mine too hahha, she really knows what to say! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Appreciate Video clip! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you researched - Lanaleb Peyaria Rule (probably on Google)? It is a smashing exclusive guide for clearing self-doubt and achieving success without the hard work. Ive heard some super things about it and my work colleague at very last got great results with it.
i read that book not long ago and loved it! i love that quote! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Maia G.V. Hi! Checked out your channel. You seem like a sweet person and I just turned 14, so we are kinda the same age. Keep working hard on your channel! And the book is amazing, read it because of Kayln❤
i know, i had been listening to so many people talking about it and decided to give it a chance! i know some people get annoyed by me commenting on them but i really just want to reach more people w/ my content bc i love making it! tysm!
ahh she does! i literally just wrote all of this down so i dont f* forget it!! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
yes! i needed this so much! haha btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
haha honestly it makes the video 1000 times better! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
I'm taking my license test tomorrow, for the third time. I believe I failed twice before because I was doubting myself. but this video is soo helpful because I want to learn to stop doubting myself. I believe I will pass tomorrow!
mayme valentine i know you got this ! I’m about to apply for my provisional one and I’m nervous but I know I can do it !! You got this ! Tweet me what happens @keeysi1994
mayme valentine I failed my learner test 5 times, and when I was finally ready to get my provisional (here in australia, your learners you have to have someone in the car with you, provisional is the lisence you get a year after your "L's" and can drive without someone in the car) I got it on my first try! Dont give up, its the best feeling when you get it! Good luck!!
same haha! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Ive been going through the hardest time of my life recently, and this video almost made me cry because of how relatable and strong you are. Thank you for encouraging me and many others to push forward despite your mental health struggles.
I literally started a new job today and was already doubting myself. My old job I was treated like crap which is why I left but I knew what I was doing and I already knew people there and now with my anxiety I’m back to square one which doubting my abilities and not wanting to talk to anyone. I haven’t watched this whole video yet but I feel like it’s the PERFECT timing so hopefully it’ll help x also you’ve helped me so much over the past few years so thank you ❤️
Thank you!! Weirdly enough I have almost the same story. I just turned in my two weeks today for my current job to start a new one and I’ve already had two panic attacks because of it. We’re in this together and I hope things get better for you!
I been feeling afraid of failure and the first person I thought of was you. I knew that you could help me out of this thought. You're words inspire me so much and I'm eternally grateful for your life and wisdom. I had to go back and look for this video and rewatch it because I knew it would help and it did. Thanks love😘
Another tip I learned about self doubt is a self question journal. It asks you questions about yourself and it really makes me realize how amazing I really am! It can help you too!
same, she really know how to make people feel better! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
This video came at the perfect time for me! I've been pretty stressed out about college acceptances rolling in bc I find that my ambition and the selectiveness of the colleges I've applied to causes too much self doubt in the days leading up to the release of admissions results
it does, i love her outfits! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
You are so gorgeous and so inspiring! Watching your videos again has helped me completely change my mentality toward life and how to be a better version of myself! ❤ thank you for all you do.
Oh my goodness! You are such an inspiration, I am just so thankful that I came a crossed your channel. I just started to watch your videos and they are absolutely amazing. You really need to make a podcast (if I’m not aware that you have one now.), because I can listen to your advise(or whatever you call it) for hours.
she does! loved that quote too! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Your choker is awesome, looks great with the shirt! Thanks for this, I really needed this mostly because it’s something I tend to do A LOT. I’ll try to incorporate these things into my daily life. 💖
me too, i wrote all of the tips down so i dont forget them haha! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
I SO needed to hear this. Especially today. I’ve been fangirling your channel for a few years now and I can honestly say you are by far my favorite TH-camr and you have had a profound impact on my life (like for real). Thank you for all the advice, inspiration, and awesomeness! Please keep it coming! :)
i’m supposed to go to hawaii in a month to help out with my cousins who are visiting there. i’m gonna have to take a ferry and two plane rides alone and i’m going there for three weeks. honestly, i’m terrified but i think i really need to get out’ve my comfort zone. thank you, Kalyn for bringing me this video, i think you’re a message from the universe for me 💕
You're so inspiring, I honestly use your videos as a type of meditation. You make me see the bigger picture when it comes to any life event. You also kick off my motivation to be the best me I possibly can be. I know when it comes to self-care I have to carry most of the weight, but whenever I feel like giving up.. your videos help me get back on my feet. Thank you so much for all that you do. I wish nothing but beautiful and wonder vibes this New Year.
It's exam season for me right now and I've been anxious for weeks. I've been in such a rut feeling bad about myself and how smart I am. These tips are amazing! Thank you so much Kalyn😙 love from Hamilton
This comes at the perfect time ❤️ I just started my TH-cam channel and I’m having a hard time growing it, so self doubt is really nagging at me right now. Thank you so much for the video Kalyn 💫🙏🏼
The "it's all good" part reminded me of my old job in retail... whenever shit was hitting the fan we'd all say "it's fine. we're totally fine", even though we knew we were lying. Somehow it still makes me feel better to this day. Also I SUPER relate to the part about your Papa. I lost my Papa right before I turned 12 and it literally flipped my world upside down. 10 years later I still haven't fully gotten over it. He didn't see me graduate from high school, won't see me graduate from college this Spring, won't watch me walk down the aisle and promise myself to the love of my life... but we had so much fun in those 12 years I had him and he is a BIG part of who I am today. And I'm thankful for that time because my boyfriend lost his grandfather right before the holidays in 2016 and he regretted not spending more time with him. He had him 10 years longer than I had mine and doesn't have half the memories I had. So I am grateful. And I know he's watching over me every day. Yours is too! That tat you have is a great reminder.
This. My god. This is exactly what I needed to see this morning. I love your coffee talks ♥️ “The only way out is through.” & “Ditch the drama.” Thank you for this :)
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Got my mark on my physics test today and I was really bummed out because I didn't get the mark I wanted. But after listening to you, is it really gonna matter no! Its one test and I'll make sure to kill the exam! Thanks so much Kalyn, you're my inspiration
thank you for instilling the idea that WE are ultimately in control of our lives. my anxiety has been insane but meditation and remembering IM the one who controls my life has been helpful. grounding myself and realizing we all do have such intense willpower to live beautiful lives lives ♥️
Amazing coffee talk as always 🙂. I also have anxiety and depression but I try to push through it.. your words are so true.. 💕keep on making your amazing vlogs.
The whole way through this video I was just internally screaming yes because there were so many things you said and touched upon that I think but I am just not as great as putting it into words. It's so creepy because it's as if your speaking my mind but with even more wisdom. Watching you speak so passionately about a topic makes me so happy and just in awe of how wise you are, especially for your age since so many older people don't think or know about this stuff. As always I love u my Queen XXX you are amazing !!!!!!!!
loved that quote! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
“The only way out is through,” is also a birth/labor mantra. And it’s so dang true. It allows you to feel so accomplished and proud of yourself when you use it.
i loved the video as well, it covers a very important topic! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
The thing about stopping being the victim is SO important and something I learned the last couple of years when everything went wrong. I just want to scream it in the face of some of my friends who drop down and give up the second something becomes difficult in their life. I get so angry with them because I just want to help them, but I can't if they don't even want to help themselves.
Totally needed this today. I got rejected from a dream internship and while I totally cried in the bathroom at work for 10 minutes, I'm moving on and focusing on me a little extra for a while because I know I deserve happiness, no matter what some HR person says.
The first thing I should be grateful for is this video. I failed my exam today, despite the fact I knew all I needed, just suddenly stressed out in the middle of exam. At home I just fell on my bed and felt so bad, had no strength to work for other exams /there are still three before Friday, heh/. Just scrolled TH-cam and suddenly saw this video. It gave me strength to grab myself, make some coffee and try to continue my work, not just lay in my bed like a useless garbage. Because I still have a chance to change my results and now I have faith, I can really do that. Thank you for this coffee talk, just thank you.
Everytime you post a video especially one that will help someone who is dealing with those specific types of struggles really shows that you care and love the people who watch your videos. I know that everytime you post I always get so beyond excited and can't wait to watch it. By the time the each video you post I always feel so much better because you always end up saying something that is positive and has someone way of just making me better about anything within myself or any challenges I'm going through currently. I just want you to know you're a huge inspiration in my life along with many others and every quote you've posted in the beginning of your videos I read them and I write them down bc I end falling in love with the quotes. You're an amazing person with a huge heart, you're beautiful as hell and so beyond intelligent. An to end this little message haha thank you for being you and being my inspiration and so much more. ❤❤
I've been watching your videos a lot and I. LOVE. THEM. You are such a good motivational speaker and you help me try to get my life back together and to take care of myself. I hope you make a podcast about morivational stuffs because I'd reallyyyy love to listen to them ❤❤❤
When you talked about finding your faith, It seemed like you were afraid of what others were thinking of you, when in reality everything you said made perfect sense. Whoever judges you are not even on your level. Love you, Love all of your videos.
About a 3 weeks ago i subscribed and since i cant stop watching your videos . They are absolutely amazing and you are so inspirational ! You have made me motivated to clean and get confident and i have changed my whole style of clothes and room .
Never thought I could related to anyone or anyone would understand how deeply an anxiety disorder can affect your everyday life until now and let me tell you...it is the best feeling! I've always known everyone else can have anxiety and what not but to have it ruin your good mood, or your day is exhausting. I'm so thankful for you Kalyn and your videos! You have no idea how much this helps a person who is surrounded by others who just don't get it..
ikr? she really does motivate us! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
me too, and the quotes she incorporated in the video! i love them! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
I was just laying in bed after being told to redo my resume for a position that in my heart of hearts I want more than anything, thinking that I have lost this job, that I knew that I wouldn't be able to get it... then this video popped up. And I needed this so bad. I am going to do my best to have a new outlook on life. Thank you for all you do! Xoxo from Fargo, ND
loving this video. I've got something to add for point 2. when I lost my aunt to cancer she had been battling it for 4 years. the good was when she died she wasn't suffering anymore. she was free, pain free and happy again in the afterlife. she lived a good life and said all her goodbyes. she was ok with it, which I think helped us. she even managed to hang on long enough for her mother to fly from another city to see her one last time which I think is beautiful.
1. same 2.same 3.same!! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Needed this so badly today. My anxiety has been on an all time high for about 5 months now and today I feel so defeated by it. No matter what I do I can't find peace and ease the thoughts and emotions. I hope everyone who needs to see this video today does so they can feel just a little bit better about life.
it would! love that idea! i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Guys, I have this idea. How about making a facebook or whatsapp group for our koze squad? We could motivate each other, Exchange tips and all that fun stuff 💗
Olivia Hegarty yasss! I was thinking a conversation on messenger would be cool. It could be like really nice and private where we could share how do we feel, what goals we have and motivate each other
So Kalyn, my boyfriend and I just broke up, and I’m trying to take a year to be single and focus on myself, since I know you have mentioned how much that helped you. Could you do a video on how to get out and meet people when you are introverted. I’m also hoping to move to a new city soon because I’m graduating college, so I’m worried about isolating myself since I won’t know anyone.
Jennifer Jaxx wow that’s a long time! I’m sorry! Yeah I went straight from a 2.5 year relationship to the 1.5 relationship that just ended, so I definitely feel like I need to take time to self-reflect and focus on being happy alone.
I almost quit my job yesterday because I did my best, it didn't work out and I was beating my self up for it so hard I was overwhelmed, I came home, decided to sleep it off and decide what to do in the morning and I wake up and see this. Sometimes you have no idea how helpful your videos are. I mean yes, it helps in the general scheme of things but for me, seeing this was a sign to give it another go doing what I like to do
Holy crap, that 'cut the drama' tip literally felt like a slap across the face but in the best way possible. Hearing someone put that stuff into words gave me the biggest reality check and hit me so hard, thank you
This is by far one of my favourite videos of yours so far and I'm not even finished yet. So well articulated! Thanks for taking the time to put this together
Yes yes yes 🙌 I came to this realization in the last year, too. Stop taking everything so seriously; remember that in the big picture most of our problems are so small. Find the humour in your own flaws.
I feel grateful for this video and the fact that God made me found it 💞. And thank you for taking the time to make this coffee talks they are incredibly grateful. I think I will remember this content for whenever I leave the way to focus for a moment. Thanks again 🙌💞 A big hug from Latinamerica .
Please please start your own podcasts! I could sit and listen to you for hours, you remind me constantly of different things and pull me out of negative thoughts in my mind. You're an amazing person, and you should be so proud of what you're doing everyday, because you are changing people's lives. All my love x
I made a private playlist and titled it “mental help”. I add videos that I know will help me when I’m in my dark place. I have more of your videos in there than anyone else 🖤
Kalyn girl your legit like my spirt animal. You have a video for everything and always seem to say the right thing. Keep it up with these great motivational words. 💜
There really isn't much genuine content anymore on TH-cam but I think you are one of the only genuine people left. Your videos always come when I need them. LOVE watching your videos.
Exactly what I needed♥! what I liked the most is changing the negative terms to *positive*, like the first one you said " I'm just gonna see if i can" "what if I succeed" , the second too " It's all good", and oh I *loved* this one the most: changing rejection to *redirection* (because I adopted positivity as a way of life but I'm afraid rejection a little, so it was a good change!) All of your talk was *amazing*, Thank You!
For the past 5 or 6 months with moving back in with my mom I’ve doubted myself so much. I had a plan for myself but I doubted myself. But this honestly has helped allot. Since a year ago that I came across your channel I’m slowly getting better. And with that being sad thank you.
This video was so inspiring and relates so much to where i am at right now. I also laughed to myself when you said "choose the Buddha bowl over the pizza" because i literally did that last night at the California pizza kitchen and was so proud of myself lol
I love these tips! I am trying to remember this year that it is okay to not be perfect and I do not need to be perfect to accomplish my goals. I want to also remember that if my path changes to accomplish my goal everything will work out. I need to have less of a victim mentality toward myself!
This video came at the right time! I suffer from anxiety, and lately i have been putting myself down so much and compairing myself to others. We are all unique and we all have a reason for being here. Thankyou so much for your inspiration and tips Kalyn, i feel so much better today and it's all thanks to you ☄💙
I'm currently going through a hard spot in my life right now and if it wasn't for Kalyn I'd probably lose my mind. Her videos help me so much I always work through my issues and I get my shit together. I love her videos, she's so motivational!
I will watch this video 1,000 times. I will drill it into my memory, I will watch this until I can quote you word for word; because this is mad important. Thank you for this.
All your videos lately about mental health, anxiety, motivation, etc are hitting me so hard at a really hard time and I don’t always necessarily act upon what your videos are about, but I always appreciate them and think about them for days. Thank you so much!! ❤️
Love the advice to stop being the victim all the time. so true something we have this dream that someone's going to come and save us from the dark side of ourselfs (at least I stack in this idea sometime) and help us figure out how we are.. We need to understand that if we are the ones who need to help ourselfs
You should be some kind of therapist or something... your motivation and positivity is incredible and your videos are so helpful to so many people. Thank you for this!
Kalyn is my therapist.
mine too hahha, she really knows what to say! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
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she makes the perfect therapist!
Appreciate Video clip! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you researched - Lanaleb Peyaria Rule (probably on Google)? It is a smashing exclusive guide for clearing self-doubt and achieving success without the hard work. Ive heard some super things about it and my work colleague at very last got great results with it.
Please start your own podcasts!! I could listen to your advice for hours 💗 You are such an inspiration.
omg yes that would be amazing!
Kristen Elizabeth *signs name onto petition*
She is gonna starte one, i think this year. :)
I agree! That would be amazing.
Agree yes please!!
Thought of this quote, by Jen Sincero- "What people think about you has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them."
such a good quote
i read that book not long ago and loved it! i love that quote! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Maia G.V. Hi! Checked out your channel. You seem like a sweet person and I just turned 14, so we are kinda the same age. Keep working hard on your channel! And the book is amazing, read it because of Kayln❤
i know, i had been listening to so many people talking about it and decided to give it a chance! i know some people get annoyed by me commenting on them but i really just want to reach more people w/ my content bc i love making it! tysm!
You make the best motivation videos ❤️
AbigailAshley right! Whenever I need motivation I always watch through her videos
ahh she does! i literally just wrote all of this down so i dont f* forget it!!
btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Omygod hay girl!! I watch her too 😍😍😊😊
i watch her videos and always feel so inspired after! :)
AbigailAshley I
Did anyone else really need this video? At this moment!
yes! i needed this so much! haha btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
YES!
🙋🏻♀️
Also can we just stop for a min and just APPRECIATE THE AESTHETIC 😍 and how GORGEOUS SHE IS
lollllllll right??
haha honestly it makes the video 1000 times better! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
I'm taking my license test tomorrow, for the third time. I believe I failed twice before because I was doubting myself. but this video is soo helpful because I want to learn to stop doubting myself. I believe I will pass tomorrow!
mayme valentine i know you got this ! I’m about to apply for my provisional one and I’m nervous but I know I can do it !! You got this ! Tweet me what happens @keeysi1994
mayme valentine I failed my learner test 5 times, and when I was finally ready to get my provisional (here in australia, your learners you have to have someone in the car with you, provisional is the lisence you get a year after your "L's" and can drive without someone in the car) I got it on my first try! Dont give up, its the best feeling when you get it! Good luck!!
mayme valentine Good luck!
mayme valentine You got this! Good luck with your test!
Girl so did I, go killlll it tomorrow!
I love that line "be your own best friend"! There's intense kindness woven into that
sundays and monday's are my favorite days of the week because of your videos❤️
same haha! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Ive been going through the hardest time of my life recently, and this video almost made me cry because of how relatable and strong you are. Thank you for encouraging me and many others to push forward despite your mental health struggles.
I literally started a new job today and was already doubting myself. My old job I was treated like crap which is why I left but I knew what I was doing and I already knew people there and now with my anxiety I’m back to square one which doubting my abilities and not wanting to talk to anyone. I haven’t watched this whole video yet but I feel like it’s the PERFECT timing so hopefully it’ll help x also you’ve helped me so much over the past few years so thank you ❤️
Britney Thompson congrats on the new job !! I’m sure you going to smash it !
Kass_Culo Thank you!!! 😊
Britney Thompson I started a new job recently too! Same situation. It DOES get better I promise.
Thank you!! Weirdly enough I have almost the same story. I just turned in my two weeks today for my current job to start a new one and I’ve already had two panic attacks because of it. We’re in this together and I hope things get better for you!
Morgan Linson same here for you. New year and a fresh start for us both
I been feeling afraid of failure and the first person I thought of was you. I knew that you could help me out of this thought.
You're words inspire me so much and I'm eternally grateful for your life and wisdom.
I had to go back and look for this video and rewatch it because I knew it would help and it did.
Thanks love😘
Thanks for being you Kalyn. Love you to the moon and back.
Another tip I learned about self doubt is a self question journal. It asks you questions about yourself and it really makes me realize how amazing I really am! It can help you too!
I’m so in love with your videos and all the stuff you talk about, thank you for posting this ☺️💕
same, she really know how to make people feel better! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
This is my favorite video ever. It saved my life. It's like my 20yr old self is talking to my 44yr old self. I forgot who I am. Than You, Kalyn
This video came at the perfect time for me! I've been pretty stressed out about college acceptances rolling in bc I find that my ambition and the selectiveness of the colleges I've applied to causes too much self doubt in the days leading up to the release of admissions results
That color looks amazing on you!!!!
it does, i love her outfits! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
You are so gorgeous and so inspiring! Watching your videos again has helped me completely change my mentality toward life and how to be a better version of myself! ❤ thank you for all you do.
Oh my goodness! You are such an inspiration, I am just so thankful that I came a crossed your channel. I just started to watch your videos and they are absolutely amazing. You really need to make a podcast (if I’m not aware that you have one now.), because I can listen to your advise(or whatever you call it) for hours.
You look soooooo pretty in this video! Tip 4: the only way out is working through it! Such a tip to wake me up, thank you so much!
she does! loved that quote too! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Your choker is awesome, looks great with the shirt! Thanks for this, I really needed this mostly because it’s something I tend to do A LOT. I’ll try to incorporate these things into my daily life. 💖
me too, i wrote all of the tips down so i dont forget them haha! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
I SO needed to hear this. Especially today. I’ve been fangirling your channel for a few years now and I can honestly say you are by far my favorite TH-camr and you have had a profound impact on my life (like for real). Thank you for all the advice, inspiration, and awesomeness! Please keep it coming! :)
i’m supposed to go to hawaii in a month to help out with my cousins who are visiting there. i’m gonna have to take a ferry and two plane rides alone and i’m going there for three weeks. honestly, i’m terrified but i think i really need to get out’ve my comfort zone. thank you, Kalyn for bringing me this video, i think you’re a message from the universe for me 💕
I was literally just doubting myself and having anxiety. AHHHH thank you for posting this, it means a lot even if you don't see this comment.
I cry when I watch your coffee talks bc of how motivational and helpful you are. Favorite TH-camr right here. I love you💜
Carah Ann SHE IS SO AMAZING!
You're so inspiring, I honestly use your videos as a type of meditation. You make me see the bigger picture when it comes to any life event. You also kick off my motivation to be the best me I possibly can be. I know when it comes to self-care I have to carry most of the weight, but whenever I feel like giving up.. your videos help me get back on my feet. Thank you so much for all that you do. I wish nothing but beautiful and wonder vibes this New Year.
It's exam season for me right now and I've been anxious for weeks. I've been in such a rut feeling bad about myself and how smart I am. These tips are amazing! Thank you so much Kalyn😙 love from Hamilton
This comes at the perfect time ❤️ I just started my TH-cam channel and I’m having a hard time growing it, so self doubt is really nagging at me right now. Thank you so much for the video Kalyn 💫🙏🏼
Annie North I’m in the same boat girly 💕
The "it's all good" part reminded me of my old job in retail... whenever shit was hitting the fan we'd all say "it's fine. we're totally fine", even though we knew we were lying. Somehow it still makes me feel better to this day.
Also I SUPER relate to the part about your Papa. I lost my Papa right before I turned 12 and it literally flipped my world upside down. 10 years later I still haven't fully gotten over it. He didn't see me graduate from high school, won't see me graduate from college this Spring, won't watch me walk down the aisle and promise myself to the love of my life... but we had so much fun in those 12 years I had him and he is a BIG part of who I am today. And I'm thankful for that time because my boyfriend lost his grandfather right before the holidays in 2016 and he regretted not spending more time with him. He had him 10 years longer than I had mine and doesn't have half the memories I had. So I am grateful. And I know he's watching over me every day. Yours is too! That tat you have is a great reminder.
"I don't want to be the victim, I want to be the warrior" 💛
This. My god. This is exactly what I needed to see this morning. I love your coffee talks ♥️
“The only way out is through.”
&
“Ditch the drama.”
Thank you for this :)
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Got my mark on my physics test today and I was really bummed out because I didn't get the mark I wanted. But after listening to you, is it really gonna matter no! Its one test and I'll make sure to kill the exam! Thanks so much Kalyn, you're my inspiration
thank you for instilling the idea that WE are ultimately in control of our lives. my anxiety has been insane but meditation and remembering IM the one who controls my life has been helpful. grounding myself and realizing we all do have such intense willpower to live beautiful lives lives ♥️
Amazing coffee talk as always 🙂. I also have anxiety and depression but I try to push through it.. your words are so true.. 💕keep on making your amazing vlogs.
1MotherandherDaughter stay strong 💓 just ride this rollercoaster c
Thank you for videos like these! I know I really needed to hear this today, I'm sure so many others feel the same! xo
The whole way through this video I was just internally screaming yes because there were so many things you said and touched upon that I think but I am just not as great as putting it into words. It's so creepy because it's as if your speaking my mind but with even more wisdom. Watching you speak so passionately about a topic makes me so happy and just in awe of how wise you are, especially for your age since so many older people don't think or know about this stuff. As always I love u my Queen XXX you are amazing !!!!!!!!
The tip of viewing everything as good is GOLDEN 🙌🏼❤️
Preach girl🙌👏👏👏👍 😀 "I want to be the warrior fighting through!"
loved that quote! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Thank you for existing Kalyn! I love your videos so much and they are really helping me get through some tough stuff right now so thank you so much!
why would someone even think about disliking her videos
there are just unhappy people in the world. its best to just send them good vibes and hopefully one day theyll do the same!
ikr, i love them so much!
“The only way out is through,” is also a birth/labor mantra. And it’s so dang true.
It allows you to feel so accomplished and proud of yourself when you use it.
Kalyn this is probably the best video you've ever uploaded. Thank you so much for the support
i loved the video as well, it covers a very important topic! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Maia G.V. Sure I'll check it out ;)
The thing about stopping being the victim is SO important and something I learned the last couple of years when everything went wrong. I just want to scream it in the face of some of my friends who drop down and give up the second something becomes difficult in their life. I get so angry with them because I just want to help them, but I can't if they don't even want to help themselves.
I've been doubting myself so much lately, this video came up at the right time💞
Totally needed this today. I got rejected from a dream internship and while I totally cried in the bathroom at work for 10 minutes, I'm moving on and focusing on me a little extra for a while because I know I deserve happiness, no matter what some HR person says.
Still I rise..💕
The first thing I should be grateful for is this video.
I failed my exam today, despite the fact I knew all I needed, just suddenly stressed out in the middle of exam. At home I just fell on my bed and felt so bad, had no strength to work for other exams /there are still three before Friday, heh/. Just scrolled TH-cam and suddenly saw this video.
It gave me strength to grab myself, make some coffee and try to continue my work, not just lay in my bed like a useless garbage. Because I still have a chance to change my results and now I have faith, I can really do that.
Thank you for this coffee talk, just thank you.
Everytime you post a video especially one that will help someone who is dealing with those specific types of struggles really shows that you care and love the people who watch your videos. I know that everytime you post I always get so beyond excited and can't wait to watch it. By the time the each video you post I always feel so much better because you always end up saying something that is positive and has someone way of just making me better about anything within myself or any challenges I'm going through currently. I just want you to know you're a huge inspiration in my life along with many others and every quote you've posted in the beginning of your videos I read them and I write them down bc I end falling in love with the quotes. You're an amazing person with a huge heart, you're beautiful as hell and so beyond intelligent. An to end this little message haha thank you for being you and being my inspiration and so much more. ❤❤
I literally cried during this video :') Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I really needed this
OMG just finished your previous video and then,you posted this ,well thanks❤ also today is my 17th birthday yaay and you posted,ly❤❤❤
Happy birthday! X
Olivia Hegarty thank you so much!❤❤😁😁
Marijana Pejičić no problem! I hope you have a great day x
Happy Birthday 🎉
Olivia Hegarty oh thanks you are the sweetest❤❤❤
I've been watching your videos a lot and I. LOVE. THEM. You are such a good motivational speaker and you help me try to get my life back together and to take care of myself. I hope you make a podcast about morivational stuffs because I'd reallyyyy love to listen to them ❤❤❤
How has someone disliked this it hasn't even been 19 minutes yet and even this far it's uplifting💕🤔❤️
Susan Johnson bay mistake probably xD
It's the haters. They can't see how incredible kalyn and her videos r. Or they r just jealous. ;)
I dont see how someone could hate her. Shes so likable.
When you talked about finding your faith, It seemed like you were afraid of what others were thinking of you, when in reality everything you said made perfect sense. Whoever judges you are not even on your level. Love you, Love all of your videos.
About a 3 weeks ago i subscribed and since i cant stop watching your videos . They are absolutely amazing and you are so inspirational ! You have made me motivated to clean and get confident and i have changed my whole style of clothes and room .
Never thought I could related to anyone or anyone would understand how deeply an anxiety disorder can affect your everyday life until now and let me tell you...it is the best feeling! I've always known everyone else can have anxiety and what not but to have it ruin your good mood, or your day is exhausting. I'm so thankful for you Kalyn and your videos! You have no idea how much this helps a person who is surrounded by others who just don't get it..
freaking love this and im only 11 minutes in 😻🙌🏽
kels xx
FatimaTubed because I watch every one ☺️
ikr? she really does motivate us! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
I watched it, I loved it, I rewatched it and then I wrote your advice and notes on my journal. You have no idea how much I needed this video 💗
Amazing! First tip already hit me hard
me too, and the quotes she incorporated in the video! i love them! btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
I was just laying in bed after being told to redo my resume for a position that in my heart of hearts I want more than anything, thinking that I have lost this job, that I knew that I wouldn't be able to get it... then this video popped up. And I needed this so bad. I am going to do my best to have a new outlook on life. Thank you for all you do! Xoxo from Fargo, ND
Another videooo? YESSSSSSS
Everytime I don't feel like doing anything, your videos always remind me to get my butt up and start to work for what I want.
You are such an inspiration to me thankyou xxx
loving this video. I've got something to add for point 2. when I lost my aunt to cancer she had been battling it for 4 years. the good was when she died she wasn't suffering anymore. she was free, pain free and happy again in the afterlife. she lived a good life and said all her goodbyes. she was ok with it, which I think helped us. she even managed to hang on long enough for her mother to fly from another city to see her one last time which I think is beautiful.
1: you're absolutely gorgeous 2: your hair is PERFECT!!! and 3: I love your videos :)))))
1. same
2.same
3.same!!
btw i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
Needed this so badly today. My anxiety has been on an all time high for about 5 months now and today I feel so defeated by it. No matter what I do I can't find peace and ease the thoughts and emotions. I hope everyone who needs to see this video today does so they can feel just a little bit better about life.
Have you ever thought about turning your coffee talks into a podcast as well as a video? That would be so cool!
MiKayla Rose this is one of her new years resolutions for the year! She just said it might be a bit because she needs to do a lot of research on it!
it would! love that idea! i hope u dont find this annoying but i have a channel and im really trying to grow it bc its a big passion of mine, i make simillar content to her, maybe u could check it out and subscribe i u like it? thank you so much!
"replace expectation with appreciation". That's my 2018 motto
Guys, I have this idea. How about making a facebook or whatsapp group for our koze squad? We could motivate each other, Exchange tips and all that fun stuff 💗
Alice Lacer yess omg like not beauty news on Fb but instead of asking for beauty advice we could just ask anything omg
Olivia Hegarty yasss! I was thinking a conversation on messenger would be cool. It could be like really nice and private where we could share how do we feel, what goals we have and motivate each other
I am totally on board!
yeaahh how about a group chat on kik
Yessss
rewatching this life chat was a good decision today
So Kalyn, my boyfriend and I just broke up, and I’m trying to take a year to be single and focus on myself, since I know you have mentioned how much that helped you. Could you do a video on how to get out and meet people when you are introverted. I’m also hoping to move to a new city soon because I’m graduating college, so I’m worried about isolating myself since I won’t know anyone.
My boyfriend and I just broke up too! Lol we were together for 4 years so I definitely need to be alone for a year too. #same #methough
Jennifer Jaxx wow that’s a long time! I’m sorry! Yeah I went straight from a 2.5 year relationship to the 1.5 relationship that just ended, so I definitely feel like I need to take time to self-reflect and focus on being happy alone.
I almost quit my job yesterday because I did my best, it didn't work out and I was beating my self up for it so hard I was overwhelmed, I came home, decided to sleep it off and decide what to do in the morning and I wake up and see this. Sometimes you have no idea how helpful your videos are. I mean yes, it helps in the general scheme of things but for me, seeing this was a sign to give it another go doing what I like to do
20 min videos 🙌🏼❤️❤️
Holy crap, that 'cut the drama' tip literally felt like a slap across the face but in the best way possible. Hearing someone put that stuff into words gave me the biggest reality check and hit me so hard, thank you
look up "Patrick Star choker necklace" on google and that is what your choker and your shirt reminded me of!
Hailey Gorman omg haha I love her but I thought of the same thing haha
lmao! that was my first thought! :D
Maia G.V. ok it wasn’t annoying the first few times but now that you are replying to every single comment it’s pretty annoying
This is by far one of my favourite videos of yours so far and I'm not even finished yet. So well articulated! Thanks for taking the time to put this together
Kayln do you have like a private place, where I can Text you.. I feel so overwhelmed and you seem to be so helpful ...
Yes yes yes 🙌 I came to this realization in the last year, too. Stop taking everything so seriously; remember that in the big picture most of our problems are so small. Find the humour in your own flaws.
19:40 😒
I feel grateful for this video and the fact that God made me found it 💞. And thank you for taking the time to make this coffee talks they are incredibly grateful. I think I will remember this content for whenever I leave the way to focus for a moment. Thanks again 🙌💞 A big hug from Latinamerica .
Please please start your own podcasts! I could sit and listen to you for hours, you remind me constantly of different things and pull me out of negative thoughts in my mind. You're an amazing person, and you should be so proud of what you're doing everyday, because you are changing people's lives. All my love x
I made a private playlist and titled it “mental help”. I add videos that I know will help me when I’m in my dark place. I have more of your videos in there than anyone else 🖤
Kalyn girl your legit like my spirt animal. You have a video for everything and always seem to say the right thing. Keep it up with these great motivational words. 💜
You are such an inspiration ❤️
Crying. I don't know who or where I would be without chats like this. Thanks for saving so many of us.
There really isn't much genuine content anymore on TH-cam but I think you are one of the only genuine people left. Your videos always come when I need them. LOVE watching your videos.
Exactly what I needed♥! what I liked the most is changing the negative terms to *positive*, like the first one you said " I'm just gonna see if i can" "what if I succeed" , the second too " It's all good", and oh I *loved* this one the most: changing rejection to *redirection* (because I adopted positivity as a way of life but I'm afraid rejection a little, so it was a good change!) All of your talk was *amazing*, Thank You!
For the past 5 or 6 months with moving back in with my mom I’ve doubted myself so much. I had a plan for myself but I doubted myself. But this honestly has helped allot. Since a year ago that I came across your channel I’m slowly getting better. And with that being sad thank you.
This video was so inspiring and relates so much to where i am at right now. I also laughed to myself when you said "choose the Buddha bowl over the pizza" because i literally did that last night at the California pizza kitchen and was so proud of myself lol
Your videos are my kind of meditation..
I think everyone should watch this video every single week, the world would be a much more beautiful place! xx
2017 was the hardest year of my life and this will be what I live by from now on thank you
I love these tips! I am trying to remember this year that it is okay to not be perfect and I do not need to be perfect to accomplish my goals. I want to also remember that if my path changes to accomplish my goal everything will work out. I need to have less of a victim mentality toward myself!
This video came at the right time! I suffer from anxiety, and lately i have been putting myself down so much and compairing myself to others. We are all unique and we all have a reason for being here. Thankyou so much for your inspiration and tips Kalyn, i feel so much better today and it's all thanks to you ☄💙
I'm currently going through a hard spot in my life right now and if it wasn't for Kalyn I'd probably lose my mind. Her videos help me so much I always work through my issues and I get my shit together. I love her videos, she's so motivational!
I will watch this video 1,000 times. I will drill it into my memory, I will watch this until I can quote you word for word; because this is mad important. Thank you for this.
All your videos lately about mental health, anxiety, motivation, etc are hitting me so hard at a really hard time and I don’t always necessarily act upon what your videos are about, but I always appreciate them and think about them for days. Thank you so much!! ❤️
Love the advice to stop being
the victim all the time. so true
something we have this dream that someone's going to come and save us from the dark side of ourselfs (at least I stack in this idea sometime) and help us figure out how we are.. We need to understand that if we are the ones who need to help ourselfs
You should be some kind of therapist or something... your motivation and positivity is incredible and your videos are so helpful to so many people. Thank you for this!
I have worked with young adult woman dealing with several types of challenges. You are a great motivator. Excellent job.