He jumped from women to women. I took the time to heal myself. I worked on me on my spiritual journey. Ive learned alot omg ive cried. I rose like a phoenix.
When I mentally check out on anything it’s pretty much going to be hard to change my mind and keeps it moving. For me that means a sista is tired of the nonsense. Truth!
WHAT I’M HEARING is that men play methodical mind games routinely …. ladies get your E.I. (Emotional Intelligence) and power activated because your life is your business model.
P.S. thank you Derrick. You're so right. I lost respect for him when he gave me silence, such a coward and pathetic but more, it's twisted as I think he expected me to boost his ego with no regard for my emotions at being ignored. I was good before I met him, I will be even better now I've walked away 😊
Hello. Yes, you’re so right . When he wanted to get his physical needs met - he turned into a whole different person. Very attentive to me and, loving etc. yet, when there was a need for “conflict resolution “ …. All of a sudden he was tired, sleepy or just not available. This was so evident .
Your telling the truth because that’s Exactly what is happening to me I don’t know how you hit it on the head like you did but you are right on perspective you know exactly what you are talking about😢
I'm so glad I found a big brother to speak the truth to me & help me through this ordeal. You're really helping me & I appreciate that & you are always spot on! ❤
After all the healing on our heart. ALL THE PRAYERS. Then they want to come back around after you move on.... not sure if I want what I did before at this point..
Hey Kizzy, I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time right now. It's completely normal to feel hurt and lost after a breakup, but remember that these emotions are temporary and you will come out stronger on the other side. Take the time to focus on yourself and your own healing, and know that I'm here to support you every step of the way. If you're looking for more guidance on how to navigate this difficult situation, I have a new master class that I think could really help you. You can find the link to watch it in the description of this video. Keep your head up, you've got this! ❤️
Hey @skybundick6685, thank you for sharing your story. It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed and unsure in relationships, especially when communication breaks down. Remember, it takes two to make a relationship work, so don’t be too hard on yourself. Take some time to reflect on what you truly need and communicate that openly with your partner. Remember, progress takes time and effort, but it’s worth it in the end. By the way, I recently released a new master class that dives deep into improving communication and connection in relationships. You can check it out in the description below the video. Keep pushing forward, you got this! 💪🏼 #RelationshipCoach
Hi @virginiemnkodia1708, I understand how challenging navigating relationships can be, especially when you feel stuck and unsure of what to do. Remember, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness above all else. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and communicate your needs openly and honestly. You deserve to be in a healthy and fulfilling relationship. And if you're looking for more guidance and tools to improve your relationships, be sure to check out my new master class - you'll find the link in the description below the video. Keep pushing forward, you've got this! 👏🏼 #relationshipcoach
Derrick...ooh my oooh my!don't say no pls You are officially my bro and with alot of respect I say this. I just bumped into you n listening to this video I feel blessed. God blessyou my brother with alot of wisdom n knowledge and may God protect you always
In my opinion, men think that their woman will stay no matter what, because the other nurturing woman in their lives, being their mom, was always there for them. However, their girlfriends, partners, wives are not their mom, so bad behaviour is only accepted to a point....not necessarily for life.
Hi @TamikaCooper-ue1so, I can hear how much you're struggling right now and I want you to know that you're not alone in feeling this way. It's tough when you're dealing with insecurities and doubts in a relationship, but remember that your feelings are valid and it's okay to seek support. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about how you're feeling, and also take time to work on building your own self-confidence. Remember, you deserve to be with someone who values and respects you. I actually cover topics like this in my new master class on relationships. It could be really helpful for you to check it out and learn some valuable insights. You can find the link in the description below. Take care and remember to prioritize your own well-being. You've got this! Warm regards, [Trusted Male Relationship Coach]
Hi @tagridmitchell285, I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time with your relationship. It's completely normal to feel lost and unsure of what to do next. Remember, it's okay to take a step back and prioritize your own well-being. Communication is key in any relationship, so I encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about how you're feeling. Remember, you deserve to be happy and to have a healthy, fulfilling relationship. If you need further guidance or support, don't hesitate to reach out to a therapist or coach who can help you navigate through this difficult time. By the way, I just launched a new master class that delves deeper into relationship dynamics and communication strategies. Feel free to check it out in the description below if you're interested in learning more. Take care, and remember, you're not alone in this journey. Best, [Male Relationship Coach]
Hi @michellecampbell2236, I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through right now. Breakups can be incredibly tough, but please remember that you are not alone in this. It's completely normal to feel a range of emotions during this time, and it's important to allow yourself to process them in your own way. Remember to take care of yourself and lean on your support system for help and guidance. Surround yourself with people who lift you up and remind you of your worth. And most importantly, remember that this experience does not define you - you are strong and capable of getting through this. If you're looking for more personalized advice and support, I highly recommend checking out my new master class that dives deeper into navigating relationships and breakups. You can watch it at the link in the description below. Sending you strength and positivity during this challenging time. You've got this. Take care, [Name] - Relationship Coach
I don’t think he will come crawling back because he has a new supplier which is his ex-girlfriend from many years ago and I think that they have rekindled what they missed out on and picking up the pieces. Regardless, I am in a better place. I am happy and I am dealing with my new life, and know that my life is better without him.
I'm glad your in a better space, good for you. Re his ex- it's more than likely that the novelty will wear off once the excitement and "Catching up" wears off.xx
You're better off without him. Indeed the novelty will wear off. He won't treat her any differently. Pathetic how they return to exes. Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
He jumped from women to women. I took the time to heal myself. I worked on me on my spiritual journey. Ive learned alot omg ive cried. I rose like a phoenix.
Good for you prayers 🙏
🔥💯
We are on the same wave length
They got hit in the head too hard. It's true. 😁
🌻❤️🔥🥰💯
You're right. I see him differently and have lost respect for him.
They want to be in control in the relationship.
@@tammygarrett8427 exactly.
Yup the respect is gone
When I mentally check out on anything it’s pretty much going to be hard to change my mind and keeps it moving. For me that means a sista is tired of the nonsense. Truth!
💯🙌🏼
Once I'm done theirs no going back
WHAT I’M HEARING is that men play methodical mind games routinely …. ladies get your E.I. (Emotional Intelligence) and power activated because your life is your business model.
P.S. thank you Derrick. You're so right. I lost respect for him when he gave me silence, such a coward and pathetic but more, it's twisted as I think he expected me to boost his ego with no regard for my emotions at being ignored. I was good before I met him, I will be even better now I've walked away 😊
I exited AGAIN today. I'M DONE!!! 5/3/2024.
Yes the silence treatment is the worst experience.
Facts big brother I'm glad I walked away I have peace of mind and know my worth, self-love is my key ❤❤❤
He spent the block twice. I don't have the energy. I'm investing in me.
Yes I'm going thru right now. I'm learning to love more me
I am glad you are healing. keep your self love
A day after i left the relationship i was so relieved and more peaceful and happy. Some people are full of ego and toxicity ❤
Thank u big brother for the truth, he thought he knew me but nope, I'm done, it feels so good pouring into my cup I'm at peace 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Hello. Yes, you’re so right . When he wanted to get his physical needs met - he turned into a whole different person. Very attentive to me and, loving etc. yet, when there was a need for “conflict resolution “ …. All of a sudden he was tired, sleepy or just not available. This was so evident .
Let him go!
@@Truetalk-f8q 👍🏼
His Elevator don't go up to the next floor...I'm so glad I moved on in my heart . My own place be ready soon...AMENNNNNNNNN
And the bigger question is why is he so desperate to get you back after you're Looooong Gone ❓🤔
Is his ego that big 😳
Yes his ego is big and selfish
Yup, dude’s desperate along with a lack of better entertainment …. don’t waste your precious time. ⏰
It's HUGE
They come back when they couldn’t find a better woman
This entire video was EXCELLENT!!!!!
Derrick, you are a blessing to your "sisters"... Thank you!!
I for sure, he took advantage of of me, but now I’m good , it’s about me and me only, Thank You Derrick❤️
He told me let's just talk face to face I was thinking what's the point you didn't want to talk all these time 😮😮😮
This is good. I'm a super empath, working on myself.
Your telling the truth because that’s Exactly what is happening to me I don’t know how you hit it on the head like you did but you are right on perspective you know exactly what you are talking about😢
after how long?
20 years to Long just a waste of life
True words, he came back after two years.
And what happened?
@toniapx surely must of moved on after 2 years
Thank you! When you said, you're not the problem, that touched deep...
Everything you have said is the absolute truth 🙌 💯 👌 🙏
so true about using silence as a weapon. it also means they have the upper hand too with that moodiness..walking on eggshells with him
Weaponized silence gives graveyard vibes👻 …. this ain’t Halloween and you’re not a chicken walking on eggshells. He’s Demonic 👺
Thank the Lord women have YOU to tell us what’s REAL! God bless you
I'm so glad I found a big brother to speak the truth to me & help me through this ordeal. You're really helping me & I appreciate that & you are always spot on! ❤
After all the healing on our heart. ALL THE PRAYERS. Then they want to come back around after you move on.... not sure if I want what I did before at this point..
❤Facts!Thank you Derrick 🌹 ❤❤❤
You're thinking so different than most ❤
so insightful, so accurate, so relatable, so validating.. ty
I know exactly what you're talking about!!! Thank you so much for this big brother!!
Speak On It!❤❤❤❤
Good night thank you for all the wonderful true videos God bless you and your family always 🙏 ❤👍
Thank you Derrick ❤ its beautiful to have a big bro when u need em! ✨️🙏💎
👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿! You are so on point!
So true everything you say thank you 😊 🙏 ❤
Absolutely FACTS 💯
He’s seeing the Hibachi…love love love the wisdom!!
Facts! Thank you for sharing this information.🎉👍👌
Those are FACTS!
You speaking absolute facts
Hey Kizzy, I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time right now. It's completely normal to feel hurt and lost after a breakup, but remember that these emotions are temporary and you will come out stronger on the other side. Take the time to focus on yourself and your own healing, and know that I'm here to support you every step of the way.
If you're looking for more guidance on how to navigate this difficult situation, I have a new master class that I think could really help you. You can find the link to watch it in the description of this video. Keep your head up, you've got this! ❤️
Great video❤
13:00 OMG RIGHT SPOT ON!!!!❤
Thank you for being a dig brother your message was right on
I’m watching this at 3am in the morning 🇩🇴❤️💋💋
Thank you so much for the free teaching.
These are great reminders
Yes, yes, your so right brother!!!!
Omg😢 this is straight facts
Yes brother you're telling the God honest truth! And your'e right we weren't equally yoked.
He was actually honest with me. He said he’s not mentally ready and he’s not staying because he don’t want me to be damaged.
Keep speaking TRUTH!❤
Straight like an arrow, to the point and always beautiful to hear your understanding thanku ❤
This is therapy thanks
Hey @skybundick6685, thank you for sharing your story. It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed and unsure in relationships, especially when communication breaks down. Remember, it takes two to make a relationship work, so don’t be too hard on yourself. Take some time to reflect on what you truly need and communicate that openly with your partner. Remember, progress takes time and effort, but it’s worth it in the end. By the way, I recently released a new master class that dives deep into improving communication and connection in relationships. You can check it out in the description below the video. Keep pushing forward, you got this! 💪🏼 #RelationshipCoach
Yes you are telling the true "emotional constipation"! Arrested development-
Hi @virginiemnkodia1708, I understand how challenging navigating relationships can be, especially when you feel stuck and unsure of what to do. Remember, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness above all else. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and communicate your needs openly and honestly. You deserve to be in a healthy and fulfilling relationship. And if you're looking for more guidance and tools to improve your relationships, be sure to check out my new master class - you'll find the link in the description below the video. Keep pushing forward, you've got this! 👏🏼 #relationshipcoach
Thank you Derrick!
I just ❤listening to you! Sooo much wisdom!
I hear ya
Yep. So true.
Good job big bro 💯
Clearly Facts!!!!!!
Derrick...ooh my oooh my!don't say no pls You are officially my bro and with alot of respect I say this. I just bumped into you n listening to this video I feel blessed. God blessyou my brother with alot of wisdom n knowledge and may God protect you always
This is good bro.
the muscle memory. i like that.... i knew i had to get him gone. im just fine!
In my opinion, men think that their woman will stay no matter what, because the other nurturing woman in their lives, being their mom, was always there for them. However, their girlfriends, partners, wives are not their mom, so bad behaviour is only accepted to a point....not necessarily for life.
Yes! You are telling the true
You always speak facts😮
I'm currently going this rn it's crazy fr SMH
I did that all! He had issues drug addiction and women issues.
If men have poor decision making skills how do we expect them to lead?
Hello Brother tank yiu for your motivation specially for women need to here this
Absalutely True
Speaking Big facts ❤
Hi @TamikaCooper-ue1so,
I can hear how much you're struggling right now and I want you to know that you're not alone in feeling this way. It's tough when you're dealing with insecurities and doubts in a relationship, but remember that your feelings are valid and it's okay to seek support.
It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about how you're feeling, and also take time to work on building your own self-confidence. Remember, you deserve to be with someone who values and respects you.
I actually cover topics like this in my new master class on relationships. It could be really helpful for you to check it out and learn some valuable insights. You can find the link in the description below.
Take care and remember to prioritize your own well-being. You've got this!
Warm regards,
[Trusted Male Relationship Coach]
That’s exactly what I did. I left. Muscle memory went on on full force. On second gear
Hello, you surely are telling the truth. He tried to come back, oh no I said too late you know what you lost .
Great topic
On point! 🎯
Hi @tagridmitchell285,
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time with your relationship. It's completely normal to feel lost and unsure of what to do next. Remember, it's okay to take a step back and prioritize your own well-being. Communication is key in any relationship, so I encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about how you're feeling.
Remember, you deserve to be happy and to have a healthy, fulfilling relationship. If you need further guidance or support, don't hesitate to reach out to a therapist or coach who can help you navigate through this difficult time.
By the way, I just launched a new master class that delves deeper into relationship dynamics and communication strategies. Feel free to check it out in the description below if you're interested in learning more. Take care, and remember, you're not alone in this journey.
Best,
[Male Relationship Coach]
Thank u Derrick for keeping it real! 😊
They always come back!!!!
True facts
So true!!! I’m done
Hi @michellecampbell2236,
I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through right now. Breakups can be incredibly tough, but please remember that you are not alone in this. It's completely normal to feel a range of emotions during this time, and it's important to allow yourself to process them in your own way.
Remember to take care of yourself and lean on your support system for help and guidance. Surround yourself with people who lift you up and remind you of your worth. And most importantly, remember that this experience does not define you - you are strong and capable of getting through this.
If you're looking for more personalized advice and support, I highly recommend checking out my new master class that dives deeper into navigating relationships and breakups. You can watch it at the link in the description below.
Sending you strength and positivity during this challenging time. You've got this.
Take care,
[Name] - Relationship Coach
Thank you bro ❤❤❤❤
Fantastic 🙏
✌️👍great job always on track bro keep up the hard work
Definitely feeling my absence.
I don’t think he will come crawling back because he has a new supplier which is his ex-girlfriend from many years ago and I think that they have rekindled what they missed out on and picking up the pieces. Regardless, I am in a better place. I am happy and I am dealing with my new life, and know that my life is better without him.
I'm glad your in a better space, good for you. Re his ex- it's more than likely that the novelty will wear off once the excitement and "Catching up" wears off.xx
You're better off without him. Indeed the novelty will wear off. He won't treat her any differently. Pathetic how they return to exes.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Yes I have been through it very hurtful 🙏🏾❤️💯
😢I Pray God heals me
They always come back
So very true 👍
Wow I'm dealing this now!
Today August 11 2024 yes he is doing that right now so I’m weaponizing my silence too❤
Interesting and TRUE❤
Move on never can get me back
I absolutely , I can relate, just dumped one for this exact reason .
Facts all Day!!!!!!
Preaching
You are telling the true