7 Unattractive Habits That Men HATE 1. unnecessary drama 2. excessive alcohol consumption 3. cigarette smoking 4. dishonesty 5. being tardy 6. not exercising and taking care of herself 7. excessive social media usage
I do like Courtney's content, but I can assure you that, in general terms, women are simply Pandora's box. After reading point 5, I can't help but recall a scenario in my life in which I legitimately had an argument with a girlfriend who started ranting at me because "I was punctual". We broke up a few weeks after that. Just saying...
1 being judgmental 2 being negative 3 spending money you don't have 4 neglecting yourself 5 drinking/smoking 6 hitting snooze button 7 being messy Your welcome
1. Being judgemental- Focus on yourself without tearing others down. Improve Yourself 2. Negativity- React with positivity and feel a lot better. Don't always be complaining 3. Big spending- Be financially responsible. Don't buy to showoff. Be financially stable 4. Neglecting Yourself- Take care of your health. Both mental and physical. 5. Drinking and Smoking- These are bad habits 6. Hitting Snooze button- Wake up early in the morning 7. Being messy- Take care of yourself and keep things tidy
I appreciate you mentioned therapy and caring for mental health in your video because lot of these bad habits can be associated with depression and other mental health illnesses. It’s important for people to get help because some of the underlying causes of these bad habits can really be serious and hard to fix.
Being positive is huge. My stepdad is the most optimistic person I know, and I admire him for that. I struggle with this sometimes, but getting better for sure :)!
Neglecting oneself is such an easy trap to fall into these days too. Or really any time you're feeling the effects of the big sad. But doing it too long just makes you feel worse over time. Still doing things to take care of yourself is statement that you know things will get better and that you're worth the effort among all the other benefits. Related: I wore a three piece suit I got in 2019 to run errands and grocery shop this past weekend. Some of it was checking the fit but most of it was boredom. It was entertaining to read people's reactions. Some people looked like they didn't see the point of dressing well anymore. Many more, younger women especially, seemed glad to see someone still willing to put the effort into dressing well. It also just felt good in an outfit that I knew looked good. And that's part of the reason I've been shopping for knitted polos, sport coats, and a leather jacket (and already ordered a Harrington jacket to complement my heavier jackets).
I irresistibly put off my sleep and poured another cup of coffee just not to miss on such an important video.Really it was worth the money .Stay blessed !
"They only did ______ because _______" is the mindset of a person who can't overcome a challenge. This is not the person you want in a relationship, because everything will be your fault and they won't be willing to work through the issues that every relationship eventually encounters.
Just about to take my lunch break, now I have something to do haha!! ❤️ Sometimes it’s hard to tell whether we’re stuck in bad habits, but being open to growth is key
@Eli z Awwww, out of all the comments to reply to, you picked mine. So sweet. Hope everything get's better for you in the future, you're obviously going through a rough time what with not being where you want to be and with no hope in sight. How you respond to others is a reflection of yourself, not them, so remember that going forward.
I think you totally nailed it Courney, and it's interesting how most of it is related to confidence. The older I get, the more I think that what we get as men is a reflection of what we really believe about ourselves on the inside.
To me...Smoking is #1,2 & 3!!! It is a nasty habit that is absolutely intolerable in my personal life, (My Car & House)!!! I have friends that Smoke, and that’s just fine!!! As far as messy/sloppy, I feel my Home is my biggest personal reflection of me, and I take immense pride in having my place clean, comfortable and presentable when I have friends over!!! When your a guest at my Home, you are my #1 concern and are treated like it’s your place too at that time!!! Just a strong personal reflection on myself after this Post!!! Your Posts tend to do that!!! Keep it up Young Lady!!!
Women also don't appear to like it when unattractive men take risks and don't take life too seriously. The unattractive man's maturity level is then questioned by the women. If a good looking guy takes risks and doesn't take life too seriously women appear to like that though.
I'm 33 year old and i say if you aren't attractive men then she will hate everything u do.I have gone through a lot and it hurts but it's true.A good looking person would rock any era clothing, being rude/mean/arrogant be called his attitude, talking loud would be called funny,awkwardness will be his silence.Most of the attractive girl will get any successful rich guy but for men she won't let u come an inch near you. Focus on yourself and don't marvel at person beauty before knowing their behaviour. Just be nice to all and only let animals, your hobbies, your peace of mind near you.
Thanks for the list. I'm only aware of one of the topics, smoking. I've tried time and again to quit, but it's so hard. I guess I can't be that bad. Some people I've known for years are shocked when they see me pull out a cigarette and light it. Other than that I think I have things under control. I try to encourage positivity and self esteem to others. When I see someone who is having a bad day I remind them someone else is having a worse day. I learned a lot about life from my Dad. He was bold, strong, and honest.
When we leave clothes on the floor or on a chair, etc., not in the basket it usually means it's not clean enough to put back in the closet and not dirty enough to wash. I do it and I've heard other guys do it too. Just so you know it could be that and not being purposely extra messy.
If you struggle with your alarms, if you can set it to a song have it set to something completely ridiculous. It will shock you and then you laugh and that gives you the sudden wake up boost you need so you get up. Works for me.
Thanks for the advice, especially the negativity one, I am no longer in that state& feel pretty optimistic now, but for nearly 2 decades that kind of mindset really put me in depression for almost my whole childhood until mid 20s. It is not just harmful to oneself, but also the people around his/her circle.
It's truly awesome how you point out and highlight so many details that us guys would usually overlook. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts, advice and insights. 😁
A simple solutiion for the snooze button that I used is putting a single cup coffee maker next to my bed and set it up before bed then move the alarm behind it. When the alarm goes off instead of sleepily hitting the snooze button I will hit the start button on the coffee maker and the smell of the coffee combined with the alarm still going off wakes me fully up so by the time I shut off the alarm I'm awake with a fresh cup of coffee redy to grab and drink to start the day.
Love this probably my favourite video on your channel the 2 point I struggle with knowing things will get better but you have make that change. Amazing
I had a girlfriend who was judgemental and negative all the time... it does grate on you for sure! The thought of spending your life with someone who’s like that several times a day, everyday, sucks.
Dunno how this channel got into my recommendations (never watched any dating advice videos or similar stuff) but now I've watched some videos here and the message between the lines feels like: only positive, successful, good looking and confident people get the partners they like and want, and if you aren't, don't put on masks/personas and eventually someone might pick you (usually someone from that types to avoid video).
Hi Courtney, excellent video as always! It is very interesting you hit number 7 about the messiness. I have learned and this is from my own prior experience as well some of my friends I confess that if a person is not able to clean up after themselves it also tells you a lot about their character that they are generally disorganized, chaotic, not a good planner, doesn't have logistics planned out properly....it is an interesting concept. I will never forget about reading this crazy article online... where a young couple were dating...the guy has already been to his girls house BUT the girl has never been to the guys house. The guy was very shy and reluctant to actually give her the reason. Instead of an ACTUAL bed, he slept in a pile of his own unlaundered clothes .... can you believe how UNcivilized that sounds....I may be a slightly autistic guy with a couple of social disabilities but I am smart enough never to be that UNCivilized....we are mature adults, men, women alike and we are accountable and responsible for our own well being....i will never never forget that disgusting article and the girlfriend eventually had to leave him cuz she had to throw up once she left his apartment. Heck if I were in that girls shoes, I'd be gagging like crazy that my boyfriend likes to live in "his own filth". I'd rather date a girl who is a CIVILIZED and PROPER human being instead of a uncivilized person as if she was living in the prehistoric/premordial/predarwinian era. It is the way I was brought up that I am or try to be a civilized guy myself to be accepted in normal society. I will never be able to UNsee that article.
@@CourtneyRyan thank you. I'm not saying this to gain brownie points. You and teddy are great people and I really like you guys for being so helpful and humble. I can't wait for both of your channels to grow to a million and more.
Thank you for your videos. Aside that I like the content, I really like the fact that women like these habits and properties. I used to have friends who were more like Alpha m and also had his stigmatic opinions. So long story short, I am glad that truth is somewhere else and woman are not as they were described to me.
Smoking/drinking - scientifically proven to be unhealthy; it's okay to say it's unattractive (even "disgusting") Being fat - scientifically proven to be unhealthy; it's not okay to say it's unattractive double standarts... Nevertheless, pretty good content!
I always love your videos Courtney. You sound very whole hearted; down toEarth and I think that your videos can and have really helped a lot of people. One thing that you brought up about being too judgmental and critical of others. That was always a huge problem in my family growing up. I think that I was the least judge mental of anyone in my family, my brother; parents, and grandparents were all worse. Especially the grandparents ( but I wasn’t around my grandparents much) I think that even I could have been less judgemental too. I think that when people judge someone else they are often insecure in their own lives like you said or they have never experienced the kind of life these other people have experienced so it seems weird or different to them thus acting like those other people are weird. With guys who constantly bash women sexual nature thus “slut shaming”them for example a lot of that is jeliously or insecurity on the guys part because the female has a better sex life then them and they think they should be sexually superior or better off just because their a guy. I find more times then not most guys that that are like this don’t have good sex lives of their own either. Now that’s not to say that some women aren’t slutty or sexually abusive that should be viewed that way sure, they are all over the place, but I’m talking talking about guys that negatively judge women over every little thing whether they are truly slutty or not, or have very negative sexists views about women in general.
I used to bash one of my ex girlfriends with another girl I dated when I was like 23 and trust me that was a turn off for a woman and I learned now that I'm older, so guys don't do it.
I would exclude drinking/smoking from this list. Not because it isn't unattractive, but because the addiction properties of these substances and how they tie into relationships is a topic within itself. Also, a s-ton of women partake in these habits as well. Hence why it deserves a discussion all on its own. Also mental and physical well-being play hand n hand. If someone is fit mentally, they also will be fit physically and vice versa. This is an absolute, and I challenge anyone to go out there and find where this is not the case. The opposite also holds true: unfit mentally; unfit physically.
Great video as always Courtney! Watching as I have a stack of dirty dishes in the sink that should’ve been cleaned up a couple days ago ha ha ha ha. And yes I am washing them now. You rock girl!
sorry courtney i got mad at you one time. i have manic bipolar and schizophrenia and sometimes i forget to take my meds. 1. judgemental--- hmm i have been very judgemental most of my life but i question whether i should continue being so judgemental. if i was not judgemental, i'd be less of an artist because artists are known for criticizing there work as well as other artists work. being harsh with criticizing and judging i believe makes you a keen observer and it allows you to know what path to take to become more of the person you want to become. i believe this applies to being judgemental towards people too. if there is something that someone is doing that is not right and you do not judge, criticize or correct them, it's as if you accept that person and you probably are like that person. let's say there is a child molestor on trial in a court case on tv, and you do not say anything bad about the child molestor, it's as if you sympathize with the criminal and maybe you yourself are like that or you accept him. but showing great disgust and hatred for that criminal shows where you stand as an individual. according to the meyer's briggs personality test i am an INFJ which is 1% of the population. i took that test in college and some people are hard wired to be that way - judgemental. we are self righteous and we judge what we percieve to be bad in this world. for example, i do not like pornstars maybe just the way the females look but in reality it is trash for society because only select few can have such a glorious sex life while others starve for attention and love, pornstars are greedy and pervert a generation and program a generation to desire high expectations in what their partner should look like. you yourself are judging men that are judgemental it's kind of hypocritical. me tearing down and diminishing pornstars is no different than what they do to society. they too tear down all the people that dont look like them, flaunt their vanity on camera, some make good money doing that while others have to work hard at a 9 to 5 and they get all the worship. if i dont tear them down they automatically win and tear down all the others that work their asses off. that which is exalted and does not deserve to be exalted must be teared down or the world continues in the same direction only getting worse for the oppressed and better for selfish greedy pompous people. if i only focused on myself, and the world of the trendy continues to grow and i do not judge nor criticize, the world around me will continue to multiply and be pitted against me. it's like a fungus, if i do not clean, it will continue to grow until it invades my own space. just think about it i cannot be myself because i have to bow down to dating coaches way of thinking in order for me to attain a girlfriend. it's not like me being myself is going to attract a girlfriend especially if a lot of my own views are pitted against the majority. and well lets face it, i am usually attracted to sexy looking females such as yourself but you think a certain way that does not coincide with the way i am so if all the sexy beautiful attractive girls are like you or think like you then that means that the enemies of the world , the fungus has already invaded my space so it's up to me to suck it up and change into fungus as well or be myself and not be a puppet to those who want to control me and be like them. i am who am. why must i change?
The only negative aspect of my life is my love life. Everything else is good. Literally everything else. I cannot let that one negative aspect deplete my sense of accomplishment everywhere else.
Thanks for the great self improvement tips. The advice that I need to work on is to be financially responsible. Don't get into too much debt, Save and invest wisely.
I appreciate your efforts with these vids, but I truly believe (and this is based on anecdotal experience) that these values are just your own and don't apply to the general population of women.
Another great video!! I know it depends on what type and where tattoos are placed but are tattoos(as long as it’s not offensive or too much ie head to toe) good in your opinion? Thanks again for another great post!!
lets talk about 7 unattractive habits women have and men hate!? 1. Borderline mentality dissorder 2. High cock account 3. narcist personality 4. excessive alcohol and smoking 5. lazy, not exercising, being fat 6. excessive social media attention 7. dishonesty
Snoozing is also bad for your mental health since you are continuously interrupting a sleep cycle, where a full sleep cycle is an hour and a half, so if you can sleep 6 hours, 7.5 hours, that will do you far better than these supposed 8 hour norm where you don't feel refreshed and continuously hit the snooze button thinking more sleep will do you better
oh thank you courtney about the night shift, i work in heathrow airport during the night, but i will sleep during the day but only 5 to 6 hours and i run, i cook, i play the guitar so i do things during the day
The great thing about this video, is these habits 100% applies to both "unattractive habits women hate" and "unattractive habits men hate" especially when someone just sits around on social media all day
I really agree about taking care of yourself thing, and especially your mental health but what made me smash the like button was when she said "brush your teeth and take a shower" lol that made me say "dang I love Courtney!" 😆
It's all kissy kissy I love you but once living together true self blossoms. You get too comfortable living together so no need to put up a "front"/first impression. Habits mundane rituals. Her peeing while you are in the shower.
7 Unattractive Habits That Men HATE
1. unnecessary drama
2. excessive alcohol consumption
3. cigarette smoking
4. dishonesty
5. being tardy
6. not exercising and taking care of herself
7. excessive social media usage
Completely valid!
Facts dude. lol
thanks dude
I do like Courtney's content, but I can assure you that, in general terms, women are simply Pandora's box.
After reading point 5, I can't help but recall a scenario in my life in which I legitimately had an argument with a girlfriend who started ranting at me because "I was punctual".
We broke up a few weeks after that.
Just saying...
Completely agree with the excessive social media usage , COMPLETE turn off
1 being judgmental
2 being negative
3 spending money you don't have
4 neglecting yourself
5 drinking/smoking
6 hitting snooze button
7 being messy
Your welcome
You are a hero we dont deserve
RYO Concidered bad habits
Thank you sir
Courtney is like that genuine big sister that helps out her Bros.
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For real
Alabamian sister
bro go more outside, lift some weights and do less simping
Thanks big sister great advice
1. Being judgemental- Focus on yourself without tearing others down. Improve Yourself
2. Negativity- React with positivity and feel a lot better. Don't always be complaining
3. Big spending- Be financially responsible. Don't buy to showoff. Be financially stable
4. Neglecting Yourself- Take care of your health. Both mental and physical.
5. Drinking and Smoking- These are bad habits
6. Hitting Snooze button- Wake up early in the morning
7. Being messy- Take care of yourself and keep things tidy
Courtney's should be the new voice of Alexa. She could read the ingredients list on anything and I would find it fascinating.
😂👏🏼 I’m flattered
smooth 😂
it is true her voice is soothing
I find her voice very nasal and annoying. There is one way to take care of this problem
Haha I so totally agree she has a great voice and fun. I enjoy listening to her
She American , if it was hot kiwi or Aussie talking you would think they sound like a bogan ... My friend was a model and she think she's a bogan
I appreciate you mentioned therapy and caring for mental health in your video because lot of these bad habits can be associated with depression and other mental health illnesses. It’s important for people to get help because some of the underlying causes of these bad habits can really be serious and hard to fix.
seriously this Courtney girl is the most pleasant and well put together youtuber 💯🤙
Being positive is huge. My stepdad is the most optimistic person I know, and I admire him for that. I struggle with this sometimes, but getting better for sure :)!
Awww that’s great you have him as a role model 🥰 we all struggle with this sometimes, even me! Constant growth is key 👏🏼
Waking up early is great, especially in the summer time when hearing the outdoors waking up as well.
Neglecting oneself is such an easy trap to fall into these days too. Or really any time you're feeling the effects of the big sad. But doing it too long just makes you feel worse over time. Still doing things to take care of yourself is statement that you know things will get better and that you're worth the effort among all the other benefits.
Related: I wore a three piece suit I got in 2019 to run errands and grocery shop this past weekend. Some of it was checking the fit but most of it was boredom. It was entertaining to read people's reactions. Some people looked like they didn't see the point of dressing well anymore. Many more, younger women especially, seemed glad to see someone still willing to put the effort into dressing well. It also just felt good in an outfit that I knew looked good.
And that's part of the reason I've been shopping for knitted polos, sport coats, and a leather jacket (and already ordered a Harrington jacket to complement my heavier jackets).
Courtney you are like a big sister we never had. Thank you for helping us all
I turned off my radio just to listen to your smooth voice Courtney 😍
Ahh you’re the best 👏🏼
@@CourtneyRyan No, you're the best 😉
Yes, Courtney has a great feminine voice that just causes guys to pay attention to every word she says! Great tips BTW
@@shynessbreakthroughcommuni826 100%!
Big sister's voice feels like the voice of angels, feels like angels are singing from heaven to help me out.
dont u get bored talking like this
simp
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Grow a pair!!
dudes out here ready to pay a monthly sub to her. Bro shes got a bf, calm down and stop it.
I irresistibly put off my sleep and poured another cup of coffee just not to miss on such an important video.Really it was worth the money .Stay blessed !
"They only did ______ because _______" is the mindset of a person who can't overcome a challenge. This is not the person you want in a relationship, because everything will be your fault and they won't be willing to work through the issues that every relationship eventually encounters.
Just about to take my lunch break, now I have something to do haha!! ❤️ Sometimes it’s hard to tell whether we’re stuck in bad habits, but being open to growth is key
Yay, enjoy! That is very true 👏🏼 everyone has room to grow
@@CourtneyRyan Thank you so much! For sure 👏🏻 it’s vital to not become complacent
When she looks off to the side while she's explaining things, it's the most adorable thing ever, and I ain't simping, just speaking the truth.
@Eli z Awwww, out of all the comments to reply to, you picked mine. So sweet. Hope everything get's better for you in the future, you're obviously going through a rough time what with not being where you want to be and with no hope in sight. How you respond to others is a reflection of yourself, not them, so remember that going forward.
I think you totally nailed it Courney, and it's interesting how most of it is related to confidence. The older I get, the more I think that what we get as men is a reflection of what we really believe about ourselves on the inside.
What you said is true. Men who have bad habits like smoking, drinking too much, not exercising, and/or overweight usually lack confidence.
Negative mindset is the biggest problem anyone can have, you will never get ahead, good video, thanks for posting!
To me...Smoking is #1,2 & 3!!! It is a nasty habit that is absolutely intolerable in my personal life, (My Car & House)!!! I have friends that Smoke, and that’s just fine!!! As far as messy/sloppy, I feel my Home is my biggest personal reflection of me, and I take immense pride in having my place clean, comfortable and presentable when I have friends over!!! When your a guest at my Home, you are my #1 concern and are treated like it’s your place too at that time!!! Just a strong personal reflection on myself after this Post!!! Your Posts tend to do that!!! Keep it up Young Lady!!!
Women also don't appear to like it when unattractive men take risks and don't take life too seriously. The unattractive man's maturity level is then questioned by the women. If a good looking guy takes risks and doesn't take life too seriously women appear to like that though.
I'm 33 year old and i say if you aren't attractive men then she will hate everything u do.I have gone through a lot and it hurts but it's true.A good looking person would rock any era clothing, being rude/mean/arrogant be called his attitude, talking loud would be called funny,awkwardness will be his silence.Most of the attractive girl will get any successful rich guy but for men she won't let u come an inch near you. Focus on yourself and don't marvel at person beauty before knowing their behaviour. Just be nice to all and only let animals, your hobbies, your peace of mind near you.
Courtney ryan your advice sounds legitimate, with no hatred for men and women. You are the like the big sis we never had. Love from India❤️
Courtney Ryan you have helped turn my life around, I just want to say thank you 😘
You can always spot a personal peeve of Courtney's when she enunciates her "and please, guys..." before she gives an example of something. 😂
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The 8 eighth untractive habit is to not watch Courtney Ryan videos 😊
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The quality of “down to earth”.
She speaks soo gently 😍😍
Thanks for the list. I'm only aware of one of the topics, smoking. I've tried time and again to quit, but it's so hard. I guess I can't be that bad. Some people I've known for years are shocked when they see me pull out a cigarette and light it. Other than that I think I have things under control. I try to encourage positivity and self esteem to others. When I see someone who is having a bad day I remind them someone else is having a worse day. I learned a lot about life from my Dad. He was bold, strong, and honest.
When we leave clothes on the floor or on a chair, etc., not in the basket it usually means it's not clean enough to put back in the closet and not dirty enough to wash. I do it and I've heard other guys do it too. Just so you know it could be that and not being purposely extra messy.
Yup. I do this with gym shorts or joggers that aren't "dirty" or will just be worn around the house. I do keep them neatly folded but not put away lol
As Elvis once said, “Don’t be cruel”. Great vid Court👏🏽
Lindsay Lohan came to mind when you talked about addiction. Man she was great acting wise in freaky friday and mean girls.
Courtney can talk to me and she has my attention, her voice is so soothing
If you struggle with your alarms, if you can set it to a song have it set to something completely ridiculous. It will shock you and then you laugh and that gives you the sudden wake up boost you need so you get up.
Works for me.
Thanks for the advice, especially the negativity one, I am no longer in that state& feel pretty optimistic now, but for nearly 2 decades that kind of mindset really put me in depression for almost my whole childhood until mid 20s. It is not just harmful to oneself, but also the people around his/her circle.
It's truly awesome how you point out and highlight so many details that us guys would usually overlook.
Thank you again for sharing your thoughts, advice and insights. 😁
Awesome .. Ryan always speaks the truth and fact .. no matter how hard it is ...
A simple solutiion for the snooze button that I used is putting a single cup coffee maker next to my bed and set it up before bed then move the alarm behind it. When the alarm goes off instead of sleepily hitting the snooze button I will hit the start button on the coffee maker and the smell of the coffee combined with the alarm still going off wakes me fully up so by the time I shut off the alarm I'm awake with a fresh cup of coffee redy to grab and drink to start the day.
Courtney should be a motivational speaker. I wish 13-year-old me new these things. I’m glad 25-year-old me does. Courtney, you are the best.
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Courtney is like the kind big sis I never had 🙂, thanks for another great video!
I like your voice Courtney. Is so calm and relaxing
I know your a well disciplined, well mannered and respectful woman, also a good friend🇵🇭
Wow!!! Women like you don't grow on a tree, what a pity. Blessed be the one who walks by your side Courtney 💛
Love this probably my favourite video on your channel the 2 point I struggle with knowing things will get better but you have make that change. Amazing
Great non judgmental content, a lot of 'helping people help themselves' starts with understanding. Keep it up!
I had a girlfriend who was judgemental and negative all the time... it does grate on you for sure! The thought of spending your life with someone who’s like that several times a day, everyday, sucks.
Courtney, you are pleasant to listen to and you have a lot of helpful advice.
Dunno how this channel got into my recommendations (never watched any dating advice videos or similar stuff) but now I've watched some videos here and the message between the lines feels like: only positive, successful, good looking and confident people get the partners they like and want, and if you aren't, don't put on masks/personas and eventually someone might pick you (usually someone from that types to avoid video).
This channel is getting better and better everyday
Thank you! ❤️🥰
Hi Courtney, excellent video as always! It is very interesting you hit number 7 about the messiness. I have learned and this is from my own prior experience as well some of my friends I confess that if a person is not able to clean up after themselves it also tells you a lot about their character that they are generally disorganized, chaotic, not a good planner, doesn't have logistics planned out properly....it is an interesting concept.
I will never forget about reading this crazy article online... where a young couple were dating...the guy has already been to his girls house BUT the girl has never been to the guys house. The guy was very shy and reluctant to actually give her the reason. Instead of an ACTUAL bed, he slept in a pile of his own unlaundered clothes .... can you believe how UNcivilized that sounds....I may be a slightly autistic guy with a couple of social disabilities but I am smart enough never to be that UNCivilized....we are mature adults, men, women alike and we are accountable and responsible for our own well being....i will never never forget that disgusting article and the girlfriend eventually had to leave him cuz she had to throw up once she left his apartment. Heck if I were in that girls shoes, I'd be gagging like crazy that my boyfriend likes to live in "his own filth". I'd rather date a girl who is a CIVILIZED and PROPER human being instead of a uncivilized person as if she was living in the prehistoric/premordial/predarwinian era. It is the way I was brought up that I am or try to be a civilized guy myself to be accepted in normal society. I will never be able to UNsee that article.
When she says hi everyone it feels like you are in heaven...😍😍
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Simp!
@@isaacborunda2465 giving compliments to someone is not simp! Dude
What a big simp
@@Akashsingh-fk1bg : SPEAKZ'👊💥🏀👑👔🌹💃👠!!!!
You gotta love Courtney ryan. She's so humble I love her.
🥺🥺 you’re awesome!!
@@CourtneyRyan thank you. I'm not saying this to gain brownie points. You and teddy are great people and I really like you guys for being so helpful and humble. I can't wait for both of your channels to grow to a million and more.
I am angry all the time becouse I am sick of being positive without gaining from it 😂😂😂
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Hey Courtney,
Just listening to your voice at the end of the day takes away all my blues :)
So mindful of you to share this
I am 38, happily married and have 2 kids. But I still watch your videos to impress my wife or make sure that I am not doing something wrong.
Yup, just because you are already in a relationship or married doesn't mean you can ever let things slide, Guys.
Jesus, that sounds stressful having to impress your wife all the time and walking on eggshells.
Thank you for your videos. Aside that I like the content, I really like the fact that women like these habits and properties. I used to have friends who were more like Alpha m and also had his stigmatic opinions. So long story short, I am glad that truth is somewhere else and woman are not as they were described to me.
Everyone needs a Courtney in life
Great video the only time I ever hit the snooze button 10 times a day was back in school literally use to yawn 🥱 away in class
The first one hit me right between the eyes. I must change that. Thank you.
You have the most calm, elegant voice!
Smoking/drinking - scientifically proven to be unhealthy; it's okay to say it's unattractive (even "disgusting")
Being fat - scientifically proven to be unhealthy; it's not okay to say it's unattractive
double standarts...
Nevertheless, pretty good content!
I strongly agree. I don’t think promoting being unhealthy is okay, ever!
Self sabotage is one I can't stand! Especially when they don't realize it!
Ugh that is the worst! I think #1 and #2 definitely play a big role in self sabotaging lol
@@CourtneyRyan yes
This inspired me to clean around the house a little :)
I have been watching other videos with other couches and you are the best by far! I mean that!
I always love your videos Courtney. You sound very whole hearted; down toEarth and I think that your videos can and have really helped a lot of people. One thing that you brought up about being too judgmental and critical of others. That was always a huge problem in my family growing up. I think that I was the least judge mental of anyone in my family, my brother; parents, and grandparents were all worse. Especially the grandparents ( but I wasn’t around my grandparents much) I think that even I could have been less judgemental too. I think that when people judge someone else they are often insecure in their own lives like you said or they have never experienced the kind of life these other people have experienced so it seems weird or different to them thus acting like those other people are weird. With guys who constantly bash women sexual nature thus “slut shaming”them for example a lot of that is jeliously or insecurity on the guys part because the female has a better sex life then them and they think they should be sexually superior or better off just because their a guy. I find more times then not most guys that that are like this don’t have good sex lives of their own either. Now that’s not to say that some women aren’t slutty or sexually abusive that should be viewed that way sure, they are all over the place, but I’m talking talking about guys that negatively judge women over every little thing whether they are truly slutty or not, or have very negative sexists views about women in general.
I used to bash one of my ex girlfriends with another girl I dated when I was like 23 and trust me that was a turn off for a woman and I learned now that I'm older, so guys don't do it.
For sure! We all have said something bad about someone at one point. Just have to learn and grow from it 🥰❤️
@@CourtneyRyan I'm 44 now so, yes I learned a lot on how to be respectful and be good human being to others.
On #3 my stance has always been "if you can't afford to buy 2 of something, then you probably shouldn't buy one of it"
The sweetest voice on TH-cam!
Tldw: Take care of yourself and do things that build your confidence.
My requirements on women: 1) Don't be obese 2) Don't be a single mother. Literally that's it.
gets tougher as you get older chief
I would exclude drinking/smoking from this list. Not because it isn't unattractive, but because the addiction properties of these substances and how they tie into relationships is a topic within itself. Also, a s-ton of women partake in these habits as well. Hence why it deserves a discussion all on its own.
Also mental and physical well-being play hand n hand. If someone is fit mentally, they also will be fit physically and vice versa. This is an absolute, and I challenge anyone to go out there and find where this is not the case. The opposite also holds true: unfit mentally; unfit physically.
Great video as always Courtney! Watching as I have a stack of dirty dishes in the sink that should’ve been cleaned up a couple days ago ha ha ha ha. And yes I am washing them now. You rock girl!
sorry courtney i got mad at you one time. i have manic bipolar and schizophrenia and sometimes i forget to take my meds.
1. judgemental--- hmm i have been very judgemental most of my life but i question whether i should continue being so judgemental. if i was not judgemental, i'd be less of an artist because artists are known for criticizing there work as well as other artists work. being harsh with criticizing and judging i believe makes you a keen observer and it allows you to know what path to take to become more of the person you want to become. i believe this applies to being judgemental towards people too. if there is something that someone is doing that is not right and you do not judge, criticize or correct them, it's as if you accept that person and you probably are like that person. let's say there is a child molestor on trial in a court case on tv, and you do not say anything bad about the child molestor, it's as if you sympathize with the criminal and maybe you yourself are like that or you accept him. but showing great disgust and hatred for that criminal shows where you stand as an individual. according to the meyer's briggs personality test i am an INFJ which is 1% of the population. i took that test in college and some people are hard wired to be that way - judgemental. we are self righteous and we judge what we percieve to be bad in this world. for example, i do not like pornstars maybe just the way the females look but in reality it is trash for society because only select few can have such a glorious sex life while others starve for attention and love, pornstars are greedy and pervert a generation and program a generation to desire high expectations in what their partner should look like. you yourself are judging men that are judgemental it's kind of hypocritical. me tearing down and diminishing pornstars is no different than what they do to society. they too tear down all the people that dont look like them, flaunt their vanity on camera, some make good money doing that while others have to work hard at a 9 to 5 and they get all the worship. if i dont tear them down they automatically win and tear down all the others that work their asses off. that which is exalted and does not deserve to be exalted must be teared down or the world continues in the same direction only getting worse for the oppressed and better for selfish greedy pompous people. if i only focused on myself, and the world of the trendy continues to grow and i do not judge nor criticize, the world around me will continue to multiply and be pitted against me. it's like a fungus, if i do not clean, it will continue to grow until it invades my own space. just think about it i cannot be myself because i have to bow down to dating coaches way of thinking in order for me to attain a girlfriend. it's not like me being myself is going to attract a girlfriend especially if a lot of my own views are pitted against the majority. and well lets face it, i am usually attracted to sexy looking females such as yourself but you think a certain way that does not coincide with the way i am so if all the sexy beautiful attractive girls are like you or think like you then that means that the enemies of the world , the fungus has already invaded my space so it's up to me to suck it up and change into fungus as well or be myself and not be a puppet to those who want to control me and be like them. i am who am. why must i change?
9:40 - "It's normally not me who makes the mess." Somewhere off camera, Teddy is wincing with emotional pain. :-)
😂😂 I had to
Thank you for the advice, always a pleasure.
The only negative aspect of my life is my love life. Everything else is good. Literally everything else. I cannot let that one negative aspect deplete my sense of accomplishment everywhere else.
Same here brother
Courtney is the Love Child of Seri & Alexa!!! Perfection overload 😏💯♥️
great content, Courtney! subscribed
Thanks for the great self improvement tips. The advice that I need to work on is to be financially responsible. Don't get into too much debt, Save and invest wisely.
You’ll thank yourself later! 🥰👏🏼
@@CourtneyRyan Absolutely. I started stock market investing just 6 months back...thanks to the pandemic lol. Better late than never right.
I appreciate your efforts with these vids, but I truly believe (and this is based on anecdotal experience) that these values are just your own and don't apply to the general population of women.
98% of all women demand these things she lists.
Another great video!! I know it depends on what type and where tattoos are placed but are tattoos(as long as it’s not offensive or too much ie head to toe) good in your opinion? Thanks again for another great post!!
I think some guys really pull off the tattoo look! It’s not my favorite but I’ve definitely seen guys look incredible with them 👏🏼
lets talk about 7 unattractive habits women have and men hate!?
1. Borderline mentality dissorder
2. High cock account
3. narcist personality
4. excessive alcohol and smoking
5. lazy, not exercising, being fat
6. excessive social media attention
7. dishonesty
I’m a recent subscriber. These videos are super helpful and you have a very soothing voice. Baldassarre is a lucky guy.😁
Thank you ❤️
Hello Courtney😊
I recently started watching your videos. Your content is really helpful.
Keep it up!
Great advice, but I want to tell you what is unattractive to me, if people say OMG, it is disrespectful in my opinion.
Snoozing is also bad for your mental health since you are continuously interrupting a sleep cycle, where a full sleep cycle is an hour and a half, so if you can sleep 6 hours, 7.5 hours, that will do you far better than these supposed 8 hour norm where you don't feel refreshed and continuously hit the snooze button thinking more sleep will do you better
Hey Courtney, great points you made! Just on the note of drinking/smoking, does it worry women if a guy has never drunk alcohol or smoked?
Every single one of these 7 habits, is my ex, kids mother. Loving your videos but they all go both ways for men and women.
oh thank you courtney about the night shift, i work in heathrow airport during the night, but i will sleep during the day but only 5 to 6 hours and i run, i cook, i play the guitar so i do things during the day
Totally fine! Look at you making the most of your time! That’s awesome 🥰👏🏼
@@CourtneyRyan keep up your videos, because you help me a lot and other men, you are a good therapist
The great thing about this video, is these habits 100% applies to both "unattractive habits women hate" and "unattractive habits men hate" especially when someone just sits around on social media all day
100%!!
Great video! Thank you courtney!! 😊😃
Great piece gal!
Courtney Be Spitting Facts,
I really agree about taking care of yourself thing, and especially your mental health but what made me smash the like button was when she said "brush your teeth and take a shower" lol
that made me say "dang I love Courtney!" 😆
It's all kissy kissy I love you but once living together true self blossoms. You get too comfortable living together so no need to put up a "front"/first impression. Habits mundane rituals. Her peeing while you are in the shower.
Thanks I'm guilty of a few.
This goes with every individual ! True facts
Love the Dave Ramsey shout out
Smoking and drinking...I'll tell Keith Richards you said that!
I Love Your Channel & Your Personality Courtney Keep On Being You 🤍.