How To Set Goals And Achieve Them: A Powerful Technique That Actually Works | Jamila Musayeva

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  • @JamilaMusayeva
    @JamilaMusayeva  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @coffeesunset1965
    @coffeesunset1965 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    "Consistency is always more important than intensity." 👌🏼

  • @yavannakementari521
    @yavannakementari521 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    *Key points:*
    -write down 10 goals every morning; challenge yourself to do this for 1 month
    - do this with paper and ink
    -focus on yourself, write with I and using present tense
    - give yourself a timeline to complete the goals in
    -keep the goal realistic and achievable, yet challenging
    -prioritize which goals are most important
    -write out a list of actions needed to achieve that goal
    -take out actions immediately
    -do little actions every day rather than waiting for one day to do a lot of actions
    -consistency>intensity
    -focus on what you wanted initially; don’t focus on what others are doing, focus on what you want and what you are good at
    -identify what is hindering you from achieving the life you’ve always wanted to live

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thanks for the summary

    • @tiffanyfoster5771
      @tiffanyfoster5771 ปีที่แล้ว

      When should we start prioritise our goals? After 31 days. At something, I realised jamila said we have to continue this writing down until become a habit like brushing. So , my question is, we start prioritising goals while writing our next month goals?

  • @cupcake86eg
    @cupcake86eg ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I watched this video yesterday and as a stationary lover, had a mental note to but a spiral notebook. An hour later my brother came to visit and out of no where asked me if I wanted a notebook! I asked him is it spiral and he says yes and hands me the most gorgeous spiral notebook/planner I have ever seen. This must be a sign to follow my dreams. Love you Jamilah.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว

      I am happy to hear that! Start making a wishlist now ☺️

  • @GiselleChavez.94
    @GiselleChavez.94 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This video was like a sign when i saw it, because im trying to achieve lots of wishes, but somehow i didnt know how to start. So this video have a very strong impact, in notice that once you want something, it starting to be present in diferents ways. Thank you Jamila for this ✨

  • @TheEmaile
    @TheEmaile ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Jamila: The Frequency Illusion and our cognitive biases are responsible for how our brain focuses attention on certain things in our environment. Doing this 30 day challenge is a good idea so thank you for featuring it. It sets us up to invest in what we really want. I often write goals, but don’t actually know what’s most important to me on a daily basis and therefore just stick with the old goals that I set because I once found them important.

  • @vidishadevi2090
    @vidishadevi2090 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    12:00- summary
    13:40- action

  • @marpad0
    @marpad0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you very much Jamila, I've lost the focus on setting goals and working on them, and this video helped me remember how to do it 🙌🏻

  • @YaraAhmedT
    @YaraAhmedT ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is life changing information. Thank you Jamila for sharing!! ❤

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jamila you and your videos are so so so inspiring for me and your videos are too too helpful to me in my life💓💫☺️

  • @chanikarn751
    @chanikarn751 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Noticed you wear a lovely bracelet made by your child and that melts my heart 💗

  • @n.d8001
    @n.d8001 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    With gratitude and appreciation for sharing tips and strategy to help us fighting proscratination

  • @sawdatasmin
    @sawdatasmin ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you, form Bangladesh ❤❤❤

  • @sonaxanmcfrova8330
    @sonaxanmcfrova8330 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Jamila watching and listening you makes me so happy thank you God bless you and your family 👸🙏💯🧿🥰

  • @antoinette4729
    @antoinette4729 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kudos for another remarkable video! The minimal background allows us the focus on your speech and body language. You are 100% correct that writing, especially with a nice ink pen, on spiral notebook pages, is a great way to keep the concepts congealed in one's mind. Using handwriting uses many senses. The more senses we use, the more we can retain what we try to learn or remember. Goals are important and must be realistic as you say. I am retired over 15 years now but I set goals and use spiral notebooks daily in studying the Thai language, taking notes for what I learn in news, my hobbies and interests, etc. Thank you again!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words 🤍

  • @5TibetanRitesMerisWay
    @5TibetanRitesMerisWay ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jamila thank you so much for this and every other video you make, you are such an inspirational person, love all your content☺

  • @Carmen0777
    @Carmen0777 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing this helpful video Jamila, I enjoyed and loved listening to Mr. Brian Tracy too ❤

  • @SharonMoist
    @SharonMoist ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love Brian Tracy!!!

  • @gordanaplackoska1961
    @gordanaplackoska1961 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent video. Thank you for making it.

  • @allynmarin
    @allynmarin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! I came to your channel because your videos always inspired me to do better! I'm starting this today! ❤

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw thank you! I am happy to hear that!

  • @vanvan-rj4bq
    @vanvan-rj4bq 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No words are enough how much I thank you Coach Jamila. I learned a lot from you

  • @imadina31
    @imadina31 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always so inspiring and helpful 💙

  • @usernamedunno7784
    @usernamedunno7784 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a brilliant video Jamila! I bought the book "Everything is Figureoutable" from on of your book reviews and it talks about how your 42% more likely to achieve your goals writing them physically down. Also many people suggest believing you have attained what you want- and it is crazy to say this but it works. Thanks for your brilliant uploads- hope you do another book review soon 💕

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing this! ☺️

  • @swapnilpawar1495
    @swapnilpawar1495 ปีที่แล้ว

    So Beautifully Explained Jamila

  • @Rishita_Naik
    @Rishita_Naik ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for posting such helpful videos🥰

  • @ChinnyIvy
    @ChinnyIvy ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love how you talk. Thank you for this great insight

  • @normai.m.330
    @normai.m.330 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Jamila, I really needed this video. Thank you so much. I played it twice, then realized I had two brand new spiral notebooks just sitting in my printer cabinet! Pulled them out and went to bed, because it was 2:00 A.M. and I didn't want to wake up my mom, but was very eager to start in the morning. Wonderful advice.
    I remain,
    Sincerely
    Norma Iris Montalvo

  • @the7seer
    @the7seer ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Excellent video on goal achievement with new distinctions that are extremely valuable. Combining this methodology with Jamila’s 10 tips for time management takes this to a whole new level. Thank you so much!🙏🙏

  • @stefaniasica954
    @stefaniasica954 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s fantastic: thanks for sharing a so interesting technique!🌺

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re welcome 😊

  • @TriviRocks
    @TriviRocks ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jamila! This video came just in time for me :D

  • @sami2612
    @sami2612 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the video

  • @scrap_donetsk
    @scrap_donetsk ปีที่แล้ว +3

    so pretty, so beautiful Jamila😍 thanks for visual inspiration🌿

  • @helenahu
    @helenahu ปีที่แล้ว

    Fabulous video - thank you very much

  • @beautymixtress
    @beautymixtress ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this! Will put this into practice.

  • @tiffanyfoster5771
    @tiffanyfoster5771 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really good content. Thank you. I am really grateful for this. ❤

  • @frixz5489
    @frixz5489 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Ms. Jamila, for this inspirational video.

  • @1821femina
    @1821femina ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian Tracy is one of my favorite self-development authors. Thank you for this video. You made it crystal clear on the steps I need to take to think deeply about what I want at this stage of my life and the steps I need to take to achieve my goals.

  • @irhasiraj8397
    @irhasiraj8397 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello jamila!I think it would be great if you post a car etiquette video,your videos are the most helpful for me.

  • @deebeemehmood
    @deebeemehmood ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hello your videos are unique. kindly make videos from turning rural to modern. and on hair care and styling etiquettes

  • @laibaizhar-g4e
    @laibaizhar-g4e 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you are like a big sister or a very sincere friend

  • @Wandertheworldwithme
    @Wandertheworldwithme ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re so awesome and poised Jamila ❤

  • @jesicarosaline
    @jesicarosaline ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hi Jamila, thank you for the video. Appreciate it so much! I am curious on:
    1. When do you think it is best to make a priority list after several days of writing down the ten daily goals? Because the goals can change daily.
    2. And how many daily priorities that you focus on? I believe too many daily focuses are too unrealistic, and we can lose our focus.
    3. Do you have any advice on allocating the time for each task without under/overestimating the time required?
    Thanks a lot Jamila!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you. 1. Best to do it immediately
      2. You first prioritize your goals then actions 3. For doing the task or making a list of actions? That depends on your goal. It is very individual. Something like buying a pair of flats vs. a house requires different amount of effort and time.

  • @Grattitude85
    @Grattitude85 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is wonderful dear, weĺl understood.

  • @ba-ov5tr
    @ba-ov5tr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kind of a different and a bit of a funny request.
    I think with the way you speak you would be very good at asmr 😌 so if you ever consider and get curious about trying something new and different then that would be an idea 😌
    And thank you for your great work :)
    It’s very interesting to learn these kind of things. I really enjoy watching you.
    I wish you much success with what you love to do :)

  • @sangitawaghmare6336
    @sangitawaghmare6336 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your my idol jamila ❤

  • @annareblfleur2369
    @annareblfleur2369 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, thank you. Can you make a video about habits to become / stay slim fit and healthy? Thank you 😊

  • @bridgetvictor4140
    @bridgetvictor4140 ปีที่แล้ว

    Much love from Kenya❤🎉

  • @nikitamisra.
    @nikitamisra. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always love her educational videos but I liked the beige video background more like in your earlier videos

  • @Evsophiee
    @Evsophiee ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello! I love your your content very much, I was wondering if you’d be willing to show us everything you’d pack when going on vacation/holiday with a luggage/ carry on? If not it’s okay thanks so much for all of your wonderful informative videos ♡

  • @cargr2236
    @cargr2236 ปีที่แล้ว

    So hapoy to have discovered your channel.

  • @aidajameei1552
    @aidajameei1552 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏

  • @minecraftplayslmg9608
    @minecraftplayslmg9608 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the leather notebook. Where did you purchase it? ID

  • @vidishadevi2090
    @vidishadevi2090 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Jamila❤
    Please make a video on entrepreneurship and job - pros and cons!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว

      What exactly do you mean?

    • @vidishadevi2090
      @vidishadevi2090 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JamilaMusayeva Job vs Entrepreneurship - benefits, harms, suitable etc

  • @MsSyed8
    @MsSyed8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey Jamila, Hope you're doing well! Once again you have brought a Master piece in the form of this video. Words fall short to explain how perfect is each and every video of yours. This one was much needed. If possible, Please start azerbaijan language lessons too. I am sure many of your subscribers would love to learn the beautiful language. ❤

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. I am not equipped to teach Azerbaijani lessons. I am sure you can find online resources for that.

  • @Jade-wb6fd
    @Jade-wb6fd ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was a very helpful video. The concept is quite interesting. It kind of reminds me of manifesting but in a more practical way. After the 31 days are over, do you go back and look at all of the goals you have written for each day?

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can but it is recommended to write new goals.

  • @yomnaelasser7926
    @yomnaelasser7926 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you❤❤❤😊

  • @alivaroy6513
    @alivaroy6513 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Jamila, Hope you are well 🙏 could you please make a video on how to be confident on interview

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว

      I have done videos on confidence. Check out my self development playlist.

  • @marijamance9529
    @marijamance9529 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Jamila, this is a very useful video. I have a question. When we create this list, we have to put the most important goal on the first place, and under this goal, we make a list of actions that we need to take, right? Than we put are 2nd goal on the 2nd place with actions to take and so on? So, we will probably need a few pages to make this list.
    Your refinement and intelligence are highly appreciated by lot of us!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can do goals separately and then write goals and actions on a different page. That is why spiral notebook is so useful.

  • @cogito1903
    @cogito1903 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Merhaba Jamila hanım, Türkçe’de geniş değil şimdiki zamanı kullanarak yazmamız gerekir değil mi? Yaparım değil de yapıyorum diye, cevaplarsanız çok sevinirim ❤

  • @jerseyjulia
    @jerseyjulia ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How am I so early to this? 😄

  • @lucial.3958
    @lucial.3958 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Where is your watch from?

  • @meerabanurahuman9404
    @meerabanurahuman9404 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi
    Your videos are interesting . I have problem when I speak to others they think I am ordering them or showing attitude but I am normally talking to them . Can you pls advice me how to solve this issue

  • @narminismayilova5817
    @narminismayilova5817 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salam Jamila, such a nice content ❤
    One quick question, I couldn’t catch the part where we need to divide our goals into small action items, will we analyze and choose the closest to end date/priority goals at the end of the 31 days or we will do it daily ? First variant is much more logical to me.

  • @soniarasul1950
    @soniarasul1950 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a question. How does one find what you really want to do or find what one is good at naturally. Let’s say fashion brand or studying English to be an IELTS teacher or a News Broadcaster they’re opposing things but I happen to love both and cannot leave one entirely to focus completely on the other. Can you please give any tips how to find one’s true and correct path. What is that one thing that one has to look for in order to start in a particular direction when there are many things to choose from. Thank you

  • @noirfidelity
    @noirfidelity 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    what does it mean etiquette trainer?

  • @N5555b
    @N5555b ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, The ranking according to the order of priorities and small steps to be taken are also rewritten every day? After we have taken a certain step should we stop writing it?

  • @ReinaLissetteMena
    @ReinaLissetteMena ปีที่แล้ว

    Where can I find the notebook you are talking about? Can you share the link, I can not find it 😢

  • @mirindalizfigueroa2784
    @mirindalizfigueroa2784 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, I love your channel I just didn’t get in this one. If I need to said the goals every single day as I do with the 10 wishes

  • @greatpassion9844
    @greatpassion9844 ปีที่แล้ว

    Iam a girl who is always in a rush, im not organized, i always want to finish what's in my hand to move to the next without caring if i do it perfectly, impatient aaaaah i said alot hhhhh im working on myself i guess i improved 40% of my bad habits but still alot to change please do a video about having a calm personality and patient

  • @soniamedrano988
    @soniamedrano988 ปีที่แล้ว

    What I don't understand is how is it that we write them down in the present moment but have a deadline or timeline to achieve them?

  • @saniyauzumaki
    @saniyauzumaki ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Jamila, I am curious to know do you believe in law of attraction or manifestation?
    I see this topic is picking up nowdays again with female influencers for self help videos. Would like to know your take on it as well 😊

  • @sevin6
    @sevin6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kaş ki videolarda Azərbaycanca alt yazı olsaydı

  • @tessasense2584
    @tessasense2584 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a little confused about something. After the 31 day challenge and all my dreams and goals are written down; do I go back over every one of those goals/ dreams and prioritize them all? Or is it day 32 and I just prioritize the goals of day 32? I hope you can understand what I'm asking. But I'm just a bit confused.

  • @GeekettePHL12
    @GeekettePHL12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Privacy is power. Do not share your goals or anything else that is important to you with anyone. Other people will sabotage you. Keep silent! Your results will speak for itself.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Always but it is good to share your goals with the closest ones so they can keep you in check.

  • @tammylynn1
    @tammylynn1 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can I apply these principles if my personality is less feminine?

  • @Aylinjaafari
    @Aylinjaafari ปีที่แล้ว

    Is the purpose of this technique to be reminded of the goals everyday in order to bette achieve them and think of them unconciously throughout the day?
    How to plan and take actions for goals that change in this 31 days?(goals that you only write for the fist few days)

  • @sashap9691
    @sashap9691 ปีที่แล้ว

    Isn't this very simialr/pretty much Earl Nightingale's 30 day challenge?

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  ปีที่แล้ว

      Never heard of it. What is it about?

  • @Uni-u1r
    @Uni-u1r 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jamila, duso moja kad cemo se videti poljubac , Radomir Eric, Beograd, Srbija.

  • @selikamayen
    @selikamayen ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking so beautiful in this video my dear 🤍💎

  • @AhmedBristolskiy
    @AhmedBristolskiy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fırst!

  • @pek3978
    @pek3978 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing Russia 💘

  • @mr.goldenproductions_0143
    @mr.goldenproductions_0143 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Girl why u gotta be married already! It's not fair! You're so beautiful and smart!