I just tell myself it’s their problem not mine their loss and get on with my day I’m sick and tired of degenerating myself Bc of some stupid bs number it doesn’t define you... you do, just carry on with your day because you’re worth more than their time 💕
I assume they're jealous or mentally unstable and call it a day. Someone I used to call a friend did that and I told her I would pray for her mental health because she is clearly going thru sth. She was shocked but I was serious. Unfollowing a friend out of nowhere is literally so insane. I can't even fathom😂😋😋
So true. I have an acquaintance in my University program who I talk to sometimes and partnered with for a couple group assignments. In my year of that program, there are 60 people including me and him. One day, he randomly unfollowed me, but still followed the majority of other people in the program. I don’t understand because we were friendly with each other, and I helped him a couple times, and even partnered with him. That unfollow hurt me for some reason.
I just assume they have gone bats hit crazy or were envious. It happens. But I think unfollowing people is lame and unkind especially now that there is a mute button. I would be very careful about calling such a person your friend because they intentionally wanted to hurt you.
@@nathalie-un8mf same thing happened to me and I unfollowed him. And I can tell you i feel better and kind of free. By pretending you don't know ,you just torture yourself.
Thafahus Am a lot of times this is a bot following then unfollowing, so it’s not even a real person who is unfollowing you, so try not to take it personally if you can. That being said, if you’d like to learn how to take and edit bright photos, I have videos on my channel to help you do that.
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
People unfollow me everyday! Even my friends from college... I wonder what's wrong with me or with them!? What does it cost to follow someone? Really? I am asking- what do you lose when you follow someone? My account doesnt grow at all.. people follow me and they unfollow me a few days later.
I was just unfollowed by an artist I really admire. They commented on my paintings and my photos for years. I shared one video that I thought was an inspiring quote by a celebrity and they respond: "Really? by THAT person?" I thought we had a civil conversation about why they felt that way but they seemed so quick to be aggressive about it. Then boom. Unfollow. I felt like a penpal ditched me. This video helped a lot. I don't need validation from people who are so quick to react like that...
If you’re over 30 , we remember times pre social media . It’s odd we can all be pseudo celebrities now, and deal with following or be followed by 100s-1000s of people . I guess I deal with it by telling myself, only those who are contributing tangible things to my life (love, money, in person time,etc) , are the ones I need to be concerned with.
I hate 13 people followed me on a day, then 2 days later, they unfollow. Its so annoying. Why did you follow me in the first place... hate people like that
I completely understand why that's frustrating, but like I say in the video - if you reroute the time spent spent thinking of the followers that are lost (or were never real in the first place) toward building your business your energy will be better spent!
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
When you get unfollowed it's because trashbags are following you in hopes that you're going to follow them back and when they realize that you're not going to the unfollow you and they do it in batched so some days I'm getting 18 followers and the next day I just stay at 0 gain it's disgusting
I met this girl while i was visiting friends in uni and we talked and laughed and had alot in common and I really thought I made a new friend ! She talked to me online a couple of times and unfollowed me on her first account so i thought maybe this is her private account she wants people that she trusts completely, then she unfollowed me on her second account and I was kinda confused like hmm?? Thought we were besties???? Well whatever hope it's all good and she's ok :) , and I hope everyone who has anxiety and tend to overthink are having a good day
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
I don’t think it’s so much about people unfollowing but more about people who we know such as our “friends” or family members that’s when it kind of feels a bit personal like did I do or say something to offend you?
The sad part about it is people follow my account when I do giveaways and a month later my count goes down. I’ve had real followers for many years and those are my true followers. It’s just frustrating on how many hypocrites are out there.
I just got unfollowed by a close friend.. Feeling hurt but I know it’s not something personal because I didn’t do anything. It had to be personal on their side. Ima ask if we are okay, but at the same time I don’t want to make a big deal.. although I also don’t want to follow if they don’t want to be part of my life. The thing I don’t get, is this individual would interact with me in all my post, we had just texted that night.. I really don’t know what happened.
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
I got unfollowed by a female cosplayer recently. I asked her the reason for doing that. She told me that she is being specific about her following. I was like what?
Hey!! Thank you soo much for posted this video. I really need this. 7 people unfollowed me today. I'm the type of person that overthink too much. It hurts ahaha I feel like what did i do wrong? Whats wrong with me? Am I not nice enough to them? Thank you. You deserve more subscribers :) Hope you have an amazing day❤️
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
@@TheLegend-rx8yu girl omg im so sorry! just know that it doesnt matter in 3 months. you will be just fine! people come n go and thats normal evrybody go thru it ! i know its hard at first but you got thisss eheee ! trust me if she not explaining anything then you are not the problem. just let her go you will be fine babe
I just got unfollowed for posting!! Posting art that I wanted to post, even when i havent posted for a day or so - for no apparent reason!! Like, wtf man?
My followers go down every time I post I can only post reels now to grow. Idk why people do that. My account is for a cause not for me. Why do they bother to follow in the first place.
I usually get 100 follow per week or more and 18 or 20 unfollows but as sooner as i hit 1k I've been getting the same amount of followers but my unfollows are getting more 40-50 unfollow per week and my account is growing slowly now i don't know what to do will this last forever
@@dynamitereborn99 Same, I lost less followers when I wasn't posting anything, then now when I go out and have fun and decide to share it, I guess people just don't want to see you doing well
Just got unfollowed by a guy friend whom I'm not sure how or why he did it even though I thought our friendship was off to a good start. This irks me. Is it wise to msg and ask how that friend is, also maybe come up with "you unfollowed me" ?
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
We overthink bro. It's not like we value the number of followers we have but I find it offensive.. like I'm hella nice to follow you back then you unfollow me? Call it ego or whatever but it triggers me
My Instagram followers only changes from 774 till 778 for about a year now. And I post very often...I don’t know why :( but this is an awesome video ! Keep up the great work 🙏🏻🍃✨
Definitely! With people doing the follow/unfollow method I wouldn't worry about it being directly related to your content unless it continues to trend downwards consistently over time, without a net positive. Hope that helps!
Sarah DeShaw thank you, did have one. He didn’t want his energy to be thrown off by my posts and simply unfollowed everyone else. He apologized and followed me back. It’s the principle, you don’t shut off your best friend just because it’s inconvenient, . I don’t not need validation but I do need the respect I give to be reciprocated.
@@SarahDeshaw OK...I like all your numbers Sarah. (I don't ever think I said to anyone before!), but I think for me what really rings a bell, because of running a business, would be: KEEP THE BIG PICTURE IN MIND LEARN WHAT YOU CAN All The Best.................... Philip
Unless super close, family members and friends should not follow each other because if unfollowed, will cause hard feelings. If you truly don't care about the person, you won't mind if they let you go. Case in point. My MIL, she doesn't like me, always hot and cold, but I managed to develop what I thought was a good relationship with her at one point. Guess she just felt like going back to square one because I had added her on social media after being hesitant, then eventually she unfollowed me. At 75 years old, still playing games like that, the woman needs help. She kept the rest of the family and made the excuse she doesn't use social media anymore LOL. She gets off on pissing me off, can't stand that I might actually have a life. I unfollowed and blocked her. Guess now she won't be seeing my new house or my upcoming vacation. Apparently I'm not interesting or worthy enough of her attention. Suck to be her I guess....boohoo🤣
I unfollowed people who I only met twice and haven't had any conversation for years. I realized what they post doesn't really add value to my life. It's totally okay to unfollow.
Our teacher showed us this video to tell us how social media impact some people lives to a point it becomes weird... You have to be really childish to care about a simple unfollow...OMG I did not think these kind of content existed like wtf...And these comments🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️ People have the right to unfollow you if they want...What is wrong with people these days "A fRiEnD uNfOlLoWeD mE" humm yes so what? Unfollow them back simple. Maybe you were trying this friend
I just tell myself it’s their problem not mine their loss and get on with my day I’m sick and tired of degenerating myself Bc of some stupid bs number it doesn’t define you... you do, just carry on with your day because you’re worth more than their time 💕
I assume they're jealous or mentally unstable and call it a day. Someone I used to call a friend did that and I told her I would pray for her mental health because she is clearly going thru sth. She was shocked but I was serious. Unfollowing a friend out of nowhere is literally so insane. I can't even fathom😂😋😋
Wonderfully said 🌻 thank you very much. I needed to read this ❤
@@tatjanaelevate thank you for ur kind words
I mean they are not forced to follow you
especially frustrating when people you know personally unfollow you for some unexplainable reason =(
So true. I have an acquaintance in my University program who I talk to sometimes and partnered with for a couple group assignments. In my year of that program, there are 60 people including me and him. One day, he randomly unfollowed me, but still followed the majority of other people in the program. I don’t understand because we were friendly with each other, and I helped him a couple times, and even partnered with him. That unfollow hurt me for some reason.
@@Vidikis360 I understand you so much!
@@Vidikis360 same and it hurts so badly like why tf they unfollowed me and i thought they are my friend...
@@notreallystrangers191 Nooooo. My best friend unfollowed me too.
I just assume they have gone bats hit crazy or were envious. It happens. But I think unfollowing people is lame and unkind especially now that there is a mute button. I would be very careful about calling such a person your friend because they intentionally wanted to hurt you.
I just got unfollowed by someone I really liked, luckily I’ve found your video and it helped me a lot 💙 thank you so much for that🙏🏻
Same :(
same here
my crush unfollowed me, idk if I should unfollow him or pretend that I don't know
@@nathalie-un8mf same thing happened to me and I unfollowed him. And I can tell you i feel better and kind of free. By pretending you don't know ,you just torture yourself.
same :(
really someone will follow me and aftertwo days someone unfollowed me i really hate that
Thafahus Am I find it’s best to just tune those people out! ☺️
@@SarahDeshaw ohh really but i always feel soo sad and i will think tha beacuse my photo are not at all bright
Thafahus Am a lot of times this is a bot following then unfollowing, so it’s not even a real person who is unfollowing you, so try not to take it personally if you can. That being said, if you’d like to learn how to take and edit bright photos, I have videos on my channel to help you do that.
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
People unfollow me everyday! Even my friends from college... I wonder what's wrong with me or with them!? What does it cost to follow someone? Really? I am asking- what do you lose when you follow someone? My account doesnt grow at all.. people follow me and they unfollow me a few days later.
don't care about other people... just take Care of urself, u are a good person don't worry
I’ve been unfollowed by larger creators in my circle, my friends, by family lol. It sometimes gets to me any other times I just let it be.
@@myworldmytravels It feels great to know that I'm not the only one who goes through this
@@Naviii2000 yess I can relate as well. It really does suck cause I find myself getting annoyed about it and then sometimes it doesn’t affect me.
@@nalanniahj1201 Yea I can understand... But it doesnt matter if you know you did nothing wrong... It just makes you better than them
Them: Unfollow me
Me: Unfollowing them and follow them again just to let them know that I knew that they unfollow me🤣🤣🤣🤣
🥰😅😅
LMAO
u r cool, but i block them
Omg
Fr😂😂😂😂😂😂
If they unfollow you then unfollow them back. Simple
i.e. treat them accordingly 😂
I was just unfollowed by an artist I really admire. They commented on my paintings and my photos for years. I shared one video that I thought was an inspiring quote by a celebrity and they respond: "Really? by THAT person?" I thought we had a civil conversation about why they felt that way but they seemed so quick to be aggressive about it. Then boom. Unfollow. I felt like a penpal ditched me. This video helped a lot. I don't need validation from people who are so quick to react like that...
Sorry, I know it can sting, but I’m glad this video helped!
I'm fine when a random person unfollows me, but it still stings when I'm unfollowed by a mutual and I immediately think they don't like me
It is tough. Keep your chin up!💙
If you’re over 30 , we remember times pre social media . It’s odd we can all be pseudo celebrities now, and deal with following or be followed by 100s-1000s of people . I guess I deal with it by telling myself, only those who are contributing tangible things to my life (love, money, in person time,etc) , are the ones I need to be concerned with.
Sapiens Strength yes! I so agree!
Goooood point
Sometimes when I get unfollowed, I used to feel like my content is boring. But thank you for the advice.👍👍👍👍
I hate 13 people followed me on a day, then 2 days later, they unfollow. Its so annoying. Why did you follow me in the first place... hate people like that
I completely understand why that's frustrating, but like I say in the video - if you reroute the time spent spent thinking of the followers that are lost (or were never real in the first place) toward building your business your energy will be better spent!
A old friend unfollowed me and blocked me and I didn't do shit wtf :/
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
When you get unfollowed it's because trashbags are following you in hopes that you're going to follow them back and when they realize that you're not going to the unfollow you and they do it in batched so some days I'm getting 18 followers and the next day I just stay at 0 gain it's disgusting
I met this girl while i was visiting friends in uni and we talked and laughed and had alot in common and I really thought I made a new friend ! She talked to me online a couple of times and unfollowed me on her first account so i thought maybe this is her private account she wants people that she trusts completely, then she unfollowed me on her second account and I was kinda confused like hmm?? Thought we were besties???? Well whatever hope it's all good and she's ok :) , and I hope everyone who has anxiety and tend to overthink are having a good day
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
I don’t think it’s so much about people unfollowing but more about people who we know such as our “friends” or family members that’s when it kind of feels a bit personal like did I do or say something to offend you?
this is such a heart warming video! I really needed this advice so thank you :)
I'm so glad! Thanks for watching!
The sad part about it is people follow my account when I do giveaways and a month later my count goes down. I’ve had real followers for many years and those are my true followers. It’s just frustrating on how many hypocrites are out there.
don't care about other people... just take Care of urself, u are a good person don't worry
beautiful, thank you so very much. this was really helpful to me!
I just got unfollowed by a close friend.. Feeling hurt but I know it’s not something personal because I didn’t do anything. It had to be personal on their side. Ima ask if we are okay, but at the same time I don’t want to make a big deal.. although I also don’t want to follow if they don’t want to be part of my life.
The thing I don’t get, is this individual would interact with me in all my post, we had just texted that night.. I really don’t know what happened.
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
Looked up this video while your subscriber count was 777! ✨ Thank you
vibes!✨✨✨ :)
😿😿😿i just got unfollowed
I got unfollowed by a female cosplayer recently. I asked her the reason for doing that. She told me that she is being specific about her following. I was like what?
Hey!! Thank you soo much for posted this video. I really need this. 7 people unfollowed me today. I'm the type of person that overthink too much. It hurts ahaha I feel like what did i do wrong? Whats wrong with me? Am I not nice enough to them? Thank you. You deserve more subscribers :) Hope you have an amazing day❤️
Glad it helped! Thanks for watching!
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
@@TheLegend-rx8yu girl omg im so sorry! just know that it doesnt matter in 3 months. you will be just fine! people come n go and thats normal evrybody go thru it ! i know its hard at first but you got thisss eheee ! trust me if she not explaining anything then you are not the problem. just let her go you will be fine babe
@@plushyofficial5125 Yeah thanks ❤ (Btw I'm a boy)
I just got unfollowed for posting!! Posting art that I wanted to post, even when i havent posted for a day or so - for no apparent reason!! Like, wtf man?
I’m actually using this advice for tumblr but I love this
We vibed so much there was nothing wrong between us we didn't fight or anything but she unfollowed
My followers go down every time I post I can only post reels now to grow. Idk why people do that. My account is for a cause not for me. Why do they bother to follow in the first place.
I usually get 100 follow per week or more and 18 or 20 unfollows but as sooner as i hit 1k I've been getting the same amount of followers but my unfollows are getting more 40-50 unfollow per week and my account is growing slowly now i don't know what to do will this last forever
Thank you Sarah 😇
Yo. I asked a girl who unfollowed me why she unfollowed me and it was the most embarrassing thing I've done in my life. Plz help.
I lost like 30+ followers but thanks to this video .This help me so much ... thanks
Jaydin Herrings glad to hear it helped!🙌🏻
I lost over 450 in 3 weeks since I posted so much stories about my holiday in Asia. I barely gained any followers since 😭😭😭
@@dynamitereborn99 Same, I lost less followers when I wasn't posting anything, then now when I go out and have fun and decide to share it, I guess people just don't want to see you doing well
Just got unfollowed by a guy friend whom I'm not sure how or why he did it even though I thought our friendship was off to a good start. This irks me.
Is it wise to msg and ask how that friend is, also maybe come up with "you unfollowed me" ?
Same happened with me today..I got unfollowed by a girl (i treated her like my sister 😕) idk why she did this.. Not even she unfollowed me, but she removed me from her following!! I don't actually know what's the reason.. My male friends never do like that 🥺 atleast she could tell me what's the fault!
The fact that people actually care just because they get UNFOLLOWED on social media just blows my mind
We overthink bro. It's not like we value the number of followers we have but I find it offensive.. like I'm hella nice to follow you back then you unfollow me? Call it ego or whatever but it triggers me
I find it offensive too and it hurts my self respect to follow them when they chose to unfollow me first
Thank you
My Instagram followers only changes from 774 till 778 for about a year now. And I post very often...I don’t know why :( but this is an awesome video ! Keep up the great work 🙏🏻🍃✨
Thank you❤
I’ve lost over 30 today and haven’t gained a single and went back down to 3.3k....... is this normal ???
Definitely! With people doing the follow/unfollow method I wouldn't worry about it being directly related to your content unless it continues to trend downwards consistently over time, without a net positive. Hope that helps!
I dnt know how there heart becomes stone
She unfollowed me bcoz she’s been fired up when i post story with different girl
I gain 50 and lose 20 everyday
😂😂
kaun sa dhandha kr rhe bro
PROFIT
What if your boyfriend unfollows you, and you two live together?
keila brandon sounds like opening up communication with him would be a great idea.💞
Sarah DeShaw thank you, did have one. He didn’t want his energy to be thrown off by my posts and simply unfollowed everyone else. He apologized and followed me back. It’s the principle, you don’t shut off your best friend just because it’s inconvenient, . I don’t not need validation but I do need the respect I give to be reciprocated.
he probably dont like your cooking
Same here
I haven't watched this video yet, but I absolutely HATE that!....I will watch it as soon as I am done editing this wedding!....Stand By...
Philip
Uptown Photography looking forward to hearing your thoughts! Good luck with your editing today!
@@SarahDeshaw OK...I like all your numbers Sarah. (I don't ever think I said to anyone before!), but I think for me what really rings a bell, because of running a business, would be:
KEEP THE BIG PICTURE IN MIND
LEARN WHAT YOU CAN
All The Best....................
Philip
@@uptownphotography Thanks so much Philip! Those are the two that help me the most as well!
@@SarahDeshaw Cool....
Hiii
Unless super close, family members and friends should not follow each other because if unfollowed, will cause hard feelings. If you truly don't care about the person, you won't mind if they let you go. Case in point. My MIL, she doesn't like me, always hot and cold, but I managed to develop what I thought was a good relationship with her at one point. Guess she just felt like going back to square one because I had added her on social media after being hesitant, then eventually she unfollowed me. At 75 years old, still playing games like that, the woman needs help. She kept the rest of the family and made the excuse she doesn't use social media anymore LOL. She gets off on pissing me off, can't stand that I might actually have a life. I unfollowed and blocked her. Guess now she won't be seeing my new house or my upcoming vacation. Apparently I'm not interesting or worthy enough of her attention. Suck to be her I guess....boohoo🤣
I unfollowed people who I only met twice and haven't had any conversation for years. I realized what they post doesn't really add value to my life. It's totally okay to unfollow.
After 1K follows it will get better they said, you won’t be stuck on the same number they said
I just losses my 2.6k followers 😭😭
ppl unfollow its fine but this time i am shoked. my favorite person unfollowed me.
Sorry to hear that, that sounds tough. Keep going though and focus on your goals!
Someone purchased from me ans then unfollowed me :(
Our teacher showed us this video to tell us how social media impact some people lives to a point it becomes weird...
You have to be really childish to care about a simple unfollow...OMG I did not think these kind of content existed like wtf...And these comments🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
People have the right to unfollow you if they want...What is wrong with people these days "A fRiEnD uNfOlLoWeD mE" humm yes so what? Unfollow them back simple. Maybe you were trying this friend