How to deal with hate | what to do when friends unfollow you

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ค. 2024
  • Haters gonna hate, but you don't have to.
    0:00 Intro
    0:44 Why it hurts
    1:38 How to feel better
    2:30 Social Media
    3:25 Values
    3:51 That's on them
    4:15 Let them go
    5:05 Control your reaction
    5:52 Reflect on the relationship
    6:57 Surround yourself with good ppl
    7:57 Outro
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ความคิดเห็น • 52

  • @kristoforaerma5922
    @kristoforaerma5922 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Unfollowing is a self protective mechanism,, not always hate.

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's completely true for some! Thanks for the added perspective ♡

  • @Schnooklebear71
    @Schnooklebear71 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    When people attack unprovoked it is almost always jealousy. It's a sincere compliment.

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤔

    • @epicbehavior
      @epicbehavior 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yep. You mattered enough to trig-ger them. Take it as a compliment. You’ll never get to the top free of haters anyways.

  • @epiphonecasino5903
    @epiphonecasino5903 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    A lot of people who I considered friends unfollowed me. And I just feel like why? Why even go through the effort?

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ah I get you!! It's never a good feeling ): hang in there ♡

  • @ioviolet
    @ioviolet 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    i know this video was a year ago but this situation just happened to me, it came out of nowhere, i wanna look for answers but at the end of the day, you shouldn’t care you know, just live your life the fullest ❤️

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Live your life to the absolute fullest!! At the end of the day, it's your life and you have to live it to the best of your ability ♡ the best way to clap back is to forget they ever existed and live your best life :) you got this!

  • @suze144
    @suze144 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I've been on both sides of the argument and I think the main problem is that we're framing an unfollow as "hate" and "negativity". This is WAY exaggerated for something as trite as an unfollow. Following this logic, I'm a bad hateful person just because I unfollowed aunt Betty who flooded my feed with pictures of her chihuahua 😂

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Totally agree! Sometimes a simple unfollow because you've grown apart or just cleaning out your feed can be taken the wrong way :) I love your perspective on this ♡

  • @vcenxz
    @vcenxz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I started loosing many followers just because I didn’t post much pictures of myself anymore

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      wishing you nothing but the best :)

  • @birtneyspearschristmas.sum8825
    @birtneyspearschristmas.sum8825 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Just forget about them they’re so toxic in your life forget about them move on in your own life

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yaas ❤

  • @Newyou933
    @Newyou933 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes mam.. Maybe it's about them.. 1st i thought it's maybe because I'm not posting enough.. Or something is missing in my post.. But thn i discover it's about them..

  • @imaunicornyo1140
    @imaunicornyo1140 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks girl❤️ i knew and believed everything you said but it was really nice and calming to hear it from someone else.

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Anytime! Sending you positive vibes!! 😊✨

    • @imaunicornyo1140
      @imaunicornyo1140 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JoannaL Thank you for being such a kind soul.

  • @safariahull
    @safariahull 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    What is annoying is they unfollow you and when you cool with them unfollowing you/ they don’t get the reaction they wanted. They keep watching you. They like you, they don’t like them

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      they're always trying to get a reaction... glad you're aware of that!! Wishing you all the best ♡

    • @derwoodhamburger
      @derwoodhamburger 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They're called monitoring spirits

    • @dripplaflare3356
      @dripplaflare3356 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@derwoodhamburger either that or hate watching

  • @energetic.cynosure
    @energetic.cynosure ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks Joanna, I needed this ❤

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw you're so welcome! Wishing you all the best :)

  • @ultimategamer764
    @ultimategamer764 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This happened for me , she unfollowed me recently for no reason , she is my friend, and we gotta some conflict in between , i just convinced myself and moved on texting her , but she ws no way showing intrest to text , so i just left cutting off texting her or calling for a month , she unfollowed me ryt now .?!!whts your strong suggestion for this

  • @YourSweetPotato
    @YourSweetPotato 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    If someone unfollows me, I will just make a new account with that person's name and uses that account to follow my main account 😎

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      lol!!

  • @ChazEevee
    @ChazEevee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Needed to hear these words. Thanks for sharing

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sending you positive vibes!!

  • @moonbeam3431
    @moonbeam3431 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this video :) you have a kind aura. ❤

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much ✨

  • @songchunxue
    @songchunxue ปีที่แล้ว +8

    People should unfollow whomever they want.

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  ปีที่แล้ว

      you're absolutely right :)

    • @Newyou933
      @Newyou933 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@JoannaLit's rude

  • @maraspeakwiks9872
    @maraspeakwiks9872 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    what if it my sister law she unfollowed me on facebook but is following me on instagram..I feel she unfollowed me because i didn’t lend her money for her wedding but i was on business trip and told her and then went to my boyfriend who is her brother for 3,000 but my bf told he only had 1,000 and he needed to keep just in case something went wrong for me while i was in el salvador

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      family relationships can always get really complicated ): I'm sorry you're going through that, I wish she didn't feel entitled to your money. But likewise, it might be helpful that you don't feel entitled to her following you on social media. Maybe your social media accounts are better off without her since it could remind you of your strained relationship anyway. Wishing you all the best!

    • @maraspeakwiks9872
      @maraspeakwiks9872 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JoannaL Thank you I really needed this reassurance she will be unfollowed and blocked.

  • @duodonkeysrider2199
    @duodonkeysrider2199 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love YOU and I will follow you till the end of time 😁😂

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aww you’re so kind 🙂

  • @BBFCCO733
    @BBFCCO733 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My mother in law unfollowed me on Instagram but kept the rest of the family. I don't post often, and neither do they so it wasn't about excessive posting-she knows exactly what I'm all about. She has always been weird with me from day 1, but for a while we were good. Then this. I'm over it. I unfollowed and blocked her. I'm sure she'll come up with an excuse and make it about me again. I'll be posting more interesting things soon and oh well, she won't be able to see them! LOL!

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You deserve better! Love that you’re so positive 😊 wishing you all the best

  • @jhujuhrobinson4o16
    @jhujuhrobinson4o16 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video thank you🎉

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for watching! ♡

  • @minahil2109
    @minahil2109 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your video❤

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you ❤

  • @miamissdria
    @miamissdria 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great Video ❤

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ah thank you ♡♡♡

  • @QuanNguyen-kr6hz
    @QuanNguyen-kr6hz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How did you know I unfollowed you?

    • @JoannaL
      @JoannaL  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *cries

    • @Rollacoastertycoon
      @Rollacoastertycoon ปีที่แล้ว

      Don’t know many followers and their profile was suggested and didn’my say follow. I have a music page. I try not to look that but it popped up like wow I thought you were following the page lol