How To Stay Mysterious (Make Her CHASE You)
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You are a genius
Linked this girl once and we both expressed mutual interest in each other. Tried 2 attempts but gave up after the second one. She simply said Just saw this. Gonna draw back because I'm not chasing and playing games. And definitely not interested in being a friend
This read gave me brain damage to try and comprehend, but good on you, you dodged a bullet.
@@deivisnx brother explain i still dont get it (english is not my first language)
Lets go a new Matt SPear video !!!! i love those because your so confident and cool and you give great advice and tell great life stories !!
Yeah…I let her try to reach out to me first. We tend to save the long, deep conversations for when we see each other in person. Which makes sense, because why text about it? But I definitely needed this video, since I just got into a fresh start with this new chick. I don’t wanna be texting her everyday. It’ll make it seem like I’m too needy.
Im glad you brought up phone for setting dates. its so true the more you text the more she backs off
Matt is right about the texting mistake. I learned that the hard way on a dating app as I made the mistake of texting a woman multiple times in a single day (I did wait a couple minutes between each text, but I still failed). God made me experience that failure for a reason.
Thisis 100% true, i like a coworker girl buy im not chasing/giving away too much, im being kind / polite to her and got her on my ass now almost every coffee break without effort.
But how do you remain this mystery when you been together for years
Great vidéo matt 👏🏽🧡
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Another great Video Matt ! Id like to see a video on Males having female friends and your perspective on that . I personally don't think its possible anymore . I believe you can be cool, be acquaintances, be polite and all that but nothing in between ! Thx for the advice brother !
Just focus on becoming the best version of your self
Truth been doing this a lot at school and yes it’s very true.
I understand exactly what you mean
Awesome video, thank you for real. Just a tip though, don’t go with a tank top man.
I need help. I was crushing over one girl for past 8 months and like before 3 months I asked her out, but she rejected me but she wasn´t rude or anything like that. Since then I see her everyday at school or lunch and I see her talking to other boys and having fun and it hurts. I mean, I really want to get over it but I feel like I can´t. I want everything good for her and I´m not jealous on that boys that she is talking to, or simping for her, but I feel like I will never find somebody that good looking as her ( Which is bs I know but my mind is just set in that stupid "mindset"). She is also more friendly to me for past month, but that changes everyday, I mean one day she is nice to me, other day she is acting like I want to do something to her and it makes me sick. Any advice how to move on ?
For one, don’t make eye contact with her. Two, act like you don’t even know her and I know that may sound crazy. Three, you need to be creating yourself and focus completely on YOU. The longer you do this, the more successful you’ll become. And eventually with that success, that girl will see that you are succeeding. At that point, she’ll try to get your attention and reach out. Play the game of withdrawal. Make her always wonder 💭 about you and let her imagination go crazy. If she reaches out, do not reach back. She already had her chances, but blew them. Such is the fate of those who decide not to take the chances when they were there in front of them. Do not underestimate the power of withdrawal….
@@jaxbarnettprice Shiiish thank you man. I already did stop looking at her and everytime I catch myself tinking abt her, I just then start doing something alse then. But thank you.
I was in the same position except I didn’t ask her out. There’s someone out there for you just pray to god about it. It’s important to find someone you have a genuine connection with.
Honestly the absolute best way to get over a top notch girl like that, is to date more of them. Believe me, there’s tons! Date them all dude. The whole self improvement part is important because you need to stay at the top of your game, always going after the most attractive girls. I crushed HARD on this girl for like 2 years, she rejected me and I was at one of the lowest lows of my life. I saw a girl who was even more cute than her working at a restaurant and I got her number, and within just a day I instantly got over the girl that I had a crush on for 2 years. Seriously the no bs, absolute best way to get over her, is to find someone just as awesome, if not better. The other girl may even come back into your life, but honestly at that point she’s too late usually and you want to stick with the girls you’re already dating.
@@middochenwoah! There is a lot to unpack here!
_”I want everything good for her”_
If that were the case, then that would also mean *you* not being in her life. In reality, why would you want someone who *does not* want to be with you? It would be absolutely selfish for her to be with you and the only happy person in the relationship would be only you. If you want what is good for her, then you have to move on and let her go, even if it means you not being in her life.
_One day she is nice to me_
Dont mistake her kindness for flirtation. She is most likely just being courteous.
_I will never find somebody that good looking as her_
Of course you will! You just dont see it because you are fixated on just that *one particular* girl. If she doesnt like you, then she doesnt like you. Move on and dont bother with her anymore. Don’t go around chasing people…this makes you look desperate. How would you like it if you were constantly pestered by a girl that _you_ dont like? It goes both ways.
Focus on yourself. Workout. Engage in a hobby. Whatever. Trust me, it will do you wonders. It’s not going to make your upset feelings magically disappear overnight, but it is far better for you to feel good about yourself and have a sense of wellbeing by having someone to focus on. Later on, you will realize just how better off you are.
Yo Matt
How has life been?
She seems to like me a lot and been dropping hints it's not just friends?
What's your opinion Matt?
Here comes the spear
Good video brother. Make more vlogs with gf. Those videos are really fun to watch. ✌🏽
Haha I got you bro. It’s tough when we only see each other 2 days a week but we’re keeping the vlogs coming!
A girl gave me her number but I need to work on myself when should I ask her out , like I need to work on myself first?
Girl can be a distraction yea, but if she's the right one she will support you no matter what, you can work on yourself and meanwhile have a girl too, you can try to ask her out once, and you'll see if she's the right one or not
Thanks but I made a needy mistake, she might chase me but I'm long gone even though she meant the world to me , she sent me hints but I didn't know how to react , I gotta move on.
Nah she already finds you attractive. Ask her out but keep working on yourself
There is one girl (i like her) , like we talk with each other for 5 months and still goin on but suddenly im looking that she have started liking her ex boyfriend post again. But the thing is she defamed her ex so much in our chats and now she is acting different. SO should i keep talking with her or should make my way apart from her. WHAT YALL SAY?
If she's acting different try to talk to her bro.
Anything happened in those 5 months? Date, kissing or something? If not you are letting her see you as a friend because you are not letting her know your intentions
How about talking on the phone? How much is too much?
Try setting up dates on phone or small checks to see if she is good but don't make it to consistent, for example once every 2 weeks.
Matt you've got some insightful content. I am a video editor and would love to edit videos for you. Let me know if you're interested
What if it’s long distance
Is she gonna be back anytime soon, and stay permanently? If no, date other girls. Just let her know politely that if she comes back then maybe you guys can pick up where you left off. Wouldn’t you rather have a girl in your arms rather than out of reach?
Hey Matt nice video! One question about Nofap: For some reason most of the time I bust I don't even feel much pleasure but when I don't relapse my brain makes me feel like I would win the lottery if I did it. I know it's only an urge and I will beat it but do you know why this may happen?
It is an addiction, you have done it so much your brain sees it as a normal activity. Resisting the urge and restraining from doing it will be hard at first but eventually it will re-wire your brain. You will no longer feel the need to do it, but you do now because it has become habit
@@bradymeans6321 Alright thanks bro
Great stuff
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Hahaha love it bro
There is one girl (i like her) , like we talk with each other for 5 months and still goin on but suddenly im looking that she have started liking her ex boyfriend post again. But the thing is she defamed her ex so much in our chats and now she is acting different. SO should i keep talking with her or should make my way apart from her. WHAT YALL SAY?
Well, it’s clear to see that she doesn’t really know what she wants yet. Therefore, I would take a step back for a bit, focus on you and let her figure out her own issues…