How To Get a Girl to Come to Your House Over Text (Bumble LR Breakdown)

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  • @Garysworld
    @Garysworld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Studied your stuff for about a month while doing hardcore workouts. 3 Months later, I now have too many girls to deal with ha. The game is so easy once you have some practice. Keep working on yourselves Kings.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Nice man, glad to hear

    • @scottclarke1350
      @scottclarke1350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Love this positivity

    • @seky123
      @seky123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hey can i ask you a question

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@seky123 Sure man

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@seky123 Yes sir. You should be able to post your screenshots of interactions when you're stuck. And you'll receive help for them

  • @TheRacy
    @TheRacy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I'm glad I found this guy because this guy actually lives in reality and talks to younger hotter women. Most of these dating coaches are either too old or just going for low hanging fruit.

    • @esetavarda1049
      @esetavarda1049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yer solid it's a different game when your older running game on younger chicks they DTF for real with this game

  • @erikvilla__
    @erikvilla__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I have a catch 22 with this channel. It’s so good I want him to get the recognition he deserves and millions of followers but don’t want other guys to know these secrets lol!

  • @yahyatari1145
    @yahyatari1145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Real ones remember the 300 pound black guy text 👌🏾

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      👀

    • @bromontana8100
      @bromontana8100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Yeah, but before social culture deemed everything is racist. I now use 300lb felon lol

    • @mauricioalejandro74
      @mauricioalejandro74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@bromontana8100 i just use “300 lb pound creepy guy”. I don’t want al sharpton poppin out my window

    • @bromontana8100
      @bromontana8100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mauricioalejandro74 hahaha

    • @BakaryD
      @BakaryD 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ???

  • @karlaxel7358
    @karlaxel7358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Ugh even Alex has to worry about being cancelled. Smh 😔

  • @thisisarora
    @thisisarora ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy is great at adapting/manoeuvring his game to the situation and girl. Has like plan A,B,C,D going on in his head at the same time. Much more skilled than most other PUAs or dating coaches.

  • @PT-il7nv
    @PT-il7nv ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro your follow up persistent technique of re-engaging in a non desperate way works so well. I been using it lately & it works if your calibrated. 2 years ago I would just assume the girl is not interested if she stop replying once during the conversation especially when she is hot but it's definitely not the case as they get 1000s of matches they literally get lost. Nice work as always man.

  • @MrNadav1995
    @MrNadav1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bruh so much work for 20 mins of fun....jesus

    • @Avfc818
      @Avfc818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For the rest of us, yes it is but for him it’s also literally how he makes money

  • @rylanreed3324
    @rylanreed3324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bro this stuff is quality, haven’t been too fond of a couple of your last videos but this one is 🔥 Fine work my man 🤝

  • @mjcube1830
    @mjcube1830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How much time did it take from the first moment you matched to the moment you met?
    I calculated the whole texting process took from February 5, 2021 - (Bumble opener from her) to March 4, 2021 (The date itself). Correct me if I'm wrong. Great breakdown as always & looking forward for more of these ind the future.. They tend to get better and better + they help a lot. People don't think the texting process can take so long time before you get a girl out on a date, but PWF you always clarify things in such an understandable and educative way. Keep it up. Appreciate the work! 💯 💯
    Almost at 50K subs. Looking forward for the infield video.. 👀

  • @bohemiancasanova5538
    @bohemiancasanova5538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Can you share how it went when she got up to your place? Great value but would appreciate you breaking that down as well.

  • @sierossafaar8767
    @sierossafaar8767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Patience of a saint!

  • @mendor0700
    @mendor0700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Spread means "buffet spread" or "tapas spread". Basically she asks you to pair your Riesling with cheese.

  • @AdrianBriones
    @AdrianBriones ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Due, you are awesome, your vids are always so helpful!

  • @kurtmiller3986
    @kurtmiller3986 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am studying this dating app stuff now. But also work on pickup in person too.

  • @subzero5853
    @subzero5853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You're advice is way better than the red pill advice

    • @Ferien7
      @Ferien7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Rp advice only applies to top tier guys

    • @subzero5853
      @subzero5853 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ferien7 interesting, I never thought about it that way

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks man

  • @JustANumber0123
    @JustANumber0123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Dude you invest hardcore . I lose interest quick and don’t have time for shenanigans 😂😂

    • @casanovacrew7291
      @casanovacrew7291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A very alpha observation

    • @anandishere78
      @anandishere78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is a simp

    • @josephpeters7076
      @josephpeters7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@anandishere78 Lol he fucks them. That’s the opposite of being a simp.

    • @Proposal12
      @Proposal12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was thinking the same thing! lol.....

    • @ElProllo-86
      @ElProllo-86 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@josephpeters7076 so he is a Coomer?

  • @-thenewguybehind-7160
    @-thenewguybehind-7160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We need more Livee demonstration! Great fkgn video tho

  • @tmajor7705
    @tmajor7705 ปีที่แล้ว

    logistic is very important

  • @chessgenius6200
    @chessgenius6200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The dislike is AMS Strategies lolol.

  • @TheKidShawn
    @TheKidShawn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    W Information Bro You Be Preaching!!!!

  • @runthisB
    @runthisB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So you basically assume she’s looking to hook up unless she says otherwise?

    • @syzygy1776
      @syzygy1776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well he goes into the date with no expectations as he's said in the past. but come on, if the girl is down to meet up and down to go to your spot for wine. 99% it can be implied that she could be DTF.
      and if shes not, well thats fine too, persistence is key.
      im unsure what you're trying to say with your comment

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If a girl is willing to go alone into the house of a dude she basically doesnt know then its likely shes dtf as long as she doesnt get weirded out on the actual meet up. You gotta consider how big of a deal it is for a woman to be completely alone with a total stranger whos a man

  • @officaldjflo
    @officaldjflo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy's is funny. I'm too busy to pick you up. Lol that's fucking great.

  • @jeniapustilnik567
    @jeniapustilnik567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i like it how it took you like a month to finally meet her .
    LOL

  • @erikvilla__
    @erikvilla__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No the iMessage thing is true! I have an iPad and sometimes when I turn off my phone at night the messsges go to my iPad and when I turn off my phone I don’t receive the messages since they went to my iPad. It must be a glitch or something cause it’s been happening

  • @k4ir0s
    @k4ir0s 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you do a video on how to pickup a girl who barely speaks English? (On Tinder, or in person). I'm in Mexico and a lot of women don't know English here, but I'm getting plenty of matches and interest in person too. I know you like Latinas so maybe you got some advice here?

  • @bromontana8100
    @bromontana8100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hahahahaha I use 300lb felon with an ankle bracelet! 🤣

    • @tapsunofficial
      @tapsunofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I just now use a white guy with a micro penis 🤣

  • @veneec2311
    @veneec2311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bring one of ur student for Q and A

  • @JuanCarlos-tr8jf
    @JuanCarlos-tr8jf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Quick question: Date close on the app before a phone number close?

  • @bobbykeef412
    @bobbykeef412 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I use the emphasize opposed to question I think it works better

  • @agee7777
    @agee7777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    spread means food

  • @buckybarnes3803
    @buckybarnes3803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex that took a long time before the date happened, so do you think that girls are actually naturally patient in that way, or do they not really care if it takes a long time, or perhaps another reason?

  • @Timefades1
    @Timefades1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hahah he said the data is still out on that one well find out, your funny bro

  • @AJ........
    @AJ........ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dam bro, that was some weird texting shit...lol...good on you for persisting

  • @Isume90
    @Isume90 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tinder content!keep it up

  • @aitorinarra
    @aitorinarra 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Fig spread” dude, it’s very good with cheese on a toast

  • @davidsantalucia6821
    @davidsantalucia6821 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOL 🤣, "SPREAD" MEANS FOOD BRO !!! 💯

  • @taopaille-paille4992
    @taopaille-paille4992 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yop man, can you tell if you can get the info if a PUBLIC instagram can block you from seeing your stories please? I don't know if you have a public profile or if you know someone who has one, and could answer? thank you so much, and for your content as well, it helps a lot and its great information to improve in many aspects!

  • @ericdiniz6776
    @ericdiniz6776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yo man, make tinder experiment with a short and good looking guy vs tall average

  • @scuba9261
    @scuba9261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey man could you link me the clothes you are wearing I really like your style

  • @Gohan9112
    @Gohan9112 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Get Jack Denmo on your channel man. Honestly he's better than 90% of the pickup guys.

  • @gleclerc55555
    @gleclerc55555 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you always hook up on first date? If yes, how can you manage to do so ?

  • @anti-lies2525
    @anti-lies2525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hola My friend i love the channel, so, i wacht the video about You have to get laid in the first date or second if not, is done, in México no all the time happen, some women get sacared, some yes they do, some get angry because You pretend to get laid fast, some times works some times absoluty not, that is my experince and some women Are crazy and other conservative shy, what do you think???

  • @leodoescalisthenics714
    @leodoescalisthenics714 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow thanks a lot

  • @beatsbyjuni
    @beatsbyjuni 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    She meant spread as in like a charcuterie spread with figs and cheese etc

  • @TheRobbo007
    @TheRobbo007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you know who is the greatest pick up artist of all time??
    The 🃏

    • @Re3iRtH
      @Re3iRtH 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it's the guy who sends 90 or 100 texts for 3 weeks before meeting up with the girl.

  • @vasabihd1228
    @vasabihd1228 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    alex are you still swiping right on every girl or did you stop doing that?

  • @elindigeno1215
    @elindigeno1215 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate texting back and forth. I rather meet someone new in person.

  • @IsaaczGrajeda
    @IsaaczGrajeda 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cheese spread? Like fancy cheese to pair with wine?

  • @johnkimball5872
    @johnkimball5872 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should make a video where you go up to random attractive woman and pick them up. Show us how.

  • @mississippitornado6842
    @mississippitornado6842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    you censored black guy? XD

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally not! I promise 🤞🏻

    • @Hitman-44
      @Hitman-44 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      May I ask who is that guy ? People have been talking bout him in the comments..

    • @syzygy1776
      @syzygy1776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Hitman-44 its basically a playful text when you're talking to the girl
      he says something like "i hope you're not a 300 lb black man"
      and the girl would respond positively saying "oh lol nooo im not," or "hahah no im def not that"
      its intended to lightened the mood with some humor and show that he can joke around too. He's not taking himself too serious.
      i've personally used it and women have taken it well and laughed at it

  • @EP_1990
    @EP_1990 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow that's a lot of work but well played. I did rather pay an escort for an outcall :D

  • @bfourney
    @bfourney 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I bet the iMessage weirdness was probably someone on another device like an iPad also logged into her iMessage. Could’ve been her niece on an iPad or something.

  • @chizpa305
    @chizpa305 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude she said she was free on Saturday right at the start and you misunderstood her

  • @ddeniz125
    @ddeniz125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Latinas are the best!

  • @supremegodmasterofomegacha3019
    @supremegodmasterofomegacha3019 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Second part of Spanish WhatsApp txt means ill show her around

  • @irynap9262
    @irynap9262 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also how come such a tough guy deletes unfavourable comments? 🤔

  • @jasmanrautella3422
    @jasmanrautella3422 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro I got dumped and I can't move on. It's been almost 6 months. I try to keep myself busy but it's not helping. I keep thinking of her whenever I'm free. I lost any desire to meet anyone new. I'm hurt. I wish I could go back to my normal life. I would rather be lonely than heartbroken. It's horrible feeling. Please help me

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Time always heals wounds. But, not just time alone. Thinking in terms of "I lost any desire to meet anyone new" is you still holding on to what you been trying to move on from. I'd strongly suggest taking up pick up as an obsession and going and meeting girls. 2 drinks every night and just talking to 50 girls each night

    • @josephpeters7076
      @josephpeters7076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What always helps me when I’m heart broken is dates with women. Once you open your mind up again to the fact there are so many cool women out there it makes you start to heal. That being said I can’t have sex right away from a bad breakup, so I do try to wait. You’ll get better man! Just give it time and lots of workouts.

    • @jasmanrautella3422
      @jasmanrautella3422 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel thanks a lot Alex for replying to my desperate comment. It means a lot. And you're absolutely rigjt, it's not just time that heal the wound. The action we take to get over it plays a more significant role too. Although I don't drink much, I will definitely approach 5-10 girls on street and stay consistent at it. Thanks fam!

    • @jasmanrautella3422
      @jasmanrautella3422 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@josephpeters7076 hey that's true brother. I shouldn't be so closed off. At least one good thing that came out of this break up is that I'm more focused on my career. I totally agree wtih you on exercise. It's one of the few things keeping me sane through this. I've been reading "Can't Hurt Me" by David Goggins. It's a life saver.

    • @Re3iRtH
      @Re3iRtH 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Best way to heal is to bang several new women. Works every time!

  • @shevongale2280
    @shevongale2280 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lool i never seen a text like that,

  • @veneec2311
    @veneec2311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is her age is 19?

  • @keithkenney4470
    @keithkenney4470 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What would you say if you don't drink or do drugs?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sparkling water. The soft close itself isn't the date. Soft close is a way of fishing out if she's actually down to meet

  • @Toxicinparis
    @Toxicinparis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cheese spread my guy.

  • @outlander47
    @outlander47 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You deleted a good video about text oppeners on tinder.
    Can you please put it back?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I haven’t deleted any videos man

    • @outlander47
      @outlander47 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel there was that video about oppeners. You had an opener go like " hey I wanted to let you text me first but I can tell you prefer a guy who can lead". I can't find that video anymore

  • @winterow
    @winterow 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Можешь ли ты снять ролик про пикап на русском?

  • @okwui04
    @okwui04 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn that's a lot of work. Just rub one out bro.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah. Isn't the same for me. IF you're getting what you want out of rubbing one out, go for it

  • @C1GMA
    @C1GMA 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:53

  • @christopherreece6776
    @christopherreece6776 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the 300lb black guy line is a little weird

  • @omarnieves2030
    @omarnieves2030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maybe when asking for spread she wanted to see if you got lube 🙀

  • @ManibalGaming
    @ManibalGaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sup fam. Huge can. Are you in miami ? Would love to grab a drink I got a great group of friends I can introduce you too.

  • @benjaminmcgrand5961
    @benjaminmcgrand5961 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    its not quick (:

  • @immanuelkh
    @immanuelkh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You really have to work on your Spanish pronunciation

  • @BODYBAGxPAT
    @BODYBAGxPAT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello my fellow virgins, who else is watching this knowing they'll never use any of this?

  • @lazarusledd2580
    @lazarusledd2580 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want your brain man 😀

  • @KurryKumar
    @KurryKumar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro get rid of the sexologist shit. Not many guys can say they are a sexologist and stay congruent.