I grew up struggling with self-love, as a middle child, I had a really bad childhood, my own mother called me ugly and useless but I never hate other people. I only express hate towards myself and blame myself for everything. But once I realized that I am beautifully and wonderfully made by God, and felt that I am loved by Him no matter what I look or what I’ve done, I started learning to accept myself for who I really am - a beautiful complex human being like everybody else. Sorry just sharing❤️I hope everyone finds an unconditional lover like God. No matter what form He takes in your life.
@As far as I know an imaginary friend is something only the person imagining it can create, see and experience. A lot of other people had the same experience as mine so you cannot call it that. But I’m not here to convince you so just please respect. Thank you and have a nice day ☺️
@ one day perhaps you may come to understand and have a relationship with God as well. I know it is hard to believe something without concrete evidence. Honestly i struggled with such an abstract and what i used to say "lack of concrete evidence" being as well. I was never a non-believer of God, i believed he exists, just not a part of my life. Only when i opened my heart to Him in true honesty did i get my answer as well. So perhaps not now but it takes time and everybody is working on a different time frame :) cheers and wish you a great life mate!
Lol it's ok because most Pakistani's are already cute and have fried rice for dinner😆 And whether or not you or I understand how unfair and how we have blessings we have that are "just there" . Accept Jesus Christ as your savior that's yours and my own free gift ✝️🎁
I agree with this: to go one step further, I think a lot of people put too higher definition of 'nothing'. For instance just getting out of bed, feeding yourself, practicing good hygiene, interacting with others, letting yourself recharge, going for a short walk, these are all essential things to a content life that a lot of people would discount as having done 'nothing' in their day.
I HAVE BEEN MAKING LOSSES TRADING MYSELF...I THOUGHT TRADING ON DEMO ACCOUNT IS JUST LIKE TRADING THE REAL MARKET... CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT OR AT LEAST ADVICE ME ON WHAT TO DO?
In summary, the 5 methods to help us cultivate self-acceptance are: 1. Practice relaxed awareness 2. Let go of rating yourself/ comparing yourself to other people 3. Practice gratitude 4. Understand forgiveness and compassion 5. Separate yourself from your emotions 🔥
Once I found love and then there wasn't. Sometimes it takes losing it to give you the opportunity to start to love yourself. Now I love myself and I am a productivity beast and I have my beauty too.
"It does not matter how slowly you go, so long as you do not stop." I might not know you but you will succeed. This is something people won’t tell you NEVER GIVE UP.
Also Ali you don’t always have to build a rigid ‘meditation’ practice! Just doing it when you can for however long you can is enough, e.g., noticing instead of listening to music when ur travelling, letting yourself sit with negative feelings, being present when you’re brushing ur teeth etc. Ur doing great already! 💜
Satisfaction in relationships comes from seeing yourself as a bowl of ice-cream with all the different and awesome flavors. Another person will just be adding another flavor(s) to your existing personal collection of flavors. Self acceptance and self love must be realized before going into a sustainable relationship.
Closing eyes and pushing our thoughts away was common but I love this idea of noticing our thoughts and feelings ,it is indeed a very good way of self acceptance!But I’m always running towards perfection 🥺
Self-expansion theory. It's hard to find someone we can self expand with until we are able to expand in ourselves first. Self acceptance is part of the self-expansion process. You're doing so good in life Ali. You're always improving yourself in all aspects of your life and expansion with another will come in time.
Hey Ali! I've been following your journey for several years but this kind of content was exactly what I've been missing here. Not because of content itself but because of you. I had a low-key impression that you go too hard on yourself, always grinding and wanting more for yourself. That's a good motor to keep things going, but not the ultimate motivator. In Czech, we have this idiom: „Fire is a good servant, but a bad master,“ and the exactly same can be said about desire for more. I'm really glad you deal with these topics recently. You are such a great person and you need self-worth more than self-improvement, just like everybody else. Thanks for everything you do and taking care of yourself.
We all know how important it is to live with purpose, but sometimes life can seem so hard. Jim Rohn tells us it's also hard to put our dreams on hold. Most of us start out imagining something great for ourselves, but life often interrupts. But if you've ever seen someone with serious disabilities do incredible things, you'll know that nothing is impossible. Live with purpose, and without excuses.
This is a great topic! One of the criticisms that I sometimes hear people levy against self help/personal development gurus, youtubers, etc is not talking about self acceptance enough. Now I can send them this video, when I see this complaint next.
In Option B by Sheryl Sandberg, she speaks about the passivity of gratitude and how it can be really helpful to include a 'What went well today/yesterday?' question into your journalling to allow you to take some credit for the parts of your day that went according to plan or exceeded the plan. I LOVE YOU ALI XXXXXX
Ali’s true love is providing us with insane value each and every time. This guy is literally like a machine churning out 1:1 value for the small cost of a cheeky like 🤩👍🏽
One of the most important lesson I've learnt is to shorten the hindsight window which is basically feeling gratitude for the events in our life that we feel were not good but thought us something. by shortening this window we can start feeling grateful to all the situations in life and also think what can I learn from this event
Really amazing that you are sharing this Ali, huge thumbs up. Self-improvement is amazing and can change our lives but at some point we need to accept that we are good enough. Otherwise the pursuit of more and more productivity etc will never end and we'll never be fulfilled after all.
Im actually so surprised you made a video like this. I've followed u for a while and I would've never expected u to make a video like this lol. But I'm glad you're touching more onto your emotional side and giving yourself more love ahaha. Thank u for the video ❤
Thanks for summarising everything that's needed! Self acceptance has always been hard for me but I've realised over time there's no good reason to compare yourself to anyone else. Everyone struggles, and life experiences shape us. I am good enough the way I am because I wouldn't be on this path otherwise :)
Your honesty with yourself and with your audience brings inspiration & healing for me. For so long I’ve been struggling with demon of my past, things I’d failed to do and had so much regrets in life. These words really changed me: “No amount of self-improvement can make up for any lack of self-acceptance”. For many years I haven’t been able to be at peace with myself. That explains a lot why I invested so much in self-improvement, and why I could never susbtain a productivity system that require a strong stable metality to begin with. I have always been a fan of yours since the early days, witnessing your journey of learning, changing, and be more aware of self through good times and struggling times. I hope the best for you, for people around you.
Ali you have inspired me so much and I’m so grateful for that. Remember we are not human beings having a spiritual experience but spiritual beings having a human experience. Love you are making videos on this topic now 💛💛💛
Hi Ali, I just want you to know that I consider myself a very lucky person for finding your channel. I'm just a new subscriber this year and I can't express how thankful I am for discovering you and be enlightened by your video content. This may sound unrealistic but since the day I've found your channel, I noticed that I have improved mentally, physically, and emotionally. Although I'm not able to execute or follow all of your methods, because our lives move differently in a lot of ways, it still helped me to be a better version of myself as well as cope up with my relapses. Thank you for guiding me how to live my life more happily and productively. THANK YOU SO MUUUUUUCH!
1. Learn to forgive and accept yourself. We are not perfect and it's fine. You are doing what you can. 2. Thanks yourself for stuff. 3. Detach from your emotions. You are not your feelings.
I'm really glad you made this video. Your productivity videos are really helpful and all, but I also went through this "phase" of reading Cal Newport and listening to podcasts about finances and minimalism, only to realize that being constantly under pressure to be PRODUCTIVE I forgot what that even meant. Yoga and meditation helped me a lot, acceptance through Stoic philosophy (altho it's so popular nowadays and there are some dangers to go over-board with it, the same as with productivity), reading fiction books, but most importantly learning for the sake of learning, not some extra points for university, all these things helped me to do more "unproductive" things that paradoxically made me a happier and more productive person.
Splendid Ali. Your growth along the apparent ‘spiritual’ path will help to free you from the ‘productivity’ imperative. Have you yet considered Taoist or Non-Duality concepts regarding the life experience? Therein lies awe and wonder. :)
I've been trying to practice self love/acceptance recently and kinda used to dismiss it too, feel a lot happier already and more productive interestingly enough. Especially with praising and affirming myself more, I think for me it was reading Tiny Habits that sparked this change
While this video is rare diamond, worthin for people who are suffering from different axiety disorders, no word to explain this,, success ahead of it..❤Big Love Ali Abdaal ❤Stay blessed
You shouldn't separate from your emotions. Just feel what you have to feel and move on. Understand that emotions are not real, they are just signs for you, sometimes they just lie to you.
This video was on point. Self acceptance is so important. I hope that more people feel motivated to love themselves more thanks to your video. Keep it up, Ali!
Found you last night, still binge-watching. It's like I found the cure to all diseases. I feel I need to say "great bicep flex" and "check them fashion glasses" :P
@@lamenter6932 i think the problem is you, since i started watching his videos and actually applying his advice to everyday life i’m confident to say that my life has improved tremendously
You can argue that loving yourself is being productive. Idk about you but I’m less productive on days when my self love or self worth has declined and I stopped caring about the things I give my energy to. I think that Loving yourself and self acceptance is a requirement for true productivity. Otherwise, what are you doing this for?
This video feels like such a breath of fresh air. Feels more authentic, and defintely a welcome change from all the "how to get better" at this and that videos. Though I practise gratitude, after watching this video, I realized that I often direct it outwards and very few times towards myself. That is a great point, I feel, and something that I'll incorporate into my practice from now on. And yes, treating negative emotions like a floating leaf and not getting overwhelmed by them--another point that gave me pause. Thanks Ali for a really good video!
I had to realize that if you make self love conditional, once you improve yourself you'll still be left with dissatisfaction because there's always something else to improve even if you're the most productive and a genius. You'll also realize that you just spent that whole time unhappy with yourself. Not to mention that self love can be a great driver of change too
For quite a while he's been talking about productivity and it's seems he's stuck at one thing. Ali you should ask yourself what do you want to eventually achieve in your life ? Make dynamic things happen!
Read Quran, for all those things u said. And pray often, instead of meditation an yoga i mean. Do in the path of God, and be in benefit with ur actions🙌
Hi Ali: You have not suffered enough. Once a person truly experiences pain and suffering, meditation and other spiritual practices such as fasting will become more meaningful and relevant. Stoicism resonates with people who have experienced personal tragedy.
Just saying, Ali's Thumbnails and the whole editing style has improved drastically in the recent years. People don't usually notice, I Did! Hats off to the Thumbnail Designer who put effort into a thumbnail that could've simply be discarded!
⚠️ Ali, take your time on your self awareness/acceptance journey. If you run into it too fast, you might loose the antifragile skills you have built through the years. For me, I ended up resenting myself for my decisions in the past, and feeling anger towards people. I coming in here while still trying to accept and overcome my issues noe in a slower pace. Enjoy the journey!
Hi Ali, I've followed your channel for a bit of time. I am always amazed how you can talk so fluently and uninterruptedly to yourself (camera). I find that very awkward for myself, and I always want to improve on that. You don't seem you ever have struggled in this respect. All your videos look impromptu, though I am sure you have some preparation. Like when the light is on, you can naturally start talking. Could you please tell me how you prepare these video recordings in terms of the speaking part? Is it bullet points or you rehearse ahead of time? Not sure if you'll notice and be kind enough to share some tips, I really appreciate if you can!
One of the habits that has improved my live the most in the last year is doing a yoga session every few days. I don't even have to schedule it because my body (especially my back) will start asking me for it if I've been siting at the desk typing for way too long.
Please open the Qur'an, all you seek is within it. Verily In the rememberance of Allah do hearts find rest - Qur'an 13:28 I've been wanting to comment since I watched your bedroom/house tour, I remember seeing the books, I got so excited, I thought there was a Qur'an lodged in between the books, turned out to be a dictionary. I feel like rn is the perfect time for this reminder. I hope Allah allows your heart to open & recieve it & u become a valuable in aiding the ummah for His sake. Our purpose is to worship Him alone. I hope you find peace within that.
Ah and here I was hoping Ali had made some progress on the “wife project” 🤣🤣🤣
Husband project actually
I knew 'true love' from Ali would be clickbait.....
Too
@@jackiedelvalle I know right! I was like I'm 99% sure this is clickbait but for the 1% chance it's not i have to watch 😂
Yes, TH-cam's most eligible batchelor off the market? Surely not! ;-)
Ali's true love is Productivity.
YES 😂
😂😂😂
We Needed this
Always has been.
@@rajghetia ...always will be.
I grew up struggling with self-love, as a middle child, I had a really bad childhood, my own mother called me ugly and useless but I never hate other people. I only express hate towards myself and blame myself for everything. But once I realized that I am beautifully and wonderfully made by God, and felt that I am loved by Him no matter what I look or what I’ve done, I started learning to accept myself for who I really am - a beautiful complex human being like everybody else. Sorry just sharing❤️I hope everyone finds an unconditional lover like God. No matter what form He takes in your life.
Amen to that!
@As far as I know an imaginary friend is something only the person imagining it can create, see and experience. A lot of other people had the same experience as mine so you cannot call it that. But I’m not here to convince you so just please respect. Thank you and have a nice day ☺️
@ dude go outside and touch grass, learn to respect other people
@ one day perhaps you may come to understand and have a relationship with God as well. I know it is hard to believe something without concrete evidence. Honestly i struggled with such an abstract and what i used to say "lack of concrete evidence" being as well. I was never a non-believer of God, i believed he exists, just not a part of my life. Only when i opened my heart to Him in true honesty did i get my answer as well. So perhaps not now but it takes time and everybody is working on a different time frame :) cheers and wish you a great life mate!
@ lmao you definitely need to touch grass
Last week: “We broke up”
This week: “How I found true love”
What is this subplot you are teasing us with Ali??
You deserve a TH-cam gold play button for this comment.
Ali, let me tell you: Every South Asian person goes by life without working on self-love. You are not alone ❤️
Exactly.
Facts
True.
Lol it's ok because most Pakistani's are already cute and have fried rice for dinner😆 And whether or not you or I understand how unfair and how we have blessings we have that are "just there" . Accept Jesus Christ as your savior that's yours and my own free gift ✝️🎁
@wdym? Jesus Christ said "Treat others the way you want to be treated!"😉
Don't stress yourself for the days you've done nothing instead focus on the remaining chance you have left & work on it☺✨
I agree with this: to go one step further, I think a lot of people put too higher definition of 'nothing'. For instance just getting out of bed, feeding yourself, practicing good hygiene, interacting with others, letting yourself recharge, going for a short walk, these are all essential things to a content life that a lot of people would discount as having done 'nothing' in their day.
@@skyer0blue you're very right❤️❤️
I love this💗💗
True
Loved this!
Really don't know how to say this but I have to say it because i really need your help 😞😢😢😢😢😢😢
I HAVE BEEN MAKING LOSSES TRADING MYSELF...I THOUGHT TRADING ON DEMO ACCOUNT IS JUST LIKE TRADING THE REAL MARKET... CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT OR AT LEAST ADVICE ME ON WHAT TO DO?
@Claudette Szurgot You don't need to be shock because I'm also a huge beneficiary of expert Mrs
Alice
Mrs Alice Rogers is obviously the best, I invested $3,000 and she made profit of $28,000 for me just in 15 days
Mrs Alice Rogers has changed my financial status for the best.all thanks to my aunty who introduced her to me.
I'm so happy for taking the bold step in working and investing $2000 with Expert Mrs Alice after a week I received $19,680 to my bank
I love how 'Sheen' is on the list of things ( it feels wrong to say 'things' but can't thing of another word 😓) Ali is grateful for
love the play on words 😂😂
In summary, the 5 methods to help us cultivate self-acceptance are:
1. Practice relaxed awareness
2. Let go of rating yourself/ comparing yourself to other people
3. Practice gratitude
4. Understand forgiveness and compassion
5. Separate yourself from your emotions
🔥
Once I found love and then there wasn't. Sometimes it takes losing it to give you the opportunity to start to love yourself. Now I love myself and I am a productivity beast and I have my beauty too.
My motto with self love and self improvement: "love yourself as you are and love yourself enough to want to get better"
Sheen has really filled this man in love and understanding emotions.
"It does not matter how slowly you go, so long as you do not stop." I might not know you but you will succeed. This is something people won’t tell you NEVER GIVE UP.
I love how you wrote Sheen as someone you're grateful for! So wholesome ☺️
Your new apartments looks so nice and modern.
Also Ali you don’t always have to build a rigid ‘meditation’ practice! Just doing it when you can for however long you can is enough, e.g., noticing instead of listening to music when ur travelling, letting yourself sit with negative feelings, being present when you’re brushing ur teeth etc. Ur doing great already! 💜
Ali is grateful for having Sheen 🥺🥺🥺 How adorable ❤️💎❤️
Thanks for watching ❤️. I got something new to share with you, reach out to me via text below 👇
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I knew it . I knew it. True love is accepting yourself the way you are and it teaches us to work with what we have and do better ❤️
Satisfaction in relationships comes from seeing yourself as a bowl of ice-cream with all the different and awesome flavors. Another person will just be adding another flavor(s) to your existing personal collection of flavors. Self acceptance and self love must be realized before going into a sustainable relationship.
*Thanks for the feedback~~~I have something big I'd love to introduce you to feel free to chat me immediately for more enlightenment.
@+1𝟸𝟷𝟶𝟹𝟶𝟻𝟽𝟻𝟿𝟾
When I saw the title "How I found true love," ITS THE FASTEST THAT I'VE CLICKED IN MY ENTIRE LIFE
Closing eyes and pushing our thoughts away was common but I love this idea of noticing our thoughts and feelings ,it is indeed a very good way of self acceptance!But I’m always running towards perfection 🥺
Self-expansion theory. It's hard to find someone we can self expand with until we are able to expand in ourselves first. Self acceptance is part of the self-expansion process. You're doing so good in life Ali. You're always improving yourself in all aspects of your life and expansion with another will come in time.
Hey Ali! I've been following your journey for several years but this kind of content was exactly what I've been missing here. Not because of content itself but because of you.
I had a low-key impression that you go too hard on yourself, always grinding and wanting more for yourself. That's a good motor to keep things going, but not the ultimate motivator. In Czech, we have this idiom: „Fire is a good servant, but a bad master,“ and the exactly same can be said about desire for more.
I'm really glad you deal with these topics recently. You are such a great person and you need self-worth more than self-improvement, just like everybody else. Thanks for everything you do and taking care of yourself.
Things I am grateful for
Anguis,Sheen.
My heart melted
Comparison only leads to unhappiness. You are beautifully and wonderfully made to be unique. Enjoy it.
We all know how important it is to live with purpose, but sometimes life can seem so hard. Jim Rohn tells us it's also hard to put our dreams on hold.
Most of us start out imagining something great for ourselves, but life often interrupts.
But if you've ever seen someone with serious disabilities do incredible things, you'll know that nothing is impossible. Live with purpose, and without excuses.
This is probably the first video on YT for which I'm not disappointed about having been clickbaited. 😉💯
Yessssss Sheen made it on Ali's list of things he's grateful for and I'm here for it!!!
This is a great topic! One of the criticisms that I sometimes hear people levy against self help/personal development gurus, youtubers, etc is not talking about self acceptance enough.
Now I can send them this video, when I see this complaint next.
Practicing gratitude and loving yourself... That's all what you need 💛💚💙
In Option B by Sheryl Sandberg, she speaks about the passivity of gratitude and how it can be really helpful to include a 'What went well today/yesterday?' question into your journalling to allow you to take some credit for the parts of your day that went according to plan or exceeded the plan.
I LOVE YOU ALI XXXXXX
Ali’s true love is providing us with insane value each and every time. This guy is literally like a machine churning out 1:1 value for the small cost of a cheeky like 🤩👍🏽
In this episode of Zen and the Art of the Productivity Maintenance we learn that we shouldn't take anyone for granted, including our very own selves.
One of the most important lesson I've learnt is to shorten the hindsight window which is basically feeling gratitude for the events in our life that we feel were not good but thought us something. by shortening this window we can start feeling grateful to all the situations in life and also think what can I learn from this event
I have recently started practicing Stoicism and have definitely found self acceptance. There are times that I struggle, but everyone does
Really amazing that you are sharing this Ali, huge thumbs up. Self-improvement is amazing and can change our lives but at some point we need to accept that we are good enough. Otherwise the pursuit of more and more productivity etc will never end and we'll never be fulfilled after all.
Im actually so surprised you made a video like this. I've followed u for a while and I would've never expected u to make a video like this lol. But I'm glad you're touching more onto your emotional side and giving yourself more love ahaha. Thank u for the video ❤
Thanks for summarising everything that's needed! Self acceptance has always been hard for me but I've realised over time there's no good reason to compare yourself to anyone else. Everyone struggles, and life experiences shape us. I am good enough the way I am because I wouldn't be on this path otherwise :)
Your honesty with yourself and with your audience brings inspiration & healing for me.
For so long I’ve been struggling with demon of my past, things I’d failed to do and had so much regrets in life. These words really changed me: “No amount of self-improvement can make up for any lack of self-acceptance”. For many years I haven’t been able to be at peace with myself. That explains a lot why I invested so much in self-improvement, and why I could never susbtain a productivity system that require a strong stable metality to begin with.
I have always been a fan of yours since the early days, witnessing your journey of learning, changing, and be more aware of self through good times and struggling times. I hope the best for you, for people around you.
Ali is just like THE most honest person I've ever come across on Yt
hey ali thank you for helping me throughout gcse, i'm going through my as levels now and i've been taking lots of advice from your study videos ❤️
You are a faithful person...it's why you put so much effort into your life...you are a believer...that's plain to see...and I think you are Great!!!
Ali you have inspired me so much and I’m so grateful for that. Remember we are not human beings having a spiritual experience but spiritual beings having a human experience. Love you are making videos on this topic now 💛💛💛
You really help me to clear my negative emotions. I feel happy now.
Hi Ali, I just want you to know that I consider myself a very lucky person for finding your channel. I'm just a new subscriber this year and I can't express how thankful I am for discovering you and be enlightened by your video content. This may sound unrealistic but since the day I've found your channel, I noticed that I have improved mentally, physically, and emotionally. Although I'm not able to execute or follow all of your methods, because our lives move differently in a lot of ways, it still helped me to be a better version of myself as well as cope up with my relapses. Thank you for guiding me how to live my life more happily and productively.
THANK YOU SO MUUUUUUCH!
Aww you're grateful for Angus and Sheen! That's Adorable ♥♥♥♥
1. Learn to forgive and accept yourself. We are not perfect and it's fine. You are doing what you can.
2. Thanks yourself for stuff.
3. Detach from your emotions. You are not your feelings.
The original student doctor we all appreciate and live for!
No amount of self-improvement is enough to make up for any lack of self-acceptance.
I understand it after passing through great suffering.
People tend to think money is the solution to everything, but it is not. So happy you’re making these kind of videos✨
I'm really glad you made this video. Your productivity videos are really helpful and all, but I also went through this "phase" of reading Cal Newport and listening to podcasts about finances and minimalism, only to realize that being constantly under pressure to be PRODUCTIVE I forgot what that even meant. Yoga and meditation helped me a lot, acceptance through Stoic philosophy (altho it's so popular nowadays and there are some dangers to go over-board with it, the same as with productivity), reading fiction books, but most importantly learning for the sake of learning, not some extra points for university, all these things helped me to do more "unproductive" things that paradoxically made me a happier and more productive person.
*Thanks for the feedback~~~I have something big I'd love to introduce you to feel free to chat me immediately for more enlightenment.
@+1𝟸𝟷𝟶𝟹𝟶𝟻𝟽𝟻𝟿𝟾
Loved how your time living with Sheen had a profound effect on you. I'm still following that amazing woman.
Loving this new territory you’re going into, Ali :)
Splendid Ali. Your growth along the apparent ‘spiritual’ path will help to free you from the ‘productivity’ imperative. Have you yet considered Taoist or Non-Duality concepts regarding the life experience? Therein lies awe and wonder. :)
Would love to hear about your perspective of spirituality Alii.
*Thanks for the feedback~~~I have something big I'd love to introduce you to feel free to chat me immediately for more enlightenment.
@+1𝟸𝟷𝟶𝟹𝟶𝟻𝟽𝟻𝟿𝟾
The filming style reeks of Matt D'Avella inspiration.
Aliiiii, i had to point this out
time [3:58]
you are grateful for
1. coffee
2. Angus
3. sheen
-->Nice list there
Productivity. I'm sure his true love is productivity.
I've been trying to practice self love/acceptance recently and kinda used to dismiss it too, feel a lot happier already and more productive interestingly enough. Especially with praising and affirming myself more, I think for me it was reading Tiny Habits that sparked this change
Productivity is love Productivity is life 😅
nice, grats on 2m brother
Adonisssssssss.......
While this video is rare diamond, worthin for people who are suffering from different axiety disorders, no word to explain this,, success ahead of it..❤Big Love Ali Abdaal ❤Stay blessed
You shouldn't separate from your emotions. Just feel what you have to feel and move on. Understand that emotions are not real, they are just signs for you, sometimes they just lie to you.
Love how authentic this video is, would love to watch more videos like this ^.^
Whoever’s reading this, you’ve got this and you will succeed! ❤️❤️🕊🕊
This video was on point. Self acceptance is so important. I hope that more people feel motivated to love themselves more thanks to your video. Keep it up, Ali!
Coffee Angus and Sheen are on Ali's grateful list.😄 great.👍
Found you last night, still binge-watching. It's like I found the cure to all diseases. I feel I need to say "great bicep flex" and "check them fashion glasses" :P
I'll say it will elad u to nothin but whatever
@@lamenter6932 i think the problem is you, since i started watching his videos and actually applying his advice to everyday life i’m confident to say that my life has improved tremendously
@@notyourlocalkid4074 lol roasted
I thought the name of vid will be
How to productively get true love
Productive love x 💯
Going about self-acceptance like it is just another self-improvement concept to incorporate into your life defeats the purpose of self-acceptance
I absolutely love this video. So many things to review in my life. Big thanks for your help. ♥
You can argue that loving yourself is being productive. Idk about you but I’m less productive on days when my self love or self worth has declined and I stopped caring about the things I give my energy to. I think that Loving yourself and self acceptance is a requirement for true productivity. Otherwise, what are you doing this for?
This video feels like such a breath of fresh air. Feels more authentic, and defintely a welcome change from all the "how to get better" at this and that videos. Though I practise gratitude, after watching this video, I realized that I often direct it outwards and very few times towards myself. That is a great point, I feel, and something that I'll incorporate into my practice from now on. And yes, treating negative emotions like a floating leaf and not getting overwhelmed by them--another point that gave me pause.
Thanks Ali for a really good video!
Entering the most relevant paths of all! So happy for you Ali 🙏☺️
I had to realize that if you make self love conditional, once you improve yourself you'll still be left with dissatisfaction because there's always something else to improve even if you're the most productive and a genius. You'll also realize that you just spent that whole time unhappy with yourself. Not to mention that self love can be a great driver of change too
absolutely love seeing the way you’re heading to💓
Thanks for watching ❤️. I got something new to share with you, reach out to me via text below 👇.
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Wow! You should really be proud of yourself for realizing this! Gongratulations, dude 👏
For quite a while he's been talking about productivity and it's seems he's stuck at one thing. Ali you should ask yourself what do you want to eventually achieve in your life ? Make dynamic things happen!
Read Quran, for all those things u said. And pray often, instead of meditation an yoga i mean. Do in the path of God, and be in benefit with ur actions🙌
Hi Ali: You have not suffered enough. Once a person truly experiences pain and suffering, meditation and other spiritual practices such as fasting will become more meaningful and relevant. Stoicism resonates with people who have experienced personal tragedy.
I really appreciate Ali putting subtitles in🙏 it's great
Just saying, Ali's Thumbnails and the whole editing style has improved drastically in the recent years. People don't usually notice, I Did! Hats off to the Thumbnail Designer who put effort into a thumbnail that could've simply be discarded!
⚠️ Ali, take your time on your self awareness/acceptance journey. If you run into it too fast, you might loose the antifragile skills you have built through the years. For me, I ended up resenting myself for my decisions in the past, and feeling anger towards people. I coming in here while still trying to accept and overcome my issues noe in a slower pace. Enjoy the journey!
Sometimes you have to unplug yourself from the world for a moment, so you can reset yourself.
"How I found true love productively" there I fixed the title
I am happy you found the true love Ali! Loved it! And loved your apartment, looks so cozy :)
Thanks for watching ❤️. I got something new to share with you, reach out to me via text below 👇.
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Your Allen Solly light pink shirt suits you rather than these t - shirts. I know this is irrelevant but just wanted to say!.❤
I think we must not be satisfied😊 with things we have but be happy for what we have...😊
Hi Ali, I've followed your channel for a bit of time. I am always amazed how you can talk so fluently and uninterruptedly to yourself (camera). I find that very awkward for myself, and I always want to improve on that. You don't seem you ever have struggled in this respect. All your videos look impromptu, though I am sure you have some preparation. Like when the light is on, you can naturally start talking. Could you please tell me how you prepare these video recordings in terms of the speaking part? Is it bullet points or you rehearse ahead of time? Not sure if you'll notice and be kind enough to share some tips, I really appreciate if you can!
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Your place looks great by the way, love the new look of the videos.
Ali has really had an update, He gracefully thanked us for Watching the Video, Mate, You're evolving
Such an intelligent title and a really thought provoking video in a good way :)
Maybe this is maslows heirchy, and your on the self-actualization stage.
Also, great drawings!
One of the habits that has improved my live the most in the last year is doing a yoga session every few days. I don't even have to schedule it because my body (especially my back) will start asking me for it if I've been siting at the desk typing for way too long.
Absolutely love you and where life is taking you:)
You seem so much happier than usual in this video, Ali!
You offer a lot of value in your videos !!
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Thanks for watching ❤️. I got something new to share with you, reach out to me via text below 👇
Dear lovely person that's reading this, we may not know each other but I wish you all the best in life! ✨
I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
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Thank you. Ignore the haters
@@TrainerLiz1 thank you, will do, appreciate you Liz 😘❤️
We need your house tour🤩 your background looks so modern.
Please open the Qur'an, all you seek is within it.
Verily In the rememberance of Allah do hearts find rest - Qur'an 13:28
I've been wanting to comment since I watched your bedroom/house tour, I remember seeing the books, I got so excited, I thought there was a Qur'an lodged in between the books, turned out to be a dictionary.
I feel like rn is the perfect time for this reminder. I hope Allah allows your heart to open & recieve it & u become a valuable in aiding the ummah for His sake.
Our purpose is to worship Him alone. I hope you find peace within that.
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