so true, we don’t get all the information but our brain will create a narrative and cause us to be negative. idk if they are in pain but we need to focus on ourselves. it’s there loss. god has something better so don’t block that blessing
This is getting so ridiculous and traumatized that i dream about my ex being with the new guy that is her "soulmate" and he wants to marry her. Im trying so hard to get this over it. But i can't get her out of my mind and now im dreaming about it.
Pain is part of the process. You will get through this and you will be able to connect all the points which are making no sense at all at the moment. After my monster break up i thought i‘ll gonna die because my body and mind said „fu*# you“ for almost 3 years. It‘s an up and down until you‘re finally over it completely. Reading and listening to podcasts and YT-Videos from serious coaches were my saviors. You‘re not alone, don‘t forget that . All the best.
my ex and I split up recently - we were doing the long distance thing for 5 months and had our fair share of issues. We broke up twice actually. The first time was super tough. We were going strong for 3 months, then out of nowhere, she ghosted me and blocked me. Brutal, right? I was crushed. I thought I found someone special, man. I even spent money on her, buying her gifts and filling up her fridge when she was hungry and her fam wasn't around. Apparently no one had ever done that for her before. But I picked myself up, started hitting the gym and chasing other goals. A month later, I missed her like crazy. I found her on another platform and told her I was coming to visit her, but she denied me and blocked me again. I fought tooth and nail but she was firm in her rejection. I cancelled the trip. Fast forward two months and she hit me up asking if I was still coming. I said no, but we ended up getting back together because I thought she could change. I was a bit disappointed in myself for that because I had lied about believing she could change. The first few weeks were great, lots of love and chemistry. But eventually, I started neglecting her feelings and she shut off emotionally. I kept making the same mistake, and she straight up told me "we're done" if I kept it up. She started getting colder and colder, and I kept bringing up past stuff she did to me. I feel like crap for how I acted. I shouldn't have taken her back when I wasn't over everything. But as a real man, I'm taking responsibility for my mistakes and trying to figure out how to move on from this. Towards the end of it all, I received a strange text from a girl in my local area I suppose? I asked her if it was a test and she didn't get it. She realized that my nickname for her in my phone had changed and was pissed. I was half asleep for all of this and eventually just told her I was tired and needed to sleep. When I woke up, she broke things off with me. She was super angry about it and blocked me on everything, even the Call of Duty app! A week later, I reached out to her apologizing and expressing my desire for a relationship, but she shut me down and blocked me again. She told me to never contact her and that she can't stay friends with exes. I can't help but think this is a pattern? Am I the one who always gets dumped, regardless of who's at fault? Maybe my standards are too high? I love this girl too much and it scares me. Plus, when we broke up the first time, it turns out she had another guy lined up who she stopped talking to because he was talking to other girls. Am I just a beta male or something? I'm lost, Coach. Should I try to move closer to her without her knowing? Or is that pretty creepy? I need your help, man. Is my value not high enough for her or am I just overthinking things? I think my long distance love story could be some great content for your channel, by the way. Jokes aside, I'm really struggling here. Is it normal to worry about being forgotten by someone who said I was a great boyfriend? Or was that just a heat-of-the-moment thing? Help me out, Coach. What is the psychology of my situation? Is it my trust issues or am I guilt tripping? I want to learn more about myself, I potentially want to not date ever again and focus on my career and other aspects I can achieve so I know I have purpose. My love life feels so empty and I’m lonely. I don’t know if she’s completely done with me but I feel like she is. She has zero incentive to get back with me, I’ve never even met her before.
Nick your vids really calm the mind of people who are dealing with the pain of it. I remember one day sitting in the park listening to the video and finding some kind of peace even if it was temporary. Btw your coaching link page doesn’t work just thought I’d let you know since I’ve had previously booked a chat with you like a month ago.
Dude I keep thinking about the breakup One thing I struggle with is letting go I try to leave that to past but the thoughts of my ex the dumper keeps bothering The thoughts keep telling me that the breakup is alll my fault. He was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend and people say that first love is hard to forget
I’m. 2nd what if ex did you wrong. How you practice no contact and you been in no contact 4 days and he’s called 9x, left 3 voicemails, 1 text, popped up at my house and sent edibles to my job saying please call me. However I’m using this to move on I can’t get over what he’s done to me. Friends calling tell me crazy sm post he posted. He broke up with me no reason, blocked me after a year and within a week of break up slept with 3 women and tried to come back that’s when I started no contact I was good to him
so true, we don’t get all the information but our brain will create a narrative and cause us to be negative. idk if they are in pain but we need to focus on ourselves. it’s there loss. god has something better so don’t block that blessing
Been in 3mo no contact honestly feel a little better but definitely not enough time. The relationship was 5.5yrs
This is getting so ridiculous and traumatized that i dream about my ex being with the new guy that is her "soulmate" and he wants to marry her. Im trying so hard to get this over it. But i can't get her out of my mind and now im dreaming about it.
Get over her correctly, not quickly.
Pain is part of the process. You will get through this and you will be able to connect all the points which are making no sense at all at the moment. After my monster break up i thought i‘ll gonna die because my body and mind said „fu*# you“ for almost 3 years. It‘s an up and down until you‘re finally over it completely. Reading and listening to podcasts and YT-Videos from serious coaches were my saviors. You‘re not alone, don‘t forget that . All the best.
I saw the same dream that he is holding a hand of a girl who is wearing white. I even saw the dress color😂😂
Just woke up from a dream about her. It’s 4:17 am uhgg
Sorry to hear that buddy.
my ex and I split up recently - we were doing the long distance thing for 5 months and had our fair share of issues. We broke up twice actually. The first time was super tough. We were going strong for 3 months, then out of nowhere, she ghosted me and blocked me. Brutal, right? I was crushed. I thought I found someone special, man. I even spent money on her, buying her gifts and filling up her fridge when she was hungry and her fam wasn't around. Apparently no one had ever done that for her before. But I picked myself up, started hitting the gym and chasing other goals. A month later, I missed her like crazy. I found her on another platform and told her I was coming to visit her, but she denied me and blocked me again. I fought tooth and nail but she was firm in her rejection. I cancelled the trip.
Fast forward two months and she hit me up asking if I was still coming. I said no, but we ended up getting back together because I thought she could change. I was a bit disappointed in myself for that because I had lied about believing she could change. The first few weeks were great, lots of love and chemistry. But eventually, I started neglecting her feelings and she shut off emotionally. I kept making the same mistake, and she straight up told me "we're done" if I kept it up. She started getting colder and colder, and I kept bringing up past stuff she did to me. I feel like crap for how I acted. I shouldn't have taken her back when I wasn't over everything. But as a real man, I'm taking responsibility for my mistakes and trying to figure out how to move on from this.
Towards the end of it all, I received a strange text from a girl in my local area I suppose? I asked her if it was a test and she didn't get it. She realized that my nickname for her in my phone had changed and was pissed. I was half asleep for all of this and eventually just told her I was tired and needed to sleep. When I woke up, she broke things off with me. She was super angry about it and blocked me on everything, even the Call of Duty app! A week later, I reached out to her apologizing and expressing my desire for a relationship, but she shut me down and blocked me again. She told me to never contact her and that she can't stay friends with exes.
I can't help but think this is a pattern? Am I the one who always gets dumped, regardless of who's at fault? Maybe my standards are too high? I love this girl too much and it scares me. Plus, when we broke up the first time, it turns out she had another guy lined up who she stopped talking to because he was talking to other girls. Am I just a beta male or something? I'm lost, Coach. Should I try to move closer to her without her knowing? Or is that pretty creepy? I need your help, man. Is my value not high enough for her or am I just overthinking things? I think my long distance love story could be some great content for your channel, by the way. Jokes aside, I'm really struggling here. Is it normal to worry about being forgotten by someone who said I was a great boyfriend? Or was that just a heat-of-the-moment thing? Help me out, Coach. What is the psychology of my situation? Is it my trust issues or am I guilt tripping? I want to learn more about myself, I potentially want to not date ever again and focus on my career and other aspects I can achieve so I know I have purpose. My love life feels so empty and I’m lonely. I don’t know if she’s completely done with me but I feel like she is. She has zero incentive to get back with me, I’ve never even met her before.
Nick your vids really calm the mind of people who are dealing with the pain of it. I remember one day sitting in the park listening to the video and finding some kind of peace even if it was temporary. Btw your coaching link page doesn’t work just thought I’d let you know since I’ve had previously booked a chat with you like a month ago.
Thanks Gaz, i am glad to hear you’re doing better. I have fixed the link on the more recent videos. Thanks for letting me know bud.
Looks like I’m the 1st view here lol 😉🥰
Keep it up bro 🤘
Appreciate it buddy.
Dude
I keep thinking about the breakup
One thing I struggle with is letting go
I try to leave that to past but the thoughts of my ex the dumper keeps bothering
The thoughts keep telling me that the breakup is alll my fault.
He was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend and people say that first love is hard to forget
First love is always challenging to deal with, but most breakups are just as challenging.
Thanks bruv 🤙
I’m. 2nd what if ex did you wrong. How you practice no contact and you been in no contact 4 days and he’s called 9x, left 3 voicemails, 1 text, popped up at my house and sent edibles to my job saying please call me. However I’m using this to move on I can’t get over what he’s done to me. Friends calling tell me crazy sm post he posted. He broke up with me no reason, blocked me after a year and within a week of break up slept with 3 women and tried to come back that’s when I started no contact I was good to him
Boundaries. Maintain your boundaries!