How to deal with hate | what to do when friends unfollow you
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ค. 2024
- Haters gonna hate, but you don't have to.
0:00 Intro
0:44 Why it hurts
1:38 How to feel better
2:30 Social Media
3:25 Values
3:51 That's on them
4:15 Let them go
5:05 Control your reaction
5:52 Reflect on the relationship
6:57 Surround yourself with good ppl
7:57 Outro
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Unfollowing is a self protective mechanism,, not always hate.
That's completely true for some! Thanks for the added perspective ♡
When people attack unprovoked it is almost always jealousy. It's a sincere compliment.
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Yep. You mattered enough to trig-ger them. Take it as a compliment. You’ll never get to the top free of haters anyways.
A lot of people who I considered friends unfollowed me. And I just feel like why? Why even go through the effort?
ah I get you!! It's never a good feeling ): hang in there ♡
i know this video was a year ago but this situation just happened to me, it came out of nowhere, i wanna look for answers but at the end of the day, you shouldn’t care you know, just live your life the fullest ❤️
Live your life to the absolute fullest!! At the end of the day, it's your life and you have to live it to the best of your ability ♡ the best way to clap back is to forget they ever existed and live your best life :) you got this!
I've been on both sides of the argument and I think the main problem is that we're framing an unfollow as "hate" and "negativity". This is WAY exaggerated for something as trite as an unfollow. Following this logic, I'm a bad hateful person just because I unfollowed aunt Betty who flooded my feed with pictures of her chihuahua 😂
Totally agree! Sometimes a simple unfollow because you've grown apart or just cleaning out your feed can be taken the wrong way :) I love your perspective on this ♡
I started loosing many followers just because I didn’t post much pictures of myself anymore
wishing you nothing but the best :)
Just forget about them they’re so toxic in your life forget about them move on in your own life
yaas ❤
Yes mam.. Maybe it's about them.. 1st i thought it's maybe because I'm not posting enough.. Or something is missing in my post.. But thn i discover it's about them..
Thanks girl❤️ i knew and believed everything you said but it was really nice and calming to hear it from someone else.
Anytime! Sending you positive vibes!! 😊✨
@@JoannaL Thank you for being such a kind soul.
What is annoying is they unfollow you and when you cool with them unfollowing you/ they don’t get the reaction they wanted. They keep watching you. They like you, they don’t like them
they're always trying to get a reaction... glad you're aware of that!! Wishing you all the best ♡
They're called monitoring spirits
@@derwoodhamburger either that or hate watching
Thanks Joanna, I needed this ❤
aw you're so welcome! Wishing you all the best :)
This happened for me , she unfollowed me recently for no reason , she is my friend, and we gotta some conflict in between , i just convinced myself and moved on texting her , but she ws no way showing intrest to text , so i just left cutting off texting her or calling for a month , she unfollowed me ryt now .?!!whts your strong suggestion for this
If someone unfollows me, I will just make a new account with that person's name and uses that account to follow my main account 😎
lol!!
Needed to hear these words. Thanks for sharing
Sending you positive vibes!!
Thank you for this video :) you have a kind aura. ❤
thank you so much ✨
People should unfollow whomever they want.
you're absolutely right :)
@@JoannaLit's rude
what if it my sister law she unfollowed me on facebook but is following me on instagram..I feel she unfollowed me because i didn’t lend her money for her wedding but i was on business trip and told her and then went to my boyfriend who is her brother for 3,000 but my bf told he only had 1,000 and he needed to keep just in case something went wrong for me while i was in el salvador
family relationships can always get really complicated ): I'm sorry you're going through that, I wish she didn't feel entitled to your money. But likewise, it might be helpful that you don't feel entitled to her following you on social media. Maybe your social media accounts are better off without her since it could remind you of your strained relationship anyway. Wishing you all the best!
@@JoannaL Thank you I really needed this reassurance she will be unfollowed and blocked.
I love YOU and I will follow you till the end of time 😁😂
aww you’re so kind 🙂
My mother in law unfollowed me on Instagram but kept the rest of the family. I don't post often, and neither do they so it wasn't about excessive posting-she knows exactly what I'm all about. She has always been weird with me from day 1, but for a while we were good. Then this. I'm over it. I unfollowed and blocked her. I'm sure she'll come up with an excuse and make it about me again. I'll be posting more interesting things soon and oh well, she won't be able to see them! LOL!
You deserve better! Love that you’re so positive 😊 wishing you all the best
Great video thank you🎉
thanks for watching! ♡
Love your video❤
thank you ❤
Great Video ❤
ah thank you ♡♡♡
How did you know I unfollowed you?
*cries
Don’t know many followers and their profile was suggested and didn’my say follow. I have a music page. I try not to look that but it popped up like wow I thought you were following the page lol