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How To Actually Text Girls
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ส.ค. 2024
- Here's how to actually text girls.
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0:00 My Story
1:44 How I Text Girls
9:48 Final Texting Tips
13:03 Take Action
#mattspear #texting #selfimprovement
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Dude, you're the only one out there who actually gets straight to the point about what to do right and not telling bullshit like "just be yourself", or "you're figure out on your own". The problem is some guys WON'T, EVER figure it out. Not every guy has a chance or wants to meet tens or hundreds of girls every month, just to be able to learn what to do and what not to do. Thank you for pointing out these points!
hamza ahmed
Try jak piggot
I actually did a lot of these mistakes. I started realize them in the last couple of weeks but this video... It made it all so much clear. Respect Matt!
Finally i can talk to girls...letsss gooo
Not me letsss gooo
Naah you won't 😂
Hard😂
😂
Ay, don't be hating. SMH@@mohamedlwooo1565
This video is a game-changer! So much helpful information packed into one clip. I personally don't like promoting anything in comments,
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Not gonna lie this is one of the best self Improvement videos I've watched. Very good advice with good examples. Thanks
The fact that bro has a normal attractive girlfriend, instead of the escort looking chicks a lot of self improvement guys get. I trust him lol
She’s a smoke show brother
Dude my ex was an escort looking girl I definitely was thinking with the wrong head
You're the most relatable youtuber i have seen, your steps are so on point, keep up the good work man
You are the older borther I never had Matt, keep the grind
Here is a Nice tip, when she is making questions, if u see that She is gonna start making a lot of questions, instead of responding to every one, or, thinking "oh I have to give a answer to everything" I recommend for you to take command and make this question "what do u do for fun?" She is gonna answer, u dont want to go too deep on knowing every single thing that She does, after that if She is a human being, She Will ask u the same, and here is the Trick, instead of saying everything that u like doing, just grab 1 topic, and focus on it, make her want to know more about that topic, so the next topic is delayed into maybe days, and she has more of that "he is a living mistery" thinking inside of her mind
Also its good to show her on that the topic u are presenting to her is for example work, but this only works if you work in what u like doing, for example I would say music mixing engineering, and I would tell her how I got into liking mixing, artists that I've worked with, tell her funny stories of things that happend. She will like you more if what u do for a living is the same thing u love doing, it shows that independent image.
Thanks a lot dude now I know what to do when she starts my interview
The hamza, “let me tell you a story” off drop. Is fire ❤
Really great video, very original and unique advice that honestly seems to be more my style than what I've heard from other influencers' videos. Keep it up!
I sold 😂 just realized I been texting too much , time to get a new girl
Real shit
Literally just got left on read today by a girl I was snapping for wayyy too long😂 needed this advice thanks Matt
nice to see my man grinding, great video brother!
Bro needed this rn, Matt is the man!
Its funny how I just met a gyal Ive been texting with for 8 months and did things quite differently as our circumstances were also quite different but here’s the most important thing I learned: just be direct and clear
Girls do want to play games, but not stressful mind games, no one wants to and when I told mine that I simply want to meet her, no date either, she agreed to meet and even gave me her number when I asked for it
Also, being yourself like he says was how I got to meet her and was surprised by her offering me a hug before I even said “hi” so please for dem luv of god sort yourselves out first and then keep true to yourselves
(especially if she’s a taurus like mine xddd)
After seeing a multiple videos about similar topic as this one, I must say this one was the best! It’s so authentic and genuine and you actually give a good advice and examples, not just trying to fill the video with some waffling as many other influencers are doing.. You earned a subscribe!
hands down the best texting guide ive seen
I've never seen the point of having long text conversations even with other people that aren't girls I'm attracted to, that's what in person interaction is for.
One thing I have wondered though, is the whole "left on read" thing. I use an Android phone and cannot see if someone has read my message unless they have the same type of phone as me (only a small fraction of people in my phonebook). So if an iphone user messages me (it'll show up as green on their end) would they be able to tell if I read their message from their end?
It'll just say delivered on their phone unless you're talking through app/play store related apps like Snapchat or Instagram. It has to be android to android or iphone to iphone for that feature on text messages to work
Bro you are giving the best advice I’ve seen on TH-cam. Thank you man fr
This is one of the most valuable
video
Very well edited/ organized video my friend
That's some good content you make dude, keep up the good work. You deserve more subscribers for sure.
Hi Matt! I just found out about your channel and I really liked your video. It made me realize that I actually made a few of the mistakes you mentioned. I will take your advice and apply it to future encounters with girls I will like.
Well structured video teaching the ways. 🔥
Yeah how about when you ask a girl on a date, and she responds with something like "I'd like to get to know you a bit better first" or she suggests a phone call, FaceTime etc and says she doesn't feel comfortable meeting in person yet. Does that simply mean that she's not curious/invested enough in meeting you? Or could it be for other reasons?
it just means what it means. She wants to get to know you first and be able to have some familiarity with you. Youre completely misunderstanding. By the way, getting to know you means shes curious about you...
nah i've had this happen 2 times. I Just Face Time for 5 minutes and the date proceeded. Some women just want to know if you're not catfish
How did you get in touch with her in first place? Sounds like you met her somewhere online then it is obvious that she first wants to get to know you better before you meet in reallife. I would not meet a guy right away face to face if i met someone online
Maybe she just doesn’t trust you or had bad experiences in the past. Or if you meet online it’s a really normal question because you maybe could just be a random freak
It means she has probably had bad experiences in the past and trying to be more careful
Let’s gooo now I can finally text my mom
Great advice, confirms everything I have come to believe about women
I needed this bro, this is so helpful and I realize I've been making these kind of mistakes before
The problem is
She is texting me everyday…
du bist legende
Na endlich jemand der deutsch spricht😂
We re finally talking to girls with this one 🗣️🔥🔥
I'm fully torqued
Needed this. Thanks!
Brothers... Best of luck to all of you.
YOU ARE A REAL ONE FOR THIS LESSON MAN! ALSO THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME WITH MY SEMEN RETENTION, CURRENTLY ON DAY 58 AND REALLY THIS HELPED ME KNOW MORE OF HOW TO BE AUTHENTIC AND I APPRECIATE YOU FOR TELLING THE MEANING OF THAT 💯💯💯 !
dont count the days of your retention, its just your way of life now. its not somehting that should be crossing your mind very much
@@CelestialTips ok ok understood , thanks so much for the info mann 💯 !
Men, the way Matt talks about younger Matt. I am beginning to believe younger Matt was an idiot 😂
He was
I remember younger me was an idiot. I just wouldn't leave girls alone, constantly bothering them. Took a few years for me to realize through trial and error that you just have to "play the game" 😂 And this video validated it for me, thanks man!@@MattSpear99
The final texting tips are so real. Man
This is actually some really good advice, a lot better than all the other hardcore red pill stuff.
Your channel is worth of subscribing. Only practical an useful advices
Thank you!
The first video that actually shows how to plan your first date. Big respect bro!
This was the best dating message ive heard ever
It’s cool how you realized that you actually don’t text your girlfriend cute messages anymore. You even reflect on your own personal life on these videos.
Good advice brother
Straight to the point, I fw this
So funny how I literally follow this pattern of texting without even realizing it. Come to think of it get about 1-2 dates a month and I’d say I only look average hahaha
Hey man, I have been struggling with my social anxiety, and my routines and commitments in life have been a mess. I got an all boys high school and I got college next year. Been feeling down, but ur vids give me some hope. Thx.
I tried taking charge and I got ghosted haha same exact shit you did I felt like it was to early to ask to go on the date
You should make a video on the date. How do you keep confidence, feel comfortable, what if you really don't like her.
New subscriber, thanks for your motivating messages king 👑
I’m planning to have my first date pretty soon, and this video helped me a TON. I've had a handful of situationships before, but I have a different feeling about this one. Thank you so much, man! 😄 (I like cute lil emojis)
I see you with the new edits baby
I always up do these techniques without any results
Girls actually interested in a success man
Saw this video a couple of days ago. Implemented your advice and bam! now i have like five girls to date.. girls are asking me out.. skipped all those emojis and straight to business 😂cheers man keep up the work! Now i have to see your other videos so i dont blow it on the date haha.. Greetings from sweden.
Yo this is legendary!
I like your energy dude. Def. Some great advice. Thanks!
the most important thing to remember is don’t take his words as gospel, be flexible and adapt to who you’re talking to
Love ur content❤❤ but man u gotta post more
YOU ARE THE LEADER
You are goated bro
Its so annoying that we have to play those stupid games... makes me not wanna start all that shit in the first place tbh
As a person who has been throught all of this ,well yeah I can agree it's annoying
This sounds like a more realistic DENNIS system
This video is fuckin gold
Confirmed, works 99.99% of the time, basically an irl glitch
Very good video bro! you did in one video what many self-improvement guys take multiple videos to do.
Bro my Dude!
What if it's over a long distance n we can't meet each other until after a few years, and after a while she starts texting less?
Me: Hey do you like coffee?
Her: No
Me: Shit
happened to me too brother, and frankly some girls literally don't drink coffee. Fix it up with a joke and expand from there.
@@patroneroxIdk if it's just me because I don't swear, but the interaction he made IS pretty funny to me
Ask her if she’s Mormon
Hahaha😂
I completely disagree with this video. Evedrything I do in my life is to entertain myself and others. When I text, dance, sing, etc i will make myself look like an idiot because I like to laugh at myself. have fun and don't worry about what other people think. Find yourself someone who feels the same way or who wants to laugh with you.
ok
A little bonus tip from a virgin here. if you had an actual conversation with the girl and she knows your name. She will think about you for at least as long as you think about her. You will always be the one to forget about her first.
So don't be afraid she forgets you.
Thanks for the video, this has help a lot!!
Straight to the point...nice
Fantastic and to the point!
The change of voice was so perfect 😂
"Quick burst" got me rolling
Could you make a video on how to navigate through meditation? Like if i do be reflecting on life recently but what else should i do
Great video 🙌
The music at the end 👍
I’m a pretty closed book who doesn’t like texting a whole lot so this should come natural to me I hope.
Great video!
I always keep my texting to a minimum. Although I did go out with this one girl and she told me why we never texted much before the first date. I told her it was because I like to get to know people in person instead
Im not saying this guy is wrong, but I also don't know what part of the US he is located in, but where live in the Us (sf bay area) id say less then half of one percent of weman would actually show up to date if all you sent them was 4 text messages...
In my experience 10-15 messages is the sweet spot for getting and setting up a first date. But you can get away with less than that if you already know the woman in person.
great advice thanks bro
FELLAS I NEED HELP!!! I got to text a girl i meet awhile ago and i didn't get her number directly WHAT DO I SAY GUYs PLEASE HELP
On Xbox it’s so hard kinda stupid never happens to me only happens when there mad at me lol
I just sort of got the,im just not ready for a relationship." I texted her every day for 2 months. Basically, I started a convo every day. I wish I would've been aware of this when i was texting her.
I like to think of texting like playing catch with a girl. If I text a girl, I throw the ball 🏀 to her and now the ball 🏀 is in her court. I can’t throw that ball back to her until she texts me back, meaning she throws that ball back to me.
I always wait at least 5-10 minutes too before responding. If she responds right away, then I will too. If you want to succeed, you gotta play it cool, be patient and positive.
NEVER be needy or clingy, those are both turn offs and red flags 🚩, always give girls their space, go workout and train hard to keep your mind off of her, or you will always lose!!
Damn, you matched? I'm still trying to get to that part! LMAO
“Hey you like pizza?”
“Sure”
As a girl, I dont agree with thee part "this guy left me on read, wow he is different" bc everyone does it to show you that they "dont care" when they really do, and it is exhausting
Awesome video
Appreciate you man
But what if I don’t’ work or don’t have a job or a car what do I do
good shit buddy...keep it up
It just worked for me bro 😅
Good advice for now on when i get a girls instagram I'ma text them something different not just , Hey or Heyy
you got black dude swagger my man🤙
Can you make a video on how to text a girl that you have talked to for a while (as a friend), but have an interest in?
Amazing tips, how could i not figure them out earlier ?
Bro, those drawings are killing me 😂
What if you knew her and just haven't talked in a while
Can you make a video on how to setup a tinder/dating account for guys?