tell everybody that you are racist. Heck, she will lead BLM to burn down your house.
Yes, if you wonder, the story is reek with capital N.
I'm surprised that the father of the infant in story 2 didn't break the Karen and her hellspawn.
The banned ice cream woman was pure Felisha. It wouldn’t surprise me if she illegally parked in a handicap spot as well.
I'm so disappointed story 2 Karen didn't get arrested for assaulting a child and creating a public disturbance.
That grandmother showed lots more restraint than I would have. I would have done one of two things. 1. I would have ordered a HUGE ice cream and then dumped it on the daughter's head. Or 2. I would have cleaned that woman's clock! Mess with me all you want, but mess with one of my grandkids and you're going down!
As soon as I heard that she slapped the ice cream out of my granddaughter’s hand it would have taken an army to stop me from slapping her teeth out her mouth.
Karen: Because of you my kid wont get ice cream
Me: Yeah because I was my mind to cut in line, be rude to employee. Then to force your hand to knock the ice cream out of my grandaughter's hand....then flung the spoon from you hand onto the baby's head.
Karen: Exactly
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That sounds amazing! 🍨🤤
The grandma with her grandchild in the ice cream parlor, has the patience of a saint, I’m usually very quiet, but if someone did that to my grandchild, be certain ,her face would be introduced to the table top she’s sitting at!!
Exactly my thought. The temptation to wipe the smug off her face would be overpowering. At least five times, in quick succession. And that game phone would be disappeared too.
Who the heck knocks a kid's ice cream on the floor?! That is Disney Villian crap! As for her poor dog... My cat passed away a few years ago and I was devastated, and I can't imagine how gutwrenching that must have been for the poor little girl. Monsters like that need fancy new bracelets and an all-expense-paid vacation courtesy of local law enforcement.
Possibly indefinite in a nice padded single guest appartment...
I'm glad that grandma had some self-control. I would have broken her jaw and gladly gone to jail for it. God forbid I ever get into a Karen situation. x.x
That lady in the ice cream story has to be just the poorest excuse for a human being I’ve ever heard of. Attack a kid over ice cream. That’s not entitled that’s a monster. I would make her pay. I don’t know how but before God she would pay dearly for laying a hand on my grandbaby.
Not gonna lie, I kinda like Baby Shark.
I spend my breaks at work in my car. Sometimes someone who just has to let everyone know how fiscally irresponsible they are by getting car speakers loud enough to ruin my TH-cam listening from halfway across the parking lot will just blast rap music as loud as they can, and not even the good stuff from back in the day. I've been tempted to buy my own loud setup with my Best Buy employee discount (they do car stuff too) and just blast Baby Shark when they play their music for the whole parking lot. I never acted on it, as I would have to be very petty to spend all that money just to be passive aggressive to annoying coworkers, but the temptation was there.
Do it, do it, do it, do it DO IT!
(You know you want to) lol😈
Do it! And put it on Tik Tok too! 😏😈😂
For that 2nd story I would have ‘accidentally backed up too far’ and everyone would probably ‘not see anything’
Im sorry, but I am the oldest of 5 and even if one of them picks on each other, I go ballistic on the other! Let someone try it on my future grandchildren! Idc how old and brittle I may be, that lady gonna pay
I had 4 brothers and we fought like cats & dogs a lot, but if any one not family picked on any of us, they received a visit from all of us. It taught me, as a female, how to clobber bullies who tried to pick on me.
If that Crazy Karen had done that to my Grandniece, or my Grandnephew (when he was a baby) I would be in jail! And paying for dental reconstruction!! If she had done that to both of them, she would in ICU!!!
Serious bystander shit on that second story.
Storytime with SmiSmi!
So, last time I let 'someone else'll do it' steer my actions was with a gas pump handle that was leaking. I was running late and just paid and went. I thought those exact words. Next time I went to fill up on gas, I by coincidence ended up at that pump, and lo, it was still leaking after the valve where the pressure tests wouldn't find it. No one else had done it. I went in and told the clerks, they got the manager. So I repeated it to him and he went pale and grabbed a 'faulty' bag, rushing out the door. On the way to the pump he told me what'd happened in the interim: Some moron with a rolling car fire parked it right next to that very pump.
So today I follow the "see something, say something" rule.
My favorite parts were "some moron" and "rolling car fire".
why were the cops not called once the infant was hit lol Crazy ice cream lady
Story 2; how did NOBODY call the police on that insane woman?
I’d love to have her in my wedding even if she had no hair at all. She’d still be beautiful and still my best friend if it was my wedding. That bride is a B----. If I was her soon to be husband I’d have second and third thoughts about marrying her. Then on my third thought I’d say if you’re this selfish and hateful the wedding is off
Same! Massive red flags there.
Hopefully she makes the right decision, for a person battling cancer, the right state of mind goes a long way to to their recovery.
Seriously my thought process would be that I'd just be forever grateful that she was alive and fighting at the time of the wedding. 🤷🏻♀️ and if she doesn't make it, and was kicked out of the wedding? The B of a bride will forever regret that her lost friend wasn't there and wasn't in her photos to preserve her memory. I'd be working hard to accommodate her as much as possible to ensure she feels wanted and loved.
Oh, for sure. I asked my friends to be my bridesmaids because they were my *friends* and I wanted the people I love to be there to share the happy day with me and my husband-to-be.
I didn't give a flip what they looked like, I just cared that they were *there*. My closest friend had a walker--the bride in question would probably have excluded her. A bridesmaid could've been bald as an egg, I sure would've wanted her there if she was up for it.
It was a small, no-frills wedding and I didn't want them to have to spring for a special gown, so I even told them to wear whatever they were comfortable in. Two wore jeans, the other wore a casual hippie-style dress. They knew I'd be fine with that (they know me well), and I was. (All our guests were close friends, so they expected things to be a bit...well...eccentric, shall we say? So none of them turned a hair!)
It was a lovely celebration of love and community, and that's all that mattered to us!
Ms. Bridezilla has her priorities all screwed up IMO, and I feel sorry for the groom.
@@teresamcmurrin8672 That sounds like my kind of wedding! 😁 Kudos to you and yours!
I'm glad I never ran into someone on the same level as that Karen in the second story... I'd probably have ended up in jail if I did.
Just do a citizens arrest on her. She goes to jail, you don't.
Holy crap that Ice cream story… I have a few female friends that would have buried that woman’s head into the concrete if they had witnessed that happen.
Last story: this is why you cut contact with toxic parents the moment you no longer depend on them.
It's a cultural thing. 'Filial piety'--respecting and caring for one's parents, no matter how horrible they are or how badly they treat you--is a deeply embedded virtue in Chinese culture. Even the Cultural Revolution couldn't change that.
Thanks for the shoutout man! You made my day even better!
That ice cream story just made me angrier as it went on. It is one of the rare cases that if it were me I would probably have smacked the entitled out of the woman, targeting a 5-year-old. Nothing sets me off more than people picking on the defenseless, and children at that? Hell, even as a bystander I would have stepped in. That level of entitlement needs a lesson in empathy. Good on grandma for keeping her cool.
I am normally a very calm, controlled person. But if another adult was that hateful and mean to my son, the cops would have to pry me off them. No joke, Mama Bear goes rogue. I am seething just listening to that story, so I may have lost it on that girl’s behalf if I had been there. Especially knowing about the dog. My heart! That poor child. I’m glad the sundae made her forget all about it.
ice cream karen was underwhelming. she deserved much more
Mader was told by another bridesmaid about the text. If memory serves, everybody was pissed and Mader ended the friendship.
Story #1: I would have told EM that she can just pick her daughter up and hold her for a while. Or, many airports I know have places where you can buy or rent strollers; I would have at least inquired one of the guards to suggest if there was a place in the airport she could go find it. Or if not a stroller, she could buy her own rolling bag for the kid to sit on, and there is not a single airport I've EVER been to that doesn't have a place to buy an extra suitcase.
But…but then the EM would have to actually (gasp) parent her own child!! 😳
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I can't believe how mean and evil the Karen was in the second story.. actually screaming at a 5 year old, knocking her ice cream to the floor and mocking her dog that passed on😡😠
That text message at the start hurt my brain, one of my best friends is two times cancer survivor and we love involving him in our stuff
Screw banning her I would’ve called the police
I think it's safe to assume that ALL bridesmaids that supposed to be on that wedding are not coming after that text in the beginning of the video.
There has been another story about a similar situation where the bride ended up cancelling the wedding because she was such a bridezilla.
If I was a bridesmaid I would have dropped out after sharing the text with groom, parents & anyone else I could apologizing for dropping out but cannot associate with someone so entitled, thoughtless & callous.
Piggyback? Until the entitled mom feet hurt.
A perfect wedding day is to have those around you that truly mean something to you and that you want to share your special day with. That's all that matters.
That Karen with the kid at the ice cream place really needs to be arrested for multiple assults... 1 for the swatting of the ice cream, 1 for the thrown item... and then each and every other attempted swat. then for the harrassment of the kid.
I hope the guy at the ice cream shop got a huge bonus for how well HE handled that situation- what he did surely made a huge difference for the girl.
Second story, why didn't witnesses call the police? Especially since a baby was hit.