Good men are not hard to find. The problem is that as we grew up ,we’re surrounded by a certain type of relationships be it with out parents, brothers or others, therefore, we tend to choose men based on what has been modelled for us.. sometimes we need to look at our thoughts and behaviours when it comes to men.
Her husband is white and not the sjw white because his wife is biracial and not the I don’t listen to rap “filth”, Im not sista soldier until she is 40 and truth comes out which is filth music and sjw.
@@trvvn5977 omg! I absolutely agree with you. I believe we should never ever compare men with the men we have relationships with [ brother, father, cousin or ex boyfriends] just pray for the best and be ready to accept.
1. Express your love of being a woman. (Embrace femeninity) 2. Be demure (instead of proud to inspire the protective nature of men). 3. Be tender, soft hearted to help him decompress from the challenges of life. 4. Allow him to lead. 5. Be soft spoken or calm instead of yelling or becoming aggressive to help him receive your ideas. 6. Be open minded and open hearted so you can follow his lead and provide balance. 7. Respect his space, by not pushing him to express himself beyond his comfort zone. 8. Express your love for others
I am always mesmerized by how eloquently she expresses herself that I often find myself missing the point and have to go back. I wonder how she developed such deep and rich vocabulary and explain all her points without stuttering or saying “umm” “like” etc. How I wish I can speak like this.
Same! I’m finding it common in Orthodox circles. I’m not sure if Jasmyne had this vocabulary before converting, so perhaps the kind of people that Orthodox attracts are already studious beings 🤷🏽♀️
Agree with a lot of these points! As soon as I stopped forcing myself to be “one of the boys” and embraced what I really am, a girl, I attracted a kind and loving man who is confident in himself and actually puts work into our relationship! Love your vids! Please make the mothering men video, got a lot of sisters who would need to see it lol! ❤️❤️
Topic request (this video made me think of this): "Character traits to look for in a masculine partner" or "Red flags to look out for when choosing a partner". You've spoken about making sure women only choose men worth submitting to, do I'd love to hear more about what that type of person is like.
I’m a very outgoing, extroverted woman and in past relationships I’ve always been pushed into the masculine role. I would lead the dance because he didn’t know how to, I would start convos, I would plan dates, I was always the one who made the first move because I got tired of waiting on him. So naturally everybody thought that I wouldn’t want a very masculine man. They were very very surprised when they met my husband. I just think this goes to show how society pushes young women who are outgoing to be independent and the whole “ I don’t need a man” when what they really want is their man to take the lead
You took on the masculine roll and even chose men that were weak so you could. It’s how you keep control. I am trying to heal from this and it’s not easy.
I think the important thing to note here is 'be selective who you open up to'. I used to be like this, but I have met too many men claiming to be 'highly empathetic', only to show up as very controlling and manipulative. So if you are in a relationship with someone you can trust, go for it. :) But a man who demand that you behave this way, without respecting you, don't be too soft with him. Because chances are he will abuse the trust you give him. Don't treat him like a king, if he treats you like a peasant.
He adores my tenderness, my shy and reversed aura/personality, how femenine and elegant I am when I am not even trying to do it or act like that, he pointed out how I treat people and create a difference between them and us. He actually protects me even in the small things, fix my hair, remove the dirt on my jeans when we sit on the ground, leads he way... I like him, and it is mutual. He is the first man I really want to try something with.
I stopped the video to say WOW. This is truly for me!!! I’m actually a single mother and currently engaged by the grace of God. I’ve been taking lead for a while and making my own decisions and having to let my guard down to let someone else lead Phew it’s hard. And that part about speaking softly and gently etc it’s also for me. Sister thank you for taking the time to do these videos. You’re a blessing for me with these videos you do. Peace be with you and your family -Maria😊
amazing video, excellent advice. Very validating. What struck me was when you said a good man will lead you with love and will put your needs before his. How opposite of how I see men often treat women nowadays, where all they care about is themselves and their own needs.
Very much looking forward to the video on women not "mothering" their husbands/boyfriends. I've seen this phenomenon play out with friends, it was rather disturbing to witness and when I realized that this dynamic was at the core of their relationship, it made my skin crawl. I definitely think the topic needs to be seriously addressed. Thank you for your insight, it is a very much needed light in the darkness❤🕯
Your video really shook me. it resonates with me and i agree with what you're saying. until now Ive been very lonely, I seem to attract only "weak" men in my life. i think because in my family i had a lot of conflict with super masculine men, I tried to fight them head on and left my feminine traits behind. I really regret becoming hard and defensive. I hope I can one day be more the version of myself that I long to be and to find the right man
That is very true, my ex was very attracted to all of that but it was something I was doing something naturally but we found that we weren’t compatible. One thing I’d say, to embrace your feminine side, a guy will love that and also to be confident and value yourself. If you find that you are being more masculine… you should not be with them… because they’ll be a burden. It’s up to any woman if they want to… but what’s going to happen if your husband doesn’t support you or is afraid everything and you have to control everything because he isn’t helping?? Be with a guy who embraces your feminine side not in a toxic way but embraces the kind parts and love you in a kind, and patient way. I love these tips and it makes me happy that I’ve changed so much.
I need a video on how to be soft spoken because growing up in a household where mom always raised her voice whenever she got irritated or whenever she got into an argument with my father. I just picked up her habits and I feel bad because whenever me and my spouse get into an arguement I yell.. say stuff I don’t mean.. disrespect him and then after the heat cools it makes me feel awful but I have a hard time with self control I let my feelings control me 😔
I am 30 and struggled my whole life with men seeing me tough and difficult to approach. For many years, I thought it was them the problem and did not deserve me. But recently, I decided to self reflect and realised that I needed to change my ways to be a better woman for myself but also attract the type of men I want. I think sometimes, us “strong women” are this way because we have no other choice but also because it is a protective mechanism. I am the most sensitive and loving person ever but I keep this very harsh front because I’m scared to be hurt. But I love how your content is making me want to reconnect with my more feminine and soft side while understanding is the natural strength that God gave me. May the Lord bless you for this. 🙏🏿
@@JasmyneTheodora dont worry take your time :) your other videos have been very helpful btw and i rewatch them from time to time your like a big sister to me lol
I love the part you said about the house/home exists to serve the family not the other way around. I was a bit of a “clean freak” and it’s hard to maintain a clean house when you have more children making a mess. But the mess reminds me I have children, 4 in all - oh what a blessing! I need to refocus my energy on this season while they are young. It is hard to find that balance when you are also going thru peri menopause therefore more irritable. Thanks for making this content. ☺️
I am a young woman and have been trying to be intentional about rediscovering and becoming a feminine and godly woman. Thank you for your channel because it has given me alot of direction in the midst of today's culture. May God bless you and your family ❤❤
I would love a character analysis of Bella!! Actually, that would be a really great series from you-misunderstood heroines. I could see Bella Swan, Sansa Stark, and Arwen from Lord of the Rings being some really good characters to start with! They are usually not everyone’s favorite character because their femininity is mistaken for weakness by many people. I believe there is a deeper resiliency within all of these characters, it would be so interesting to explore that! Keep up the great content ❤
In short, what I infer from your such a superb message is, women who are mother like in love& daughter like in innocence are adored glorified by men. Long live,God bless you,dear sister, love from India🙏❤️
Great video! Praying that you hit 100k subs soon. I agree with your topic idea on "how to avoid mothering your man"!! I struggle with keeping that boundary in how I treat my husband, so I would benefit from such a video.
Another lovely video. There is a lack of this kind of content on TH-cam in a time when it is so desperately needed, I am grateful for you! I am a young woman that is in the early stages of my first relationship, but I am finding myself so lost on how to be with him, I guess it is because of the lack of relationship experience in which that will come in time. Watching your videos helps to make things clearer.
I always used to ask my partner why he loves me "coz external validation lol" one time he answered "because of your femenine attributes" I got so pissed and took it the wrong way, thinking he meant my body, but that was so ignorant from my part but at the time I hated that answer, but looking back it the most beautiful thing any man has said to me, he made me become more soft, gentle and nurturing by being a leader and a strong masculine man who takes initiative, I didn't value it then but I've opened up my eyes to the wonderful relationship we created based on our complementary energies, it's the happiest I've been and the most relaxed ever, and you Jasmyne helped me a lot to heal my femininity we always wait for your videos and watch them together thank you so much may God bless you and your beautiful family love and peace ❤
OMG the way you break this down and educate so effortlessly and with scripture to back it up I love that so happy I found you channel I will be subscribing.
This was just beautiful advice to me. This feminine perspective is needed by alot of us women who know and appreciate the difference between masculinity and femininity.
Thank you so much for posting this. I wish I had known this much earlier in life. I feel like it's maybe a little too late for me but I know it will help a lot of women out there. Not going to lie, it has me in tears. I'm angry at myself for what I've become. I'm ashamed for what I've done. I'm resentful for what I've given. I just have to act like things can change for the better.
I absolutely love your content and cannot wait to learn from the rest of your content. Also, you have an expansive vocabulary and I crave to attain your level of speech, so intelligent, so fluent.
First off i wanted to say, thank you for trying to teach young upcoming women and reteach older women the ways of how to be a feminine women. Im a guy, 29 years old. I'll tell you this, men loves these 3 Fs. Fit, friendly, and feminine. Thats what we all want in a woman. All the points you bring up in this whole video, youre 100% right. Here's more things coming from me, its kinda obvious but we love it when women dresses nice respectfully. Like for a great example. You in this video that the way you dress what turns us on by giving you an open eye towards you because it shows that you respect yourself as a woman. Plus for what this lady said everything in this video will help you keep a man and protect you. For all the ladies watching this video, she'll get you on the right path. Everything she said is 100% true. Please listen to her!
Great points thank you! Please do the video about not mothering your man. Especially when dating a younger man, you want to help them avoid pitfalls but that can so easily turn into mothering if not restrained.
You hands down have one of the most soothing voices. I love listening to you. You could be saying "twinkle twinkle little star" and I would love it 🤣🤣🤣. I know you didn't really touch on any physical traits but I was for years the made up, dressed up, wigs, long nails, tons of jewelry girl but now I have a more simple natural appearance. I would say well groomed "clean girl look" and masculine men really seem to love that too. Oh, a bonus, toss your jeans and wear a dress and watch what happens 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you very much for this video. I will be 30 yo in two months. And after listening to you encouraging women to love being women is very refreshing... I grew up telling myself "I hate being a woman... I would have wanted to be a man... It was reflected by my demeanor. I acted like a guy and was extremely combative... Which isn't bad but I came accross as aggressive. Today I understand I shouldn't have been like that. I never really understood the negative impact these kind of thoughts had on me...
Yes to the video for mothering your man and how some men also crave it! Would love to hear you talk about this as I noticed it often creates a polarity problem too where the man starts leaning back and the woman is the giver. I love your content and it always helps me so much
Love this! Also you have the most stunning hair - can we get a hair tutorial please? 😍 I have the exact same curl pattern but I'm not so good at styling it
Hi Jasmyne! I love all of your rich content. I’ve even been researching and considering Orthodoxy. I would love to see a video on books you’ve read that have influenced your perspectives on femininity. I’ve already read Eve in Exile and absolutely loved it. You and Joyce (Bindi Marc)are my favorites in this space. Thanks for your knowledge, time and willingness to share.
I wanted to clarify something: Around 6:23, I said “Most men have a tough life, universally so compared to women of the same background.” The way I worded that, it sounds like I believe men have had tougher lives than women overall. I don’t think men have had overall tougher lives than women… it’s impossible to quantify/evaluate how tough a man’s life is vs a woman’s life and I do not want to discount the challenges women face. I have also said in other videos that it’s impossible & unproductive to compare. So I just wanted to clarify that… I definitely should have worded that better. My apologies. Thank you so much for watching and I’ll make sure to do better ❤
we as men do overall have tougher lives, its harder for us to survive and live, its even hard for us to get sex from women or even get someone of the opposite sex. We dont have society protecting us or helping us to survive.
I feel called out by the "respect his space" segment 😭. This made me realize how annoying I must be. I have intense mothering energy, so I look forward to your video!
I'm a 19 year old man and a police man in education. I developed my masculinity a lot the past year. Achieved a good body, looksmaxed a lot, became focused on my goals (working a side hustle), became someone with self respect, no simping and improved my male aggression. Lastly, always stay humble! Mainly watched Hamza and I was hoping to see self-improvement youtubers for young women as well and these actually exist LOL. I watched some of your content and it nails every time. Listen to her girls! If you wanna find the right man.
@@SairaSabir1443AH A rather controversial man who helps young men improve their life true self-improvement and masculinity. There are a few things I don't agree with him, but I still follow a ton of his advice which made me the man I am today.
You are an amazing woman. You are speaking so freely and intelligently. Everything you mention is so well-thought-out. These comment are coming from a 78
Jasmine 😊Thankful for your intellectually soft feminine style is uniquely disciplining the love of our Savior from a feminine perspective 😊❤ I'm looking forward to the talk on "NOT Mothering your man"
This popped up as a recommended video. You've shared what I needed to learn what I was looking for. You've got a beautiful voice which soothe my nerve after a very long day. God knew what I wanted. Subscribed! ❤
thanks for the video, jasmyne ♥️ could you PLEASE consider making a video about mortification? i have been told i should manifest my life, and that created a HUGE attachment to certain emotional states. i have become weak and cannot carry my cross properly 😥
Jasmyne, thanks so much for your videos. Whenever I watch your videos I can always feel this calm and peaceful and feminine vibe which cures my anxiety. It would be so good if you could do a video of the advices you would give to young girls who just finished uni and about to get into next stage in life:)
I have all these traits. Confident but demure, love dressing nice, receptive but not demanding. But I was instead taken advantage of. AGAIN and AGAIN. Life was extremely rough on me, more so than most men (or anyone) I know. So it's hard for a woman like me who has a rare set of harsh difficulties and forced to be more hard in my outlook, to find a man who is strong enough and wise enough to protect me. I don't feel I'm smarter than anyone but when it comes to life's tough realities, I've unfortunately had to mature a lot faster in some ways, and so I can't find anyone on the same wisdom level. I can't be someone's peaceful person anymore, I need someone who can give ME peace. Because it was stolen from me :,(
Hey! I feel what you’re going through and yes it can suck sometimes, but I promise you that life will get better and you’d definitely find a man who adores you and cares for you and understands your needs!
U have to change yourself and you will see things around you changing, I hope you will find him, you have to search at the good place. And dont worry, there will always be men above you
Thank you for your video, the tipps help alot 💗 could you do a video about how to be in your feminine energy when you work fulltime and need all those masculine traits. It's hard to switch sometimes
In terms of how you talk, that varies on culture. I used to think I needed to talk more softly until I married into a Nigerian family and saw that many Nigerian women are great examples of the biblical submission to the husband but still very much speak up and probably would be considered loud in the West. If you find yourself a strong man, I think you need to worry less about talking softly.
yesss. I'm nigerian and all my life people have called me loud. It made me hate the way I talk. I tried to change how I spoke, but I give up. Many people told me that they wish they can speak up like me, so I learned that it really depends on the person
This video isn’t really about how to be a Godly wife though, it’s about what men find attractive and generally speaking, men don’t find loud voices enchanting like soft voices
But overall love the video ❤️ thank you Oh true, I could have worded that better in response to this video. I still think the softness is relative to your culture, that’s my point.
@@bless_a_qtpeople will find something to complain about if they want to. My coworkers make fun of my high-pitched voice for example. I thought maybe i should force my tone to be lower, but that would be uncomfortable on my vocalchords. Best to just let complainers complain, instead of wasting time on them.
Everything just got to be balanced. I guess we’re all tired of always always seeing contents that kinda tells us to alter true ourselves to attract certain men. I love being a woman and these advices do help.
I SO SO love that she made the distinction that a Christian wife should submit to her Christian HUSBAND. So many men are expecting for their girlfriend, side chick, Godless situationship etc to submit to them and I do not think that is a reasonable expectation. No judgement at all for these types of relationships I just find it unproductive when some men complain that women in that type of relationship are not submissive to them.
Thanks for the video! Can you cover how to tell if a man is sexually healthy (like how to tell if he will respect and be gentle with you, have a healthy relationship to sex... ) ? Western culture doesn't really tell you that as it doesn't see sex as a divine union...
I would literally listen non stop if you made a podcast!!! Even if it was just the same content you have on TH-cam just without the video. I enjoy listening to podcasts better then watching videos:) Just a suggestion 😊 Keep up the great work!!!!
Thank you for yet another amazing video! I was wondering if you could do a video on Christian and birth control use or what are the best birth control options because so many cone with hormonal effects.
Well from this video, I realized I don't want my man to take the lead. I am fine with the way I am, having an open space for both parts to make suggestions and make plans
Love this video! I think a defense of Bella Swan would be great! Yes she has some serious flaws, but in many ways she’s a better role model than the vast majority of female characters in media today.
I would give you a countless amount of likes if I could but sadly I can only give you one. God bless you ! You always make me smile and I love your strong softness . You are inspirational for many. I remember you mentioned that you wanted to make a video about balancing hormones and I know you recently gave birth and are busy but if you find the time and want to talk about it , it would help immensely.
I totally enjoyed this video Jasmyn, love the subtle background music, suits the theme of the video! love your carriage and presentation as well, you've earned a subscriber ❤
Thank you so much for this video Jasmyne, I feel like a lot of young girls are lacking this kind of information in their lives, (including myself) so I am incredibly grateful that you took the time to make this video! when you were on the topic of demure women, I was actually thinking of the character Bella before you brought her up, so I was surprised when you did! This was such a great video, and I think you should definitely make a video on how to avoid mothering your man if you were considering it already! I would love to see a video on how to find a man who is right for you and how to go about expressing your attraction to him, or how to tell if a guy likes you, modern dating is so confusing to me as a young female with Christian values, who is not even allowed to date at my age, and I don't want to be lost when my time actually comes to search for someone. Love you!
As a man it's interesting to hear some things that are obvious from my pov but you imply not to women, and also to notice ways in which modern culture discourages men from valuing some of these attributes too. Regarding innocence/purity, I presume the same trait is seen by women in men who do not corrupt their sense of honour and principles etc.? I often tell men that to have true honour in the old way, one must have a heart that is compassionate that can direct the acts of valour, which are otherwise seen as ugly machismo all too common in the modern era.
Thank you so much for this video know i am definitely going to keep an eye out on how I am around him and how I talk to him but majority of this stuff I already do so this is really amazing and thank you recent subscriber here❤
I don't tend to dress really girly. But I have noticed my nature is to be modest, shy, tender and understanding. I get loud sometimes, but it's usually when I'm having fun or mad. And it takes a long time for me to get angry. I do have trouble accepting being treated like a lady. Not because I don't want to but because I'm not used to it. I try to allow them to do things for me because I know men love that and I love it to. Just unfamiliar with it.
Hello Jasmyne, you speak of being soft spoken. How do I express my displeasure about an issue without raising my voice and causing him to be defensive instead of hearing me out
![[MV] A leap of faith...ความเชื่อใจครั้งสุดท้าย (From "Petrichor the series")](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/U1piZH2CNXA/mqdefault.jpg)
I'm 52 and single, never married. My career sucked the life out of me. This advice is very accurate. As you get older, good men are harder to find.
Trust me you're missing out on nothing a lot of people are in relationships and pretending to be happy for social media
@@aprilchow-chee5281 Straight up facts! I know people right now who aren't in miserable relationships but of course, they have flex for social media.
Good men are not hard to find. The problem is that as we grew up ,we’re surrounded by a certain type of relationships be it with out parents, brothers or others, therefore, we tend to choose men based on what has been modelled for us.. sometimes we need to look at our thoughts and behaviours when it comes to men.
Her husband is white and not the sjw white because his wife is biracial and not the I don’t listen to rap “filth”, Im not sista soldier until she is 40 and truth comes out which is filth music and sjw.
@@trvvn5977 omg! I absolutely agree with you. I believe we should never ever compare men with the men we have relationships with [ brother, father, cousin or ex boyfriends] just pray for the best and be ready to accept.
1. Express your love of being a woman. (Embrace femeninity)
2. Be demure (instead of proud to inspire the protective nature of men).
3. Be tender, soft hearted to help him decompress from the challenges of life.
4. Allow him to lead.
5. Be soft spoken or calm instead of yelling or becoming aggressive to help him receive your ideas.
6. Be open minded and open hearted so you can follow his lead and provide balance.
7. Respect his space, by not pushing him to express himself beyond his comfort zone.
8. Express your love for others
I am always mesmerized by how eloquently she expresses herself that I often find myself missing the point and have to go back. I wonder how she developed such deep and rich vocabulary and explain all her points without stuttering or saying “umm” “like” etc. How I wish I can speak like this.
Same! I’m finding it common in Orthodox circles. I’m not sure if Jasmyne had this vocabulary before converting, so perhaps the kind of people that Orthodox attracts are already studious beings 🤷🏽♀️
I’m 70 now, I am so thrilled you are doing this now. Woman don’t have any speaking truth to them now. Thank you sweet lady.
This is so kind, thanks so much ❤
Agree with a lot of these points! As soon as I stopped forcing myself to be “one of the boys” and embraced what I really am, a girl, I attracted a kind and loving man who is confident in himself and actually puts work into our relationship! Love your vids! Please make the mothering men video, got a lot of sisters who would need to see it lol! ❤️❤️
Topic request (this video made me think of this): "Character traits to look for in a masculine partner" or "Red flags to look out for when choosing a partner". You've spoken about making sure women only choose men worth submitting to, do I'd love to hear more about what that type of person is like.
@@AshenOne_CR Thx!
Great suggestion!
Please stick with the topics of what it is being a woman. There are a lot of women who don't have a clue to what it means. I am that woman
I’m a very outgoing, extroverted woman and in past relationships I’ve always been pushed into the masculine role. I would lead the dance because he didn’t know how to, I would start convos, I would plan dates, I was always the one who made the first move because I got tired of waiting on him. So naturally everybody thought that I wouldn’t want a very masculine man. They were very very surprised when they met my husband. I just think this goes to show how society pushes young women who are outgoing to be independent and the whole “ I don’t need a man” when what they really want is their man to take the lead
You took on the masculine roll and even chose men that were weak so you could. It’s how you keep control. I am trying to heal from this and it’s not easy.
If you wanted him to take the lead you would. You like to be in charge. Rawr
@@uok6216 yes I did
Amen
I understand a lot of men don't know how to be men and it forces women to have to lead. I'm happy you dropped that man and got someone who knew better
I think the important thing to note here is 'be selective who you open up to'. I used to be like this, but I have met too many men claiming to be 'highly empathetic', only to show up as very controlling and manipulative. So if you are in a relationship with someone you can trust, go for it. :) But a man who demand that you behave this way, without respecting you, don't be too soft with him. Because chances are he will abuse the trust you give him. Don't treat him like a king, if he treats you like a peasant.
Oh yes I do not believe a man should “demand” femininity from a woman at all! It’ll be counterintuitive, firstly….
He adores my tenderness, my shy and reversed aura/personality, how femenine and elegant I am when I am not even trying to do it or act like that, he pointed out how I treat people and create a difference between them and us. He actually protects me even in the small things, fix my hair, remove the dirt on my jeans when we sit on the ground, leads he way... I like him, and it is mutual.
He is the first man I really want to try something with.
Aww this is really sweet, I hope things went well for you❤
@@lalulu697 love this for you 🥹❤️
Women need more feminine role models to look up to and take advice from. Thank you for the beautiful content and energy 🌸💗✨
besides the amazing and realistic advice and content,I really want to appreciate the fact that this woman is so beautiful and pretty omg
Im a simple girl, when JT posts, I get excited😂
Same!!
As a man who is not a Christian, I still definitely agree with everything she says here. She hits the nail on the head
Thank you kindly!
I love how raw and honest you are!! I’m 26 and it’s so refreshing to see a young woman around my age embrace being feminine 💓
I stopped the video to say WOW. This is truly for me!!! I’m actually a single mother and currently engaged by the grace of God. I’ve been taking lead for a while and making my own decisions and having to let my guard down to let someone else lead Phew it’s hard. And that part about speaking softly and gently etc it’s also for me.
Sister thank you for taking the time to do these videos. You’re a blessing for me with these videos you do.
Peace be with you and your family
-Maria😊
I can listen to you forever...your voice is giving>>>>your energy >>>your message>>> the way you articulate yourself is so beautiful as you're ❤️❤️
You are one of my favorites here on TH-cam! I am a Muslim woman and this resonates with me immensely. Thank you Jasmyne 💓
Same ! I'm a muslim woman too and I this is just perfectly relatable!
Omg me too!
Muslim woman as well🎉❤ ramadan starts soon
Muslim too and I love this sisters channel!
same 💕
amazing video, excellent advice. Very validating.
What struck me was when you said a good man will lead you with love and will put your needs before his. How opposite of how I see men often treat women nowadays, where all they care about is themselves and their own needs.
✨very demure, very mindful✨
@@spaceroyalty4158 popped right into my head 🤣
Very much looking forward to the video on women not "mothering" their husbands/boyfriends. I've seen this phenomenon play out with friends, it was rather disturbing to witness and when I realized that this dynamic was at the core of their relationship, it made my skin crawl. I definitely think the topic needs to be seriously addressed.
Thank you for your insight, it is a very much needed light in the darkness❤🕯
Your video really shook me. it resonates with me and i agree with what you're saying. until now Ive been very lonely, I seem to attract only "weak" men in my life. i think because in my family i had a lot of conflict with super masculine men, I tried to fight them head on and left my feminine traits behind. I really regret becoming hard and defensive. I hope I can one day be more the version of myself that I long to be and to find the right man
That is very true, my ex was very attracted to all of that but it was something I was doing something naturally but we found that we weren’t compatible. One thing I’d say, to embrace your feminine side, a guy will love that and also to be confident and value yourself. If you find that you are being more masculine… you should not be with them… because they’ll be a burden. It’s up to any woman if they want to… but what’s going to happen if your husband doesn’t support you or is afraid everything and you have to control everything because he isn’t helping?? Be with a guy who embraces your feminine side not in a toxic way but embraces the kind parts and love you in a kind, and patient way. I love these tips and it makes me happy that I’ve changed so much.
I need a video on how to be soft spoken because growing up in a household where mom always raised her voice whenever she got irritated or whenever she got into an argument with my father. I just picked up her habits and I feel bad because whenever me and my spouse get into an arguement I yell.. say stuff I don’t mean.. disrespect him and then after the heat cools it makes me feel awful but I have a hard time with self control I let my feelings control me 😔
Maybe therapy. What you are doing is a learned behavior
In the same boat here, unfortunately, I'd love that video too.
I am 30 and struggled my whole life with men seeing me tough and difficult to approach. For many years, I thought it was them the problem and did not deserve me.
But recently, I decided to self reflect and realised that I needed to change my ways to be a better woman for myself but also attract the type of men I want.
I think sometimes, us “strong women” are this way because we have no other choice but also because it is a protective mechanism. I am the most sensitive and loving person ever but I keep this very harsh front because I’m scared to be hurt.
But I love how your content is making me want to reconnect with my more feminine and soft side while understanding is the natural strength that God gave me. May the Lord bless you for this. 🙏🏿
bestie wake up a new jasmyne video just dropped
😭😭🥹💞 I need to upload more!!
@@JasmyneTheodora dont worry take your time :) your other videos have been very helpful btw and i rewatch them from time to time your like a big sister to me lol
❤😂🎉❤
I'm so glad I found you jasmine, I'm binge watching all your videos, in this day and age, we need this
I love the part you said about the house/home exists to serve the family not the other way around. I was a bit of a “clean freak” and it’s hard to maintain a clean house when you have more children making a mess. But the mess reminds me I have children, 4 in all - oh what a blessing! I need to refocus my energy on this season while they are young. It is hard to find that balance when you are also going thru peri menopause therefore more irritable. Thanks for making this content. ☺️
Ur hair is growing! I don’t watch your vids because they don’t apply to me, but I think you’re beautiful and have a warmth about you.
I am a young woman and have been trying to be intentional about rediscovering and becoming a feminine and godly woman. Thank you for your channel because it has given me alot of direction in the midst of today's culture. May God bless you and your family ❤❤
😳 Woah! I'm signing that. Same!😊
I would love a character analysis of Bella!! Actually, that would be a really great series from you-misunderstood heroines. I could see Bella Swan, Sansa Stark, and Arwen from Lord of the Rings being some really good characters to start with! They are usually not everyone’s favorite character because their femininity is mistaken for weakness by many people. I believe there is a deeper resiliency within all of these characters, it would be so interesting to explore that!
Keep up the great content ❤
I love arwen!! She's amazing! And aragorn... drool!! 😅😍
Yes yes🎉🎉 i would love this.
In short, what I infer from your such a superb message is, women who are mother like in love& daughter like in innocence are adored glorified by men.
Long live,God bless you,dear sister, love from India🙏❤️
Great video! Praying that you hit 100k subs soon.
I agree with your topic idea on "how to avoid mothering your man"!! I struggle with keeping that boundary in how I treat my husband, so I would benefit from such a video.
Another lovely video. There is a lack of this kind of content on TH-cam in a time when it is so desperately needed, I am grateful for you! I am a young woman that is in the early stages of my first relationship, but I am finding myself so lost on how to be with him, I guess it is because of the lack of relationship experience in which that will come in time. Watching your videos helps to make things clearer.
I always used to ask my partner why he loves me "coz external validation lol" one time he answered "because of your femenine attributes" I got so pissed and took it the wrong way, thinking he meant my body, but that was so ignorant from my part but at the time I hated that answer, but looking back it the most beautiful thing any man has said to me, he made me become more soft, gentle and nurturing by being a leader and a strong masculine man who takes initiative, I didn't value it then but I've opened up my eyes to the wonderful relationship we created based on our complementary energies, it's the happiest I've been and the most relaxed ever, and you Jasmyne helped me a lot to heal my femininity we always wait for your videos and watch them together thank you so much may God bless you and your beautiful family love and peace ❤
OMG the way you break this down and educate so effortlessly and with scripture to back it up I love that so happy I found you channel I will be subscribing.
Young wife here (almost 22) and made lots of mistakes so far. GLAD i found your channel!!
This was just beautiful advice to me. This feminine perspective is needed by alot of us women who know and appreciate the difference between masculinity and femininity.
Thank you so much for posting this. I wish I had known this much earlier in life. I feel like it's maybe a little too late for me but I know it will help a lot of women out there. Not going to lie, it has me in tears. I'm angry at myself for what I've become. I'm ashamed for what I've done. I'm resentful for what I've given. I just have to act like things can change for the better.
I absolutely love your content and cannot wait to learn from the rest of your content. Also, you have an expansive vocabulary and I crave to attain your level of speech, so intelligent, so fluent.
First off i wanted to say, thank you for trying to teach young upcoming women and reteach older women the ways of how to be a feminine women. Im a guy, 29 years old. I'll tell you this, men loves these 3 Fs. Fit, friendly, and feminine. Thats what we all want in a woman. All the points you bring up in this whole video, youre 100% right. Here's more things coming from me, its kinda obvious but we love it when women dresses nice respectfully. Like for a great example. You in this video that the way you dress what turns us on by giving you an open eye towards you because it shows that you respect yourself as a woman. Plus for what this lady said everything in this video will help you keep a man and protect you. For all the ladies watching this video, she'll get you on the right path. Everything she said is 100% true. Please listen to her!
I'm working on myself to be more attractive 😂. Praying more and believing that marriage is on it's way in God's perfect timing❤
Great points thank you! Please do the video about not mothering your man. Especially when dating a younger man, you want to help them avoid pitfalls but that can so easily turn into mothering if not restrained.
Just discovered your channel such a blessing!! Thank you so much for making videos and for quoting scripture in them 💗💗
I am looking forward to the "how to stop mothering your man video". Great video!🙌🏾
You hands down have one of the most soothing voices. I love listening to you. You could be saying "twinkle twinkle little star" and I would love it 🤣🤣🤣. I know you didn't really touch on any physical traits but I was for years the made up, dressed up, wigs, long nails, tons of jewelry girl but now I have a more simple natural appearance. I would say well groomed "clean girl look" and masculine men really seem to love that too. Oh, a bonus, toss your jeans and wear a dress and watch what happens 🤣🤣🤣
Your femininity is so inspiring. Thank you for making some of the best femininity content on TH-cam. 🌸
Thank you very much for this video. I will be 30 yo in two months. And after listening to you encouraging women to love being women is very refreshing... I grew up telling myself "I hate being a woman... I would have wanted to be a man... It was reflected by my demeanor. I acted like a guy and was extremely combative... Which isn't bad but I came accross as aggressive. Today I understand I shouldn't have been like that. I never really understood the negative impact these kind of thoughts had on me...
Yes to the video for mothering your man and how some men also crave it! Would love to hear you talk about this as I noticed it often creates a polarity problem too where the man starts leaning back and the woman is the giver. I love your content and it always helps me so much
Love this! Also you have the most stunning hair - can we get a hair tutorial please? 😍 I have the exact same curl pattern but I'm not so good at styling it
As a man, my opinion of this video is that there is way too much thinking. Attraction and getting along. That's all it takes.
Wow these are totally things that I have been working upon lately and even some points were brought up in our last fight between my husband and I
Hi Jasmyne! I love all of your rich content. I’ve even been researching and considering Orthodoxy. I would love to see a video on books you’ve read that have influenced your perspectives on femininity. I’ve already read Eve in Exile and absolutely loved it.
You and Joyce (Bindi Marc)are my favorites in this space. Thanks for your knowledge, time and willingness to share.
I wanted to clarify something:
Around 6:23, I said “Most men have a tough life, universally so compared to women of the same background.”
The way I worded that, it sounds like I believe men have had tougher lives than women overall. I don’t think men have had overall tougher lives than women… it’s impossible to quantify/evaluate how tough a man’s life is vs a woman’s life and I do not want to discount the challenges women face. I have also said in other videos that it’s impossible & unproductive to compare. So I just wanted to clarify that… I definitely should have worded that better. My apologies. Thank you so much for watching and I’ll make sure to do better ❤
we as men do overall have tougher lives, its harder for us to survive and live, its even hard for us to get sex from women or even get someone of the opposite sex.
We dont have society protecting us or helping us to survive.
You are revealing a lot of things women don't want revealed in this video. Very good, Very educational. Thank you and Thank you.
I feel called out by the "respect his space" segment 😭. This made me realize how annoying I must be. I have intense mothering energy, so I look forward to your video!
A big YES to a video on how to avoid mothering him. Can't wait!😄 P.S thank you for always dropping gems 💓💗
I'm a 19 year old man and a police man in education. I developed my masculinity a lot the past year. Achieved a good body, looksmaxed a lot, became focused on my goals (working a side hustle), became someone with self respect, no simping and improved my male aggression. Lastly, always stay humble!
Mainly watched Hamza and I was hoping to see self-improvement youtubers for young women as well and these actually exist LOL.
I watched some of your content and it nails every time. Listen to her girls! If you wanna find the right man.
🙏💛🌸
Who is Hamza
@@SairaSabir1443AH A rather controversial man who helps young men improve their life true self-improvement and masculinity. There are a few things I don't agree with him, but I still follow a ton of his advice which made me the man I am today.
@A sister in Christ im none of the pills
This is a whole needed ministry.
💖☺️
You are an amazing woman. You are speaking so freely and intelligently. Everything you mention is so well-thought-out. These comment are coming from a 78
Jasmine 😊Thankful for your intellectually soft feminine style is uniquely disciplining the love of our Savior from a feminine perspective 😊❤ I'm looking forward to the talk on "NOT Mothering your man"
This popped up as a recommended video. You've shared what I needed to learn what I was looking for. You've got a beautiful voice which soothe my nerve after a very long day. God knew what I wanted. Subscribed! ❤
Popped up as a recommended 4me 2
❤
#SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet
thanks for the video, jasmyne ♥️ could you PLEASE consider making a video about mortification? i have been told i should manifest my life, and that created a HUGE attachment to certain emotional states. i have become weak and cannot carry my cross properly 😥
Jasmyne, thanks so much for your videos. Whenever I watch your videos I can always feel this calm and peaceful and feminine vibe which cures my anxiety. It would be so good if you could do a video of the advices you would give to young girls who just finished uni and about to get into next stage in life:)
I have all these traits. Confident but demure, love dressing nice, receptive but not demanding. But I was instead taken advantage of. AGAIN and AGAIN. Life was extremely rough on me, more so than most men (or anyone) I know. So it's hard for a woman like me who has a rare set of harsh difficulties and forced to be more hard in my outlook, to find a man who is strong enough and wise enough to protect me. I don't feel I'm smarter than anyone but when it comes to life's tough realities, I've unfortunately had to mature a lot faster in some ways, and so I can't find anyone on the same wisdom level. I can't be someone's peaceful person anymore, I need someone who can give ME peace. Because it was stolen from me :,(
Hey! I feel what you’re going through and yes it can suck sometimes, but I promise you that life will get better and you’d definitely find a man who adores you and cares for you and understands your needs!
❤ you will meet the right person ❤
U have to change yourself and you will see things around you changing, I hope you will find him, you have to search at the good place. And dont worry, there will always be men above you
Great advice . You’re also so well spoken 💕
I love how you stress that its alright to find a man ❤
As a man, I can confirm that everything that the stunning girl said is correct.
You are so beautiful, Jasmyne!
I'm always so excited to see your face!😍🤗
Please do a video on nurturing Vs mothering a man
Your hair looks so beautiful today 💕
Thank you for your video, the tipps help alot 💗 could you do a video about how to be in your feminine energy when you work fulltime and need all those masculine traits. It's hard to switch sometimes
You need to do a video telling men how to find women who are like this. Where do we look? How should we prepare ourselves? Etc
Once she mentioned " God " , I subscribed !!!
Had to click straight away!! And girl you are glowing!🤩🤩Must be that mama glow😆💗
In terms of how you talk, that varies on culture. I used to think I needed to talk more softly until I married into a Nigerian family and saw that many Nigerian women are great examples of the biblical submission to the husband but still very much speak up and probably would be considered loud in the West. If you find yourself a strong man, I think you need to worry less about talking softly.
yesss. I'm nigerian and all my life people have called me loud. It made me hate the way I talk. I tried to change how I spoke, but I give up. Many people told me that they wish they can speak up like me, so I learned that it really depends on the person
This video isn’t really about how to be a Godly wife though, it’s about what men find attractive and generally speaking, men don’t find loud voices enchanting like soft voices
But overall love the video ❤️ thank you
Oh true, I could have worded that better in response to this video. I still think the softness is relative to your culture, that’s my point.
It goes back to how women should have a “gentle and quiet spirit” from scripture (1 Peter 3:4) 💞💞
@@bless_a_qtpeople will find something to complain about if they want to.
My coworkers make fun of my high-pitched voice for example. I thought maybe i should force my tone to be lower, but that would be uncomfortable on my vocalchords. Best to just let complainers complain, instead of wasting time on them.
I love this. I love that you used Twilight references. ❤
Your vocabulary is outstanding!!! I’ve had to look up a few words and I love that!
Thanks! 😃
She is quite eloquent 😭😍. Didn't hear a single filler. That's impressive ❤❤
Great video (: I’ll keep an eye out for the video idea mentioned “How to avoid mothering your husband”
Everything just got to be balanced. I guess we’re all tired of always always seeing contents that kinda tells us to alter true ourselves to attract certain men. I love being a woman and these advices do help.
I SO SO love that she made the distinction that a Christian wife should submit to her Christian HUSBAND. So many men are expecting for their girlfriend, side chick, Godless situationship etc to submit to them and I do not think that is a reasonable expectation. No judgement at all for these types of relationships I just find it unproductive when some men complain that women in that type of relationship are not submissive to them.
As a guy, everything you say is true, I assure you. Real men want real women, not the nonsense promoted via media
Thanks for the video! Can you cover how to tell if a man is sexually healthy (like how to tell if he will respect and be gentle with you, have a healthy relationship to sex... ) ? Western culture doesn't really tell you that as it doesn't see sex as a divine union...
I love this video! Please do a male version, or maybe a video along the lines of what makes a good man. Thank you so much x
I would literally listen non stop if you made a podcast!!!
Even if it was just the same content you have on TH-cam just without the video. I enjoy listening to podcasts better then watching videos:)
Just a suggestion 😊
Keep up the great work!!!!
Wow, thank you! I want to make Podcasts in the future ☺️
Thank you for yet another amazing video! I was wondering if you could do a video on Christian and birth control use or what are the best birth control options because so many cone with hormonal effects.
I hope you've been enjoying your time off with baby! Missed this content so much!!
Im down for the "how to not mother your man" video hahahaha
Your videos are so insightful, such a blessing
Well from this video, I realized I don't want my man to take the lead. I am fine with the way I am, having an open space for both parts to make suggestions and make plans
youre so well spoken and beautiful, thank you for the nuggets
Your energy is very sweet and beautiful.
Love this video! I think a defense of Bella Swan would be great! Yes she has some serious flaws, but in many ways she’s a better role model than the vast majority of female characters in media today.
“Confidence in your femininity”
I would give you a countless amount of likes if I could but sadly I can only give you one. God bless you ! You always make me smile and I love your strong softness . You are inspirational for many. I remember you mentioned that you wanted to make a video about balancing hormones and I know you recently gave birth and are busy but if you find the time and want to talk about it , it would help immensely.
I totally enjoyed this video Jasmyn, love the subtle background music, suits the theme of the video! love your carriage and presentation as well, you've earned a subscriber ❤
Thank you so much for this video Jasmyne, I feel like a lot of young girls are lacking this kind of information in their lives, (including myself) so I am incredibly grateful that you took the time to make this video! when you were on the topic of demure women, I was actually thinking of the character Bella before you brought her up, so I was surprised when you did! This was such a great video, and I think you should definitely make a video on how to avoid mothering your man if you were considering it already! I would love to see a video on how to find a man who is right for you and how to go about expressing your attraction to him, or how to tell if a guy likes you, modern dating is so confusing to me as a young female with Christian values, who is not even allowed to date at my age, and I don't want to be lost when my time actually comes to search for someone. Love you!
As a man it's interesting to hear some things that are obvious from my pov but you imply not to women, and also to notice ways in which modern culture discourages men from valuing some of these attributes too.
Regarding innocence/purity, I presume the same trait is seen by women in men who do not corrupt their sense of honour and principles etc.?
I often tell men that to have true honour in the old way, one must have a heart that is compassionate that can direct the acts of valour, which are otherwise seen as ugly machismo all too common in the modern era.
Yes women should be attracted to innocence in men although women aren’t typically attracted to coy/demure men… that would be odd
@@JasmyneTheodora Yeah it's a different expression but still pure of heart.
@@Blossom13745 what interview please?
Thank you so much for this video know i am definitely going to keep an eye out on how I am around him and how I talk to him but majority of this stuff I already do so this is really amazing and thank you recent subscriber here❤
New subscriber and I'm already obsessed with your content
Welcome!! 💜💜 thank you!!
I don't tend to dress really girly. But I have noticed my nature is to be modest, shy, tender and understanding. I get loud sometimes, but it's usually when I'm having fun or mad. And it takes a long time for me to get angry. I do have trouble accepting being treated like a lady. Not because I don't want to but because I'm not used to it. I try to allow them to do things for me because I know men love that and I love it to. Just unfamiliar with it.
Hello Jasmyne, you speak of being soft spoken. How do I express my displeasure about an issue without raising my voice and causing him to be defensive instead of hearing me out