I actually see it as good news Ella. People are realizing they aren't happy and want to move towards things that resonate with them on how to increase their happiness. It worries me more that people aren't even aware of it and aren't looking for ways to increase their personal happiness. If the 1 billion people that are suffering so much in our world all worked towards inner happiness what a shift in the world we would see. This is only a very small percentage that has found this talk. We so appreciate the time you took and I hope this conversation resonated with you how you can add happiness to your life every day. Have a beautiful day.
This was just on the recommended list because I've watched other tedx talks. Watched it all and I'm glad I did. I am going to do the 365 give challenge with my family!!
Inspiring speech yet being misunderstood by some commenters in here. We shouldnt take it in literal way, however, this could be an icing on the cake in terms of inspiration. Just saying though☺️
John Cassell how nice of you!! I also want to tell you that one simple, caring, comment like yours...can change someone’s whole day! Thank you for being so thoughtful and genuinely sweet! You have a great day John!
Me too John! Most people that find us are searching for happiness. SOme easy road that will suddenly change everything for them but happiness takes time to build inside yourself. It has to be a daily practice and make it a priority in your life every day. We send everyone love who is looking. Thank you so much for taking the time and wish you a beautiful day.
You are an awesome person!!! It will get better, start with a positive mindset while their are many negative things in the world, you should try to focus on the positive 🤟
If your not living for your purpose you'll not be happy, serving the self dwelling on the self over thinking about the self is all recipes for anxiety. God created to Love and serve.... that;s the key to life. I hope you find this truth and wake up knowing your loved and are just a little lost in the world because the world teaches us to be selfless and unhappy.
List of things that we can give/offer - A smile to a stranger - Seat to an oldie - Hug to someone sad - Good wishes to a patient - Food to needy - positive vibes to a negative person Please share more.
-mentor struggling youth -teach your trade to those struggling for free -lend an ear to those that need it -become an accountability partner for those improving their lives -spend time with elderly
Gratefulness is the secret to happiness. Once we all realize how incredibly lucky we are to even be alive on this planet and stop comparing ourselves to others, true happiness will find us
So agree "I love Pewds" It's part of giving - , gratitude, compassion, kindness. When we fill ourselves with gratitude it is the time we can fill others. Your happy and you bring others happiness. Thank you so much for the time with us and your wisdom. Have a beautiful day.
KpopTea But you need to ask yourself why. Maybe you DO know why you are unhappy but ask yourself what are you doing not to be?What are you doing to heal yourself? And most importantly remember that there’s a reason why you were born on a specific time at a specific place and not someone else. You have a purpose and you are important. There’s a reason you were put in this earth and not another person in your place. I know for me my purpose is to help. I love philanthropy, etc. What’s worse? Decide why are you important to this world
@@brodyszone157 we think that we could really be happy when we were kids right now, I'm 18, and this is what we all think probably you too, even when we would be 80 years old we would think we should've enjoyed in our 30's and 20's, but now i think we either enjoy our whole life or live our life miserably. We should cherish every moment. And ik to know that we came here finding this video, but personally i think we have to find it ourself.
Good news Vaibhav - you nailed it in your last comment. You can search for happy videos all you want but it comes from you. The great news is you are recognizing you aren't happy and you want something different. This is the great thing about our bodies and brains. If you need to get to that feeling go and give, be grateful. When you get a taste of how it feels you will want more. The more moments you get the more you want and the more you will know from the inside this is exactly what life is meant to be. You get to choose every single day you wake up. Choose happy. Say it to yourself in the mirror every morning. Happiness is a choice and if you need some help getting there go out and give. Then you have happy and meaning. COngrats you did make it and you are on your way. Every day we are all on our way.
@@vaibhavphuloria4059 one of my fears, ending up, not enyoying life. Then why do I life. You are 18 as well? How do you handle life? I am about your age and now have to choose what to study on university, whitout knowing who I am and what I want to be. So afraid of ending up in a job or a life, I don't like.
The reason why we are sad is because we always worry about the negative things and how to fix them rather than thinking about the positive things in life.
A man once told Buddha " I want happiness ." Buddha replied , " First , remove ' I ' ; that's ego. Then remove ' want ' ; that's desire. And now all you're left with is HAPPINESS. Saw this on the internet so gonna drop this here ✌
Free will and happiness is not necessarily controlling your mind , its being the witnessing presence behind understanding how your mind works. Observing your own mind if you will
@@joepronhaar5682 understanding is easy, applying it is the real challenge... Life throws various situations at you everyday where you get to witness your ego and desires through actions, thoughts and words (yours as well as others). How you react to others' words and actions is your ego, and how well you control your reactions and actions shows how well you have subdued your ego. Ego creates desires for gratification of mind and senses, through enjoyment of worldly pleasures. Realize that all pleasures are evanescent and a temporary illusion, and you will gradually rid yourself of attachments to worldly things and pleasures.
I’ve been going through it all. Surrounded by people who don’t even notice that I’m struggling emotionally. Decided to take a step and take care of me. I’m glad I found this. I pray things will change for each one of you including me. Whatever we’re going through, I believe things will get better. We will be happy. Hugs to all
We don't disagree iFerg but it is also the lens you choose to see the world right now. SO much good going on and so much good you can contribute to right now. It was time for the world to get quiet for a while. We hope you enjoy the peace and the beauty in the day today.
I miss the days when we didn’t need a reason to be happy. We just were. When every morning we would jump out of bed, ready to seize the day. Now we can barely muster the motivation to roll onto the floor. I know it’s cliché, but I wish we would know we were in the good old days when we were in the good old days.
I feel the same as you !! Do you guys also think that this whole new time with social media( Instagram, Twitter etc.) kind of destroyed our society? because I do I wish everything would be like 10-20 years ago!😕
@@flowerssmile 10 years ago it was already the same... Social media social media social media. It started in 2005 with MySpace and some others. In 2011 Twitter and Facebook were booming and people were already complaining about social media.
@@pereiraplaza222 I saw a show from the mid 60's with a panel of comedians, writers, producers. Norman Lear made a sadly negative comment about how fast the world was changing (for the worst.) ...'what is it going to look like in 20 years.' I'm so grateful I was born in the early '50's and can still remember those 'good old days'....no, those GREAT old days!
shoutout to everyone whos still trying to push through. dont ever give up on reaching your true happiness. you deserve it more than you would ever know.
If you are reading this, whatever you are going through, you will be okay. You are alive, and it matters. But first, let's have coffee together at Coffee with C.
I agree Coffee with C. We all matter. We just need to remember this and give easily from our heart. Have a beautiful day and thank you for watching and taking the time to comment.
Jacqueline Way My pleasure Jacqueline. Keep doing what you are doing. We need more people like you in this world, and it starts from influence and impact. Wherever you are in this world, I am supporting you in spirit.
@@CoffeeWithC That was beautiful thank you. I love I have your spirit and energy with me. Your 365give today! I'm in Canada and feel blessed to have so much love coming from all over the world. Have a beautiful day.
I've suffered from anxiety and depression since I was 8 years old, I'm now 18 nearly 19 and I still haven't figured life out. I'm still miserable, my relationship with myself and others are broken and all I seem to do is sit around and worry. I'm just waiting (rather impatiently) for the future. I'm still learning to live, not just "survive". This video is extremely inspiring to me, I want to make people happy and leave an impact on this world. I want to take the time to slow down and give. I'm always looking for my purpose, I think I just found it. Thank you so much !
Agree! I start my day every day with 3 things. One of my favorite ways to give is to send someone a gratitude note out of now where. It's truly healing!
I’m 29 and I’m trying to eliminate these negative emotions from my life by the time I’m thirty. If there’s one piece of advice I can give you, it’s this: Don’t drink away your emotions.
Small acts of kindness really do make you feel happy. As small as buying a friend a snack or giving someone a compliment. The looks on their faces are the best thing in the world!
I almost cried watching this, but I don't like to cry, so i hold my tears lol. I totally agree with what she said! One day I was coming back from school to my home, and It started raining softly, but a few seconds later, it started to get heavier. I had an umbrella so I wasn't worried about getting wet. But in my front, there were an old woman. I'm shy, so I was having some trouble asking her if she wanted to walk with me so she wouldn't get wet. Then, after thinking a lot, I just walked faster to get close to her, and I asked her. She just looked at me and gave me a smile and she said she didn't need it 'cause we were already in front of her house. I just helped her open her house and I said goodbye. Even though not helping much, her smile made my day and I felt useful. It made me realize even though I'm young I can help people and make them, and make me, happy simultaneously.
Searching for answers is the first step to having a happier and better life. Don’t beat yourself up too much. I know you still have it in you to keep fighting! ❤️
The silver lining is that suffering invites us to explore an alternative. Suffering is often a gateway to the spiritual path and ultimately a sense of inner peace.
I want to thank everyone who took the time and wrote something good to encourage someone they don't know to continue, it's so sad that all those who watched this video just like me, felt so vulnerable, lonely, anxious though they're still fighting
Every time I am struggling, even with the worst sorts of things, after acknowledging that whatever it is that sucks is a difficulty, j have been taught to make a gratitude list. It may sound silly, but it helps refocus your thinking . You can have gratitude just for breathing, if need be. Gratitude for love, now, past, or future. Gratitude for the opportunity to help another. It can be infinitesimally small, the thing for which you have gratitude. Build from there. I wish you health, happiness, and peace.
@@dtschuor459 I'll try to make it and I don't think it's silly at all 🌸 thank you so much for your kindness wish you all the beautiful things that the world can give 💞
@@methinks5310 hey i'm way better , life is not always roses and butterflies, but we learn , it's not easy to cope with everything at once but that's life i guess thank you so much for asking hope u're healthy mentally and physically
Thank you Wedookie I so appreciate such a wonderful comment. There are lots of people like me and everyone can do exactly what we have done and still do. It's inside all of us we just have to make it a priority in our life - a daily habit just like brushing our teeth. Give it a try you may just surprise yourself. That comment was your first 365give! You made my day and made me happy. Thank you.
as a teenager i miss the days when i wasn't insecure about my body, didn't have anxiety and stress, but instead used to live everyday without caring about anything. to anyone reading this, just so that you know we are in this together. life's too short for all the sadness, remember you only live ONCE. so make sure it's worth living :)
this too shall pass....try to make it a point of always having positive thoughts. One small positive thought can change your days! I found a lot of help writing a gratitude journal, I wrote something I was grateful for no matter how small...soon I focused on the positive and destroyed the negative thoughts. I will pray for you!
@@rosilatrailera glad to hear i'll be in your prayers. i'll pray for your betterment as well stranger. proud of you to be able to fight off those feelings. keep going forward every single day bc you're way stronger than you think :)))))
Don’t get me wrong but sometimes giving too much can dig you into a deeper hole. I suffer from depression & anxiety. I find happiness in giving to everyone around me, seeing smiles on their faces. Sometimes I give too much, more than I should actually. I found myself getting taken advantage of by my closest friend & family which drained me emotionally but for some reason I still find every reason to give to everyone around me. I want to find happiness within myself rather than constantly giving to keep myself happy.
That we understand. Soometimes when we give of ourselves to much it takes away from giving to ourselves. I have this problem all the time. Don't take the happiness out of giving by not keeping clear boundries as well. Giving isn't the only "pillar" of happiness. Taking caare of yourself, our bodies, getting out in nature and gratitide are also so impoartant. Why not take some time to give to yourself. Finding the happiness from inside will give so much to the world around you and others. Sometimes the best way to give back to the world. Thank you for watching Mekenzie and the really thoughful comment. We wish you a day filled with happiness and giving for you.
It's important to find a balance, as with everything in life. We can not live with out water, however too much water can kill us. I often encourage people to give only what they can afford to. It can even be the smallest things/ little moments. Holding the door for someone, compliments, a hug, telling a joke, even a smile. When I'm having a bad day or week sometimes I just count the smiles exchanged, appreciating that me and someone else brightened each other's day. Costs nothing but a moment and can be very effective!
@@catl2223 So agree Cat. The reason we say 1 give, 1 day at a time - so simple a 3-year old can do it. Just creates the balance and flow of positive energy and feelings of both the giver and receiver. Thank you so much for such a great comment and for watching. It means so much to Nic and I. Have a beautiful day.
Am i the only one who literally searched for this at 3AM while on quarantine.. Edit 1 week later: hey brave one.. someday, you'll meet the happiest version of you.. and it will be worth it. don't give up, okay?
Thank you, Lucy, for watching and I hope is such a wonderful way to look at the talk. It's hope for you and hope for us all. I am so sorry you are feeling desperate. I wish you receive the benefits of giving when you reach out to others. When you give you will be surprised how you will also receive. I wish you hope and happiness.
So agree but they don't have to. We have just taught them well. Kids are resilient and when we teach them skills that make them happy they run with it. They want to feel good we just have to teach them how. Thank you for taking the time to watch. Nic and I so appreciate your time. Have a beautiful day.
Winner of a video, I been tryin to find out about "how do you find happiness in a book?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Soyailey Simplex Sovereignty - (do a search on google ) ? It is a smashing one of a kind guide for discovering how to become successful and happy minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my m8 got great success with it.
@Gpooky You need to keep waiting, especially since you're 15. There are things to come that you'll definitely want to see and experience that will come when you are older.
I so agree Ronald. the reason I took the time to get beyond my fear of speaking to the world and try to help people understand how they can get back to the reason we are here on this planet. We are meant to feel happy and we have gotten lost somewhere along the way. Happiness is just a feeling. What makes life worth truly living is purpose and meaning. We are here to have a meaningful life filled with experiences that create feelings of happiness. Giving is just one of those ways to create both. The feelings of happiness and meaningful life. The fun is the journey. When you give it makes the journey remarkable. The people you meet, the way you connect to nature, our planet and animals. It opens your eyes to this amazing gift we have been given. Start by giving to yourself - start the day with gratitude for another day to find your path to happiness. You are looking for it the reason you are here. Start giving yourself grace, and love. When you find it in you - it will overflow to everyone around you. Have a beautiful day.
Amen Splash! We so agree. We all have a purpose here on our planet and we have to see past what's in front us and find what is within us. beautiful comment and thank you for taking the time to watch. We so appreciate your time.
I was depressed as I scrolled through TH-cam to find a video that will “Make me happy” Instead I found this ted talk, and learned how to make others happy. And I’m happy now. I thank this kind woman so much for sharing this with us.
I am honoured thank you so much. So many as you heard are suffering from depression. You re not alone. take some time to truly learn and understand about your body chemistry. That balance I spoke about between cortisol and your happy hormones. We all have the ability to shift these physically and the mental you need to work on. It takes time but we can retrain our brains to look at the world differently. Giving will get you out. Create social connections. Make relationships with others that feel the same way. This is what you need. Surround yourself with positive people that want to work towards a better happier world and it will help to create the physical and mental shift you need. Thank you for taking the time and most of all this was your 365give today. A positive comment goes a long way t omake another happy. You just did that for Nic and I. Have a beautiful day.
Thank you MN I am honoured. When you are depressed you are just stuck in your head. The best way to get out of your head is to live from your heart. When we give to others this is the shift that happens. But you have to practice this every day. Our brains are like a computer that just goes back to playing the same program over and over again. You have to retrain your brain to look and act differently in our world. I am so glad I gave you some happiness and by you watching you gave e happiness. That easy. Have a beautiful day.
I feel like I’m at an all time low right now. And anyone who’s watching this and sees this and feels the same just know if I can stay strong so can you. I love you♥️
Love that!!!! You just touched my heart Master Lights. Thank you for taking the time to watch and that stunning comment! It will be my new personal mantra. Have a beautiful day!
One of the greatest gifts my parents gave me and my siblings was teaching us to be empathetic, kind humans. The second was to constantly remind us to not just be siblings, be friends because's we're going to need each other for the rest of our lives. I'm 53 and my brothers and sisters are still my best friends. Thanks for the great video.
Holly, I continue to say the same thing to my kids. I am one of 6 kids and I cherish my siblings to this day. I couldn't do life without them. They were my biggest fans while I worked on this talk. My kids are all adopted and I tell them all the time what a gift it is we were all brought together and one day - when they stop fighting over the smallest toy lol - that they will be each other's biggest fans. I hope one day they will look back the same way we both do and appreciate what they have learned and how much they mean to each other. Thank you for watching and taking the time to leave us a message. It means so much to us to hear from so many around the world. Have a wonderful day!
Thanks for watching Gillybloggs. It can drive you a little crazy! It's all about balance. If you take a look a few comments ago a gentleman made a great comment - "This is how the internet and social media can make the world a better place" We just have to use social for the good. If give - then we share it on social - it will continue the ripple that can make the world happier. It's been remarkable for sharing this message and the change we are already seeing. Thank you for taking the time to watch and great comment. Great thought! Maybe share some of your good on social today and it will make you happy! Have a great day.
I think I know now, the reason why giving/helping others makes us happy is because giving shifts the focus from us to others, and lifts the pressure that we have been putting on ourselves. Wow Jacqueline, great Ted Talk. Kudos !
Raeko you have a chance to be happy every single day you wake up. We all do it's just a matter of focusing and understanding how you can create it in your life. We all look to the outside world for happiness and you will never get it there. Happiness is a feeling you can get any time - the beautiful part of being human. You get to choose every day. Giving is just a way to hack your brain to feel any time you choose. Just think of giving as the life Hack to Happy every day. Once you get the feeling hold on to it and run with it. Thank you so much for watching. Nic and I so appreciate it. Have a beautiful day!
Thank you Mad on Sport. Good news no faking it on this one. Giving will really make you happy. I so appreciate you watching and hope you will join our community on our website. We would be delighted to have you and hear your stories of giving. Have a great day!
Our pursuit of happiness is a sign that we are about to take the first step into bringing ourselves back up again. Let us always see the bright side, life is full of ups and downs so just trust the process and I'm sure we will have something to learn in every challenges that brings sadness into us. Great informative video!
Today morning I have to search “How to be happy when you are surrounded by your family”. Listening to the talk while reading the comments make me burst into tears.
Thant was your 365give today and AMEN ReLLakaT. If we all came from that place, those words of love, happiness and connection - what a world it would be! Thank you so much for taking the time. That comment just made me so happy.
@@jacquelineway hey you're so welcome. I just wanted to help. Been happier since this video. Been making dinners for my girlfriend and 2 year old daughter, being more present and helpful at home
Being diagnosed with depression and anxiety at a young age and know more about it now at 27 years old has been a hard journey. Seeing others that can cope with things better and not get so down has always been a envy of mines but knowing that I am not alone or haven’t been alone on this helps me to know there is hope and help’
Sending you lots of love and strength in your pursuit of happiness, it comes from within, practice being happy even if it feels fake for a while and it will come to you eventually. We are too used to practice being sad and negative, it isn't easy to be positive most of the times and enjoy the little things in life but it can be done with practice, I am still working on it myself. In the meantime I'd like to invite you to check my relaxation videos which I hope can also bring you some comfort and peace in an anxious moment. Peace x
I really loved how she's educated her son to give one thing back to this planet and it's people for 365 days ,it's rare actually to find parents like those incredible ones ,children derive everything from their environment and their society ,all of your negative and even positive adjectives and characteristics are totally emanated from your family .unfortunately not every child is way too fortune to be encompassed by such a successful and achievers people .
One day I walked passed a homeless men and I bought him something to eat and a hot coffee. I placed it next to him while he slept and left… I still hoped he ate and drank it and felt great that day. ❤️
Hey you! Yes you! I’m glad you searched this up or clicked on this video because it means you want to get better. You can get their, we need to try and on,y then will we succeed. I know I’m a stranger but I’m going through some similar stuff, talk to people, learn things and take action! ❤️
I have been living with the same problems since I was 15 so I am very jealous of you right now. If I could be 14 again, I would NEVER spend my days fearing I couldn't achieve or learn something and then not even trying I would give myself as much time as I need to accomplish anything I want and never procrastinate again. I'd never develop my bad relationship with food, i wouldn't avoid my problems I would face them as soon as they occurred and by now, i would've accomplished everything that I've been trying to do since I was 14.
@@bubbabubba6427 by saying social media I mean apps like Instagram twitter, facebook ,snapchat etc... I don't use any of them (it's almost been a year since I stopped using them) I only watch TH-cam which I use for only like 30 to 40 minutes per day 💁♀ bro it really helps when u stop using those time wasting apps... Ive started focusing on things which are more important for me and I feel alot better and happy now 😀
Im a full time college student with a full time job, I feel so tired and exhausted all the time, but I know no one can’t resonate with my feeling and probably no one cares enough to. It’s hard to be happy and positive sometimes when I have to work everyday. Sometimes, I wonder where and when the end is.
I know what you mean. I have been in your shoes. I graduate in November and I feel so proud because I had to do it and now I am finish. I know how you feel but when you have accomplished the goal at the end you will be so happy. Exercise and eat properly. It give you more energy and positivity. I also live on dorm and was very active involve in activities. Those activities have me joy because I would connect with friends and dorm mate. It does get better keep pushing forward 💪. You can do it.
I didn't start the video, but I want to say that everyone is an awesome person no matter what. Thank you for being who you are, thank you for being here, thank you for being the person who does things that deserve recognition but don't always do it for recognition. Thank you, for being happy. Have a blessed day, Mahalo Nui, from Hawaii
It's just digging in to find our "humanity" and letting it shine. Thank you for being a giver I'm glad you have learned the secret to "happy". Have a lovely day and thank you for watching. It means the world to me.
Stratis, I am so sorry for some reason my reply did not get posted. Thank you so much for your lovely comment and taking the time to watch. Obviously, you are one of "those humans" you talk of. I am so thrilled you understand how good giving makes you feel! It is a little selfish, isn't it! This little happiness secret we have tapped into! Thank you again and have a really happy day!
Thank you actsrv9. Nic and I so appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment. We hope you will be inspired to find a way to give today. Have a happy day!
I typically asked TH-cam how to be happy and this video popped out. I'm so happy I found it . It really gave me hope because I'm in the darkest days of my life . So thank you we need more beautiful souls like you.
I am so glad you found us as well. Sometimes the perfect things come up when we need it the most. Remember you are never alone. We all go through dark days and weeks. What I love about giving on those tough times is it gets me out into the community, it makes me feel like I am making a difference in the world - it gives my life meaning. That's what we all want at the end of the day. That being here - our life meant something. So go out today. Find a way to give that works for you. Make a commitment for 1 week - then another until it becomes part of who you are. It already is. You will then always know a way to get out of the dark days. Thank you for watching I am so happy it touched you. You have just truly touched me. Thank you. 💙💙🌎
@@jacquelineway thank you for the reply . I made my 3 teenage daughters watch your video as well and they came with great ideas . Again thank you and hope to encounter more beautiful souls like you 💜💙
I did not search “how to be happy” but I watch lots of TED talks so it was recommended. I actually am happy with the direction of where I am going, baby steps towards my master’s degree in Germany and I have a girl whom I would chop my leg off for. Nothing is more comforting than being beside her.
The best show i've ever seen!❤ Giving makes your every day happier! That's it. As for me, i help stray animals, cats and dogs. I love them. I love doing it. When you look at the grateful dog's eyes - nothing can be better.❤
Thank you, Shoto. I so appreciate your kind words. Your 365give for today. We all do our best. Not perfect - just our best. Showing respect for others work is such a beautiful way to give. You truly made my day and I am so grateful. Have a lovely day.
My mom taught me to offer a snack, tea or atleast water to whoever knocked our door. Its Indian culture like God has come disguised as guest ! A postman, help at home, laundry guy, plumber, friend etc. Yes 365 is possible for as many in lifetime..Thanks for spreading this
I love that Reen. Your Mother is a good woman to pass on such a wonderful message. I have not had the privilege to travel to India but my Mother was born there and she has told me how kind and welcoming you all are. Yes 365give is possible for everyone for a lifetime. Imagine if we all treated people that came to our door with such kindness. The ripple effect of giving would open so many doors for so many. Thank you for sharing your giving with us. We will share it! Have a wonderful day!
When I was young the things that made me unhappy were more self-focused, the things that weren't going well for me in my life. Now that i'm older, the problems in my own life might still make me vaguely unhappy from time to time. But it's the suffering of others that really tears me apart. There's just so much tragedy and suffering in this world that it's hard for me to process and still be happy.
It literally breaks my heart that I’m here having to watch this and relearning life completely. I’ve been depressed the last half of this year. I don’t wish this on anybody. I don’t remember what being happy feels like. I miss the old me! What sucks is no one even notices my energy isn’t the same. I don’t go anywhere anymore I just work and go home. I’m ok at work but my job is stressful and it’s no help really for a real escape. But when I’m home I’m alone so I’m always in my head and it’s the worst place to be!
I’ve been watching TEDx Talks for the past couple of days. My challenge for everyday is to watch a new video of theirs and jot down important notes from the video. I am learning new things everyday and that is making me get through my anxiety and depression. I loved this video by Jacqueline Way because giving actually does make you feel better and gives you “helpers‘ high”. Starting from today, I will be giving back, one day at a time. Thank you Jacqueline and keep being you.
You're not alone. I'll join the challenge with you. I used to watch Tedx talks out of desperation while living with PTSD, depression and anxiety and living in a homeless shelter with my children. I wanted to do everything I could to elevate myself and liberate myself. That was 6 years ago. Things are much better now, but I'm going to challenge myself to again watch Tedx talks everyday and apply what I learn. Thank you and best wishes for a beautiful life. Everyday. 💝
Thanks the lecturer! To everyone who is wanting to be happy: please tell yourself that “I love yourself and I completely accept myself! Name, I love you , I want you to be happy and I would love to do everything to make you happy.” Actually we ourselves are the person whom we can totally trust in and rely on. We can satisfy all our needs. It’s much better to get happiness from ourselves rather than requiring or begging from others. Others will never love us as we do. Have a great day!
It's that easy Lamya. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and the lovely comment. Nic and I hope it has inspired you to give today. Have a beautiful day.
Hello I am so sorry if this sounds weirds but you wrote such a nice and wonderful comment on here and I like your comment. I can tell you're a very positive person. If it's okay with you I'd love to be friends.
It's better we search how to be happy instead of our family searching funeral homes. We'll get through this peeps, stay strong, stay humble, stay grateful.... Or atleast try🤙❤️
I love giving compliments, advice, and doing a kind thing towards others. As a nurse, I try to put a smile on my patience. For Christmas I give my coworkers something I made. This year they are getting a scarf. It really feels good
This video is brilliant. I’ve been so selfish in my alcohol addiction, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Focus less on my own problems and more on helping others. I think it’s the missing puzzle piece to a win-win situation.
Alex grey and Tool are my favorite. So naturally I gravitated towards you. I also am a recovering alcoholic of 15 years. I finally quit about 6 months ago. I feel so much better and I WILL never waste time again on alcohol in this lifetime. You got this! I want to see you next to me in the sober life.
Jacq, had been genuinely committed to a life of giving long before Nic came into the picture. I met her in 1998 and her dedication to effecting positive change in the lives of those less fortunate was already acutely deployed. Celebrating the best in humanity and nurturing it in youth is bound to inspire generations of budding philanthropists and conscientious global citizens. Congratulations Jacqueline on illustrating the essence of the how the act of giving to others is in fact, the ultimate gift we give to ourselves.
Thank you my dear friend. Just remember you gave me my favourite daily give the night before this talk! Peace and quite! Thank you for your ongoing support and love always.
this is wht I actually wanna do in my lyf.. i m an Indian n live in india.. my country is growing like nvr before.. but at the same time there are so ooo many people under poverty line.. when I see some of them begging specially the older ones I feel like crying.. i m in my final year of engineering and all these pictures always hit my mind. so I decided finally to not to go and get placed in a software company and now I m studying to be in the civil administrative service to be in the system.. to be in a higher position so dat actually I could do smthing for all these poor people.. this is my dream and passion to change the face of poverty.. people call me mad coz i think too much.. bt i don't. . n your video makes me happy nw and more determined
Hi Soumya. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I didn't say this in my talk but when I started 365give I had a really big dream. I wanted to change the world. Not just one part but the whole world. I wanted it to be a happier more peaceful place for my children and generations to come. It broke my heart every day all the challenges from poverty, climate change, animal abuse that was going on. I didn't know how I was going to change the world but I knew I had to try. I had to do my part even if it made a little dent, made the world a little better. 365give hasn't been easy. We don't have a lot of funding, I have been told again and again I'm crazy. But I kept getting this message that I had to keep going. Then I got a chance to do this TED Talk and the world has opened their arms to us. I see and feel the hope from all over the world. People want to make a change. People want our world to be a better happier place. No one every said it would be easy but it's people like you that are willing to commit that will make a difference. Don't every give up. Always remember if you can change even 1 persons world it will ripple and ripple. You bring me hope that there are people all over the world willing to take the chance and make the commitment to make our world a better place. Thank you. Thank you for watching and sharing. You made me so happy today and determined to continue our work. Have a lovely day.
The good news Ajit when you are doing "goog" for others they don't think you're so mad. Everyone gets it. You gain respect and honour because so many wish they could or would do something and they don't. Too busy, not enough time, money or resources. But we can all use our expertise in our life to help solve the big problems. It's never just one person but a dedicated group of individuals that want to change the world. We just can't be bystanders - we all have to participate on some level. Thank you for watching and I love your comment. I so agree you can't give a "f^%$" what people think of you or nothing ever changes. Have a great day!
@soumya I did some activism myself in the past, pretty sincere and for pretty long, and got into big trouble because I didn't "respect" some corrupt local politician or local cop. I didn't have the nerve and energy to continue. I hope you do. India is full of apes going on aggressive power-trips every day. They also hold grudges for years or decades. Social reform is *not* easy from within the system - the system designers designed it to keep it subverted. See Kejriwal for instance. He's the toughest cookie yet and even he has crumbled. That's because too many people are evil inside and apathetic outside the system. Be prepared for a lot of personal heartache and depression. OTOH, if you do well in your engineering job or maybe go abroad you can make enough money to start and fund an NGO which will not make a noticeable change to the whole system, but will be a great change for those that it affects. Please reconsider joining the system. It's not for engineering types, it is a bunch of alpha male apes conditioned by years of psychopathy. People calling you "mad" is irrelevant. The facts are that the system does not allow reform in its present form and unless you are someone like Gandhi, I doubt you can change it. Better not be a part of it and have blood on your hands. Better to work as an NGO outside the system. No blood, just small joys. Changing it all at once or even a sizeable amount, from inside, is much tougher than climbing Everest. Much much more.
well said sir.. bt i guess it doesn't matter whether I m an engineer or an arts student.. today engineering students are doing great in civil services. but what u said is exactly true. n i m also not skeptical about the multidimensional career now.. 😊 now I m into it so let me be throughly into it.. well according to Steve jobs I m just joining d dots.. imagine a bunch of corrupt ppl at one side and a bunch of engineers or any other experts who actually wanna bring a change at the other side..great fun. well m nt saying dat m going to b d prime minister within years.. but I as a normal human is finding my ways or just call it joining the dots😊
Thank you so much Todd. That was your 365give for today! Really kind words - thank you. We can all practice it every day. Just imagine what the world would be like - all 7 billion people. I am thrilled we have touched you. We wish you a wonderful day and thank you for watching.
Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.
People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.
@@tianalucas8147 That's very correct And that is why most of them end up losing they moneyDon't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before investing. Learn and get the knowledge first before investing..
@@slimejohn808 Investment is the quickest path to financial freedom, the rich stays rich by spending like the poor yet investing! While the poor stays poor by spending like the rich yet not investing.
I'm watching this for someone I love who has been suffering from depression for 11 years. I've known him for 5 years and it breaks my heart that nothing seems to be able to take him out of his deep darkness inside.
I had a few fights with my friends recently, and it has given me so much anxiety and depression. I always worry if I'm the wrong one, if I should've never stood up for myself, never spoken about my feelings. But now, I am making so much effort and progress in making myself happy. Everyone said I am in no rights to give if I couldn't even love myself. But if my happiness comes from giving, isn't that self-love as well? My dream is to help everyone who comes across me to smile, I want those who talks with me to leave with a smile. Giving is not only helping each other, but also helping ourselves. I will show my friends how strong I have become.
Agree Yung it was crazy. The joy of live recordings. We lost a sound bite and had to re-record it after the talk. It never works well but we didn't want people to miss that little piece about how your brain and body are positively affected. I hope you were able to get the message pass this. Thanks for taking the time. Have a beautiful day.
Thanks for watching Hilary. And it is all the simple. Show the world kindness - help your neighbours. WIth all that we have going on in our world who knew it could be this simple. But we all need to do it. Not just me and Nic but the other 7 billion people on our planet. We really appreciate your time watching and commenting Hilary. Have a great day!
Thank you for taking the time Citrus and the lovely comment - your 365give today. It is truly simple and what a world it would be - a happy one. Have a beautiful day.
I am hoping this is a good thing! If our talk touched your heart than we are truly humbled Marta. Thank you for watching and we hope it will inspire you to take a look around your world today and find one small way to give. 🙏🌎💙
This is the lesson which my mom taught me ,when i was a kid .she had no idea at that time ,that this was a huge concept .But thanks to my mom , i am a happy adult,i love to give ,actually it became my main thing in my life,.
This really makes me ask myself over my self-pity and bitterness to the world: "what have i give to the world today?" the answer is NOTHING. I tried to earn money, earn respect, earn love but never a second I asked myself what have I give today? Thank you for the reminder !
Service to others is the key to happiness. I tend to turn within and forget this. Thank you for reminding me and all listening, that happiness is indeed the magic that comes when we are kind, empathetic and give of ourselves to others with no expectations. ❤️
I read this the other day, 'You are under no obligation to remain the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or even a day ago. You are here to create yourself, continuously.' ~ Prof. Feynman It gave me a new perspective for ahead. I also recommend reading about fixed mindset and growth mindset.
What they don't say is that when you change, relationships can change. You have to want to transform so much you are willing to sacrifice the old and build new.
@@woodspriteful @Jennifer E. Nordstrom That's a good point! It has come to me after some introspection after posting this comment 10 months back. I sacrificed my previous interests for growth. Certainly when you change your weaknesses vanquish but your strengths change as well.
I know with the development of the world today, people are likely to find it difficult to be truly happy. They need to face with stress, pressure, disappointment, sadness,....every single day coming from their work. their studies, their family, their friends, their colleagues, etc. However, Jacqueline Way have given me and maybe a lot of other people a totally different view. Being happy is not difficult. It's simple and easy that even a kid can do. This is GIVING and SHARING. When we are willing to give, to share, to help others, we not only make them happy but also make us feel warm and extremely happy. Our actions also make the world a better place, a happier place, a livable place. Let's start with the simplest thing. Be kind, be helpful to a stranger, to animals, to plants. And you will realise that we are the happiest person in the world.
When I was a teen my entire extended family (about 20 of us at that time) showed up on Christmas Eve at a church members door with presents in our hands bc she could not afford Christmas for her kids. I can’t begin to describe the pure joy & overwhelming emotions that brought ME to be there to do that. It blessed me more than it blessed them. I’m sure of it. I have noticed throughout my life that I am most fulfilled when I am in a role of giving or helping others. There is nothing like it. This lady is my hero. ❤
After reading some comments i get the courage to admit that yes i am sad.. I am pushing myself from a long time now to be happy but i am not happy.... Now i am accepting that i am sad i am feeling horrible, instead of avoiding it.I will cry now i will cry whole night but i promise next day i am not gonna let affect myself anymore! The journey of happiness begins from here... I will keep updating. Sending you all blessings!:)
Thanks for sharing your view. As a matter of fact we are not designed to be happy all the time. Life needs expansion and we need happiness for this. Just take a start. There is not enough darkness to cover up the dimest of the dimest light.
i think giving makes us happy because it makes us realize we are already happy. it shifts us from having a lack mindset to one of abundance; of happiness.
I searched "how to be happy" coz I've reached a point where I don't know how to do that anymore.. and I just want it so much.. and I'm so glad I found this. I wish it popped on my recommendations before but I guess better late than never 🤷🏻♀️
You don't need a lot to be happy. An attitude of gratitude will always make you happy. You may not have all that you'd hope for, but you can still be appreciative of what you have. Gratitude is a constant reminder of how fortunate you are to have all that you've been blessed with. Gratitude will always find a reason for you to be thankful. Ingratitude does the opposite. It's a constant reminder of what you don't have. This often leads to stress and depression. If you want to be happier in life, find more things that you are appreciative of, both great or small.
Hi Brigitte I just want you to know that there are SO many people out there that love you like myself even if I don’t know you personally your life is important to everyone
Thank you so much, Priya. Thank you for the compliment. I am just a one person trying to make a little sent in the world and I am humbled by all the support. I appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment. It inspired me to stay on our mission.
You are so welcome. I so love you said this. "Life light" such great words Sirish. Thank you for watching and I wish you a wonderful day filled with light.
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when you are affected by all things that happen to your life and you choose to be silent even it torn your heart into pieces. Can't imagine that I will be here at the point in my life where I will search for how to be happy.
Someone I know just recently took her own life. She was young, beautiful and traveled the world but felt no sense of true purpose. I believe it is only when we get our eyes off ourselves and help someone/something else that we find true purpose and the will to survive. Many times in my life I’ve been extremely depressed and hurting but I always think of my animal rescue and all those I help and that gives me reason to go on.
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It breaks my heart that almost everyone who watched this video needed to search up how to be happy. 🥺💕
I actually see it as good news Ella. People are realizing they aren't happy and want to move towards things that resonate with them on how to increase their happiness. It worries me more that people aren't even aware of it and aren't looking for ways to increase their personal happiness. If the 1 billion people that are suffering so much in our world all worked towards inner happiness what a shift in the world we would see. This is only a very small percentage that has found this talk. We so appreciate the time you took and I hope this conversation resonated with you how you can add happiness to your life every day. Have a beautiful day.
This was just on the recommended list because I've watched other tedx talks. Watched it all and I'm glad I did. I am going to do the 365 give challenge with my family!!
Inspiring speech yet being misunderstood by some commenters in here. We shouldnt take it in literal way, however, this could be an icing on the cake in terms of inspiration. Just saying though☺️
I was 30 seconds away from shoving a knife in my throat I’m not kidding idk I just idk how it got like this
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I want to give respect to everyone who watched this who knows they’re not happy and wants to make a change in themselves.
John Cassell how nice of you!! I also want to tell you that one simple, caring, comment like yours...can change someone’s whole day! Thank you for being so thoughtful and genuinely sweet! You have a great day John!
Me too John! Most people that find us are searching for happiness. SOme easy road that will suddenly change everything for them but happiness takes time to build inside yourself. It has to be a daily practice and make it a priority in your life every day. We send everyone love who is looking. Thank you so much for taking the time and wish you a beautiful day.
thank you. This shows one simple comment can change a persons perspective and mood.
@@nunyabidnazz2311 Agree!
Respect my friend
I just want to feel happy again. Like when I was a kid I woke up happy now I roll out of bed looking for an excuse to keep living. Wish I cld just be.
Yes, exactly.
You are an awesome person!!! It will get better, start with a positive mindset while their are many negative things in the world, you should try to focus on the positive 🤟
Spoke my words
You got this! ❤❤❤
If your not living for your purpose you'll not be happy, serving the self dwelling on the self over thinking about the self is all recipes for anxiety. God created to Love and serve.... that;s the key to life. I hope you find this truth and wake up knowing your loved and are just a little lost in the world because the world teaches us to be selfless and unhappy.
List of things that we can give/offer
- A smile to a stranger
- Seat to an oldie
- Hug to someone sad
- Good wishes to a patient
- Food to needy
- positive vibes to a negative person
Please share more.
-mentor struggling youth
-teach your trade to those struggling for free
-lend an ear to those that need it
-become an accountability partner for those improving their lives
-spend time with elderly
Help people realise that sadness is what we create not what exists
A similar version of what the guy abive said
Kind words
Positive vibes to a negative person...that's 👍
Give our time. Listen to him/her. Sympathise with people. Send silent gratitudes everyday before you sleep, who have helped you, made you smile etc...
Gratefulness is the secret to happiness. Once we all realize how incredibly lucky we are to even be alive on this planet and stop comparing ourselves to others, true happiness will find us
So agree "I love Pewds" It's part of giving - , gratitude, compassion, kindness. When we fill ourselves with gratitude it is the time we can fill others. Your happy and you bring others happiness. Thank you so much for the time with us and your wisdom. Have a beautiful day.
This. 100% agree
Couldn't of said it better myself, spot on 😊
I’m not lucky to be on this planet, I’m unlucky. I wish I could give up my place to someone else
KpopTea But you need to ask yourself why. Maybe you DO know why you are unhappy but ask yourself what are you doing not to be?What are you doing to heal yourself? And most importantly remember that there’s a reason why you were born on a specific time at a specific place and not someone else. You have a purpose and you are important. There’s a reason you were put in this earth and not another person in your place. I know for me my purpose is to help. I love philanthropy, etc. What’s worse? Decide why are you important to this world
For anyone who sees this message, I can’t change your past, but I wish you a happy day :)
Thank you i needed this sm💕😭
Love you ❤
Thanks i needed that
blessings to you and yours
Thank you. I seem incapable of having a happy life.
Can't believe I am so desperate that I searched how to be happy
Same oof
Me too:( like actually
YOUSSEF MAMDOUH me too😔
Me too
Me too
5.5M people watched this video to know how to be happy. An undeniable reality of this era.
searching for happy means you are not happy at the moment. Searching something is a neverending process. be happy at present.
but lets be honest... we've all been sad and searched for ''how to happy''
3 years later it's now 8.1M
I’m clicking on it at 8.5M that’s damn near the whole world
@@شوفشويلهيه
Yeah, we live in a society where we have to seach how to be happy. Congrats, we made it.
Yep I'm here too trying to remember what it is to b happy just happy. I'm 38 and forgot
@@brodyszone157 we think that we could really be happy when we were kids right now, I'm 18, and this is what we all think probably you too, even when we would be 80 years old we would think we should've enjoyed in our 30's and 20's, but now i think we either enjoy our whole life or live our life miserably. We should cherish every moment. And ik to know that we came here finding this video, but personally i think we have to find it ourself.
Good news Vaibhav - you nailed it in your last comment. You can search for happy videos all you want but it comes from you. The great news is you are recognizing you aren't happy and you want something different. This is the great thing about our bodies and brains. If you need to get to that feeling go and give, be grateful. When you get a taste of how it feels you will want more. The more moments you get the more you want and the more you will know from the inside this is exactly what life is meant to be. You get to choose every single day you wake up. Choose happy. Say it to yourself in the mirror every morning. Happiness is a choice and if you need some help getting there go out and give. Then you have happy and meaning. COngrats you did make it and you are on your way. Every day we are all on our way.
I am searching for happiness in my pain wow 🙂
@@vaibhavphuloria4059 one of my fears, ending up, not enyoying life. Then why do I life. You are 18 as well? How do you handle life? I am about your age and now have to choose what to study on university, whitout knowing who I am and what I want to be. So afraid of ending up in a job or a life, I don't like.
The reason why we are sad is because we always worry about the negative things and how to fix them rather than thinking about the positive things in life.
You know me
That's a great idea.
Wow so true. Ty
Seems like inherent optimism bias and terror management theory will always help regardless of ideologies such as antinatalism based on consent.
thats a catch all that doesn't apply to as many people as you think
A man once told Buddha
" I want happiness ."
Buddha replied ,
" First , remove ' I ' ; that's ego.
Then remove ' want ' ; that's desire.
And now all you're left with is
HAPPINESS.
Saw this on the internet so gonna drop this here ✌
But must I therefore become a Tibetan meditating monk?🤔 How do I realize this practicly?
Free will and happiness is not necessarily controlling your mind , its being the witnessing presence behind understanding how your mind works. Observing your own mind if you will
@@joepronhaar5682 understanding is easy, applying it is the real challenge... Life throws various situations at you everyday where you get to witness your ego and desires through actions, thoughts and words (yours as well as others). How you react to others' words and actions is your ego, and how well you control your reactions and actions shows how well you have subdued your ego. Ego creates desires for gratification of mind and senses, through enjoyment of worldly pleasures. Realize that all pleasures are evanescent and a temporary illusion, and you will gradually rid yourself of attachments to worldly things and pleasures.
Buddha is a gangsta 🤙
Thanks for your answers!
It’s going to get better to everybody reading this! Whatever your going through you got it! I pray you find your happiness and I wish the best for you
Thank you
I’ve been going through it all. Surrounded by people who don’t even notice that I’m struggling emotionally. Decided to take a step and take care of me. I’m glad I found this. I pray things will change for each one of you including me. Whatever we’re going through, I believe things will get better. We will be happy. Hugs to all
SO HAPPY you decided to take that step and take care of YOU!!! this will be the beginning of changing everything!
Liz Brousseau thankyou so much. I wish you the very best too 🤗
❤️🦋
I wish you are fine now ❤️
@@Jananokari I’m in a better place now, thankyou for asking. Hope all is well with you
It's tough out here
We don't disagree iFerg but it is also the lens you choose to see the world right now. SO much good going on and so much good you can contribute to right now. It was time for the world to get quiet for a while. We hope you enjoy the peace and the beauty in the day today.
Over 1 million subs and only a few know that you commented here on this video, Crazy!
What are you doing here ferg lmao
It is, indeed. It's been 6months, hope you're all good and perfectly happy right now. 🤍
Wtf iferg ya life is great btw love the codm content
I miss the days when we didn’t need a reason to be happy. We just were. When every morning we would jump out of bed, ready to seize the day. Now we can barely muster the motivation to roll onto the floor. I know it’s cliché, but I wish we would know we were in the good old days when we were in the good old days.
Me too bro now I want to have never existed
I feel the same as you !! Do you guys also think that this whole new time with social media( Instagram, Twitter etc.) kind of destroyed our society? because I do I wish everything would be like 10-20 years ago!😕
Every time you exhale, the trees inhale. You are giving CO2 to them at every moment. So think about it and be happy at every moment 🤗🤗.
@@flowerssmile 10 years ago it was already the same... Social media social media social media. It started in 2005 with MySpace and some others. In 2011 Twitter and Facebook were booming and people were already complaining about social media.
@@pereiraplaza222 I saw a show from the mid 60's with a panel of comedians, writers, producers. Norman Lear made a sadly negative comment about how fast the world was changing (for the worst.) ...'what is it going to look like in 20 years.' I'm so grateful I was born in the early '50's and can still remember those 'good old days'....no, those GREAT old days!
shoutout to everyone whos still trying to push through. dont ever give up on reaching your true happiness. you deserve it more than you would ever know.
thank you
If you are reading this, whatever you are going through, you will be okay. You are alive, and it matters.
But first, let's have coffee together at Coffee with C.
I agree Coffee with C. We all matter. We just need to remember this and give easily from our heart. Have a beautiful day and thank you for watching and taking the time to comment.
Jacqueline Way My pleasure Jacqueline. Keep doing what you are doing. We need more people like you in this world, and it starts from influence and impact. Wherever you are in this world, I am supporting you in spirit.
@@CoffeeWithC That was beautiful thank you. I love I have your spirit and energy with me. Your 365give today! I'm in Canada and feel blessed to have so much love coming from all over the world. Have a beautiful day.
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@@darshanmakwana5151 Hello!!!
I've suffered from anxiety and depression since I was 8 years old, I'm now 18 nearly 19 and I still haven't figured life out. I'm still miserable, my relationship with myself and others are broken and all I seem to do is sit around and worry. I'm just waiting (rather impatiently) for the future. I'm still learning to live, not just "survive". This video is extremely inspiring to me, I want to make people happy and leave an impact on this world. I want to take the time to slow down and give. I'm always looking for my purpose, I think I just found it. Thank you so much !
Find something to be thankful for.
Agree! I start my day every day with 3 things. One of my favorite ways to give is to send someone a gratitude note out of now where. It's truly healing!
I’m 29 and I’m trying to eliminate these negative emotions from my life by the time I’m thirty.
If there’s one piece of advice I can give you, it’s this: Don’t drink away your emotions.
Emily McBride you’re not supposed to have life figured out at 18! ❤️
@@avitiusrufinus6980 what happened to you that hurt you? Who hurt you?
Small acts of kindness really do make you feel happy. As small as buying a friend a snack or giving someone a compliment. The looks on their faces are the best thing in the world!
Very true. People who are stingy are sad most times
True..making others happy makes us happy. Especially when we give someone who desparately needs it.
True tho ❤️
I almost cried watching this, but I don't like to cry, so i hold my tears lol. I totally agree with what she said! One day I was coming back from school to my home, and It started raining softly, but a few seconds later, it started to get heavier. I had an umbrella so I wasn't worried about getting wet. But in my front, there were an old woman. I'm shy, so I was having some trouble asking her if she wanted to walk with me so she wouldn't get wet. Then, after thinking a lot, I just walked faster to get close to her, and I asked her. She just looked at me and gave me a smile and she said she didn't need it 'cause we were already in front of her house. I just helped her open her house and I said goodbye. Even though not helping much, her smile made my day and I felt useful. It made me realize even though I'm young I can help people and make them, and make me, happy simultaneously.
Yes! & now you have a memory. Memories build.
Bravo that’s lovely
i feel like you should be an author, I'd want to read your book!
I cant believe I ended up searching how to be happy. So tired of always being left behind.
Searching for answers is the first step to having a happier and better life. Don’t beat yourself up too much. I know you still have it in you to keep fighting! ❤️
The silver lining is that suffering invites us to explore an alternative. Suffering is often a gateway to the spiritual path and ultimately a sense of inner peace.
Me too :(
Same here
And how are you today?
I want to thank everyone who took the time and wrote something good to encourage someone they don't know to continue, it's so sad that all those who watched this video just like me, felt so vulnerable, lonely, anxious though they're still fighting
Every time I am struggling, even with the worst sorts of things, after acknowledging that whatever it is that sucks is a difficulty, j have been taught to make a gratitude list. It may sound silly, but it helps refocus your thinking .
You can have gratitude just for breathing, if need be. Gratitude for love, now, past, or future. Gratitude for the opportunity to help another. It can be infinitesimally small, the thing for which you have gratitude. Build from there. I wish you health, happiness, and peace.
@@dtschuor459 I'll try to make it and I don't think it's silly at all 🌸 thank you so much for your kindness wish you all the beautiful things that the world can give 💞
@@emnabenahmed7523 how are you doing these days?
@@methinks5310 hey i'm way better , life is not always roses and butterflies, but we learn , it's not easy to cope with everything at once but that's life i guess thank you so much for asking hope u're healthy mentally and physically
Everyday morning startup my life is bad than how to change an how my life
I'm glad good people like her exist in this world
Thank you Wedookie I so appreciate such a wonderful comment. There are lots of people like me and everyone can do exactly what we have done and still do. It's inside all of us we just have to make it a priority in our life - a daily habit just like brushing our teeth. Give it a try you may just surprise yourself. That comment was your first 365give! You made my day and made me happy. Thank you.
The point is that we can all be like this. Earth could be heaven... Its meant to be. And we can all do our little bit.
Its how we save the world.
*Thank you for helping make the world a better place to live in*
To all the young souls out there.. You will be fine ❤️
Ty
anybody reading this who is suffering, know that you are loved and there is another way to live in which you no longer mentally argue with what is
Thank you i needed it❤️
How about old souls????
@@HisisMichelineFournier ❤️🍀
as a teenager i miss the days when i wasn't insecure about my body, didn't have anxiety and stress, but instead used to live everyday without caring about anything. to anyone reading this, just so that you know we are in this together. life's too short for all the sadness, remember you only live ONCE. so make sure it's worth living :)
this too shall pass....try to make it a point of always having positive thoughts. One small positive thought can change your days! I found a lot of help writing a gratitude journal, I wrote something I was grateful for no matter how small...soon I focused on the positive and destroyed the negative thoughts. I will pray for you!
@@rosilatrailera glad to hear i'll be in your prayers. i'll pray for your betterment as well stranger. proud of you to be able to fight off those feelings. keep going forward every single day bc you're way stronger than you think :)))))
You only live once to build your … eternity 🕊🌷
A little correction:
You live everyday and only die once.
Ye, I also have body dysmorphia
Don’t get me wrong but sometimes giving too much can dig you into a deeper hole. I suffer from depression & anxiety. I find happiness in giving to everyone around me, seeing smiles on their faces. Sometimes I give too much, more than I should actually. I found myself getting taken advantage of by my closest friend & family which drained me emotionally but for some reason I still find every reason to give to everyone around me. I want to find happiness within myself rather than constantly giving to keep myself happy.
That we understand. Soometimes when we give of ourselves to much it takes away from giving to ourselves. I have this problem all the time. Don't take the happiness out of giving by not keeping clear boundries as well. Giving isn't the only "pillar" of happiness. Taking caare of yourself, our bodies, getting out in nature and gratitide are also so impoartant. Why not take some time to give to yourself. Finding the happiness from inside will give so much to the world around you and others. Sometimes the best way to give back to the world. Thank you for watching Mekenzie and the really thoughful comment. We wish you a day filled with happiness and giving for you.
It's important to find a balance, as with everything in life. We can not live with out water, however too much water can kill us. I often encourage people to give only what they can afford to. It can even be the smallest things/ little moments. Holding the door for someone, compliments, a hug, telling a joke, even a smile. When I'm having a bad day or week sometimes I just count the smiles exchanged, appreciating that me and someone else brightened each other's day. Costs nothing but a moment and can be very effective!
@@catl2223 So agree Cat. The reason we say 1 give, 1 day at a time - so simple a 3-year old can do it. Just creates the balance and flow of positive energy and feelings of both the giver and receiver. Thank you so much for such a great comment and for watching. It means so much to Nic and I. Have a beautiful day.
Well said.
@@crowderwork thank you! Nic and I so appreciate you watching. Have a lovely day.
Pray for everyone who watched this video. Hope you all have a happy life.
Am i the only one who literally searched for this at 3AM while on quarantine..
Edit 1 week later:
hey brave one..
someday, you'll meet the happiest version of you..
and it will be worth it.
don't give up, okay?
No mamm, it's almost 2 am and yup here we are
Lol me too
Same 3AM 😅
Literally 3:27am rn 😭
It's exactly 3AM haha. Its the peak time of depression lmao
this women gave me a little bit of hope cause i'm so desperately desperate
Thank you, Lucy, for watching and I hope is such a wonderful way to look at the talk. It's hope for you and hope for us all. I am so sorry you are feeling desperate. I wish you receive the benefits of giving when you reach out to others. When you give you will be surprised how you will also receive. I wish you hope and happiness.
Hope ur feeling better, Lucy ❤️
Reach out to your loved ones! In finding the right person with whom we can share everything, we forget, we have them already! Take care! :)
Sane
My name is Lucy too. God bless us Lucy.💗
So sad that kids suffer too
So agree but they don't have to. We have just taught them well. Kids are resilient and when we teach them skills that make them happy they run with it. They want to feel good we just have to teach them how.
Thank you for taking the time to watch. Nic and I so appreciate your time. Have a beautiful day.
I'm frickin 13 and currently trying to find how to be happy, and make it stay.
Winner of a video, I been tryin to find out about "how do you find happiness in a book?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Soyailey Simplex Sovereignty - (do a search on google ) ? It is a smashing one of a kind guide for discovering how to become successful and happy minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my m8 got great success with it.
@Eternal Serenity Well, if nobody suffered, then we wouldn't cherish happiness as much
But I feel the same
@Gpooky You need to keep waiting, especially since you're 15. There are things to come that you'll definitely want to see and experience that will come when you are older.
Hey you, who is going through a tough time, you’re not alone. It’s okay, breathe and take it slow. It’ll get better. ❤️
Very greatful 💕😭
I believe you
Thank you. It helped me
💖
This made me cry
Most people aren't happy and have lost the joy of living.
I have forgotten how to be happy. I'm just a mean grumpy woman. I am trying to change this.
I so agree Ronald. the reason I took the time to get beyond my fear of speaking to the world and try to help people understand how they can get back to the reason we are here on this planet. We are meant to feel happy and we have gotten lost somewhere along the way. Happiness is just a feeling. What makes life worth truly living is purpose and meaning. We are here to have a meaningful life filled with experiences that create feelings of happiness. Giving is just one of those ways to create both. The feelings of happiness and meaningful life. The fun is the journey. When you give it makes the journey remarkable. The people you meet, the way you connect to nature, our planet and animals. It opens your eyes to this amazing gift we have been given. Start by giving to yourself - start the day with gratitude for another day to find your path to happiness. You are looking for it the reason you are here. Start giving yourself grace, and love. When you find it in you - it will overflow to everyone around you. Have a beautiful day.
I am happy
@@brodyszone157 how do you try to change?
@@jacquelineway thanks for your beautiful and wise words. Do you have any tips on how to make money or find a fulfilling job?
If you are suffering from depression, just know you are have a purpose on earth. Just know you are a good person
SPLASH H thank you so much sweetheart, it made me feel better even after a bad days ❤️
Amen Splash! We so agree. We all have a purpose here on our planet and we have to see past what's in front us and find what is within us. beautiful comment and thank you for taking the time to watch. We so appreciate your time.
@@jacquelineway Thank you so much!
We all should know that we can be great people and do great things if we put the work in!
thanks splash h, God bless. reading ur comment made me think ❣
My purpose is to be a fertilizer for the earth and to be eaten by worms.
I was depressed as I scrolled through TH-cam to find a video that will “Make me happy”
Instead I found this ted talk, and learned how to make others happy.
And I’m happy now.
I thank this kind woman so much for sharing this with us.
I am honoured thank you so much. So many as you heard are suffering from depression. You re not alone. take some time to truly learn and understand about your body chemistry. That balance I spoke about between cortisol and your happy hormones. We all have the ability to shift these physically and the mental you need to work on. It takes time but we can retrain our brains to look at the world differently.
Giving will get you out. Create social connections. Make relationships with others that feel the same way. This is what you need. Surround yourself with positive people that want to work towards a better happier world and it will help to create the physical and mental shift you need. Thank you for taking the time and most of all this was your 365give today. A positive comment goes a long way t omake another happy. You just did that for Nic and I.
Have a beautiful day.
ゆめぽんた I really hope you’re doing better
@@jacquelineway 🙏🙏🙏 thank you
Thank you MN I am honoured. When you are depressed you are just stuck in your head. The best way to get out of your head is to live from your heart. When we give to others this is the shift that happens. But you have to practice this every day. Our brains are like a computer that just goes back to playing the same program over and over again. You have to retrain your brain to look and act differently in our world. I am so glad I gave you some happiness and by you watching you gave e happiness. That easy. Have a beautiful day.
@@jacquelineway do you have an email
I feel like I’m at an all time low right now. And anyone who’s watching this and sees this and feels the same just know if I can stay strong so can you. I love you♥️
Same here man. I hope you are better tho ❤️
Same here hope you guys are better
I love you too. 💚
hey broski, hope you've been doing well!
Gd bless you and stay strong
"The nourishment of the body is food, while the nourishment of the soul is feeding others" Imam Ali ibn Abitalib alayhissalam
Love that!!!! You just touched my heart Master Lights. Thank you for taking the time to watch and that stunning comment! It will be my new personal mantra. Have a beautiful day!
that is beautiful.... TYVM
Wise words like none other. Imam Ali (as) 🙌
Indeed
One of the greatest gifts my parents gave me and my siblings was teaching us to be empathetic, kind humans. The second was to constantly remind us to not just be siblings, be friends because's we're going to need each other for the rest of our lives. I'm 53 and my brothers and sisters are still my best friends. Thanks for the great video.
Holly, I continue to say the same thing to my kids. I am one of 6 kids and I cherish my siblings to this day. I couldn't do life without them. They were my biggest fans while I worked on this talk. My kids are all adopted and I tell them all the time what a gift it is we were all brought together and one day - when they stop fighting over the smallest toy lol - that they will be each other's biggest fans. I hope one day they will look back the same way we both do and appreciate what they have learned and how much they mean to each other. Thank you for watching and taking the time to leave us a message. It means so much to us to hear from so many around the world. Have a wonderful day!
I'm one of seven kids. I couldn't imagine life without even one of them.
Amen!
good
This is so true.
Quit social media that one way to be happy.
Thanks for watching Gillybloggs. It can drive you a little crazy! It's all about balance. If you take a look a few comments ago a gentleman made a great comment - "This is how the internet and social media can make the world a better place" We just have to use social for the good. If give - then we share it on social - it will continue the ripple that can make the world happier. It's been remarkable for sharing this message and the change we are already seeing. Thank you for taking the time to watch and great comment. Great thought! Maybe share some of your good on social today and it will make you happy! Have a great day.
Well, it depends. I have a lot of online friends on social media and they make me happy. So like, it depends on the person.
😅😅😅😅very good
It’s not social media it’s reality that makes me sad
gillyblog
I think I know now, the reason why giving/helping others makes us happy is because giving shifts the focus from us to others, and lifts the pressure that we have been putting on ourselves. Wow Jacqueline, great Ted Talk. Kudos !
Seeing this has made me realise that there is still a chance to be happy, im forever grateful!
Raeko you have a chance to be happy every single day you wake up. We all do it's just a matter of focusing and understanding how you can create it in your life. We all look to the outside world for happiness and you will never get it there. Happiness is a feeling you can get any time - the beautiful part of being human. You get to choose every day. Giving is just a way to hack your brain to feel any time you choose. Just think of giving as the life Hack to Happy every day. Once you get the feeling hold on to it and run with it. Thank you so much for watching. Nic and I so appreciate it. Have a beautiful day!
Raeko watch the videos on my channel they will help you regain your happiness.
Jacqueline Way Thank you so much!! im rlly sry i didnt see your reply! Ive been better lately and you have really helped:)
brilliant.fake it to make it. We can't allow the darkness win. what an inspirational human being. I am delighted to have found her.
Thank you Mad on Sport. Good news no faking it on this one. Giving will really make you happy. I so appreciate you watching and hope you will join our community on our website. We would be delighted to have you and hear your stories of giving. Have a great day!
Jacqueline Way it actually works
Our pursuit of happiness is a sign that we are about to take the first step into bringing ourselves back up again. Let us always see the bright side, life is full of ups and downs so just trust the process and I'm sure we will have something to learn in every challenges that brings sadness into us.
Great informative video!
Today morning I have to search “How to be happy when you are surrounded by your family”. Listening to the talk while reading the comments make me burst into tears.
Just wanna say I love you all. We're all people here just trying to find our happiness, find ourselves. Have a great day TODAY
Thant was your 365give today and AMEN ReLLakaT. If we all came from that place, those words of love, happiness and connection - what a world it would be! Thank you so much for taking the time. That comment just made me so happy.
@@jacquelineway hey you're so welcome. I just wanted to help. Been happier since this video. Been making dinners for my girlfriend and 2 year old daughter, being more present and helpful at home
@@jacquelineway is this the actual Jacqueline from the video?
Being diagnosed with depression and anxiety at a young age and know more about it now at 27 years old has been a hard journey. Seeing others that can cope with things better and not get so down has always been a envy of mines but knowing that I am not alone or haven’t been alone on this helps me to know there is hope and help’
Hi Dominique! I can totally relate. I suffered from both for many years. You are definitely not alone! If you ever need an ear, just reach out! ❤️
Sending you lots of love and strength in your pursuit of happiness, it comes from within, practice being happy even if it feels fake for a while and it will come to you eventually. We are too used to practice being sad and negative, it isn't easy to be positive most of the times and enjoy the little things in life but it can be done with practice, I am still working on it myself. In the meantime I'd like to invite you to check my relaxation videos which I hope can also bring you some comfort and peace in an anxious moment.
Peace x
I suffered from depression since 16 then at 17 i got cancer at 19 in still in depression its hards
Yeah and it's really hard to motivate yourself
I really loved how she's educated her son to give one thing back to this planet and it's people for 365 days ,it's rare actually to find parents like those incredible ones ,children derive everything from their environment and their society ,all of your negative and even positive adjectives and characteristics are totally emanated from your family .unfortunately not every child is way too fortune to be encompassed by such a successful and achievers people .
Great work done by her !!!
One day I walked passed a homeless men and I bought him something to eat and a hot coffee. I placed it next to him while he slept and left… I still hoped he ate and drank it and felt great that day. ❤️
This is wonderful only in America
Hey you! Yes you! I’m glad you searched this up or clicked on this video because it means you want to get better. You can get their, we need to try and on,y then will we succeed. I know I’m a stranger but I’m going through some similar stuff, talk to people, learn things and take action! ❤️
Cant believe im a 14 years old teenager searching on HOW to be happy.. and there r many younger kids out there searching for this..
I have been living with the same problems since I was 15 so I am very jealous of you right now. If I could be 14 again, I would NEVER spend my days fearing I couldn't achieve or learn something and then not even trying
I would give myself as much time as I need to accomplish anything I want and never procrastinate again. I'd never develop my bad relationship with food, i wouldn't avoid my problems I would face them as soon as they occurred and by now, i would've accomplished everything that I've been trying to do since I was 14.
I'm 14 nd I searched up for this too 💛
Ur not alone
Ik whos fault is it why we're not happy it's called social media
It's not fair
@@bubbabubba6427 by saying social media I mean apps like Instagram twitter, facebook ,snapchat etc... I don't use any of them (it's almost been a year since I stopped using them) I only watch TH-cam which I use for only like 30 to 40 minutes per day 💁♀ bro it really helps when u stop using those time wasting apps... Ive started focusing on things which are more important for me and I feel alot better and happy now 😀
Im a full time college student with a full time job, I feel so tired and exhausted all the time, but I know no one can’t resonate with my feeling and probably no one cares enough to. It’s hard to be happy and positive sometimes when I have to work everyday. Sometimes, I wonder where and when the end is.
learn to embrace the grind and focus on what you're fighting for instead of how hard the fight is, the grind is forever
@@Giovanni-vn8ew that's so depressing 😅
Don’t do what you won’t make you happy
I know what you mean. I have been in your shoes. I graduate in November and I feel so proud because I had to do it and now I am finish. I know how you feel but when you have accomplished the goal at the end you will be so happy. Exercise and eat properly. It give you more energy and positivity. I also live on dorm and was very active involve in activities. Those activities have me joy because I would connect with friends and dorm mate. It does get better keep pushing forward 💪. You can do it.
@@tiyanablake2534 thank you ☺️
I didn't start the video, but I want to say that everyone is an awesome person no matter what. Thank you for being who you are, thank you for being here, thank you for being the person who does things that deserve recognition but don't always do it for recognition. Thank you, for being happy. Have a blessed day, Mahalo Nui, from Hawaii
Love you Beautiful Person!
wish all humans were like this! i am a giver and always say that giving is a selfish act for me because i do it to feel better.
It's just digging in to find our "humanity" and letting it shine. Thank you for being a giver I'm glad you have learned the secret to "happy". Have a lovely day and thank you for watching. It means the world to me.
Stratis, I am so sorry for some reason my reply did not get posted. Thank you so much for your lovely comment and taking the time to watch. Obviously, you are one of "those humans" you talk of. I am so thrilled you understand how good giving makes you feel! It is a little selfish, isn't it! This little happiness secret we have tapped into! Thank you again and have a really happy day!
Love and respect from India.
Thank you actsrv9. Nic and I so appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment. We hope you will be inspired to find a way to give today. Have a happy day!
Stratis Dio
I typically asked TH-cam how to be happy and this video popped out. I'm so happy I found it . It really gave me hope because I'm in the darkest days of my life . So thank you we need more beautiful souls like you.
I am so glad you found us as well. Sometimes the perfect things come up when we need it the most. Remember you are never alone. We all go through dark days and weeks. What I love about giving on those tough times is it gets me out into the community, it makes me feel like I am making a difference in the world - it gives my life meaning. That's what we all want at the end of the day. That being here - our life meant something. So go out today. Find a way to give that works for you. Make a commitment for 1 week - then another until it becomes part of who you are. It already is. You will then always know a way to get out of the dark days. Thank you for watching I am so happy it touched you. You have just truly touched me. Thank you. 💙💙🌎
@@jacquelineway thank you for the reply . I made my 3 teenage daughters watch your video as well and they came with great ideas . Again thank you and hope to encounter more beautiful souls like you 💜💙
Me toooo. I'm having such a terrible day and now I'm singing the Merry Christmas song even though I'm not Christian
Through every dark night there is a brighter day ahead of you - Tupac
I did not search “how to be happy” but I watch lots of TED talks so it was recommended. I actually am happy with the direction of where I am going, baby steps towards my master’s degree in Germany and I have a girl whom I would chop my leg off for. Nothing is more comforting than being beside her.
The best show i've ever seen!❤
Giving makes your every day happier! That's it.
As for me, i help stray animals, cats and dogs.
I love them.
I love doing it.
When you look at the grateful dog's eyes - nothing can be better.❤
Respect this woman. I respect her.
Thank you, Shoto. I so appreciate your kind words. Your 365give for today. We all do our best. Not perfect - just our best. Showing respect for others work is such a beautiful way to give. You truly made my day and I am so grateful. Have a lovely day.
Jacqueline Way Your welcome.
My mom taught me to offer a snack, tea or atleast water to whoever knocked our door. Its Indian culture like God has come disguised as guest ! A postman, help at home, laundry guy, plumber, friend etc. Yes 365 is possible for as many in lifetime..Thanks for spreading this
I love that Reen. Your Mother is a good woman to pass on such a wonderful message. I have not had the privilege to travel to India but my Mother was born there and she has told me how kind and welcoming you all are. Yes 365give is possible for everyone for a lifetime. Imagine if we all treated people that came to our door with such kindness. The ripple effect of giving would open so many doors for so many. Thank you for sharing your giving with us. We will share it! Have a wonderful day!
Well said
reen my mom taught me to never open the door 😂
Oh that’s so cool! There’s something similar to this in Hawaii with Hawaiian gods
And get robbed or worse murdered? No. Its not safe especially where we live.
When I was young the things that made me unhappy were more self-focused, the things that weren't going well for me in my life. Now that i'm older, the problems in my own life might still make me vaguely unhappy from time to time. But it's the suffering of others that really tears me apart. There's just so much tragedy and suffering in this world that it's hard for me to process and still be happy.
It literally breaks my heart that I’m here having to watch this and relearning life completely. I’ve been depressed the last half of this year. I don’t wish this on anybody. I don’t remember what being happy feels like. I miss the old me! What sucks is no one even notices my energy isn’t the same. I don’t go anywhere anymore I just work and go home. I’m ok at work but my job is stressful and it’s no help really for a real escape. But when I’m home I’m alone so I’m always in my head and it’s the worst place to be!
You are beautiful - in and out. I hope you can push thru and achieve everything you set out to achieve. And show depression who's the boss. 😤😤😤
@@myotheraccount17 thank you so much for the words❤️
@@avblack98 you are very welcome. Hope you are having a better day than when you first posted your comment. ✨
I hope you're a lot better now ❤
I’ve been watching TEDx Talks for the past couple of days. My challenge for everyday is to watch a new video of theirs and jot down important notes from the video. I am learning new things everyday and that is making me get through my anxiety and depression. I loved this video by Jacqueline Way because giving actually does make you feel better and gives you “helpers‘ high”. Starting from today, I will be giving back, one day at a time. Thank you Jacqueline and keep being you.
You're not alone. I'll join the challenge with you. I used to watch Tedx talks out of desperation while living with PTSD, depression and anxiety and living in a homeless shelter with my children. I wanted to do everything I could to elevate myself and liberate myself. That was 6 years ago. Things are much better now, but I'm going to challenge myself to again watch Tedx talks everyday and apply what I learn. Thank you and best wishes for a beautiful life. Everyday. 💝
Oh my god what a good challenge! I am so happy that i scroll all the way down and see this comment. I should do this as well, thank you.
Thanks the lecturer! To everyone who is wanting to be happy: please tell yourself that “I love yourself and I completely accept myself! Name, I love you , I want you to be happy and I would love to do everything to make you happy.” Actually we ourselves are the person whom we can totally trust in and rely on. We can satisfy all our needs. It’s much better to get happiness from ourselves rather than requiring or begging from others. Others will never love us as we do. Have a great day!
Donate, volunteer, help a neighbour, be kind to a stranger. ✌️💙
It's that easy Lamya. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and the lovely comment. Nic and I hope it has inspired you to give today. Have a beautiful day.
I wish i would have wrote this comment. THANK YOU
It took me 63 years to truly be happy. It is amazing to feel this way. I wish everyone happiness their entire lives.
What changed? Mindset I assume but how did you do it? :)
Hello I am so sorry if this sounds weirds but you wrote such a nice and wonderful comment on here and I like your comment. I can tell you're a very positive person. If it's okay with you I'd love to be friends.
It's better we search how to be happy instead of our family searching funeral homes. We'll get through this peeps, stay strong, stay humble, stay grateful.... Or atleast try🤙❤️
We have to support each other. There is no shame in being vulnerable.
So true ❤️
I love giving compliments, advice, and doing a kind thing towards others. As a nurse, I try to put a smile on my patience. For Christmas I give my coworkers something I made. This year they are getting a scarf. It really feels good
I just wanna go back to when I could laugh with my friends in the neighborhood all day
This video is brilliant. I’ve been so selfish in my alcohol addiction, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Focus less on my own problems and more on helping others. I think it’s the missing puzzle piece to a win-win situation.
Alex grey and Tool are my favorite. So naturally I gravitated towards you. I also am a recovering alcoholic of 15 years. I finally quit about 6 months ago. I feel so much better and I WILL never waste time again on alcohol in this lifetime. You got this! I want to see you next to me in the sober life.
Jacq, had been genuinely committed to a life of giving long before Nic came into the picture. I met her in 1998 and her dedication to effecting positive change in the lives of those less fortunate was already acutely deployed. Celebrating the best in humanity and nurturing it in youth is bound to inspire generations of budding philanthropists and conscientious global citizens. Congratulations Jacqueline on illustrating the essence of the how the act of giving to others is in fact, the ultimate gift we give to ourselves.
Thank you my dear friend. Just remember you gave me my favourite daily give the night before this talk! Peace and quite! Thank you for your ongoing support and love always.
Jacqueline Way, i love your talk! I have so much respect for you.
this is wht I actually wanna do in my lyf.. i m an Indian n live in india.. my country is growing like nvr before.. but at the same time there are so ooo many people under poverty line.. when I see some of them begging specially the older ones I feel like crying.. i m in my final year of engineering and all these pictures always hit my mind. so I decided finally to not to go and get placed in a software company and now I m studying to be in the civil administrative service to be in the system.. to be in a higher position so dat actually I could do smthing for all these poor people.. this is my dream and passion to change the face of poverty.. people call me mad coz i think too much.. bt i don't. . n your video makes me happy nw and more determined
Hi Soumya. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I didn't say this in my talk but when I started 365give I had a really big dream. I wanted to change the world. Not just one part but the whole world. I wanted it to be a happier more peaceful place for my children and generations to come. It broke my heart every day all the challenges from poverty, climate change, animal abuse that was going on. I didn't know how I was going to change the world but I knew I had to try. I had to do my part even if it made a little dent, made the world a little better. 365give hasn't been easy. We don't have a lot of funding, I have been told again and again I'm crazy. But I kept getting this message that I had to keep going. Then I got a chance to do this TED Talk and the world has opened their arms to us. I see and feel the hope from all over the world. People want to make a change. People want our world to be a better happier place. No one every said it would be easy but it's people like you that are willing to commit that will make a difference. Don't every give up. Always remember if you can change even 1 persons world it will ripple and ripple. You bring me hope that there are people all over the world willing to take the chance and make the commitment to make our world a better place. Thank you. Thank you for watching and sharing. You made me so happy today and determined to continue our work. Have a lovely day.
soumya you can make a difference. don't give a f*ck what other ppl think of you. When u stand out of the crowd they call u mad :-)
The good news Ajit when you are doing "goog" for others they don't think you're so mad. Everyone gets it. You gain respect and honour because so many wish they could or would do something and they don't. Too busy, not enough time, money or resources. But we can all use our expertise in our life to help solve the big problems. It's never just one person but a dedicated group of individuals that want to change the world. We just can't be bystanders - we all have to participate on some level. Thank you for watching and I love your comment. I so agree you can't give a "f^%$" what people think of you or nothing ever changes. Have a great day!
@soumya I did some activism myself in the past, pretty sincere and for pretty long, and got into big trouble because I didn't "respect" some corrupt local politician or local cop. I didn't have the nerve and energy to continue. I hope you do. India is full of apes going on aggressive power-trips every day. They also hold grudges for years or decades. Social reform is *not* easy from within the system - the system designers designed it to keep it subverted.
See Kejriwal for instance. He's the toughest cookie yet and even he has crumbled. That's because too many people are evil inside and apathetic outside the system. Be prepared for a lot of personal heartache and depression.
OTOH, if you do well in your engineering job or maybe go abroad you can make enough money to start and fund an NGO which will not make a noticeable change to the whole system, but will be a great change for those that it affects. Please reconsider joining the system. It's not for engineering types, it is a bunch of alpha male apes conditioned by years of psychopathy.
People calling you "mad" is irrelevant. The facts are that the system does not allow reform in its present form and unless you are someone like Gandhi, I doubt you can change it. Better not be a part of it and have blood on your hands. Better to work as an NGO outside the system. No blood, just small joys. Changing it all at once or even a sizeable amount, from inside, is much tougher than climbing Everest. Much much more.
well said sir.. bt i guess it doesn't matter whether I m an engineer or an arts student.. today engineering students are doing great in civil services. but what u said is exactly true. n i m also not skeptical about the multidimensional career now.. 😊 now I m into it so let me be throughly into it.. well according to Steve jobs I m just joining d dots.. imagine a bunch of corrupt ppl at one side and a bunch of engineers or any other experts who actually wanna bring a change at the other side..great fun. well m nt saying dat m going to b d prime minister within years.. but I as a normal human is finding my ways or just call it joining the dots😊
This is one of the greatest Tedx talks of all time, a simple act of giving can make us happy and we can practice it everyday.
Thank you so much Todd. That was your 365give for today! Really kind words - thank you. We can all practice it every day. Just imagine what the world would be like - all 7 billion people. I am thrilled we have touched you. We wish you a wonderful day and thank you for watching.
Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.
Yeah! I agree with you sir.If you want to be successful have the mindset of the rich, spend less and invest More. Don't give up your dreams.
People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.
@@tianalucas8147 That's very correct
And that is why most of them end up losing they moneyDon't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before investing.
Learn and get the knowledge first before investing..
@@donaldjason195 People wants to do what the 99% does but wants to get results that are fit for the 1%, but it doesn't work that way
@@slimejohn808 Investment is the quickest path to financial freedom, the rich stays rich by spending like the poor yet investing! While the poor stays poor by spending like the rich yet not investing.
Praying for someone is a way of giving too..
I love this woman .
"After all, I was just a mom."
No lady, you're an amazing person! Thanks for sharing your wonderful idea!
couldn't have said it better
I'm watching this for someone I love who has been suffering from depression for 11 years. I've known him for 5 years and it breaks my heart that nothing seems to be able to take him out of his deep darkness inside.
I had a few fights with my friends recently, and it has given me so much anxiety and depression. I always worry if I'm the wrong one, if I should've never stood up for myself, never spoken about my feelings. But now, I am making so much effort and progress in making myself happy. Everyone said I am in no rights to give if I couldn't even love myself. But if my happiness comes from giving, isn't that self-love as well? My dream is to help everyone who comes across me to smile, I want those who talks with me to leave with a smile. Giving is not only helping each other, but also helping ourselves. I will show my friends how strong I have become.
All the best!
4:27 that voice change was crazy
Agree Yung it was crazy. The joy of live recordings. We lost a sound bite and had to re-record it after the talk. It never works well but we didn't want people to miss that little piece about how your brain and body are positively affected. I hope you were able to get the message pass this. Thanks for taking the time. Have a beautiful day.
Yung Zoink OMG HOW DID I NOT NOTICE THAT
@@jacquelineway I actually thought it was intentional considering the content of your speech, haha! Excellent speech, thank you.
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I hope everyone who is struggling knows how much they are loved and needed. Stay safe ❤
Sending u love
kinda dont feel like this but thank you
@@xxzzz7467 love yourself dear,that is ok
"Help a neighbor, be kind to a stranger."
Thanks for watching Hilary. And it is all the simple. Show the world kindness - help your neighbours. WIth all that we have going on in our world who knew it could be this simple. But we all need to do it. Not just me and Nic but the other 7 billion people on our planet. We really appreciate your time watching and commenting Hilary. Have a great day!
My pleasure. Thank YOU! :+) Hope you have a great day too. :)
just going thru these comments made me happy and thankful. imma say just one word: GRATITUDE
This is so simple yet so genius. Making others happy while doing the same to yourself. Wow.
Thank you for taking the time Citrus and the lovely comment - your 365give today. It is truly simple and what a world it would be - a happy one. Have a beautiful day.
True
watching this while crying lol
I am hoping this is a good thing! If our talk touched your heart than we are truly humbled Marta. Thank you for watching and we hope it will inspire you to take a look around your world today and find one small way to give. 🙏🌎💙
@@jacquelineway Your a great person. Respect what you do!!
I'm sorry
Same we’re gonna be ok tho
Marta Fabic Same, hope your okay.
This is the lesson which my mom taught me ,when i was a kid .she had no idea at that time ,that this was a huge concept
.But thanks to my mom , i am a happy adult,i love to give ,actually it became my main thing in my life,.
This really makes me ask myself over my self-pity and bitterness to the world: "what have i give to the world today?" the answer is NOTHING. I tried to earn money, earn respect, earn love but never a second I asked myself what have I give today? Thank you for the reminder !
Service to others is the key to happiness. I tend to turn within and forget this. Thank you for reminding me and all listening, that happiness is indeed the magic that comes when we are kind, empathetic and give of ourselves to others with no expectations. ❤️
I read this the other day,
'You are under no obligation to remain the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or even a day ago. You are here to create yourself, continuously.' ~ Prof. Feynman
It gave me a new perspective for ahead. I also recommend reading about fixed mindset and growth mindset.
What they don't say is that when you change, relationships can change. You have to want to transform so much you are willing to sacrifice the old and build new.
@@woodspriteful @Jennifer E. Nordstrom That's a good point! It has come to me after some introspection after posting this comment 10 months back.
I sacrificed my previous interests for growth. Certainly when you change your weaknesses vanquish but your strengths change as well.
I know with the development of the world today, people are likely to find it difficult to be truly happy. They need to face with stress, pressure, disappointment, sadness,....every single day coming from their work. their studies, their family, their friends, their colleagues, etc. However, Jacqueline Way have given me and maybe a lot of other people a totally different view. Being happy is not difficult. It's simple and easy that even a kid can do. This is GIVING and SHARING. When we are willing to give, to share, to help others, we not only make them happy but also make us feel warm and extremely happy. Our actions also make the world a better place, a happier place, a livable place. Let's start with the simplest thing. Be kind, be helpful to a stranger, to animals, to plants. And you will realise that we are the happiest person in the world.
When I was a teen my entire extended family (about 20 of us at that time) showed up on Christmas Eve at a church members door with presents in our hands bc she could not afford Christmas for her kids. I can’t begin to describe the pure joy & overwhelming emotions that brought ME to be there to do that. It blessed me more than it blessed them. I’m sure of it.
I have noticed throughout my life that I am most fulfilled when I am in a role of giving or helping others. There is nothing like it. This lady is my hero. ❤
After reading some comments i get the courage to admit that yes i am sad.. I am pushing myself from a long time now to be happy but i am not happy.... Now i am accepting that i am sad i am feeling horrible, instead of avoiding it.I will cry now i will cry whole night but i promise next day i am not gonna let affect myself anymore! The journey of happiness begins from here... I will keep updating. Sending you all blessings!:)
I am genuinely happy now :)
Feeling lost again!
Thanks for sharing your view. As a matter of fact we are not designed to be happy all the time. Life needs expansion and we need happiness for this. Just take a start. There is not enough darkness to cover up the dimest of the dimest light.
i think giving makes us happy because it makes us realize we are already happy. it shifts us from having a lack mindset to one of abundance; of happiness.
Right on the nose Naomi!! Love that! Thank yo for watching!
I searched "how to be happy" coz I've reached a point where I don't know how to do that anymore.. and I just want it so much.. and I'm so glad I found this. I wish it popped on my recommendations before but I guess better late than never 🤷🏻♀️
it’ll be ok
You don't need a lot to be happy. An attitude of gratitude will always make you happy. You may not have all that you'd hope for, but you can still be appreciative of what you have. Gratitude is a constant reminder of how fortunate you are to have all that you've been blessed with. Gratitude will always find a reason for you to be thankful. Ingratitude does the opposite. It's a constant reminder of what you don't have. This often leads to stress and depression. If you want to be happier in life, find more things that you are appreciative of, both great or small.
I just want to be happy again. I don’t know how to feel happy anymore. I hope this video works.
Hi Brigitte I just want you to know that there are SO many people out there that love you like myself even if I don’t know you personally your life is important to everyone
I have posted on your profile.
Being happy by making other people happy... I love this ❤
Bun not a Narcisist . Don’t try to do a Narcisist Happy
Really inspirational.. Respect to you ma'am.. What a wonderful lady you are .
Thank you so much, Priya. Thank you for the compliment. I am just a one person trying to make a little sent in the world and I am humbled by all the support. I appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment. It inspired me to stay on our mission.
Priya Srivastav b
Thank you for the life light! Respect.
You are so welcome. I so love you said this. "Life light" such great words Sirish. Thank you for watching and I wish you a wonderful day filled with light.
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Singing carols to hospital patients on Christmas morning! What a beautiful thing to do. ❤️🐬🌎
I actually know this mom, her son nick is my friend, she's pretty nice to everyone.
Incredible! I wish I could see more people with her kind of positivity!
Thank you I so appreciate the comment! Just try giving every day you will be amazed how it changes your outlook!
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when you are affected by all things that happen to your life and you choose to be silent even it torn your heart into pieces. Can't imagine that I will be here at the point in my life where I will search for how to be happy.
Don't take everything personally then u get happiness at right moment 😜
Girl you got this! You are here for a reason. And I know you are smart and strong enough to pull through! How is life going for you right now?
Someone I know just recently took her own life. She was young, beautiful and traveled the world but felt no sense of true purpose. I believe it is only when we get our eyes off ourselves and help someone/something else that we find true purpose and the will to survive. Many times in my life I’ve been extremely depressed and hurting but I always think of my animal rescue and all those I help and that gives me reason to go on.